Sex how long?

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3 long years
Wow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
#marriedlife
You mean you were married and didn't have sex for 3yrs? Are you still married?

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Not married to her anymore.
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3 long years
Wow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
#marriedlife
You mean you were married and didn't have sex for 3yrs? Are you still married?


Not married to her anymore.

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Oh my goodness!! I'm sure that was so hard, I wouldn't have been able to handle that. Are you in a new relationship? Were you scared when you 1st had sex again or was it not a big deal?
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3 long years
Wow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
#marriedlife
You mean you were married and didn't have sex for 3yrs? Are you still married?


Not married to her anymore.


Oh my goodness!! I'm sure that was so hard, I wouldn't have been able to handle that. Are you in a new relationship? Were you scared when you 1st had sex again or was it not a big deal?

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3 long years
Wow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
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You have NO idea how many men are sex deprived. Or haven't had for other reasons.

I refuse to think of men as 'dogs' after a few years ago when I've met tons of gorgeous nice men with no sex life!

And they were all fine. I mean from outside. ?
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So far its been a year and six months
@wonderlesswave can I ask why you've gone without? Is it getting really hard for you?



I kind of just decided to be celibate at first it was just for spiritual reasons, but then it was a way for me to re discover myself and pulle together sort of speak.

At first it was very enjoyable , i would say these last two months have been difficult as someone who was/ is a very sexual being its hard to supress that energy . I feel like i kind of messed myself up by cuddling with someone not too long ago .

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You feel it opened up that side of yourself that makes you want more intimacy? I'm pretty afraid of how I will feel once I do have sex again. LOL
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This June is 8mos.

I think.. if I reach Scorpio ex birthday this November it will be a year.
How are you feeling about it?


Cleansed. I like it.

I haven't had a break for nine years.

Holy crap... I haven't had sex since I turned 26 years old this February.
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You were with your ex for 9yrs? It does feel cleansing thats for sure!
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10 years.
How old are you, Gemitati??


51 but back then I was 32-42...
You're not 51!! LOL Don't lie...


Hon I am and I can't wait to get older so finally NO ONE TELLS ME WHAT TO DO!

Trust me - age has nothing to do with being smart. —
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How did I not know this?? LOL I've been on this board for almost 5yrs.. Have you mentioned this before?

LOL I agree, age has nothing to do with being smart!!! 😛
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3 long years
Wow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
#marriedlife
You mean you were married and didn't have sex for 3yrs? Are you still married?


Not married to her anymore.


Oh my goodness!! I'm sure that was so hard, I wouldn't have been able to handle that. Are you in a new relationship? Were you scared when you 1st had sex again or was it not a big deal?


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This is what I'm hoping!! LOL
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When u tell ur male gyno how long it been n he's giving the lecture "why it's not bad, nothing wrong with having man in your life"

Did he hear me when I said I haven't found someone!

Geesh the pressure
That's really inappropriate for him to discuss in your appointments. You might want to get a new gyno.

Definately!

Even though nurse was there n hes like 70 yrs old lol

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Oh gawd, explains everything.