Aries men- players or not—

Are *MOST* aries men players? From my experience with them, they all seem to flirt extremely a lot and tend to be promiscuous...

I'm an aries man. and yes we are players, until a gemini comes along and knocks our socks off! then, we will give our life to them! 😉

you girls hit it on the head. we love fun...til we die. I won't stop cracking a joke or seeking that laugh. but at the same time it's cus we wanna be blown away, wanna see if someone can keep up...match our wit AND sensitivity! and put up with our extreme goofiness! before then, it's PLAY time. Oh, and did I forget to mention we're honest?

They do flirt a lot...but I don't think they are players..One guy at work has been with his girlfriend for 10 years..I have no idea what sign she is...but they are childhood sweethearts..still going strong..but that doesn't stop him looking or chatting up a nice bit of skirt...well he is very good looking and most of the girls just throw themselves at him...

::shameful::

why is it shameful missmorals— if you got it use it, lol
and i doubt he cheats on his gf...if they are 10 years together that means he is committed and will die before he cheats...
at least thats how i was when was with my sagitt for 5 years , i did flirt a lot and come to think of it did land few kisses that were just to friendly ( quick peckers lip to lip, lol) but that was it

but now that im single im working many angles....does it make me a player? hmm i dont know...
i think of it like I dont care anymore.....really
like prcsen said until gemini comes along and knock our socks off! that happened to me ....but it didnt go anywhere
so now im like dont give a sh*t ....im going to a party tonight and i know im going to get into awkard situation with this newly sagitt girl that i always like, ....i dont give a shit...and tomorrow i might hook up with this scorpio girl while keeping a cancer at bay because she shut me down few months back......
i dont care if that makes me a player....i wanted to be a good guy , find THE girl and just be happy but every time i do it blows up in my face and i watch my friends g/f and wives and every time i talk to them all i need to do is push a little and i could have them, so girls this days are worse than guys.....
so who is the player here? a single guy or married chicks who strive for your attention?

I meant shameful for the girls...knowing that he's in a very long term relationship and still trying it...I would respect the guy...not encourage him to cheat...

And he's got it..but he's very down to earth with it..doesn't shout it from the rooftops like your average Aries...And how does a Gemini knock you on your ass?

Gemini_fox: "Strange,huh? to me jealousy is
a very dangerous emotion,but to him,it's a sign of love & perfectly normal!!!"

I would have to agree with him there..Jealousy is a sign of love and perfectly normal..what is sooo wrong with wanting that person all to yourself? Nothing as far as I can see..and it shows you care..if a man/woman didn't give a flying fuck where you were or what you were doing..that in my world is not caring!

and Gemini's do get jealous..at least the ones I've encountered...The girls in particular, if they aren't centre of attention and being desired by the majority they don't like it...Maybe thats what they have in common with Aries.

If they aren't getting enough attention from that one person, they'll happily go look for another sucker...I don't know how much of a good quality that is in a human being..but to each their own..

"and Gemini's do get jealous..at least the ones I've encountered...The girls in particular, if they aren't centre of attention and being desired by the majority they don't like it..."


I've found this to be true with the Gems I know also .. in fact, they would probably hold the prize for being the most jealous. And from where I observe the basis of this jealousy, it comes from being envious. They envy, covet .. this brings about the jealousy.

Aries, don't seem to be so much jealous as they are controlling. If a person submits power over to them, then jealousy seems to disappear within them .. so, maybe it's a jealousy they have, but, not over whether their partner is going to have another lover, rather moreso, they are jealous if they aren't ruling the roost.

It appears to me that my Aries people get more jealous over a person being the Head of anything, the Boss .. they want that position. I know when my DIL gets jealous over my son (her husband) .. it's not so much that he finds another woman attractive, as much as he follows her rules of, "Your not allowed to look". And I've even heard her say similiar things .. she's angry because he disobeyed her, rather than this anger being because he might have a desire for another.

P-Angel: "They envy, covet .. this brings about the jealousy."

You hit it there..

Hey one of my 1st threads!

~When I first began to date my ex-aries lol...

I was going to ask how its going..but you said ex so kinda says it all really...lol

haha yeah...it was good while it lasted though

well i know my x husband would always talk to other women when we would argue. Seems they do like women. tht's just my experience.

he actually told me once that he used to be a slut... and when i met him he was dating a lot of woman with nothing serious. I was his first serious relationship.

Why are you talking in the past tense? Have you guys ended things?

Eeek

yep. you didn't read my post?

OMIGOD!

Nooooooo....when did this happen?

My brother is an Aries and as far as I know, he is as faithful as a pup to his Woman and previous girlfriends as well.

about three weeks ago.. read the post on the relationships board... "He wants a divorce..."

Geminifox...to say jealousy is insecurity, I would disagree...Jealousy is a form of possession I guess...It's in everyones nature to get jealous to some extent. I am not talking about jealousy of the kind where someone turns into a bunny boiler or a flippin psycho..Possession is 10th of a Scorpio Law...never mind 9/10ths..so your point of view may differ to mine..

And that "If he isn't jealous, he doesn't care" wasn't directed at anyone, thats just my personal opinion..why would you be jealous of the person you don't give a flying monkey's about? just a thought..

It can be a form of control to an extent as well...emotional control..emotional blackmail...and I have seen it being used..I have seen extreme cases of jealousy and it is very suffocating...My ex Leo's mother was of that kind..Cancer..my god!..the poor guy really suffered emotional turmoil from her..the guilt trips..it was awful..in the end he broke away from it...now that is bordering on pyschotic in my eyes..

Jealousy can be used in numerous ways to attain something...

Don't ask me to list them..I've got a really bad headache...

LOL @ I swear..hahhaha

Nope...sadly it doesn't..both parties are to blame..you don't get off that easy.....your the one in involved already..you have more to lose...

But ah well who cares..your young..do whatever you bloody well want to do..

And I can seriously say lol, that the very night he walked out of your apartment...he walked in to hers with the biggest smile on his face.
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Aries may be the infant of the zodiac but we see people for what they really are. Were not as impulsive as majority of you think we are. So we fallow our heart lol, big deal...at least were honest with ourselves unlike the majority of you.

Excellent points. The first one, that is absolutely correct. Although, I don't think I could ever actually cheat on somebody. I could for damn sure make plans with another female if I was in a relationship with someone else. And on the way to the other females house, stop by my current girlfriends house to tell her and break up with her. It's not cheating if you dump her first, I don't care if it's just 5 mins before.

Impulsive and inconsiderate...self first....

Sadly the one lesson that both Scorpio and aries need to learn is the meaning of selfless love...

I don't think I can be that cruel but I would rather be honest with the person first and foremost and honest to myself..If I didn't love someone anymore..I would geniunely tell them..but then I would respect the fact that I was with them for that amount of time..and not shag the first thing that came in my direction..thats just not me..

Gemini woman here...
I LOVE every response that came from an Aries on this board... Your fiery personalities draw a girl like me to you, like a moth to a flame.
And I guess I'm not so much caring about relationship's end as I am about the fun and exciting experiences I've had.

To PRESCEN and CLASS-ACT-ARIES, Thank you for representing us Geminis. I'm so flattered *bats eye-lashes*
To $ UNNY $ IDE PRIDE, YES... I don't care if you break up with me 30 seconds before fooling with someone else. The point is that you didn't cheat and made the effort to technically not do so.
To DEAR DIARY, that explanation is probably the most thorough and correct- one's own background and worldview and morals/values will lead to whether cheating actually goes down or not.

To all those that chose to bash Gemini's after Prescen and Class-Act-Aries lent such kind comments, I ASSUME the haters aren't Geminis themselves, so I wont even acknowledge the negativity with a thorough response- All I have to say is 'Lol. No, we really aren't all that jealous. Get to know us better.'

Posted by fieryearth
Are *MOST* aries men players? From my experience with them, they all seem to flirt extremely a lot and tend to be promiscuous...

player, the aries i know are promiscuous

IMO, no. My bf is an Aries and he's too straightforward to cheat. In past relationships, he simply broke up if it had run it's course. He doesn't get why some men invest the time and energy into the lying and deceit necessary to date multiple women on the sly.
If he were to date multiple women, he says he would take the Hugh hefner approach and do so in the open, no lying involved.

Maybe this is why gem/aries works so well. We're both very flirtatious! Even so, we know the difference between a serious endeavor and a little bit of harmless fun.

Sometimes its just a nice change of pace. It doesn't have to mean anything.

Impressme, that's funny that you say you don't have time to flirt, you feel like you are on a mission--my bf says that too! He says his time is valuable and he wouldn't waste it with trifles.

Starlover, yes, i do find Hugh Hefner unattractive, but he is quite Aries like, in that rather than put up a front and carry on his indiscretions discreetly, he does so out in the open. That's one of the things I like about Aries, their straightforward approach to life. Thank goodness the Hugh hefner path holds no appeal for my bf!

Aries men are the best in my book! I just love their minds as well
as their hot bodies to match! Smokin brains with great passion &
the energy to back it up!

Posted by starlover
Yes aries men love sex, and if you are available for them and do it lots, and you dont bore them they are happy....

doesnt that sound horribly shallow?

lol
x

sounds great - where can I get one😉

Posted by fieryearth
Are *MOST* aries men players? From my experience with them, they all seem to flirt extremely a lot and tend to be promiscuous...

it's obviously gonna depend on how he was raised and what his personal beliefs are regarding relationships.

Yes they are RUN!

Posted by fieryearth
Are *MOST* aries men players? From my experience with them, they all seem to flirt extremely a lot and tend to be promiscuous...

i don't know what percentage of us are that way but i'm not and neither is my friend and they say the april ones are prone to promiscuous behavior but his b-day is april 1st and he's not a player or a cheater. as for the flirting thing, neither of us really do it. he's enganged to his gf and i'm married so we gotta at least act like we're taken, right? lol we can't be hanging out in the club trying to score with random chicks while our parters are waiting for us at home lol

Only insecure people cheat. I am confident and secure, so I don't cheat. I don't need to bang a bunch of girls to prove my manhood. If anything, it just proves weakness.

I don't have time to cheat, anyhow. I am too busy building my Aries empire to indulge in trifles.

PLAYERS. Can't commit worth a damn.

you sound like my ex he is aries and i am gemini i am having problems with him right now he won't tell me the god damn honest true about everything. i know he is hiding something. but oh well. ex is a ex.

Posted by precsen
I'm an aries man. and yes we are players, until a gemini comes along and knocks our socks off! then, we will give our life to them! 😉

you girls hit it on the head. we love fun...til we die. I won't stop cracking a joke or seeking that laugh. but at the same time it's cus we wanna be blown away, wanna see if someone can keep up...match our wit AND sensitivity! and put up with our extreme goofiness! before then, it's PLAY time. Oh, and did I forget to mention we're honest?