scorpiogirl01
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PLEASE HELP! I'm so confused!
This conversation with him shouldn't even exist until the two of you meet face to face. Start there.
Posted by GC01Hi GC01, I know we took things too quickly which is why I think he's realized i'm not his type. He has gotten so cold that he doesn't initiate texts anymore.
Maybe he's starting to get cold feet? I mean y'all seam to be getting serious pretty fast.
Posted by CrabraWell it did. But now i'm not sure if we're even gonna meet up anymore. We have just got into an argument over my personal stuff and he's like saying i'm pointing out your situation to you and i don't like it. Now he says he does not like my attitude most of the time. Honestly imo he's just looking for an excuse to get away now. Looking back at our texts and conversations all of them were happy and we were smiling. I have told him that since we're already together and if he thinks we might have a shot at this, to take his time to think and let me know. Not very hopeful on this one.
This conversation with him shouldn't even exist until the two of you meet face to face. Start there.
You just said it. He's looking for excuses and he's already emotionally left the relationship.
Posted by peoI don't get it. Why do Cancer men do that? I have been reading up so much about them and I see the same situation everywhere. My best girl friend is a Cancer too but she says that Cancer men and women are very different. I just felt this connection with him, guess it was meant to be just some short happy memory.
You just said it. He's looking for excuses and he's already emotionally left the relationship.
Posted by Eddie_VanjoviIts gone now anyways. I really don't think he's gonna come back.Posted by CrabraMake an effort to meet each other in person first before making plans for the future together like that. Don't be desperate. Protect yourself.
This conversation with him shouldn't even exist until the two of you meet face to face. Start there.click to expand
How can someone regardless of sun signs can decide to move to another country together with a person they never personally met?! Based on what?
He is definitely backing away for what reason I don't know...
Things it could be
He is scared
He is being a douche
He is seeing someone else
He sees that the relationship wont work and is trying to get you to break up with him
His roommate, family or friends are. Influencing his decision to move forward
Things it could be
He is scared
He is being a douche
He is seeing someone else
He sees that the relationship wont work and is trying to get you to break up with him
His roommate, family or friends are. Influencing his decision to move forward
Posted by IamAriesIdk. When he suggested, it sounded ridiculous too but it slowly sinked in that maybe it could happen since I have extended family there. Or maybe he's just really bored so he's playing all theses games with people?
How can someone regardless of sun signs can decide to move to another country together with a person they never personally met?! Based on what?
I'm sorry. Seems like he thinks your relationship isn't worth fighting and he has already given up, I believe that. Him not being sweet anymore says a lot, since it's a water sign. Yes I think he won't come back and you have to be strong enough to face that alright.
Posted by Cancan26Yes i think you are right. Those were the reasons I had though about. I really don't see any hope.
He is definitely backing away for what reason I don't know...
Things it could be
He is scared
He is being a douche
He is seeing someone else
He sees that the relationship wont work and is trying to get you to break up with him
His roommate, family or friends are. Influencing his decision to move forward
Posted by pisceanlovesIdk I have given him the choice. I am not putting much hope. I guess it was sweet while it lasted. The first indication was his texts, since we have 12 hours difference in timing, i usually get loads of texts while sleeping and each conversation would surely have something sweet from him but then all that stopped.
I'm sorry. Seems like he thinks your relationship isn't worth fighting and he has already given up, I believe that. Him not being sweet anymore says a lot, since it's a water sign. Yes I think he won't come back and you have to be strong enough to face that alright.
Posted by scorpiogirl01I understand it can sound like a romantic idea in the beggining....escaping everything and moving to a new country with the love of your life. But....just no.Posted by IamAriesIdk. When he suggested, it sounded ridiculous too but it slowly sinked in that maybe it could happen since I have extended family there. Or maybe he's just really bored so he's playing all theses games with people?
How can someone regardless of sun signs can decide to move to another country together with a person they never personally met?! Based on what?click to expand
Dont make such an important life decision based on online conversations only.
As a lot already said here....meet. Then the rest will come. Or not come.
Good luck!
Posted by IamAriesI doubt we will ever meet now since he's already backing out from the relationship.Posted by scorpiogirl01I understand it can sound like a romantic idea in the beggining....escaping everything and moving to a new country with the love of your life. But....just no.Posted by IamAriesIdk. When he suggested, it sounded ridiculous too but it slowly sinked in that maybe it could happen since I have extended family there. Or maybe he's just really bored so he's playing all theses games with people?
How can someone regardless of sun signs can decide to move to another country together with a person they never personally met?! Based on what?
Dont make such an important life decision based on online conversations only.
As a lot already said here....meet. Then the rest will come. Or not come.
Good luck!click to expand
Posted by scorpiogirl01Posted by CrabraWell it did. But now i'm not sure if we're even gonna meet up anymore. We have just got into an argument over my personal stuff and he's like saying i'm pointing out your situation to you and i don't like it. Now he says he does not like my attitude most of the time. Honestly imo he's just looking for an excuse to get away now. Looking back at our texts and conversations all of them were happy and we were smiling. I have told him that since we're already together and if he thinks we might have a shot at this, to take his time to think and let me know. Not very hopeful on this one.
This conversation with him shouldn't even exist until the two of you meet face to face. Start there.click to expand
Yup, you beat me to it. I was going to mention that he is looking for a way out. End his search, and give it to him. Waste of your time, this one.
When was it an anxiety issue not being able to get out of US to friggim CHINA?
Are you stupid or stupid—
Are you stupid or stupid—
Posted by scorpiogirl01I don't think it's just a cancer thing. It's a guy thing.Posted by peoI don't get it. Why do Cancer men do that? I have been reading up so much about them and I see the same situation everywhere. My best girl friend is a Cancer too but she says that Cancer men and women are very different. I just felt this connection with him, guess it was meant to be just some short happy memory.
You just said it. He's looking for excuses and he's already emotionally left the relationship.click to expand
The only cancer thing might be that he was too head over heels and committed too quickly, now that things are getting difficult and the rose colored glasses have come off he's already made too many promises.
Posted by scorpiogirl01don't be sad 😢 there is always hope ...cancer change all the time ..it might just be a rough patch talk to him openly about it 🙂Posted by Cancan26Yes i think you are right. Those were the reasons I had though about. I really don't see any hope.
He is definitely backing away for what reason I don't know...
Things it could be
He is scared
He is being a douche
He is seeing someone else
He sees that the relationship wont work and is trying to get you to break up with him
His roommate, family or friends are. Influencing his decision to move forwardclick to expand
Posted by CrabraI think i just gave it to him, he didn't reply anymore. 😢Posted by scorpiogirl01Posted by CrabraWell it did. But now i'm not sure if we're even gonna meet up anymore. We have just got into an argument over my personal stuff and he's like saying i'm pointing out your situation to you and i don't like it. Now he says he does not like my attitude most of the time. Honestly imo he's just looking for an excuse to get away now. Looking back at our texts and conversations all of them were happy and we were smiling. I have told him that since we're already together and if he thinks we might have a shot at this, to take his time to think and let me know. Not very hopeful on this one.
This conversation with him shouldn't even exist until the two of you meet face to face. Start there.
Yup, you beat me to it. I was going to mention that he is looking for a way out. End his search, and give it to him. Waste of your time, this one.
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Posted by GemitatiWhat are you talking about? He was having some anxiety issues at that point, not anxiety about not being able to go to china.
When was it an anxiety issue not being able to get out of US to friggim CHINA?
Are you stupid or stupid—
Posted by Cancan26Lets see about that. If he even replies to my texts. I really do like this guy but it seems difficult to understand him or what he wants. 😢Posted by scorpiogirl01don't be sad 😢 there is always hope ...cancer change all the time ..it might just be a rough patch talk to him openly about it 🙂Posted by Cancan26Yes i think you are right. Those were the reasons I had though about. I really don't see any hope.
He is definitely backing away for what reason I don't know...
Things it could be
He is scared
He is being a douche
He is seeing someone else
He sees that the relationship wont work and is trying to get you to break up with him
His roommate, family or friends are. Influencing his decision to move forwardclick to expand
Posted by scorpiogirl01OnePosted by GemitatiWhat are you talking about? He was having some anxiety issues at that point, not anxiety about not being able to go to china.
When was it an anxiety issue not being able to get out of US to friggim CHINA?
Are you stupid or stupid—click to expand
More
Time!
WHO leaves US for China unless he wanted to sell your organs?
Posted by SkyeIdk, might not even be that case. Im so messed up right now.
"All was fine until his housemate returned from overseas..."
... and knocked some sense into his head. 🙂
Posted by peoI think you are right. Too head over heels and committed too quickly.Posted by scorpiogirl01I don't think it's just a cancer thing. It's a guy thing.Posted by peoI don't get it. Why do Cancer men do that? I have been reading up so much about them and I see the same situation everywhere. My best girl friend is a Cancer too but she says that Cancer men and women are very different. I just felt this connection with him, guess it was meant to be just some short happy memory.
You just said it. He's looking for excuses and he's already emotionally left the relationship.
The only cancer thing might be that he was too head over heels and committed too quickly, now that things are getting difficult and the rose colored glasses have come off he's already made too many promises.
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Posted by infiresWell he did say a couple of times he wants to be with me, wish he was here with me, wish i was there with him etc etc. I dont think he's using me? I feel that he may have gotten in too fast too serious and he's realized it now. Or he may have met someone else so the attention goes to her.
i feel as if he might be using you
he put more emphasis on getting out of u.s then being with you..that's number 1 hint. also suddenly he grew cold, when he realized he won't be getting out..number 2. number 3...no one gets that serious too fast, so there's the underlying intention
Posted by infiresYes that's why i'm so confused!! If you read my replies to other comments, we had an argument last night and he said he doesn't like my situation, he didn't like my attitude most of the time and i'm like what—? He did not even explain himself. Anyway he's still not initiating a breakup.Posted by scorpiogirl01there's no way to know for sure..but it's kind of weird how he just stopped communicating as much after he couldn't come to china.Posted by infiresWell he did say a couple of times he wants to be with me, wish he was here with me, wish i was there with him etc etc. I dont think he's using me? I feel that he may have gotten in too fast too serious and he's realized it now. Or he may have met someone else so the attention goes to her.
i feel as if he might be using you
he put more emphasis on getting out of u.s then being with you..that's number 1 hint. also suddenly he grew cold, when he realized he won't be getting out..number 2. number 3...no one gets that serious too fast, so there's the underlying intention
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Posted by scorpiogirl01Posted by CrabraI think i just gave it to him, he didn't reply anymore. 😢Posted by scorpiogirl01Posted by CrabraWell it did. But now i'm not sure if we're even gonna meet up anymore. We have just got into an argument over my personal stuff and he's like saying i'm pointing out your situation to you and i don't like it. Now he says he does not like my attitude most of the time. Honestly imo he's just looking for an excuse to get away now. Looking back at our texts and conversations all of them were happy and we were smiling. I have told him that since we're already together and if he thinks we might have a shot at this, to take his time to think and let me know. Not very hopeful on this one.
This conversation with him shouldn't even exist until the two of you meet face to face. Start there.
Yup, you beat me to it. I was going to mention that he is looking for a way out. End his search, and give it to him. Waste of your time, this one.
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It's for the best that he doesn't. Next step is to delete numbers, email addys, and any other forms of contact.
Posted by CrabraWell, i did all that. I just could not have him on skype and everytime I log in, I see him online I wonder how is he. So I cut all contact deleted all pictures he sent me.Posted by scorpiogirl01Posted by CrabraI think i just gave it to him, he didn't reply anymore. 😢Posted by scorpiogirl01Posted by CrabraWell it did. But now i'm not sure if we're even gonna meet up anymore. We have just got into an argument over my personal stuff and he's like saying i'm pointing out your situation to you and i don't like it. Now he says he does not like my attitude most of the time. Honestly imo he's just looking for an excuse to get away now. Looking back at our texts and conversations all of them were happy and we were smiling. I have told him that since we're already together and if he thinks we might have a shot at this, to take his time to think and let me know. Not very hopeful on this one.
This conversation with him shouldn't even exist until the two of you meet face to face. Start there.
Yup, you beat me to it. I was going to mention that he is looking for a way out. End his search, and give it to him. Waste of your time, this one.
It's for the best that he doesn't. Next step is to delete numbers, email addys, and any other forms of contact.
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Posted by scorpiogirl01Hi! Im also from Singapore! I feel that Cancer guys likes to say things like this (clingy n needy stuff) but sadly they also get out of things very quickly. Furthermore you have not meet him much so it's even easier for things to break.Posted by infiresWell he did say a couple of times he wants to be with me, wish he was here with me, wish i was there with him etc etc. I dont think he's using me? I feel that he may have gotten in too fast too serious and he's realized it now. Or he may have met someone else so the attention goes to her.
i feel as if he might be using you
he put more emphasis on getting out of u.s then being with you..that's number 1 hint. also suddenly he grew cold, when he realized he won't be getting out..number 2. number 3...no one gets that serious too fast, so there's the underlying intentionclick to expand
And they do not like to have arguments or quarrels. Any conflicts must be done amicably.
He might not have anyone right now but very soon they will find someone else.
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