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I asked him to video all at 9pm since he wanted to see me anyway. He text at 8 saying he got a migraine as he hasn't been sleeping well for 2 days and going to bed. He's always been an night owl. my furniture instinct says it's bullshit cos if you were feeling well cos you haven't had good sleep why you bother to come to my place? Also he could have call to say going to bed now can't even spare one minute?
He said let's catch up soon nightvnuggt. I won't buy into it cos he did that to me for this week. Text asked me questions. When I respond no reply then 2 days later starts a new convo
I asked him to video all at 9pm since he wanted to see me anyway. He text at 8 saying he got a migraine as he hasn't been sleeping well for 2 days and going to bed. He's always been an night owl. my furniture instinct says it's bullshit cos if you were feeling well cos you haven't had good sleep why you bother to come to my place? Also he could have call to say going to bed now can't even spare one minute?
He said let's catch up soon nightvnuggt. I won't buy into it cos he did that to me for this week. Text asked me questions. When I respond no reply then 2 days later starts a new convo
Posted by ScorpioTruthYea he used to offer meaningful connection but not anymore. I don't mind hay he is busy this week but I couldn't feel the desire to connect and get I know me. He was busy before the trip but he could text me at lunch break or tea break and such and actually chat or continue the convo later on.
Yeah based on what I've read in this thread it sounds like you've got one of those men that think he can hook a girl with a few text messages and random trips. It doesn't sound like he's offering much of substance, but again, I don't want to draw conclusions either. You know him better than any of us on dxp.. Please depend less on astrology advice and depend more on your intuition. Otherwise you will grow into a habit of making excuses for his shady behavior based on what other people are telling you about capricorns that THEY know.
ARE YOU ALL DUMB?
Man comes from a trip with a woman and feeling too exhausted to text her so he decided to login to a dating site to...what?
Relax—
NO! He is looking for someone to take to another trip!!! He apparently feels like tasting PeachJam or LikeJello!!!
Man comes from a trip with a woman and feeling too exhausted to text her so he decided to login to a dating site to...what?
Relax—
NO! He is looking for someone to take to another trip!!! He apparently feels like tasting PeachJam or LikeJello!!!
Posted by StrawberryJam
He just booty called me... it;s late afternoon where I'm at. he asked hy how is your day? will you be hone later today> can I come adn visit? x
So, calling you in the afternoon to ask about your day is a booty call?
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he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort.
may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...click to expand
Anyone besides me see how ridiculous this woman is?
So, you have expectations of him investing emotionally, and getting upset because if he wants to see you, then you're offended because it's a booty call ... yet ....
..... when you talk to him, refer to the two of you as "hot" and then you tell him you miss his sexy voice.
YOU are sending him the signals to come get you for your snatch. When you talk to him, you reference the possibility of, or of having sexual intent.
Then your turn around and cry foul in that he isn't wanting to wine and dine you.
How stupid can a woman possibly be?
I havent' read any of your other shit, and shit it must be, for people in here are irritated with you because you seem to have rubbed them as if you're ignorant. But, in just reading this thread, it's clear that you're about as self aware as a cow shit drawing flies in a field.
Posted by StrawberryJamWait, you never met his friends then? After he already stated he has been speaking about you?Posted by blackmoonPosted by StrawberryJamYeah just ignore him from now on, relog into that website or meet a mutual friend..To date. Keep options open and if he comes back.. analyze and see where it leadsPosted by blackmoonPosted by StrawberryJamI think you are rushing things right now.. if you break up right awayPosted by blackmoonregarding the log in may be.. cos I almost canceled the trip but i did agree to go after he called me..
Tell him you are going outside, and if he would meet you outside instead. Then bring it up casualIy... keep it light
Maybe he doesn't feel appreciated? Thats not typical behaviour of a cap imo
during the trip he pull away emotionally. which someone said he could feel suffocated.. however AI did give him lots of compliments like you are such a guy. He deflect it by syaing i'm a guy with bad back. I also praised him for his masculinity. told him masculinty is not measured by msucle mass. he is on the slim side...May be I can call him slim shady now...
Give him space and enjoy life. Maybe he is tired and exhausted after the trip, I know I dont want to talk to the person I saw for a long time when im in this mode.
Yeah the log in.. yeah his mind is fluctuating right. Just let him make the next step and seat back in your seat and relax too
when he landed he text me to say his friend surpsied him at the aiport and picked him up and they were handing for brunch. then he asked hows my weened going. I responded and no reply and then he booty call me today.. he';s been like this for the entire week... text me, i reply, then he ignored. 2 days later start a new convo
I dont think you should stress about this, I know its easier saying it then it actually is. If you stress yourself, nothing can achieved.. treat yourself and pamper yourself
we don't have mutual friends, he did brag about me to his friends befoer this trip. pretty sure he was bitching about me yesterday instead of bragging. I'm sure they asked about me.
anwyay he just text me to say he is going to bed now saying he hasn't had good sleep and got mirgiane.. lets catch up soon. sleep well night nite xclick to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamAt the end of the day we only get a snip view of it all and your version and how you view the situation.
@wonderwoman he is not calling. He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
Unlike some I try and look at it from both peoples perspective.
However I would put money on you coming back singing his praises as you have done every time because you've misunderstood him.
If not then my bad.
The only way to verify is to ask...
Posted by ScorpioTruthI know right I was thinking what's wrong with her lol
What is it about you that makes you feel you need to belittle others to make yourself feel better Piss Angel? She likes him, so of course she is going to flirt and miss his sexy voice. That doesn't mean she is sending him signals to come get her snatch. ? You are so overdramatic sometimes.
It's funny to me you've focused your attack on her and completely avoid commenting on his shifty behavior. But then again, it's you we are talking about so I really shouldn't be surprised as you clearly hate other women.
Posted by SkyeI have figured that out. I didn't know he logged in 2 weeks ago if I knew it I wouldn't be going to see himPosted by StrawberryJamIf you were exclusive, why is he still on a dating site?
My friend just saw that he logged in 2 weeks ago while he was away for work. We were already exclusive back then..
Right now he is distancing after our trip together. He just came home today and he text me to say his friend surprised him by coming to air port to pick him up and now they are going to eat. He asked how my weekend is going.
I repsonded but no reply. Saw him on whatsapp chatting to others but he is not replying my text.
He used to text me all day through out the day before my trip to visit him overseas. This week he only sent me 3 text in total.. once every 2 days basically he woudln't respond to my reply he would just start a new conversation...
I'm not sure if I should break up with him via text? clearly the connection and communciation is fading
You're not a priority and he's really not that into you.
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Posted by VirgoreanNope. I know he has spoken about me and I believe him. Anyway it doesn't matter anymore now that he is gone emotionally. I have let him go anyway he is too old. I was exclusive with him cos he was wonderful to me but not anymorePosted by StrawberryJamWait, you never met his friends then? After he already stated he has been speaking about you?Posted by blackmoonPosted by StrawberryJamYeah just ignore him from now on, relog into that website or meet a mutual friend..To date. Keep options open and if he comes back.. analyze and see where it leadsPosted by blackmoonPosted by StrawberryJamI think you are rushing things right now.. if you break up right awayPosted by blackmoonregarding the log in may be.. cos I almost canceled the trip but i did agree to go after he called me..
Tell him you are going outside, and if he would meet you outside instead. Then bring it up casualIy... keep it light
Maybe he doesn't feel appreciated? Thats not typical behaviour of a cap imo
during the trip he pull away emotionally. which someone said he could feel suffocated.. however AI did give him lots of compliments like you are such a guy. He deflect it by syaing i'm a guy with bad back. I also praised him for his masculinity. told him masculinty is not measured by msucle mass. he is on the slim side...May be I can call him slim shady now...
Give him space and enjoy life. Maybe he is tired and exhausted after the trip, I know I dont want to talk to the person I saw for a long time when im in this mode.
Yeah the log in.. yeah his mind is fluctuating right. Just let him make the next step and seat back in your seat and relax too
when he landed he text me to say his friend surpsied him at the aiport and picked him up and they were handing for brunch. then he asked hows my weened going. I responded and no reply and then he booty call me today.. he';s been like this for the entire week... text me, i reply, then he ignored. 2 days later start a new convo
I dont think you should stress about this, I know its easier saying it then it actually is. If you stress yourself, nothing can achieved.. treat yourself and pamper yourself
we don't have mutual friends, he did brag about me to his friends befoer this trip. pretty sure he was bitching about me yesterday instead of bragging. I'm sure they asked about me.
anwyay he just text me to say he is going to bed now saying he hasn't had good sleep and got mirgiane.. lets catch up soon. sleep well night nite xclick to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthExactly, it doesn't have to be proper restaurant everytime. If he gave me more notice like confining few days before like he used to I would be more ham happy to cook him something to spend quality time together. as long as I know he is here to spend time for bonding
Well I think you did the right thing by not allowing him to come see you late at night Strawberry. We set the tone early on in our relationships based on what we allow and what we won't allow. He will respect you more for it.
Posted by SkyeNo he was saying "I'm too old and fat" he was talking about himself to fish for compliments. He is not fat just skinny and not muscular so some untoned area.Posted by StrawberryJamWTFPosted by SkyeI have figured that out. I didn't know he logged in 2 weeks ago if I knew it I wouldn't be going to see himPosted by StrawberryJamIf you were exclusive, why is he still on a dating site?
My friend just saw that he logged in 2 weeks ago while he was away for work. We were already exclusive back then..
Right now he is distancing after our trip together. He just came home today and he text me to say his friend surprised him by coming to air port to pick him up and now they are going to eat. He asked how my weekend is going.
I repsonded but no reply. Saw him on whatsapp chatting to others but he is not replying my text.
He used to text me all day through out the day before my trip to visit him overseas. This week he only sent me 3 text in total.. once every 2 days basically he woudln't respond to my reply he would just start a new conversation...
I'm not sure if I should break up with him via text? clearly the connection and communciation is fading
You're not a priority and he's really not that into you.
" He also said I'm old and fat.." What an asshole! How in the hell are you with this disrespectful
douche?
I'm still on page 1. Is his profile still up on the dating site?
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His profile is up. It last log in was still 2 weeks ago. He told me he tried eveything. The one we met his profile is there but can't tel if he's active
Posted by Rindaroo
Well this doesn't seem to be working so well. From the beginning you were always doubting him. Idk maybe your intuition telling you something or insecurities. You seem to be asking him for more than he's able to give emotionally. My understanding with Caps is they are slow with that & do better without pressure. I know mine does. When he feels comfortable the emotional feelings and sharing happens. Idk if it's a case of him playing you, booty calls, or feeling not comfortable & looking at what his options are. The only way to tell is to see how this goes. Sometimes we have to go with the flow a little and not be so rigid & see what happens or sometimes we just need to cut them loose realizing it's not worth it. Oh that's a big age difference too, and seems like there might be some emotional issues causing the immaturity.
Do what your heart & intuition tell you to do. You have to be true to yourself.
He admit he is immture and he wants young women but also insecure as he often fish compliments from me.
I'm flexible with plans but I can't sense him investing and his excuse was pretty lame. I'm letting him be, if he fights to come back later then I might consider it. I was exclusive with him cos he was amazing but not anymore. May be this is the real him or he lost interest
His excuse of not wanting video call was he has migraine and going to bed. I just notice he unfollowed someone. Guess he's not really sleeping after all. Glad I didn't respond
Posted by SkyeDone that last night lolPosted by StrawberryJamAah ok, got it.Posted by SkyeNo he was saying "I'm too old and fat" he was talking about himself to fish for compliments. He is not fat just skinny and not muscular so some untoned area.Posted by StrawberryJamWTFPosted by SkyeI have figured that out. I didn't know he logged in 2 weeks ago if I knew it I wouldn't be going to see himPosted by StrawberryJamIf you were exclusive, why is he still on a dating site?
My friend just saw that he logged in 2 weeks ago while he was away for work. We were already exclusive back then..
Right now he is distancing after our trip together. He just came home today and he text me to say his friend surprised him by coming to air port to pick him up and now they are going to eat. He asked how my weekend is going.
I repsonded but no reply. Saw him on whatsapp chatting to others but he is not replying my text.
He used to text me all day through out the day before my trip to visit him overseas. This week he only sent me 3 text in total.. once every 2 days basically he woudln't respond to my reply he would just start a new conversation...
I'm not sure if I should break up with him via text? clearly the connection and communciation is fading
You're not a priority and he's really not that into you.
" He also said I'm old and fat.." What an asshole! How in the hell are you with this disrespectful
douche?
I'm still on page 1. Is his profile still up on the dating site?
His profile is up. It last log in was still 2 weeks ago. He told me he tried eveything. The one we met his profile is there but can't tel if he's active
The fact that his profile is still up means he's still available and looking. I'd put one up too lol
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Posted by RindarooI get what you were saying we have been through one of this last month we both each other is not interested. During this trip I told him how amazing he is and how much I like him. He had no reason to think I'm not wanting him.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Rindaroo
Well this doesn't seem to be working so well. From the beginning you were always doubting him. Idk maybe your intuition telling you something or insecurities. You seem to be asking him for more than he's able to give emotionally. My understanding with Caps is they are slow with that & do better without pressure. I know mine does. When he feels comfortable the emotional feelings and sharing happens. Idk if it's a case of him playing you, booty calls, or feeling not comfortable & looking at what his options are. The only way to tell is to see how this goes. Sometimes we have to go with the flow a little and not be so rigid & see what happens or sometimes we just need to cut them loose realizing it's not worth it. Oh that's a big age difference too, and seems like there might be some emotional issues causing the immaturity.
Do what your heart & intuition tell you to do. You have to be true to yourself.
He admit he is immture and he wants young women but also insecure as he often fish compliments from me.
I'm flexible with plans but I can't sense him investing and his excuse was pretty lame. I'm letting him be, if he fights to come back later then I might consider it. I was exclusive with him cos he was amazing but not anymore. May be this is the real him or he lost interest
Or he is being insecure about something perhaps. I just went through a rough patch with my Cap, and things seem back to normal now. But he was acting totally different ( not so amazing) for a month, and it was due to doubts he had about how I felt ( which were wrong) and not talking about it. Guys tend to back up when they get close to someone, and sometimes they come back & sometimes they don't. It's the space between where their processing happens. It is best to let them do it. Well time will tell & If he comes back you have the choice of accepting him back or not.
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I did say look it's almost 4 months we still haven't meet each other's friends. If things are not moving forward next month I think we should go separate ways, cos obvious this is a sign that it's not feeling it. He asked you're not feeling it?
I reassured hi I like him a lot and I'm afraid he will break my heart. He didnt reciprocate he just said don't think like that. He doesn't have to say it if he is not feeling it. It's good to know where he stands as his action is talking louder now
Posted by WonderWoman14I've been giving him benefit of the doubt for a week. His action is speaking much louder this time.Posted by StrawberryJamAt the end of the day we only get a snip view of it all and your version and how you view the situation.
@wonderwoman he is not calling. He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
Unlike some I try and look at it from both peoples perspective.
However I would put money on you coming back singing his praises as you have done every time because you've misunderstood him.
If not then my bad.click to expand
I might consider later if he fights his way back. As I said he is not the ideal guy age wise, and the connection we once had is gone.
Posted by SkyePosted by StrawberryJamAah ok, got it.Posted by SkyeNo he was saying "I'm too old and fat" he was talking about himself to fish for compliments. He is not fat just skinny and not muscular so some untoned area.Posted by StrawberryJamWTFPosted by SkyeI have figured that out. I didn't know he logged in 2 weeks ago if I knew it I wouldn't be going to see himPosted by StrawberryJamIf you were exclusive, why is he still on a dating site?
My friend just saw that he logged in 2 weeks ago while he was away for work. We were already exclusive back then..
Right now he is distancing after our trip together. He just came home today and he text me to say his friend surprised him by coming to air port to pick him up and now they are going to eat. He asked how my weekend is going.
I repsonded but no reply. Saw him on whatsapp chatting to others but he is not replying my text.
He used to text me all day through out the day before my trip to visit him overseas. This week he only sent me 3 text in total.. once every 2 days basically he woudln't respond to my reply he would just start a new conversation...
I'm not sure if I should break up with him via text? clearly the connection and communciation is fading
You're not a priority and he's really not that into you.
" He also said I'm old and fat.." What an asshole! How in the hell are you with this disrespectful
douche?
I'm still on page 1. Is his profile still up on the dating site?
His profile is up. It last log in was still 2 weeks ago. He told me he tried eveything. The one we met his profile is there but can't tel if he's active
The fact that his profile is still up means he's still available and looking. I'd put one up too lol
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Great idea!!
Can be fun too!!!
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14I've been giving him benefit of the doubt for a week. His action is speaking much louder this time.Posted by StrawberryJamAt the end of the day we only get a snip view of it all and your version and how you view the situation.
@wonderwoman he is not calling. He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
Unlike some I try and look at it from both peoples perspective.
However I would put money on you coming back singing his praises as you have done every time because you've misunderstood him.
If not then my bad.
I might consider later if he fights his way back. As I said he is not the ideal guy age wise, and the connection we once had is gone.click to expand
Did you arrange to meet him, Virgo?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14I've been giving him benefit of the doubt for a week. His action is speaking much louder this time.Posted by StrawberryJamAt the end of the day we only get a snip view of it all and your version and how you view the situation.
@wonderwoman he is not calling. He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
Unlike some I try and look at it from both peoples perspective.
However I would put money on you coming back singing his praises as you have done every time because you've misunderstood him.
If not then my bad.
I might consider later if he fights his way back. As I said he is not the ideal guy age wise, and the connection we once had is gone.
Did you arrange to meet him, Virgo?
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He said he is going to bed with a migraine, which I find later that he was on Instagram unfollowing ppl.
If he genjinely has a migraine no point in texting him just to disturb his sleep.
And if he was giving me excuses then no point in texting either. So no I haven't text back yet
Posted by netpowerPosted by SkyePosted by StrawberryJamWTFPosted by SkyeI have figured that out. I didn't know he logged in 2 weeks ago if I knew it I wouldn't be going to see himPosted by StrawberryJamIf you were exclusive, why is he still on a dating site?
My friend just saw that he logged in 2 weeks ago while he was away for work. We were already exclusive back then..
Right now he is distancing after our trip together. He just came home today and he text me to say his friend surprised him by coming to air port to pick him up and now they are going to eat. He asked how my weekend is going.
I repsonded but no reply. Saw him on whatsapp chatting to others but he is not replying my text.
He used to text me all day through out the day before my trip to visit him overseas. This week he only sent me 3 text in total.. once every 2 days basically he woudln't respond to my reply he would just start a new conversation...
I'm not sure if I should break up with him via text? clearly the connection and communciation is fading
You're not a priority and he's really not that into you.
" He also said I'm old and fat.." What an asshole! How in the hell are you with this disrespectful
douche?
I'm still on page 1. Is his profile still up on the dating site?
A person who talks about themselves like this doesnot have much love to give.....
Well at least he has revealed his insecurities. I would move on...
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@netpower he was saying he is old. He wasn't saying it's me
Posted by StrawberryJamGotcha!!!
@netpower he was saying he is old. He wasn't saying it's me
Its just the way he talks about himself, its not healthy. Kinda self-deprecating.
He has told you " you are too good for him". Then he logs back on the dating site. He is
already disengaging from the relationship the way i see it. Its his way of moving on from the
relationship without being direct with you.
Posted by netpowerHe logs in just 4 days before I flew out to join him on his work trip. In hindsigh we had a good phone convo in the day before he logs in.Posted by StrawberryJamGotcha!!!
@netpower he was saying he is old. He wasn't saying it's me
Its just the way he talks about himself, its not healthy. Kinda self-deprecating.
He has told you " you are too good for him". Then he logs back on the dating site. He is
already disengaging from the relationship the way i see it. Its his way of moving on from the
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Now that I'm back he hasn't logged in again. So idk why he even log in but it's a red flag
Posted by 9waterlion9We didn't agree to meet on the day he land so I guess his friend could ask. Cos this friend did owe him favors.Posted by StrawberryJamReading all this it sounds like cheating off the bat, but it might not be. The friend showing up at the airport to *surprise* him sounds shady. How did this friend know his flight or gate number or airline without any prior planning?
My friend just saw that he logged in 2 weeks ago while he was away for work. We were already exclusive back then..
Right now he is distancing after our trip together. He just came home today and he text me to say his friend surprised him by coming to air port to pick him up and now they are going to eat. He asked how my weekend is going.
I repsonded but no reply. Saw him on whatsapp chatting to others but he is not replying my text.
He used to text me all day through out the day before my trip to visit him overseas. This week he only sent me 3 text in total.. once every 2 days basically he woudln't respond to my reply he would just start a new conversation...
I'm not sure if I should break up with him via text? clearly the connection and communciation is fading
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He is distancing for whatever reason. I'm not liking his lack of effeot
Posted by MyStarsShineI responded at lunch time to wish his first day back at work is good and his migraine is ok. I accept his offer to meet by telling him let's plan something fun to do and what he has in mind.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14I've been giving him benefit of the doubt for a week. His action is speaking much louder this time.Posted by StrawberryJamAt the end of the day we only get a snip view of it all and your version and how you view the situation.
@wonderwoman he is not calling. He just text me saying he is going to bed now and he didn;t get to sleep too well the last tow nights and he has a migraine. lets catch up soon. sleep well, nite nite x
Unlike some I try and look at it from both peoples perspective.
However I would put money on you coming back singing his praises as you have done every time because you've misunderstood him.
If not then my bad.
I might consider later if he fights his way back. As I said he is not the ideal guy age wise, and the connection we once had is gone.
Did you arrange to meet him, Virgo?
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Will see what he says
In hindsight I just remember telling him if things don't move forward by next month let's go our separate ways. Then we went to breakfast and he was withdrawing since. Even I told him many times it into him and I like him a lot and scared of him breakfing my heart.
May be he thought I was planning my exit? I was just being real and don't want him to string me along... I also told him if you ever want to end things just tell me don't disappear on me. he said I promise I won't if anything I will tel you first
May be he thought I was planning my exit? I was just being real and don't want him to string me along... I also told him if you ever want to end things just tell me don't disappear on me. he said I promise I won't if anything I will tel you first
you are becoming obsessed with his every move... it's not a good sign...
"Exclusive" ? As in officially taken—
@ScorpioTruth he does have a good job, but I wouldn't call him that rich, cos he has 2 investment properties and renting his home. and guess what? so am I. However his full time job is on a much higher level than mine so he sounds impressive on paper but probably not so good at saving cash as he has like 4 credit cards. Real rich man pays with cash and own their home, like one of my friend.
Anyway I don't think he has lots of options from the dating pool, however he does have lots of female friends.Werid friendship too, he was catching up with this married woman for dinner and bought her perfume as gift. he said only because it's $ 2 it's a good brand no way it could be this cheap but whatever... I agree with you a lot regarding how he can't give me reassurance. It's only normal to ask for some after he specifically said "I can't be with woman's my age / Jeniffer Lopez is too old (even she looks half his age)"
Today I text him to confront him about he logged into dating site. He got really angry and said it's spam I didn't log into anything. it's really annoying when you are always suspicious. Then I told him I'm also annoyed with his distance of late. he said he wants to chat with me at my home.
He came after work telling me it's not working cos I'm into emotional connection and he is not. He just want to chill and go with the flow, then he added you are hot and cold you tell me you are into me but you also said "I can't let you know this secret receipe cos what if we break up you use it to impress other girls" he said Why would you even think that? he said you have trust issue. I can't keep up with it. honestly I think he over reacted. I only said that cos he kept saying we are still getting to know each other.
I said ok I'm not perfect, and neither are you. If my trust issue is a deal breaker for you I respect that. He goes you are a really nice girl, I could have use you for casual relationship but I don't wanna do that because you are really sweet. He said I failed to make you trust me it;s not gonna work. I said its ok trust issue is something I'm working on and also I just need someone who doesn't see this as a deal breaker.
Then he said ok I'm going back to my little life, he hugged me i said to him take care with tears in my eyes while smiling. He left.
Anyway I don't think he has lots of options from the dating pool, however he does have lots of female friends.Werid friendship too, he was catching up with this married woman for dinner and bought her perfume as gift. he said only because it's $ 2 it's a good brand no way it could be this cheap but whatever... I agree with you a lot regarding how he can't give me reassurance. It's only normal to ask for some after he specifically said "I can't be with woman's my age / Jeniffer Lopez is too old (even she looks half his age)"
Today I text him to confront him about he logged into dating site. He got really angry and said it's spam I didn't log into anything. it's really annoying when you are always suspicious. Then I told him I'm also annoyed with his distance of late. he said he wants to chat with me at my home.
He came after work telling me it's not working cos I'm into emotional connection and he is not. He just want to chill and go with the flow, then he added you are hot and cold you tell me you are into me but you also said "I can't let you know this secret receipe cos what if we break up you use it to impress other girls" he said Why would you even think that? he said you have trust issue. I can't keep up with it. honestly I think he over reacted. I only said that cos he kept saying we are still getting to know each other.
I said ok I'm not perfect, and neither are you. If my trust issue is a deal breaker for you I respect that. He goes you are a really nice girl, I could have use you for casual relationship but I don't wanna do that because you are really sweet. He said I failed to make you trust me it;s not gonna work. I said its ok trust issue is something I'm working on and also I just need someone who doesn't see this as a deal breaker.
Then he said ok I'm going back to my little life, he hugged me i said to him take care with tears in my eyes while smiling. He left.
@scorpiotruth i thanked him for coming to my place to clear the air and also not many ppl do this so respectfully these days. most ppl fade or ghost.
I also thanked him for his honesty. He is a real gentleman and I hope he finds what he is looking for. He had a bit of tear in his eyes and said you are making me sad. I said don't be we tried that's all we can do. I will always rememebr the trip and the date before the trip. It was very romantic and i did feel a connection. I admit I wasn't really myself on the trip because I was falling for him and I didn't know how to process the feeling.
He said I will always remember it too. I don't think he will ever come back, since he was honest about not feeling the deep connection and he doens't wnat to string me along
I also thanked him for his honesty. He is a real gentleman and I hope he finds what he is looking for. He had a bit of tear in his eyes and said you are making me sad. I said don't be we tried that's all we can do. I will always rememebr the trip and the date before the trip. It was very romantic and i did feel a connection. I admit I wasn't really myself on the trip because I was falling for him and I didn't know how to process the feeling.
He said I will always remember it too. I don't think he will ever come back, since he was honest about not feeling the deep connection and he doens't wnat to string me along
Don't text him again. Let him text you from now on. That way you can see his interest level.
Posted by Ssupermanyou are a bit late my friend, it;s already over
Don't text him again. Let him text you from now on. That way you can see his interest level.
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Ssupermanyou are a bit late my friend, it;s already over
Don't text him again. Let him text you from now on. That way you can see his interest level.click to expand
and yet ... here you are still whining about it.
Or maybe ... you just love to drama, so this gives you the ideal condition to soak it up like the drama queens Virgo women are, not to mention thick
Posted by ScorpioTruthWe already said our goodbyes and take care. He hasn';t decided if he wants kids, he is very committed to his career that's for sure. I do feel empowered as we both have communicated clearly and nothing heavy during the break up.
Well like you said, I can appreciate the fact that he was honest with you about wanting to keep it casual. It's more respectful when they tell us up front what their intentions are so that you can decide for yourself whether you want to invest yourself emotionally in a "casual" relationship or not. I know it hurts right now but at least it's gotta feel a little empowering to know that you have a choice in the matter and he can't just string you along. This is only temporary and better to learn this now rather than 5 years down the road. Capricorn men seem to go through different phases in life. Some Capricorn men are committed to family and career while others are committed to their own image and freedom. I've met both types. It's empowering to know which type you are dealing with up front so that you can act accordingly.
I'm not sure if it was me being over sensitive during the trip. I guess it's just not meant to be. I will always remmeber him. It's probably for the best, as he said 47 is too old, i could be married to him and when I age he will dump me.
Posted by ScorpioTruthShe is making a lot of noise but not much point in those noises though. may be she has retired and really have nothing else to do?Posted by P-AngelAnd here YOU are again, talking shit at 8 am. I haven't even had my coffee yet and here you go being a cyber bully. Leave her alone!!. It's too early for this shit.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Ssupermanyou are a bit late my friend, it;s already over
Don't text him again. Let him text you from now on. That way you can see his interest level.
and yet ... here you are still whining about it.
Or maybe ... you just love to drama, so this gives you the ideal condition to soak it up like the drama queens Virgo women are, not to mention thick
Do you even have a job? Or does DXP got you on bully payroll?
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Posted by StrawberryJam
In hindsight I just remember telling him if things don't move forward by next month let's go our separate ways.
anyone besides me see how ridiculous this woman is?
Telling someone that you are going to go your separate way, if things don't go as you expect is a big fucking deal. So big, that it doesn't just slip your mind that you said it.
And here she tries to tell us that she just now remembered that she said it?
lol
Furthermore .. the whole point of this thread is to convey that he's done this AFTER being committed to her ... yet, she can't even get him to take her seriously enough to respect her.
You guys don't actually believe this shit, do you?
I mean, you really think a person can be this dense and still be able to tie their own shoes?
He's just not that into you. I would do nothing and move on. If he's still looking, you aren't the one. It's simple. Stop trying to dissect it. The actions are so clear.
It's when we ignore the red flags, that we end up hurt and broken.
It's when we ignore the red flags, that we end up hurt and broken.
Posted by bkbella86We already broke up. Please see the above 2 posts for Scorpiotruth
He's just not that into you. I would do nothing and move on. If he's still looking, you aren't the one. It's simple. Stop trying to dissect it. The actions are so clear.
It's when we ignore the red flags, that we end up hurt and broken.
Posted by StrawberryJam
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus
We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...
he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x
My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble 😉 x
Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"
he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx
I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..
I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...
He is seeing someone else.
Posted by StrawberryJamIt's sad it didn't work out as expected but I'm glad that now you know how things are with him that way you aren't invested into something not worth it.
@scorpiotruth i thanked him for coming to my place to clear the air and also not many ppl do this so respectfully these days. most ppl fade or ghost.
I also thanked him for his honesty. He is a real gentleman and I hope he finds what he is looking for. He had a bit of tear in his eyes and said you are making me sad. I said don't be we tried that's all we can do. I will always rememebr the trip and the date before the trip. It was very romantic and i did feel a connection. I admit I wasn't really myself on the trip because I was falling for him and I didn't know how to process the feeling.
He said I will always remember it too. I don't think he will ever come back, since he was honest about not feeling the deep connection and he doens't wnat to string me along
Posted by StrawberryJamIt's sad it didn't work out as expected but I'm glad that now you know how things are with him that way you aren't invested into something not worth it.
@scorpiotruth i thanked him for coming to my place to clear the air and also not many ppl do this so respectfully these days. most ppl fade or ghost.
I also thanked him for his honesty. He is a real gentleman and I hope he finds what he is looking for. He had a bit of tear in his eyes and said you are making me sad. I said don't be we tried that's all we can do. I will always rememebr the trip and the date before the trip. It was very romantic and i did feel a connection. I admit I wasn't really myself on the trip because I was falling for him and I didn't know how to process the feeling.
He said I will always remember it too. I don't think he will ever come back, since he was honest about not feeling the deep connection and he doens't wnat to string me along
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