TaurusFlower22
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How Long Does it Take Cancer Men to Commit to a Relationship?
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Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
Posted by GingerbreadManTaurus girl and a Cancer dude lolPosted by Cannedcappie88Every weekend? Bad idea.
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
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Your high if you think its a bad idea
I wanna cuddle and they wanna cuddle after sexy time and cancers love sexy time. Its a win win lol
Posted by GingerbreadManPlease explain EinsteinPosted by Cannedcappie88Unrelated to the topic, but are you are an idiot.Posted by GingerbreadManTaurus girl and a Cancer dude lolPosted by Cannedcappie88Every weekend? Bad idea.
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
Your high if you think its a bad idea
I wanna cuddle and they wanna cuddle after sexy time and cancers love sexy time. Its a win win lol
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Posted by Cannedcappie88Thank you so much for your comment! It's so hard to believe he's into me because he rarely ever tries to make plans. He did ask me to come over one day, but I told him I was busy. I had to pick up my daughter from school. Then, he asked me another time to come over, but it was late at night, and also the night before thanksgiving. I had to work and travel the next day, so I said no. We haven't seen each other in almost 2 months! 😔 But he says, "I really like you in extreme amounts of like. It's been a really long time since I've liked someone this much". On another occasion, he told me "You are everything I'd love to have in a partner to build my kingdom with. I thought this was understood. :')" (yes, he added the teary smile).
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
I don't know if it matters, but we've had sex. But, not every meetup is sexual. Sometimes, it's hours of talking about any and everything. Sometimes it's cuddling until we fall asleep in each other's arms.
He's an amazing man, and I've fallen in love with him. He's everything I'd love to have in a partner too.
As far as the meeting up more often, he sees his child daily after work till about 7pmish. And weekends, he spends whatever time he can with him (he works 2 part time jobs on the weekend). I'm a single mom of 2, and I work 6 days a week. We both are artists. He's a poet, and I'm a painter. We're both trying to transition into making a loving doing our crafts. So, not much time for each other right now. We talked about this in depth, and agreed that we do want to be committed to each other in the near future though.
*making a living, not loving lol
Posted by GingerbreadManI believe this is true. That's exactly what I'd say. I'm number 3. Lol
She's number three or four in his life behind goals, his kid, and maybe his mom. Don't push yourself on him
Posted by Cannedcappie88That's exactly how it goes down. 😂😂😂Posted by GingerbreadManTaurus girl and a Cancer dude lolPosted by Cannedcappie88Every weekend? Bad idea.
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
Your high if you think its a bad idea
I wanna cuddle and they wanna cuddle after sexy time and cancers love sexy time. Its a win win lolclick to expand
Posted by tizianiThat's what I'm afraid it will turn into.
Without that time spent together it becomes a fantasy.
Posted by oxSunQueenxoNot really sure what you mean.
Lol from my experiences, Cancers speed through the whole process of getting to know people before they put the relationship label on. It's scary.
Posted by Cannedcappie88Do you have even have kids? Because if you do, and this is your behavior after 6 months, you got issues.
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
Posted by oxSunQueenxoLol yeah, I was once with a cancer man like that! He was the total opposite of this guy. Right away, he clung to me, and wouldn't let go. I had to cut it off. He was annoying af, and we had nothing in common.Posted by TaurusFlower22They commit too quickly.Posted by oxSunQueenxoNot really sure what you mean.
Lol from my experiences, Cancers speed through the whole process of getting to know people before they put the relationship label on. It's scary.
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Posted by tizianiI will try that. But, I don't want to nag. We're not even together technically.Posted by TaurusFlower22Then be real about that. You're feeling afraid. If he can listen to that, he's at least open to something. If he cannot or won't listen, you have your answer.Posted by tizianiThat's what I'm afraid it will turn into.
Without that time spent together it becomes a fantasy.
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Posted by tizianiHe texted me tonight, asking me if I wanted to come over after he gets off from work.
But at the end of the day it's you who knows what you want to do, not me. I look at it as taking control of things for yourself.
1. I missed the text because I went to sleep early. I just texted back, but I know he's asleep (it's almost 4am here). He said he'd love for me to come over.
2. My ex husband didn't pick up the girls today as I originally told cancer man. He's picking them up before I go to work in the AM.
Well, I'm really messing this up royally! This is "no" #3 from me. But, I do want to see him. I miss him. I guess I have my answer though. He's trying to see me.
So, Cancerians...What say you? When you actually like someone, do you want to commit asap, or do you prefer to take your time?
Posted by GingerbreadManDid you just cyber yell at me? My cyber ears are bleeding now. 😂Posted by TaurusFlower22TAKE MY TIME ESPECIALLY WHEN I HAVE A LIFE.
So, Cancerians...What say you? When you actually like someone, do you want to commit asap, or do you prefer to take your time?
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Posted by TaurusFlower22All you said, sounds normal and ok IMO. You got to understand, that for last two years he was rebuilding his life (breakup, losing family, kids in a way...). Us cancers fall apart internally when major shit like this happens. Rebuilding ourselves and life on some different level is a slow and hard process and when we come to a point that we are ok, it’s little scary to let new things (people) in, because it threatens the stability of what we built so hard.
Hi guys! I'm new here. I've known this Cancer man for 6 months now. He texts me every day, and we meet up like twice a month. He says he likes me very very much, and eventually he wants more, but right now he is trying to work on himself/his goals. He ended a long term relationship with his child's mom almost 2 years ago. And he says during that relationship, he had no time to focus on himself.
I have no problem with that, and would like more with him eventually as well. But, I'm not willing to wait forever. My question is how long does it take Cancerian men to commit to a relationship?
Till now i see you two had similar tempos, now you want some more. Nothing wrong with this, explore your need (is it insecurity or maybe you just feel that you are ready for level up, etc.) and talk with him about it (in person!), expressing, not pushing. Atleast I know, that on expressed needs and emotions of people i care about, I react positive, usually that is the way that makes me to step up and take action. If you push and it goes over my limits,I’ll react defensive.
I think you two are doing fine, just harmonize your tempos. He cares, he’s just slow because all of the past hurt and fear that comes with that.
Posted by ArgentumGosh, can't thank you enough for your comment! It really makes sense. A few weeks ago, I told him I was done because I felt he wanted to just string me along and have sex. Then, I disappeared. I was really hurting deeply just by the thought of it. His aloofness around that time wasn't helping matters either. Well, he poured his heart out to me and made sure I didn't go anywhere. We've since spoken in depth about this topic, and I've expressed what I would like to happen. So has he, and we seem to be on the exact same page.Posted by TaurusFlower22All you said, sounds normal and ok IMO. You got to understand, that for last two years he was rebuilding his life (breakup, losing family, kids in a way...). Us cancers fall apart internally when mayor shit like this happens. Rebuilding ourselves and life on some different level is a slow and hard process and when we come to a point that we are ok, it’s little scary to let new things (people) in, because it threatens the stability of what we built so hard.
Hi guys! I'm new here. I've known this Cancer man for 6 months now. He texts me every day, and we meet up like twice a month. He says he likes me very very much, and eventually he wants more, but right now he is trying to work on himself/his goals. He ended a long term relationship with his child's mom almost 2 years ago. And he says during that relationship, he had no time to focus on himself.
I have no problem with that, and would like more with him eventually as well. But, I'm not willing to wait forever. My question is how long does it take Cancerian men to commit to a relationship?
Till now i see you two had similar tempos, now you want some more. Nothing wrong with this, explore your need (is it insecurity or you maybe you just feel that you are ready for level up, etc.) and talk with him about it (in person!), expressing, not pushing. Atleast I know, that on expressed needs and emotions of people i care about, I react positive, usually that is the way that makes me to step up and take action. If you push and it goes over my limits,I’ll react defensive.
I think you two are doing fine, just harmonize your tempos. He cares, he’s just slow because all of the past hurt and fear that comes with that.click to expand
I feel like it's partially an insecurity of mine, to answer your question. And I've told him about it. I've been hurt in the past, and wanted to make sure my time isn't being wasted in the process of giving him his time/space. I feel I also need time right now to work on building myself up artistically. I don't think it'd be fair right now to jump into a committed relationship, knowing I am trying to dedicate as much time as I can to that. I have a major art show coming up next year, and trying to create a body of work for it takes a lot of time and focus. I want to def. commit to him though in the near future. I love him so much. I'll be patient.
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8 months in...I want a relationship. LOL
I haven't said anything to him. We're in the same place we were 2 months ago, except for the sex. OMG it has gotten intense. He's MUCH more affectionate, attentive and rarely breaks eye contact. He's also been very protective of me lately, and frequently reminds me to take care of myself (take naps, etc) lol. It's sweet! But, I'm impatient. Should I hang in there or not? I don't want to waste my time. What if it never happens?
8 months in...I want a relationship. LOL
I haven't said anything to him. We're in the same place we were 2 months ago, except for the sex. OMG it has gotten intense. He's MUCH more affectionate, attentive and rarely breaks eye contact. He's also been very protective of me lately, and frequently reminds me to take care of myself (take naps, etc) lol. It's sweet! But, I'm impatient. Should I hang in there or not? I don't want to waste my time. What if it never happens?
Posted by RaakacYes! I feel we have all of those things in our...non-relationship uh, relationship. I'm so confused and irritated. I hate the thought of possibly being strung along.
Hmm don't know about commitment , but you can def be in relationship and work on yourself at the same time. As for me relationship is a sign of love, growth, respect, trust and support for each other, these things as respect and trust gives person a freedom, so dont try to restrict me from doing anything i want, sure i'll make sacrifices but because i want to. Dont try to trap cancer or put him in a cage because we like our freedom, we support, respect, love and trust you and expect same shit back. Idk maybe not all cancers are like that, but as a cancer sun sag moon i'm.
It'll come. He just wants to make sure you're the one. My cancer was similar and maybe a week after we met I told him what I was looking for and not just a fling and exactly how I would like things and he excepted the honesty and from then on we worked on being friends and then 2 months later he asked me to be his gf. He explained that he wanted me to be his gf after a month but just wanted to make sure I felt then same way. Be patient it'll come
Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Posted by GemitatiLol ok.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.click to expand
Posted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
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Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
Posted by TaurusFlower22Ahem...Um...MY opinion 😊Posted by GemitatiPosted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!click to expand
I am not an air sign. And just because a cancer has decided to lend you his penis for the moment, that does not suddenly make you the all-knowing on Cancer men.
Thank you for your 2 cents though. **hands them back**
Posted by TaurusFlower22No it doesn’t make me know all about Cancerian men!Posted by TaurusFlower22Ahem...Um...MY opinion 😊Posted by GemitatiPosted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
I am not an air sign. And just because a cancer has decided to lend you his penis for the moment, that does not suddenly make you the all-knowing on Cancer men.
Thank you for your 2 cents though. **hands them back**
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That’s why I asking. Never had one.
Since 1993 it was Cap and Scorp.
And all of a sudden breath of fresh air Cancer! And he is nothing like my mom who rips every ass apart!
So...I am wondering.
Posted by GemitatiYou sure have an interesting way of backpedali...um...asking. Feel free to inquire on one of the many threads you've already asked the same question hundreds of ways. This is kinda my thread. Thanks.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it doesn’t make me know all about Cancerian men!Posted by TaurusFlower22Ahem...Um...MY opinion 😊Posted by GemitatiPosted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
I am not an air sign. And just because a cancer has decided to lend you his penis for the moment, that does not suddenly make you the all-knowing on Cancer men.
Thank you for your 2 cents though. **hands them back**
That’s why I asking. Never had one.
Since 1993 it was Cap and Scorp.
And all of a sudden breath of fresh air Cancer! And he is nothing like my mom who rips every ass apart!
So...I am wondering.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiI get why you would think that given your history with Scorps.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!click to expand
But Cancer men are a different breed all together. Maybe when they are young they care about lust and getting laid, but after that stage, they give little weight to sex and sexual appeal. They care about bonding.
Posted by nikkistarI can feel it. He is unable to bond due to business shit but he is bonding by talking and he seems very comfortable telling me boring shit...because I asked about like ‘wiring machine to a computer so it works’ kind of crap!Posted by GemitatiI get why you would think that given your history with Scorps.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
But Cancer men are a different breed all together. Maybe when they are young they care about lust and getting laid, but after that stage, they give little weight to sex and sexual appeal. They care about bonding.click to expand
So is it a good ‘bonding’?
Along with ‘playing with grandkids’...
Like I give a shit but I say ‘enjoy your family time until i get you in my hands’...
Am I doing well? Lol
Posted by GemitatiThis is not your thread, love.Posted by TaurusFlower22I’ll ask as many times as I want until someone actually comes and gives an answer that I can respect and consider.Posted by GemitatiYou sure have an interesting way of backpedali...um...asking. Feel free to inquire on one of the many threads you've already asked the same question hundreds of ways. This is kinda my thread. Thanks.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it doesn’t make me know all about Cancerian men!Posted by TaurusFlower22Ahem...Um...MY opinion 😊Posted by GemitatiPosted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
I am not an air sign. And just because a cancer has decided to lend you his penis for the moment, that does not suddenly make you the all-knowing on Cancer men.
Thank you for your 2 cents though. **hands them back**
That’s why I asking. Never had one.
Since 1993 it was Cap and Scorp.
And all of a sudden breath of fresh air Cancer! And he is nothing like my mom who rips every ass apart!
So...I am wondering.
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Posted by GemitatiSounds like you're faking. That gets old after a while, no? You plan to fake a connection forever?Posted by nikkistarI can feel it. He is unable to bond due to business shit but he is bonding by talking and he seems very comfortable telling me boring shit...because I asked about like ‘wiring machine to a computer so it works’ kind of crap!Posted by GemitatiI get why you would think that given your history with Scorps.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
But Cancer men are a different breed all together. Maybe when they are young they care about lust and getting laid, but after that stage, they give little weight to sex and sexual appeal. They care about bonding.
So is it a good ‘bonding’?
Along with ‘playing with grandkids’...
Like I give a shit but I say ‘enjoy your family time until i get you in my hands’...
Am I doing well? Lol
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Posted by TaurusFlower22All threads are mine. Haven’t you noticed, gorgeous? ❤️Posted by GemitatiThis is not your thread, love.Posted by TaurusFlower22I’ll ask as many times as I want until someone actually comes and gives an answer that I can respect and consider.Posted by GemitatiYou sure have an interesting way of backpedali...um...asking. Feel free to inquire on one of the many threads you've already asked the same question hundreds of ways. This is kinda my thread. Thanks.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it doesn’t make me know all about Cancerian men!Posted by TaurusFlower22Ahem...Um...MY opinion 😊Posted by GemitatiPosted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
I am not an air sign. And just because a cancer has decided to lend you his penis for the moment, that does not suddenly make you the all-knowing on Cancer men.
Thank you for your 2 cents though. **hands them back**
That’s why I asking. Never had one.
Since 1993 it was Cap and Scorp.
And all of a sudden breath of fresh air Cancer! And he is nothing like my mom who rips every ass apart!
So...I am wondering.
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Posted by GemitatiWhat I have noticed is you dgaf about anything but yourself and the newest dick, gorgeous.Posted by TaurusFlower22All threads are mine. Haven’t you noticed, gorgeous? ❤️Posted by GemitatiThis is not your thread, love.Posted by TaurusFlower22I’ll ask as many times as I want until someone actually comes and gives an answer that I can respect and consider.Posted by GemitatiYou sure have an interesting way of backpedali...um...asking. Feel free to inquire on one of the many threads you've already asked the same question hundreds of ways. This is kinda my thread. Thanks.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it doesn’t make me know all about Cancerian men!Posted by TaurusFlower22Ahem...Um...MY opinion 😊Posted by GemitatiPosted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
I am not an air sign. And just because a cancer has decided to lend you his penis for the moment, that does not suddenly make you the all-knowing on Cancer men.
Thank you for your 2 cents though. **hands them back**
That’s why I asking. Never had one.
Since 1993 it was Cap and Scorp.
And all of a sudden breath of fresh air Cancer! And he is nothing like my mom who rips every ass apart!
So...I am wondering.
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Posted by TaurusFlower22Not at all! When I’ve met Scorp we had connected about kids. It was main thing and we talked about it endlessly.Posted by GemitatiSounds like you're faking. That gets old after a while, no? You plan to fake a connection forever?Posted by nikkistarI can feel it. He is unable to bond due to business shit but he is bonding by talking and he seems very comfortable telling me boring shit...because I asked about like ‘wiring machine to a computer so it works’ kind of crap!Posted by GemitatiI get why you would think that given your history with Scorps.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
But Cancer men are a different breed all together. Maybe when they are young they care about lust and getting laid, but after that stage, they give little weight to sex and sexual appeal. They care about bonding.
So is it a good ‘bonding’?
Along with ‘playing with grandkids’...
Like I give a shit but I say ‘enjoy your family time until i get you in my hands’...
Am I doing well? Lol
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Here now - he has 3 in different states with grandkids and I can’t keep up with his travels for work, now he is in FL with daughter, he texts me and I can’t ask all the questions because I take all the info he gives me...and it’s been only a months!
I would love to find out more but prying into his huge family could be too much considering time we know each other.
So I am not drilling. Just reading what he is willing to give. Don’t want to overdo. But if he wants to talk - welcome and I am all ears.
Posted by GemitatiThat isn't really bonding. That's just information being distributed and conversation.Posted by nikkistarI can feel it. He is unable to bond due to business shit but he is bonding by talking and he seems very comfortable telling me boring shit...because I asked about like ‘wiring machine to a computer so it works’ kind of crap!Posted by GemitatiI get why you would think that given your history with Scorps.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
But Cancer men are a different breed all together. Maybe when they are young they care about lust and getting laid, but after that stage, they give little weight to sex and sexual appeal. They care about bonding.
So is it a good ‘bonding’?
Along with ‘playing with grandkids’...
Like I give a shit but I say ‘enjoy your family time until i get you in my hands’...
Am I doing well? Lol
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They bond by sharing those they hold dearest to them with you. By sharing information they wouldn't tell the world. You are their bestfriend, lover, and staunchest supporter. And if they've loved before, it will not happen quickly, and until they trust you.
Posted by TaurusFlower22True! ❤️Posted by GemitatiWhat I have noticed is you dgaf about anything but yourself and the newest dick, gorgeous.Posted by TaurusFlower22All threads are mine. Haven’t you noticed, gorgeous? ❤️Posted by GemitatiThis is not your thread, love.Posted by TaurusFlower22I’ll ask as many times as I want until someone actually comes and gives an answer that I can respect and consider.Posted by GemitatiYou sure have an interesting way of backpedali...um...asking. Feel free to inquire on one of the many threads you've already asked the same question hundreds of ways. This is kinda my thread. Thanks.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it doesn’t make me know all about Cancerian men!Posted by TaurusFlower22Ahem...Um...MY opinion 😊Posted by GemitatiPosted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
I am not an air sign. And just because a cancer has decided to lend you his penis for the moment, that does not suddenly make you the all-knowing on Cancer men.
Thank you for your 2 cents though. **hands them back**
That’s why I asking. Never had one.
Since 1993 it was Cap and Scorp.
And all of a sudden breath of fresh air Cancer! And he is nothing like my mom who rips every ass apart!
So...I am wondering.
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Is there anything wrong with that?
Good dick is hard to come by...
And when you’ve got it - ta-da! You happy!
Ever got that feelings?
Posted by GemitatiIs it really hard to come by? I don't think so. I don't go looking for "good dick". And my happiness certainly doesn't come from it, or disappear from lack of it. I'm much more interested in the person attached to it, which is why I made this thread.Posted by TaurusFlower22True! ❤️Posted by GemitatiWhat I have noticed is you dgaf about anything but yourself and the newest dick, gorgeous.Posted by TaurusFlower22All threads are mine. Haven’t you noticed, gorgeous? ❤️Posted by GemitatiThis is not your thread, love.Posted by TaurusFlower22I’ll ask as many times as I want until someone actually comes and gives an answer that I can respect and consider.Posted by GemitatiYou sure have an interesting way of backpedali...um...asking. Feel free to inquire on one of the many threads you've already asked the same question hundreds of ways. This is kinda my thread. Thanks.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it doesn’t make me know all about Cancerian men!Posted by TaurusFlower22Ahem...Um...MY opinion 😊Posted by GemitatiPosted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
I am not an air sign. And just because a cancer has decided to lend you his penis for the moment, that does not suddenly make you the all-knowing on Cancer men.
Thank you for your 2 cents though. **hands them back**
That’s why I asking. Never had one.
Since 1993 it was Cap and Scorp.
And all of a sudden breath of fresh air Cancer! And he is nothing like my mom who rips every ass apart!
So...I am wondering.
Is there anything wrong with that?
Good dick is hard to come by...
And when you’ve got it - ta-da! You happy!
Ever got that feelings?click to expand
Posted by nikkistarAgree. Thanks and true!Posted by GemitatiThat isn't really bonding. That's just information being distributed and conversation.Posted by nikkistarI can feel it. He is unable to bond due to business shit but he is bonding by talking and he seems very comfortable telling me boring shit...because I asked about like ‘wiring machine to a computer so it works’ kind of crap!Posted by GemitatiI get why you would think that given your history with Scorps.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
But Cancer men are a different breed all together. Maybe when they are young they care about lust and getting laid, but after that stage, they give little weight to sex and sexual appeal. They care about bonding.
So is it a good ‘bonding’?
Along with ‘playing with grandkids’...
Like I give a shit but I say ‘enjoy your family time until i get you in my hands’...
Am I doing well? Lol
They bond by sharing those they hold dearest to them with you. By sharing information they wouldn't tell the world. You are their bestfriend, lover, and staunchest supporter. And if they've loved before, it will not happen quickly, and until they trust you.click to expand
I had Scorpio told me I am the one who knows everything and there is nothing I don’t know because ‘I believe every word you saying to me’...
So...in a month we know each other I would assume we can work out ‘bonding’ based on a lot of things like...talking over simple stuff and being open to each other and like I said I’ve asked him to let me go if he feels there is nothing going on and he apologized and said ‘I didn’t mean to make you feel like that. I’ll try to be better’ and he does...today it was extremely sweet...and I don’t DO sweet well...
Lol
Posted by ImpulsvIdk how anyone can manage to out-slow a Taurus. But, this man has done it!Posted by TaurusFlower22TLol know you now how it is when u Taurus pace is slow .
*update*
8 months in...I want a relationship. LOL
I haven't said anything to him. We're in the same place we were 2 months ago, except for the sex. OMG it has gotten intense. He's MUCH more affectionate, attentive and rarely breaks eye contact. He's also been very protective of me lately, and frequently reminds me to take care of myself (take naps, etc) lol. It's sweet! But, I'm impatient. Should I hang in there or not? I don't want to waste my time. What if it never happens?
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In his defense though, I do have many many placements in Aries, including my Venus. His Venus on the other hand, is in Taurus. So, there you have it, I guess? 😂
Posted by TaurusFlower22Ok. It’s hard for me to explain because people think I made this up.Posted by GemitatiIs it really hard to come by? I don't think so. I don't go looking for "good dick". And my happiness certainly doesn't come from it, or disappear from lack of it. I'm much more interested in the person attached to it, which is why I made this thread.Posted by TaurusFlower22True! ❤️Posted by GemitatiWhat I have noticed is you dgaf about anything but yourself and the newest dick, gorgeous.Posted by TaurusFlower22All threads are mine. Haven’t you noticed, gorgeous? ❤️Posted by GemitatiThis is not your thread, love.Posted by TaurusFlower22I’ll ask as many times as I want until someone actually comes and gives an answer that I can respect and consider.Posted by GemitatiYou sure have an interesting way of backpedali...um...asking. Feel free to inquire on one of the many threads you've already asked the same question hundreds of ways. This is kinda my thread. Thanks.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it doesn’t make me know all about Cancerian men!Posted by TaurusFlower22Ahem...Um...MY opinion 😊Posted by GemitatiPosted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
I am not an air sign. And just because a cancer has decided to lend you his penis for the moment, that does not suddenly make you the all-knowing on Cancer men.
Thank you for your 2 cents though. **hands them back**
That’s why I asking. Never had one.
Since 1993 it was Cap and Scorp.
And all of a sudden breath of fresh air Cancer! And he is nothing like my mom who rips every ass apart!
So...I am wondering.
Is there anything wrong with that?
Good dick is hard to come by...
And when you’ve got it - ta-da! You happy!
Ever got that feelings?
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I have my type of men I would consider and if it’s not my type - they can cartwheel but I will yawn!
Cancer is a spit image of a Scorpio.
When I showed his pic to my mom she said I saw it! I said NO! It’s a different man! She was like...it can’t be!
So...I look for the face and personality to even consider anything! Then if he is also a good in bed - there we go!
I am not browsing dicks!
It’s a person first. If he happened to be ‘undeliverable’ - I would be very surprised because I usually see it in their face!
Posted by ImpulsvI did, about 4 months ago. We talked and decided that we want to be committed to each other eventually. But we are both artists who both are a couple years out of long term relationships (mine was a marriage) that we put our all into. Now, it's time to focus on making a professional name for ourselves.
JOKING ASIDE After 8 month it is ok to ask where u stand
This was where we both were at a few months ago. And I was cool with it. Now, I'm kinda not. Lol
Btw, we both said we're not seeing other people.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by nikkistarAgree. Thanks and true!Posted by GemitatiThat isn't really bonding. That's just information being distributed and conversation.Posted by nikkistarI can feel it. He is unable to bond due to business shit but he is bonding by talking and he seems very comfortable telling me boring shit...because I asked about like ‘wiring machine to a computer so it works’ kind of crap!Posted by GemitatiI get why you would think that given your history with Scorps.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
But Cancer men are a different breed all together. Maybe when they are young they care about lust and getting laid, but after that stage, they give little weight to sex and sexual appeal. They care about bonding.
So is it a good ‘bonding’?
Along with ‘playing with grandkids’...
Like I give a shit but I say ‘enjoy your family time until i get you in my hands’...
Am I doing well? Lol
They bond by sharing those they hold dearest to them with you. By sharing information they wouldn't tell the world. You are their bestfriend, lover, and staunchest supporter. And if they've loved before, it will not happen quickly, and until they trust you.
I had Scorpio told me I am the one who knows everything and there is nothing I don’t know because ‘I believe every word you saying to me’...
So...in a month we know each other I would assume we can work out ‘bonding’ based on a lot of things like...talking over simple stuff and being open to each other and like I said I’ve asked him to let me go if he feels there is nothing going on and he apologized and said ‘I didn’t mean to make you feel like that. I’ll try to be better’ and he does...today it was extremely sweet...and I don’t DO sweet well...
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They are slow to move. Just a heads up.
Posted by TaurusFlower22Do you think he is worth waiting for? If so. Who cares what anyone tells you. Some will tell you to move on. You make that choice.Posted by ImpulsvI did, about 4 months ago. We talked and decided that we want to be committed to each other eventually. But we are both artists who both are a couple years out of long term relationships (mine was a marriage) that we put our all into. Now, it's time to focus on making a professional name for ourselves.
JOKING ASIDE After 8 month it is ok to ask where u stand
This was where we both were at a few months ago. And I was cool with it. Now, I'm kinda not. Lol
Btw, we both said we're not seeing other people.
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As someone who stayed, it was worth it. For me.
Posted by nikkistarWhat was the waiting like for you? How long did you wait?Posted by TaurusFlower22Do you think he is worth waiting for? If so. Who cares what anyone tells you. Some will tell you to move on. You make that choice.Posted by ImpulsvI did, about 4 months ago. We talked and decided that we want to be committed to each other eventually. But we are both artists who both are a couple years out of long term relationships (mine was a marriage) that we put our all into. Now, it's time to focus on making a professional name for ourselves.
JOKING ASIDE After 8 month it is ok to ask where u stand
This was where we both were at a few months ago. And I was cool with it. Now, I'm kinda not. Lol
Btw, we both said we're not seeing other people.
As someone who stayed, it was worth it. For me.click to expand
He is so worth it. He's really been there for me in huge ways. I had a health scare back in June. He took the day off from work and stayed with me during and after my surgery. My own family didn't do that. He's been there for everything, good and bad that has gone on in the time we've known each other. And I won't go into detail, but he is fiercely protective of me. I love him. I'm deeply in love with him.
Posted by TaurusFlower22It depends on how deeply he was hurt previously, on how long it takes.Posted by nikkistarWhat was the waiting like for you? How long did you wait?Posted by TaurusFlower22Do you think he is worth waiting for? If so. Who cares what anyone tells you. Some will tell you to move on. You make that choice.Posted by ImpulsvI did, about 4 months ago. We talked and decided that we want to be committed to each other eventually. But we are both artists who both are a couple years out of long term relationships (mine was a marriage) that we put our all into. Now, it's time to focus on making a professional name for ourselves.
JOKING ASIDE After 8 month it is ok to ask where u stand
This was where we both were at a few months ago. And I was cool with it. Now, I'm kinda not. Lol
Btw, we both said we're not seeing other people.
As someone who stayed, it was worth it. For me.
He is so worth it. He's really been there for me in huge ways. I had a health scare back in June. He took the day off from work and stayed with me during and after my surgery. My own family didn't do that. He's been there for everything, good and bad that has gone on in the time we've known each other. And I won't go into detail, but he is fiercely protective of me. I love him. I'm deeply in love with him.
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I waited more than a year before we finally got where we are. And while waiting, we acted like a couple without the title. He prioritized me above many. But he always shied away from a title. He was protective of me too, to the point he wouldnt even allow my mom to hurt me. He just didn't want to hurt again.
Now we are here. I have the title. He's moving across the country for me and school. And I don't question what my place is. All because we took the time together to make sure we both wanted this, while working on ourselves. I am now first, even before his mom in ways.
Posted by nikkistarNo rush on my part. I like it...slow...Posted by GemitatiPosted by nikkistarAgree. Thanks and true!Posted by GemitatiThat isn't really bonding. That's just information being distributed and conversation.Posted by nikkistarI can feel it. He is unable to bond due to business shit but he is bonding by talking and he seems very comfortable telling me boring shit...because I asked about like ‘wiring machine to a computer so it works’ kind of crap!Posted by GemitatiI get why you would think that given your history with Scorps.Posted by TaurusFlower22No it’s not.Posted by GemitatiHe isn't lusting over me because this isn't lust-based. So, there's that. It's a good thing in my opinion.Posted by Cannedcappie88I am so curious actually. How is your response happened based on almost no info in OP?
Im surprised no one said something yet— He's into you girl. Let him chase you. Give him some time and reasurance you won't reject him. He probably thinks he needs too better himself too be with you. You Taurus ladys do that to us because you're too perfect...But Let me think. Taurus girl/cancer man... Its so awesome, if hes a good one your screwed lol. You meet up twice a month? Try too make it every weekend and go from there. It sounds like he has the kid every other weekend. That shouldn't stop you from being with each other. If you want more with each other then make it happen lol its simple.
2 people communicating daily and meet twice a months...and he is into her and it’s a beautiful thing?
And there is apparently not much physical contact because...he isn’t lusting over her.
He is ‘bettering’ himself for her? Where did you get that from? Oh. Because you are a Cancer and you know?
Seems like hand holding stage will be going on until he will fall for some one who will make him to see her everyday.
Just my opinion. This seems just plain boring.
Men want women for a reason.
If you are a good fuck - he will persue.
If you aren’t turn on - end of the story!
But Cancer men are a different breed all together. Maybe when they are young they care about lust and getting laid, but after that stage, they give little weight to sex and sexual appeal. They care about bonding.
So is it a good ‘bonding’?
Along with ‘playing with grandkids’...
Like I give a shit but I say ‘enjoy your family time until i get you in my hands’...
Am I doing well? Lol
They bond by sharing those they hold dearest to them with you. By sharing information they wouldn't tell the world. You are their bestfriend, lover, and staunchest supporter. And if they've loved before, it will not happen quickly, and until they trust you.
I had Scorpio told me I am the one who knows everything and there is nothing I don’t know because ‘I believe every word you saying to me’...
So...in a month we know each other I would assume we can work out ‘bonding’ based on a lot of things like...talking over simple stuff and being open to each other and like I said I’ve asked him to let me go if he feels there is nothing going on and he apologized and said ‘I didn’t mean to make you feel like that. I’ll try to be better’ and he does...today it was extremely sweet...and I don’t DO sweet well...
Lol
They are slow to move. Just a heads up.
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Posted by nikkistarWow, that middle paragraph sounds pretty identical to us currently. As a matter of fact, I was going to use those exact words. We act like a couple without the title. So, I don't get why a title would be a big deal? A few of his friends have even asked me what we are. LolPosted by TaurusFlower22It depends on how deeply he was hurt previously, on how long it takes.Posted by nikkistarWhat was the waiting like for you? How long did you wait?Posted by TaurusFlower22Do you think he is worth waiting for? If so. Who cares what anyone tells you. Some will tell you to move on. You make that choice.Posted by ImpulsvI did, about 4 months ago. We talked and decided that we want to be committed to each other eventually. But we are both artists who both are a couple years out of long term relationships (mine was a marriage) that we put our all into. Now, it's time to focus on making a professional name for ourselves.
JOKING ASIDE After 8 month it is ok to ask where u stand
This was where we both were at a few months ago. And I was cool with it. Now, I'm kinda not. Lol
Btw, we both said we're not seeing other people.
As someone who stayed, it was worth it. For me.
He is so worth it. He's really been there for me in huge ways. I had a health scare back in June. He took the day off from work and stayed with me during and after my surgery. My own family didn't do that. He's been there for everything, good and bad that has gone on in the time we've known each other. And I won't go into detail, but he is fiercely protective of me. I love him. I'm deeply in love with him.
I waited more than a year before we finally got where we are. And while waiting, we acted like a couple without the title. He prioritized me above many. But he always shied away from a title. He was protective of me too, to the point he wouldnt even allow my mom to hurt me. He just didn't want to hurt again.
Now we are here. I have the title. He's moving across the country for me and school. And I don't question what my place is. All because we took the time together to make sure we both wanted this, while working on ourselves. I am now first, even before his mom in ways.click to expand
Yeah, he was in his previous relationship for damn near 20 years with his child's mom. He ended it because he said he finally realized they "don't work".
I tried to leave a few months ago (after that "what are we" convo).
He. Would. Not. Let. Me. Go.
And he told me I'm everything he wants in a woman. He said, "I thought this was understood". There were tears. I was shocked! I would have never guessed that's how he felt about me. He hid it well.
I do notice when we are intimate now, it is very much lovemaking. I couldn't just say we have sex. It's the most intense sex I've ever had. If he is playing with my heart, this will be a cruel and terrible heartbreak. I try to force myself not to feel so much for him. But, I can't control it anymore. He's there for me daily...my biggest fan, cheering me on supporting my every endeavor, and loving me the way I need to be loved. If this is him just stringing me along, I'm going to be devastated.
Posted by TaurusFlower22I have come to just understand that most that have been hurt before in a relationship almost don't trust themselves to judge if a woman is right or not because their past is bad. The lack of title is like a last ditch effort for them to mentally safeguard themselves. Gives them an out mentally so they don't get too hurt.Posted by nikkistarWow, that middle paragraph sounds pretty identical to us currently. As a matter of fact, I was going to use those exact words. We act like a couple without the title. So, I don't get why a title would be a big deal? A few of his friends have even asked me what we are. LolPosted by TaurusFlower22It depends on how deeply he was hurt previously, on how long it takes.Posted by nikkistarWhat was the waiting like for you? How long did you wait?Posted by TaurusFlower22Do you think he is worth waiting for? If so. Who cares what anyone tells you. Some will tell you to move on. You make that choice.Posted by ImpulsvI did, about 4 months ago. We talked and decided that we want to be committed to each other eventually. But we are both artists who both are a couple years out of long term relationships (mine was a marriage) that we put our all into. Now, it's time to focus on making a professional name for ourselves.
JOKING ASIDE After 8 month it is ok to ask where u stand
This was where we both were at a few months ago. And I was cool with it. Now, I'm kinda not. Lol
Btw, we both said we're not seeing other people.
As someone who stayed, it was worth it. For me.
He is so worth it. He's really been there for me in huge ways. I had a health scare back in June. He took the day off from work and stayed with me during and after my surgery. My own family didn't do that. He's been there for everything, good and bad that has gone on in the time we've known each other. And I won't go into detail, but he is fiercely protective of me. I love him. I'm deeply in love with him.
I waited more than a year before we finally got where we are. And while waiting, we acted like a couple without the title. He prioritized me above many. But he always shied away from a title. He was protective of me too, to the point he wouldnt even allow my mom to hurt me. He just didn't want to hurt again.
Now we are here. I have the title. He's moving across the country for me and school. And I don't question what my place is. All because we took the time together to make sure we both wanted this, while working on ourselves. I am now first, even before his mom in ways.
Yeah, he was in his previous relationship for damn near 20 years with his child's mom. He ended it because he said he finally realized they "don't work".
I tried to leave a few months ago (after that "what are we" convo).
He. Would. Not. Let. Me. Go.
And he told me I'm everything he wants in a woman. He said, "I thought this was understood". There were tears. I was shocked! I would have never guessed that's how he felt about me. He hid it well.
I do notice when we are intimate now, it is very much lovemaking. I couldn't just say we have sex. It's the most intense sex I've ever had. If he is playing with my heart, this will be a cruel and terrible heartbreak. I try to force myself not to feel so much for him. But, I can't control it anymore. He's there for me daily...my biggest fan, cheering me on supporting my every endeavor, and loving me the way I need to be loved. If this is him just stringing me along, I'm going to be devastated.
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If he's worth it, then it's up to you to decide if you stay or not. No one knows what the future holds, and no one can guarantee if a relationship lasts or not. You just have to ask yourself if the title is really that important that it negates the good. No one can answer that for you.
I can tell you that for a bit, my boyfriend's friends would call me his gf in public, and he wouldn't correct them. But privately there were times where he would almost push me and poke me by saying we were friends. If you ask him now, he'd tell you it was because he didn't want to get hurt and if he allowed it in his head before he was ready, he had a higher chance of that. Even though I wouldn't.
Posted by nikkistarI find them to be confusing...they say one thing, but then act another way...like tough guys. Lol And it seems to always be to protect their feelings.Posted by TaurusFlower22I have come to just understand that most that have been hurt before in a relationship almost don't trust themselves to judge if a woman is right or not because their past is bad. The lack of title is like a last ditch effort for them to mentally safeguard themselves. Gives them an out mentally so they don't get too hurt.Posted by nikkistarWow, that middle paragraph sounds pretty identical to us currently. As a matter of fact, I was going to use those exact words. We act like a couple without the title. So, I don't get why a title would be a big deal? A few of his friends have even asked me what we are. LolPosted by TaurusFlower22It depends on how deeply he was hurt previously, on how long it takes.Posted by nikkistarWhat was the waiting like for you? How long did you wait?Posted by TaurusFlower22Do you think he is worth waiting for? If so. Who cares what anyone tells you. Some will tell you to move on. You make that choice.Posted by ImpulsvI did, about 4 months ago. We talked and decided that we want to be committed to each other eventually. But we are both artists who both are a couple years out of long term relationships (mine was a marriage) that we put our all into. Now, it's time to focus on making a professional name for ourselves.
JOKING ASIDE After 8 month it is ok to ask where u stand
This was where we both were at a few months ago. And I was cool with it. Now, I'm kinda not. Lol
Btw, we both said we're not seeing other people.
As someone who stayed, it was worth it. For me.
He is so worth it. He's really been there for me in huge ways. I had a health scare back in June. He took the day off from work and stayed with me during and after my surgery. My own family didn't do that. He's been there for everything, good and bad that has gone on in the time we've known each other. And I won't go into detail, but he is fiercely protective of me. I love him. I'm deeply in love with him.
I waited more than a year before we finally got where we are. And while waiting, we acted like a couple without the title. He prioritized me above many. But he always shied away from a title. He was protective of me too, to the point he wouldnt even allow my mom to hurt me. He just didn't want to hurt again.
Now we are here. I have the title. He's moving across the country for me and school. And I don't question what my place is. All because we took the time together to make sure we both wanted this, while working on ourselves. I am now first, even before his mom in ways.
Yeah, he was in his previous relationship for damn near 20 years with his child's mom. He ended it because he said he finally realized they "don't work".
I tried to leave a few months ago (after that "what are we" convo).
He. Would. Not. Let. Me. Go.
And he told me I'm everything he wants in a woman. He said, "I thought this was understood". There were tears. I was shocked! I would have never guessed that's how he felt about me. He hid it well.
I do notice when we are intimate now, it is very much lovemaking. I couldn't just say we have sex. It's the most intense sex I've ever had. If he is playing with my heart, this will be a cruel and terrible heartbreak. I try to force myself not to feel so much for him. But, I can't control it anymore. He's there for me daily...my biggest fan, cheering me on supporting my every endeavor, and loving me the way I need to be loved. If this is him just stringing me along, I'm going to be devastated.
If he's worth it, then it's up to you to decide if you stay or not. No one knows what the future holds, and no one can guarantee if a relationship lasts or not. You just have to ask yourself if the title is really that important that it negates the good. No one can answer that for you.
I can tell you that for a bit, my boyfriend's friends would call me his gf in public, and he wouldn't correct them. But privately there were times where he would almost push me and poke me by saying we were friends. If you ask him now, he'd tell you it was because he didn't want to get hurt and if he allowed it in his head before he was ready, he had a higher chance of that. Even though I wouldn't.click to expand
I had a Cancer best friend growing up. It ended when she suggested that I should date a longtime friend of ours. I did. She got PISSED, she seduced him and then called me boasting about what happened.
Yeahhh...LOL
My dad is also a Cancer. Didn't realize how sensitive he actually is till recently. He's hidden it behind a macho Marine exterior all my life.
Thank you! 😊
What is your sun sign, btw?
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