Go ahead , ask this Cancarian anything you want! I dare you!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Bloodsugarsexmagic on Wednesday, May 17, 2017 and has 24 replies.

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@Cancermanhere89
9 Years

I like how bloodsugarsexmagic is being attacked and trolled for no reason. What are you attacking him for? If hes making this topic, its clearly not for you #########. Just leave the topic as far as the comments that are off topic go you all need to grow up...i dont see why people get offended with this, happen when i did a similar topic. Lol

I got you brother from a fellow cancer

Bloodsugarsexmagic

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@Valeria
9 Years

why would a cancer man ex write after a year of break-up and no contact? and he also requested to be friends again and follow everywhere on social media. The break up was terrible.

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@BettyBoobz
9 Years

Posted by Valeria
why would a cancer man ex write after a year of break-up and no contact? and he also requested to be friends again and follow everywhere on social media. The break up was terrible.

Yes please someone answer this

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@Bloodsugarsexmagic
9 Years

Valeria- he's trying to get you back. Very simple. He's testing out the waters. I don't know your star sign, but he must have some kind of unfinished business with you. He must also have some kind of comfort with you if he's even attempting to contact you again. Nonetheless communicate with him exactly what you feel. Do not sugar coat anything or he'll play games with you.

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@rach10
9 Years

How can they ask for a friendship after a month of breaking up...

And saying that I don't wanna talk about that but we can talk about other things.. what is he upto?

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@Jell17
9 Years

Long story short; met this cancer guy about a month ago, we hit it right off the bat, even made the decision to go home with him the same night, HE came on strong kissing and what not. (Felt that connection through the night) Slept over then he drove me back to my female friends house in the morning. An hr after being dropped off we exchanged a couple texts then silence on his part. Next couple of days I contacted trying to make plans and excuses to see him & said he was usually busy the majority of the time(new job) there is no contact on my part nor his part still. Idk it's quite obvious, but I'm testing my luck with reading between the lines. Would he come back? Is he going through something? Is he testing me? Is he a player? Dis he block me? Is he really busy? So many questions... Not enough answers... I DON'T want to obsess anymore

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@Bloodsugarsexmagic
9 Years

If he had fun with you, and likes you, he will contact you again. He's probably just busy. Don't take it personally. That's a typical Cancer trait , the push and pull. It's not intentional, it's just a crab thing.

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@Valeria
9 Years

But he broke up with me. I am a virgo. i read many times that cancers cant let go, but also when they are done they are done. Why appear into my life again? he lied a lot at the end of the relationship and guilt tripped me all the time. Now hes like Heeeey,, like we are old friends... i dont get it.

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@Bloodsugarsexmagic
9 Years

RUSKOVAXX- We Cancers get grossed out easily by dirty things and people, so if he's allowing you to sleep and have sex in his bed, you must be really good with your hygiene and he's very comfortable with you. This might turn out to something more serious in time so watch out!

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@Ceo8
9 Years

So I have been talking to this cancer woman and her moon is on cancer to ..so she was hot and could ..we going back and fort for a month ..son if i don't message her she won't write to me first so ignored her for a day next day in was deleted of social media ..why would she do that ..if she was the one leaving me on read

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@DivineWine9
9 Years

Why do Cancer guys (not all of them) always have this on and off thing with ex girlfriends. One minute he considers you his girl and next flip flops...is this something to do with insecurities?

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by DivineWine9
Why do Cancer guys (not all of them) always have this on and off thing with ex girlfriends. One minute he considers you his girl and next flip flops...is this something to do with insecurities?

It's probably the emotions from pleasant memories vs cold, hard truth

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@alynland
9 Years

Here's one for you.

I met this Cancer guy, turns out he is my brothers best friend and I never knew him or seen him for so long.automatically, there was a vibe.

We eventually found ourselves hooking up twice.

The mood was there. I thought he just wanted a hookup, but he acted more like this was sentimental. Anyways, he just stopped replying.

I'm pretty sure he despises me for some odd reason. But he did mention that he has had to talk himself out of hooking up with me often because he hangs out with my brother often.

I like this dude. But I'm getting a little irritated because he won't atleast let me know that we can't do that anymore. He won't be honest and just left me hanging. He just went ghost.

My question. What would happen if I let my Leo attitude & pride get the best of me and went off on how disrespectful it is to just do that when we have been friends? Lol he hates me anyways and made me look like a fool. I know he would ignore the message anyways but what might be his thoughts behind me going off...

My text would be somewhere along he lines of

"That's super disrespectful and selfish to leave someone hanging especially if I thought we were friends and better than that. I thought I wasn't just another girl."

Because I could have still been cool with him if he just let me know that we shouldn't hook up anymore. I'm heated about it. Mainly because of my pride, or that I actually have suppressed feelings for this guy and I feel like I didn't get to express that. I hate it, and I'm trying to think clearly. This happened a month ago and I haven't texted him in about 2.5 weeks.

Like I'll honestly let him go but not before I give him a piece of my mind (possibly)

Lol help.

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@justagirl
12 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by alynland
Here's one for you.

I met this Cancer guy, turns out he is my brothers best friend and I never knew him or seen him for so long.automatically, there was a vibe.

We eventually found ourselves hooking up twice.

The mood was there. I thought he just wanted a hookup, but he acted more like this was sentimental. Anyways, he just stopped replying.

I'm pretty sure he despises me for some odd reason. But he did mention that he has had to talk himself out of hooking up with me often because he hangs out with my brother often.

I like this dude. But I'm getting a little irritated because he won't atleast let me know that we can't do that anymore. He won't be honest and just left me hanging. He just went ghost.

My question. What would happen if I let my Leo attitude & pride get the best of me and went off on how disrespectful it is to just do that when we have been friends? Lol he hates me anyways and made me look like a fool. I know he would ignore the message anyways but what might be his thoughts behind me going off...

My text would be somewhere along he lines of

"That's super disrespectful and selfish to leave someone hanging especially if I thought we were friends and better than that. I thought I wasn't just another girl."

Because I could have still been cool with him if he just let me know that we shouldn't hook up anymore. I'm heated about it. Mainly because of my pride, or that I actually have suppressed feelings for this guy and I feel like I didn't get to express that. I hate it, and I'm trying to think clearly. This happened a month ago and I haven't texted him in about 2.5 weeks.

Like I'll honestly let him go but not before I give him a piece of my mind (possibly)

Lol help.

His silence speaks very loudly, imo.

Rant and vent to a friend..don't waste your words on someone that doesn't seem to want to hear them.

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@alynland
9 Years

Thanks everyone. Now I'm excited to send this text so I can just go on. Not that it hurts any less, but this Lioness likes to leave lasting impressions lol even if it's the last dramatic word...I'll own it haha