Posted by cinnamonapplesWhat house is your rising in?
However, being a taurus rising, I feel that this signs characteristics are very a kin to me, much more than what I hear about pisces sun.
I personally feel that it is a very genuine and perhaps the most important part of my personality, work is pretty much the essence of life for me.
Posted by bittercupcakeFrom personal experience, appealing to a Leo's eccentrities goes a long way. Aquas have a way of saying what a Leo is thinking, without us having to admit it flat out. Leos are still tied to convention in some ways, we've learned the merits of finding comfort in comformity. However we still have crave the creative, the unique, escape from normal. We too like pushing the boundaries of polite society, so an Aqua can appeal to that easily.
How can I, win the heart of a Leo...as an eccentric Aqua?
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Posted by cinnamonapplesYou're welcome. :-) Yes, take a look at your chart and see if there's anything that stands out with aspects, including if there is anything in the first house of your chart.Posted by CopperDoveOuu. I see, thanks for stopping by! Glad to know you feel the same way. Though you also made a good point about how the rising interacts with other placements. I should read more into that. Thanks!Posted by cinnamonapplesI'm with you in thinking that the ascendant isn't superficial, like some believe. I have Taurus rising too, and it forms aspects with a few things in my chart, so maybe that is part of the reason why I don't perceive it as being only a mask.
Hey chuckcem and the knowledgeable people out there, I thought you had a good knowledge of astrological charts. So I thought I could ask you this. I hear that the ascendent sign is like the external mask that people wear, and most explanations out there seem to imply that it's not a very genuine aspect of our personality. However, being a taurus rising, I feel that this signs characteristics are very a kin to me, much more than what I hear about pisces sun. The most important ones being that I am always working, and a slow cautious decision maker. It's as if Im comfortable being a workaholic, and not to mention that I often get told I have such tendencies. Im not sure if the aqua moon has anything to do with this, but I wonder if the rising is really a superficial aspect. I personally feel that it is a very genuine and perhaps the most important part of my personality, work is pretty much the essence of life for me. What would you say? It definitely doesn't feel like a mask I wear.
Just trying to make sense of my work habits.
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Posted by pinkbird03I don't. They're jarring, I like burgundy my fave is Black.
Do all Leo's like bright colors?
Posted by Chuckcem@bittercupcake Though I'll also say giving a Leo food and a massage cuts through most of this.Posted by bittercupcakeFrom personal experience, appealing to a Leo's eccentrities goes a long way. Aquas have a way of saying what a Leo is thinking, without us having to admit it flat out. Leos are still tied to convention in some ways, we've learned the merits of finding comfort in comformity. However we still have crave the creative, the unique, escape from normal. We too like pushing the boundaries of polite society, so an Aqua can appeal to that easily.
How can I, win the heart of a Leo...as an eccentric Aqua?
@(*^ｪ^)@
There's also a bravery that comes with being unapologetically unique that can appeal to a Leo's sensibilities. While we may be initially attracted to an Aqua's apparent stoicism, what really reels us in is being able to connect in a way that most would consider "weird".
So the first step is making your presence known. Leos are looking for our "king/queen", so your presence should command some attention (at least ours). Then be direct and talk to the Leo, it is in this way that you'll be able to share your quirks, which may also ring true for the Leo. Just don't be TOO weird, at least not in public (until the Leo is used to it). Leo's still like to keep up appearances when in a crowd to some degree.
That's just the mental part. Leo's are still physical animals, so you need to be physically present to get us hooked. We crave someone who craves us back and we won't feel close to a partner who is physically distant. We need to touch and smell you to keep us going. So the Aqua aloofness needs to be suppressed here a bit.
Then there's the heart. A Leo who knows you have eyes for them will take you more seriously. Do know that we do get a lot of superficial attention, so we are looking for someone with consistency and depth. This is where being direct and unconventional work well together. Clearly stating your pursuit of a Leo to the point of saying it out loud (in some manner) goes a loooong way. As I mentioned before Leos respect strength, we respect the heart. Not everyone is brave enough to open up their hearts and Leos will respect this if we are the target of affection. Just make sure we are interested.click to expand
Posted by bittercupcakeLeos are not easily overwhelmed emotionally, we are built for drama after all. Additionally the Leo/Aqua dynamic isn't terribly dissimiliar from that of a Leo/Leo dynamic. Since Leos crave passion, an outpour of emotion isn't going to scare us off (it's often what we want). Even if an Aqua exhibits an incredibly sudden shift in emotion, it's unlikely we will show our surprise.Posted by ChuckcemLMAO ?... that's incredibly doable..! That's like my forte! I have Taurus Mars so I love food and sensuality.Posted by Chuckcem@bittercupcake Though I'll also say giving a Leo food and a massage cuts through most of this.Posted by bittercupcakeFrom personal experience, appealing to a Leo's eccentrities goes a long way. Aquas have a way of saying what a Leo is thinking, without us having to admit it flat out. Leos are still tied to convention in some ways, we've learned the merits of finding comfort in comformity. However we still have crave the creative, the unique, escape from normal. We too like pushing the boundaries of polite society, so an Aqua can appeal to that easily.
How can I, win the heart of a Leo...as an eccentric Aqua?
@(*^ｪ^)@
There's also a bravery that comes with being unapologetically unique that can appeal to a Leo's sensibilities. While we may be initially attracted to an Aqua's apparent stoicism, what really reels us in is being able to connect in a way that most would consider "weird".
So the first step is making your presence known. Leos are looking for our "king/queen", so your presence should command some attention (at least ours). Then be direct and talk to the Leo, it is in this way that you'll be able to share your quirks, which may also ring true for the Leo. Just don't be TOO weird, at least not in public (until the Leo is used to it). Leo's still like to keep up appearances when in a crowd to some degree.
That's just the mental part. Leo's are still physical animals, so you need to be physically present to get us hooked. We crave someone who craves us back and we won't feel close to a partner who is physically distant. We need to touch and smell you to keep us going. So the Aqua aloofness needs to be suppressed here a bit.
Then there's the heart. A Leo who knows you have eyes for them will take you more seriously. Do know that we do get a lot of superficial attention, so we are looking for someone with consistency and depth. This is where being direct and unconventional work well together. Clearly stating your pursuit of a Leo to the point of saying it out loud (in some manner) goes a loooong way. As I mentioned before Leos respect strength, we respect the heart. Not everyone is brave enough to open up their hearts and Leos will respect this if we are the target of affection. Just make sure we are interested.
Can Leos become overwhelmed, with an Aquarius, when they express themselves emotionally? ... Aquarius are usually labeled as incredibly unemotional, because we tend to suppress our emotions 9 times out of 10... so in those rare moments that an Aquarius becomes emotional or even completely straightforward, does it take you for a loop?...
I've read on Linda Goodnans description on Leo and Aqua... it says that Aquarius surprise Leos all the time but he won't show it lol due to pride
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Posted by bittercupcakeRight, that sums it up nicely. The devil may care attitude is appealing to the regal, yet savage Leo. At our core we still have a rebellious spirit much like an Aqua's. This is why many Leos work for ourselves or are in positions of fame, leadership, or power. We simply don't like being told what to do, especially if we know better.Posted by ChuckcemSo what you are basically saying is... Aquarius and Leos tend to think very much alike as they are basically the same at the core... the difference is Leo keeps information to themselves while an Aquarius (unpredictably) reveals this very same information without thinking twice about it... almost instinctively and on point to what the Leo feels. Because as you say, they are unapologetic and rarely care about expressing themselves in such a way. So Leos admire this 'devil-may care' attitude. ... am I around the ball park? LolPosted by bittercupcakeLeos are not easily overwhelmed emotionally, we are built for drama after all. Additionally the Leo/Aqua dynamic isn't terribly dissimiliar from that of a Leo/Leo dynamic. Since Leos crave passion, an outpour of emotion isn't going to scare us off (it's often what we want). Even if an Aqua exhibits an incredibly sudden shift in emotion, it's unlikely we will show our surprise.Posted by ChuckcemLMAO ?... that's incredibly doable..! That's like my forte! I have Taurus Mars so I love food and sensuality.Posted by Chuckcem@bittercupcake Though I'll also say giving a Leo food and a massage cuts through most of this.Posted by bittercupcakeFrom personal experience, appealing to a Leo's eccentrities goes a long way. Aquas have a way of saying what a Leo is thinking, without us having to admit it flat out. Leos are still tied to convention in some ways, we've learned the merits of finding comfort in comformity. However we still have crave the creative, the unique, escape from normal. We too like pushing the boundaries of polite society, so an Aqua can appeal to that easily.
How can I, win the heart of a Leo...as an eccentric Aqua?
@(*^ｪ^)@
There's also a bravery that comes with being unapologetically unique that can appeal to a Leo's sensibilities. While we may be initially attracted to an Aqua's apparent stoicism, what really reels us in is being able to connect in a way that most would consider "weird".
So the first step is making your presence known. Leos are looking for our "king/queen", so your presence should command some attention (at least ours). Then be direct and talk to the Leo, it is in this way that you'll be able to share your quirks, which may also ring true for the Leo. Just don't be TOO weird, at least not in public (until the Leo is used to it). Leo's still like to keep up appearances when in a crowd to some degree.
That's just the mental part. Leo's are still physical animals, so you need to be physically present to get us hooked. We crave someone who craves us back and we won't feel close to a partner who is physically distant. We need to touch and smell you to keep us going. So the Aqua aloofness needs to be suppressed here a bit.
Then there's the heart. A Leo who knows you have eyes for them will take you more seriously. Do know that we do get a lot of superficial attention, so we are looking for someone with consistency and depth. This is where being direct and unconventional work well together. Clearly stating your pursuit of a Leo to the point of saying it out loud (in some manner) goes a loooong way. As I mentioned before Leos respect strength, we respect the heart. Not everyone is brave enough to open up their hearts and Leos will respect this if we are the target of affection. Just make sure we are interested.
Can Leos become overwhelmed, with an Aquarius, when they express themselves emotionally? ... Aquarius are usually labeled as incredibly unemotional, because we tend to suppress our emotions 9 times out of 10... so in those rare moments that an Aquarius becomes emotional or even completely straightforward, does it take you for a loop?...
I've read on Linda Goodnans description on Leo and Aqua... it says that Aquarius surprise Leos all the time but he won't show it lol due to pride
Is this true?...
Yes Aquas can surprise us at times. What surprises us most is how unapologetically unique Aquas can be. Leos tend to keep certain things to ourselves, which are usually the same things Aquas may blurt out randomly. This can both shock and intrigue us, which is a feeling we have to get used to after being around an Aqua. We don't like revealing our surprise though because that can lead to us being unexpectedly vulernable, so we will hide it.
So, is there a specific reason, other than being vulnerable, why a Leo wouldn't display their shock towards an Aqua? ... I'm dying to know, As I'm guilty of purposely trying to one up myself to shock a Leo... ? It's the challenging aspect for me knowing that someone almost displays an 'aloof' nature to my personality ?click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03I never noticed this pattern, but all of my leo friends and I do. haha
Do all Leo's like bright colors?
Posted by GeeeeeeeAs I mentioned before this guy has already shown he has the propensity to flip flop. He has too many passive aggressive tendencies. He blocked you because he was upset, but also because he wanted to get a rise out of you. He cames back to see if you were "missing" him.
@chuckcem
Ok I'm back.. so check this out, so after me n your last conversation on here( pg16 in this forum) I think... Mr.Leo texted me today,so after he said and actually did block me 2 weeks ago, he text me today and ask could I do him a favor, I told him I wasn't able, and he said ok.. so now I'm wondering , is he really that delusional that he feels he can just pop in like we left on a good note? did he really need a legit favor, or was he using his "favor" as means to see where this could go? I guess I'm just tryna see what were his real intentions
Posted by KubSome context will help. What indications has he given to show he has a crush on you?
How can I win the heart of this leo man with an opposition Moon - Jupiter and and opposition Mars - Neptune?
We have a huge crush on each other but he is sometimes soooo silent and I'd like to make him more cofortable
My chart
Sun in Scorpio 7.20
Ascendant in Scorpio 22.29
Moon in Virgo 6.20
Mercury in Scorpio 7.46
Venus in Virgo 20.52
Mars in Virgo 19.13
Jupiter in Sagittarius 12.17
Saturn in Scorpio 7.16
Uranus in Sagittarius 7.29
Neptune in Sagittarius 27.13
Pluto in Libra 29.47
Lilith in Aquarius 25.23
Asc Node in Gemin 16.19
His chart
Sun in Leo 4.32
Moon in Sag 26.47
Mercury in Leo 28.59
Venus in Gemini 23.07
Mars in Gemini 6.57
Jupiter in Gemini 25.31
Saturn in Leo 18.18
Uranus in Scorpio 7.44
Neptune in Sagittarius 13.35
Pluto in Libra 11.47
Lilith in Gemini 10.39
Asc Node in Libra
Thanks Chuckcem
Posted by Sam1234567The issue here has nothing to do with astrology or the fact that this guy is a Leo. This guy clearly doesn't care about you enough to regard any of your feelings. It also sounds like you not respecting yourself and begging for his contact has prompted him to lose all respect for you. Remember that you can't expect anyone to truly love you until you truly love yourself. You are not loving yourself when you allow him to walk over you like this. People will only treat you the way you allow them to treat you.
Am a sagitarius My Leo man left me because he said he wanted to be on his own and he feels better on his own.
We had a 3 year relationship good days but bad downs as always fighting because he does not want to settle down and drinks alcohol nearly every other night and stays out all night till 5am!
We have had no contact for 4 months and normally when we argue I always beg him back and call him or make some sort of contact.. think he is waiting for that .. he never says sorry even if it's him in the wrong. Does not care about my tears or feelings?? What's should I do? I want to know what goes thru his head as a Leo man? Should ubwant will he come back? Or should I not bother and move on? Am so sorry am so confused
Posted by KubSo does he have a crush on you or are you two seeing each other? If you're seeing each other, then you've moved past a crush.
Because he said so : )
He also told me that I impress him, that I am special for him.
He shares secrets and trusts me with families issues.
We have been seeing each other for 4 months.
My scorp mind feels he his sincere, sometimes very open.....but sometimes very detached .
Posted by KVirgo1Sorry, I totally missed this.
So, I met this guy and he's really peaked my interest. Unfortunately, he's very unpredictable. I've never dated a Leo before and I could use some sound advice. It's only been a couple of weeks, I can't even say that we're dating but I'm the beginning stage. We are both looking for a serious relationship. I'm divorced, he's been engaged. To back up a bit. I'm a Virgo and I'm about 3 years older than him. I'm black and he's white. Sooo.... he texted me yesterday and I had no idea who he was------ I reset my phone and didn't back it up since I'd saved his number. So I lost some contact and lots of beautiful selfies!!! So his response was, "Wow" "that's low" "that's real low" "it's ok", so I after explaining that I really didn't know his responded again with "you deleted our messages and butter? It's the white kid , I get it" and BAM!! I was blocked. I tried texting him to explain from a texting app because I was blocked, I even changed my phone number to text him, basically pleading with him to unblock me. NOT ONE RESPONSE!! ZERO. He gets pretty busy and doesn't always text or communicate the way I'd like to, but he always does! Always. He mentioned when we exchanged numbers and started talking that he wanted to take things slow. Kinda hard for me because I fall pretty quickly for guys (Virgo) but I was willing to take him up on the offer. My question is, should I walk away now and completely forget about any hopes of reigniting anything? Do I still have a chance? And how do I get him back, and KEEP HIM!?
Sorry for the long post, please help.
Posted by InsertusernameSimple, tell him.
What is the best way to go let the leo I've been seeing know I'd like the ? more frequently and secure the fwb thing?
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by InsertusernameSimple, tell him.
What is the best way to go let the leo I've been seeing know I'd like the ? more frequently and secure the fwb thing?
If you only want a fwb, that shouldn't be difficult to procure. He'd only say "No" if he was uninterested (unlikely) OR if he only wants a serious commitment. If the former is the case, just find a guy who is actually interested in you. Chasing a person who is not interested in you is a waste of your time. If the latter is the case, he probably can't handle a fwb situation. Best to not to force it on him.
If you actually like him and want something more serious from him, be upfront about it. Leos respond best to the direct approach. Anything more subtle than that runs the risk of going over our heads entirely.click to expand
Posted by _scorpiomuseYou're setting yourself up for a murky situation. You let go of the Leo because he couldn't clarify the relationship with you and you were concerned that he was being unfaithful. The question is why? I ask because Scorpio energy tends to be paranoid. That's not to say that you're wrong. What made you feel that he was seeing someone else?
So I recently broke up with my leo boyfriend because he couldn't tell me where the relationship was going and I felt that he was seeing someone on the side. I voiced my concerns to him and I let him know that it hurt to tell him those things. His birthday is coming up in a few days. Prior to breaking up I booked a concert for us, its TONIGHT! We are going together I am picking him up, I really want him back which he knows, but he isn't showing much interest in me at the moment. How can I win him back again? Or consider this a dead end situation?
Posted by ParkourlerPart one of your post: This is not a LEO
I came across a few leos recently. Some of them americans, very fierce. Maybe they are just bad examples and are not representatory for you all, but anyway, I have questions about that.
Why do you guys demand and not ask? What makes you think that you are entitled to do that. Unless you
are in a superior position (parent, boss) you ve got shit to say.
Why some of you tell people what to do? The only appropiate Context for that is the military and the workplace.
I guess I had to deal with a megalomaniacs. But do you understand the attitude behind that behavior?
Is that part of beinfg very confident and being a leader by nature?
Do you have to be fierce and demanding in the american coporate Culture? Here in Germany everybody
is levelheaded and precise in our language. We get irritated when we here stuff like I want, thats unacceptable etc? Eh, So what? Your Problem? you are not the boss? Is that american mentality?
Do the women have to wear the pants in a relationship?
Now I want to say something positive about you too. You are very warmhearted and kind. I have a leowomen in my social circle who knows that her hug and huge smile makes me feel good instantly, so she deliberately does that whenever I am down, like immediately. She turns around and smiles and says something nice and funny in a matter of a second before I am even aware that I will even begin to feel bad. She knows how I will react before me. Talk about manipulation. Manipulation can be positive too. Is she into me or just an awesome friend? People often think that, when you are just being nice. How can I find that out without causing any friction in our friendship?
Posted by GeeeeeeeGot it, just responded. Basically if the Scorpio is around and trying to subtly learn more about you (and spend time with you), they are usually interested.
@chuckcem
Umm how knowledgeable are u on scorpios?!
I had to come to the Leo forum, because I know that this is where u be... but if u get a chance go check out my topic I posted under Scorpio forum... I love your insight on the things so ...
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by Parkourler
Part two of your post: Tread lightly here.
This is a mistake I have made in the past-- can't
be quite as authentic with men because they
don't know how to take it.
You seem to understand that though.
She is definitely an awesome friend, who seems
to genuinely think a lot of you... that's not 'just
being nice.'
Beyond that, it's hard to say.
I don't have that comfort level, if I'm smitten.
If you don't hug me back, I'd have to go
somewhere and quietly die... too risky.
😢
Anyway, the shortest distance between two
points is a straight line-- ask her.
Or tell her (with a smile)-- careful, youre going
to give me the wrong idea.. or however that
would look coming from you.
Watch her face when you do... that should tell
you what you need to know.
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I don`t want to be one of those needy guys who claws to every straw. Just because she is nice doesnt mean that there is something going on. She might really think high of me , but that doesn`t mean infatuation. I think she likes my personality, we always click in deep conversation and always asks me in discussions.
I really really like her, I will deepen the bond and our friendship. You gals are so likeable I constantly feel the need to hug you and make you smile. I mean all of you leo people, that`s a shoutout to all leos men and women. Maybe I do something with her without the group. We both like hiking and constantly trying new things.
Posted by LivenLuvNot all Leos are this way, some can be very sensitive. Though from what I've witnessed there are the Leos who either aren't afraid to cry in public or those who rarely cry at all. Leos have a lot of pride, so if a Leo does cry, it's usually either around loved ones or in private.
How the heck are you all so strong? I've seen my Dad cry one time. Literally once when our German Shephard had to be put down. Ah he loved that dog so much.
My Leo grandmother who was the same. So strong and loving and never saw her cry. I admire your strength. But really how do you all do it? I listen to music and cry all the time lol 😢
Posted by cinnamonapplesThat sounds like more of an isolated incident. For whatever reason this guy felt very strongly about the topic and handled it in an immature fashion. What is his Mercury placement?
How do you guys deal with conflict?
For instance this leo man I met over one year ago (we don't talk anymore) - we got into an argument over guns (I'll spare the details to stay on my point). I didn't know the other side of the story so ended up saying something that was entirely the opposite of what he thought. And he got extremely upset about it - called me "an idiot", "bozo", and yelled at me for a good couple minutes. I was very hurt when he did that - I'm pisces. I could sense his passion for the topic, but was unaware that my words would offend him so much.
I wanted to air out our talk, but also thought that I should be honest. I told him that I felt very hurt about the fact that he called me names, and that my words might have been uninformed or partially informed, but it was all unintentional. I also clarified that I never tried to belittle him or really argue with him, but only tried to express what I thought, and had no idea that it would offend him, and additionally, that I never thought my words were idiotic, although not fully researched. He did say sorry, but we basically stopped talking after that - there were other arguments, but I think this one was a major player in distancing us. Lol since then, I've made a point to think a lot before I speak, and especially when in the vicinity of a leo.
Not that I am interested in returning, but since I am surrounded by leo guys, I would like to know if there is a general theme to negotiating reasonably with you guys. He was a gemini moon and scorpio mars I think, if that helps. Let me know what you think - leo women and men are welcome!
Posted by cinnamonapplesYou don't need to be loud actually. Leo is a stubborn sign because it is a fixed sign. This can come out when we argue. We will make a point and stand our ground adamantly. This isn't to say that we can't be educated or coerced into a different manner of thinking though. The easiest way to convey an idea to a Leo is by being firm yet calm. This is advice I'd give if you were dealing with any stubborn person in general.Posted by ChuckcemAh I see. Thanka for your insights 🙂Posted by cinnamonapplesThat sounds like more of an isolated incident. For whatever reason this guy felt very strongly about the topic and handled it in an immature fashion. What is his Mercury placement?
How do you guys deal with conflict?
For instance this leo man I met over one year ago (we don't talk anymore) - we got into an argument over guns (I'll spare the details to stay on my point). I didn't know the other side of the story so ended up saying something that was entirely the opposite of what he thought. And he got extremely upset about it - called me "an idiot", "bozo", and yelled at me for a good couple minutes. I was very hurt when he did that - I'm pisces. I could sense his passion for the topic, but was unaware that my words would offend him so much.
I wanted to air out our talk, but also thought that I should be honest. I told him that I felt very hurt about the fact that he called me names, and that my words might have been uninformed or partially informed, but it was all unintentional. I also clarified that I never tried to belittle him or really argue with him, but only tried to express what I thought, and had no idea that it would offend him, and additionally, that I never thought my words were idiotic, although not fully researched. He did say sorry, but we basically stopped talking after that - there were other arguments, but I think this one was a major player in distancing us. Lol since then, I've made a point to think a lot before I speak, and especially when in the vicinity of a leo.
Not that I am interested in returning, but since I am surrounded by leo guys, I would like to know if there is a general theme to negotiating reasonably with you guys. He was a gemini moon and scorpio mars I think, if that helps. Let me know what you think - leo women and men are welcome!
Unless you are insulting or criticzing a Leo, we generally won't take offense. Emotionally mature Leos won't be insulted by constructive criticism either. You shouldn't feel compelled to second guess expressing your own opinion to anyone.
Sounds like this guy was just too immature to handle the fact that someone had a different opinion than his. Unfortunately it's hard to reason with people like that and it's best to remove them from your life.
Ya I definitely agree on him feeling very strongly on a certain side of the topic. And no I don't think I could ever fully agree with him or change my take, though of course appreciate a very different pov such as his.
I have seen a similar tendency in a good old leo friend of mine, though eventually I can make my point but that usually involves a lot of energy on my part. It seems to me that some might take it as a personal attack when it's not really the case. I also think they realize this later, and are usually good at calming themselves down if given the time.
What would you suggest is a good way to reason out though with a leo? I have noticed that the argument has to have some real good evidence just like any other argument lol, but I am wondering if you guys are more inclined to listen to a loud/ more assertive person than a quieter one (I'm definitely lacking on the loud side Teehee) Looking for some advice, an example would be great! Who knows, I end up having a leo boss in the hospital hahaclick to expand
Posted by BoboBear13Well first, this guy sounds rigid. I've known a few rigid Leos (they were usually 1st decan) and they all had some serious insecurity issues. Not every Leo is confident in themselves, so to make up for that they become rigid and arrogant to hide their insecurities. I imagine that's what you're dealing with here. I wouldn't say this is typical behavior though. Leos are usually warm, sociable, and our hugs defnitely don't feel like wood. Do you happen to know his placements?
Will try and keep this short as am sure this has been asked before but I only joined tonight and have only ever *dated* one Leo.
Recently joined an online dating site. Started chatting to Mr Leo - text, long emails and long phone calls which went on for six weeks [I was poorly so couldn't meet straight away]. We met for a dog walk, chatted easily to one another and met again for more dog walks. He would hug me goodbye but it was like hugging a plank of 4x4. He constantly tried fault picking my grammar which was perfectly correct, my music likes received an *oh .....* and when I asked if he would like to share a drink one night, he talked round and round in riddles. Communication went down to twice weekly emails, he wrote an email asking me questions to which I responded and I never heard another word. After three weeks of overthinking [am a Scorpio, Gem moon, Scorp Venus], I wrote an email thanking him for his time and friendship and wishing him well for the future. Zilch response. Four weeks later, because I am a tw*t [insert choice of vowel], I sent him a happy birthday text which did at least get acknowledged and I was thanked even so he couldn't resist spelling a word I had used in a different manner.
My question; is this usual behaviour for a Leo male? We are both in our 50's, he is four years older than me. I am sort of wary now of meeting another Leo as have recently been contacted by one.
Any advice//thoughts would be much appreciate. x
Posted by aquaglassIt depends on the situation, but Leos aren't afraid of confrontation. We may not want to engage in conflict, but will if we have to in order to get things done.
Why some of you always come back even after major fight?
Posted by EllygantWell not all Leos are built the same. As I mentioned in your other post, slow and steady will win the race here. His Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, and Gemini placements will mean that he'll be slow to open up emotionally.
My Leo crush is weird.
One minute he's painfully awkward and nervous. I'd say like 70-80% of the time. But when he turns on the charm, it's 1000 watt smooth operator. Such a turn around I find myself wondering where tf it came from.
I've never noticed this with other Leos. Most I've met before are gregarious and consistently pursuant. This dude seems lost (and to be frank almost a little dull) one second then the next he's throwing out sharp remarks, pointed and direct observations, pithy comebacks and quick wit (aka Scorpio catnip((scorpionnip??)).
I guess my question is why? Any other Leos like this or known others like this?
For reference, charts below:
Him
Leo Sun
Taurus Moon
Cancer Mercury
Virgo Venus
Gemini Mars
Me
Sag Rising
Scorpio Sun, Mercury, Venus
Cancer Moon
Gemini Mars
Posted by pinkbird03Not all. A lot of my clothes are dark or neutral colors. My bedding is either dark colors or earth tones. Toothbrush holder, wastebaskets in my rooms at home, bath towels -- all black. Even my vehicle is a neutral color.
Do all Leo's like bright colors?
Posted by Chuckcem
I feel as if this post has been done before...Heck I may have done one a year ago. There seem to be a lot of questions regarding Leos (a lot about Leo Men too). So if you don't feel like posting a new topic but just want to pick a Leo;s brain, feel free. Fellow Leos please chime in as well.
Here are some brainstorming questions to get the ball rolling. Feel free to answer:
What is the most you've spent on a first date? (Because we love our grand gestures don't we?)
What is your favorite sexual position? (Because...yeah...)
What is the largest number of suitors or romantic prospects you've had at any one time?
Have you ever cheated on someone? (Only the bold should answer this one)
What was your favorite subject in school?
Posted by EllygantHahah you are overreacting. I'll say it again, slow and steady wins the race here. I usually say that the guy should typically be the one initiating dates. A guy who is too timid to ask a woman out, may be timid in other ways. That being said, he could be taking his time to open up as well. You're looking to withdraw out of a fear of potential rejection. As you've stated before, it's not that serious, so really there's nothing to fear. Just let things unravel naturally
What is going on?
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So the Leo crush and I have been mutually flirting for about two months. More intensely the last few weeks since I've been reciprocating more finally.
But I tried to casually ask him to drinks after work and then he was weird. Didn't say no, but didn't go out. Granted it was more of a Jedi mind asking than direct. 'So I hear you were meeting me out for drinks tonight? 12:30, right? Or did you say later?' I asked in he middle of a shift and he seemed like he was going to go. Then the last hour he mentioned he was tired and it was late and it never happened. After that my super sensitive self felt rejected and has kind of cooled off since. So now he's acting weird too. ??
I thought for sure I was reading the signs right.
-He stays an hour after work every night to sit and talk to me.
-I've hung out with him and his brother/sister-in-law a few times and they always comment how he's extra clean or courteous or dressed up when I'm around compared to normal.
-Anytime I hang out with his sister in law (who's my friend) he always facetimes her. She says in the nine years she's known him he has not once ever facetimed anyone except when I'm around.
-At least once a week when we sit and have our long chats at work he calls them dates.
-When other women hit on him and ask them out he always turns them down readily and avoids them. Even joking, he does so.
-Jokes about taking me out daily, but never does directly.
-Touches and teases me in ways he doesn't other women.
-His sis in law and bro always comment how he's extra flirtatious towards me.
His sister in law and other friends make comments about how he is terrible with women, awkward, says the wrong things accidentally etc. so that's why I thought to kinda sorta ask myself. Especially since he's like me and doesn't sleep much at night, and stays up till 2/3 AM most nights. But apparently, nah.
I'm super sensitive too so that not panning out is enough to make me full on drop everything. Idk. Am I overreacting? Was I being too hopefully and reading it wrong? #confused
Posted by BreezeYou don't take her seriously, even now... so
2 questions...
1) im a libra sun, leo moon. How does my moon sign pair with my sun sign?
2) my leo ex called me her soulmate, love of her life, wanted to have my babies blah blah. We broke up (bad one) and now shes in a situationship with a Pisces. Do you think i could get her back eventually or like yall say, once im done with you im done. She has expressed us being atleast friends...
A sign like me not texting her on her bday and taking it hard (for 2 days) showed me she still wasnt over me. Later i did send belated text to a thank you. (Was sulking over break up so couldnt send text at that time)
Posted by MontgomeryWrong! I poured out my feelings to her, she was the one that didnt take me back.. Plus, shes seeing someone (situationship) now so ill let them run its course.Posted by BreezeYou don't take her seriously, even now... so
2 questions...
1) im a libra sun, leo moon. How does my moon sign pair with my sun sign?
2) my leo ex called me her soulmate, love of her life, wanted to have my babies blah blah. We broke up (bad one) and now shes in a situationship with a Pisces. Do you think i could get her back eventually or like yall say, once im done with you im done. She has expressed us being atleast friends...
A sign like me not texting her on her bday and taking it hard (for 2 days) showed me she still wasnt over me. Later i did send belated text to a thank you. (Was sulking over break up so couldnt send text at that time)
probably not.
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Posted by Breeze😕Posted by MontgomeryWrong! I poured out my feelings to her, she was the one that didnt take me back.. Plus, shes seeing someone (situationship) now so ill let them run its course.Posted by BreezeYou don't take her seriously, even now... so
2 questions...
1) im a libra sun, leo moon. How does my moon sign pair with my sun sign?
2) my leo ex called me her soulmate, love of her life, wanted to have my babies blah blah. We broke up (bad one) and now shes in a situationship with a Pisces. Do you think i could get her back eventually or like yall say, once im done with you im done. She has expressed us being atleast friends...
A sign like me not texting her on her bday and taking it hard (for 2 days) showed me she still wasnt over me. Later i did send belated text to a thank you. (Was sulking over break up so couldnt send text at that time)
probably not.
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Posted by MontgomeryI'm going have to agree with @Montgomery on this one. The real question is, what was the nature of your break up? Sounds to me that she was all in (wanting your babies), but you might not have reciprocated the same amount of passion. Now that she's moved on however you want her back.Posted by BreezeYou don't take her seriously, even now... so
2 questions...
1) im a libra sun, leo moon. How does my moon sign pair with my sun sign?
2) my leo ex called me her soulmate, love of her life, wanted to have my babies blah blah. We broke up (bad one) and now shes in a situationship with a Pisces. Do you think i could get her back eventually or like yall say, once im done with you im done. She has expressed us being atleast friends...
A sign like me not texting her on her bday and taking it hard (for 2 days) showed me she still wasnt over me. Later i did send belated text to a thank you. (Was sulking over break up so couldnt send text at that time)
probably not.
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Posted by EverydaygemHonestly, this isn't so much a Leo question as it is a guy question.Posted by Chuckcem
I feel as if this post has been done before...Heck I may have done one a year ago. There seem to be a lot of questions regarding Leos (a lot about Leo Men too). So if you don't feel like posting a new topic but just want to pick a Leo;s brain, feel free. Fellow Leos please chime in as well.
Here are some brainstorming questions to get the ball rolling. Feel free to answer:
What is the most you've spent on a first date? (Because we love our grand gestures don't we?)
What is your favorite sexual position? (Because...yeah...)
What is the largest number of suitors or romantic prospects you've had at any one time?
Have you ever cheated on someone? (Only the bold should answer this one)
What was your favorite subject in school?
I am new to this site but... Honestly really at my wits end for answers about this Leo male. I guess not too much at my wits end because I am not going to the actual person. But i digress.... I have a question about what this Leo male is possibly doing?!? He is sun leo july 25th and japanese and black and 30 yrs (im hoping a Leo around his age would offer perspective that i'll have peace of mind) i was friends with him in highschool and he was 2 years younger than me and used to try to persue me but i was older honestly and really into well, myself. Fast forward i had a collge period where we tried to hang but i was really oblivious to him still maybe having feelings for me (gemini problems). Then years later i found him on instagram and he started liking all my pictures and asked for my snapchat and he started messaging me from that social platform. At this time i was in a relationship that was on social media so he knew and ... Behind closed doors beginning to seem like a disaster... But i was keeping up a strong front honestly.. Well because pride ? lol. I was starting to notice he was flirting and i was not flirting but not ignoring him (like i do anyone flirting with me while in a relationship). I didnt watch his stories at first but i started to and saw that... Well frankly he grew up nice lol and i went into this spiral of being attracted and then just honestly completely smitten. I separated from who i was with for a period because we werent foing well and i was "safety" flirting with this Leo because i honestly didnt know what i was doing. He would message me and be really bold but respectful but never say "i like you" "im trying to see you" it was always like "whats up with you", "oh i see your here or there..." "i see you cooked make me something" beat around the bush stuff that if i acted too boldly might make me look stupid... And then like send me him literally dancing to a song that seems like our situation of being into each other or a video of him lip synching to a song which was super super cute but... How do i respond to that? ... Fast forward he was also persuing a girl from out of the country who (is not cuter than me fyi lol she looks like the rapper TI wife Tiny mean but hey my names not on this whats the chances anyone i know will see it ?) she is super into him and after visiting him 3 times wants to move to where he lives! Im into him too but i have... A lot to consider to say the least and not get into that too much. When i saw that she moved out here and he wouldnt put her face on his snap story but the back of her head or subtle stuff where you know on the social site we talk on i got super butt hurt and unfollowed him for like 4 months and then i was curious and refollowed him and she was still there and i didnt unfollow because i decided i didnt want to look even more weird and hung up and i decided id have to just get over it by any means necessary and do me. he went back to watching everything i posted and i sent him a happy bday text and he thanked me with lots of emojis but that was it. ITs been 2 months. I thought we were both fine just following each other on snapchat and he watched evvery one of my snaps yesterday then unfollowed me yeserday.. Rando. (deep exhale) of course theres more but whats the general consensus—? Hopefully something that gives me peace of mind. I am not going to front i really like him still and idk what it is... its magnetic and like hes unexplainably irresistable... And now i feel like... Idk.. I dont like it though... Whats the perspective on his deal?(and i get it would be assuming)
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Posted by EverydaygemHe probably thought that you were getting back with your ex. So he decided to move on himself.
Oh i forgot to mention the last 2 months he has seen the guy i had problems with in my snapchat story then he started posting the girl who moved to where he lives a little more and then stopped again.
Posted by aquaglassIt's fairly important. I won't feel truly connected to a partner otherwise.
How important is sex for you in relationship?
Posted by ChuckcemNice. He told me similar things as you said too. Sex is important to me and i tend to want to do it a lot. As a leo man, how do you see that kind of woman who has a high sex drive (like me) ?Posted by aquaglassIt's fairly important. I won't feel truly connected to a partner otherwise.
How important is sex for you in relationship?
That being said, I also get to know a woman in the other ways as well if I'm interested in her. So be wary of men who try to use sex as leverage for an emotional relationship. A guy should be trying to get to know romantically/emotionally outside of sex as well.click to expand
Posted by aquaglassThat all depends on her personality. I'd want to know if she had more going on for herself than having a high sex drive. I personally appreciate women who are also intelligent and can hold a decent conversation. She doesn't need to be a genuis, but a quick wit or good sense of humor goes a long way.Posted by ChuckcemNice. He told me similar things as you said too. Sex is important to me and i tend to want to do it a lot. As a leo man, how do you see that kind of woman who has a high sex drive (like me) ?Posted by aquaglassIt's fairly important. I won't feel truly connected to a partner otherwise.
How important is sex for you in relationship?
That being said, I also get to know a woman in the other ways as well if I'm interested in her. So be wary of men who try to use sex as leverage for an emotional relationship. A guy should be trying to get to know romantically/emotionally outside of sex as well.click to expand
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