Just curious: Cap-Aries relationship

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I'd like to know what it's like to be in this relationship, for those who are in the know🙂 from the Aries' point of view. Do you like it? Do you hate it? How long did the relationship last? If broken up, are you still friends?What aspect of the capricorn partner do you like or dislike? TIA
I am a Cap woman married to an Aries man. Been together 13 1/2 years. Been wanting to divorce him for the past 5 years!

Long story!

Read this x enough said. ..

http://www.sunsigns.org/capricorn-woman-aries-man-love-compatibility/

http://www.sunsigns.org/aries-woman-capricorn-man-love-compatibility/
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Posted by Diora_Capri
I'd like to know what it's like to be in this relationship, for those who are in the know🙂 from the Aries' point of view. Do you like it? Do you hate it? How long did the relationship last? If broken up, are you still friends?What aspect of the capricorn partner do you like or dislike? TIA
My parents are capricorn -aries.It is said theres attraction between those signs but a lot of miscommunication too.

As for my parents now mum is a capricorn and my dad is an aries.Long story short they broke up after 14years of marriage cause my mum told him to leave but the really split emotionally at about 5-7 years of marriage

From my dad (aries) viewpoint they just didnt get well together but he didnt care for that very much

He wanted to stay in a bad marriage not sure why ( we are 2 children too)

I dont think he liked it neither hate it , he possibly wanted to be with his kids and inside his comfort zone so he kept refusing to break up with my mother

Now they are divorced for 6 years and they speak sometimes but rarely and mostly for us

They are quite friendly and both love its other in a human / friendly way and i know that

I dont know what he liked about my capricorn mother

Maybe in the beginning they fell in love but were total differents , though they still married

He may liked she was mostly responsible for the household (which she didnt like)

And a good mother and made his favours in general

He disliked that she was complaining in the last years, bad communication between them , they were both ironic to each other and that kind of stuff

Sorry for that i wanted to help so i share my info , but not all of these relationships end that way i guess 🙂
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Hi ya x

Found this interesting. It gives me more of a story of your parents. You briefly posted on my post about this coupling too ☺
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Posted by Diora_Capri
I'd like to know what it's like to be in this relationship, for those who are in the know🙂 from the Aries' point of view. Do you like it? Do you hate it? How long did the relationship last? If broken up, are you still friends?What aspect of the capricorn partner do you like or dislike? TIA


I admire Caps 🙂 tho they like to give tough love too much sometimes 😛

Shy, tender and perceptive on the other hand and to quick to jump to conclusion if left for long in a space to think 😛 😛

Did Aries capture your attention? 🙂
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It works better if the man is Aries and woman is Capricorn otherwise one of the worst combinations.

Too many annoying differences between the two. Their only common interest is money.
Trust me it is no better with an Aries Man and Cap Woman.

I am a Cap Woman married to an Aries, it is a BAD BAD Combination.

We never see eye to eye always arguing always thinking the other is wrong, while at the same time believing WE ourselves are right!

And both are Stubborn!
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Well, you can learn a lot from each other. Ego, and pride is blind and take away attention of real values why you both get together at the first place. Capricorn tend to be good analytical however they can keep their position till the end just from pure stubbornness. Honestly is silly. About the aries, they much more easy going however does not appreciate if they loved one pressurise them because it makes them think of their partner has selfish tendency and we hate selfish people keep on pursing they will. We can smell to be used from thousands miles away and watching your game quiet until we get bored and cut you short on a good day. On a bad day we don't have patience for that and cut you short just on your way to approach. 🙂

Now, on the other side. We do respect you for your strength and endurance, also you to keep your position. Seriously some cap woman stronger than men. Your ability to be structured and organised, determined towards goals.

Both side have to listen and try to understand each other, and try to keep in mind to make each other happy, not to expect things but appreciate.

Cap has big loving heart and should never forget and withold from their partner as aries does 3times more for you without asking anything if you show you love him

My cap is my soulmate and I am hers, we had big fights, but each time after I felt like I love her more and appreciate her more. She feels the same. We know how bad we can fight and to compare how much we can love each other and don't want to fight. So we tend to be more careful not to trigger each other. Also the responses on the daily basis when everything is peaceful and companion is appreciated and tend to protect that.

Cap woman and aries man is a beautiful combination, she taught me more within a year than all my life experience in relationship all together.i forever greatful for her and she have my heart for good
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Well, you can learn a lot from each other. Ego, and pride is blind and take away attention of real values why you both get together at the first place. Capricorn tend to be good analytical however they can keep their position till the end just from pure stubbornness. Honestly is silly. About the aries, they much more easy going however does not appreciate if they loved one pressurise them because it makes them think of their partner has selfish tendency and we hate selfish people keep on pursing they will. We can smell to be used from thousands miles away and watching your game quiet until we get bored and cut you short on a good day. On a bad day we don't have patience for that and cut you short just on your way to approach. 🙂

Now, on the other side. We do respect you for your strength and endurance, also you to keep your position. Seriously some cap woman stronger than men. Your ability to be structured and organised, determined towards goals.

Both side have to listen and try to understand each other, and try to keep in mind to make each other happy, not to expect things but appreciate.

Cap has big loving heart and should never forget and withold from their partner as aries does 3times more for you without asking anything if you show you love him

My cap is my soulmate and I am hers, we had big fights, but each time after I felt like I love her more and appreciate her more. She feels the same. We know how bad we can fight and to compare how much we can love each other and don't want to fight. So we tend to be more careful not to trigger each other. Also the responses on the daily basis when everything is peaceful and companion is appreciated and tend to protect that.

Cap woman and aries man is a beautiful combination, she taught me more within a year than all my life experience in relationship all together.i forever greatful for her and she have my heart for good
Thank you for your lovely post x

I just wish my Aries husband would see things like you.

Made me feel a bit weepy because things were lovely between me and my husband for quite a few years. Until we had differing opinions and differing ways of doing the same jobs.

Sadly though the Aries in him always thinks he knows better. Always has to WIN and will fight to the death to WIN any and every argument, even if it means destroying me in the process!

The irony is that in an argument earlier this year, he actually turned round to me and said "I've learned nothing from you!"

Trust me..I know he learned nothing. Anytime I tried to teach him something about compromise and sharing and the importance of this, as well as listening and communicating all he wanted to do was analyse everything I say; argue that I am wrong and he is right, and then fight it out and fight it out and fight it out some More!

Verbal fight. Not physical!

He HAS to WIN!

EVERY TIME!
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I understand absolutely

Well, he might just not wise enough also the priority dictates. Not sure about your role in the arguments, but really does not matter who can ironing out the stress between you two as long as one make a step. Also it's the matter of the argument fundamentally make sense or it's coming from irritation of each other based on known behaviour. It's a response onto not appreciated features and taking personal offense. That is a bit immature, because completely loosing a pot is not beneficial for anyone, and fight just for the sake of fighting. I think protecting relationship is Always a must, there is tons of things you two loved/appreciate in each other.

About learning, smart people learning by observation and put things in their places. It's not what you teach for him, but what he learns by observing and understanding you and spot your qualities. If one ignorant and doesn't, it just simply show lack of attention and intentions.

Try to remember if it was the same in the first few years. If it was different, just remind each other how it was, and don't you forget that, neither of you compulsory to stay or been taken for granted. No one has to have place in anyone life, many just tend to forget that.

Differing opinions, for example one thing how one learn from another as long as put interest and effort to understand. I respect my cap and actually love that she have her own opinion about things and she stand up for it. In the same time she open enough to ask. Secondly, she is an observer too. You sometimes no need to explain but can show from example. That speak more than words. Especially as you capricorn like action over talk. Aries like that too.the difference is between you two, capricorn tend to stress out frequently abs easier. Aries very positive and negative people pull them down. You to understand, each time he have to put energy to recover you, I am sure he does but he can have bad day too you know.. Aries hate moaning. They consider problem start if someone dies. Otherwise everything is just a task nothing to stress out about. How you coop with the world is not their problem, yes he can help, but you know stressed out people under emotional influence not as useful listener. That's why cap need space as everything irritates them. If your husband know that, he make you space.
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Hello, I saw this post and i had to share!

I am an Aries women and my close friend who I have strong feelings for is a Capricorn man. I am 3 yrs and 3 months older than him. When we first talked he approach me, i didnt know who he was but we have same friends in a gaming community that we are in together. So, I was surprise that he was talking to me and was having an interest. At first i didnt really see it that way, until we started to really hang out watching movies online having our own private rooms in TeamSpeak (this is a Long Distance Relationship) so we were limited to doing things. But we would always talked to each other during the week and make time for each other to watch GOTs, watch movies on Netflix and even do the Question game which started the whole me being interested in him and showed how he was interested in me.

This was all through June to Augs 2017. Once Sept came around everything was very silent and distant. We were both going through real life and he explained to me in Oct. what was going on and I to him. In Augs I had told him I had strong feelings towards him and asked if he felt the same. He did. But he couldn't really understand doing a online relationship as he has never done it before but he did also say he was thinking about it.So, we both took things slow and continue what we were doing up until Sept.

We do talk sometimes but im usually the one starting a conversation with him.Just the other day he had talked to me out of the blue even though i had talked with him on Teamspeak (with friends.) This was through message on Steam.He the apologize for missing my 1 message i send to him last week! thats why i was surprise lol. But we still had a good conversation for awhile. Then I was thinking if i should start talking to him again, and asked where he is at with our friendship/relationship that start through the summer. I get really nervous only because my 1st dating experience ever with a someone wasn't the best and he was also a Capricorn but he was born in Dec 22(same age as me) and the one im talking to born Jan 18th (im April 18th) So, im very protective of myself when it comes to dating and being with someone because i have never been in a relationship bf/gf

I'm hoping my cappy and I do have that conversation just to make sure we are on the same page. I am very confused and I feel like I should asked about us and what our friendship means. I did ask him if everything was good between us and he said Of course it is, he asked me and I say the same. But i didn't asked about US as in what is our friendship if he is still interested in me as in more than friends and romanticly

Anyways I really do care about him and I know he feels the same way. So, i have been waiting patiently(being an Aries, not our best suite xD) for him to start up a serious conversation between us.



LDR - we are both in Canada and he is an 1 hour ahead of me so I guess we have it lucky when it comes to LD. Although I wish we were in the same City would be nice 🙂
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I understand absolutely

Well, he might just not wise enough also the priority dictates. Not sure about your role in the arguments, but really does not matter who can ironing out the stress between you two as long as one make a step. Also it's the matter of the argument fundamentally make sense or it's coming from irritation of each other based on known behaviour. It's a response onto not appreciated features and taking personal offense. That is a bit immature, because completely loosing a pot is not beneficial for anyone, and fight just for the sake of fighting. I think protecting relationship is Always a must, there is tons of things you two loved/appreciate in each other.

About learning, smart people learning by observation and put things in their places. It's not what you teach for him, but what he learns by observing and understanding you and spot your qualities. If one ignorant and doesn't, it just simply show lack of attention and intentions.

Try to remember if it was the same in the first few years. If it was different, just remind each other how it was, and don't you forget that, neither of you compulsory to stay or been taken for granted. No one has to have place in anyone life, many just tend to forget that.

Differing opinions, for example one thing how one learn from another as long as put interest and effort to understand. I respect my cap and actually love that she have her own opinion about things and she stand up for it. In the same time she open enough to ask. Secondly, she is an observer too. You sometimes no need to explain but can show from example. That speak more than words. Especially as you capricorn like action over talk. Aries like that too.the difference is between you two, capricorn tend to stress out frequently abs easier. Aries very positive and negative people pull them down. You to understand, each time he have to put energy to recover you, I am sure he does but he can have bad day too you know.. Aries hate moaning. They consider problem start if someone dies. Otherwise everything is just a task nothing to stress out about. How you coop with the world is not their problem, yes he can help, but you know stressed out people under emotional influence not as useful listener. That's why cap need space as everything irritates them. If your husband know that, he make you space.
Interesting x

You say Aries are positive. I always thought my Aries husband was positive too.

But..he complains about everything. Everything has to be perfect all the time and he's very judgemental. Always complaining. Always being rude about people. And in fact - really quote Negative!

And I just wondered ..is this normal for Aries to be so complaining and Negative?!?
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Well, you can learn a lot from each other. Ego, and pride is blind and take away attention of real values why you both get together at the first place. Capricorn tend to be good analytical however they can keep their position till the end just from pure stubbornness. Honestly is silly. About the aries, they much more easy going however does not appreciate if they loved one pressurise them because it makes them think of their partner has selfish tendency and we hate selfish people keep on pursing they will. We can smell to be used from thousands miles away and watching your game quiet until we get bored and cut you short on a good day. On a bad day we don't have patience for that and cut you short just on your way to approach. 🙂

Now, on the other side. We do respect you for your strength and endurance, also you to keep your position. Seriously some cap woman stronger than men. Your ability to be structured and organised, determined towards goals.

Both side have to listen and try to understand each other, and try to keep in mind to make each other happy, not to expect things but appreciate.

Cap has big loving heart and should never forget and withold from their partner as aries does 3times more for you without asking anything if you show you love him

My cap is my soulmate and I am hers, we had big fights, but each time after I felt like I love her more and appreciate her more. She feels the same. We know how bad we can fight and to compare how much we can love each other and don't want to fight. So we tend to be more careful not to trigger each other. Also the responses on the daily basis when everything is peaceful and companion is appreciated and tend to protect that.

Cap woman and aries man is a beautiful combination, she taught me more within a year than all my life experience in relationship all together.i forever greatful for her and she have my heart for good
Thank you for your lovely post x

I just wish my Aries husband would see things like you.

Made me feel a bit weepy because things were lovely between me and my husband for quite a few years. Until we had differing opinions and differing ways of doing the same jobs.

Sadly though the Aries in him always thinks he knows better. Always has to WIN and will fight to the death to WIN any and every argument, even if it means destroying me in the process!

The irony is that in an argument earlier this year, he actually turned round to me and said "I've learned nothing from you!"

Trust me..I know he learned nothing. Anytime I tried to teach him something about compromise and sharing and the importance of this, as well as listening and communicating all he wanted to do was analyse everything I say; argue that I am wrong and he is right, and then fight it out and fight it out and fight it out some More!

Verbal fight. Not physical!

He HAS to WIN!

EVERY TIME!
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I've read your post and had t comment xD I'm not Aries but Sag, but I do have Aries Moon and that is a part of me that I really don't like and that made major issues in communication with Cap guy that I really really like...BUT I'm truly not anything like your husband xD I compromise a lot actually, would adjust to just about anything and am not keen on picking fights (Sag takes more control there I guess). But Aries have really really bad temper...overly explosive and so hard to control themselves. This part comes to surface for me as well at some point. We're very impatient and want everything and we want it NOW. In chart it actually says our wishes become absolute need and trust me it really feels like that. I get that you don't like that part...neither do I lol

Problem is some people don't realize that this is bad and don't even try controlling it. He probably has Aries in some other aspects to be stubborn like that. Personally I've never liked a single Aries guy even tho according to zodiac we would make a good match but I just don't think so. Too much fire there and too much temper lol had a best friend Aries for very long time and she also had bad temper...she's the only person in my life that is Aries and that I lost contact to lol never fought with anyone, specially not with good friends and keep in touch with everyone except her lol

So what I'm saying is I completely understand you xD and wouldn't like to be in your place to be honest. Hope things get better for you and try to make him understand his approach is wrong and bad...if that's even possible to tell them lol
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I guess it depends on other factors too like their moon, mars etc. Capricorn is stubborn, controlling and the only way is theirs, demands freedom and respect, lack of ability to compromise, inconsistent, not stable, annoying as f@ck. On the other hand they have a sweet side absolutely loveable. Mind gamers, quick and wrong on judgements and generally negative tendency. Very pessimistic.