Best ways to seduce cap woman

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We like guys who can show us their capability as a responsible person in their own life and have goals. Self-improvement goals are always a huge turn on.

Regarding personality we like fun but sincere individuals like very natural and authentic expressions. If we feel something is forced or is for a show it's a huge turn off. We don't like personalities that placate to audiences.

Sense of humor is huge but tasteful and occasion-appropriate.
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oh yeah... did it help... thanks for that advice lol...we drank Wednesday and Friday. night and day compared to our other dates where it was fun and casual. Friday all she did was hold my hand, hug me, and make out. I didn't want to push it as later in the night she was getting a little out of control.

But then the last few days it seems like she doesn't remember her tongue being in my mouth for an hour. lol ... I don't think she's embarassed by Friday's booze fest, but I don't want alcohol to be needed every time to loosen her up

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Posted by hellosaggy
oh yeah... did it help... thanks for that advice lol...we drank Wednesday and Friday. night and day compared to our other dates where it was fun and casual. Friday all she did was hold my hand, hug me, and make out. I didn't want to push it as later in the night she was getting a little out of control.

But then the last few days it seems like she doesn't remember her tongue being in my mouth for an hour. lol ... I don't think she's embarassed by Friday's booze fest, but I don't want alcohol to be needed every time to loosen her up


Wine helps at the beginning but of course you won't need/want it every time when the comfort level has been created.

We're usually self-conscious after any grand expressions and will shrug it off until it happens enough for us to feel comfortable like...ok...this is cool now.
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lmao i feel like i'm doing my cap sisters wrong but wine helps.... a lot.
HEY!>😢


lol oh stop, you enjoy it. 😛
I would nevvvah!


see what i mean....

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Secret spiller. *mumbles under breath*

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Now you're just making me invite you to a girl's night.

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lmao i feel like i'm doing my cap sisters wrong but wine helps.... a lot.
HEY!>😢


lol oh stop, you enjoy it. 😛
I would nevvvah!


see what i mean....

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Secret spiller. *mumbles under breath*


Now you're just making me invite you to a girl's night.

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wtf is up with conversations not being private though? I was talking to her girlfriend and she knew about a few conversations the cap and I were having.
um most girls will share those details with their closest friends. Is this new to you?
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yeah. I've never hung out with a woman I am seeing friends before. So when one of those friends brings up a conversation I thought I was having with just her. it makes me wonder about privacy. I never talk about a woman with anybody I know, or at least I know they would never cross paths.

My scorpio ex of 3 years was private (The only thing I ever remember her telling her girlfriend was about how sex was great when they were drunk in our living room when I came in one night) and my sag ex of 7 years had her own group of friends, I barely saw much less hung out with.... all my other relationships were just flings and fwb.

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she's already attracted... I'm talking about bedding a Cap.

timelines... people timelines....

I read they are the traditional sign...courting and all that shit. which I won't knock. I like a good date and fun, and they like to take their time.... but when you gonna give it up though.
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@itsmeroman

oh...that's a low blow.
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Posted by hellosaggy
she's already attracted... I'm talking about bedding a Cap.

timelines... people timelines....

I read they are the traditional sign...courting and all that shit. which I won't knock. I like a good date and fun, and they like to take their time.... but when you gonna give it up though.
When she feels like it. And not one moment sooner. For me(cap sun, gem moon) I don't have to wait very long with some people, but with some, I must admit, it takes forever. And I have a sag venus. It's all about how you make her feel.

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she's already attracted... I'm talking about bedding a Cap.

timelines... people timelines....

I read they are the traditional sign...courting and all that shit. which I won't knock. I like a good date and fun, and they like to take their time.... but when you gonna give it up though.
When she feels like it. And not one moment sooner. For me(cap sun, gem moon) I don't have to wait very long with some people, but with some, I must admit, it takes forever. And I have a sag venus. It's all about how you make her feel.

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That's what I was wondering. We just started going out two weeks ago, most of those hangouts were group hangouts she invited me to, been texting about a month. I normally end things around the 30 day mark, so I'm already in foreign territory. she's already told me and her friends she likes me, so why so slow. grrrrrr
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i tried telling him in another topic.

but he is wasting his time ...so let him.

if he isn't barack obama, prince william, former president nicholas sarkaszy...then.....

forget it.

but he might get one of those few cappy women who are different.



a cappy woman is self sufficient...she dont need to baby men.

only the babies she has coming out of her womb.
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one thing i do notice between cappy women and scorpio woman..

cause i keep reading how cappy is a scorpio in a suit or something??

i've seen scorpio women marry men who are just guys who work minimum wage, and they're cool with that.

my best friend from high school, and also my husband's cousin who is a scorpio.

but of course they move up in promotion. i'm just saying i notice the difference. I think it's cause of the earth versus water...

water is feeling and needs love and will offer lots of love, they will provide too the helpful spoonful of love, an money is not a problem.

however cappy women come usually from poor or middle class too hardworking so they want to never be poor ever again.

just my observation.



edit --- hmm of course the two scorpio ladies i talked about have cancer moon, water dominant no earth basically, and so was my other gf, she had only virgo mars, but mostly water and libra moon.so maybe the libra part just wants to partner?

but the cappy gals i know .... they would never marry poor. it's a very very fearful thing. so they need to just go to work themselves and make their own money and not baby other men.
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she's already attracted... I'm talking about bedding a Cap.

timelines... people timelines....

I read they are the traditional sign...courting and all that shit. which I won't knock. I like a good date and fun, and they like to take their time.... but when you gonna give it up though.
When she feels like it. And not one moment sooner. For me(cap sun, gem moon) I don't have to wait very long with some people, but with some, I must admit, it takes forever. And I have a sag venus. It's all about how you make her feel.


That's what I was wondering. We just started going out two weeks ago, most of those hangouts were group hangouts she invited me to, been texting about a month. I normally end things around the 30 day mark, so I'm already in foreign territory. she's already told me and her friends she likes me, so why so slow. grrrrrr
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Probably because of what you just said:

"I normally end things around the 30 day mark"

She may have picked up on that and doesn't know if she can trust you. Look, I'm not her, and I'm an 8th house cap, so I'm probably even more suspicious than the average cap woman, but if I feel I can't trust you, you're not going very far...until I'm satisfied that I can.

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@lisabethur8

no... its about the physical part.

She's already asked me about doing something this week(I told her I can't as I am going out of town), but we can plan for next week.

We get along great and have fun together, but I'm trying to see how we are sexually before I just start feeling like this is a relationship. If I'm going out next week with her, I don't want to be doing other people in between that time.
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no... its about the physical part.

She's already asked me about doing something this week(I told her I can't as I am going out of town), but we can plan for next week.

We get along great and have fun together, but I'm trying to see how we are sexually before I just start feeling like this is a relationship. If I'm going out next week with her, I don't want to be doing other people in between that time.
cappy women usually dont give it up easily either. lol

unless you get one who is a prostitute, and you pay her (cause theyre all sun signs for this)

also i remember Tiziani's old post link from a cappy astrologer guy who did research on which is the signs that are seen as working hard for the money (even as a prostitute) it was cappy sun the most.

but when it comes to the HEART? they dont give it up.
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Posted by hellosaggy
she's already attracted... I'm talking about bedding a Cap.

timelines... people timelines....

I read they are the traditional sign...courting and all that shit. which I won't knock. I like a good date and fun, and they like to take their time.... but when you gonna give it up though.
@caramelizedcoffee
Lol you crazy. I'm going to kick your butt

money doh

But cap women are a waste of time.
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HEY! I liked it much better when you were picking on virgos.😛

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Posted by lisabethur8
one thing i do notice between cappy women and scorpio woman..

cause i keep reading how cappy is a scorpio in a suit or something??

i've seen scorpio women marry men who are just guys who work minimum wage, and they're cool with that.

my best friend from high school, and also my husband's cousin who is a scorpio.

but of course they move up in promotion. i'm just saying i notice the difference. I think it's cause of the earth versus water...

water is feeling and needs love and will offer lots of love, they will provide too the helpful spoonful of love, an money is not a problem.

however cappy women come usually from poor or middle class too hardworking so they want to never be poor ever again.

just my observation.



edit --- hmm of course the two scorpio ladies i talked about have cancer moon, water dominant no earth basically, and so was my other gf, she had only virgo mars, but mostly water and libra moon.so maybe the libra part just wants to partner?

but the cappy gals i know .... they would never marry poor. it's a very very fearful thing. so they need to just go to work themselves and make their own money and not baby other men.
They work hard, and try to be independent. They don't need your money. They want their owns.yes security is important, but for whom not? It's quite unfair.

If they chose you, you better know you worthy and they not f@ck around just for the sake of pleasure. You re then completely deluded. They have higher standards and if you fit that, you better want to stay there.

Appreciate the fact no one here is perfect. So if someone willing to spend their time on you, just make your own efforts and stand your position. Capricorn can teach you a hell lot, and be the best partner of yours if you not immature.
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Cap women want a fun time with a decent person to warm them up a bit before they are ready to sleep with you. If they are chasing you down this might be another story though. I notice they are pretty comfortable to be around, and though the women aren't always the type to make the first move they make it easy to tell if they are into you or not.

So the two of you had a really fun date and enjoyed yourself around town. The best way to seduce her at this point (which if she enjoyed her time with you she likely already is) would be to go to your place or her place and watch a movie together. It might take many dates to get to this point though. She will likely want to cuddle up and get close to you. Some Cap women love to rush into something like sex, while others are more shy. If she is gently touching you it's a good sign she wants to be closer to you. Gently rub her thigh and work your way up below her breast. Then back down getting closer to sensitive area. Don't touch her private areas directly yet though. Keep doing that and she will either 1 say she wants to fuck right now, or 2 say nothing but keeps getting closer to you and touching you harder, basically giving you the sign she wants you. Some cap women are shy though, and want you to make the first move. Personally I love getting cap women really worked up before sex. It will make the expirence much more meaningful to them rather then the basic unpassionate sex. Chances are she will eventually pull you on top of her and leave the question of sex and stripping her naked up to you to ask. Which of you dont she will see you have 0 game and get turned off by you. Then again she could be a dominate cap and get on top of you then strip you instead.

During sex she wants to be told things like she is amazing, and the way she is doing it is the best. Caps in general want to be good at what they do, and they want to be known for it. Sure she likely wants a dominate man to take control during sex, but is far from the type of woman who just wants to be a quick lay or a sex toy. They can kind of be like Leo women in this aspect, just more quiet about it. Make sure you make her feel special and needed in your life. Also during sex, and generally in love and you will actually gain a loyal lover ready to ride or die with you. More then money and more then material they just want a person they can have fun with and feel warm, safe, loved, and respected from. Someone who would ride or die with them exactly like they would for you.
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Posted by intergalacticplanetary
I can't relate to the caps and cash references. Money is the least interesting thing to me.


It IS boring...unless you are a billionaire.

There'e ton of men that have dated Cap women on the boards, and none of these men seem wealthy...no offense fellas.



Make her laugh. We love to laugh, and just always be positive to where she enjoys your company. She'll start to feel comfortable, and any kind of pressure will be off.
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@RooSagicorn

You hit the nail on the head!

I don't know any cap females. My dad's a cap and my mom (manipulative Leo)...runs all over him.

She's also the first "witty type" humor person I've dealt with. it's not charming...its cleaver... it intrigues me.

That's enough for a friendship...but not romance... even though she has amazing lips and soft hands... I can do something with those lol
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