KekeB
@KekeB
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Opinions please. I'm kind of desperate.
Quick update.... a few months back I asked if he was sleeping with other woman and he replied yes. So I decided to try to cut sex off with him. Since then, he has only invited me to pass by but never to stay the night like I used to. We still hangout and talk/text everyday tho. Well later down the line, maybe a month after he admitted to being with other girls, we talked about it again and he said that when we first met, he was sleeping with other woman but when I asked him that question, he was only sleeping with me. He said he misunderstood what I was asking him. Hmm?! Anyway... fast forward to last night, I asked him that if I asked that he be celibate for a few months with me. Meaning no sex and no masterbating, would he?! He replied with "what type of question is that?" I said "a simple one. Lol. Yes or no?" He replied back with that would be hard. I was sleep by the time he sent me my last text so this morning I replied asking him would he do it? Would u practice celibacy with me for at least a month? I'm now I'm waiting for him to wake up and reply.
Posted by CAPS_LOCKThat's what I'm kind of thinking. But why would he invest time into keeping me around and staying friends?
He's really not interested
Posted by CAPS_LOCKYea... looking at ur last comments I see ur being a petty Betty. Have a blessed day sir.Posted by KekeBI'm not interested in answering this question.Posted by CAPS_LOCKThat's what I'm kind of thinking. But why would he invest time into keeping me around and staying friends?
He's really not interestedclick to expand
Posted by KekeBHe's not investing anything in you, besides his dickPosted by CAPS_LOCKThat's what I'm kind of thinking. But why would he invest time into keeping me around and staying friends?
He's really not interestedclick to expand
Posted by CapzI thought maybe he was just being polite but he really has me confused. Smh
i dont know,
Posted by SsupermanWe actually spend a lot of time talking and hanging out.Posted by KekeBHe's not investing anything in you, besides his dickPosted by CAPS_LOCKThat's what I'm kind of thinking. But why would he invest time into keeping me around and staying friends?
He's really not interestedclick to expand
Posted by Capri-sunOh now ur interested? Or are u still on ur PETTYstal?Posted by KekeBPosted by CAPS_LOCKThat's what I'm kind of thinking. But why would he invest time into keeping me around and staying friends?
He's really not interested
He could care less he's just being polite trying not to hurt your feelings
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OP,
until a cap man takes a woman seriously, there will be others occupying his time.. or being intimate with him... When they know, they just know.. & they will make it clear exactly what it is they want.. If it's only you, it will be only you. They have No issues being real.
Unfortunately, I don't think he's interested in anything more than sex right now based on your post.. 😢
until a cap man takes a woman seriously, there will be others occupying his time.. or being intimate with him... When they know, they just know.. & they will make it clear exactly what it is they want.. If it's only you, it will be only you. They have No issues being real.
Unfortunately, I don't think he's interested in anything more than sex right now based on your post.. 😢
Posted by KekeBAnd? He's investing no more time in you than he's investing in other chicks.Posted by SsupermanWe actually spend a lot of time talking and hanging out.Posted by KekeBHe's not investing anything in you, besides his dickPosted by CAPS_LOCKThat's what I'm kind of thinking. But why would he invest time into keeping me around and staying friends?
He's really not interestedclick to expand
Posted by Capri-sunI truely apologize. I didn't fully read the name. My mistake.Posted by KekeBPosted by Capri-sunOh now ur interested? Or are u still on ur PETTYstal?Posted by KekeBPosted by CAPS_LOCKThat's what I'm kind of thinking. But why would he invest time into keeping me around and staying friends?
He's really not interested
He could care less he's just being polite trying not to hurt your feelings
Different person. I'm Capri-sun not CAPS_LOCK
Who is on a pettystal now?
I don't do arrogant or rude so take care & good luck with that cap 😉
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Posted by poison_ivyThank u. That's what I kind of figured but one part of mooch course wanted to be wrong.
OP,
until a cap man takes a woman seriously, there will be others occupying his time.. or being intimate with him... When they know, they just know.. & they will make it clear exactly what it is they want.. If it's only you, it will be only you. They have No issues being real.
Unfortunately, I don't think he's interested in anything more than sex right now based on your post.. 😢
*me of course
Sex
Posted by SsupermanTrue, thank u!Posted by KekeBAnd? He's investing no more time in you than he's investing in other chicks.Posted by SsupermanWe actually spend a lot of time talking and hanging out.Posted by KekeBHe's not investing anything in you, besides his dickPosted by CAPS_LOCKThat's what I'm kind of thinking. But why would he invest time into keeping me around and staying friends?
He's really not interestedclick to expand
Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
KekeB, why do you want to give yourself (and put your health at risk) to a person that potentially could be bedding many other women?
I find that very sad
😢
I find that very sad
😢
Posted by MyStarsShineWhat do u mean? Anyone could be potentially sleeping with someone behind ur back. But in this case, he said when we first met, he was sleeping with other woman but that stopped when we started having sex. As of right now (his words) he isn't sleeping with no one.
KekeB, why do you want to give yourself (and put your health at risk) to a person that potentially could be bedding many other women?
I find that very sad
😢
Posted by KekeBPosted by MyStarsShineWhat do u mean? Anyone could be potentially sleeping with someone behind ur back. But in this case, he said when we first met, he was sleeping with other woman but that stopped when we started having sex. As of right now (his words) he isn't sleeping with no one.
KekeB, why do you want to give yourself (and put your health at risk) to a person that potentially could be bedding many other women?
I find that very sad
😢click to expand
Well in that case and if you are defending him .....carry on.
Rather you than me
Uh, thus the title, "F*c*k*ing buddy"; that's what you are to him; plain and simple!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by MyStarsShineWho is defending anyone? U asked why would I put myself at risk. I simply stated facts about my situation to explain how things happened. When I found out he was sleeping with other woman I cut off sex with him. I stated that in my original post...?!Posted by KekeBPosted by MyStarsShineWhat do u mean? Anyone could be potentially sleeping with someone behind ur back. But in this case, he said when we first met, he was sleeping with other woman but that stopped when we started having sex. As of right now (his words) he isn't sleeping with no one.
KekeB, why do you want to give yourself (and put your health at risk) to a person that potentially could be bedding many other women?
I find that very sad
😢
Well in that case and if you are defending him .....carry on.
Rather you than me
click to expand
Posted by KekeBI understand.. They are genuinely good ppl (caps) and of course you'd want them in your life.. I get along with them well.. but 1 way you 2 kinda went wrong is, starting off with "casual sex" then seeing where it goes.. that always gets messy. IMO.Posted by poison_ivyThank u. That's what I kind of figured but one part of mooch course wanted to be wrong.
OP,
until a cap man takes a woman seriously, there will be others occupying his time.. or being intimate with him... When they know, they just know.. & they will make it clear exactly what it is they want.. If it's only you, it will be only you. They have No issues being real.
Unfortunately, I don't think he's interested in anything more than sex right now based on your post.. 😢
*me of courseclick to expand
Posted by KekeBPosted by MyStarsShineWho is defending anyone? U asked why would I put myself at risk. I simply stated facts about my situation to explain how things happened. When I found out he was sleeping with other woman I cut off sex with him. I stated that in my original post...?!Posted by KekeBPosted by MyStarsShineWhat do u mean? Anyone could be potentially sleeping with someone behind ur back. But in this case, he said when we first met, he was sleeping with other woman but that stopped when we started having sex. As of right now (his words) he isn't sleeping with no one.
KekeB, why do you want to give yourself (and put your health at risk) to a person that potentially could be bedding many other women?
I find that very sad
😢
Well in that case and if you are defending him .....carry on.
Rather you than me
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Your title said "opinions please"
I gave mine as others did
Posted by EvatheDivaWhy don't women get this?
Uh, thus the title, "F*c*k*ing buddy"; that's what you are to him; plain and simple!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by poison_ivyI agree...Posted by KekeBI understand.. They are genuinely good ppl (caps) and of course you'd want them in your life.. I get along with them well.. but 1 way you 2 kinda went wrong is, starting off with "casual sex" then seeing where it goes.. that always gets messy. IMO.Posted by poison_ivyThank u. That's what I kind of figured but one part of mooch course wanted to be wrong.
OP,
until a cap man takes a woman seriously, there will be others occupying his time.. or being intimate with him... When they know, they just know.. & they will make it clear exactly what it is they want.. If it's only you, it will be only you. They have No issues being real.
Unfortunately, I don't think he's interested in anything more than sex right now based on your post.. 😢
*me of courseclick to expand
Posted by d0s3rMy emotions are probably clouding things. I agree.Posted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
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Posted by KekeBI'm sorry, 😢Posted by poison_ivyI agree...Posted by KekeBI understand.. They are genuinely good ppl (caps) and of course you'd want them in your life.. I get along with them well.. but 1 way you 2 kinda went wrong is, starting off with "casual sex" then seeing where it goes.. that always gets messy. IMO.Posted by poison_ivyThank u. That's what I kind of figured but one part of mooch course wanted to be wrong.
OP,
until a cap man takes a woman seriously, there will be others occupying his time.. or being intimate with him... When they know, they just know.. & they will make it clear exactly what it is they want.. If it's only you, it will be only you. They have No issues being real.
Unfortunately, I don't think he's interested in anything more than sex right now based on your post.. 😢
*me of courseclick to expand
But this is what I say do, & the choice is yours, but back off a bit.. Don't read too deep into the now as he's kinda placed your situation in the "FWB zone".. Until he says he wants more, I'd leave him alone.
Posted by KekeBHey KeKe.. What's your sign?Posted by d0s3rMy emotions are probably clouding things. I agree.Posted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
click to expand
Posted by d0s3rPosted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
click to expand
+1
Caps are always straightforward. They generally do what they mean, & mean what they say.
Posted by poison_ivyI think that's what I'll doPosted by KekeBI'm sorry, 😢Posted by poison_ivyI agree...Posted by KekeBI understand.. They are genuinely good ppl (caps) and of course you'd want them in your life.. I get along with them well.. but 1 way you 2 kinda went wrong is, starting off with "casual sex" then seeing where it goes.. that always gets messy. IMO.Posted by poison_ivyThank u. That's what I kind of figured but one part of mooch course wanted to be wrong.
OP,
until a cap man takes a woman seriously, there will be others occupying his time.. or being intimate with him... When they know, they just know.. & they will make it clear exactly what it is they want.. If it's only you, it will be only you. They have No issues being real.
Unfortunately, I don't think he's interested in anything more than sex right now based on your post.. 😢
*me of course
But this is what I say do, & the choice is yours, but back off a bit.. Don't read too deep into the now as he's kinda placed your situation in the "FWB zone".. Until he says he wants more, I'd leave him alone.click to expand
Posted by d0s3rWe stopped sex a few months back when I found out he had slept with other woman. Sexually, yes... I thought we were exclusive because that's what he told me. When we first started out as fwb, he told me he would not sleep with more than 1 woman at a time. So I figured I was the only one he was sleeping with. Now he came back to try to "clear" it up by saying the first month of is sleeping together he had slept with someone else but cut her off because we were having sex.Posted by KekeBi advise u stop fucking the dudePosted by d0s3rMy emotions are probably clouding things. I agree.Posted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
you´re not emotionally detached enough for fwb
don´t think that continuing to fuck him will generate feelings in him
maybe it´s because u didn´t know he fucked other girls?
so u felt u and him were exclusive?
understandableclick to expand
Posted by poison_ivyScorpPosted by KekeBHey KeKe.. What's your sign?Posted by d0s3rMy emotions are probably clouding things. I agree.Posted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
click to expand
Posted by d0s3rLol... I'm good on the whole FWB, dating and what not. I'm going to back up from this and find a new hobby.Posted by KekeBya but... u made the mistake in thinking that he owed u his fidelityPosted by d0s3rWe stopped sex a few months back when I found out he had slept with other woman. Sexually, yes... I thought we were exclusive because that's what he told me. When we first started out as fwb, he told me he would not sleep with more than 1 woman at a time. So I figured I was the only one he was sleeping with. Now he came back to try to "clear" it up by saying the first month of is sleeping together he had slept with someone else but cut her off because we were having sex.Posted by KekeBi advise u stop fucking the dudePosted by d0s3rMy emotions are probably clouding things. I agree.Posted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
you´re not emotionally detached enough for fwb
don´t think that continuing to fuck him will generate feelings in him
maybe it´s because u didn´t know he fucked other girls?
so u felt u and him were exclusive?
understandable
u gotta freeze urself up a bit if u wanna get thru a fwb
all these feelings u give are a bf-only privilege
he has u all stressed over him and yet he´s getting nookie far and yonder
just go get some new shiny nookie for urselfclick to expand
Posted by d0s3rLol... thanks for ur input.Posted by KekeBthat´s the spirit ?Posted by d0s3rLol... I'm good on the whole FWB, dating and what not. I'm going to back up from this and find a new hobby.Posted by KekeBya but... u made the mistake in thinking that he owed u his fidelityPosted by d0s3rWe stopped sex a few months back when I found out he had slept with other woman. Sexually, yes... I thought we were exclusive because that's what he told me. When we first started out as fwb, he told me he would not sleep with more than 1 woman at a time. So I figured I was the only one he was sleeping with. Now he came back to try to "clear" it up by saying the first month of is sleeping together he had slept with someone else but cut her off because we were having sex.Posted by KekeBi advise u stop fucking the dudePosted by d0s3rMy emotions are probably clouding things. I agree.Posted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
you´re not emotionally detached enough for fwb
don´t think that continuing to fuck him will generate feelings in him
maybe it´s because u didn´t know he fucked other girls?
so u felt u and him were exclusive?
understandable
u gotta freeze urself up a bit if u wanna get thru a fwb
all these feelings u give are a bf-only privilege
he has u all stressed over him and yet he´s getting nookie far and yonder
just go get some new shiny nookie for urselfclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineBecause they are young, idiots, and they think they are the ONLY ones in a monogamous relationship.Posted by EvatheDivaWhy don't women get this?
Uh, thus the title, "F*c*k*ing buddy"; that's what you are to him; plain and simple!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by KekeBAhhh.. I see.. lol.. me too..Posted by poison_ivyScorpPosted by KekeBHey KeKe.. What's your sign?Posted by d0s3rMy emotions are probably clouding things. I agree.Posted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
click to expand
Let him do the work.. Don't chase him. They like a good chase anyway..
I know how I am, If I'm interested in 1 person, I can only be intimate or give my all to him.. So that may be the case for you, being that your're a scorp also.. We (scorps) have a tough time trusting ppls intentions in general.. But try dating other guys.. Don't put all your eggs in one basket with this guy. He doesn't seem invested. & you shouldn't put yourself in a situation where you become confused and hurt. Like you are now. Scorps don't accept betrayal that well.... & he may be a good friend but he clearly doesn't want more than JUST that.. w/ or w/out sex.
Posted by poison_ivyThank I. I agree. I'm cool in the dating thing after this. It's not for me obviously. Lol. I have other things I can invest myself into that'll make me happy and less emotional. I'm letting him know today that it's a wrap, I can't keep on with this friendship. We can end on peaceful terms and no one really gets hurt. Moving on...Posted by KekeBAhhh.. I see.. lol.. me too..Posted by poison_ivyScorpPosted by KekeBHey KeKe.. What's your sign?Posted by d0s3rMy emotions are probably clouding things. I agree.Posted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
Let him do the work.. Don't chase him. They like a good chase anyway..
I know how I am, If I'm interested in 1 person, I can only be intimate or give my all to him.. So that may be the case for you, being that your're a scorp also.. We (scorps) have a tough time trusting ppls intentions in general.. But try dating other guys.. Don't put all your eggs in one basket with this guy. He doesn't seem invested. & you shouldn't put yourself in a situation where you become confused and hurt. Like you are now. Scorps don't except betrayal that well.... & he may be a good friend but he clearly doesn't want more than JUST that.. w/ or w/out sex.click to expand
Posted by KekeBGood for you girly! 🙂 You'll be just fine!Posted by poison_ivyThank I. I agree. I'm cool in the dating thing after this. It's not for me obviously. Lol. I have other things I can invest myself into that'll make me happy and less emotional. I'm letting him know today that it's a wrap, I can't keep on with this friendship. We can end on peaceful terms and no one really gets hurt. Moving on...Posted by KekeBAhhh.. I see.. lol.. me too..Posted by poison_ivyScorpPosted by KekeBHey KeKe.. What's your sign?Posted by d0s3rMy emotions are probably clouding things. I agree.Posted by KekeByou were sex friends. so he fucked u as a friend.Posted by d0s3rThank u. I just wish he was easy to read and I could know for sure if he judged to be freirnfs or if he wants more.
from my outsider POV it sounds like he respects ur boundaries.
a good friend
you cut him off for sex. so he continued treating u as a friend, without sex
he seems pretty straightforward
it´s you who is being hard to read
Let him do the work.. Don't chase him. They like a good chase anyway..
I know how I am, If I'm interested in 1 person, I can only be intimate or give my all to him.. So that may be the case for you, being that your're a scorp also.. We (scorps) have a tough time trusting ppls intentions in general.. But try dating other guys.. Don't put all your eggs in one basket with this guy. He doesn't seem invested. & you shouldn't put yourself in a situation where you become confused and hurt. Like you are now. Scorps don't except betrayal that well.... & he may be a good friend but he clearly doesn't want more than JUST that.. w/ or w/out sex.
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Posted by KekeB
I've been knowing this cap man for over a year. We're casual sex buddies trying to see if anything more comes of it...*a lot of unnecessary filler to justify why you're holding on...*
Casual sex buddies over a year? No more will come of it.
No one needs a whole year to decide if they want more of the same. Don't believe the hype.
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So here's the problem. I've fallen into some really strong feelings for him and I have no clue how he feels about me. I tend to like everything to be black and white and he's so gaurded when it comes to his feelings that he stays in the grey area. If I text him, he ALWAYS responds. If I call he always answers and if he doesn't, he calls right back. Usually within the hour and if he can't call back, he'll text and let me know he's busy. When we hangout, we always have a great time but when we're alone, I can't help but feel uptight with him. Probably because I'm insecure about his feelings for me. A few months ago I told him I had feelings for him and I asked where does he see this relationship going. He said he's not sure but he sees potential in me. I usually bombard him with random questions about relationships, his future and whatever comes to mind and he is always willing to answer. Well tonight, I asked how he feels about me and his reply was "good". What the hell does that mean? So I asked him to explain. He saidit means he feels good about intentions , motives and if someone is good to keep them in his circle. I still don't understand. Probably because that's not the answer I was looking for. I was looking for a simple answer more along the line of, I care about u and I want u in my life or I don't care about u and it doesn't matter if u leave my life or not. Also, I asked how important was our friendship to him and he said it's important to him because when ur friends u have some type of love for them.
What do u think? Do u think he has feelings for me or is he just being polite and not trying to hurt my feelings. I haven't been in many relationships. Only 2 so I'm not used to the dating thing. Last relationship was 10yrs and I've only been single for 3yrs.