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Ladies, are you attracting your Mars or your Jupiter?
How Your Mars and Jupiter Signs Affect Your Attraction
Your Mars and Jupiter placements reveal how you attract others and your personal energetic style. Mars influences your assertiveness and desire, while Jupiter governs optimism and growth. Knowing their signs and houses helps understand your romantic and social patterns and how to enhance your attractiveness.
Both Gemini and no, thankfully I don't attract them 😄
Both Gemini and no, thankfully I don't attract them 😄
Have you ever dated one ?
Virgo and Cancer
no
thank god
I know you’ve been with a Virgo but have you ever dated a cancer ?
What's Jupiter represent again?
Hello, good question i think i attract my jupiter in taurus more than my aquarius mars. More earth signs come my way than air.
Gemini and Leo
And no
Scorpio Jupiter in the 6th house, and Libra Mars also in the 6th house because my 6th house is intercepted.
I attract Libra sun far more than Scorpio sun men romantically, but Scorpio is often somewhere prominent in the charts of men I attract (moon and/or Venus, for example). Libra personal placements are more prominent in my friendships.
Leo mars in the 9th
Sag Jupiter in the 1st
Both but I wouldn't say I attract them always. I've only dealt with 1 person of each sign.
I’m kind of noticing a pattern where a lot of people are just friends with the sign that represents their Jupiter. I’m only had a close connection with two cancers in my life one wouldn’t let go but didn’t want anything from me then later found out he was gay that was a long distance situation and the other one was a long-distance situation Second person to ever give me type thing very young but we couldn’t stay off the phone with each other and I didn’t have that many close connections when I was younger.
Cancer men love me :/ I attract scorpio's always tho so thank goodness for that
Mars in Scorp in 7th
Jupiter in Aqua in 11th
Both would be a no. Never dated Aqua and never attracted them really. Some messing around with 2 of them in past but nothing happened, don't know if they were into me really. One of them however did marry another friend in our group, also Sag lol
As for Scorps I usually recognize them by being extremely annoyed by them and not liking them at all at first. Only to find them irresistable later lol I still think we're better off as friends tho, my best friend is a Scorp.
Really? No aqua or scorp? Who do you like? 😄
Leo Mars in 11th
I’m trying to meet this Leo but both we both have busy schedules and he lives an hour away. So it seems impossible.
Jupiter in Cancer in 10th
And I’ve never been attracted to Cancer men. Just haven’t met any cute ones. The ones I know aren’t my type and are too nice. I’m sure if they were attractive and nice, I wouldn’t mind.
Lol mine are both in sag and both in first house ... Jupiter is sag ruler and mars is Aries ruler aka first house soooooo
Both? 🤷♀️
Not attracted to sag men at all.
But I do love grounded happy go lucky types.
Mars in gemini
jupiter in virgo
I don't get that well with virgoes, I do get well with gemini but haven't dated one, kinda weird.
I do attract the opposite of jupiter: pisces, specially pisces-aquarius sun/mars guys for some reason.
Both in Capricorn and as far as I know I’m not attracting caps.
Lots of aquas tho
Scorpio Jupiter in the 6th house, and Libra Mars also in the 6th house because my 6th house is intercepted.
I attract Libra sun far more than Scorpio sun men romantically, but Scorpio is often somewhere prominent in the charts of men I attract (moon and/or Venus, for example). Libra personal placements are more prominent in my friendships.
Same. I also have Libra mars and Scorpio Jupiter in 6th house. I never attract Scorpio sun men, but Scorpio moon and mars all the time. I attract Libra sun and venus quite a bit and sometimes Libra moon.
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Oh wow, that's interesting!
Do you have both Scorpio and Sag in your 7th house? I do and I've attracted a lot of Sag suns and Sag moons.
Jupiter in Scorpio house 7
Mars in Taurus house 2
I attract Scorpio energy...my last lover was Scorpio dom, all my other partners apart from one, had Scorpio moons
No surprise, I've five planets in Scorpio, four in the 7th and one in the 8th being Mercury, so I communcate well with the Pluto energy
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Oops I forgot to mention what house my Jupiter and Mars are in. Jupiter Taurus is in fifth house and mars in Aquarius is in second house. Despite that I don’t attract much air I have a crush on an Aquarius.
Leo in mars and Jupiter, 11th house. Haven’t met any Leo men.
Leo Jupiter in the 8th
Mars Scorpio in the 12th
Dated/lived with one Leo for 5 years, ended badly. Everyone knows I love my Scorpios...
Jupiter in Scorpio house 7
Mars in Taurus house 2
I attract Scorpio energy...my last lover was Scorpio dom, all my other partners apart from one, had Scorpio moons
No surprise, I've five planets in Scorpio, four in the 7th and one in the 8th being Mercury, so I communcate well with the Pluto energy
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I'm so happy you're back! 🤗
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jupiter in sag and mars in leo. i attract all fire signs 🙈
Both Gemini and no, thankfully I don't attract them 😄
Have you ever dated one ?
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One of my best friend in college years was a gemini woman, who proved not to be trustworthy.
I dated gemini man once for a few months, but he had very pleasant placements, pisces moon/taurus venus
It didn't work because of distance, kind of fizzled out, no hard feelings, neither of us could keep up with it
Nope..
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Jupiter in Libra
Mars in Pisces
Scorpio Jupiter in the 6th house, and Libra Mars also in the 6th house because my 6th house is intercepted.
I attract Libra sun far more than Scorpio sun men romantically, but Scorpio is often somewhere prominent in the charts of men I attract (moon and/or Venus, for example). Libra personal placements are more prominent in my friendships.
Same. I also have Libra mars and Scorpio Jupiter in 6th house. I never attract Scorpio sun men, but Scorpio moon and mars all the time. I attract Libra sun and venus quite a bit and sometimes Libra moon.
Oh wow, that's interesting!
Do you have both Scorpio and Sag in your 7th house? I do and I've attracted a lot of Sag suns and Sag moons.
Yes! LOL. I attract sag moons for friendship, but I attract a lot of Sag suns romantically. Also sag mars.
What has your experience been with Taurus, Cap, and Leo? I find Caps come on really strong sexually but nothing ever comes of it beyond flirting. Leo also come on strong with the flirting. Taurus is a good match, but it rarely ever develops into anything romantic.
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We definitely have some things in common with this! haha, that's so interesting!
Two of my longest term romantic relationships have been with Sag sun men. I'm friends with one of them now, many years after we broke up. He's Sag sun with Cap moon and Virgo rising. We started as friends and could return to that after the breakup, which I'm grateful for.
It hasn't been common for me to attract Cap or Taurus men, but I have two Taurus male friends. I don't know the signs of some of the men who have flirted with me if nothing went past that because I didn't get to know them well enough to find out their birthday. There might be a pattern, but I can't look at it, damn. Maybe I should start asking for people's birthdays as soon as I meet them to start charting this. lol I've attracted some Leos in recent years but didn't in the past, AFAIK.
My first 3 boyfriends were Gem suns, I imagine because of my Gem moon.
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jupiter in sag and mars in leo. i attract all fire signs 🙈
Ooo how has the Jupiter transit been treating you?
Scorpio Jupiter in the 6th house, and Libra Mars also in the 6th house because my 6th house is intercepted.
I attract Libra sun far more than Scorpio sun men romantically, but Scorpio is often somewhere prominent in the charts of men I attract (moon and/or Venus, for example). Libra personal placements are more prominent in my friendships.
Same. I also have Libra mars and Scorpio Jupiter in 6th house. I never attract Scorpio sun men, but Scorpio moon and mars all the time. I attract Libra sun and venus quite a bit and sometimes Libra moon.
Oh wow, that's interesting!
Do you have both Scorpio and Sag in your 7th house? I do and I've attracted a lot of Sag suns and Sag moons.
Yes! LOL. I attract sag moons for friendship, but I attract a lot of Sag suns romantically. Also sag mars.
What has your experience been with Taurus, Cap, and Leo? I find Caps come on really strong sexually but nothing ever comes of it beyond flirting. Leo also come on strong with the flirting. Taurus is a good match, but it rarely ever develops into anything romantic.
We definitely have some things in common with this! haha, that's so interesting!
Two of my longest term romantic relationships have been with Sag sun men. I'm friends with one of them now, many years after we broke up. He's Sag sun with Cap moon and Virgo rising. We started as friends and could return to that after the breakup, which I'm grateful for.
It hasn't been common for me to attract Cap or Taurus men, but I have two Taurus male friends. I don't know the signs of some of the men who have flirted with me if nothing went past that because I didn't get to know them well enough to find out their birthday. There might be a pattern, but I can't look at it, damn. Maybe I should start asking for people's birthdays as soon as I meet them to start charting this. lol I've attracted some Leos in recent years but didn't in the past, AFAIK.
My first 3 boyfriends were Gem suns, I imagine because of my Gem moon.
Maybe we can sit down and compare notes lol.
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lol, yes, for sure!
Mars in Sag 8th house
Jupiter in Aries 12th house
not sure... i like the pretty boys who got their shit together.
Scorpio Jupiter in the 6th house, and Libra Mars also in the 6th house because my 6th house is intercepted.
I attract Libra sun far more than Scorpio sun men romantically, but Scorpio is often somewhere prominent in the charts of men I attract (moon and/or Venus, for example). Libra personal placements are more prominent in my friendships.
Same. I also have Libra mars and Scorpio Jupiter in 6th house. I never attract Scorpio sun men, but Scorpio moon and mars all the time. I attract Libra sun and venus quite a bit and sometimes Libra moon.
Oh wow, that's interesting!
Do you have both Scorpio and Sag in your 7th house? I do and I've attracted a lot of Sag suns and Sag moons.
Do you think everything in 7th house would indicate what we attract? I ask cause I always thought only sign that 7th house starts in would be relevant. I don't see much reflection of my 7th house in love life. Mine expands from Virgo to Scorpio, so all 3 signs are in 7th house but I only found myself with bunch of Virgos, being like a magnet to them my whole life. Libra here and there but nothing big of a deal. However other placements in Scorpio do often happen to be present in people I attract/am attracted to.
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It's a good question that I've wondered about too! I think sometimes what our 7th house shows we attract in one to one partnerships can be seen in house influences rather than exact sign matches. So, for example I don't attract Scorpio sun men for romance, but I've attracted a lot of men with their sun or moon in the 8th house. So, that is Scorpio's house and can lend a Scorpionic quality to anything in that house no matter what sign is in there. So, if this indeed is how it can work, I wonder if you'll find 7th house placements in people you attract and are attracted to, even if they don't have anything in Libra, because the 7th house is Libra's house.
Also, it probably changes to some degree if you have the sun or moon or planets in your 7th house, vs an empty 7th house. I have my Scorpio sun, Sag Mercury and Sag Neptune in my 7th house, for example. Because my style of communication and thought, represented by Mercury, is Sag and it's in the one to one relationship house, it probably means that Sag energy, or a 9th house influence (Sag's house)(, in partners is going to help with mutual understanding, or something that trines or sextiles my Sag placements.
Scorpio Jupiter in the 6th house, and Libra Mars also in the 6th house because my 6th house is intercepted.
I attract Libra sun far more than Scorpio sun men romantically, but Scorpio is often somewhere prominent in the charts of men I attract (moon and/or Venus, for example). Libra personal placements are more prominent in my friendships.
Same. I also have Libra mars and Scorpio Jupiter in 6th house. I never attract Scorpio sun men, but Scorpio moon and mars all the time. I attract Libra sun and venus quite a bit and sometimes Libra moon.
Oh wow, that's interesting!
Do you have both Scorpio and Sag in your 7th house? I do and I've attracted a lot of Sag suns and Sag moons.
Do you think everything in 7th house would indicate what we attract? I ask cause I always thought only sign that 7th house starts in would be relevant. I don't see much reflection of my 7th house in love life. Mine expands from Virgo to Scorpio, so all 3 signs are in 7th house but I only found myself with bunch of Virgos, being like a magnet to them my whole life. Libra here and there but nothing big of a deal. However other placements in Scorpio do often happen to be present in people I attract/am attracted to.
It's a good question that I've wondered about too! I think sometimes what our 7th house shows we attract in one to one partnerships can be seen in house influences rather than exact sign matches. So, for example I don't attract Scorpio sun men for romance, but I've attracted a lot of men with their sun or moon in the 8th house. So, that is Scorpio's house and can lend a Scorpionic quality to anything in that house no matter what sign is in there. So, if this indeed is how it can work, I wonder if you'll find 7th house placements in people you attract and are attracted to, even if they don't have anything in Libra, because the 7th house is Libra's house.
Also, it probably changes to some degree if you have the sun or moon or planets in your 7th house, vs an empty 7th house. I have my Scorpio sun, Sag Mercury and Sag Neptune in my 7th house, for example. Because my style of communication and thought, represented by Mercury, is Sag and it's in the one to one relationship house, it probably means that Sag energy, or a 9th house influence (Sag's house)(, in partners is going to help with mutual understanding, or something that trines or sextiles my Sag placements.
I have only Mars on 7th house in Scorpio. Not sure what would Mars represent in regards to relationship exactly except for the sex part lol from everything I read about descendant and 7th house I just came with a conclusion my bf is my meant to be person lol my descendant is Virgo and he is Virgo Sun. What it says about descendant describing our ideal partner it doesn't get more Virgoish than a Virgo itself lol but he's one Virgo that is Scorpio dominant so I believe I'm more attracted to his scorpio energy than Virho energy itself since there was other Virgos before him but never such strong connection like with him and I feel like what attracted me was a mystery and intrigue that Scorpio brings a lot more than practicality and down to Earth from Virgo. What is also said about descendant being our karmic person I realized this is also quite true as my karmic person was also a Virgo born exact same day as my bf lol so only thing from ny 7th house I can't find anywhere is that Libra energy but maybe cause there's nothing in Libra in my chart it doesn't mean that much anyway...
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haha, yes, Mars isn't usually described beyond sex with relationships when you read about it!
Your partner definitely seems to fit your 7th house with Virgo and Scorpio in his chart, and you having Mars in Scorpio I imagine enhances the attraction with Scorpio. I like Virgo and Scorpio energy as a combo in people.
Wow, yes, your karmic person being born the same day is very interesting! Do you have the birth data for both people to compare charts? Two of my closest childhood friends were Sags with the same birthday. I didn't think they were alike back then, but now I can see they were a lot alike, and what made them seem different was that one was very introverted, the other very extroverted. I only know the rising sign for one of them -- I don't have birth time for the other.
Yes, true, maybe there isn't enough in your chart to support Libra energy being key in your partnerships, unless you see it in your friendships or other one to one relationships. Do you attract, or find yourself attracted to, any Venusian traits at all in partners, like artistic skills for example?
Jupiter in Capricorn in the 3rd house
Mars in Sag in the 3rd house
I’m with a Sagittarius with a Cap Venus?
I attract both! A lot. But I’ve only been with Sagittarius, not Cap men. Cap men seem hard-headed to me and it turns me off.
Aqua mars in the 11th conjunct mercury
Taurus Jupiter in the 1st conjunct Asc. & Lilith
I’d say the number of Virgos and Leo’s I’ve attracted over the years is decisively larger than any other but if I had to pick from the two options named in the OP, than I’d say Mars for sure.
Jupiter in Taurus
Mars in sag
HMPH I wish I was attracting Taurus but all they’ve done is disappoint me so😔
Scorpio Jupiter in the 6th house, and Libra Mars also in the 6th house because my 6th house is intercepted.
I attract Libra sun far more than Scorpio sun men romantically, but Scorpio is often somewhere prominent in the charts of men I attract (moon and/or Venus, for example). Libra personal placements are more prominent in my friendships.
Same. I also have Libra mars and Scorpio Jupiter in 6th house. I never attract Scorpio sun men, but Scorpio moon and mars all the time. I attract Libra sun and venus quite a bit and sometimes Libra moon.
Oh wow, that's interesting!
Do you have both Scorpio and Sag in your 7th house? I do and I've attracted a lot of Sag suns and Sag moons.
Do you think everything in 7th house would indicate what we attract? I ask cause I always thought only sign that 7th house starts in would be relevant. I don't see much reflection of my 7th house in love life. Mine expands from Virgo to Scorpio, so all 3 signs are in 7th house but I only found myself with bunch of Virgos, being like a magnet to them my whole life. Libra here and there but nothing big of a deal. However other placements in Scorpio do often happen to be present in people I attract/am attracted to.
It's a good question that I've wondered about too! I think sometimes what our 7th house shows we attract in one to one partnerships can be seen in house influences rather than exact sign matches. So, for example I don't attract Scorpio sun men for romance, but I've attracted a lot of men with their sun or moon in the 8th house. So, that is Scorpio's house and can lend a Scorpionic quality to anything in that house no matter what sign is in there. So, if this indeed is how it can work, I wonder if you'll find 7th house placements in people you attract and are attracted to, even if they don't have anything in Libra, because the 7th house is Libra's house.
Also, it probably changes to some degree if you have the sun or moon or planets in your 7th house, vs an empty 7th house. I have my Scorpio sun, Sag Mercury and Sag Neptune in my 7th house, for example. Because my style of communication and thought, represented by Mercury, is Sag and it's in the one to one relationship house, it probably means that Sag energy, or a 9th house influence (Sag's house)(, in partners is going to help with mutual understanding, or something that trines or sextiles my Sag placements.
I have only Mars on 7th house in Scorpio. Not sure what would Mars represent in regards to relationship exactly except for the sex part lol from everything I read about descendant and 7th house I just came with a conclusion my bf is my meant to be person lol my descendant is Virgo and he is Virgo Sun. What it says about descendant describing our ideal partner it doesn't get more Virgoish than a Virgo itself lol but he's one Virgo that is Scorpio dominant so I believe I'm more attracted to his scorpio energy than Virho energy itself since there was other Virgos before him but never such strong connection like with him and I feel like what attracted me was a mystery and intrigue that Scorpio brings a lot more than practicality and down to Earth from Virgo. What is also said about descendant being our karmic person I realized this is also quite true as my karmic person was also a Virgo born exact same day as my bf lol so only thing from ny 7th house I can't find anywhere is that Libra energy but maybe cause there's nothing in Libra in my chart it doesn't mean that much anyway...
haha, yes, Mars isn't usually described beyond sex with relationships when you read about it!
Your partner definitely seems to fit your 7th house with Virgo and Scorpio in his chart, and you having Mars in Scorpio I imagine enhances the attraction with Scorpio. I like Virgo and Scorpio energy as a combo in people.
Wow, yes, your karmic person being born the same day is very interesting! Do you have the birth data for both people to compare charts? Two of my closest childhood friends were Sags with the same birthday. I didn't think they were alike back then, but now I can see they were a lot alike, and what made them seem different was that one was very introverted, the other very extroverted. I only know the rising sign for one of them -- I don't have birth time for the other.
Yes, true, maybe there isn't enough in your chart to support Libra energy being key in your partnerships, unless you see it in your friendships or other one to one relationships. Do you attract, or find yourself attracted to, any Venusian traits at all in partners, like artistic skills for example?
Yes thst's an interesting combination in person I think too and the one I quite really like. In general I enjoy people with Scorpio energy as friends or partners, they are usually very smart people that you can learn a lot from but also guarded and don't talk too much yet very fun when you get to know them, which is something I really like in people, basically that's exactly the kind of people I like.
I don't know time of birth of the other guy so house placement and rising remain unknown but since they are born same day, same year and same place they have same planets I guess with difference of houses based on his time of birth. That guy is actually a musician, I fell for him because of that I think lol my bf isn't into any kind of arts tho. Guys I dated never were into any kinds of art but I did have crushes only on some musicians few times. It's often that people born on the same day can be very different like you mentioned, I know even twins who are nothing alike at all which is even more weird lol one is very smart but cold, distant, unsocial...the other one is not quite smart at all but very friendly and social.
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Same with liking that kind of person -- the good things about Scorpio energy. I really like Sag qualities too because there is a sense of adventure and open mindedness usually, plus bluntness that is only a problem if there are bad intentions with what is being said, but usually it's just unfiltered honesty that you can often laugh together about afterward.
Yes, I know Scorpio twins who seem to be very different too, though one thing I notice often with twins is that they will be opposite each other, so it's almost like they are showing the two possible sides of their charts because they want to distinguish themselves maybe. And, from what I understand, in the womb, one twin often gets more nourishment than the other so there can be some developmental differences. Numerologists say that another thing to factor in, when birth charts are pretty much the same with twins (if they weren't born far apart enough to change rising sign) is that what you name them has an impact. Rarely are twins named in ways that give them the exact same numerology.
Okay, cool, so maybe Venusian traits aren't really much of a draw for you, except in a few cases. You skip the Libra in your 7th house, you could say. It's sometimes said that a sign in that position -- between two others in a house -- make it hidden and that it needs to manifest somehow. But, who knows!
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jupiter in sag and mars in leo. i attract all fire signs 🙈
Ooo how has the Jupiter transit been treating you?
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lol i didn’t even know i was having a jupiter return. it’s in my 6th house. idk how to interpret it? i’m alive, healthy, in tune with my body? a couple of years ago i had depression, cysts - had to have surgery. so there’s that 🙂
are u having a return too?
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jupiter in sag and mars in leo. i attract all fire signs 🙈
Ooo how has the Jupiter transit been treating you?
lol i didn’t even know i was having a jupiter return. it’s in my 6th house. idk how to interpret it? i’m alive, healthy, in tune with my body? a couple of years ago i had depression, cysts - had to have surgery. so there’s that 🙂
are u having a return too?
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No I just find Jupiter transits interesting but it is conjunct my Venus. My Jupiter is in cancer so it will take a while to get to me 🙂. That’s good you feel healthy though. Jupiter expands and brings look so whenever it’s in a maleficent house it might not bring benefit but it might protect.
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jupiter in sag and mars in leo. i attract all fire signs 🙈
Ooo how has the Jupiter transit been treating you?
lol i didn’t even know i was having a jupiter return. it’s in my 6th house. idk how to interpret it? i’m alive, healthy, in tune with my body? a couple of years ago i had depression, cysts - had to have surgery. so there’s that 🙂
are u having a return too?
No I just find Jupiter transits interesting but it is conjunct my Venus. My Jupiter is in cancer so it will take a while to get to me 🙂. That’s good you feel healthy though. Jupiter expands and brings look so whenever it’s in a maleficent house it might not bring benefit but it might protect.
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is 6th house supposed to be maleficient?
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jupiter in sag and mars in leo. i attract all fire signs 🙈
Ooo how has the Jupiter transit been treating you?
lol i didn’t even know i was having a jupiter return. it’s in my 6th house. idk how to interpret it? i’m alive, healthy, in tune with my body? a couple of years ago i had depression, cysts - had to have surgery. so there’s that 🙂
are u having a return too?
No I just find Jupiter transits interesting but it is conjunct my Venus. My Jupiter is in cancer so it will take a while to get to me 🙂. That’s good you feel healthy though. Jupiter expands and brings look so whenever it’s in a maleficent house it might not bring benefit but it might protect.
is 6th house supposed to be maleficient?
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Technically yes because it is the house of open enemies but it’s not all bad.
If you study Vedic as well here is an interesting video on Jupiter.
Scorpio Jupiter in the 6th house, and Libra Mars also in the 6th house because my 6th house is intercepted.
I attract Libra sun far more than Scorpio sun men romantically, but Scorpio is often somewhere prominent in the charts of men I attract (moon and/or Venus, for example). Libra personal placements are more prominent in my friendships.
Same. I also have Libra mars and Scorpio Jupiter in 6th house. I never attract Scorpio sun men, but Scorpio moon and mars all the time. I attract Libra sun and venus quite a bit and sometimes Libra moon.
Oh wow, that's interesting!
Do you have both Scorpio and Sag in your 7th house? I do and I've attracted a lot of Sag suns and Sag moons.
Do you think everything in 7th house would indicate what we attract? I ask cause I always thought only sign that 7th house starts in would be relevant. I don't see much reflection of my 7th house in love life. Mine expands from Virgo to Scorpio, so all 3 signs are in 7th house but I only found myself with bunch of Virgos, being like a magnet to them my whole life. Libra here and there but nothing big of a deal. However other placements in Scorpio do often happen to be present in people I attract/am attracted to.
It's a good question that I've wondered about too! I think sometimes what our 7th house shows we attract in one to one partnerships can be seen in house influences rather than exact sign matches. So, for example I don't attract Scorpio sun men for romance, but I've attracted a lot of men with their sun or moon in the 8th house. So, that is Scorpio's house and can lend a Scorpionic quality to anything in that house no matter what sign is in there. So, if this indeed is how it can work, I wonder if you'll find 7th house placements in people you attract and are attracted to, even if they don't have anything in Libra, because the 7th house is Libra's house.
Also, it probably changes to some degree if you have the sun or moon or planets in your 7th house, vs an empty 7th house. I have my Scorpio sun, Sag Mercury and Sag Neptune in my 7th house, for example. Because my style of communication and thought, represented by Mercury, is Sag and it's in the one to one relationship house, it probably means that Sag energy, or a 9th house influence (Sag's house)(, in partners is going to help with mutual understanding, or something that trines or sextiles my Sag placements.
I have only Mars on 7th house in Scorpio. Not sure what would Mars represent in regards to relationship exactly except for the sex part lol from everything I read about descendant and 7th house I just came with a conclusion my bf is my meant to be person lol my descendant is Virgo and he is Virgo Sun. What it says about descendant describing our ideal partner it doesn't get more Virgoish than a Virgo itself lol but he's one Virgo that is Scorpio dominant so I believe I'm more attracted to his scorpio energy than Virho energy itself since there was other Virgos before him but never such strong connection like with him and I feel like what attracted me was a mystery and intrigue that Scorpio brings a lot more than practicality and down to Earth from Virgo. What is also said about descendant being our karmic person I realized this is also quite true as my karmic person was also a Virgo born exact same day as my bf lol so only thing from ny 7th house I can't find anywhere is that Libra energy but maybe cause there's nothing in Libra in my chart it doesn't mean that much anyway...
haha, yes, Mars isn't usually described beyond sex with relationships when you read about it!
Your partner definitely seems to fit your 7th house with Virgo and Scorpio in his chart, and you having Mars in Scorpio I imagine enhances the attraction with Scorpio. I like Virgo and Scorpio energy as a combo in people.
Wow, yes, your karmic person being born the same day is very interesting! Do you have the birth data for both people to compare charts? Two of my closest childhood friends were Sags with the same birthday. I didn't think they were alike back then, but now I can see they were a lot alike, and what made them seem different was that one was very introverted, the other very extroverted. I only know the rising sign for one of them -- I don't have birth time for the other.
Yes, true, maybe there isn't enough in your chart to support Libra energy being key in your partnerships, unless you see it in your friendships or other one to one relationships. Do you attract, or find yourself attracted to, any Venusian traits at all in partners, like artistic skills for example?
Yes thst's an interesting combination in person I think too and the one I quite really like. In general I enjoy people with Scorpio energy as friends or partners, they are usually very smart people that you can learn a lot from but also guarded and don't talk too much yet very fun when you get to know them, which is something I really like in people, basically that's exactly the kind of people I like.
I don't know time of birth of the other guy so house placement and rising remain unknown but since they are born same day, same year and same place they have same planets I guess with difference of houses based on his time of birth. That guy is actually a musician, I fell for him because of that I think lol my bf isn't into any kind of arts tho. Guys I dated never were into any kinds of art but I did have crushes only on some musicians few times. It's often that people born on the same day can be very different like you mentioned, I know even twins who are nothing alike at all which is even more weird lol one is very smart but cold, distant, unsocial...the other one is not quite smart at all but very friendly and social.
Same with liking that kind of person -- the good things about Scorpio energy. I really like Sag qualities too because there is a sense of adventure and open mindedness usually, plus bluntness that is only a problem if there are bad intentions with what is being said, but usually it's just unfiltered honesty that you can often laugh together about afterward.
Yes, I know Scorpio twins who seem to be very different too, though one thing I notice often with twins is that they will be opposite each other, so it's almost like they are showing the two possible sides of their charts because they want to distinguish themselves maybe. And, from what I understand, in the womb, one twin often gets more nourishment than the other so there can be some developmental differences. Numerologists say that another thing to factor in, when birth charts are pretty much the same with twins (if they weren't born far apart enough to change rising sign) is that what you name them has an impact. Rarely are twins named in ways that give them the exact same numerology.
Okay, cool, so maybe Venusian traits aren't really much of a draw for you, except in a few cases. You skip the Libra in your 7th house, you could say. It's sometimes said that a sign in that position -- between two others in a house -- make it hidden and that it needs to manifest somehow. But, who knows!
That's an interesting point about twins and quite accurate too now that I look at it, all the twins I know are pretty much like that. They are never the same and most likely the opposite of one another. If one is introverted the other is extroverted etc. And I knew them in few signs but same applies to all, even the identical twins happened to be quite different personality wise.
As for venusian traits I would say only beauty ia what attracts me in men, I tend to like feminine beauty in men, that's why I often see Gemini men as very beautiful and really like them appearance wise but at the same time I never end up dating men like that and often ones I date are complete opposite of what I like when it comes to physical features. I can safely say I never dated a single man I liked first and all the men I did date I ended up liking after they courted me first for some time😂 but Taurus is also Venusian right? I did often end up liking Turus men tho lol
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I've noticed it in both identical and fraternal twins too!
Interesting how what you find yourself attracted to isn't what you end up dating! Whatever works best wins, I say, so that's good. Yes, Taurus is Venusian, so that could count. Different expression of beauty than Libra, one could say, but still in Venus' realm.
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Where is your Jupiter and Mars?
What sign are they in?
I have Jupiter in Cancer it is in the 11th House. My Mars in Libra is in the 3rd house.