Posted by Arielle83The push pull means that they don't feel secure enough or they are scared to let you into their lives. @neves - once they finally let you in, it's still no picnic, they test you continuously. The crab is very guarded and very distrusting. It takes a lot to finally win their favor
@neves
Some cancers don't need as many people liking them as many people do.
If you're pursuing me, and there's something about you, my intuition pays attention to, then why do I need to let you in just because that's what you want?
On the other hand, I pursued only two men in my life, because I knew there was something in them I saw comfy. I never had a guard with them. I married one of them.
Like I said the push and pull means something isn't at a comfy level yet.
Posted by GemiGirl78Well, I want to be clear, I wasn't talking specifically about your particular situation. The whole BFF thing here does throw me for a loop and it sounds a bit gamey if hes telling you that's all he wants is to be BFFS and his actions are a bit more possessive. I know a lot of dudes that have acted possessive with me, and have had no interest in anything other than physical, (even though I never put out haha). Being a virgo, I have been able to step outside a situation and turn to my mercurial side to navigate the logic of a situation or a conversation in a similar way to air sign women in determining what is actually going on. Being a gemini I think this should also be fairly easy for you. The trick is to step outside your emotions to see clearly-perspective.Posted by CocoKatThis is very true... lol... Mine is around 24/7, he just wants to be BFFS... It's killing me. I can't even go anywhere or think of dating (not that I'd want to either) without him noticing or giving me an inquisition over where I'm going, who with, to do what... He'll even sabotage my networking plans if I'm dressed too revealing for after hours business and drinks events. If a man wants you, he doesn't hide, he takes possessionPosted by aquarius09Yup.Posted by CocoKatThe women on this board are desperate and turn into Pepe le pew. Constant "take me" "take me" isnt even enough for the guy to wanna take them. That should tell them of the guy's absolute disinterest, but nooooo.
Sorry I don't know what happened there.
Great first paragraph, you are right on!
Unfortunately these boards are filled with ladies like this, they don't ever seem to get it either. How hard is it to develop an EQ?
Sorry for getting off topic here, just some venting...
Whats worse is that there are women on this board who cannot tell the difference between their emotions and the other persons.. They think that if they have strong feelings the dude then has them too, despite how badly they are being treated and ignored, sometimes with very obvious game, yet there is that feeling of entitlement. Guys don't play hard to get or disappear for long if they are into you, are you disappearing on the dude you like? duh.click to expand
Posted by GemiGirl78Wow, he's really causing you a lot of emotional duress...
@cocokat - girl, trust me, even all my Geminis in my head are confused! Lol... They're having a caucus like they do in parliament or the senate to confer on the status of nations! Haha... They other day he realized I was depressed (over all this insecurity) and he kept prodding to get me to tell him why I looked sick and falling apart. I have a ton of stress from work etc so this added emotional crap was just too much, I went a week wearing easy to coordinate-black and quick to get out of the house-no makeup. Lol... I was in my "I don't give a butter mode" AND he was like so nervous over my non-Barbie status! He kept asking people if I'd told anyone why I looked upset and kept asking me... My response was -leave me the butter alone, I'm working through stuff! I'm not telling you, so stop. Lol... Then he started getting mean and told me I needed to get my stuff together cause I looked bad, like I was falling apart...and what was up with all this non-sexy covered up black clothing etc (I didn't look like all that bad!) ... He loves those 34-D's lol
Then the next day I wore a bright floral dress, with a sweetheart neckline that I was falling out of and my high heels and lots of eye makeup lol, my hair "all did up!" Haha... He was all better lol..
He said that he hated me looking so depressed and sad, and that I needed to look beautiful all the time... He says weird stuff all the time, like if I follow his advice on my looks then he'll have me married before the end of the year, etc (he's such a dork!) He also tells me how I remind him all the time of his mom and sometimes his dad or brother lol... I'm a little bit like every member of his family! I just adore this silly man.
Posted by aquarius09Ive seen that before, and Ive had it happen to me.. where the interest is purely sexual, guys get funny and do the whole cock blocking but, acting crazy. BUT when a dude is serious about liking you they tend to not keep it in their heads, they want you for themselves. Jerks!
@cocokat. It's interesting you mentioned those guys who act like a BF without the title. It's all on their heads.
I had two cancer coworkers in the past who acted all possessive and jealous about my interaction with other men. I wasn't even remotely interested in either other than a professional relationship. Meanwhile, they never attempted to ask me out but were very bold in sabotaging my good rapport with other male coworkers. They even used to come interrupt my conversations with other men and eavesdrop on them. In their stupid head, they probably viewed me as a gf, but reality was something else. One of them was sooo brutal in his jealousy that he made a smart ass comment to my insecure BF, at the time, when he came to visit. He said, "Oh, is that your BF? You might wanna keep a close eye on her. She's very popular with the guys here." My BF questioned me for a good one hr afterwards inquiring what that asshole meant by that. This asshole ironically had his gf working at the same place. He brought me to a point where I was going to report his ass not to HR, but to his gf. Seriously bud, you should be more concerned with her activities than mine.
Posted by GemiGirl78As mentioned above - I have a Cancer ASC, so in many ways... i act like a Cancer (especially the way i interact with strangers - how i connect with them - and whom i let inside). I'm quite familiar with the Cancer energy - to say the least... My point is: some of them can be real pricks - yet - they expect you to be a comfy saint. They might judge and test you in obnoxious ways - but don't you dare answer them with same coin. Though, if this guy makes you happy (whatever that means to you) - if he loves you... this should be quite obvious. Sometimes, even suffocating compared to others signs... it's kinda hard to believe that - you find his love confusing. You be the judge of that. 🙂Posted by Arielle83The push pull means that they don't feel secure enough or they are scared to let you into their lives. @neves - once they finally let you in, it's still no picnic, they test you continuously. The crab is very guarded and very distrusting. It takes a lot to finally win their favor
@neves
Some cancers don't need as many people liking them as many people do.
If you're pursuing me, and there's something about you, my intuition pays attention to, then why do I need to let you in just because that's what you want?
On the other hand, I pursued only two men in my life, because I knew there was something in them I saw comfy. I never had a guard with them. I married one of them.
Like I said the push and pull means something isn't at a comfy level yet.click to expand
Posted by GemiGirl78I think it is an issue, I was involved with several cancer men , married one, who was extremely abusive, and the other was verbally abusive.Posted by dorieIs this really a problem? Doesn't sound typical, they are very very loving souls.
Can someone tell me also why are so many cancer husbands beating their wives?click to expand
Posted by aquarius09^ classic 'dating a cancer male'
What is up with all these "I put my kiddy gloves on to deal with my fragile cancer man" stories? I tread carefully or I have curbed my personality to cater to him.
Maybe this is why I have a good opinion of cancer men this far: because I've always kept them in the friendzone.
Ironically, women are saying the exact same thing about them on sasstrology.com. They're all essentially saying the same thing that they had to change who they were to deal with their cancer man and the women who broke up with them sounded very annoyed by them.
Screw this shit! Whatever happened to BOTH parties compromising? It seems like that the women have adopted themselves a mental ill child that they cater to out of sympathy. Pfft.
Posted by CruellaWhiteI don't know. I've never had any guy in all my life love me on the platonic. Guys and girls being friends? I just don't see it happening. It's never been my case. So whatever this butter is, I just don't understand it. I'm calling bull-butter on it because I think he's just buying time. If he comes looking for me I'm going to snap at him so hardcore! Cause it's always the same, I push for answers, he cracks as a crab, I get backlash, we talk...blah blah..I love you as a friend/sister, then I retreat and in 2-3 days he starts with the comments you would not tell your sister, flirting, looking sad, begging for physical attentions-hugs, kisses on the cheek, just love. I'm an all or nothing type person, I go from hot to cold, so he may not like being my friend. I don't really hug or kiss them and for the most part I hate being touched. I don't think he'll like my 360 spin, but that's just how I feel right now. I am not the type that half loves. Even my mom and dad, I love them but I'm not in love with them (obviously) so I'm not very demonstrative with them. I think I hug them once a day, if even. My little crab I wanted to hold all the time... I'm so so sad over this.
It's up to you what you do. But the fact that he works for you might make him not want to piss you off and make you hate him.
You seem to think you are a right fit ...because you have amazing qualities...but that is not how love works....
You do deserve a guy who is in love with you. Like crazy in love.
Maybe he likes the idea of being with you because you have all these great qualities and he appreciates them. That is not love though.
I don't know what he will feel later if it grows or doesn't.
In my experience the real thing happens quick but with mutual certainty.
That's not to say it can't be different for you.
If you are happy. Be happy. If you are not happy.....choose happy.
Posted by KoniuchaWe are both 36
Honestly, it seems like you are giving way more in this situation. The whole thing just sounds exhausting and I wouldn't waste another second on this.
How old is this guy?
Posted by killerwhalemoonI'd love for you to expand on this? I'm trying to show him what I think love is... But sometimes I'm not sure if I'm very good at it... I'm dying to hear more of your thoughts on the topic
Had this talk with my crab. He says he feels a weight when he feels love. He said he wants to explore love....some cancers dont really know what love is because no ones ever been honest about it..question is...are you going to show em what love is?
Posted by killerwhalemoonYeah, that's not going to happen... He just flips outPosted by GemiGirl78Im 100% sure you need to be having this conversation with your mister. If you really love him and feel comfortable to spend the rest of your life with some one these talks will come natural.Posted by killerwhalemoonI'd love for you to expand on this? I'm trying to show him what I think love is... But sometimes I'm not sure if I'm very good at it... I'm dying to hear more of your thoughts on the topic
Had this talk with my crab. He says he feels a weight when he feels love. He said he wants to explore love....some cancers dont really know what love is because no ones ever been honest about it..question is...are you going to show em what love is?
Also hes your bestfriend not just a bf. Confide your self in him he will keep you safe.click to expand
Posted by tizianiNo guy is getting a free pass on such pussy like behaviour. Unacceptable! I wonder how such a person survives in the real world.Posted by aquarius09It's fairly normal though right, women being validated as nurturers is living the dream. Cancer/Scorpio and any male sign that's associated with being emotionally vulnerable is going to get a free pass in that sense.
What is up with all these "I put my kiddy gloves on to deal with my fragile cancer man" stories? I tread carefully or I have curbed my personality to cater to him.
Maybe this is why I have a good opinion of cancer men this far: because I've always kept them in the friendzone.
Ironically, women are saying the exact same thing about them on sasstrology.com. They're all essentially saying the same thing that they had to change who they were to deal with their cancer man and the women who broke up with them sounded very annoyed by them.
Screw this shit! Whatever happened to BOTH parties compromising? It seems like that the women have adopted themselves a mental ill child that they cater to out of sympathy. Pfft.click to expand
Posted by GemiGirl78he told you he loved you like a sister or a good friend. You are pushing for something he doesn't want, why are you intent to force your will on an employee no less.. he can sue you for sexual harrasment btw..
@Alfabutt
We met at work. He's my employee and I'm his direct superior, he's my office manager and my rock. Whenever I feel the waters choppy, I just throw my anchor and he steadys my boat back to a safe course. I love him completely. When he's crabby I feel like I'm walking on egg-shells but in a couple of hours he's fine again. When I hide, cause his mood chases me away, he immediately comes to find me. I can't say more than to say that I feel his love for me. I just don't know if it's romantic love. I'm thinking it's not or its covered by indecisions. I'm the type that loves completely and with no restrictions; I've never been afraid to love. He has a very complicated life. Mine is not complicated at all. I've no baggage, no kids, no exes, no drama. I'm a professional, I don't need anyone's money or support. All I need is love, like John Lennon lol... The choice to be friends is his and he says its because he loves our business relationship and how we are together. I think a business relationship can grow to a full-on partnership both in and out of the bedroom. As for me, I'm confident, beautiful, sophisticated, fit, and quite honestly I could have anyone or no one at all... But I've chosen him. He knows that's a huge deal because I decided to stay single and have been single and not looking for the past 4 years. I just was so over people that were not worthy of my time. Im just out of ideas. He knows how I feel, what I think, what I want.. Etc He's not running away but he's not running towards it. He also seems to think that my life is perfect and I should keep it just as it is - uncomplicated. I've been pushing and pushing and today he cracked, but not in the good cancer way - he was like a crab boiling in a pot, like completely unapproachable - I went and hid and then we confronted the issue, talked and now he's better but we'll see tomorrow. He left it at not being where I am in love, and that when I tell him about the mixed signals he feels like I misread them and that it makes him feel like a jerk for leading me on, when it's not his fault that he is sweet, he says that he loves me as a sister or very good friend. I love him in that way too, but then there are all the many other ways in which I adore him unlike anyone that I've ever known. This truly is the saddest story of my life. My timing is always wrong and probably always be wrong. I just realized that I knew a cancer once before, he married after we broke up like 1 year later then 6mo after contacted me about how he had made the biggest mistake of his life. Such is my luck, they realize after I'm long gone and the happy ending has been killed.
Posted by justagirlPosted by GemiGirl78he told you he loved you like a sister or a good friend. You are pushing for something he doesn't want, wh
@Alfabutt
We met at work. He's my employee and I'm his direct superior, he's my office manager and my rock. Whenever I feel the waters choppy, I just throw my anchor and he steadys my boat back to a safe course. I love him completely. When he's crabby I feel like I'm walking on egg-shells but in a couple of hours he's fine again. When I hide, cause his mood chases me away, he immediately comes to find me. I can't say more than to say that I feel his love for me. I just don't know if it's romantic love. I'm thinking it's not or its covered by indecisions. I'm the type that loves completely and with no restrictions; I've never been afraid to love. He has a very complicated life. Mine is not complicated at all. I've no baggage, no kids, no exes, no drama. I'm a professional, I don't need anyone's money or support. All I need is love, like John Lennon lol... The choice to be friends is his and he says its because he loves our business relationship and how we are together. I think a business relationship can grow to a full-on partnership both in and out of the bedroom. As for me, I'm confident, beautiful, sophisticated, fit, and quite honestly I could have anyone or no one at all... But I've chosen him. He knows that's a huge deal because I decided to stay single and have been single and not looking for the past 4 years. I just was so over people that were not worthy of my time. Im just out of ideas. He knows how I feel, what I think, what I want.. Etc He's not running away but he's not running towards it. He also seems to think that my life is perfect and I should keep it just as it is - uncomplicated. I've been pushing and pushing and today he cracked, but not in the good cancer way - he was like a crab boiling in a pot, like completely unapproachable - I went and hid and then we confronted the issue, talked and now he's better but we'll see tomorrow. He left it at not being where I am in love, and that when I tell him about the mixed signals he feels like I misread them and that it makes him feel like a jerk for leading me on, when it's not his fault that he is sweet, he says that he loves me as a sister or very good friend. I love him in that way too, but then there are all the many other ways in which I adore him unlike anyone that I've ever known. This truly is the saddest story of my life. My timing is always wrong and probably always be wrong. I just realized that I knew a cancer once before, he married after we broke up like 1 year later then 6mo after contacted me about how he had made the biggest mistake of his life. Such is my luck, they realize after I'm long gone and the happy ending has been killed.click to expand
Posted by GemiGirl78I know you replied to my above message but it got cut off, that's why my comment was so short.. max word limit.
@Charfig5
Yes, I am trying really hard to figure out how to cut my loses. For the past two days I've literally felt the love in my heart dying as I slowly realize what his words mean. Yesterday I looked at him, and it was really odd, I just didn't even know him anymore, like something in his face had changed, like a stranger. They say that love makes you blind or see things as prettier than they are, I kind of had a moment when I think the blinders came off. My heart is so heavy with sadness, it's almost as if a little part of him that lived in my heart has died.
Posted by HarukaaOddly enough mine isn't like that... He doesn't want to hurt me or use me in that way; it's this very holy type love that he has for me; like a big brother. He's protective, caring and puts up with all my Gemini crazy, of which I probably have more than some. I've no idea why he does what he does; other men in my life have always done it for the s*x but I'm not sure what he gets in return other than my feeling like he's my world; only he doesn't want that either... I've no idea. It's so selfless that it's almost selfish, cause just give and give to see if I repaid correctly...
They love / think with thier dicks
And that's it.
Posted by justagirlOh what I was trying to say before is that he doesn't mind the advances, loves the flirting, the compliments... It's just the me pressuring him for declarations of love in return that gets him going... Like he's not ready to be "in love" or for anyone to be "in love with him" - I can't explain it as anything other than emotionally unavailable in that kind of way that may lead to anything physical or serious in nature. I'm ready to take that step, I've been ready for months. At least making out, which cancers apparently love to do. Everyone that meets us think and ask if we are married, it's really funny. We are like that old married couple that have been together forever; I can see him being my little old man one day; all of which is heartbreaking to me.Posted by GemiGirl78I know you replied to my above message but it got cut off, that's why my comment was so short.. max word limit.
@Charfig5
Yes, I am trying really hard to figure out how to cut my loses. For the past two days I've literally felt the love in my heart dying as I slowly realize what his words mean. Yesterday I looked at him, and it was really odd, I just didn't even know him anymore, like something in his face had changed, like a stranger. They say that love makes you blind or see things as prettier than they are, I kind of had a moment when I think the blinders came off. My heart is so heavy with sadness, it's almost as if a little part of him that lived in my heart has died.
sorry you are going through this. it's rough and painful. I have been on that path and it sux. Hopefully you guys can work things out and be the best of friends/co workers 🙂click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Very good advice. I always try to stay consistent around him. I dunno why I feel like this is some huge Treetrunking test. Like to see if I just start dating random guys cause I never really loved as deeply as I vowed; or if I crumble or go off on him because I'm upset, or if I continue to push the topic and act disrespectful by not respecting his input... I dunno with Cancers sometimes it is what it is and other times it's something completely different and highly advanced - you smart little Treetrunking butters!
What I find interesting is women change to cater to a man who has yet to give them a green light.
Women just seem to think that "oh I care for him, do this for him, have sex with him, love him etc. " means that this should all be reciprocated.
Don't give until you can let your guard down and then you won't feel taken advantage of.
You all give and expect that to be enough to get close or trust, but it isn't. Give time and don't change. Changing means you weren't ever real in the first place.
Posted by rabidtalkerI really need your input... Am I being "cancer" vetted for quality control purposes - you people test all the time!
Hi GemGIrl78 😄
Posted by Arielle83yup
What I find interesting is women change to cater to a man who has yet to give them a green light.
Women just seem to think that "oh I care for him, do this for him, have sex with him, love him etc. " means that this should all be reciprocated.
Don't give until you can let your guard down and then you won't feel taken advantage of.
You all give and expect that to be enough to get close or trust, but it isn't. Give time and don't change. Changing means you weren't ever real in the first place.
Posted by HarukaaMine isn't interested or ready for sex yetPosted by GemiGirl78I'm talking about love not protect things.Posted by HarukaaOddly enough mine isn't like that... He doesn't want to hurt me or use me in that way; it's this very holy type love that he has for me; like a big brother. He's protective, caring and puts up with all my Gemini crazy, of which I probably have more than some. I've no idea why he does what he does; other men in my life have always done it for the s*x but I'm not sure what he gets in return other than my feeling like he's my world; only he doesn't want that either... I've no idea. It's so selfless that it's almost selfish, cause just give and give to see if I repaid correctly...
They love / think with thier dicks
And that's it.
Anyway .. they love when some need them, cancer men from what I know care about sex when it comes to love...I mean they love u when u give them good sex ..
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Posted by GemiGirl78
Posted by killerwhalemoonYeah, that's not going to happen... He just flips out
you need to be having this conversation with your mister. If you really love him and feel comfortable to spend the rest of your life with some one these talks will come natural.
Also hes your bestfriend not just a bf. Confide your self in him he will keep you safe.
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Posted by GemiGirl78I'm not saying to do anything to win anything or gain trust or to get close. People over complicate shit tbh. I did it when i was younger. Men are not that hard to sort out. Women think guys do x.y.z when in reality they don't, we just THINK they do.
@Arielle83
@justagirl
It's too funny you talk about being consistent and doing things just to get close or win trust.
He accused me of that the other day, that if I just did the nice things I did because I wanted something or because I just did them for him as a person because I cared or appreciated him.
It was the strangest thing... I do them because I love him, but it almost made me feel bad for doing them out of love - craziest thing ever. It's almost like he wants me to care for him as an individual and not as someone I love or have romantic feelings towards... He wants me to care, differently? I dunno, it's confusing
Posted by P-AngelHe's not going to get fired, he gets away with murder on my watch..Posted by GemiGirl78
Posted by killerwhalemoonYeah, that's not going to happen... He just flips out
you need to be having this conversation with your mister. If you really love him and feel comfortable to spend the rest of your life with some one these talks will come natural.
Also hes your bestfriend not just a bf. Confide your self in him he will keep you safe.
If he is flipping out, then it means you are attempting to smother him with your emotional baggage of insecurity.
A person will only get flipped out if they are being bothered. He obviously doesn't want to hear you constantly going on and on about how thirsty you are for him.
You have pushed him to the point of flipping out on you ..... I feel sorry for him.
And to top it off .... he knows he's going to get fired now.click to expand
Posted by Charfig5Ahhh... Being a sister is such misery lol
I wouldn't sleep with him if I were you. Unless you're looking for a fwb relationship. You should take the fact that he didn't push you to sleep with him as a good thing, it would be much worse to get rejected by him after having sex with him on top of everything else you already have in this situation. Also, him not trying to have sex with you does show that he respects you... And probably really loves you...like a sister.
Posted by FutureSeekerI have put the breaks on indeed. He knows it too, I'm just going to let it go and give him the chance to come to me if he wants.
@GemiGirl78 I always have a "Rule" in a relationship- I put the same amount of energy into a person that they put into me. If I find that I am putting more energy into them, I start pulling back. Why? Because it will drain me, and I won't get a return, I can't get a return on just my energy. I've found that when I am giving more, I'm spinning my wheels. When I match- I feel fulfilled and I'm not guessing or second guessing.
You seem to be putting in more energy than him.
Posted by thinktoomuchThat's exactly what I'm trying to do now. Just let him be and not invest any more into it.Posted by GemiGirl78What´s so confusing about it girl? He told you, he doesn´t feel the same way about you, that you feel about him (if I remember correctly from another topic. ... Or maybe it was this one)
@Arielle83
@justagirl
It's too funny you talk about being consistent and doing things just to get close or win trust.
He accused me of that the other day, that if I just did the nice things I did because I wanted something or because I just did them for him as a person because I cared or appreciated him.
It was the strangest thing... I do them because I love him, but it almost made me feel bad for doing them out of love - craziest thing ever. It's almost like he wants me to care for him as an individual and not as someone I love or have romantic feelings towards... He wants me to care, differently? I dunno, it's confusing
So you´re absolutely right: he does not want you to love him. Believe him when he says that.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchYup, I think that's what it is... I have this gift for bringing out the worst in people. I just need to let this one go and move on to learning how to be single.Posted by Arielle83Just wanted to insert here: if they want you to.
It's really not hard to make a cancer happy. You just have to show up and be happy.
We may seem moody and irritated, but if we are around someone positive, we become positive.
We don't need gifts.
It´s not hard to make a cancer happy, if he wants you to. Problem is here, he does not want her to and don´t really have the balls to come out and say it bluntly, because ofcours that will hurt her feelings.
I went through all of this. In a different manor ofcours, but still. Had lots of talks about relationship and why he didn´t want to be with me, and all I ever heard was that he wasn´t ready, it wasn´t me, it had nothing to do with me. I even told him: I feel like I am more into you, than you are into me. He again said okay and fine if I felt that way, but he just wasn´t ready.
Almost 4 years later and it turns out, he really just wasn´t interested in being in a relationship with me, because there "was some things about me, he didn´t want to have in his girlfriend". The thing about cancers being slow also goes the other way: they are also slow to tell you how they really feel, when it´s negative.click to expand
Posted by Charfig5LMAO! Dead
And probably really loves you...like a sister.
Posted by aquarius09Right?!? Simply the best ever! LolPosted by Charfig5LMAO! Dead
And probably really loves you...like a sister.click to expand
Posted by Charfig5So Char, today he told me the cutest thing. First girl he ever kissed in kinder was a Gemi. I can't figure out this boy AT ALL! Right when I give up on him, cuteness factor goes to 1000%
I'm sorry!😢
Posted by thinktoomuchShe's clearly in love with him... Have you ever been in a situation where you loved that one person so much but didn't get it back? I have, it sucks, and I stayed stuck on him for a lonnngggg time. Always hoping, anything he d give I would fall for... You know unfortunately the only person that can help her is herself... She ll either grow tired of being hurt or she ll be swept away by someone else.... Who knows. He might even come around.Posted by GemiGirl78Woman! Get yourself together! Just because he says something cute, it doesn´t mean he is into you. What is there to "figure out"? He tells you a story from kindergarten, so what?Posted by Charfig5So Char, today he told me the cutest thing. First girl he ever kissed in kinder was a Gemi. I can't figure out this boy AT ALL! Right when I give up on him, cuteness factor goes to 1000%
I'm sorry!😢
I´m just writing this, so you can snap out of it and not get seriously hurt. ... But perhaps you´re already in too deep and will go through what you need to go through.click to expand
Posted by GemiGirl78Did he say that knowing you're a gem?Posted by Charfig5So Char, today he told me the cutest thing. First girl he ever kissed in kinder was a Gemi. I can't figure out this boy AT ALL! Right when I give up on him, cuteness factor goes to 1000%
I'm sorry!😢click to expand
Posted by Charfig5Cause that does sound a little player-ish, like Alfa saidPosted by GemiGirl78Did he say that knowing you're a gem?Posted by Charfig5So Char, today he told me the cutest thing. First girl he ever kissed in kinder was a Gemi. I can't figure out this boy AT ALL! Right when I give up on him, cuteness factor goes to 1000%
I'm sorry!😢click to expand
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