coconutoilbath
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is there a possibility for cap man to get back into a relationship with anex
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Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
Posted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..click to expand
Posted by DannyMChe was trying to start a convo , he asked how i was i said good and stuff [i was respond short ]Posted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..click to expand
he asked how's life , i was like its alright , its going and he responded ugh same after that i asked whatup and he would respond idk so i said oh okay then and our convo ended from that i didn't talk to him [this convo was 2 days after my convo with him about giving us a second chance ]
Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..click to expand
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that message
Posted by coconutoilbathIt sounds like you 2 are not done yet.. from what I'm hearing.. us Caps can really suck sometimes when it comes to work, we can be totally in love but put work first, if you understand and you're patient with that than it's all for the better. @StrawberryJam read this thread, sound familiar?Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that messageclick to expand
Posted by DannyMCi guess so , but i mean we already broke up so i don't know if there is anything to fix , since he diddn't want to fix it or give it another shot when i offered itPosted by coconutoilbathIt sounds like you 2 are not done yet.. from what I'm hearing.. us Caps can really suck sometimes when it comes to work, we can be totally in love but put work first, if you understand and you're patient with that than it's all for the better. @StrawberryJam read this thread, sound familiar?Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that messageclick to expand
Posted by Capri-sunyeah i will , can you read my other posts on here he literally just message me on fb and he thought i blocked him on instagram , why would he care that much if i did block him or not thoPosted by coconutoilbathIdk, probably not. He might do it a few times then let it go or it might be very sporadic with lots of time in between.Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
If you know you want to move on, just ignore him & he'll get the message or be direct & tell him you're not interested
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Posted by leowwwPosted by coconutoilbathIf he didn't want to fix things or give it another shot... I personally wouldn't be waiting around and wondering if he'll change his mind.Posted by DannyMCi guess so , but i mean we already broke up so i don't know if there is anything to fix , since he diddn't want to fix it or give it another shot when i offered itPosted by coconutoilbathIt sounds like you 2 are not done yet.. from what I'm hearing.. us Caps can really suck sometimes when it comes to work, we can be totally in love but put work first, if you understand and you're patient with that than it's all for the better. @StrawberryJam read this thread, sound familiar?Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that message
Turning you down once was clear enough I think.
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agree with you i personally didn't take anything from him contacting me , cause my mind is set about moving on , i think he just contacting me to make sure we're not on any bad terms
Posted by leowww@coconutoilbath Unfortunately I have to agree w/ @leowww ... even if a cap is upset.. he will tell you exactly what he wants.. & if he wanted to be with you, he would have said so..Posted by coconutoilbathIf he didn't want to fix things or give it another shot... I personally wouldn't be waiting around and wondering if he'll change his mind.Posted by DannyMCi guess so , but i mean we already broke up so i don't know if there is anything to fix , since he diddn't want to fix it or give it another shot when i offered itPosted by coconutoilbathIt sounds like you 2 are not done yet.. from what I'm hearing.. us Caps can really suck sometimes when it comes to work, we can be totally in love but put work first, if you understand and you're patient with that than it's all for the better. @StrawberryJam read this thread, sound familiar?Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that message
Turning you down once was clear enough I think.
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It takes a hell of a lot of patience to deal with a cap man because work comes first.. I am with one & things are good but I def was discouraged in the beginning of our relationship because quality time was limited.. mind you, we are in a LDR.. not sure of you and your cap's distance.. but I didn't press him too hard because of our distance and his work is important to him.. but I still wanted my time. I've broken up with my cap in the heat of an argument once.. we both were upset. Didn't talk much BUT later (days later) when I asked him if we should let it go.. be friends & "call it quits" he said "NO! I wanna be with you.. arguments happen, it is what it is" They are honest individuals.. I don't think he's saying no but meaning yes. & they are possessive.. in their mind: "if I let you go, anyone else can have you.." & they don't play that if they want you.
You also need to give a cap space to let everything sink in as they are logical thinkers..
Give it time.
Posted by DannyMCHi @dannymc bro, yes! that's our case. He wants to keep the conversation line open. If you are done with him just be blunt, if not just respond and be honest about how you feel and how you can resolve the issue and move forwardPosted by coconutoilbathIt sounds like you 2 are not done yet.. from what I'm hearing.. us Caps can really suck sometimes when it comes to work, we can be totally in love but put work first, if you understand and you're patient with that than it's all for the better. @StrawberryJam read this thread, sound familiar?Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that messageclick to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamI don't feel like i should bring up our relationship to him anymore , I guess I leave it up to him if he want anything , if not I'm still going with my moving on process , we talked yesterday , he told me about what was going on with him his hospital test and stuff , and we closed the convo with him telling me he have to go , so we made our byes lol , I haven't talked to him today and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon anyways , at this point it just doesn't seem to matter and I don't feel like getting rejected over again , it sucks not to be with the one you love but at this point I can't force itPosted by DannyMCHi @dannymc bro, yes! that's our case. He wants to keep the conversation line open. If you are done with him just be blunt, if not just respond and be honest about how you feel and how you can resolve the issue and move forwardPosted by coconutoilbathIt sounds like you 2 are not done yet.. from what I'm hearing.. us Caps can really suck sometimes when it comes to work, we can be totally in love but put work first, if you understand and you're patient with that than it's all for the better. @StrawberryJam read this thread, sound familiar?Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that messageclick to expand
Posted by coconutoilbathDon't be afraid to tell him you need a contact break to heal and move on. With him constantly contacting you is almost like he wants to keep tab on you or he needs female attention and comfort.Posted by StrawberryJamI don't feel like i should bring up our relationship to him anymore , I guess I leave it up to him if he want anything , if not I'm still going with my moving on process , we talked yesterday , he told me about what was going on with him his hospital test and stuff , and we closed the convo with him telling me he have to go , so we made our byes lol , I haven't talked to him today and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon anyways , at this point it just doesn't seem to matter and I don't feel like getting rejected over again , it sucks not to be with the one you love but at this point I can't force itPosted by DannyMCHi @dannymc bro, yes! that's our case. He wants to keep the conversation line open. If you are done with him just be blunt, if not just respond and be honest about how you feel and how you can resolve the issue and move forwardPosted by coconutoilbathIt sounds like you 2 are not done yet.. from what I'm hearing.. us Caps can really suck sometimes when it comes to work, we can be totally in love but put work first, if you understand and you're patient with that than it's all for the better. @StrawberryJam read this thread, sound familiar?Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that messageclick to expand
Check out my post page 28 and page 29 and see if their communication is similar?
Posted by StrawberryJamI will next time if he contact me , i will tell him that we both made it clear we won't be with each other ever again and that I need space to recover and heal , yeah as Virgos we give people a lot of attentions and they notice when we stop doing that , that what hes craving probably ,Posted by coconutoilbathDon't be afraid to tell him you need a contact break to heal and move on. With him constantly contacting you is almost like he wants to keep tab on you or he needs female attention and comfort.Posted by StrawberryJamI don't feel like i should bring up our relationship to him anymore , I guess I leave it up to him if he want anything , if not I'm still going with my moving on process , we talked yesterday , he told me about what was going on with him his hospital test and stuff , and we closed the convo with him telling me he have to go , so we made our byes lol , I haven't talked to him today and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon anyways , at this point it just doesn't seem to matter and I don't feel like getting rejected over again , it sucks not to be with the one you love but at this point I can't force itPosted by DannyMCHi @dannymc bro, yes! that's our case. He wants to keep the conversation line open. If you are done with him just be blunt, if not just respond and be honest about how you feel and how you can resolve the issue and move forwardPosted by coconutoilbathIt sounds like you 2 are not done yet.. from what I'm hearing.. us Caps can really suck sometimes when it comes to work, we can be totally in love but put work first, if you understand and you're patient with that than it's all for the better. @StrawberryJam read this thread, sound familiar?Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that message
Check out my post page 28 and page 29 and see if their communication is similar?click to expand
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Posted by coconutoilbathIf that's what you both agree to then he should respect the boundaries, or when he contact you to vent you could say I do care about your well being but I can't be that friend to you right now, I need time alone to heal and recoverPosted by StrawberryJamI will next time if he contact me , i will tell him that we both made it clear we won't be with each other ever again and that I need space to recover and heal , yeah as Virgos we give people a lot of attentions and they notice when we stop doing that , that what hes craving probably ,Posted by coconutoilbathDon't be afraid to tell him you need a contact break to heal and move on. With him constantly contacting you is almost like he wants to keep tab on you or he needs female attention and comfort.Posted by StrawberryJamI don't feel like i should bring up our relationship to him anymore , I guess I leave it up to him if he want anything , if not I'm still going with my moving on process , we talked yesterday , he told me about what was going on with him his hospital test and stuff , and we closed the convo with him telling me he have to go , so we made our byes lol , I haven't talked to him today and I don't plan on doing so anytime soon anyways , at this point it just doesn't seem to matter and I don't feel like getting rejected over again , it sucks not to be with the one you love but at this point I can't force itPosted by DannyMCHi @dannymc bro, yes! that's our case. He wants to keep the conversation line open. If you are done with him just be blunt, if not just respond and be honest about how you feel and how you can resolve the issue and move forwardPosted by coconutoilbathIt sounds like you 2 are not done yet.. from what I'm hearing.. us Caps can really suck sometimes when it comes to work, we can be totally in love but put work first, if you understand and you're patient with that than it's all for the better. @StrawberryJam read this thread, sound familiar?Posted by DannyMCi send him a picture yesterday that was funny and reminded me of himPosted by coconutoilbathWhat's he messaging? Are you responding?Posted by Capri-sun
Depends on the circumstances
he said it was too much drama
and for my side it was because i felt i was putting too much into the relationship and not getting enough back he was always busy and i felt left out , we fought a lot on the last month or two , so it was a decision on both sides of us breaking it off
im currently trying to move on , and im juut wondering if he'll start doing the random messaging thing all the time , probably out of boredom..
i afterward decided to delete my social media {instagram where i send him that )lol cause i felt i was doing something dumb for doing that
today he contacted me on fb , telling me that i didn't give him time to respond to that message
Check out my post page 28 and page 29 and see if their communication is similar?
I made a comment on your postclick to expand
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