raad182
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I know...Raad one more time....relationships and etc but now the problem isn't my scorpio moon
Posted by Ravishing3rd close to the IC
What house is her Venus in?
Posted by RavishingI don't see that much of energy...its pretty weak being sincere maybe her Taurus sun calm things down. She is a co-worker so would be pretty harsh for me to move on and keep seeing her everyday :/Posted by raad182Posted by Ravishing3rd close to the IC
What house is her Venus in?
Yikes. That doesn't help calm down that Aries Venus energy at all.
Mars in Leo/Aries Venus combination is very fiery and I don't think there's anything you can do to combat that. If you're not getting what you want out of the relationship and it really, really bothers you then you may have to move on.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaaYeah and she is very passive about it, once she said to me I will never ask for a man to stay, if you him want to leave just leave. She has Neptune and Uranus in the 1st house so she is quite unreliable and " accept " the life changes passively
Have you talked to her about this?
Posted by raad182She sounds selfish, unbending, uncompromising. All of which are bad traits to even begin and try to embrace a happy relationship. Is she young?Posted by KoniuchaaYeah and she is very passive about it, once she said to me I will never ask for a man to stay, if you him want to leave just leave. She has Neptune and Uranus in the 1st house so she is quite unreliable and " accept " the life changes passively
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Posted by aquarius_manShe knows the basics about astrology (sun signs) and I have explained about our synastry and why we feel so good about each other.
do u honestly talk to her about things like synastry and shit? and explain her behavior through placements? some girls have balls, that's your answer
What do you mean by " some girls have balls " ?
Posted by LibraLovesHimYeah, she has these bad traits not so young (22) 4 years younger than mePosted by raad182She sounds selfish, unbending, uncompromising. All of which are bad traits to even begin and try to embrace a happy relationship. Is she young?Posted by KoniuchaaYeah and she is very passive about it, once she said to me I will never ask for a man to stay, if you him want to leave just leave. She has Neptune and Uranus in the 1st house so she is quite unreliable and " accept " the life changes passively
Have you talked to her about this?click to expand
lessons learnt. do not watch 300 again with her.
Posted by aquarius_manWell, we have different opinions here, I really believe in Astrology and if you believe in Sun and ASC you should study a little bit more and you will be amazed.Posted by raad182you feel good because the charts say so? not the chemicals in your brains? 😄Posted by aquarius_manShe knows the basics about astrology (sun signs) and I have explained about our synastry and why we feel so good about each other.
do u honestly talk to her about things like synastry and shit? and explain her behavior through placements? some girls have balls, that's your answer
What do you mean by " some girls have balls " ?
what i mean by girls have balls = i know strong independent women who arent shy of checking other men in the street and even voicing their opinions. they can do without a man, they strong and a sense of self worth. I dont think its got to do with the signs alone (although the girls Im talking about were mostly fire signs, Ill admit) but with their personality, status, looks & life experience.
but then again, i dont believe in charts. just in sun sign & ascendant.
and maaaybe moon
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We liked each other even before knowing our synastry chart but I don't see a girl having balls as a good thing...Checking other man is OK for you? Not for me, not in my presence but I have a romantical view of relationships that doesnt help
Posted by AerialViewLOL, Always waiting for my threads to throw a joke but never a truly opinion
lessons learnt. do not watch 300 again with her.
Posted by aquarius_manI've never answered anything in that thread.Posted by raad182😄 oh well, that may be but i have a very strong memory and this is not how you answered in the 'date the sign or the person' thread. quite the opposite.
Well, we have different opinions here, I really believe in Astrology and if you believe in Sun and ASC you should study a little bit more and you will be amazed.
We liked each other even before knowing our synastry chart but I don't see a girl having balls as a good thing...Checking other man is OK for you? Not for me, not in my presence but I have a romantical view of relationships that doesnt help
astrology aside, we look at other girls. Girls check other guys. It's human nature.
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ITs not a matter of checking other people, its a matter of doing so in the presence of your partner, its about respect.
Posted by KoniuchaaShe is quite secretive so at the beginning she didnt provide too much information and I liked that (Scorpio moon) but then I started to pay more attention to her acts, her friends, her mindset...
Well was she like this before you started dating?
Perhaps you secretly like this
Posted by DistilledThe point is when I act like this she starts to say that Im trying to control her, that Im treating her bad and etcPosted by Koniuchaa
Well was she like this before you started dating?
Perhaps you secretly like this
He's aware she wants to be put in her place- I say do it.
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So she plays with the both sides of the coin, Always on her favor.
I read that woman with Scorpio Moon and Mars in the 8th house likes to manipulate and control their men
Posted by KoniuchaaWas worse than that, its a no brainerPosted by raad182That didn’t answer my question. When she behaving this way before you started dating?Posted by KoniuchaaShe is quite secretive so at the beginning she didnt provide too much information and I liked that (Scorpio moon) but then I started to pay more attention to her acts, her friends, her mindset...
Well was she like this before you started dating?
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If she does that with me...how would that be without me...
Posted by KoniuchaaBecause she has qualities too as like any other humanPosted by raad182Um ok. So why are you dating her?Posted by DistilledThe point is when I act like this she starts to say that Im trying to control her, that Im treating her bad and etcPosted by Koniuchaa
Well was she like this before you started dating?
Perhaps you secretly like this
He's aware she wants to be put in her place- I say do it.
So she plays with the both sides of the coin, Always on her favor.
I read that woman with Scorpio Moon and Mars in the 8th house likes to manipulate and control their menclick to expand
I'm not convince you are seeing the real person here. Of course you see her behavior but she is young and may not really know herself as much as she thinks or portrays herself. Did you say she's Taurus sun with Aries Venus and Mercury ?
Posted by DistilledYeah. we have a moon conjunction (her in the 10th and mine in the 6th)Posted by raad182Do you not have a Scorpio Moon yourself?Posted by DistilledThe point is when I act like this she starts to say that Im trying to control her, that Im treating her bad and etcPosted by Koniuchaa
Well was she like this before you started dating?
Perhaps you secretly like this
He's aware she wants to be put in her place- I say do it.
So she plays with the both sides of the coin, Always on her favor.
I read that woman with Scorpio Moon and Mars in the 8th house likes to manipulate and control their men
I wonder if you two have similar energies in general.
Also lets remember that Venus Aries is detriment- she may herself be at a loss as how to properly feel secure in this relationship, and shows it in... Detrimental ways such as flirting with men so openly in front of you. It could be a test of how much you're willing to put up with or because you've put up with it in the past, she sees no harm in it.
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So what you are saying is that she doesn't know how to love because Venus is in detriment? How should I work with that? Put limits?
Her Venus square Uranus and Neptune, everytime I tried to put limits on her actions she got angry AF
Posted by tctaoHer placements
I'm not convince you are seeing the real person here. Of course you see her behavior but she is young and may not really know herself as much as she thinks or portrays herself. Did you say she's Taurus sun with Aries Venus and Mercury ?
Sun - Taurus 4th
Venus - Aries 3rd
Mercury - Gemini 6th
Mars - Leo 8th
Ascendant - Capricorn (Uranus and Neptune 1st house)
She seems quite mature for me, she is the one that her friends look for when they have relationship problems
Dude its 22yo disrespectful trash that will like brash men until she finds one that will slap her around on the reg.
Just go away....she needs to grow up and see that what you offer and desire in the form of your taurus Venus qualities can come from a real man too.
Just go away....she needs to grow up and see that what you offer and desire in the form of your taurus Venus qualities can come from a real man too.
Posted by Mr_PinchyNo need to call her thrash dude, she is lovely but have this relationship problems, she is going to psychotherapy btw...So I can see that she is putting the effort, this is why Im still with her.
Dude its 22yo disrespectful trash that will like brash men until she finds one that will slap her around on the reg.
Just go away....she needs to grow up and see that what you offer and desire in the form of your taurus Venus qualities can come from a real man too.
She has Taurus Sun, so she shines my venus qualities
Posted by raad182I am Venus in Aries and I am nothing like you describe 😳
Hey guys, Im dating a Venus in Aries woman even being an Aries Sun myself, Im starting to get tired of the constant need for stimulation. She doesn't provide too much love, affection, care or even sex but expect to be treated like a royalty (Mars in Leo). I've been searching in the internet and these seems to be traits of Venus in Aries, sometimes she acts like a man, checking dudes on the streets, trying to take the lead, trying to make me submissive and once we were watching the movie 300 and she said that men these days behave like pussies and she dislike that.
I did perceive that everytime I get angry about something she likes my action and even provoke me, she loves when I act like a jock and put her " on her place". The point is I have a Taurus Venus and want stability, caring, love and affection, someone who will be with me at my lowest if needed but being an Aries Sun/Mercury Im afraid that these same traits are the ones that keep me interested in her.
I read that a woman wants a man who looks like her father what in Astrology would be the Mars placement and this makes sense to me but again she said that she used to have a love/hate relationship with her father but everytime we do start a fight she says that she doesn't want a relationship like that and etc.
Is she playing with me? Should I take it easy and flirt around with other girls? Or should I just break up?
Any help, tip or advice? I don't want to break up with her because I really like her but this behavior is killing me, Im even having nightmares about her acts (seriously).
She sounds like a piece of work. Difficult woman.
Anyway, it seems like you need some one that makes you happy and she is definitely is not.
Posted by raad182Okay have fun then.Posted by Mr_PinchyNo need to call her thrash dude, she is lovely but have this relationship problems, she is going to psychotherapy btw...So I can see that she is putting the effort, this is why Im still with her.
Dude its 22yo disrespectful trash that will like brash men until she finds one that will slap her around on the reg.
Just go away....she needs to grow up and see that what you offer and desire in the form of your taurus Venus qualities can come from a real man too.
She has Taurus Sun, so she shines my venus qualitiesclick to expand
Just remember what i said when you have to put her down for the 753rd time whilst your ballsack swells from the lack of sex and you have an aneurysm from treating her a princess that she isnt.
Posted by pisceswoman123What traits would you attribute to a Vênus in Aries?Posted by raad182I am Venus in Aries and I am nothing like you describe 😳
Hey guys, Im dating a Venus in Aries woman even being an Aries Sun myself, Im starting to get tired of the constant need for stimulation. She doesn't provide too much love, affection, care or even sex but expect to be treated like a royalty (Mars in Leo). I've been searching in the internet and these seems to be traits of Venus in Aries, sometimes she acts like a man, checking dudes on the streets, trying to take the lead, trying to make me submissive and once we were watching the movie 300 and she said that men these days behave like pussies and she dislike that.
I did perceive that everytime I get angry about something she likes my action and even provoke me, she loves when I act like a jock and put her " on her place". The point is I have a Taurus Venus and want stability, caring, love and affection, someone who will be with me at my lowest if needed but being an Aries Sun/Mercury Im afraid that these same traits are the ones that keep me interested in her.
I read that a woman wants a man who looks like her father what in Astrology would be the Mars placement and this makes sense to me but again she said that she used to have a love/hate relationship with her father but everytime we do start a fight she says that she doesn't want a relationship like that and etc.
Is she playing with me? Should I take it easy and flirt around with other girls? Or should I just break up?
Any help, tip or advice? I don't want to break up with her because I really like her but this behavior is killing me, Im even having nightmares about her acts (seriously).
She sounds like a piece of work. Difficult woman.
Anyway, it seems like you need some one that makes you happy and she is definitely is not.click to expand
Posted by Mr_Pinchyyou're harsh dude, she would like youPosted by raad182Okay have fun then.Posted by Mr_PinchyNo need to call her thrash dude, she is lovely but have this relationship problems, she is going to psychotherapy btw...So I can see that she is putting the effort, this is why Im still with her.
Dude its 22yo disrespectful trash that will like brash men until she finds one that will slap her around on the reg.
Just go away....she needs to grow up and see that what you offer and desire in the form of your taurus Venus qualities can come from a real man too.
She has Taurus Sun, so she shines my venus qualities
Just remember what i said when you have to put her down for the 753rd time whilst your ballsack swells from the lack of sex and you have an aneurysm from treating her a princess that she isnt.
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Posted by DistilledHer Neptune is in the 1st house, Pisces falls in the mid of the 2nd to the mid of the 3rd house.Posted by raad182I'm not saying that at all- detriment Venus both Aries and Scorpio- love "too much", that's why it's in detriment- not everyone can realistically return/fulfill that, that's why these individuals struggle with so called love, as they have to teach themselves control/boundaries, as to not project into the other person.Posted by DistilledYeah. we have a moon conjunction (her in the 10th and mine in the 6th)Posted by raad182Do you not have a Scorpio Moon yourself?Posted by DistilledThe point is when I act like this she starts to say that Im trying to control her, that Im treating her bad and etcPosted by Koniuchaa
Well was she like this before you started dating?
Perhaps you secretly like this
He's aware she wants to be put in her place- I say do it.
So she plays with the both sides of the coin, Always on her favor.
I read that woman with Scorpio Moon and Mars in the 8th house likes to manipulate and control their men
I wonder if you two have similar energies in general.
Also lets remember that Venus Aries is detriment- she may herself be at a loss as how to properly feel secure in this relationship, and shows it in... Detrimental ways such as flirting with men so openly in front of you. It could be a test of how much you're willing to put up with or because you've put up with it in the past, she sees no harm in it.
So what you are saying is that she doesn't know how to love because Venus is in detriment? How should I work with that? Put limits?
Her Venus square Uranus and Neptune, everytime I tried to put limits on her actions she got angry AF
Your moon conjunctions mean she does fulfill you internally, but it doesn't seem that you always have the external appreciation.
With her personal Neptune-Venus square she may not see herself and the relationship with a rose colored tint- you may have to show her, through your own actions- ways to benefit both of you in this partnership (she may also want that- a partnership, but may need you to lead and follow through.. If you want that).
But, if she is not a Pisces Sun or strong Pisces placements, the Neptune square may not be as harsh as it seems.
What do you want? Ask yourself and then show her, maybe?
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She has a self defeating atitude, everytime I try to say what I want or don't want she put herself down saying things like " Im not that good, you desserve someone better than me " at the start I thought she was trying to push me with these statements but now Im starting to believe that she has a this self deceptive atitude maybe this is how the Venus square Neptune manifests in her life. Venus in the 3rd house brings the duality so one day she is caring and lovely, the other I get a vibe that she is thinking about break up and so on. She has a Mars square Pluto too what can her easily angry or suspicious about my attitudes.
Its really hard to deal but I like her...This is the first time Im experiencing a Moon conjunction and It feels good, I don't want to miss this
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
Posted by raad182I've spent 9 years with two venus in aries and I can understand the challenge thing. I don't recognize most of what you wrote in them, but the need for challenge was there with both. The two complaint that I was too "plain", that I never question their love and so on. (I'm cancer sun, leo venus and cap mars btw).Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedomclick to expand
Posted by carrazedaSo what would be some traits that you relate to venus in aries?Posted by raad182I've spent 9 years with two venus in aries and I can understand the challenge thing. I don't recognize most of what you wrote in them, but the need for challenge was there with both. The two complaint that I was too "plain", that I never question their love and so on. (I'm cancer sun, leo venus and cap mars btw).Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedomclick to expand
help this buddy
Posted by edgelordIm a Aries sun (Mars 1st house) the problem isn't that I act like a pussy, is that I come too Strong on her and she cant hold the pressure when I stand for myself so I play it nice.
you sound like a huge pussy in general. as a venus in aries woman myself i wouldn't begin to know how to help you. she tries to challenge you and you whine instead of rising to the occasion. it's just all very strange.
How should I act then? For example, In this case that she accepted the dude request on Facebook? Provide some advice
Posted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedomclick to expand
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
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Posted by raad182Sigh.Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
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I see you still have control issues.
Are you saying that because she's with you she can't have male friends?
Are you saying that because she's with you she can't have male friends?
Posted by raad182I think you are right. You are not man enough for her.Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
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You are both young and want to control.
I need my man to be completely secure of what we have so he wouldn't feel intimidated about me having male friends.
Posted by Capmercury87Im starting to think so...its draining for me
I got exhausted just reading about her.
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She sounds like a brat and I would leave.
Ante nobody got time for dat.
I just want to have a calm week feeling secure and loved, she cant provide this but I need to think carefully before making a decision
Posted by Ram416No, actually im pretty ok about it
I see you still have control issues.
Are you saying that because she's with you she can't have male friends?
My point is that she doesnt seem to care about me
Posted by pisceswoman123Agreed...I want my GF to be feminine not a tomboyPosted by raad182I think you are right. You are not man enough for her.Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
You are both young and want to control.
I need my man to be completely secure of what we have so he wouldn't feel intimidated about me having male friends.click to expand
Posted by Capmercury87Im starting to feel numb...its like that in order to have a happy relationship with her I should turn off my feelings and be ready to servicePosted by raad182Posted by Capmercury87Im starting to think so...its draining for me
I got exhausted just reading about her.
😴😴
She sounds like a brat and I would leave.
Ante nobody got time for dat.
I just want to have a calm week feeling secure and loved, she cant provide this but I need to think carefully before making a decision
Realistically if you stay her behavior won't change, it will wear you down. You have a water moon and earth venus like me so you won't give up easy, how ever if you wait long enough your heart will numb and you will feel empty to the touch.
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Posted by raad182I am super feminine. More than any of my girls friends. So that has nothing to do with it.Posted by pisceswoman123Agreed...I want my GF to be feminine not a tomboyPosted by raad182I think you are right. You are not man enough for her.Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
You are both young and want to control.
I need my man to be completely secure of what we have so he wouldn't feel intimidated about me having male friends.click to expand
I am happy with male energy. More dinamic? I found conversation much more fun?
But my man feels proud of me because of it, not intimidated.
Posted by pisceswoman123Good for him, thats not my definition of femininity...Taurus/Câncer/Pisces energy is feminine IMO just to illustratePosted by raad182I am super feminine. More than any of my girls friends. So that has nothing to do with it.Posted by pisceswoman123Agreed...I want my GF to be feminine not a tomboyPosted by raad182I think you are right. You are not man enough for her.Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
You are both young and want to control.
I need my man to be completely secure of what we have so he wouldn't feel intimidated about me having male friends.
I am happy with male energy. More dinamic? I found conversation much more fun?
But my man feels proud of me because of it, not intimidated.
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Posted by Capmercury87Im tired of trying...seriously, everytime there is a problemPosted by raad182Posted by Capmercury87Im starting to feel numb...its like that in order to have a happy relationship with her I should turn off my feelings and be ready to servicePosted by raad182Posted by Capmercury87Im starting to think so...its draining for me
I got exhausted just reading about her.
😴😴
She sounds like a brat and I would leave.
Ante nobody got time for dat.
I just want to have a calm week feeling secure and loved, she cant provide this but I need to think carefully before making a decision
Realistically if you stay her behavior won't change, it will wear you down. You have a water moon and earth venus like me so you won't give up easy, how ever if you wait long enough your heart will numb and you will feel empty to the touch.
That's not happiness.
You deserve better and we all know it
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Im starting to get the Venus in the 12th house placement
Posted by raad182ahaha i'm sorry raad. you know me can't be too serious.Posted by AerialViewLOL, Always waiting for my threads to throw a joke but never a truly opinion
lessons learnt. do not watch 300 again with her.click to expand
my opinion is you should man up. maybe she wanted you to be mad or at least scold her every time she do all those things you said. put her back in her place. you're the man lol.
Posted by raad182Maybe that is why I am very feminine. I am a Pisces after all with a Taurus moon.Posted by pisceswoman123Good for him, thats not my definition of femininity...Taurus/Câncer/Pisces energy is feminine IMO just to illustratePosted by raad182I am super feminine. More than any of my girls friends. So that has nothing to do with it.Posted by pisceswoman123Agreed...I want my GF to be feminine not a tomboyPosted by raad182I think you are right. You are not man enough for her.Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
You are both young and want to control.
I need my man to be completely secure of what we have so he wouldn't feel intimidated about me having male friends.
I am happy with male energy. More dinamic? I found conversation much more fun?
But my man feels proud of me because of it, not intimidated.
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I am a woman, woman. I know what I want and I need a stong man that doesn't control me.
What can I say... I think you want some one different. I don't think she will make you happy.
Posted by AerialViewGrowing up sucks!Posted by raad182ahaha i'm sorry raad. you know me can't be too serious.Posted by AerialViewLOL, Always waiting for my threads to throw a joke but never a truly opinion
lessons learnt. do not watch 300 again with her.
my opinion is you should man up. maybe she wanted you to be mad or at least scold her every time she do all those things you said. put her back in her place. you're the man lol.click to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123well, so you're feminine then...Posted by raad182Maybe that is why I am very feminine. I am a Pisces after all with a Taurus moon.Posted by pisceswoman123Good for him, thats not my definition of femininity...Taurus/Câncer/Pisces energy is feminine IMO just to illustratePosted by raad182I am super feminine. More than any of my girls friends. So that has nothing to do with it.Posted by pisceswoman123Agreed...I want my GF to be feminine not a tomboyPosted by raad182I think you are right. You are not man enough for her.Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
You are both young and want to control.
I need my man to be completely secure of what we have so he wouldn't feel intimidated about me having male friends.
I am happy with male energy. More dinamic? I found conversation much more fun?
But my man feels proud of me because of it, not intimidated.
I am a woman, woman. I know what I want and I need a stong man that doesn't control me.
What can I say... I think you want some one different. I don't think she will make you happy.
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I just don't like the idea of my gf hanging around with a bunch of horny dogs...I want her to go shopping with her female friends, go to the beauty center, cook, take care of her pets and etc...
Posted by raad182i hear ya lolPosted by AerialViewGrowing up sucks!Posted by raad182ahaha i'm sorry raad. you know me can't be too serious.Posted by AerialViewLOL, Always waiting for my threads to throw a joke but never a truly opinion
lessons learnt. do not watch 300 again with her.
my opinion is you should man up. maybe she wanted you to be mad or at least scold her every time she do all those things you said. put her back in her place. you're the man lol.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewWhat can I say? I give up. LolPosted by raad182i hear ya lolPosted by AerialViewGrowing up sucks!Posted by raad182ahaha i'm sorry raad. you know me can't be too serious.Posted by AerialViewLOL, Always waiting for my threads to throw a joke but never a truly opinion
lessons learnt. do not watch 300 again with her.
my opinion is you should man up. maybe she wanted you to be mad or at least scold her every time she do all those things you said. put her back in her place. you're the man lol.click to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123Thanks for your inputs btw but you didn't say how do you expect a man to dominate you, clarify pleasePosted by AerialViewWhat can I say? I give up. LolPosted by raad182i hear ya lolPosted by AerialViewGrowing up sucks!Posted by raad182ahaha i'm sorry raad. you know me can't be too serious.Posted by AerialViewLOL, Always waiting for my threads to throw a joke but never a truly opinion
lessons learnt. do not watch 300 again with her.
my opinion is you should man up. maybe she wanted you to be mad or at least scold her every time she do all those things you said. put her back in her place. you're the man lol.click to expand
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