How long can you date two people (Page 2)

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Are you people that are dating multiple people at once still trying to find that "perfect match"?

LULZ

Like I stated, I did.

I even had an open relationship for three years with a Cancer who later proposed marriage.

Even when my husband and I were divorced went right back to multi-dating, or just dating cause that is what dating is. Otherwise, it's a relationship.

Then, you have the serial monogamists.... feel ba

d for them. Is that what you are?

Just hit me!

You full of shit!

Seriously...or you marrying cockhold...it’s not a good normal shit. Whatever...

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I don't cheat.

Lol...

....So, don't project.

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Posted by Beerthirty

Are you people that are dating multiple people at once still trying to find that "perfect match"?

LULZ

Like I stated, I did.

I even had an open relationship for three years with a Cancer who later proposed marriage.

Even when my husband and I were divorced went right back to multi-dating, or just dating cause that is what dating is. Otherwise, it's a relationship.

Then, you have the serial monogamists.... feel ba

d for them. Is that what you are?

Just hit me!

You full of shit!

Seriously...or you marrying cockhold...it’s not a good normal shit. Whatever...

dude you cheated on your Capricorn for a decade

she dated when she divorced

what's abnormal?

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You need to be in bed and you aren’t.

THATS abnormal...good night...

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Posted by Beerthirty

Are you people that are dating multiple people at once still trying to find that "perfect match"?

LULZ

Like I stated, I did.

I even had an open relationship for three years with a Cancer who later proposed marriage.

Even when my husband and I were divorced went right back to multi-dating, or just dating cause that is what dating is. Otherwise, it's a relationship.

Then, you have the serial monogamists.... feel ba

d for them. Is that what you are?

Just hit me!

You full of shit!

Seriously...or you marrying cockhold...it’s not a good normal shit. Whatever...

dude you cheated on your Capricorn for a decade

she dated when she divorced

what's abnormal?

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I like her comments. Hating on me cause I get love with no cheating. L-O-L

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Are you people that are dating multiple people at once still trying to find that "perfect match"?

LULZ

Like I stated, I did.

I even had an open relationship for three years with a Cancer who later proposed marriage.

Even when my husband and I were divorced went right back to multi-dating, or just dating cause that is what dating is. Otherwise, it's a relationship.

Then, you have the serial monogamists.... feel ba

d for them. Is that what you are?

Just hit me!

You full of shit!

Seriously...or you marrying cockhold...it’s not a good normal shit. Whatever...

I don't cheat.

Lol...

....So, don't project.

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I do t cheat...now...

Why would I cheat if dick is up my holes?

Right? Fuck them whiny bitches who want to have dicks given to them...in forms of...flowers or shit...lnao

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

LOOOL exactly why its best to keep mum

I was just driving a male cancer family member somewhere today and a girl call his phone and he said “I just sent you a text and now you’re calling, you’re bugging me” and he hung up on her lol.

I would’ve never thought in a million years he would do such a thing with how sweet and loving he is. Lol.

I would’ve died being a girl in that situation.

oh you don't KNOW us do you

I only see the sweet side. Even with friends. I could never be rude to someone I’m dating like that. 😅

idk about other cancers but I'm extremely rude

if I don't want to talk to you ill hang up

of course you'd have to be extremely close to me for that like family

so yeah id probably treat my boyfriend like that

That would be the last time I ever called a guy. My worst fear is to bug someone and be annoying.

even your ex

what's the point of relationships if you can't be an ass sometimes

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Maybe it’s just in the dating stages.

I’m an asshole most times in a relationship. I will ignore calls if you call too much. My ex still calls and texts and I ignore him most of the time. But he calls and texts excessively. I shouldn’t be a person he calls everyday anymore lol.

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

i getchu 100% . not communicating from the get is a recipe for weird shit to happen later on.

if you communicate yr dating other ppl & the other ppl bounce afterward then that eliminates any potential for mixed signals, assumptions, etc.

communicating about what yr doing, when it comes to other ppl’s emotions, is being responsible, imo.

I completely agree with you! It will probably end up pretty bad. Fixed signs don’t let go that easily so it’s bound to come out.

I had a Taurus come back around after a few months cause he got upset when we had conversations about dating. He told me he had a date that night and then I said “well tell me how it goes” - he got mad at that! Lol. Then called me months later asking why I never contacted him. I reminded him he was supposed to tell me how his date went, since he never messaged or called back, I assumed it went well 😬🤷‍♀️

lmaoooooooooo savage

im just at a point where i’d rather be emotionally responsible w/ other ppl than deal w/ the emotional mess of not communicating.

maybe im old & stupid but... seems to work for me.

I swear I wish I was better at communicating. I don’t even know where to start or how to be better. It’s so much easier for me to back off and busy myself with life instead.

well, i am an over communicator & get aggressive w/ ppl who dont communicate back.

i will straight up have a text convo for 3 hours lmao

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This is what I need. Someone to text me. I like it. Instead I get men who want to wait on me to text them all the time. Once they find out I don’t reach out. They think I will if I think they’re special or something. It’s such an odd way of thinking.

So they find out fast that I was serious about me being shitty with texting and calling and they take offense. 😩😩😩

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

i getchu 100% . not communicating from the get is a recipe for weird shit to happen later on.

if you communicate yr dating other ppl & the other ppl bounce afterward then that eliminates any potential for mixed signals, assumptions, etc.

communicating about what yr doing, when it comes to other ppl’s emotions, is being responsible, imo.

I completely agree with you! It will probably end up pretty bad. Fixed signs don’t let go that easily so it’s bound to come out.

I had a Taurus come back around after a few months cause he got upset when we had conversations about dating. He told me he had a date that night and then I said “well tell me how it goes” - he got mad at that! Lol. Then called me months later asking why I never contacted him. I reminded him he was supposed to tell me how his date went, since he never messaged or called back, I assumed it went well 😬🤷‍♀️

lmaoooooooooo savage

im just at a point where i’d rather be emotionally responsible w/ other ppl than deal w/ the emotional mess of not communicating.

maybe im old & stupid but... seems to work for me.

I swear I wish I was better at communicating. I don’t even know where to start or how to be better. It’s so much easier for me to back off and busy myself with life instead.

well, i am an over communicator & get aggressive w/ ppl who dont communicate back.

i will straight up have a text convo for 3 hours lmao

This is what I need. Someone to text me. I like it. Instead I get men who want to wait on me to text them all the time. Once they find out I don’t reach out. They think I will if I think they’re special or something. It’s such an odd way of thinking.

So they find out fast that I was serious about me being shitty with texting and calling and they take offense. 😩😩😩

sounds like you gotta go back to a gemini LOLLL they are up yr ass all the time w/ communicating.

love that needy communication. makes me feel loved 🥰

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I know. I wish I was like this. If I knew it made someone feel loved, I would try harder but once someone ignores a text that I send or leaves me on read, my efforts go out the window and I resort back to my old ways. lol

I cant stand guys that just like receiving random check in texts and then don’t say anything back.

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

i getchu 100% . not communicating from the get is a recipe for weird shit to happen later on.

if you communicate yr dating other ppl & the other ppl bounce afterward then that eliminates any potential for mixed signals, assumptions, etc.

communicating about what yr doing, when it comes to other ppl’s emotions, is being responsible, imo.

I completely agree with you! It will probably end up pretty bad. Fixed signs don’t let go that easily so it’s bound to come out.

I had a Taurus come back around after a few months cause he got upset when we had conversations about dating. He told me he had a date that night and then I said “well tell me how it goes” - he got mad at that! Lol. Then called me months later asking why I never contacted him. I reminded him he was supposed to tell me how his date went, since he never messaged or called back, I assumed it went well 😬🤷‍♀️

lmaoooooooooo savage

im just at a point where i’d rather be emotionally responsible w/ other ppl than deal w/ the emotional mess of not communicating.

maybe im old & stupid but... seems to work for me.

I swear I wish I was better at communicating. I don’t even know where to start or how to be better. It’s so much easier for me to back off and busy myself with life instead.

well, i am an over communicator & get aggressive w/ ppl who dont communicate back.

i will straight up have a text convo for 3 hours lmao

This is what I need. Someone to text me. I like it. Instead I get men who want to wait on me to text them all the time. Once they find out I don’t reach out. They think I will if I think they’re special or something. It’s such an odd way of thinking.

So they find out fast that I was serious about me being shitty with texting and calling and they take offense. 😩😩😩

sounds like you gotta go back to a gemini LOLLL they are up yr ass all the time w/ communicating.

love that needy communication. makes me feel loved 🥰

I know. I wish I was like this. If I knew it made someone feel loved, I would try harder but once someone ignores a text that I send or leaves me on read, my efforts go out the window and I resort back to my old ways. lol

I cant stand guys that just like receiving random check in texts and then don’t say anything back.

SAME!!

if you ignore me, i will spam you w/ a million “TEXT ME BACK” or just ghost yr ass.

im not gonna sit & make all the effort.

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I think I would actually love a text spam like that! 😆

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

what are the rest of your placements?

Cancer Moon

Sag Mercury

Leo Mars

Scorpio Venus

Libra Rising.

Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.

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THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE!!!

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

what are the rest of your placements?

Cancer Moon

Sag Mercury

Leo Mars

Scorpio Venus

Libra Rising.

Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.

THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE!!!

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What makes sense?

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

what are the rest of your placements?

Cancer Moon

Sag Mercury

Leo Mars

Scorpio Venus

Libra Rising.

Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.

THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE!!!

What makes sense?

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you're water dominant.

Dating multiple people is very much a North American culture. Europeans find it confusing (someone please correct me if I'm wrong...) and sleeping with multiple people is considered being a player or a "floozy". I think they automatically assume that if you keep going on dates with them you fancy them and you're kind of trying to make it work.

I think if you are just texting/talking on an online app that's one thing and going out on the first or 2nd date is okay too... but anything more than that I'd focus on one person.

Personally if there's no physical intimacy involved I don't see it as morally wrong but it's just not my style . I don't date around past the 1st-2nd date if I like someone...and if I like someone then that's a huge win so I rather focus on them.

I don't need exclusivity talk to be exclusive with someone (following your heart kind of thing). I know this may sound dumb to people but when you're into someone why would you want to be around other people intimately. I'd just think about that one person the whole time.

But for OP i'd imagine it would start feeling dishonest after being physically intimate with one.

Also, dating nowadays is shit so might as well just get a pet and focus on your career lmao

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

what are the rest of your placements?

Cancer Moon

Sag Mercury

Leo Mars

Scorpio Venus

Libra Rising.

Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.

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I'd eat it.

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

what are the rest of your placements?

Cancer Moon

Sag Mercury

Leo Mars

Scorpio Venus

Libra Rising.

Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.

I'd eat it.

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You like what you see? 😄

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

what are the rest of your placements?

Cancer Moon

Sag Mercury

Leo Mars

Scorpio Venus

Libra Rising.

Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.

THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE!!!

What makes sense?

you're water dominant.

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So you're not gonna say, then? You like how I dominate? I saw your chart lol

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

what are the rest of your placements?

Cancer Moon

Sag Mercury

Leo Mars

Scorpio Venus

Libra Rising.

Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.

THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE!!!

What makes sense?

you're water dominant.

So you're not gonna say, then? You like how I dominate? I saw your chart lol

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lol I wish I could take you with me to morocco.

you're fun.

when you interested in one and have to lie to the other one, faking interest when you've already made your decision in your head

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I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.

you know what assuming does right?

why not just say “im dating around” from the get?

no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.

I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.

I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.

this is why i could never date you 🥺

its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.

assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.

I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.

I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.

... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?

im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?

Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.

She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.

At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.

I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.

you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.

i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.

OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?

I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.

I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.

It will probably just end very bad.

And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵

what are the rest of your placements?

Cancer Moon

Sag Mercury

Leo Mars

Scorpio Venus

Libra Rising.

Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.

THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE!!!

What makes sense?

you're water dominant.

So you're not gonna say, then? You like how I dominate? I saw your chart lol

lol I wish I could take you with me to morocco.

you're fun.

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Next time! 😉

My favorite travel buddy is a Pisces girlfriend that I’ve known forever. We go more places together then with other people. We travel well together.

Update: I didn’t say anything about who I was dating or sleeping with to either of these guys. I let nature take its course.

The Leo was consistent, charismatic and made me laugh. I saw a lot of him.

The Scorpio was moody and would disappear into nature for long periods of time. Sends me pictures of him sleeping in the woods. I don’t reach out but I still respond to some of his communication. The fading feels mutual.

The Leo has been one of the best, grown up experiences I’ve had with a man. We enjoyed each others company, had lots of fun along with some genuine intimacy.

He moved away last week. He calls and says he might come back but I haven’t believed that since I first heard he was going. I kept telling him I’m ok but I think he wants me to be a little boo hoo about it. I told him I missed him over Christmas and I meant it. He says we’ll be friends for life and means it.

I honestly believe if I had brought up dating other people I would have introduced a dynamic that wasn’t necessary. I imaged how I would respond if someone basically told me that I have competition. I’d wonder why they’re telling me and what is their agenda.

I had no agenda, I just had and acted like I have options. like a boss

I can’t date multiple people at the same time.

Wouldn’t you get confused with names and information?

It’s too much work.

One at a time is enough for me ...or no one at all.

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I can’t date multiple people at the same time.

Wouldn’t you get confused with names and information?

It’s too much work.

One at a time is enough for me ...or no one at all.

You call everyone baby, babe or love and there is no confusion 🙃

I've dated 4 simultaneously. Sexed none. One of the BEST times in my life.

How long? Depends on the progress w each one.

If you enter each friendship w the communication that you're dating, there should be no dishonesty. I think it's when they begin to pry and ask questions that problems may begin. Or if they begin to show jealous, insecure tendencies 🤦 I've seen men throw tantrums behind this lmao. But I also think that MOST men feel entitled to having you to themselves. They don't believe that women should weigh their options. But trust and believe, they do, more OFTEN than not.

when communication dies down bc lack of chemistry, they gotta go

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I can’t date multiple people at the same time.

Wouldn’t you get confused with names and information?

It’s too much work.

One at a time is enough for me ...or no one at all.

You call everyone baby, babe or love and there is no confusion 🙃

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🤣 good point

Funny this topic was revived now!

i’m currently in Las Vegas with the Scorpio and my ex Pisces is calling me to send him money.

😭😭😤😤

i was going to cuss his slippery ass out in the comment section. boy bye

i will never date one man at a time without them asking for commitment first, again.

@Black-Mamba this Scorp and an Aqua both have Leo moons!! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 lord help me

If I were to date two people...? 🤔

Hmm.... paid meals for free. Probably how long they realize I’m not really dating them.