@WateryGem
12 Years1,000+ Posts
Sex how long?
How Long Can You Go Without Sex?
The longest time someone can go without sex varies widely, with some individuals abstaining for months or years due to personal choice or circumstances. There is no universal limit, and it depends on personal libido, health, and lifestyle. If you have concerns about sexual activity and health, consult a healthcare professional.
3 long years
Posted by Ssuperman
3 long years
Wow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
Posted by Ssuperman
3 long yearsWow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
click to expand
10 years.
Vaginal sex about two years maybe more
Oral about one year
lol I didn't peep this was the gem forum my bad
Posted by Ssuperman
3 long yearsWow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
click to expand
You mean you were married and didn't have sex for 3yrs? Are you still married?
Posted by bkbella86
lol I didn't peep this was the gem forum my bad
It's for everyone!! 🙂 I wanted to know from everyone, not just Gems.
Posted by Ssuperman
3 long yearsWow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
You mean you were married and didn't have sex for 3yrs? Are you still married?
click to expand
Not married to her anymore.
Posted by Lala1393
From birth to like 16. My stats went to shi.t from then on.
LOLOL
Posted by Ssuperman
3 long yearsWow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
You mean you were married and didn't have sex for 3yrs? Are you still married?
Not married to her anymore.
click to expand
Oh my goodness!! I'm sure that was so hard, I wouldn't have been able to handle that. Are you in a new relationship? Were you scared when you 1st had sex again or was it not a big deal?
Posted by Wonderlesswave
So far its been a year and six months
@wonderlesswave can I ask why you've gone without? Is it getting really hard for you?
Posted by Gemitati
10 years.
How old are you, Gemitati??
Posted by Lala1393
From birth to like 16. My stats went to shi.t from then on.LOLOL
You're gorgeous btw.
click to expand
Thank you!! That's sweet of you to say.
Posted by Ssuperman
3 long yearsWow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
You mean you were married and didn't have sex for 3yrs? Are you still married?
Not married to her anymore.
Oh my goodness!! I'm sure that was so hard, I wouldn't have been able to handle that. Are you in a new relationship? Were you scared when you 1st had sex again or was it not a big deal?
click to expand
Just like riding a bike
Posted by Gemitati
10 years.How old are you, Gemitati??
click to expand
51 but back then I was 32-42...
Posted by -Flo-
This June is 8mos.I think.. if I reach Scorpio ex birthday this November it will be a year.
How are you feeling about it?
Posted by Gemitati
10 years.How old are you, Gemitati??
51 but back then I was 32-42...
click to expand
You're not 51!! LOL Don't lie...
Posted by Gemitati
10 years.How old are you, Gemitati??
51 but back then I was 32-42...
click to expand
If that's true!!! How did you deal with that? Do you have a high sex drive? Why did you wait so long?
Posted by Ssuperman
3 long yearsWow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
click to expand
You have NO idea how many men are sex deprived. Or haven't had for other reasons.
I refuse to think of men as 'dogs' after a few years ago when I've met tons of gorgeous nice men with no sex life!
And they were all fine. I mean from outside. ?
Posted by Wonderlesswave
So far its been a year and six months@wonderlesswave can I ask why you've gone without? Is it getting really hard for you?
I kind of just decided to be celibate at first it was just for spiritual reasons, but then it was a way for me to re discover myself and pulle together sort of speak.
At first it was very enjoyable , i would say these last two months have been difficult as someone who was/ is a very sexual being its hard to supress that energy . I feel like i kind of messed myself up by cuddling with someone not too long ago .
click to expand
You feel it opened up that side of yourself that makes you want more intimacy? I'm pretty afraid of how I will feel once I do have sex again. LOL
Posted by Gemitati
10 years.How old are you, Gemitati??
51 but back then I was 32-42...
You're not 51!! LOL Don't lie...
click to expand
Hon I am and I can't wait to get older so finally NO ONE TELLS ME WHAT TO DO!
Trust me - age has nothing to do with being smart. —
Posted by -Flo-
This June is 8mos.I think.. if I reach Scorpio ex birthday this November it will be a year.
How are you feeling about it?
Cleansed. I like it.
I haven't had a break for nine years.
Holy crap... I haven't had sex since I turned 26 years old this February.
click to expand
You were with your ex for 9yrs? It does feel cleansing thats for sure!
Posted by Gemitati
10 years.How old are you, Gemitati??
51 but back then I was 32-42...
You're not 51!! LOL Don't lie...
Hon I am and I can't wait to get older so finally NO ONE TELLS ME WHAT TO DO!
Trust me - age has nothing to do with being smart. —
click to expand
How did I not know this?? LOL I've been on this board for almost 5yrs.. Have you mentioned this before?
LOL I agree, age has nothing to do with being smart!!! 😛
Close to 2 years during and after a LTR that I was in. About 1.5 years of the 2 was after the breakup.
Posted by Ssuperman
3 long yearsWow, I never imagined a guy waiting so long. May, I ask what the reason was for? Was it really hard for you? did it cause you to feel depressed or anything?
You mean you were married and didn't have sex for 3yrs? Are you still married?
Not married to her anymore.
Oh my goodness!! I'm sure that was so hard, I wouldn't have been able to handle that. Are you in a new relationship? Were you scared when you 1st had sex again or was it not a big deal?
Just like riding a bike
click to expand
This is what I'm hoping!! LOL
Crazy how someone says they "don't expect a guy to wait that long" he has to if no luck. Other than forcing yourself On woman or paying for it!
2 years for me
Posted by WateryGem
How long is the longest you've gone without having sex?
Currently 19 months 😡
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
20 years,bro i'm not even socially active
@WateryGem I am single and a very sexually active person but physical intimacy rarely happens to me because of the location I live in now, so masturbate most of the days and once in a while doing exhibitionism keeps me happy and content 🙂.
Posted by WateryGem
How long is the longest you've gone without having sex?
Too long! Almost a year now
About a year
8 months
Posted by LoveSeeker
20 years,bro i'm not even socially active
are you a pisces II ?
born ( march 3rd-10th)?
Posted by Impulsv
When u tell ur male gyno how long it been n he's giving the lecture "why it's not bad, nothing wrong with having man in your life"Did he hear me when I said I haven't found someone!
Geesh the pressure
That's really inappropriate for him to discuss in your appointments. You might want to get a new gyno.
Posted by Impulsv
When u tell ur male gyno how long it been n he's giving the lecture "why it's not bad, nothing wrong with having man in your life"Did he hear me when I said I haven't found someone!
Geesh the pressure
That's really inappropriate for him to discuss in your appointments. You might want to get a new gyno.
Definately!
Even though nurse was there n hes like 70 yrs old lol
click to expand
Oh gawd, explains everything.
A year lol and it seems I'll be doing that again lol
Posted by LoveSeeker
20 years,bro i'm not even socially activeare you a pisces II ?
born ( march 3rd-10th)?
click to expand
pisces III
just less than 1yr for me
Want to keep conversations like this alive?
Questions about loyalty and trust in Gemini are deeply personal. If this helped you feel less alone, you can support dxpnet below.
Every contribution helps keep dxpnet independent and ad-light.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
How long is the longest you've gone without having sex?