Maianm's Breakdown (Page 2)

come on Mai, u'll be mad because he stood u up, it has nothing to do with the money

Oh hell yea I will be mad about the fact that he stood me up, but even madder about the money!

He is going through money problems of his own...and if wastes mine, when he knows my situation...that would show a complete lack of caring about me. Like I said, I could see if it were just dinner and the movies, no biggie.

I would have no choice but to leave him alone.

((playing the violin))

Be quiet LS!!!! LOL.

We will see what this joker does....but he BETTER not stand me up, and I mean it! You mess with the Scorpion you get the stinger! LOL.

Ok well what else do you thnk other than that theory, b/c I dont like that one. LOL

umm..umm...that is my only theory

U won't sting him Mai...we both know that sweetie

Aw you suck! LOL. We we shall see says the bling man...we shall see.

Do you think this b.c he has not called yet today, or would you have thought this even if he did call?

i would have thought that regardless of a phone call

Mai,

please remember, i am not psychic honey.

LMAO!! Your'e not!?!??! I know...I just like to got others input thats all. I know you dont know exactly why anything happens. Shoot, he prob doesnt know why he does the stupid stuff he does, himself! LOL. Just like to get your opinion. I know its not gospel. LMAO!

Oooh I just saw that stinging comment you left. Shhooottt I sure will sting the hell out of his a $ $ .

u'll want to but ur heart won't let u because u know if u sting, u dont have a chance in hell ever

LMAO@LS! Dam these cancer men!

so...what else Mai?

LS...thats it for me as of right now. Just hanging tight and being patient.

Sweet...nope he did not call yesterday. So we shall see if he calls today. I am pretty sure he will. But at this point who knows.

Yeah, I hope he realizes the sacrafice you're making and he doesn't stand you up. My cancer doesn't always come through on plans, but he knows that it isnt a good thing and he doesn't mind explaining himself or doing something to make up for it. Like I said, if he has a lot of family and friends then its probably easy for him to get caught up doing something. I realized I was going to have to give my Cancer time to see me as a priority, and rightly so...I think its crazy to expect someone to meet you, like you, then decide that you're the most important thing in their world in a matter of days (too many movies, novels, and fairy tales). It takes time to build a solid foundation and it should...the future of the building rests on it (literally and figuratively)

True..all very true. I just cannot stand it when ANYONE does not do what they say they are going to do. It really gets under my skin.

I completely agree with you....but...I have learned to deal with it because Mai, the road to hell is paved with good intentions, and how do they get there..some people tell you they will do something intending to do it...this happens, that happens and it doesnt get done. They don't mean any harm but even the most meticulous planner must be flexible to a certain degree, in fact the best plans include As, Bs and if you're good a C. Part of patience is waiting, the other parts are not getting into anything else while you wait and waiting without grumbling. You made a good point when you said these aren't just dinner and a movie plans so I REALLY hope he doesn't stand you up. Most of the time if its something important my Cancer shows up or he sincerely apologizes and makes it up. I think when they're serious they know what they said they were going to do and they do have hard feelings about not doing it. They aren't above explaining and asking for forgiveness...just dont come down explosively because they bruise easily and take it out on themselves.I cant say anything bout them in general but my Cancer isnt the type to walk over my feelings just because I dont yell and scream and insult him when I tell him that I dont appreciate something he did or didnt do.

We will see what happens...I'll let you guys know what happens..k. 🙂

Wish me luck!

HE CALLED!!!!!! Ring the alarm!!! HE CALLED!! LMAO!!!!! ROTFL!!!!

JK. But he did call. We just talked for about 30 mins. I kept trying to get off of the phone...but he kept stretching it out. Telling me how much he missed me...how he cant wait to see tomorrow....

He said that he was planning on coming over yesterday after he left his grandmother's but he got caught up there...I dont know if I beleive that. I said...oh dont worry about it I wasn't at home anyway. Then he asked where I went and I told him that I went out with a couple of friends. I feel kinda bad that I lied...but it just came out. Opps.

So, it looks like (for now) that he is not going to stand me up and that he is going to be a good boy this weekend. But we shall see.

Mai, u were out with a couple of friends, u were with us at DXP (the hot spot)...so u didn't lie

True that LS!!! LOL!! I was out with the DXP homegirls.... ROTFL!!!!

He called to explain and confirm...for me thats a really big indication that my cancer is trying to do right and he's thinking about me! Yes you were hanging out with us...so it wasnt a lie. Plus I'm sure it gave him a little incentive to get on the right track 😉 good luck Chica.

looks like Mai didnt get stood up

Just like I said.. nothing to worry about..

Whats up ya'll! Nope I didnt get stood up after all. In fact, we had a really good time together this weekend. I looked awesome of course...in a lil' sexy dress that I wore out to dinner on Saturday night, that he kept complimenting me on. LMAO. Then we went to breakfast, this morning.

While we were at breakfast his mother called, and of course he answered. She asked him to come to her company picnic at an amusement park out here in LA called Knotts Berry Farm. So, he if asked if I wanted to come with him. I told him that it was okay b/c it was like 100 degrees out here today and I did not feel like walking around outside at an amusement park, and I was really tired from last night. Then he he asked if i minded if he went when we were done with breakfast. Of course, I didnt want him to go. Then again I never really want him to leave. LOL. But I said "of course not" Then he kept asking me what I would do all day while hes at knotts. I told him that I would hang out with friends, which is what i did. he called me three times today while he was at Knotts telling me that he felt bad leaving that he wanted to spend the whole weekend with me. I told him that it was really no big deal and i didnt expect for him to spend the whole weekend with me, which I really i didnt.

I was really surprised that he acted that way about leaveing. I mean we had spent a good part of the day yesterday together and the morning today together. i honestly, did not see the big deal. Maybe....I am actually learning to GO WITH THE FLOW and SLOW MY ROLL!!!! LMAO. But anuway..he kept thanking me for always being there for him and being real understanding.

So all in all it was a prety good weekend! Did anyone do anything fun or interesting?

Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Mai!! Im so glad it worked for you. My weekend was pretty dull except my Cancer calling me to keep me updated on his "action packed" days as he called them ( He's gotten back in the habit of calling me everynight before work and Im loving it) and my Virgo high school sweetheart showing up at church today and talking to everyone in my family like it was a reunion except me...I mean yes I was kinda avoiding him too but he didnt have to act like he didnt see me. That patience and understanding pays off, I'm tellin you. ^5....this Slow Ya Roll class pays off lol.

Moon.....whoa whoa slow your horses cow girl. LOL. We did have a good weekend, but I am definitely not close to being out of the woods with little Mr. Cancer,yet. LMAO. I have a long road ahead of me and I am trying to pace myself, accordingly. Take small and slow baby steps. But thanks so much for the support! 🙂 But we did have a GREAT weekend! Te he te he! 😉

Sweet- That's good that your Cancer kept in contact with you throughout the weekend. Ooohhh a mysterious ex Vigo huh!?!?!? LOL! Hmmm... Virgos are a bit strange. Who knows what makes them tick. LOL.

I've got him figured out and I dont like what I've figured..which is the reason we are only high school sweethearts and I know he avoided me because I dont lavish him with praise and attention (he WANTED me to come to him)...he's not going to take the chance of gettin his face played in a big way by being pretentious (and shot down) like he used to be.

Moon - Yea I Know I can lie....I got a little excited about this weekend myself. But I stopped myself right befre I started to imagine the hearts in the air. LMAO!!!!

Sweet- yea, I dont know about the Virgos. My father is one, and I love him to death and hes a great a father, but I do not know how my mother dealt with him. ROTFL!

yay maianm :0)

Damn I take a step back and come back and...I don't know.

What's going on around here?

lol oh Im definitely sticking with my Cancer, I dont pimp backwards 😉 lol (no I am not pimping, I actually have a heartfelt interest in my cancer).

Hey Karima, where you been girl?

Where is LS and Krobe— Ladies—?

I dunno Im sure they'll be on later

"Where is LS and Krobe— Ladies—?"

Mai, there's this thing during the day that i do...its called work

Mai,

hate to burst ur bubble, but he is building u up with excitement, only to break u down.

i smell a disappearing act coming on.

LS, Ummm yea I am familiar with work. But I just go on here every now an then while I am at work.

"hate to burst ur bubble, but he is building u up with excitement, only to break u down.
i smell a disappearing act coming on."

Maybe, maybe not. What will be, will be. When I decided to take a step, I didnt just deicde to not ask him to kick it and let him bring it up, or to let him call me all the time. I decided to take a step in all ways, including emotionally. If he decides to do that stupid disappearng magician show then thats what he decides to do, and I will go out with my friends and enjoy and live life. Now please dont get me wrong, I am not saying that this wont bother me...or maybe even sting a little, b/c I am sure it will. But I realize now that this is the process until either I leave hom alone or he decides to fully commit, and even then he will do this. So, if I am going to still deal with him i have to tolerate this with the right attitude. And that is simply that i do like him..but I love me. So, I am going to try my best to stay focused, cool and calm.

Shoot if he wants to disappear then let him, I am surely not going to chase him again. But guess what if it is meant to be, then he will come running back just as fast as he left. So, we shall see.

But I am still happy that I enjoyed myself this weekend. its always good to have fun!

So like I always say, we shall see. I will DEFINTELY keep ya'll in the loop! 😉

opps I meant to say "when I decided to take a step BACK"

*sprinkle*

Lol...what does that mean "sprikle"? Sprinkle what? LOL. Forgive me its Monday and its been a lon day. LOL

LOL@moon....

Dam I am so hungry but too lazy to get up and get anything. 😢

i'm sprinkling my negativity dust in here

Uh uh sista'. You keep that crappy dust to yourself. I am going to have it hard enough as it is....i dont need yor voodoo hexes. LOL.

Be gone with that EVIL dust, I say! LMAO!!!!

lmao @ Mai

LMAO!!!

IM HUUUNNNGRRYYY

sounds to me like you're probably still hungry Moon

have some more apple pie...you'll feel better

and some vanilla ice cream....go ahead...eat it