The Lady Scorpio
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What is the best way to deal with a sick Ram ?
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Posted by SmidgeTruly that easy ? 😆
Tell him to gtf over it 🤐
Posted by HearttofTopazI know @HeartofTopaz, and I did not want to 'baby' him unlike certain other signs where the men require 'compassionate care'. Ram gents seem to dislike it because last time he had allergies. He hated if I so much as asked if he was ok, or if he needed medication, etc. He would rather I know and then skimmed past it.
Men are babies when they’re sick, I doubt it has to do with you. Maybe if he was taking his vitamins, he wouldn’t have gotten sick
To uphold that Ram masculine exterior ? 😆
Posted by HearttofTopazI would love to, and wrote him to see if he would like that I bring food over for him. Well, I have so far been ignored. 😐
Get him some chicken noodle with cayenne pepper, and some scooter stick luvin’.
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingAh @WolfInRamsClothing, I want to but he has not answered my most recent message. Not quite sure if I am left hanging again or ignored.
Show him you care. Bring soup .
Though I think I will make it anyways.
Posted by Superman77Hah, that was the problem to begin with.Posted by HearttofTopaz
Get him some chicken noodle with cayenne pepper, and some scooter stick luvin’.
Especially that last one click to expandclick to expand
A lot of that has already been done, it was also partly why I got him sick, because of all that exertion and sweat. 😆
Posted by UnwordingGreat suggestion, I will most likely make him some chicken soup and bring him some orange juice as well. 🙂
Spike his coffee with some OJ-- should cheer him right up.
I would just leave him alone. I like to be left alone when I'm sick.
Posted by Superman77The sweat did him in, even when he stole most of the duvet. It is a wonder, I am not the one to fall ill because I am perfectly fine.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Superman77Hah, that was the problem to begin with.Posted by HearttofTopaz
Get him some chicken noodle with cayenne pepper, and some scooter stick luvin’.
Especially that last one click to expand
A lot of that has already been done, it was also partly why I got him sick, because of all that exertion and sweat. click to expand
Tell his ass to get into sex shape click to expandclick to expand
Strong Stinger woman genes. 😆
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingNo soup, and no juice ? To drop off, whilst giving him space, or no reaching out at all ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothingAh @WolfInRamsClothing, I want to but he has not answered my most recent message. Not quite sure if I am left hanging again or ignored.
Show him you care. Bring soup .
Though I think I will make it anyways. click to expand
Then just leave him alone. He's probably not ready for any visits. Place is a mess and he enjoys his time while being sick doing what he wants. I would not like any visits tbh, but being initiative is appreciated. click to expandclick to expand
He initially, alluded to wanting me to spend his soon to be day off with him. Which I completely missed the clue to, because he is hardly direct, surprising for a Ram.
His merman moon, makes him insinuate so much that I could hardly make sense of certain things at times. Whilst he is blunt in many other matters. With me, and emotions wise, he is not.
Posted by UnwordingWhy no, you most definitely gave me the idea. So thank you for that, @Unwording.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by UnwordingGreat suggestion, I will most likely make him some chicken soup and bring him some orange juice as well. click to expand
Spike his coffee with some OJ-- should cheer him right up.
^Definitely a better choice.
Don't listen to me. lol click to expandclick to expand
Posted by TheRabbitAre you suggesting I need to get him some additional human comfort ? 😆
Youth in Asia.
Are you back with him—
Posted by MyStarsShineYes, and no.
Are you back with him—
We slept together and spent time together again.
In fact, I have no idea what we are. He has been very public about us, even having me visit him at his work place and wishing to introduce me to everyone. Our intimate familiarity is evident to all, nor does he hide his demonstrations of affections for me when together there. They all know about me, but also now walks on eggshells around me.
Unable to initiate after I rejected him that first night we were together, by being unwilling to give him my number as I was not sure how I felt yet. He is hot one minute, and distant the next, sensing a fair amount of insecurity. Though always receptive of my actions and happy, when I do approach.
Posted by Superman77He is stubborn and hard headed.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Superman77The sweat did him in, even when he stole most of the duvet. It is a wonder, I am not the one to fall ill because I am perfectly fine.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Superman77Posted by HearttofTopaz
Get him some chicken noodle with cayenne pepper, and some scooter stick luvin’.
Especially that last one click to expand
Hah, that was the problem to begin with.
A lot of that has already been done, it was also partly why I got him sick, because of all that exertion and sweat. click to expand
Tell his ass to get into sex shape click to expand
Strong Stinger woman genes. click to expand
Oh lort!
Whip him into shape girl click to expandclick to expand
We will see, all that riding left my legs shaking. At least, I got a good cardio work out, as per usual. 😆
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingI will do that, thank you for the suggestions. 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothingNo soup, and no juice ? To drop off, whilst giving him space, or no reaching out at all ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothing
Show him you care. Bring soup .
Ah @WolfInRamsClothing, I want to but he has not answered my most recent message. Not quite sure if I am left hanging again or ignored.
Though I think I will make it anyways. click to expand
Then just leave him alone. He's probably not ready for any visits. Place is a mess and he enjoys his time while being sick doing what he wants. I would not like any visits tbh, but being initiative is appreciated. click to expand
He initially, alluded to wanting me to spend his soon to be day off with him. Which I completely missed the clue to, because he is hardly direct, surprising for a Ram.
His merman moon, makes him insinuate so much that I could hardly make sense of certain things at times. Whilst he is blunt in many other matters. With me, and emotions wise, he is not. click to expand
No to "no reaching out" ask him how He's doing later in a day. click to expandclick to expand
Though I am always wary to send double texts. He often goes between responding so swiftly I am taken off guard or taking hours.
Yes to soup and juice ?
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingHe is a Merman Moon, he gets very sensitive and moody. Reading his subtleties, has even a Water Sign like me, clueless.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothingI will do that, thank you for the suggestions.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothingPosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothing
Show him you care. Bring soup .
Ah @WolfInRamsClothing, I want to but he has not answered my most recent message. Not quite sure if I am left hanging again or ignored.
Though I think I will make it anyways. click to expand
Then just leave him alone. He's probably not ready for any visits. Place is a mess and he enjoys his time while being sick doing what he wants. I would not like any visits tbh, but being initiative is appreciated. click to expand
No soup, and no juice ? To drop off, whilst giving him space, or no reaching out at all ?
He initially, alluded to wanting me to spend his soon to be day off with him. Which I completely missed the clue to, because he is hardly direct, surprising for a Ram.
His merman moon, makes him insinuate so much that I could hardly make sense of certain things at times. Whilst he is blunt in many other matters. With me, and emotions wise, he is not. click to expand
No to "no reaching out" ask him how He's doing later in a day. click to expand
Though I am always wary to send double texts. He often goes between responding so swiftly I am taken off guard or taking hours.
Yes to soup and juice ?
click to expand
Yes to soup and juice if he invites you over right away, if he is wishy washy, just know he is not ready for visits. In this case just wish him to get well and that you will meet later when both of you are available and check on him later in a day . He can change his mind though, happened to me , like geeez not right now, I'm not ready. In 20 min, ok lets meet up. click to expandclick to expand
Will update you on the progress to see how it goes. 😆
What is your moon ?
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way 😄
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes at me and is like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend 😄
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....etc
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over his house for about 2 hours and
its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and he looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries are strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes at me and is like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend 😄
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....etc
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over his house for about 2 hours and
its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and he looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries are strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
Posted by tinoTechnically, I did nothing wrong besides accepting his offer to turn on the air conditioning. He could have easily turned it off if he wanted. In fact, he had most of the duvet and I had far less. I did not fall ill, he did.
@TheLadyScorpio
My bf is an Aries, and I'm a Pisces so we have the same watery sign. It kinda feel bad when we did something wrong to them unintentionally right?
Of course, Aries man will be angry with you. The fact is, every man will be angry if someone did something wrong to them, not just to make them sick. But to handle an Aries is special, because mostly of his ego and his conflict nature. He loves woman who is like a tomboy, she can be caring and she can be energetic. They need something of a full package, so if you show too much of the caring side they will be annoyed. Since they believe they're care givers, and they usually are people who put effort out there to gain achievements, so they don't like to be smother with care even if you're trying to make up for what you did, like...to express your regret by taking care of him. And yes, he needs space. An Aries man doesn't understand words like us, he understands actions. So by giving him recovering space, it means you're feeling regret and respect him, waiting for him. If his sickness here is caused by you, and with your bucket of care pours in, he will double the annoy and may need some distance even more. He likes to think he can handle everything by himself and just let him believe that.
What to do: Care, but not too much. Via actions like buy him something nutritious to eat and recover if you have a chance to meet, but don't say it out loud or text him in bulk. Be unpredictable, sometimes you care, and then the next day you don't, the day after that you care again. Just like that, don't let him think everytime he meets you he will be cared for, as 'the man of the family', he doesn't like it.
It also depends on his Moon sign, his age, your time together. If you have been together for a real long time then it probably is something else happening in his life at the same time. Just don't blame yourself, we all have flaws and are clumsy at times. Be confident or this small problem will hurt your positive energy and you know who can't love if his partner doesn't have positive vibe? Aries man
Hope this helps.
Well, when I am caring he finds it hard to accept. When I am not as caring, being my independent self, he becomes sensitive to it, if not slightly hurt / irritated / annoyed. I am caught between a rock and a hard place. Of course, I would love to make him happy but on the other hand, I cannot be a doormat or a people pleaser at his every whim. He is given space, at the moment. I will let him mull over things alone, for the time being.
I never text him in bulk, in fact we're quite efficient in texting. Mostly to organise when we next meet, and talk in person. I let him be the man if he so wishes, never fought him for it. We have been together, and I use that term loosely, for a month. His has a Merman Moon and he is in his thirties.
Yes, except I am the positive energy almost always. I am the light, the one always smiling or laughing yet his emotional darkness always pulls me down. He is rather serious for a Ram. It is hard to get him to laugh or smile much, though he enjoys it when I do.
Posted by Superman77Ah Leonine, but I am.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Superman77He is stubborn and hard headed.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Superman77Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Superman77Posted by HearttofTopaz
Get him some chicken noodle with cayenne pepper, and some scooter stick luvin’.
Especially that last one click to expand
Hah, that was the problem to begin with.
A lot of that has already been done, it was also partly why I got him sick, because of all that exertion and sweat. click to expand
Tell his ass to get into sex shape click to expand
The sweat did him in, even when he stole most of the duvet. It is a wonder, I am not the one to fall ill because I am perfectly fine.
Strong Stinger woman genes. click to expand
Oh lort!
Whip him into shape girl click to expand
We will see, all that riding left my legs shaking. At least, I got a good cardio work out, as per usual. click to expand
You need to get into sex shape too click to expandclick to expand
Any womans legs would be left shaking, if she did almost all the riding, for an extended period of time. 😆
Posted by TheLadyScorpioSounds a bit confusing, Lady 🤔Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you back with him—
Yes, and no.
We slept together and spent time together again.
In fact, I have no idea what we are. He has been very public about us, even having me visit him at his work place and wishing to introduce me to everyone. Our intimate familiarity is evident to all, nor does he hide his demonstrations of affections for me when together there. They all know about me, but also now walks on eggshells around me.
Unable to initiate after I rejected him that first night we were together, by being unwilling to give him my number as I was not sure how I felt yet. He is hot one minute, and distant the next, sensing a fair amount of insecurity. Though always receptive of my actions and happy, when I do approach. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Cancan26Yes small doses, cramming in as much hot firey sexy as you can lol 👍🔥😈
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
Posted by MyStarsShinePerhaps, stars.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineYes, and no.
Are you back with him—
We slept together and spent time together again.
In fact, I have no idea what we are. He has been very public about us, even having me visit him at his work place and wishing to introduce me to everyone. Our intimate familiarity is evident to all, nor does he hide his demonstrations of affections for me when together there. They all know about me, but also now walks on eggshells around me.
Unable to initiate after I rejected him that first night we were together, by being unwilling to give him my number as I was not sure how I felt yet. He is hot one minute, and distant the next, sensing a fair amount of insecurity. Though always receptive of my actions and happy, when I do approach. click to expand
Sounds a bit confusing, Lady 🤔 click to expandclick to expand
I am not confused, I like him. However, it takes two to dance. His mixed expression of emotions, does have me retreating into my Stinger Broodiness and unable to extend kindness.
Posted by MyStarsShineits like he wanted me to be babied but didn't want things to be mushy so anytime things were mildly pleasant he would complain ...or make a sarcastic comment -_- lmao it was soo annoyingPosted by Cancan26
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
Yes small doses, cramming in as much hot firey sexy as you can lol 👍🔥😈 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingNever thought your kind to be moody.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothingHe is a Merman Moon, he gets very sensitive and moody. Reading his subtleties, has even a Water Sign like me, clueless.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothingPosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothingPosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothing
Show him you care. Bring soup .
Ah @WolfInRamsClothing, I want to but he has not answered my most recent message. Not quite sure if I am left hanging again or ignored.
Though I think I will make it anyways. click to expand
Then just leave him alone. He's probably not ready for any visits. Place is a mess and he enjoys his time while being sick doing what he wants. I would not like any visits tbh, but being initiative is appreciated. click to expand
No soup, and no juice ? To drop off, whilst giving him space, or no reaching out at all ?
He initially, alluded to wanting me to spend his soon to be day off with him. Which I completely missed the clue to, because he is hardly direct, surprising for a Ram.
His merman moon, makes him insinuate so much that I could hardly make sense of certain things at times. Whilst he is blunt in many other matters. With me, and emotions wise, he is not. click to expand
No to "no reaching out" ask him how He's doing later in a day. click to expand
I will do that, thank you for the suggestions.
Though I am always wary to send double texts. He often goes between responding so swiftly I am taken off guard or taking hours.
Yes to soup and juice ?
click to expand
Yes to soup and juice if he invites you over right away, if he is wishy washy, just know he is not ready for visits. In this case just wish him to get well and that you will meet later when both of you are available and check on him later in a day . He can change his mind though, happened to me , like geeez not right now, I'm not ready. In 20 min, ok lets meet up. click to expand
Will update you on the progress to see how it goes.
What is your moon ? click to expand
Good. We are kind of moody by nature.
When my Aries guy friends get histerical a good punch or a lesson will stop all that. No, I Don't suggest doing that, they stand me since childhood. When I did it on Aries that I was interested in, it didn't work out, he ran away oops.
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What is your Sun and Moon sign ?
Posted by Cancan26They always come off like they do not need help and do not want you there. Yet when you say - Enough, I will leave now. Then they give you such a sad look. It baffles me as a water sign as well, since I have had experiences similar to yours as well. Perhaps I should do the two hour limit as well, and that gif perfectly describes it. 😆
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
@Cancan26 In the end, was he appreciative of your gestures and how did he approach you after the incident ?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioLike I said before, Aries and Scorp are great for sex but because they are quincunx, in other ways, they don't get each otherPosted by Cancan26
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
They always come off like they do not need help and do not want you there. Yet when you say - Enough, I will leave now. Then they give you such a sad look. It baffles me as a water sign as well, since I have had experiences similar to yours as well. Perhaps I should do the two hour limit as well, and that gif perfectly describes it. click to expandclick to expand
Different pages
Posted by TheLadyScorpioI honestly think scorpio is the best water sign for aries simply cause you guys are not afraid to call their bluff ...by time cancer and pisces call their bluff our feelings are too hurt to care ...Posted by Cancan26
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
They always come off like they do not need help and do not want you there. Yet when you say - Enough, I will leave now. Then they give you such a sad look. It baffles me as a water sign as well, since I have had experiences similar to yours as well. Perhaps I should do the two hour limit as well, and that gif perfectly describes it. click to expandclick to expand
he thinks its funny when i have an attitude ...and almost seems annoyed when im nice ...is very confusing
@Cancan26
It makes me not want to be soft at times, and want to say - Take my kindness, you should be pleased I am choosing to invest and be nice to you. If you make it seem like you do not want it. I will be gone. 😆
It makes me not want to be soft at times, and want to say - Take my kindness, you should be pleased I am choosing to invest and be nice to you. If you make it seem like you do not want it. I will be gone. 😆
Posted by MyStarsShineYes. I remember you saying so but I also do not want to be too negative and run down every sign, without giving them a chance.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Cancan26They always come off like they do not need help and do not want you there. Yet when you say - Enough, I will leave now. Then they give you such a sad look. It baffles me as a water sign as well, since I have had experiences similar to yours as well. Perhaps I should do the two hour limit as well, and that gif perfectly describes it. click to expand
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
Like I said before, Aries and Scorp are great for sex but because they are quincunx, in other ways, they don't get each other
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However, I cannot deny that there seems to be a disconnect.
Posted by TheLadyScorpiohe is a bit of a mystery to be honest ...
@Cancan26 In the end, was he appreciative of your gestures and how did he approach you after the incident ?
he never said thanks ...after the indecent not even a text
but when i was sick a little bit after that he sent a text that said
there something on your door ...
he taped twenty dollars to the door with a post it that said "for soup"
😆 ....
Posted by Cancan26I called his bluff quite a few times before and the next time I saw him he stopped his behaviour. We are a sensitive lot as well, as with Crabapples and Merfolk. Though we mask it better with an facade of indifference / detachment or icy coldness.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Cancan26They always come off like they do not need help and do not want you there. Yet when you say - Enough, I will leave now. Then they give you such a sad look. It baffles me as a water sign as well, since I have had experiences similar to yours as well. Perhaps I should do the two hour limit as well, and that gif perfectly describes it. click to expand
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
I honestly think scorpio is the best water sign for aries simply cause you guys are not afraid to call their bluff ...by time cancer and pisces call their bluff our feelings are too hurt to care ...
he thinks its funny when i have an attitude ...and almost seems annoyed when im nice ...is very confusing click to expandclick to expand
He actually does not find much funny, he hardly laughs or smiles. Though he most definitely seems annoyed or expressionless when I am nice. Quite contradictory. Yet, really remembers and appreciates it.
Posted by TheLadyScorpiohonestly we lose our temper with each other a LOT ..the only difference is ...5 minutes later he is over it ...
@Cancan26
It makes me not want to be soft at times, and want to say - Take my kindness, you should be pleased I am choosing to invest and be nice to you. If you make it seem like you do not want it. I will be gone.
5 years later i still wanna choke him a tiny bit 😄 god bless the women that can put up with the aries man ego
Yeah...why is that everytime a woman have a cold, for some odd reason of the universe, they sunddenly and out of nowhere get full better...and i allways end up with her cold in full force ?!...I never understood this enigma tbh.... hehe xD
As for him....be spontaneous. It also depends on the phase of the rship, as some said, but since he is an Aries...being spontaneous allways work at any stage 🙂
I once got this massive cold (i was almost dying tbh lool...she said i was over exageranting...don't trust her...trust me...lolol)..so, she asked me if i needed anything, and i ofc said...No lol I just wanted to be on my own and sleep ^^
After some time she called me saying she was outside my apartment and for me to open the door...me being as pissed as ever, I even said to her "Great...now i have to get up to open you the door..." yep...Aries...lool...it is a bad idea to talk to an Aries when he is pissed lol ^^
But then she gets out of the elevator...and she is full of food with her...she even made some canja de galinha (i think its chicken soup in english)...holy shit...that totaly and completly *broke me apart*...i wasn't expecting that like...at all...she did and bought all of that for me...i was like...wow....and i was being such a jerk with her...arfff....it was the sweetest thing ever, i never forgot about that 🙂
And she said she was going to take care of me, which made everything even more sweet 🙂
So basicly...Aries...you can't ask him about *this things* lool he will allways say...No ^^ You just have to do it ^^
Aries do love to be taken care off, we actualy really do lool but you can't *ever* say that to him hehe or i guess that maybe it depends on the stage of the rship and the bond of you 2 🙂
So...whatever you do remeber, it was your fault that he got the cold (lolol xD) and be spontaneous hehe 🙂
As for him....be spontaneous. It also depends on the phase of the rship, as some said, but since he is an Aries...being spontaneous allways work at any stage 🙂
I once got this massive cold (i was almost dying tbh lool...she said i was over exageranting...don't trust her...trust me...lolol)..so, she asked me if i needed anything, and i ofc said...No lol I just wanted to be on my own and sleep ^^
After some time she called me saying she was outside my apartment and for me to open the door...me being as pissed as ever, I even said to her "Great...now i have to get up to open you the door..." yep...Aries...lool...it is a bad idea to talk to an Aries when he is pissed lol ^^
But then she gets out of the elevator...and she is full of food with her...she even made some canja de galinha (i think its chicken soup in english)...holy shit...that totaly and completly *broke me apart*...i wasn't expecting that like...at all...she did and bought all of that for me...i was like...wow....and i was being such a jerk with her...arfff....it was the sweetest thing ever, i never forgot about that 🙂
And she said she was going to take care of me, which made everything even more sweet 🙂
So basicly...Aries...you can't ask him about *this things* lool he will allways say...No ^^ You just have to do it ^^
Aries do love to be taken care off, we actualy really do lool but you can't *ever* say that to him hehe or i guess that maybe it depends on the stage of the rship and the bond of you 2 🙂
So...whatever you do remeber, it was your fault that he got the cold (lolol xD) and be spontaneous hehe 🙂
Posted by IamTheRamWhy @IamTheRam your post had me smiling, the energy is quite positive.
Yeah...why is that everytime a woman have a cold, for some odd reason of the universe, they sunddenly and out of nowhere get full better...and i allways end up with her cold in full force ?!...I never understood this enigma tbh.... hehe xD
As for him....be spontaneous. It also depends on the phase of the rship, as some said, but since he is an Aries...being spontaneous allways work at any stage
I once got this massive cold (i was almost dying tbh lool...she said i was over exageranting...don't trust her...trust me...lolol)..so, she asked me if i needed anything, and i ofc said...No lol I just wanted to be on my own and sleep ^^
After some time she called me saying she was outside my apartment and for me to open the door...me being as pissed as ever, I even said to her "Great...now i have to get up to open you the door..." yep...Aries...lool...it is a bad idea to talk to an Aries when he is pissed lol ^^
But then she gets out of the elevator...and she is full of food with her...she even made some canja de galinha (i think its chicken soup in english)...holy shit...that totaly and completly *broke me apart*...i wasn't expecting that like...at all...she did and bought all of that for me...i was like...wow....and i was being such a jerk with her...arfff....it was the sweetest thing ever, i never forgot about that
And she said she was going to take care of me, which made everything even more sweet
So basicly...Aries...you can't ask him about *this things* lool he will allways say...No ^^ You just have to do it ^^
Aries do love to be taken care off, we actualy really do lool but you can't *ever* say that to him hehe or i guess that maybe it depends on the stage of the rship and the bond of you 2
So...whatever you do remeber, it was your fault that he got the cold (lolol xD) and be spontaneous hehe
Ah, we are not in a relationship or I think we are not ? What say you ?
I am not quite sure what we are, we never spoke of it. We have been together one month, and I say 'together' loosely. Though, everyone knows about us, he demonstrates it, he introduces me and he is not ashamed of being seen publicly with me at any time of the day. Be it at places he often visits, or at his work place.
Yes, I gave him a very small personalised gift before he fell ill. He never knew about it, I simply got it done, and then told him I have something for him. When he received it, he seems very expressionless but he cared not for everyone around us and took me in for kiss. Took me for a surprise, considering he is normally quite professional but the spontaneity of it. In front of his coworkers as well, everyone be damned. I hope this was a sign that he was touched.
Well, I asked if he needed anything and tried to demonstrate I cared. He kept refusing me, which I took him for his word and thought he did not want my company. However, he kept asking multiple times if I had plans for his day off, over and over again. I told him no, but he never initiated so I thought he wanted me gone. Then when I messaged him after the fact to see if he would like food for his day off, he never responded. He always wanted to be the one to be responsible or to take care of me.
You made him sick...?!
Well, if it's gonorrhea, he needs antibiotics!
Sorry....my Sag rising made me do it 😄
Well, if it's gonorrhea, he needs antibiotics!
Sorry....my Sag rising made me do it 😄
Posted by TheLadyScorpioNor do I (we are just talking about one sign here not all of them)but have experienced three men of this signPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by TheLadyScorpioLike I said before, Aries and Scorp are great for sex but because they are quincunx, in other ways, they don't get each otherPosted by Cancan26
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
They always come off like they do not need help and do not want you there. Yet when you say - Enough, I will leave now. Then they give you such a sad look. It baffles me as a water sign as well, since I have had experiences similar to yours as well. Perhaps I should do the two hour limit as well, and that gif perfectly describes it. click to expand
Different pages click to expand
Yes. I remember you saying so but I also do not want to be too negative and run down every sign, without giving them a chance.
However, I cannot deny that there seems to be a disconnect. click to expandclick to expand
Disconnect is a very good way to describe the energy
Posted by tinoHe already tried to make me jealous or see if I was territorial or possessive. Hah, he gave up and realised no I will not be that woman nor will I be dramatic. If you choose to be or flirt around other woman, so be it. Until you are entirely mine, I will not say anything. He stopped quite obviously.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by tinoTechnically, I did nothing wrong besides accepting his offer to turn on the air conditioning. He could have easily turned it off if he wanted. In fact, he had most of the duvet and I had far less. I did not fall ill, he did.
@TheLadyScorpio
My bf is an Aries, and I'm a Pisces so we have the same watery sign. It kinda feel bad when we did something wrong to them unintentionally right?
Of course, Aries man will be angry with you. The fact is, every man will be angry if someone did something wrong to them, not just to make them sick. But to handle an Aries is special, because mostly of his ego and his conflict nature. He loves woman who is like a tomboy, she can be caring and she can be energetic. They need something of a full package, so if you show too much of the caring side they will be annoyed. Since they believe they're care givers, and they usually are people who put effort out there to gain achievements, so they don't like to be smother with care even if you're trying to make up for what you did, like...to express your regret by taking care of him. And yes, he needs space. An Aries man doesn't understand words like us, he understands actions. So by giving him recovering space, it means you're feeling regret and respect him, waiting for him. If his sickness here is caused by you, and with your bucket of care pours in, he will double the annoy and may need some distance even more. He likes to think he can handle everything by himself and just let him believe that.
What to do: Care, but not too much. Via actions like buy him something nutritious to eat and recover if you have a chance to meet, but don't say it out loud or text him in bulk. Be unpredictable, sometimes you care, and then the next day you don't, the day after that you care again. Just like that, don't let him think everytime he meets you he will be cared for, as 'the man of the family', he doesn't like it.
It also depends on his Moon sign, his age, your time together. If you have been together for a real long time then it probably is something else happening in his life at the same time. Just don't blame yourself, we all have flaws and are clumsy at times. Be confident or this small problem will hurt your positive energy and you know who can't love if his partner doesn't have positive vibe? Aries man
Hope this helps.
Well, when I am caring he finds it hard to accept. When I am not as caring, being my independent self, he becomes sensitive to it, if not slightly hurt / irritated / annoyed. I am caught between a rock and a hard place. Of course, I would love to make him happy but on the other hand, I cannot be a doormat or a people pleaser at his every whim. He is given space, at the moment. I will let him mull over things alone, for the time being.
I never text him in bulk, in fact we're quite efficient in texting. Mostly to organise when we next meet, and talk in person. I let him be the man if he so wishes, never fought him for it. We have been together, and I use that term loosely, for a month. His has a Merman Moon and he is in his thirties.
Yes, except I am the positive energy almost always. I am the light, the one always smiling or laughing yet his emotional darkness always pulls me down. He is rather serious for a Ram. It is hard to get him to laugh or smile much, though he enjoys it when I do. click to expand
Tell me about it, mine was Aqua moon...like next to your Pisces moon Aries. My god I have no word to describe both of these Aries man. He doesn't express much, ups and downs and shit but we still care that's the point. I don't know about you but mine was upset like that and after he mulled things, he went back to his normal state for a real long time. So I guessed mine tested me, to see if I was capable of handle a fight and loneliness kind of. Be confident, I also have a hard time understanding him the first month and now we're in our 2nd haha. But seriously, even after this when he came back like a wrecking ball, don't let him rush things he will surely ask where you've been, what you've been up to blah blah. Be mysterious and flirty, they like it, with a lot of laugher and smile, never hold grudge or blame him for anything. These kinds of man like to experience and learn their lessons in actions, not via words or blaming.
But keep my up, water dates fire is always intrigued me. Does yours tend to tell stories of hatred and reminiscence about his ex? click to expandclick to expand
He does ask me where I have been or what I have been up to, but actually does not question me too much. Why would I hold a grudge or blame him, most of the time I am easy going and enjoy the moment. He is rather serious for a Ram, though he enjoys my laughter and smiles but he rarely does himself.
Stories of hatred ? No, but he does tell me things about his life sometimes in a pessimistic light and he does not reminiscent on his ex but we have spoken all about his love life. That includes all his past relationships, and all that went on with them, how it ended, etc. His last relationship was over six years ago.
Posted by UndineHaha, @Undine. 😆 If that were the case, I would have needed it too. 😈 I jest.
You made him sick...?!
Well, if it's gonorrhea, he needs antibiotics!
Sorry....my Sag rising made me do it
I needed that laugh, and your Sag Rising is cheeky.
Posted by Cancan26Their ego seems rather fragile, and they seem so much more sensitive than how they portray themselves to be.Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@Cancan26
It makes me not want to be soft at times, and want to say - Take my kindness, you should be pleased I am choosing to invest and be nice to you. If you make it seem like you do not want it. I will be gone.
honestly we lose our temper with each other a LOT ..the only difference is ...5 minutes later he is over it ...
5 years later i still wanna choke him a tiny bit god bless the women that can put up with the aries man ego click to expandclick to expand
I have not lost my temper around him yet, it takes a lot for me to burst. 😆
Posted by MyStarsShineThree times of this very same experience. Bloody hell, I should give you an award for that. 😱Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineYes. I remember you saying so but I also do not want to be too negative and run down every sign, without giving them a chance.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Cancan26
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
They always come off like they do not need help and do not want you there. Yet when you say - Enough, I will leave now. Then they give you such a sad look. It baffles me as a water sign as well, since I have had experiences similar to yours as well. Perhaps I should do the two hour limit as well, and that gif perfectly describes it. click to expand
Like I said before, Aries and Scorp are great for sex but because they are quincunx, in other ways, they don't get each other
Different pages click to expand
However, I cannot deny that there seems to be a disconnect. click to expand
Nor do I (we are just talking about one sign here not all of them)but have experienced three men of this sign
Disconnect is a very good way to describe the energy click to expandclick to expand
Your Bullette Moon certainly gives you the patience and strength to have gone through that, not that I would ever diminish what you had with them.
Everything is well meaning, and I am quite sure the emotions are there. However, communication, no matter how well intended always comes across wrong. We shall see how it unfolds. I will be making him soup nonetheless, and perhaps bring him a bit of orange juice as well.
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWell, he spoke of his love life and past relationships with me. In fact, he spoke of it the very first time in which we met. Though he shared in depth later on. Every relationship of his was spoken of, no details were spared. His last relationship was over six years ago. His SO cheated on him, for quite some time, together with his childhood best friend. He lost both her, and his friend. It caused him enough pain, to leave and move abroad. Since then he have never had a relationship. I asked him if he will ever take her back, he said no because he could never forgive her or him for what they did. The memory of what they caused, that scar will remain. Yes, his ex SO and former friend are still together after all these years. No, I think he is ready to move on and I do not feel he compares me to his ex SO. He seems more worried about his career, goals, and finances more so than that.
Ok, I will spill out some secrets about us right here.
Your fellow Scorpio sister Teena, and my absolute bestie was very surprised that we have a hard time moving on. We may pretend moving on is not a big deal for us, but... I Don't know your age, but if you re at least over 25, be aware he already met his idol.
It took me 8 stupid years to forget Leo. Taurus was in transition and I would yell at his face, "you are not Leo to tell me this! Leo is the best, got it? No? Then you are stupid!" For right now Scorpio did beat Leo, and it's the same thing, scorp is the best. Probably all this forum knows about it. Scorpio!!!!
Same thing is going on with my Aries guy friends. The one that I already mentioned is forever single because, "she is not you, so I will make her suffer!"
The other Aries guy can't get over my ex aqua bestie. He lives with a Leo, proposed to her, then took the ring away, because aqua is better!!! Here I am with a punch!!! Because Leo is such a beautiful, positive girl. And aqua, she stole from me, ruined my dress because of jealousy, back stabs like crazy. No, aqua is the best for him.
Probably this is one of the features that makes us a bad sign.
There were times I thought Aries is the best sign. But there is something very weird about us. Probably internal anger and strength. We usually Don't attack first. I was always one of the shortest, weakest girls in the class. Shy and quite. My Virgo guy classmate decided to use it once. He took my chair to stand on it. My backpack was on the chair, so he just threw it on the floor and stood up on the chair. Because he thought I'm the quitest girl in the class. Well I threw him off that chair like crazy, was kicking him like crazy, three guys had to hold me back. He cried. That's all Aries. Internal anger and strength.
For right now as I say I did get involved in physical fights with guys, people Don't even believe me. They see me as as the most feminine and sweet thing ever. Something is weird about us.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioThe first was my dad lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by TheLadyScorpioNor do I (we are just talking about one sign here not all of them)but have experienced three men of this signPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Cancan26
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
They always come off like they do not need help and do not want you there. Yet when you say - Enough, I will leave now. Then they give you such a sad look. It baffles me as a water sign as well, since I have had experiences similar to yours as well. Perhaps I should do the two hour limit as well, and that gif perfectly describes it. click to expand
Like I said before, Aries and Scorp are great for sex but because they are quincunx, in other ways, they don't get each other
Different pages click to expand
Yes. I remember you saying so but I also do not want to be too negative and run down every sign, without giving them a chance.
However, I cannot deny that there seems to be a disconnect. click to expand
Disconnect is a very good way to describe the energy click to expand
Three times of this very same experience. Bloody hell, I should give you an award for that.
Your Bullette Moon certainly gives you the patience and strength to have gone through that, not that I would ever diminish what you had with them.
Everything is well meaning, and I am quite sure the emotions are there. However, communication, no matter how well intended always comes across wrong. We shall see how it unfolds. I will be making him soup nonetheless, and perhaps bring him a bit of orange juice as well. click to expandclick to expand
My mother treated him like a baby and he lapped it up .... ewwww
He was a great guy but never grew up and still even before his passing, blamed his (Scorpio) mother for all his problems! He told me he would never forgive his parents for not loving him
Aries is on my south node, so hopefully all my lessons are done with that energy
Don't get me wrong, I love their passion and the sex is amazing, but for me doesn't compensate for the other stuff ...... the misunderstandings, the disconnect, the immaturity
Posted by MyStarsShineYes, that all sounds familiar.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineThree times of this very same experience. Bloody hell, I should give you an award for that.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Cancan26
hmm this is very interesting ...I don't hang out with a lot of aries men cause they drive me nuts and not in a good way
but im gonna tell you a story ...about the time i was dealing with an injured and sick ram and it was not exactly of tale of tender friendship per say
my friend had got himself hurt doing something dumb ...and on top of that he got sick ...
so I show up to his house with some medicine, soup and other stuff ...
I knock on the door ...and he kind of rolls his eyes and like what are you doing here ...
and im trying to be nice cause I feel bad for him so Im like:
im here to love you back to health friend
and the kind of gives me the long annoyed sigh and I snap at him or i can stab you to death if you give me an attitude ...the choice is yours
he thinks this is hilarious
-_-
so then he's like whats in the bag
so I tell him ...and he then he complains....I don't like that soup ...I don't need help....
and this legit hurt my feelings so i didn't say anything ....
and he's like well your already over here now ...soooooo i need this, that, and the other thing and im over there for about 2 hours and its time for me to go ...cause square signs ...(that means he is getting on my nerves)
and looks so sad and he's like you don't have to go ...
buuuuutttt i really was ready to go so i did ...
the point of this story is ....aries strange but also kind of adorable creatures that I have a two hour time limit on max
They always come off like they do not need help and do not want you there. Yet when you say - Enough, I will leave now. Then they give you such a sad look. It baffles me as a water sign as well, since I have had experiences similar to yours as well. Perhaps I should do the two hour limit as well, and that gif perfectly describes it. click to expand
Like I said before, Aries and Scorp are great for sex but because they are quincunx, in other ways, they don't get each other
Different pages click to expand
Yes. I remember you saying so but I also do not want to be too negative and run down every sign, without giving them a chance.
However, I cannot deny that there seems to be a disconnect. click to expand
Nor do I (we are just talking about one sign here not all of them)but have experienced three men of this sign
Disconnect is a very good way to describe the energy click to expand
Your Bullette Moon certainly gives you the patience and strength to have gone through that, not that I would ever diminish what you had with them.
Everything is well meaning, and I am quite sure the emotions are there. However, communication, no matter how well intended always comes across wrong. We shall see how it unfolds. I will be making him soup nonetheless, and perhaps bring him a bit of orange juice as well. click to expand
The first was my dad lol
My mother treated him like a baby and he lapped it up .... ewwww
He was a great guy but never grew up and still even before his passing, blamed his (Scorpio) mother for all his problems! He told me he would never forgive his parents for not loving him
Aries is on my south node, so hopefully all my lessons are done with that energy
Don't get me wrong, I love their passion and the sex is amazing, but for me doesn't compensate for the other stuff ...... the misunderstandings, the disconnect, the immaturity
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This Ram, has quite the traumatic upbringing. Broken home, abandoned, abused to a degree, lack of stability, seeing his parent constantly with other people. Whilst through all this, he was the eldest so he took it upon himself to care for his siblings, his half siblings, and everyone else, including his parents at times. He will not and cannot forgive his mother and father, but he still cares to a degree. After all, he did say I will only have one mother and one father. No matter what they ever did to me, they brought me to this world.
I think he still has pain and anger from it all that he does not have fully resolved, it is suppressed. I sense it though he denies it. He knows I see through it all but being the Ram he is, he will be adamant it is not so.
Their passion is hardly consistent though, the sex is as good as when they are willing to put themselves into it. When they are tired or lazy, it is mediocre. Yes, there is quite a many misunderstandings, miscommunications, disconnect, inconsistency, possible insecurity, fragile ego etc.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioim glad you brought that up ...they definitely can be sensitive surprisingly so and I hope im not coming off too negative ...despite who much my friend can annoy me he can be very sweet and frustrating lmao ...but i assume its cause we are squared signsPosted by Cancan26Posted by TheLadyScorpiohonestly we lose our temper with each other a LOT ..the only difference is ...5 minutes later he is over it ...
@Cancan26
It makes me not want to be soft at times, and want to say - Take my kindness, you should be pleased I am choosing to invest and be nice to you. If you make it seem like you do not want it. I will be gone.
5 years later i still wanna choke him a tiny bit god bless the women that can put up with the aries man ego click to expand
Their ego seems rather fragile, and they seem so much more sensitive than how they portray themselves to be.
I have not lost my temper around him yet, it takes a lot for me to burst. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Cancan26No, not at all. The Ram could be very sweet, affectionate, and attentive when he is not moody. So that up and down, constantly not knowing is what makes it difficult. Otherwise, quite genuine and friendly. 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Cancan26Their ego seems rather fragile, and they seem so much more sensitive than how they portray themselves to be.Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@Cancan26
It makes me not want to be soft at times, and want to say - Take my kindness, you should be pleased I am choosing to invest and be nice to you. If you make it seem like you do not want it. I will be gone.
honestly we lose our temper with each other a LOT ..the only difference is ...5 minutes later he is over it ...
5 years later i still wanna choke him a tiny bit god bless the women that can put up with the aries man ego click to expand
I have not lost my temper around him yet, it takes a lot for me to burst. click to expand
im glad you brought that up ...they definitely can be sensitive surprisingly so and I hope im not coming off too negative ...despite who much my friend can annoy me he can be very sweet and frustrating lmao ...but i assume its cause we are squared signs click to expandclick to expand
Posted by TheLadyScorpiolmao right! me and this particular ram are both moody but never having the same mood at the same timePosted by Cancan26Posted by TheLadyScorpioim glad you brought that up ...they definitely can be sensitive surprisingly so and I hope im not coming off too negative ...despite who much my friend can annoy me he can be very sweet and frustrating lmao ...but i assume its cause we are squared signs click to expandPosted by Cancan26Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@Cancan26
It makes me not want to be soft at times, and want to say - Take my kindness, you should be pleased I am choosing to invest and be nice to you. If you make it seem like you do not want it. I will be gone.
honestly we lose our temper with each other a LOT ..the only difference is ...5 minutes later he is over it ...
5 years later i still wanna choke him a tiny bit god bless the women that can put up with the aries man ego click to expand
Their ego seems rather fragile, and they seem so much more sensitive than how they portray themselves to be.
I have not lost my temper around him yet, it takes a lot for me to burst. click to expand
No, not at all. The Ram could be very sweet, affectionate, and attentive when he is not moody. So that up and down, constantly not knowing is what makes it difficult. Otherwise, quite genuine and friendly. click to expandclick to expand
when im annoyed/emotional/feeling stressed
he wants to be positive/happy/reckless
when he is feeling aggravated/mean/hot tempered ...im trying to be friendly, affectionate and attentive lmao ...one day ...we will get on the same schedule 😆
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingNo, he is straight.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by WolfInRamsClothingWell, he spoke of his love life and past relationships with me. In fact, he spoke of it the very first time in which we met. Though he shared in depth later on. Every relationship of his was spoken of, no details were spared. His last relationship was over six years ago. His SO cheated on him, for quite some time, together with his childhood best friend. He lost both her, and his friend. It caused him enough pain, to leave and move abroad. Since then he have never had a relationship. I asked him if he will ever take her back, he said no because he could never forgive her or him for what they did. The memory of what they caused, that scar will remain. Yes, his ex SO and former friend are still together after all these years. No, I think he is ready to move on and I do not feel he compares me to his ex SO. He seems more worried about his career, goals, and finances more so than that. click to expand
Ok, I will spill out some secrets about us right here.
Your fellow Scorpio sister Teena, and my absolute bestie was very surprised that we have a hard time moving on. We may pretend moving on is not a big deal for us, but... I Don't know your age, but if you re at least over 25, be aware he already met his idol.
It took me 8 stupid years to forget Leo. Taurus was in transition and I would yell at his face, "you are not Leo to tell me this! Leo is the best, got it? No? Then you are stupid!" For right now Scorpio did beat Leo, and it's the same thing, scorp is the best. Probably all this forum knows about it. Scorpio!!!!
Same thing is going on with my Aries guy friends. The one that I already mentioned is forever single because, "she is not you, so I will make her suffer!"
The other Aries guy can't get over my ex aqua bestie. He lives with a Leo, proposed to her, then took the ring away, because aqua is better!!! Here I am with a punch!!! Because Leo is such a beautiful, positive girl. And aqua, she stole from me, ruined my dress because of jealousy, back stabs like crazy. No, aqua is the best for him.
Probably this is one of the features that makes us a bad sign.
There were times I thought Aries is the best sign. But there is something very weird about us. Probably internal anger and strength. We usually Don't attack first. I was always one of the shortest, weakest girls in the class. Shy and quite. My Virgo guy classmate decided to use it once. He took my chair to stand on it. My backpack was on the chair, so he just threw it on the floor and stood up on the chair. Because he thought I'm the quitest girl in the class. Well I threw him off that chair like crazy, was kicking him like crazy, three guys had to hold me back. He cried. That's all Aries. Internal anger and strength.
For right now as I say I did get involved in physical fights with guys, people Don't even believe me. They see me as as the most feminine and sweet thing ever. Something is weird about us.
Is he bisexual ? You mentioned him and her... we always worry about goals and finances. click to expandclick to expand
His ex SO, is a woman. His best friend since childhood, is a man. His ex SO (a female), cheated on him by starting a relationship with his best friend (a male), for months in secret. Before, he found out, and she spilled.
Posted by Cancan26Precisely. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Cancan26No, not at all. The Ram could be very sweet, affectionate, and attentive when he is not moody. So that up and down, constantly not knowing is what makes it difficult. Otherwise, quite genuine and friendly. click to expandPosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Cancan26Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@Cancan26
It makes me not want to be soft at times, and want to say - Take my kindness, you should be pleased I am choosing to invest and be nice to you. If you make it seem like you do not want it. I will be gone.
honestly we lose our temper with each other a LOT ..the only difference is ...5 minutes later he is over it ...
5 years later i still wanna choke him a tiny bit god bless the women that can put up with the aries man ego click to expand
Their ego seems rather fragile, and they seem so much more sensitive than how they portray themselves to be.
I have not lost my temper around him yet, it takes a lot for me to burst. click to expand
im glad you brought that up ...they definitely can be sensitive surprisingly so and I hope im not coming off too negative ...despite who much my friend can annoy me he can be very sweet and frustrating lmao ...but i assume its cause we are squared signs click to expand
lmao right! me and this particular ram are both moody but never having the same mood at the same time
when im annoyed/emotional/feeling stressed
he wants to be positive/happy/reckless
when he is feeling aggravated/mean/hot tempered ...im trying to be friendly, affectionate and attentive lmao ...one day ...we will get on the same schedule click to expandclick to expand
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