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Hmm I see well you narrowed that down pretty fast, lol. I'm closer with my mom. Relationships are a disaster for me that's why I am taking hiatus from dating.
I think I am more airy I get along really well with Aquas, Gems and my mom is a Libra. Guess that makes me a "hot" air-head with all my fire and air haha.
I think I am more airy I get along really well with Aquas, Gems and my mom is a Libra. Guess that makes me a "hot" air-head with all my fire and air haha.
Posted by MoonbutterYeah, the moon represents your mother and it's in the 9th house which normally represents your father. That's an interesting placement.
Hmm I see well you narrowed that down pretty fast, lol. I'm closer with my mom. Relationships are a disaster for me that's why I am taking hiatus from dating.
I think I am more airy I get along really well with Aquas, Gems and my mom is a Libra. Guess that makes me a "hot" air-head with all my fire and air haha.
Relationships are not a disaster, you just have to date serious men, with that Saturn placement if you date superficial dumb guys, you'll have a lot of heartache.
So, in the larger analysis, you're all fire and air and I am all earth and water with some air. Sounds like a fit to me 😉
Posted by incandescentcancerWow, I really like how you put this all together in a tidy lil package. OH yeah maybe you can explain why my dad and I can't seem to connect, he's a Virgo.Posted by MoonbutterYeah, the moon represents your mother and it's in the 9th house which normally represents your father. That's an interesting placement.
Hmm I see well you narrowed that down pretty fast, lol. I'm closer with my mom. Relationships are a disaster for me that's why I am taking hiatus from dating.
I think I am more airy I get along really well with Aquas, Gems and my mom is a Libra. Guess that makes me a "hot" air-head with all my fire and air haha.
Relationships are not a disaster, you just have to date serious men, with that Saturn placement if you date superficial dumb guys, you'll have a lot of heartache.
So, in the larger analysis, you're all fire and air and I am all earth and water with some air. Sounds like a fit to me 😉click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterA little later, I am going to get some sleep now 😛Posted by incandescentcancerWow, I really like how you put this all together in a tidy lil package. OH yeah maybe you can explain why my dad and I can't seem to connect, he's a Virgo.Posted by MoonbutterYeah, the moon represents your mother and it's in the 9th house which normally represents your father. That's an interesting placement.
Hmm I see well you narrowed that down pretty fast, lol. I'm closer with my mom. Relationships are a disaster for me that's why I am taking hiatus from dating.
I think I am more airy I get along really well with Aquas, Gems and my mom is a Libra. Guess that makes me a "hot" air-head with all my fire and air haha.
Relationships are not a disaster, you just have to date serious men, with that Saturn placement if you date superficial dumb guys, you'll have a lot of heartache.
So, in the larger analysis, you're all fire and air and I am all earth and water with some air. Sounds like a fit to me 😉click to expand
I like your chart.
Me too good night Š
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
Posted by incandescentcancerDefinitely agree with your about looking in the right places. But she could be right as well, especially if she lives in a small town/city.Posted by MoonbutterWomen say that all the time and I know a ton of nice guys who are usually sitting alone watching TV. I just don't think people are thinking straight about what they want or looking in the right places. Our system of finding partners is clearly broken and superficial.Posted by incandescentcancerI know but omg I swear I can't even find a guy that isn't either gay, taken or a big douche. Sigh. I need to move lolPosted by MoonbutterThat's it, always go for something that will strengthen both of you on the overall. The synastry chart is like a jigsaw puzzle that needs to fit together for things to work out over the long term. In the short term any two people can be in a relationship that doesn't mean anything. If you want a couple to be happy together over the long term and also succeed, then you need to put the jigsaw puzzle together right.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for those men with prominent Jupiter, Mars or sun placement. Also it would be good for you to have partner to have bit more water or earth than you do, that should set you up nicely.Yes I agree I need earth as I have noneclick to expand
Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
Posted by MoonbutterAll this confusion is not required. When someone truly loves you, there is no ambiguity or doubts, you know it immediately in your heart.Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.click to expand
If you have confusion, then it just isn't there.
Also is he an introverted type? I'm Venus Gem, Mars Taurus etc and I proceed with caution. When it's all clear I open up. Just be patient. We're skiddish sometimes. 🙂
Posted by incandescentcancerYes, I agree that's the issue I feel it, like a 'knowing' but I also know he has a complicated life and doesn't want to drag anyone into as would not be fair to them. My heart says yes, my head says "I dunno" .Posted by MoonbutterAll this confusion is not required. When someone truly loves you, there is no ambiguity or doubts, you know it immediately in your heart.Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
If you have confusion, then it just isn't there.click to expand
Posted by kissmygritsI think yes he is when it comes to love..He has Cancer Venus so I know he is very sensitive and cautious. He takes 1 step forward, 1 step back, then sideways...then back in the shell, etc lol
Also is he an introverted type? I'm Venus Gem, Mars Taurus etc and I proceed with caution. When it's all clear I open up. Just be patient. We're skiddish sometimes. 🙂
Posted by MoonbutterThen just pull back and let him come to you, that's basically it.Posted by incandescentcancerYes, I agree that's the issue I feel it, like a 'knowing' but I also know he has a complicated life and doesn't want to drag anyone into as would not be fair to them. My heart says yes, my head says "I dunno" .Posted by MoonbutterAll this confusion is not required. When someone truly loves you, there is no ambiguity or doubts, you know it immediately in your heart.Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
If you have confusion, then it just isn't there.click to expand
Posted by BlackNovaDang those goats always be in my way!!Posted by incandescentcancerI disagree, many peeps confuse lust or infatuation with love. Some people can even create the idea of love in their mind, when no such feelings actually existPosted by MoonbutterAll this confusion is not required. When someone truly loves you, there is no ambiguity or doubts, you know it immediately in your heart.Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
If you have confusion, then it just isn't there.
Sometimes people can become so smitten with someone they see what they want to see and will latch on to anything the other person does or says to validate what they hope for, but is not there.
You're also suggesting that if someone loves another, that they are able to or willing to express that love, unambiguously, this is not always the case.
The road to love is not always a nicely paved, straight and clear road, with sign posts, sometimes it's a winding rocky goat track on the side of a mountain.click to expand
Posted by tizianiWhat do you mean different ballparks?Posted by BlackNovaI don't think he's saying it's nicely paved. The simplest feelings are often the hardest. I took it to mean that if it's confusing, then the feeling between two people clearly isn't mutual. They may both have feelings for one another, just in different ballparks.Posted by incandescentcancerI disagree, many peeps confuse lust or infatuation with love. Some people can even create the idea of love in their mind, when no such feelings actually existPosted by MoonbutterAll this confusion is not required. When someone truly loves you, there is no ambiguity or doubts, you know it immediately in your heart.Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
If you have confusion, then it just isn't there.
Sometimes people can become so smitten with someone they see what they want to see and will latch on to anything the other person does or says to validate what they hope for, but is not there.
You're also suggesting that if someone loves another, that they are able to or willing to express that love, unambiguously, this is not always the case.
The road to love is not always a nicely paved, straight and clear road, with sign posts, sometimes it's a winding rocky goat track on the side of a mountain.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterOh the Gem Venus threw me off lolPosted by kissmygritsI think yes he is when it comes to love..He has Cancer Venus so I know he is very sensitive and cautious. He takes 1 step forward, 1 step back, then sideways...then back in the shell, etc lol
Also is he an introverted type? I'm Venus Gem, Mars Taurus etc and I proceed with caution. When it's all clear I open up. Just be patient. We're skiddish sometimes. 🙂click to expand
Posted by kissmygritsOh haha yeah my bad But surely a Cancer Vnus would be even more so of a softy and cautious, no?Posted by MoonbutterOh the Gem Venus threw me off lolPosted by kissmygritsI think yes he is when it comes to love..He has Cancer Venus so I know he is very sensitive and cautious. He takes 1 step forward, 1 step back, then sideways...then back in the shell, etc lol
Also is he an introverted type? I'm Venus Gem, Mars Taurus etc and I proceed with caution. When it's all clear I open up. Just be patient. We're skiddish sometimes. 🙂click to expand
Yes but I over think. But that's because I'm a woman.
As a Gem I attract a lot of Cancers and I love Cancer Men
Posted by BlackNovaI tend to agree, and I rather go down the road less traveled if you know what I mean 😉Posted by tizianiThanks for remaining firmly astride your golden fence. LOLPosted by BlackNovaI don't think he's saying it's nicely paved. The simplest feelings are often the hardest. I took it to mean that if it's confusing, then the feeling between two people clearly isn't mutual. They may both have feelings for one another, just in different ballparks.Posted by incandescentcancerI disagree, many peeps confuse lust or infatuation with love. Some people can even create the idea of love in their mind, when no such feelings actually existPosted by MoonbutterAll this confusion is not required. When someone truly loves you, there is no ambiguity or doubts, you know it immediately in your heart.Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
If you have confusion, then it just isn't there.
Sometimes people can become so smitten with someone they see what they want to see and will latch on to anything the other person does or says to validate what they hope for, but is not there.
You're also suggesting that if someone loves another, that they are able to or willing to express that love, unambiguously, this is not always the case.
The road to love is not always a nicely paved, straight and clear road, with sign posts, sometimes it's a winding rocky goat track on the side of a mountain.
No ambiguity, no confusion, no doubts.....implies it's nicely paved and sign postedclick to expand
Posted by tizianiAha, I get it thanks 🙂Posted by MoonbutterI mean it could be that what you both have to offer each other is not what the other one wants. It happens. Doesn't mean there aren't feelings but feelings do not automatically mean mutual bond.Posted by tizianiWhat do you mean different ballparks?Posted by BlackNovaI don't think he's saying it's nicely paved. The simplest feelings are often the hardest. I took it to mean that if it's confusing, then the feeling between two people clearly isn't mutual. They may both have feelings for one another, just in different ballparks.Posted by incandescentcancerI disagree, many peeps confuse lust or infatuation with love. Some people can even create the idea of love in their mind, when no such feelings actually existPosted by MoonbutterAll this confusion is not required. When someone truly loves you, there is no ambiguity or doubts, you know it immediately in your heart.Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
If you have confusion, then it just isn't there.
Sometimes people can become so smitten with someone they see what they want to see and will latch on to anything the other person does or says to validate what they hope for, but is not there.
You're also suggesting that if someone loves another, that they are able to or willing to express that love, unambiguously, this is not always the case.
The road to love is not always a nicely paved, straight and clear road, with sign posts, sometimes it's a winding rocky goat track on the side of a mountain.click to expand
Posted by tizianiWell nothing is ever simple. you either go through the rough patches in the beginning or in the middle. I have done the smooth sailing many times and left me 'shipwrecked.' Maybe starting out having to navigate the choppy waters is the way to go.Posted by MoonbutterIsn't that more or less the problem though? No one wants it simple at first, even if it is - in truth - actually very simple. It's not important anyway, just an idea.Posted by BlackNovaI tend to agree, and I rather go down the road less traveled if you know what I mean 😉Posted by tizianiThanks for remaining firmly astride your golden fence. LOLPosted by BlackNovaI don't think he's saying it's nicely paved. The simplest feelings are often the hardest. I took it to mean that if it's confusing, then the feeling between two people clearly isn't mutual. They may both have feelings for one another, just in different ballparks.Posted by incandescentcancerI disagree, many peeps confuse lust or infatuation with love. Some people can even create the idea of love in their mind, when no such feelings actually existPosted by MoonbutterAll this confusion is not required. When someone truly loves you, there is no ambiguity or doubts, you know it immediately in your heart.Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
If you have confusion, then it just isn't there.
Sometimes people can become so smitten with someone they see what they want to see and will latch on to anything the other person does or says to validate what they hope for, but is not there.
You're also suggesting that if someone loves another, that they are able to or willing to express that love, unambiguously, this is not always the case.
The road to love is not always a nicely paved, straight and clear road, with sign posts, sometimes it's a winding rocky goat track on the side of a mountain.
No ambiguity, no confusion, no doubts.....implies it's nicely paved and sign postedclick to expand
Posted by BlackNova I disagree, many peeps confuse lust or infatuation with love. Some people can even create the idea of love in their mind, when no such feelings actually existI am talking about recognition when someone expresses love towards you. nothing else.
Sometimes people can become so smitten with someone they see what they want to see and will latch on to anything the other person does or says to validate what they hope for, but is not there.
You're also suggesting that if someone loves another, that they are able to or willing to express that love, unambiguously, this is not always the case.
The road to love is not always a nicely paved, straight and clear road, with sign posts, sometimes it's a winding rocky goat track on the side of a mountain.
Posted by tiziani I don't think he's saying it's nicely paved. The simplest feelings are often the hardest. I took it to mean that if it's confusing, then the feeling between two people clearly isn't mutual. They may both have feelings for one another, just in different ballparks.Yeah, if there is confusion then it probably isn't love to begin with.
Posted by BlackNova Thanks for remaining firmly astride your golden fence. LOLI don't think you truly understand what is being said, you want to read what you want to read...lol.
No ambiguity, no confusion, no doubts.....implies it's nicely paved and sign posted
Posted by BlackNovaWe can always argue about the existence of exceptions and surely you can succeed in providing examples. By and large, if there is need for growth hormones to create love or confusion of whether there is love or not, you're just convincing yourself.Posted by incandescentcancerThis is not a cosmic truth, it's only your perception of love, or what love should be, in your personal view.Posted by tiziani I don't think he's saying it's nicely paved. The simplest feelings are often the hardest. I took it to mean that if it's confusing, then the feeling between two people clearly isn't mutual. They may both have feelings for one another, just in different ballparks.Yeah, if there is confusion then it probably isn't love to begin with.
A confused state of mind, does not exclude the possibility that love exists or that a love can grow from a certain point in a relationship.click to expand
This is not about any great cosmic truth, simple common sense proven empirically over and over again on these very boards. How often have you seen any of these confused tales of love turning into "yaaayyy, the other person did truly love me after all", that's right, exactly 0.
Posted by ImpulsvThis I agree with^^^even for me. Maybe my friend is scared, but so am I which makes me even more confused of my feelings as well.
Confusion could be as simple as fear blocking love
Posted by BlackNovaYou're attributing to me things that I did not say. Nowhere have I provided a linear definition of love. If anything, I am pointing out to a very primal human instinct for recognition of the existence of love. However, we may behave deep down we all know if there is love or not. It's funny to contest that.Posted by tiziani
Isn't that more or less the problem though? No one wants it simple at first, even if it is - in truth - actually very simple. It's not important anyway, just an idea.
yeah, that's my basic point. Incandescentcancer was suggesting that there is some metaphysical law or enlightened thought that true love is never ambiguous or confusing.
Humans however, by nature, are emotional creatures (even Libra's) ....love is always subjective and colored by our emotions and experiences, our desires and needs.
Even if you apply the concept that simplicity in love is just a state of mind, this notion never manifests itself as simple or unambiguous, because love is not a fixed thing, it is an arbitrary thing, it changes and moves around, and true love can mean different things at different times in our lives.
If you ask everyone what is true love, you will get all kinds of differing viewsclick to expand
Posted by MoonbutterYou may have fear blocking the expression of love but that doesn't mean you don 't know that you love. That's what blacknova is arguing which is funnyPosted by ImpulsvThis I agree with^^^even for me. Maybe my friend is scared, but so am I which makes me even more confused of my feelings as well.
Confusion could be as simple as fear blocking loveclick to expand
Posted by BlackNova 2. A state of mental confusion does not automatically exclude the existence of love, or that someone does or doesn't feel love, or the potential for love to grow from a certain point in a relationship.It does. You can't say that you're confused about what your feelings are in most average cases. That's just escapism because you don't want to have the tougher conversations.
Posted by incandescentcancerWell I feel love for the person, I'm just not sure what type...really good friend I kinda like, or someone I could really be with...If he found someone I don't think I would be that upset actually, but at the same time I want to take care of him lol. Damn Cancer traits!Posted by MoonbutterYou may have fear blocking the expression of love but that doesn't mean you don 't know that you love. That's what blacknova is arguing which is funnyPosted by ImpulsvThis I agree with^^^even for me. Maybe my friend is scared, but so am I which makes me even more confused of my feelings as well.
Confusion could be as simple as fear blocking loveclick to expand
Posted by BlackNovaThat's still what I am saying, I have no idea why you think I am not. But I did not discuss anything about "true love" etc. I was merely talking about recognition.Posted by incandescentcancerYour word play jiggery won't work on me mr. crabPosted by BlackNovaYou're attributing to me things that I did not say. Nowhere have I provided a linear definition of love. If anything, I am pointing out to a very primal human instinct for recognition of the existence of love. However, we may behave deep down we all know if there is love or not. It's funny to contest that.Posted by tiziani
Isn't that more or less the problem though? No one wants it simple at first, even if it is - in truth - actually very simple. It's not important anyway, just an idea.
yeah, that's my basic point. Incandescentcancer was suggesting that there is some metaphysical law or enlightened thought that true love is never ambiguous or confusing.
Humans however, by nature, are emotional creatures (even Libra's) ....love is always subjective and colored by our emotions and experiences, our desires and needs.
Even if you apply the concept that simplicity in love is just a state of mind, this notion never manifests itself as simple or unambiguous, because love is not a fixed thing, it is an arbitrary thing, it changes and moves around, and true love can mean different things at different times in our lives.
If you ask everyone what is true love, you will get all kinds of differing views
You stated very clearly.....if there is confusion or ambiguity, then love never existed or didn't exist in the first place.click to expand
Son, I think you're confused.
Posted by BlackNovaHow do you want me to spell this out to make it easy for you to understand?Posted by incandescentcancerWhat?Posted by BlackNova 2. A state of mental confusion does not automatically exclude the existence of love, or that someone does or doesn't feel love, or the potential for love to grow from a certain point in a relationship.It does. You can't say that you're confused about what your feelings are in most average cases. That's just escapism because you don't want to have the tougher conversations.
It Sounds like you're now trying to butter your bread on both sidesclick to expand
Recognition of love in yourself or in the other person "should" be simple, if it isn't then the reality is that it's probably not love. This applies to most cases and obviously there will be a few exceptions.
Posted by CheeseburgerThis is a really great chart, thanks for sharing 🙂Posted by ImpulsvOff topic but relevant.Posted by CheeseburgerThis makes me sad. Why so final perhaps she did want to go in same direction and nice she felt for u
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A few years ago, I had to go to a psychiatrist because I was clinically depressed. It was mostly a non-rewarding experience. She was basically buying all the bullshit I was selling, but she did say something that left an impression on me. She said that inner harmony (she never cared about happiness, but I think she refereed to inner harmony and happiness interchangeably) is a sequence of investigations and actions. The sequence goes
1 - Know who you are.
2 - If you figured out the answer to #1, then you have to figure out now where you are going
3 - If you figured out the answer to #1 + #2, then you have to figure out how you're going to get there
4 - If you figured out the answer to #1 + #2 + #3, then you have to figure out who are you going to take with you.
When it comes to the Gemini & I, I know my #1,#2,#3. She doesn't know her #1 & #3 and already wants me to be her #4. If I add some sex and emotional/economical security to her equation, she would just adapt and play along for another x amount of time before she just calls quit because she is so miserable. Been there, done that, got the scars. I should know better than ruin my "inner harmony" for someone who's not going where i'm going.
That's how I see it.click to expand
Posted by BlackNovaNot only is this forum a small reference pool, but you have no way of knowing what transpires in peoples lives outside this forum. Plus, There is only ever one side of the story and it is mostly always embedded with personal bias and emotion.And not even in this small pool, you have been able to give me one empirical example of a success. Now just because you were not able to contest my statement with facts, don't get mean and go around calling people's words jibberish.
Common sense?
Common sense is not intrinsic to feelings or affairs of heart.
As I've already stated, nobody can define a simple, unambiguous meaning for what love is.
You're trying to present you comment (above) as being the answer to the emotions and feelings, that is.....love
Just stop with your jibberish.
I think the problem here is you're being a petulant child because you couldn't prove anything. When you actually have something, come back to me.
The rest of your statements are a rant and don't address anything I said, go back to the drawing board.
Posted by BlackNovaI am being condescending because I am getting tired with your lack of grasp of my statement. On top of that you still haven't been able to contest a very simple point that I made, show me one case on this forum where someone came in confused and then returned to tell you a great success story. Wherever there was confusion, it just ended in failure at the end.Posted by incandescentcancerShould be simple....according to you. But rarely is simple.....this is my point, which challenges your original premise that it should be, and is simple....but it's notPosted by BlackNovaHow do you want me to spell this out to make it easy for you to understand?Posted by incandescentcancerWhat?Posted by BlackNova 2. A state of mental confusion does not automatically exclude the existence of love, or that someone does or doesn't feel love, or the potential for love to grow from a certain point in a relationship.It does. You can't say that you're confused about what your feelings are in most average cases. That's just escapism because you don't want to have the tougher conversations.
It Sounds like you're now trying to butter your bread on both sides
Recognition of love in yourself or in the other person "should" be simple, if it isn't then the reality is that it's probably not love. This applies to most cases and obviously there will be a few exceptions.
Now you're starting get condescendingclick to expand
Posted by BlackNovaIs it weird, this is kinda turning me on? 😛 Please continue boys....Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by BlackNovaWe can always argue about the existence of exceptions and surely you can succeed in providing examples. By and large, if there is need for growth hormones to create love or confusion of whether there is love or not, you're just convincing yourself.Posted by incandescentcancerThis is not a cosmic truth, it's only your perception of love, or what love should be, in your personal view.Posted by tiziani I don't think he's saying it's nicely paved. The simplest feelings are often the hardest. I took it to mean that if it's confusing, then the feeling between two people clearly isn't mutual. They may both have feelings for one another, just in different ballparks.Yeah, if there is confusion then it probably isn't love to begin with.
A confused state of mind, does not exclude the possibility that love exists or that a love can grow from a certain point in a relationship.
This is not about any great cosmic truth, simple common sense proven empirically over and over again on these very boards. How often have you seen any of these confused tales of love turning into "yaaayyy, the other person did truly love me after all", that's right, exactly 0.
Not only is this forum a small reference pool, but you have no way of knowing what transpires in peoples lives outside this forum. Plus, There is only ever one side of the story and it is mostly always embedded with personal bias and emotion.
Common sense?
Common sense is not intrinsic to feelings or affairs of heart.
As I've already stated, nobody can define a simple, unambiguous meaning for what love is.
You're trying to present you comment (above) as being the answer to the emotions and feelings, that is.....love
Just stop with your jibberish.click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerNo offense but some of us are Virgos 😢Posted by MoonbutterAll this confusion is not required. When someone truly loves you, there is no ambiguity or doubts, you know it immediately in your heart.Posted by kissmygritsYes but how can I tell the difference?
He could still have feelings OR he now just values you as a friend. Either way isn't bad.
If you have confusion, then it just isn't there.click to expand
We don't get obvious signs, let alone "feelings in our hearts".
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Im aquarius m ex is gemini. We cant get along... Is like im on the right he on the left. I walk away everytime he gets me upset...or when he starts acting like a jerk. Then he leaves me alone for a while until he starts blowing up my phone and we star
My Gem just drunk called me saying he knows I deserve better but he loves me and he regrets cheating on me. He said he would rather have our friendship then lose me for good and he still wants to work on being my husband because a connection like ours co
Just wondering what you Gem's do when you are upset or angry. My good friend just went off the grid and his wife has been calling everyone to look for him but no one has seen him. He was having some marital problems and didn't come home the night befo
What if you messed up and tried to "cage" your delicate butterfly? And then acted distant/aloof...If a Gemini really loved/cared for you is it possible a Gemini will come back? what will make you guys come back and is there anything a person can do to get
so, we have been out on one date...and he was kind and all...but did not make any moves...it kind of looked like he had no interest in me...but still we kept texting oneanother...he joked a lot..and his jokes became a bit rude to me (i'm a libra...so i ne
Btw, you have more air in your chart with those two heavy planets in Libra, it's not just the Mars.