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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXhm
Everyone loves me equally.

Posted by Teenaso basically all types of virgos then?
Virgos with/without any Air or Sag bits. I'd love them back too. Also any Sag or Air placements in general.

Posted by AdmiralCrabbyPattersonobsession is not love though.
I honestly don't believe in deep love rn. The period of obsession I had with that one girl kinda ruined it for me. I feel like I can show love but it would just be superficial. Like what's the difference between the two?
Posted by Chuckcemoh I hope you find someone that will love you very deeply.
Preeeetty sure if I knew that, I wouldn't be single right now. My first four placements are in different elements and my dating history is all over the board.
If I had to guess it probably be a Libra with earth and fire placements. I also get along well with Cancers, Scorpios, and Virgo consistently. I'll probably refrain from dealing with any more Scorpios though (love them, just.....no). A person with a Libra Venus and Cap Mars (just like mine) would probably also mesh well since there'd be a core understanding, almost subtle magnetism between us.

Posted by lisabethur8Aww.. that's sad about your first ex. Sorry about that. But you're at a nice place now..So That's cool ?Posted by Teenaso basically all types of virgos then?
Virgos with/without any Air or Sag bits. I'd love them back too. Also any Sag or Air placements in general.
my husband loves me to hell and back and he has sag but NO air though.
I can feel his love very deeply and our relationship is not difficult.
also, my last ex had sag too, and he loved me deeply, but we just had too different ideas of love style s.
I never felt deep love for my first ex, but I have learned through pain and suffering he never loved me deeply. it was only one way.
but he never loved anyone deeply after me, and he remarried too.
so, its weird, some men never find anyone to love deeply. due to their addictions maybe and childhood?
he didn't have any sag, and the 2nd one didn't have any sag either.
I don't think he's capable of loving anyone deeply.
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oh I meant, I felt deep love for my 1st ex but he NEVER felt deep love for me, nor do I think he loves anyone deeply. (because I cried a lot for him and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life but sadly that never happened)click to expand
Posted by Teenathanks! I hope you find deep love too!Posted by lisabethur8Aww.. that's sad about your first ex. Sorry about that. But you're at a nice place now..So That's cool ?Posted by Teenaso basically all types of virgos then?
Virgos with/without any Air or Sag bits. I'd love them back too. Also any Sag or Air placements in general.
my husband loves me to hell and back and he has sag but NO air though.
I can feel his love very deeply and our relationship is not difficult.
also, my last ex had sag too, and he loved me deeply, but we just had too different ideas of love style s.
I never felt deep love for my first ex, but I have learned through pain and suffering he never loved me deeply. it was only one way.
but he never loved anyone deeply after me, and he remarried too.
so, its weird, some men never find anyone to love deeply. due to their addictions maybe and childhood?
he didn't have any sag, and the 2nd one didn't have any sag either.
I don't think he's capable of loving anyone deeply.
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oh I meant, I felt deep love for my 1st ex but he NEVER felt deep love for me, nor do I think he loves anyone deeply. (because I cried a lot for him and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life but sadly that never happened)
I love virgos..a lot. Didn't come across anyone more loyal. But I feel no attraction to them for whatever reason. I love them but not attracted to them if that makes sense.But it's always been both from their side(same with Cancer n leo men).
I get attracted to Geminis the most.. Also Sags n Tauruses. I've observed that sag men are quite different from the women. They can make someone's heart skip a beat.
And yes, I do believe some people aren't capable of "deep" love. Or they don't wanna get into the mess or something lol .
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Posted by YasmineMinlol you sound like me. I don't relate to my lone aqua but I can see the benefits of it too.
I honestly dont really know. I mean I feel like I would love a guy that has a good amount of water in his chart and some earth. However people would say my Aquarius stellium needs airy or firey placements but I just dont relate all that much to those signs

Posted by lisabethur8Thanks!Posted by Chuckcemoh I hope you find someone that will love you very deeply.
Preeeetty sure if I knew that, I wouldn't be single right now. My first four placements are in different elements and my dating history is all over the board.
If I had to guess it probably be a Libra with earth and fire placements. I also get along well with Cancers, Scorpios, and Virgo consistently. I'll probably refrain from dealing with any more Scorpios though (love them, just.....no). A person with a Libra Venus and Cap Mars (just like mine) would probably also mesh well since there'd be a core understanding, almost subtle magnetism between us.
from here alone on dxp, and your postings,
you seem like a very well put together man, who has much to offer!
you have kindness, generosity (I see you offer a lot of your insights and deeply introspective astrology experience)
so I don't see how you can't find someone worthy of you in the future. just be patient.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Thank you ?Posted by Teenathanks! I hope you find deep love too!Posted by lisabethur8Aww.. that's sad about your first ex. Sorry about that. But you're at a nice place now..So That's cool ?Posted by Teenaso basically all types of virgos then?
Virgos with/without any Air or Sag bits. I'd love them back too. Also any Sag or Air placements in general.
my husband loves me to hell and back and he has sag but NO air though.
I can feel his love very deeply and our relationship is not difficult.
also, my last ex had sag too, and he loved me deeply, but we just had too different ideas of love style s.
I never felt deep love for my first ex, but I have learned through pain and suffering he never loved me deeply. it was only one way.
but he never loved anyone deeply after me, and he remarried too.
so, its weird, some men never find anyone to love deeply. due to their addictions maybe and childhood?
he didn't have any sag, and the 2nd one didn't have any sag either.
I don't think he's capable of loving anyone deeply.
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oh I meant, I felt deep love for my 1st ex but he NEVER felt deep love for me, nor do I think he loves anyone deeply. (because I cried a lot for him and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life but sadly that never happened)
I love virgos..a lot. Didn't come across anyone more loyal. But I feel no attraction to them for whatever reason. I love them but not attracted to them if that makes sense.But it's always been both from their side(same with Cancer n leo men).
I get attracted to Geminis the most.. Also Sags n Tauruses. I've observed that sag men are quite different from the women. They can make someone's heart skip a beat.
And yes, I do believe some people aren't capable of "deep" love. Or they don't wanna get into the mess or something lol .
so you platonically love virgos, you have an affinity to them but never attracted to them?
and you love (since your heart melts with these signs) geminis sags and tauruses then...
maybe someone with those placements in the future. do you feel they will love you back as deeply though? have you ever experienced any of these men with those placements?
(I saw some men on here with all those placements too)click to expand

Posted by MrEmptyBackpackDie please!
Scorpios but I don't want them
Also Tauruses
Posted by AdmiralCrabbyPattersonPosted by lisabethur8If you don't want to read all this tl:dr is down below.Posted by AdmiralCrabbyPattersonobsession is not love though.
I honestly don't believe in deep love rn. The period of obsession I had with that one girl kinda ruined it for me. I feel like I can show love but it would just be superficial. Like what's the difference between the two?
to me, its they see all your ugly and beautiful, and they still love you no matter what.
flaws, imperfections, they are not afraid of it.
and to be selfless with eachother.
I was afraid. My body let me down and I never got to know what all the energy between us was all about. I was a fool in man's shoes. I still am. My feelings were and are one sided but the still feel real to me.
I just accept this will be a part of me for a long time. Even when I've actively tried to forget something in my conciseness reminds me. Maybe it's all meaningless but I find meaning in it.
TL;DR-
I'm screwing myself over and I like it.click to expand
Posted by Teenalol yeah not astrology boards I don't think..Posted by lisabethur8Thank you ?Posted by Teenathanks! I hope you find deep love too!Posted by lisabethur8Aww.. that's sad about your first ex. Sorry about that. But you're at a nice place now..So That's cool ?Posted by Teenaso basically all types of virgos then?
Virgos with/without any Air or Sag bits. I'd love them back too. Also any Sag or Air placements in general.
my husband loves me to hell and back and he has sag but NO air though.
I can feel his love very deeply and our relationship is not difficult.
also, my last ex had sag too, and he loved me deeply, but we just had too different ideas of love style s.
I never felt deep love for my first ex, but I have learned through pain and suffering he never loved me deeply. it was only one way.
but he never loved anyone deeply after me, and he remarried too.
so, its weird, some men never find anyone to love deeply. due to their addictions maybe and childhood?
he didn't have any sag, and the 2nd one didn't have any sag either.
I don't think he's capable of loving anyone deeply.
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oh I meant, I felt deep love for my 1st ex but he NEVER felt deep love for me, nor do I think he loves anyone deeply. (because I cried a lot for him and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life but sadly that never happened)
I love virgos..a lot. Didn't come across anyone more loyal. But I feel no attraction to them for whatever reason. I love them but not attracted to them if that makes sense.But it's always been both from their side(same with Cancer n leo men).
I get attracted to Geminis the most.. Also Sags n Tauruses. I've observed that sag men are quite different from the women. They can make someone's heart skip a beat.
And yes, I do believe some people aren't capable of "deep" love. Or they don't wanna get into the mess or something lol .
so you platonically love virgos, you have an affinity to them but never attracted to them?
and you love (since your heart melts with these signs) geminis sags and tauruses then...
maybe someone with those placements in the future. do you feel they will love you back as deeply though? have you ever experienced any of these men with those placements?
(I saw some men on here with all those placements too)
You can say platonic n affinity yes. I feel so bad for not feeling the butterflies with them considering how deeply they love me. I only appreciate n admire them.
Yes. I only mentioned the signs I already had experiences with.They have n they do love me deeply...Sags n Tauruses I mean. But Geminis were interested to get into my pants first more than anything. If I were into it, I wouldn't have a problem with that. They're super cool.
Haha. I'm not sure if dxp is the right place to find love ?
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Posted by Saggi212
I am single currently. But i think i would share this special thing maybe with leos.
I think capable of loving me a lot and in general would be taurus, cancer, leo,virgo libra perhaps like thats the kind of love i want....i think.....it would be sagittarius too
For me i think i would love a lot a taurus, leo, virgo, sagittarius, capricorn
Idk why i just think about its one traits and personalities and compatibility and attraction from what i have noticed

Posted by MrEmptyBackpackPosted by TeenaWutPosted by MrEmptyBackpackDie please!
Scorpios but I don't want them
Also Taurusesclick to expand


Posted by lisabethur8They're attracted.. always. But they go for physical intimacy first. It's surprising n also funny how they're very upfront about that. And then I dunno if I can trust them anymore. So we have fun as long as we can n then we walk away whenever ?Posted by Teenalol yeah not astrology boards I don't think..Posted by lisabethur8Thank you ?Posted by Teenathanks! I hope you find deep love too!Posted by lisabethur8Aww.. that's sad about your first ex. Sorry about that. But you're at a nice place now..So That's cool ?Posted by Teenaso basically all types of virgos then?
Virgos with/without any Air or Sag bits. I'd love them back too. Also any Sag or Air placements in general.
my husband loves me to hell and back and he has sag but NO air though.
I can feel his love very deeply and our relationship is not difficult.
also, my last ex had sag too, and he loved me deeply, but we just had too different ideas of love style s.
I never felt deep love for my first ex, but I have learned through pain and suffering he never loved me deeply. it was only one way.
but he never loved anyone deeply after me, and he remarried too.
so, its weird, some men never find anyone to love deeply. due to their addictions maybe and childhood?
he didn't have any sag, and the 2nd one didn't have any sag either.
I don't think he's capable of loving anyone deeply.
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oh I meant, I felt deep love for my 1st ex but he NEVER felt deep love for me, nor do I think he loves anyone deeply. (because I cried a lot for him and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life but sadly that never happened)
I love virgos..a lot. Didn't come across anyone more loyal. But I feel no attraction to them for whatever reason. I love them but not attracted to them if that makes sense.But it's always been both from their side(same with Cancer n leo men).
I get attracted to Geminis the most.. Also Sags n Tauruses. I've observed that sag men are quite different from the women. They can make someone's heart skip a beat.
And yes, I do believe some people aren't capable of "deep" love. Or they don't wanna get into the mess or something lol .
so you platonically love virgos, you have an affinity to them but never attracted to them?
and you love (since your heart melts with these signs) geminis sags and tauruses then...
maybe someone with those placements in the future. do you feel they will love you back as deeply though? have you ever experienced any of these men with those placements?
(I saw some men on here with all those placements too)
You can say platonic n affinity yes. I feel so bad for not feeling the butterflies with them considering how deeply they love me. I only appreciate n admire them.
Yes. I only mentioned the signs I already had experiences with.They have n they do love me deeply...Sags n Tauruses I mean. But Geminis were interested to get into my pants first more than anything. If I were into it, I wouldn't have a problem with that. They're super cool.
Haha. I'm not sure if dxp is the right place to find love ?
personally I think you have to have Gemini to "get" another Gemini to love back deeply. or a strong 3rd house, maybe a 3rd house sun and moon.
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Posted by Blue_FroggieYou may love @MrEmptybackpack
I have no clue who would love me.... I want someone who would love me with casual abundance.... I'm fed up of intensity. Screw passion.
I want flirty casual romance. I don't want sex even.... I want someone fun to travel with, to visit concerts, who will pop me up on a car hood and tell me funny stories... get drenched in rain and chase the Western Ghats and eat street food and stay in cheap motels and make out in a car.... maybe rob a bank even... anything other than passion😡
I'm fed up men who would use their love for me against me.

Posted by MrEmptyBackpackScorpio mars ofcoursePosted by TeenaNope I just want to bang 24/7Posted by Blue_FroggieYou may love @MrEmptybackpack
I have no clue who would love me.... I want someone who would love me with casual abundance.... I'm fed up of intensity. Screw passion.
I want flirty casual romance. I don't want sex even.... I want someone fun to travel with, to visit concerts, who will pop me up on a car hood and tell me funny stories... get drenched in rain and chase the Western Ghats and eat street food and stay in cheap motels and make out in a car.... maybe rob a bank even... anything other than passion😡
I'm fed up men who would use their love for me against me.click to expand

Posted by Blue_FroggiePosted by MrEmptyBackpackSo truePosted by TeenaNope I just want to bang 24/7Posted by Blue_FroggieYou may love @MrEmptybackpack
I have no clue who would love me.... I want someone who would love me with casual abundance.... I'm fed up of intensity. Screw passion.
I want flirty casual romance. I don't want sex even.... I want someone fun to travel with, to visit concerts, who will pop me up on a car hood and tell me funny stories... get drenched in rain and chase the Western Ghats and eat street food and stay in cheap motels and make out in a car.... maybe rob a bank even... anything other than passion😡
I'm fed up men who would use their love for me against me.
And Teena he likes only pretty girls....
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Posted by MrEmptyBackpackI didn't need that stupid closure ?Posted by Blue_FroggieBut I already gave her closure and wished her well last nightPosted by TeenaPosted by Blue_FroggieYou may love @MrEmptybackpack
I have no clue who would love me.... I want someone who would love me with casual abundance.... I'm fed up of intensity. Screw passion.
I want flirty casual romance. I don't want sex even.... I want someone fun to travel with, to visit concerts, who will pop me up on a car hood and tell me funny stories... get drenched in rain and chase the Western Ghats and eat street food and stay in cheap motels and make out in a car.... maybe rob a bank even... anything other than passion😡
I'm fed up men who would use their love for me against me.
What happened now?
Ands be good to your gf... 😡
Idk why she is still mad and wants to see me step on legos and beef with gemitaticlick to expand

Posted by MrEmptyBackpackYou know nothing too ?Posted by TeenaYou know nothing Jon SinghPosted by MrEmptyBackpackScorpio mars ofcoursePosted by TeenaNope I just want to bang 24/7Posted by Blue_FroggieYou may love @MrEmptybackpack
I have no clue who would love me.... I want someone who would love me with casual abundance.... I'm fed up of intensity. Screw passion.
I want flirty casual romance. I don't want sex even.... I want someone fun to travel with, to visit concerts, who will pop me up on a car hood and tell me funny stories... get drenched in rain and chase the Western Ghats and eat street food and stay in cheap motels and make out in a car.... maybe rob a bank even... anything other than passion😡
I'm fed up men who would use their love for me against me.click to expand

Posted by Blue_FroggiePosted by TeenaPosted by Blue_FroggiePosted by MrEmptyBackpackSo truePosted by TeenaNope I just want to bang 24/7Posted by Blue_FroggieYou may love @MrEmptybackpack
I have no clue who would love me.... I want someone who would love me with casual abundance.... I'm fed up of intensity. Screw passion.
I want flirty casual romance. I don't want sex even.... I want someone fun to travel with, to visit concerts, who will pop me up on a car hood and tell me funny stories... get drenched in rain and chase the Western Ghats and eat street food and stay in cheap motels and make out in a car.... maybe rob a bank even... anything other than passion😡
I'm fed up men who would use their love for me against me.
And Teena he likes only pretty girls....
Lol! That is true. But so do all the Tauruses I think. Pretty high standards.
Lol
I know..... But they are very realistic too, I think.
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Posted by MrEmptyBackpackPosted by TeenaI know my mars and don't pretend to know othersPosted by MrEmptyBackpackYou know nothing too ?Posted by TeenaYou know nothing Jon SinghPosted by MrEmptyBackpackScorpio mars ofcoursePosted by TeenaNope I just want to bang 24/7Posted by Blue_FroggieYou may love @MrEmptybackpack
I have no clue who would love me.... I want someone who would love me with casual abundance.... I'm fed up of intensity. Screw passion.
I want flirty casual romance. I don't want sex even.... I want someone fun to travel with, to visit concerts, who will pop me up on a car hood and tell me funny stories... get drenched in rain and chase the Western Ghats and eat street food and stay in cheap motels and make out in a car.... maybe rob a bank even... anything other than passion😡
I'm fed up men who would use their love for me against me.
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Posted by Blue_Froggieit sounds unstable.
I have no clue who would love me.... I want someone who would love me with casual abundance.... I'm fed up of intensity. Screw passion.
I want flirty casual romance. I don't want sex even.... I want someone fun to travel with, to visit concerts, who will pop me up on a car hood and tell me funny stories... get drenched in rain and chase the Western Ghats and eat street food and stay in cheap motels and make out in a car.... maybe rob a bank even... anything other than passion😡
I'm fed up men who would use their love for me against me.
Posted by Teenayou must have a lot of air to have them like you a lot.Posted by lisabethur8They're attracted.. always. But they go for physical intimacy first. It's surprising n also funny how they're very upfront about that. And then I dunno if I can trust them anymore. So we have fun as long as we can n then we walk away whenever ?Posted by Teenalol yeah not astrology boards I don't think..Posted by lisabethur8Thank you ?Posted by Teenathanks! I hope you find deep love too!Posted by lisabethur8Aww.. that's sad about your first ex. Sorry about that. But you're at a nice place now..So That's cool ?Posted by Teenaso basically all types of virgos then?
Virgos with/without any Air or Sag bits. I'd love them back too. Also any Sag or Air placements in general.
my husband loves me to hell and back and he has sag but NO air though.
I can feel his love very deeply and our relationship is not difficult.
also, my last ex had sag too, and he loved me deeply, but we just had too different ideas of love style s.
I never felt deep love for my first ex, but I have learned through pain and suffering he never loved me deeply. it was only one way.
but he never loved anyone deeply after me, and he remarried too.
so, its weird, some men never find anyone to love deeply. due to their addictions maybe and childhood?
he didn't have any sag, and the 2nd one didn't have any sag either.
I don't think he's capable of loving anyone deeply.
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oh I meant, I felt deep love for my 1st ex but he NEVER felt deep love for me, nor do I think he loves anyone deeply. (because I cried a lot for him and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life but sadly that never happened)
I love virgos..a lot. Didn't come across anyone more loyal. But I feel no attraction to them for whatever reason. I love them but not attracted to them if that makes sense.But it's always been both from their side(same with Cancer n leo men).
I get attracted to Geminis the most.. Also Sags n Tauruses. I've observed that sag men are quite different from the women. They can make someone's heart skip a beat.
And yes, I do believe some people aren't capable of "deep" love. Or they don't wanna get into the mess or something lol .
so you platonically love virgos, you have an affinity to them but never attracted to them?
and you love (since your heart melts with these signs) geminis sags and tauruses then...
maybe someone with those placements in the future. do you feel they will love you back as deeply though? have you ever experienced any of these men with those placements?
(I saw some men on here with all those placements too)
You can say platonic n affinity yes. I feel so bad for not feeling the butterflies with them considering how deeply they love me. I only appreciate n admire them.
Yes. I only mentioned the signs I already had experiences with.They have n they do love me deeply...Sags n Tauruses I mean. But Geminis were interested to get into my pants first more than anything. If I were into it, I wouldn't have a problem with that. They're super cool.
Haha. I'm not sure if dxp is the right place to find love ?
personally I think you have to have Gemini to "get" another Gemini to love back deeply. or a strong 3rd house, maybe a 3rd house sun and moon.
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Posted by lisabethur8I'd guess for me: Taurus sun, pisces moon, with some fire mars/venus
would love you the most?
and you love them back the most?
if you're single, you can also put down what placements you think would love you back a lot.
put sun, moon, rising, mars & venus, houses if you want.

Posted by Sunsetvirgooh you should!! (only of course if you want to!! a lot of us are gonna read it!!) 😄
Probably aqua and Leo of some sort.
I was surprised when I found out my Leo ex had at least 5 placements all in Leo. Sun/moon/mars/mercury/Venus
I never have to worry about aquas being petty if we don't talk for a while. We could literally go 10 years without talking and then pick up right off where we left off.
I'm not even going to start w/ what I love about Leo's, it would take too long.

Posted by Ellygantsorry to hear about the tau/scorpio/tau......
I have to peel Pisces men off me. Idk their other placements cause they never spark me enough to pull a chart lol.
Venusian moons. Lately more Taurus than libra. I have a Taurus moon that things ended with months ago but dude still pops up a few times a week to chat.
Actually since I've been single, with the exception of one cancer Moon, literally the only moon signs I've attracted have been Taurus, Leo and Libra. Which seems totally weird to me because taurus often is opposite all my Scorpio and Leo squares it, while libra moons normally square my cancer moon. Also probably about half the people I've dated have had Leo venus as well, which also makes no sense to me lol.
The only one out of all the people I dated that I felt like I could really fall in love with has been a Cancer Sun/Leo moon. Dunno Rising. That's a touch n' go situation though lol.
In the past, my biggest love was my Aqua Asc/Scorp Sun/Libra moon ex. We had a good run and I'll always have love for him in my heart, I think it wasn't meant to work now though, despite our near perfect synastry ha.
After him I fell for a Taurus/Scorp/Taurus, that was all bad news. I regret that totally. Felt way more attached to him and I think he used that for his own reasons, didn't really care for me and certainly never respected me.
Posted by Ellygantyeah from what it sounds, although he is a good man and that's awesome.....it doesn't even sound like something for me either. there's no compromise from him it sounds.Posted by lisabethur8Yeah he is very special to me. Made me feel very loved and accepted, provided a stabilizing influence in my life. It ended because he just couldn't open himself up and relenquish control. He wanted me to be 100% available but could only give about 50-60% of himself in return. He says now he's learned his lesson. He wanted to offer me marriage and kids but only on his terms when he wanted them. It was never up for discussion, he'd simply say 'we're not talking about it' lol.Posted by Ellygantsorry to hear about the tau/scorpio/tau......
I have to peel Pisces men off me. Idk their other placements cause they never spark me enough to pull a chart lol.
Venusian moons. Lately more Taurus than libra. I have a Taurus moon that things ended with months ago but dude still pops up a few times a week to chat.
Actually since I've been single, with the exception of one cancer Moon, literally the only moon signs I've attracted have been Taurus, Leo and Libra. Which seems totally weird to me because taurus often is opposite all my Scorpio and Leo squares it, while libra moons normally square my cancer moon. Also probably about half the people I've dated have had Leo venus as well, which also makes no sense to me lol.
The only one out of all the people I dated that I felt like I could really fall in love with has been a Cancer Sun/Leo moon. Dunno Rising. That's a touch n' go situation though lol.
In the past, my biggest love was my Aqua Asc/Scorp Sun/Libra moon ex. We had a good run and I'll always have love for him in my heart, I think it wasn't meant to work now though, despite our near perfect synastry ha.
After him I fell for a Taurus/Scorp/Taurus, that was all bad news. I regret that totally. Felt way more attached to him and I think he used that for his own reasons, didn't really care for me and certainly never respected me.
having respect on both sides is a huge plus.
your ex that you had a good run, sounds like my last ex....he was the only ex after the first two that was really healthy, no addictions, no problems, he loved me deeply and I will think of him fondly always to have a great love with someone wonderful. we just didn't have same love style s. he wanted to live together with no family and me wait on him hand and foot till old age, and I know he would love that forever. but I wanted marriage and security, the works.
don't know what happened to your ex and why it just didn't work but it's good you had some nice relationships with others who weren't toxic and cruel.
I hope he doesn't make the same mistakes with someone new. He deserves to be happy. He's a good man. At another level too, maybe with someone less needy than me. My cancer moon did always feel like it was imposing on his libra moon. I wanted more affection and displays of devotion than I think he was comfortable with, looking back.click to expand
Posted by indiwomanI think from the way it sounds, a libra man would be awesome for you. with sag and Gemini moon or something.
I think I could have a deep love for a libra
Have never dated one but I have had a lot of close friends that are Libra
I have loved a Sag sun with gemini moon deeply before
also still have love for a cancer sun virgo moon...
But as for those who love me..
Sag and Gemini...
I am leo btw
I have always attracted Aqua's though
They seem to really be into me.
I can comfortably be myself and they love my humor and I always enjoy being around them there is good conversation usually but I just never get the extra feels for em.
Posted by sagoyayeah that aries mars is tough.
Sag sun
cancer moon
aqua venus
scorpio mars
Cancer rising
Sag, gemini, scorpio stellium
I seem to attract cancer and aquarius the most.. but aquarius would be a brief fling max 3 months and then we grew apart..
Cancers latch on me like leech, and would hang around for months or years really *smh* ? but i always feel secure with them.. but then again the space which i need, would always be an issue ?
The one that recently got me: "ah this one's perfect" was a gemini with taurus moon, cancer venus and aries mars. We are on the same page in almost everything, such a family man, a great guy to take on an adventure, consistent approach, never goes hot and cold, sensitive and care for your feelings, and quiet impulsive too ? he fills what i lack and so do i ( i hope so ?). It was a brief one, coz that fucking aries mars ruined him completely when he's mad.
The longest period of time i spent with a guy was with a taurus, i forget his exact birthday now tho ? and i was married to a virgo (a great guy as well) so i am so used of earth signs consistency and reliability.
I hvnt met anyone with that feeling again until now.. so what i think what would be perfect for me is:
Gem sun
taurus/ cancer moon
cancer/ taurus venus
taurus mars
sagittarius/ virgo/ cancer rising
I am determined to manifest this guy into my life and I know I will (it's a sag thing you know, and it usually does happen lol... ??)...
Posted by lisabethur8I also have a libra moon so maybe that has something to do with it lolPosted by indiwomanI think from the way it sounds, a libra man would be awesome for you. with sag and Gemini moon or something.
I think I could have a deep love for a libra
Have never dated one but I have had a lot of close friends that are Libra
I have loved a Sag sun with gemini moon deeply before
also still have love for a cancer sun virgo moon...
But as for those who love me..
Sag and Gemini...
I am leo btw
I have always attracted Aqua's though
They seem to really be into me.
I can comfortably be myself and they love my humor and I always enjoy being around them there is good conversation usually but I just never get the extra feels for em.
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Posted by EllygantPosted by lisabethur8Yeah the cancer sun/Leo moon I like a lot has Leo moon/venus/mars. Conjunct my Jupiter. He's one way or the other. Super affectionate and feely or super distant.Posted by Ellygantyeah from what it sounds, although he is a good man and that's awesome.....it doesn't even sound like something for me either. there's no compromise from him it sounds.Posted by lisabethur8Yeah he is very special to me. Made me feel very loved and accepted, provided a stabilizing influence in my life. It ended because he just couldn't open himself up and relenquish control. He wanted me to be 100% available but could only give about 50-60% of himself in return. He says now he's learned his lesson. He wanted to offer me marriage and kids but only on his terms when he wanted them. It was never up for discussion, he'd simply say 'we're not talking about it' lol.Posted by Ellygantsorry to hear about the tau/scorpio/tau......
I have to peel Pisces men off me. Idk their other placements cause they never spark me enough to pull a chart lol.
Venusian moons. Lately more Taurus than libra. I have a Taurus moon that things ended with months ago but dude still pops up a few times a week to chat.
Actually since I've been single, with the exception of one cancer Moon, literally the only moon signs I've attracted have been Taurus, Leo and Libra. Which seems totally weird to me because taurus often is opposite all my Scorpio and Leo squares it, while libra moons normally square my cancer moon. Also probably about half the people I've dated have had Leo venus as well, which also makes no sense to me lol.
The only one out of all the people I dated that I felt like I could really fall in love with has been a Cancer Sun/Leo moon. Dunno Rising. That's a touch n' go situation though lol.
In the past, my biggest love was my Aqua Asc/Scorp Sun/Libra moon ex. We had a good run and I'll always have love for him in my heart, I think it wasn't meant to work now though, despite our near perfect synastry ha.
After him I fell for a Taurus/Scorp/Taurus, that was all bad news. I regret that totally. Felt way more attached to him and I think he used that for his own reasons, didn't really care for me and certainly never respected me.
having respect on both sides is a huge plus.
your ex that you had a good run, sounds like my last ex....he was the only ex after the first two that was really healthy, no addictions, no problems, he loved me deeply and I will think of him fondly always to have a great love with someone wonderful. we just didn't have same love style s. he wanted to live together with no family and me wait on him hand and foot till old age, and I know he would love that forever. but I wanted marriage and security, the works.
don't know what happened to your ex and why it just didn't work but it's good you had some nice relationships with others who weren't toxic and cruel.
I hope he doesn't make the same mistakes with someone new. He deserves to be happy. He's a good man. At another level too, maybe with someone less needy than me. My cancer moon did always feel like it was imposing on his libra moon. I wanted more affection and displays of devotion than I think he was comfortable with, looking back.
if you want more displays of affection, definitely leo placements. I've seen my sister with her leo mars man and they do PDA, very affectionate openly.
I think I have read around here leo venus too. but I've never been with a leo venus man so I don't know how true that is.
I previously dated another Cancer Sun with a Leo moon and Leo venus. She's still very affectionate even in passing with me.
I absolutely love Leo energy. But I can never get a read on how they feel about me and that scares me lol. There is always a very strong hot/cold dynamic.click to expand

Posted by EllygantPosted by lisabethur8Right?! I admit I read stuff like that and it makes me wonder. In general I don't like to invest if I don't see clear interest from the other person.Posted by EllygantPosted by lisabethur8Yeah the cancer sun/Leo moon I like a lot has Leo moon/venus/mars. Conjunct my Jupiter. He's one way or the other. Super affectionate and feely or super distant.Posted by Ellygantyeah from what it sounds, although he is a good man and that's awesome.....it doesn't even sound like something for me either. there's no compromise from him it sounds.Posted by lisabethur8Yeah he is very special to me. Made me feel very loved and accepted, provided a stabilizing influence in my life. It ended because he just couldn't open himself up and relenquish control. He wanted me to be 100% available but could only give about 50-60% of himself in return. He says now he's learned his lesson. He wanted to offer me marriage and kids but only on his terms when he wanted them. It was never up for discussion, he'd simply say 'we're not talking about it' lol.Posted by Ellygantsorry to hear about the tau/scorpio/tau......
I have to peel Pisces men off me. Idk their other placements cause they never spark me enough to pull a chart lol.
Venusian moons. Lately more Taurus than libra. I have a Taurus moon that things ended with months ago but dude still pops up a few times a week to chat.
Actually since I've been single, with the exception of one cancer Moon, literally the only moon signs I've attracted have been Taurus, Leo and Libra. Which seems totally weird to me because taurus often is opposite all my Scorpio and Leo squares it, while libra moons normally square my cancer moon. Also probably about half the people I've dated have had Leo venus as well, which also makes no sense to me lol.
The only one out of all the people I dated that I felt like I could really fall in love with has been a Cancer Sun/Leo moon. Dunno Rising. That's a touch n' go situation though lol.
In the past, my biggest love was my Aqua Asc/Scorp Sun/Libra moon ex. We had a good run and I'll always have love for him in my heart, I think it wasn't meant to work now though, despite our near perfect synastry ha.
After him I fell for a Taurus/Scorp/Taurus, that was all bad news. I regret that totally. Felt way more attached to him and I think he used that for his own reasons, didn't really care for me and certainly never respected me.
having respect on both sides is a huge plus.
your ex that you had a good run, sounds like my last ex....he was the only ex after the first two that was really healthy, no addictions, no problems, he loved me deeply and I will think of him fondly always to have a great love with someone wonderful. we just didn't have same love style s. he wanted to live together with no family and me wait on him hand and foot till old age, and I know he would love that forever. but I wanted marriage and security, the works.
don't know what happened to your ex and why it just didn't work but it's good you had some nice relationships with others who weren't toxic and cruel.
I hope he doesn't make the same mistakes with someone new. He deserves to be happy. He's a good man. At another level too, maybe with someone less needy than me. My cancer moon did always feel like it was imposing on his libra moon. I wanted more affection and displays of devotion than I think he was comfortable with, looking back.
if you want more displays of affection, definitely leo placements. I've seen my sister with her leo mars man and they do PDA, very affectionate openly.
I think I have read around here leo venus too. but I've never been with a leo venus man so I don't know how true that is.
I previously dated another Cancer Sun with a Leo moon and Leo venus. She's still very affectionate even in passing with me.
I absolutely love Leo energy. But I can never get a read on how they feel about me and that scares me lol. There is always a very strong hot/cold dynamic.
oh really?? it must be my singularity aqua then....cause I have never doubted their passion towards me (the leo stelliums/leo energy) they are always very very evident. they come on strong like a gladiator.
maybe in your case, the cancer energy in them keeps them in check.. but I don't know...I saw how tom cruise with his cancer sun/leo stellium is so passionate and go-getter.
Both had their moments. The Leo stellium crab especially if he got too drunk, would go on long romantic speeches. Be super cuddly, literally wrap around and cling to me. I don't trust drunk actions if they're not supported when one is sober though. Once he'd sober up he'd be more withdrawn and distant again.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Yep. He's very demonstrative and affectionate.Posted by LadyNeptuneare you with one?
Adore Leo Venus/mars
the Gemini guy?click to expand
Posted by AdmiralCrabbyPattersonyou're a Gemini dominant crab correct? with aries moon?
Ahh lisa. Sorry for my crap earlier. I completely ignored the op.
Sun is irrelevant to me but I would like Scorp,Virgo,Leo,Cap
Moon sign. I love Scorp moons. Similar but different. Cancer moons are fine too. Sag moons. Possibly other Aries moons.
Mercury- N/A
Venus and mars in Sagitarius.
They'd also have to have Leo Rising of Capricorn Rising.
This would be a person I would be able to unapologetically love, imperfections and all.
As for the sign of a person who loved me deeply, I can't answer that yet.

Posted by lisabethur8I have all the elements in almost equal proportions... Water 29, Air 25, Earth 24 , Fire 22.Posted by Teenayou must have a lot of air to have them like you a lot.Posted by lisabethur8They're attracted.. always. But they go for physical intimacy first. It's surprising n also funny how they're very upfront about that. And then I dunno if I can trust them anymore. So we have fun as long as we can n then we walk away whenever ?Posted by Teenalol yeah not astrology boards I don't think..Posted by lisabethur8Thank you ?Posted by Teenathanks! I hope you find deep love too!Posted by lisabethur8Aww.. that's sad about your first ex. Sorry about that. But you're at a nice place now..So That's cool ?Posted by Teenaso basically all types of virgos then?
Virgos with/without any Air or Sag bits. I'd love them back too. Also any Sag or Air placements in general.
my husband loves me to hell and back and he has sag but NO air though.
I can feel his love very deeply and our relationship is not difficult.
also, my last ex had sag too, and he loved me deeply, but we just had too different ideas of love style s.
I never felt deep love for my first ex, but I have learned through pain and suffering he never loved me deeply. it was only one way.
but he never loved anyone deeply after me, and he remarried too.
so, its weird, some men never find anyone to love deeply. due to their addictions maybe and childhood?
he didn't have any sag, and the 2nd one didn't have any sag either.
I don't think he's capable of loving anyone deeply.
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oh I meant, I felt deep love for my 1st ex but he NEVER felt deep love for me, nor do I think he loves anyone deeply. (because I cried a lot for him and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life but sadly that never happened)
I love virgos..a lot. Didn't come across anyone more loyal. But I feel no attraction to them for whatever reason. I love them but not attracted to them if that makes sense.But it's always been both from their side(same with Cancer n leo men).
I get attracted to Geminis the most.. Also Sags n Tauruses. I've observed that sag men are quite different from the women. They can make someone's heart skip a beat.
And yes, I do believe some people aren't capable of "deep" love. Or they don't wanna get into the mess or something lol .
so you platonically love virgos, you have an affinity to them but never attracted to them?
and you love (since your heart melts with these signs) geminis sags and tauruses then...
maybe someone with those placements in the future. do you feel they will love you back as deeply though? have you ever experienced any of these men with those placements?
(I saw some men on here with all those placements too)
You can say platonic n affinity yes. I feel so bad for not feeling the butterflies with them considering how deeply they love me. I only appreciate n admire them.
Yes. I only mentioned the signs I already had experiences with.They have n they do love me deeply...Sags n Tauruses I mean. But Geminis were interested to get into my pants first more than anything. If I were into it, I wouldn't have a problem with that. They're super cool.
Haha. I'm not sure if dxp is the right place to find love ?
personally I think you have to have Gemini to "get" another Gemini to love back deeply. or a strong 3rd house, maybe a 3rd house sun and moon.
when I talk about deep love,
someone who isn't bothered with you at all.
I notice that if I rub people the wrong way and they don't understand me, and don't like how I do things,
they will never love me. or get me.
so I don't bother with them, and keep them at a distance.
the relationship of deep love I mean is I can be confident and happy and I don't have the problem of my significant other tearing me down and putting me down cruelly or any kind of abuse. because they are trying to "control" me.
so if a person enjoys your company 24/7, your good and bad, then you found also deep love.click to expand
Posted by AdmiralCrabbyPattersonPosted by lisabethur8Yes. Gemini dominant and moon dominant. Cap is 2nd. Pisces is 3rd dominate energy.Posted by AdmiralCrabbyPattersonyou're a Gemini dominant crab correct? with aries moon?
Ahh lisa. Sorry for my crap earlier. I completely ignored the op.
Sun is irrelevant to me but I would like Scorp,Virgo,Leo,Cap
Moon sign. I love Scorp moons. Similar but different. Cancer moons are fine too. Sag moons. Possibly other Aries moons.
Mercury- N/A
Venus and mars in Sagitarius.
They'd also have to have Leo Rising of Capricorn Rising.
This would be a person I would be able to unapologetically love, imperfections and all.
As for the sign of a person who loved me deeply, I can't answer that yet.
just some confirmation and memory jolting. lol
and are you sure without even meeting them yet that you would love them deeply?
it sounds very optimistic.
My best friend is a Sag stellium with sag sun,merc,venus,mars,Jupiter and pluto. I feel great with people who have sag energy. They don't judge. Being misunderstood has caused me the most dissapointments in life. My Virgo best friend also has asc in Sagitarius and moon in Leo. I gravitate towards those energies. I won't judge so I'd like someone who doesn't judge me. I'd be ready to change almost anything for a person like that and who would meet me halfway for any problems we would have. Also I want someone I can argue with for hours on end then have hot, angry sex after. So that's why I chose what I chose.click to expand

Posted by sagoyaomygosh I see so many mars to sun couples...Posted by lisabethur8Oh the air stellium with aries mars.. i thought it was his sun and my gem stellium that did the trick.. interesting..Posted by sagoyayeah that aries mars is tough.
Sag sun
cancer moon
aqua venus
scorpio mars
Cancer rising
Sag, gemini, scorpio stellium
I seem to attract cancer and aquarius the most.. but aquarius would be a brief fling max 3 months and then we grew apart..
Cancers latch on me like leech, and would hang around for months or years really *smh* ? but i always feel secure with them.. but then again the space which i need, would always be an issue ?
The one that recently got me: "ah this one's perfect" was a gemini with taurus moon, cancer venus and aries mars. We are on the same page in almost everything, such a family man, a great guy to take on an adventure, consistent approach, never goes hot and cold, sensitive and care for your feelings, and quiet impulsive too ? he fills what i lack and so do i ( i hope so ?). It was a brief one, coz that fucking aries mars ruined him completely when he's mad.
The longest period of time i spent with a guy was with a taurus, i forget his exact birthday now tho ? and i was married to a virgo (a great guy as well) so i am so used of earth signs consistency and reliability.
I hvnt met anyone with that feeling again until now.. so what i think what would be perfect for me is:
Gem sun
taurus/ cancer moon
cancer/ taurus venus
taurus mars
sagittarius/ virgo/ cancer rising
I am determined to manifest this guy into my life and I know I will (it's a sag thing you know, and it usually does happen lol... ??)...
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to expolate on this....
I've seen personally aries mars with AIR stelliums, and they love the air stelliums...... three couples and all of the three have one of them with aries mars and the other air stelliums, two with libra stelliums and the other with aqua stellium.
and when I google for celebs, a couple are with Gemini stelliums. maybe its just my circle and what I see, but they like the air stelliums from personal experience/seeing in my family.
oh I forgot...
I saw LibraMudra in the Leo forum with her newly found marriage...and she's fire mars.../aries...but the big difference is...she's double air. and maybe she has more air? huge difference there... from my personal experience seeing my family.
I am scratching fire mars from my list esp sagittarius. I read somewhere that when a woman's sun conjunct the man's mars, the man will try to defeat his partner, because he feels that her pride and power is an obstacle that must be overcome.
What a scorp mars would mostly be attracted to, according to you?
LibraMudra , yes i agree.. i think more air would balance out the aries mars, esp if it's in libra. Might be conflicting for her, but will not hurt others just as much, lol...click to expand
Posted by sagoyaPosted by lisabethur8Oh the air stellium with aries mars.. i thought it was his sun and my gem stellium that did the trick.. interesting..Posted by sagoyayeah that aries mars is tough.
Sag sun
cancer moon
aqua venus
scorpio mars
Cancer rising
Sag, gemini, scorpio stellium
I seem to attract cancer and aquarius the most.. but aquarius would be a brief fling max 3 months and then we grew apart..
Cancers latch on me like leech, and would hang around for months or years really *smh* ? but i always feel secure with them.. but then again the space which i need, would always be an issue ?
The one that recently got me: "ah this one's perfect" was a gemini with taurus moon, cancer venus and aries mars. We are on the same page in almost everything, such a family man, a great guy to take on an adventure, consistent approach, never goes hot and cold, sensitive and care for your feelings, and quiet impulsive too ? he fills what i lack and so do i ( i hope so ?). It was a brief one, coz that fucking aries mars ruined him completely when he's mad.
The longest period of time i spent with a guy was with a taurus, i forget his exact birthday now tho ? and i was married to a virgo (a great guy as well) so i am so used of earth signs consistency and reliability.
I hvnt met anyone with that feeling again until now.. so what i think what would be perfect for me is:
Gem sun
taurus/ cancer moon
cancer/ taurus venus
taurus mars
sagittarius/ virgo/ cancer rising
I am determined to manifest this guy into my life and I know I will (it's a sag thing you know, and it usually does happen lol... ??)...
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to expolate on this....
I've seen personally aries mars with AIR stelliums, and they love the air stelliums...... three couples and all of the three have one of them with aries mars and the other air stelliums, two with libra stelliums and the other with aqua stellium.
and when I google for celebs, a couple are with Gemini stelliums. maybe its just my circle and what I see, but they like the air stelliums from personal experience/seeing in my family.
oh I forgot...
I saw LibraMudra in the Leo forum with her newly found marriage...and she's fire mars.../aries...but the big difference is...she's double air. and maybe she has more air? huge difference there... from my personal experience seeing my family.
I am scratching fire mars from my list esp sagittarius. I read somewhere that when a woman's sun conjunct the man's mars, the man will try to defeat his partner, because he feels that her pride and power is an obstacle that must be overcome.
What a scorp mars would mostly be attracted to, according to you?
LibraMudra , yes i agree.. i think more air would balance out the aries mars, esp if it's in libra. Might be conflicting for her, but will not hurt others just as much, lol...click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8I would just like to say I 2nd that. I always enjoy reading your posts. Infact I also enjoy reading your posts too Lisabeth.Posted by Chuckcemoh I hope you find someone that will love you very deeply.
Preeeetty sure if I knew that, I wouldn't be single right now. My first four placements are in different elements and my dating history is all over the board.
If I had to guess it probably be a Libra with earth and fire placements. I also get along well with Cancers, Scorpios, and Virgo consistently. I'll probably refrain from dealing with any more Scorpios though (love them, just.....no). A person with a Libra Venus and Cap Mars (just like mine) would probably also mesh well since there'd be a core understanding, almost subtle magnetism between us.
from here alone on dxp, and your postings,
you seem like a very well put together man, who has much to offer!
you have kindness, generosity (I see you offer a lot of your insights and deeply introspective astrology experience)
so I don't see how you can't find someone worthy of you in the future. just be patient.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Sunsetvirgooh you should!! (only of course if you want to!! a lot of us are gonna read it!!) 😄
Probably aqua and Leo of some sort.
I was surprised when I found out my Leo ex had at least 5 placements all in Leo. Sun/moon/mars/mercury/Venus
I never have to worry about aquas being petty if we don't talk for a while. We could literally go 10 years without talking and then pick up right off where we left off.
I'm not even going to start w/ what I love about Leo's, it would take too long.
your ex with all those placements....I was responding yesterday to LibraMudra's wedding, and her husband is double leo as well with leo venus!!
you and her are similar in catching those double leos!!
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and you love them back the most?
if you're single, you can also put down what placements you think would love you back a lot.
put sun, moon, rising, mars & venus, houses if you want.