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Cautious Leo Woman
Posted by MonaLisa26
If youâve met online she might having another suitor and busy talking to them.
Keep the date. Why not if you find her âcoolâ at your ageâŚâcoolâ? WhateverâŚ
That's the case in any situation with dating nowadays.
But that's not the vibe I'm getting. It's more of a "maybe I was doing too much" type of thing. After I explained I didn't get radio silence anymore.
Cool meaning she's fun to be around and showed interest. It's too soon to set expectations or define her in something other than the "interest" category.
Sheâs also several years older than me so reel it back granny.
IF you get a next date, fucking sing with her!!! Itâs a bit of a wet blanket when someone canât let go and just have fun and be silly with you when youâre in the mood and out together. That would stick out to me over the rest. But Iâm not a Leo, mars in my 5th house tho. It wouldnât turn me off someone, but itâs good information to know.
Posted by Saturn_Returns
Too many red flags from your OP.
As for the comment about how bad the food was, I'm assuming you chose the venue for the first date. Maybe she should suggest a place for next time. But, going by your story, it sounds like she's a prima donna who expects you to do all the work.
Ahh, those were circumstances I couldnât control though. The service was shitty and the bartenders seemed to be concerned with our convos.
Iâm not sure what was going on exactly and this was on a Thursday night and it wasnât that busy.
Canât tell yet if sheâs a Prima Donna, but weâll find out tomorrow.
Posted by AbbyNormal
IF you get a next date, fucking sing with her!!! Itâs a bit of a wet blanket when someone canât let go and just have fun and be silly with you when youâre in the mood and out together. That would stick out to me over the rest. But Iâm not a Leo, mars in my 5th house tho. It wouldnât turn me off someone, but itâs good information to know.
I figured this was her logic for pulling back a little. We have a date tomorrow, but itâs not a karaoke venue.
𤣠Iâm not a tight ass, but I also felt nervous singing in front of a crowd. Itâs a pretty big setting at that bar
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_Returns
Too many red flags from your OP.
As for the comment about how bad the food was, I'm assuming you chose the venue for the first date. Maybe she should suggest a place for next time. But, going by your story, it sounds like she's a prima donna who expects you to do all the work.
Ahh, those were circumstances I couldnât control though. The service was shitty and the bartenders seemed to be concerned with our convos.
Iâm not sure what was going on exactly and this was on a Thursday night and it wasnât that busy.
Canât tell yet if sheâs a Prima Donna, but weâll find out tomorrow.
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It sounds like you don't have much experience with Leo women.
I hope it all works out but, as I said before, I can see a few warning signs.
Leos are very egocentric. If you're happy tagging along to every whim without any complaint, while playing second fiddle to their needs, then fine.
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Only dated one for 3 months in the past. She'd do the pouting face when told no, But I didn't cave.
Interesting observation though about her not accepting no for an answer. I did give her solid reasoning and she continued to ask, even after I told her next time. She then went asking others to participate. I stood my ground though.
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Been dealing with a Leo, she's 32 w/ no kids. I don't have her chart info, she spilled everything but her birthday đ¤Ł
She started out pretty strong.. heavy initiating texts and very excited. We met at an arcade and unfortunately the service and food was terrible. Could tell this threw off her mood a bit, but I still tried to make things enjoyable. To make matters worse, both female bartenders kept butting in our conversations and the Leo made a comment that they're interested in me. Obviously this was awkward to talk about so I changed the subject.
Her conversations were a little self-absorbed, mentioning things like how much money her aunt has and how her friends want to be like her. But she made a few comments about things such as she hasn't had sex in two years, she's a homebody and she watches red pill content. I didn't comment on any of that other then her reason for watching red-pill dating content. She stated she agrees with some of it and I treaded lightly. I personally don't watch anything red-pill as this is a slippery slope. Obviously, there are women who use men for money, food, security etc. But the signs are there. But she stated she wants to start a podcast and discuss those things.
She went into a whole spill about her family and laid it all on the table basically. Pretty straight-forward.. after this we played a couple games and she became fairly touchy. Initiating a lot of physical contact (bumping, knees touching) and we were having a good time.
She asked if I wanted another drink and I jokingly said "not from here". I suggested we find another location down the street. I take her to a karaoke spot I frequent, and she wanted to go on stage and do I duet. I declined playfully, but she asked several times. She ended up asking some other women near the bar and they sung "no scrubs" by TLC đ¤Ł. She did pretty good but I could tell she really wanted me to go with her on stage.
Shortly after this, we wrapped this up and she headed home as she lived about 30 mins away. Texted me when she got home and I cut the the conversation short as it was about 1 am at this point and I bid her goodnight.
She hits me up the next morning and I invite her out to grab food at a bar when she's free. She doesn't answer the question but jokes about how bad the food was before.
Silence for 3 days.. I hit her up and let her know I'm not the type to just lay everything out and I move a little slow in the beginning emotion wise. I felt she wanted me to match her passion, but my Aqua moon needs some time. She said she understood and she would like to see me again. We have a date planned for tomorrow, but she's not showing that passion as much anymore and looks like she's matching my energy. Should I turn it up next date? I do sort of like her, she's cool.
What are you passionate or even interested in yourself?
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_ReturnsAhh, those were circumstances I couldnât control though. The service was shitty and the bartenders seemed to be concerned with our convos.
Too many red flags from your OP.
As for the comment about how bad the food was, I'm assuming you chose the venue for the first date. Maybe she should suggest a place for next time. But, going by your story, it sounds like she's a prima donna who expects you to do all the work.
Iâm not sure what was going on exactly and this was on a Thursday night and it wasnât that busy.
Canât tell yet if sheâs a Prima Donna, but weâll find out tomorrow.
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It sounds like you don't have much experience with Leo women.
I hope it all works out but, as I said before, I can see a few warning signs.
Leos are very egocentric. If you're happy tagging along to every whim without any complaint, while playing second fiddle to their needs, then fine.
Only dated one for 3 months in the past. She'd do the pouting face when told no, But I didn't cave.
Interesting observation though about her not accepting no for an answer. I did give her solid reasoning and she continued to ask, even after I told her next time. She then went asking others to participate. I stood my ground though.
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Well, once you get more experience under your belt, you'll get a better idea of what I mean.
But she will continue pestering you to do things you may not be too enthusiastic about. Leos have issue with boundaries, so be prepared. The real challenge will be balancing those no moments with acquiescing her wishes, because she will view you as a grouch if you lean more towards the former.
Btw, to the best of my knowledge, I've dated 3-4 Leo women. If I had to think of all the women who continually frustrated me and created a destabilising effect in my personal life, most of them would be those very Leo women I previously dated.
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So what you're telling me is, standing your ground does absolutely nothing for Leos? No dynamic of respect? Or they're so self-absorbed they don't care and move on?
So boring Libra!!!
Get on the stage and be silly đ
Get on the stage and be silly đ
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by AbbyNormal
IF you get a next date, fucking sing with her!!! Itâs a bit of a wet blanket when someone canât let go and just have fun and be silly with you when youâre in the mood and out together. That would stick out to me over the rest. But Iâm not a Leo, mars in my 5th house tho. It wouldnât turn me off someone, but itâs good information to know.
I figured this was her logic for pulling back a little. We have a date tomorrow, but itâs not a karaoke venue.
𤣠Iâm not a tight ass, but I also felt nervous singing in front of a crowd. Itâs a pretty big setting at that barclick to expand
What are they gonna do? Boo you and laugh.
Good! Boo yourself and laugh with them
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_ReturnsOnly dated one for 3 months in the past. She'd do the pouting face when told no, But I didn't cave.Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_Returns
Too many red flags from your OP.
As for the comment about how bad the food was, I'm assuming you chose the venue for the first date. Maybe she should suggest a place for next time. But, going by your story, it sounds like she's a prima donna who expects you to do all the work.
Ahh, those were circumstances I couldnât control though. The service was shitty and the bartenders seemed to be concerned with our convos.
Iâm not sure what was going on exactly and this was on a Thursday night and it wasnât that busy.
Canât tell yet if sheâs a Prima Donna, but weâll find out tomorrow.
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It sounds like you don't have much experience with Leo women.
I hope it all works out but, as I said before, I can see a few warning signs.
Leos are very egocentric. If you're happy tagging along to every whim without any complaint, while playing second fiddle to their needs, then fine.
Interesting observation though about her not accepting no for an answer. I did give her solid reasoning and she continued to ask, even after I told her next time. She then went asking others to participate. I stood my ground though.
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Well, once you get more experience under your belt, you'll get a better idea of what I mean.
But she will continue pestering you to do things you may not be too enthusiastic about. Leos have issue with boundaries, so be prepared. The real challenge will be balancing those no moments with acquiescing her wishes, because she will view you as a grouch if you lean more towards the former.
Btw, to the best of my knowledge, I've dated 3-4 Leo women. If I had to think of all the women who continually frustrated me and created a destabilising effect in my personal life, most of them would be those very Leo women I previously dated.
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So what you're telling me is, standing your ground does absolutely nothing for Leos? No dynamic of respect? Or they're so self-absorbed they don't care and move on?click to expand
Itâs a fixed sign.
They want what they want.
You told her you move slow emotionally. Why you told her that idk. She didnât ask. You offered that information and it probably came off as boring and too cautious for her. Usually women say that line as some sort of reverse psychology. Sounds weird coming from a guy because you guys normally do the leading and initiating.
You have a fixed moon. I donât see fixed moons changing how they feel too often.
Sheâs not cautious, youâre the cautious one
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MonaLisa26
If youâve met online she might having another suitor and busy talking to them.
Keep the date. Why not if you find her âcoolâ at your ageâŚâcoolâ? WhateverâŚ
That's the case in any situation with dating nowadays.
But that's not the vibe I'm getting. It's more of a "maybe I was doing too much" type of thing. After I explained I didn't get radio silence anymore.
Cool meaning she's fun to be around and showed interest. It's too soon to set expectations or define her in something other than the "interest" category.
Sheâs also several years older than me so reel it back granny.
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Like I said keep the date. I canât see why werenât you more into her physically. Is this true that Libras men no good for nothing?
Woman clearly gave you a sign and you acted like she is âcoolâ - not âhotâ, my child who will jerk off to the rest of his lifeâŚawwwwclick to expand
Well, I look at the logistics of sex before going on a date. They didn't line up that evening, not to mention her randomly telling me she hasn't had sex in several years.. Not an invitation, but shedding light on how picky she is with men and her attempting to present herself as a woman who does stays indoors and does not like casual sex.
Could be true.. who knows. She's attractive and has a great body, but I'm not setting myself up for blue balls.
Her words aren't aligning with her actions. Telling me she's not that emotionally open, men complaining about how she communicates and she's cold, but she kept bumping me and finding a way to touch.
My Aqua moon wants to observe. I'm not doing all that PDA on the first date.. I'm also dating others so sex isn't an issue.
Posted by DMVPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_ReturnsSo what you're telling me is, standing your ground does absolutely nothing for Leos? No dynamic of respect? Or they're so self-absorbed they don't care and move on?Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_Returns
Too many red flags from your OP.
As for the comment about how bad the food was, I'm assuming you chose the venue for the first date. Maybe she should suggest a place for next time. But, going by your story, it sounds like she's a prima donna who expects you to do all the work.
Ahh, those were circumstances I couldnât control though. The service was shitty and the bartenders seemed to be concerned with our convos.
Iâm not sure what was going on exactly and this was on a Thursday night and it wasnât that busy.
Canât tell yet if sheâs a Prima Donna, but weâll find out tomorrow.
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It sounds like you don't have much experience with Leo women.
I hope it all works out but, as I said before, I can see a few warning signs.
Leos are very egocentric. If you're happy tagging along to every whim without any complaint, while playing second fiddle to their needs, then fine.
Only dated one for 3 months in the past. She'd do the pouting face when told no, But I didn't cave.
Interesting observation though about her not accepting no for an answer. I did give her solid reasoning and she continued to ask, even after I told her next time. She then went asking others to participate. I stood my ground though.
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Well, once you get more experience under your belt, you'll get a better idea of what I mean.
But she will continue pestering you to do things you may not be too enthusiastic about. Leos have issue with boundaries, so be prepared. The real challenge will be balancing those no moments with acquiescing her wishes, because she will view you as a grouch if you lean more towards the former.
Btw, to the best of my knowledge, I've dated 3-4 Leo women. If I had to think of all the women who continually frustrated me and created a destabilising effect in my personal life, most of them would be those very Leo women I previously dated.
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Itâs a fixed sign.
They want what they want.
You told her you move slow emotionally. Why you told her that idk. She didnât ask. You offered that information and it probably came off as boring and too cautious for her. Usually women say that line as some sort of reverse psychology. Sounds weird coming from a guy because you guys normally do the leading and initiating.
You have a fixed moon. I donât see fixed moons changing how they feel too often.click to expand
We have another date.. but I said that because her words don't match her actions. From what she explained about herself and issues with her former relationships, the opposite was happening that evening.
Telling me she's not super touchy or expressive. Men complain she's hard to read etc.. But she was fairly touchy and very expressive over text prior to meeting. No issues with commucation while we were out. She displayed this behavior after the karaoke thing though. More calm and responding rather than suggesting like before.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Like I said keep the date. I canât see why werenât you more into her physically. Is this true that Libras men no good for nothing?Posted by MonaLisa26That's the case in any situation with dating nowadays.
If youâve met online she might having another suitor and busy talking to them.
Keep the date. Why not if you find her âcoolâ at your ageâŚâcoolâ? WhateverâŚ
But that's not the vibe I'm getting. It's more of a "maybe I was doing too much" type of thing. After I explained I didn't get radio silence anymore.
Cool meaning she's fun to be around and showed interest. It's too soon to set expectations or define her in something other than the "interest" category.
Sheâs also several years older than me so reel it back granny.
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Woman clearly gave you a sign and you acted like she is âcoolâ - not âhotâ, my child who will jerk off to the rest of his lifeâŚawwww
Well, I look at the logistics of sex before going on a date. They didn't line up that evening, not to mention her randomly telling me she hasn't had sex in several years.. Not an invitation, but shedding light on how picky she is with men and her attempting to present herself as a woman who does stays indoors and does not like casual sex.
Could be true.. who knows. She's attractive and has a great body, but I'm not setting myself up for blue balls.
Her words aren't aligning with her actions. Telling me she's not that emotionally open, men complaining about how she communicates and she's cold, but she kept bumping me and finding a way to touch.
My Aqua moon wants to observe. I'm not doing all that PDA on the first date.. I'm also dating others so sex isn't an issue.
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She sounding more like a psycho than anything. Aunts money and how w wet one wants to be her? đ¤ˇââď¸Border line narcissism!
Choosy? Not necessarily. I say 100% of men in my circle would walk after first escapade about money and her superiority.
The rest of the evening looks sporadic and I thought youâll say she was drunk! But you didnât say thatâŚwas she.click to expand
I just chalked this up to either typical Leo behavior or her wanting to make a "good" impression. The Aunt thing got weird as she dragged her for not having a man in her 50s, but mentioned she has a movie theatre in her house. This was during the red-pill conversation.
I told you she explained all her family issues on the first date. However, she was not drunk. Completely sober.
Just show up for the date. How much passion can someone show over the phone or through textâ
People kill me with this.
Show up for the planned date and see if it will become more frequent in person after you have a great date. Pick a place with good food and drinks! Somewhere fun.
People kill me with this.
Show up for the planned date and see if it will become more frequent in person after you have a great date. Pick a place with good food and drinks! Somewhere fun.
I dated a Leo for a year and he sent me his whole family history through pictures and texts before even meeting me.
He was a big over sharer.
Don't hold that against her, at least you are learning things without asking đ
Leo's are naturals at talking your ear off about every detail that comes into their mind. I think it's charming.
He was a big over sharer.
Don't hold that against her, at least you are learning things without asking đ
Leo's are naturals at talking your ear off about every detail that comes into their mind. I think it's charming.
Posted by saggurl88
I dated a Leo for a year and he sent me his whole family history through pictures and texts before even meeting me.
He was a big over sharer.
Don't hold that against her, at least you are learning things without asking đ
Leo's are naturals at talking your ear off about every detail that comes into their mind. I think it's charming.
She was nice, I just got thrown off at the friends comment and about her aunt.
Typically when meeting someone you go over the basics of why past relationships didnât work etc. Her telling me men complaining about her expression and texting is an obvious sign to not do those things. Yet she was very warm when we were together.
So Iâll see how she acts tomorrow. But still strange..
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by saggurl88
I dated a Leo for a year and he sent me his whole family history through pictures and texts before even meeting me.
He was a big over sharer.
Don't hold that against her, at least you are learning things without asking đ
Leo's are naturals at talking your ear off about every detail that comes into their mind. I think it's charming.
She was nice, I just got thrown off at the friends comment and about her aunt.
Typically when meeting someone you go over the basics of why past relationships didnât work etc. Her telling me men complaining about her expression and texting is an obvious sign to not do those things. Yet she was very warm when we were together.
So Iâll see how she acts tomorrow. But still strange..click to expand
First dates and first impressions can be a little awkward.
Hopefully the second date will be better then the first one!
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by DMV
Sheâs not cautious, youâre the cautious one
You right! She would fuck him. He has 33 excusesâŚis this why Libras men told to be nay?click to expand
Honestly it could be that Libra is a feminine sign
Posted by Eyeroll
The more I read the worse it gets lol. She gave you so many openings to engage and see if you were compatible and you just ignored everything she said lol.
Is your aunt a role model for you? Is financial security really important for you? What does your ideal relationship look like? Do you want to be a SAHW and your husband be the breadwinner or do you want to work and share responsibilities?
What traits of yours do you think your friends try to emulate the most?
What are your reasons for choosing to abstain from sex? Religion? Do you want to wait until marriage or just havenât met the right person?
You think the bartenders like me? I just try to be a kind person to everyone but trust is important to me in a relationship. Has anyone broken your trust in the past? Would you say youâre possessive over your man?
This sounds like an interview. Itâs not a natural flow to a conversation in getting to know someone but rather are you meeting my checklist vibes.
I didnât ignore necessarily, but itâs way to soon to dive into sensitive topics and I havenât even determined if I like you yet. Itâs one date and youâre going over an ideal marriage and who the breadwinner should be?
Uh, quite a few things need to happen in between that.
She never said she was abstaining from sex. It was just a ploy to suggest sheâs not sleeping with a lot of men or actively dating. Which may or may not be true.
She clearly is not a fan of her aunt and resents her masculine behavior. Hence her harping on how she doesnât have a man. But neither does the Leo which threw me for a loop.
I gained insight based on details she shared about her previous relationships. One of her exes, they lived together and participated in every activity or event together. Her logic for why it didnât work out was that they probably just got too familiar.
So this means she enjoys connecting and sharing passions or hobbies.
Posted by EyerollShe's attractive and has a great body, but I'm not setting myself up for blue balls.I mean this in the most big sister type of way but if I had this insight into a man, this alone would be enough to make me opt out of dating him. This already tells me youâre not willing to be touchy and feely with me unless it means a đĽis in it for you. Physical affection is pretty important to a Leo.click to expand
No, youâre assuming.
Cuddling is fine and I have no issues with touch. But I just met her, weâre not together.
Women do this quite often. Attempt to rouse the man up and then you get the âaht-aht, I canât tonightâspeech.
If the emotional connection is there sure, but Iâm not getting handsy from the get go. Unless this is an already established FWB thing or something.
Posted by EyerollPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Eyeroll
The more I read the worse it gets lol. She gave you so many openings to engage and see if you were compatible and you just ignored everything she said lol.
Is your aunt a role model for you? Is financial security really important for you? What does your ideal relationship look like? Do you want to be a SAHW and your husband be the breadwinner or do you want to work and share responsibilities?
What traits of yours do you think your friends try to emulate the most?
What are your reasons for choosing to abstain from sex? Religion? Do you want to wait until marriage or just havenât met the right person?
You think the bartenders like me? I just try to be a kind person to everyone but trust is important to me in a relationship. Has anyone broken your trust in the past? Would you say youâre possessive over your man?
This sounds like an interview. Itâs not a natural flow to a conversation in getting to know someone but rather are you meeting my checklist vibes.
I didnât ignore necessarily, but itâs way to soon to dive into sensitive topics and I havenât even determined if I like you yet. Itâs one date and youâre going over an ideal marriage and who the breadwinner should be?
Uh, quite a few things need to happen in between that.
She never said she was abstaining from sex. It was just a ploy to suggest sheâs not sleeping with a lot of men or actively dating. Which may or may not be true.
She clearly is not a fan of her aunt and resents her masculine behavior. Hence her harping on how she doesnât have a man. But neither does the Leo which threw me for a loop.
I gained insight based on details she shared about her previous relationships. One of her exes, they lived together and participated in every activity or event together. Her logic for why it didnât work out was that they probably just got too familiar.
So this means she enjoys connecting and sharing passions or hobbies.
And how do you determine if you like someone if not by asking them questions and getting to know them? Because your tactic of dodging every topic she brought up and playing it cool doesnât seem to have panned out well for you.click to expand
Questions are fine. But the whole ask a question-answer-question⌠is not the correct approach. You want to tread lightly as you youâre not there to lay out guidelines, but to see how they are and interact. How are things flowing.. is the person upset because you donât want to do karaoke? Things like that.
People tend to reveal their issues very early on anyway. The problem is nobody believes them or thinks theyâre special and it wonât happen to them.
Marriage and all that other stuff is after youâve built some rapport and both people like each other. Then you discuss the direction it should go in. If both donât agree, you split.
I donât know what youâre talking about. We have a date tomorrow at 4 and I spoke to her this morning.
The point of this post is that she came on hot, over shared, then took a step back. I told her letâs move slow after a few days and she came back, but has calmed down a bit.
Posted by EyerollPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by EyerollQuestions are fine. But the whole ask a question-answer-question⌠is not the correct approach. You want to tread lightly as you youâre not there to lay out guidelines, but to see how they are and interact. How are things flowing.. is the person upset because you donât want to do karaoke? Things like that.Posted by LuckyLibra7And how do you determine if you like someone if not by asking them questions and getting to know them? Because your tactic of dodging every topic she brought up and playing it cool doesnât seem to have panned out well for you.Posted by EyerollThis sounds like an interview. Itâs not a natural flow to a conversation in getting to know someone but rather are you meeting my checklist vibes.
The more I read the worse it gets lol. She gave you so many openings to engage and see if you were compatible and you just ignored everything she said lol.
Is your aunt a role model for you? Is financial security really important for you? What does your ideal relationship look like? Do you want to be a SAHW and your husband be the breadwinner or do you want to work and share responsibilities?
What traits of yours do you think your friends try to emulate the most?
What are your reasons for choosing to abstain from sex? Religion? Do you want to wait until marriage or just havenât met the right person?
You think the bartenders like me? I just try to be a kind person to everyone but trust is important to me in a relationship. Has anyone broken your trust in the past? Would you say youâre possessive over your man?
I didnât ignore necessarily, but itâs way to soon to dive into sensitive topics and I havenât even determined if I like you yet. Itâs one date and youâre going over an ideal marriage and who the breadwinner should be?
Uh, quite a few things need to happen in between that.
She never said she was abstaining from sex. It was just a ploy to suggest sheâs not sleeping with a lot of men or actively dating. Which may or may not be true.
She clearly is not a fan of her aunt and resents her masculine behavior. Hence her harping on how she doesnât have a man. But neither does the Leo which threw me for a loop.
I gained insight based on details she shared about her previous relationships. One of her exes, they lived together and participated in every activity or event together. Her logic for why it didnât work out was that they probably just got too familiar.
So this means she enjoys connecting and sharing passions or hobbies.
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Marriage and all that other stuff is after youâve built some rapport and both people like each other. Then you discuss the direction it should go in. If both donât agree, you split.
I donât know what youâre talking about. We have a date tomorrow at 4 and I spoke to her this morning.
The point of this post is that she came on hot, over shared, then took a step back. I told her letâs move slow after a few days and she came back, but has calmed down a bit.
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Okay. How do you plan to turn it up for the next date?click to expand
Thatâs what Iâm here to gain insight on. Iâve been attracting a lot of Leo women lately and I donât know how they operate.
I can match the energy she had on the first date. But I donât know her angle yet. She didnât answer my initial request to go out.. we had another convo a couple days later and I brought it up again to which she agreed. Sent her the time to be there an hour later as I was at work and she didnât reply. I did get green text bubbles though.
I get a text yesterday saying âhey are we still meeting Saturday?â She claims she got a new phone.
Cool.. but why wait 2 days to ask if weâre going out?
Posted by Melantho
Oh men, can already tell you're not compatible. All this and you're still going for a second date? It doesn't sound you actually LIKE her as a person...
Iâm relaying what she told me.
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by EyerollPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Eyeroll
The more I read the worse it gets lol. She gave you so many openings to engage and see if you were compatible and you just ignored everything she said lol.
Is your aunt a role model for you? Is financial security really important for you? What does your ideal relationship look like? Do you want to be a SAHW and your husband be the breadwinner or do you want to work and share responsibilities?
What traits of yours do you think your friends try to emulate the most?
What are your reasons for choosing to abstain from sex? Religion? Do you want to wait until marriage or just havenât met the right person?
You think the bartenders like me? I just try to be a kind person to everyone but trust is important to me in a relationship. Has anyone broken your trust in the past? Would you say youâre possessive over your man?
This sounds like an interview. Itâs not a natural flow to a conversation in getting to know someone but rather are you meeting my checklist vibes.
I didnât ignore necessarily, but itâs way to soon to dive into sensitive topics and I havenât even determined if I like you yet. Itâs one date and youâre going over an ideal marriage and who the breadwinner should be?
Uh, quite a few things need to happen in between that.
She never said she was abstaining from sex. It was just a ploy to suggest sheâs not sleeping with a lot of men or actively dating. Which may or may not be true.
She clearly is not a fan of her aunt and resents her masculine behavior. Hence her harping on how she doesnât have a man. But neither does the Leo which threw me for a loop.
I gained insight based on details she shared about her previous relationships. One of her exes, they lived together and participated in every activity or event together. Her logic for why it didnât work out was that they probably just got too familiar.
So this means she enjoys connecting and sharing passions or hobbies.
And how do you determine if you like someone if not by asking them questions and getting to know them? Because your tactic of dodging every topic she brought up and playing it cool doesnât seem to have panned out well for you.
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Questions are fine. But the whole ask a question-answer-question⌠is not the correct approach. You want to tread lightly as you youâre not there to lay out guidelines, but to see how they are and interact. How are things flowing.. is the person upset because you donât want to do karaoke? Things like that.
People tend to reveal their issues very early on anyway. The problem is nobody believes them or thinks theyâre special and it wonât happen to them.
Marriage and all that other stuff is after youâve built some rapport and both people like each other. Then you discuss the direction it should go in. If both donât agree, you split.
I donât know what youâre talking about. We have a date tomorrow at 4 and I spoke to her this morning.
The point of this post is that she came on hot, over shared, then took a step back. I told her letâs move slow after a few days and she came back, but has calmed down a bit.click to expand
I think you left out some stuff between over sharing and took a step back.
Iâm any event, you wanted to take things slow and you getting what you asked for; slowness and trepidation.
She will try again to loosen you up. No harm in engaging.
Think about the countless women who come to dxp talking how a guy was chasing them and showing interest and they either tell him to take things slow or they play hard to get. Then they wonder why the guy suddenly changed and isnât as enthusiastic. How do I get him to be more passionate?!
Story as old as time. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by EyerollPosted by LuckyLibra7Okay. How do you plan to turn it up for the next date?Posted by EyerollPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Eyeroll
The more I read the worse it gets lol. She gave you so many openings to engage and see if you were compatible and you just ignored everything she said lol.
Is your aunt a role model for you? Is financial security really important for you? What does your ideal relationship look like? Do you want to be a SAHW and your husband be the breadwinner or do you want to work and share responsibilities?
What traits of yours do you think your friends try to emulate the most?
What are your reasons for choosing to abstain from sex? Religion? Do you want to wait until marriage or just havenât met the right person?
You think the bartenders like me? I just try to be a kind person to everyone but trust is important to me in a relationship. Has anyone broken your trust in the past? Would you say youâre possessive over your man?
This sounds like an interview. Itâs not a natural flow to a conversation in getting to know someone but rather are you meeting my checklist vibes.
I didnât ignore necessarily, but itâs way to soon to dive into sensitive topics and I havenât even determined if I like you yet. Itâs one date and youâre going over an ideal marriage and who the breadwinner should be?
Uh, quite a few things need to happen in between that.
She never said she was abstaining from sex. It was just a ploy to suggest sheâs not sleeping with a lot of men or actively dating. Which may or may not be true.
She clearly is not a fan of her aunt and resents her masculine behavior. Hence her harping on how she doesnât have a man. But neither does the Leo which threw me for a loop.
I gained insight based on details she shared about her previous relationships. One of her exes, they lived together and participated in every activity or event together. Her logic for why it didnât work out was that they probably just got too familiar.
So this means she enjoys connecting and sharing passions or hobbies.
And how do you determine if you like someone if not by asking them questions and getting to know them? Because your tactic of dodging every topic she brought up and playing it cool doesnât seem to have panned out well for you.
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Questions are fine. But the whole ask a question-answer-question⌠is not the correct approach. You want to tread lightly as you youâre not there to lay out guidelines, but to see how they are and interact. How are things flowing.. is the person upset because you donât want to do karaoke? Things like that.
Marriage and all that other stuff is after youâve built some rapport and both people like each other. Then you discuss the direction it should go in. If both donât agree, you split.
I donât know what youâre talking about. We have a date tomorrow at 4 and I spoke to her this morning.
The point of this post is that she came on hot, over shared, then took a step back. I told her letâs move slow after a few days and she came back, but has calmed down a bit.
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Thatâs what Iâm here to gain insight on. Iâve been attracting a lot of Leo women lately and I donât know how they operate.
I can match the energy she had on the first date. But I donât know her angle yet. She didnât answer my initial request to go out.. we had another convo a couple days later and I brought it up again to which she agreed. Sent her the time to be there an hour later as I was at work and she didnât reply. I did get green text bubbles though.
I get a text yesterday saying âhey are we still meeting Saturday?â She claims she got a new phone.
Cool.. but why wait 2 days to ask if weâre going out?click to expand
Due to your âtake it slowâ comment and lack of playfulness on the last date she probably thinks youâre going to cancel.
Air sun and air moon thinks ALOT.
Fire sun is all action.
Do you have an air mars as well?
Fire sun is all action.
Do you have an air mars as well?
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The more I read the worse it gets lol. She gave you so many openings to engage and see if you were compatible and you just ignored everything she said lol.
Is your aunt a role model for you? Is financial security really important for you? What does your ideal relationship look like? Do you want to be a SAHW and your husband be the breadwinner or do you want to work and share responsibilities?
What traits of yours do you think your friends try to emulate the most?
What are your reasons for choosing to abstain from sex? Religion? Do you want to wait until marriage or just havenât met the right person?
You think the bartenders like me? I just try to be a kind person to everyone but trust is important to me in a relationship. Has anyone broken your trust in the past? Would you say youâre possessive over your man?
This sounds like an interview. Itâs not a natural flow to a conversation in getting to know someone but rather are you meeting my checklist vibes.
I didnât ignore necessarily, but itâs way to soon to dive into sensitive topics and I havenât even determined if I like you yet. Itâs one date and youâre going over an ideal marriage and who the breadwinner should be?
Uh, quite a few things need to happen in between that.
She never said she was abstaining from sex. It was just a ploy to suggest sheâs not sleeping with a lot of men or actively dating. Which may or may not be true.
She clearly is not a fan of her aunt and resents her masculine behavior. Hence her harping on how she doesnât have a man. But neither does the Leo which threw me for a loop.
I gained insight based on details she shared about her previous relationships. One of her exes, they lived together and participated in every activity or event together. Her logic for why it didnât work out was that they probably just got too familiar.
So this means she enjoys connecting and sharing passions or hobbies.
And how do you determine if you like someone if not by asking them questions and getting to know them? Because your tactic of dodging every topic she brought up and playing it cool doesnât seem to have panned out well for you.
click to expand
Questions are fine. But the whole ask a question-answer-question⌠is not the correct approach. You want to tread lightly as you youâre not there to lay out guidelines, but to see how they are and interact. How are things flowing.. is the person upset because you donât want to do karaoke? Things like that.
People tend to reveal their issues very early on anyway. The problem is nobody believes them or thinks theyâre special and it wonât happen to them.
Marriage and all that other stuff is after youâve built some rapport and both people like each other. Then you discuss the direction it should go in. If both donât agree, you split.
I donât know what youâre talking about. We have a date tomorrow at 4 and I spoke to her this morning.
The point of this post is that she came on hot, over shared, then took a step back. I told her letâs move slow after a few days and she came back, but has calmed down a bit.
I think you left out some stuff between over sharing and took a step back.
Iâm any event, you wanted to take things slow and you getting what you asked for; slowness and trepidation.
She will try again to loosen you up. No harm in engaging.
Think about the countless women who come to dxp talking how a guy was chasing them and showing interest and they either tell him to take things slow or they play hard to get. Then they wonder why the guy suddenly changed and isnât as enthusiastic. How do I get him to be more passionate?!
Story as old as time. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
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True, but I havenât left anything out. Weâve only spoken about 3 times since the date last week. With her initiating twice. But that was due to her not receiving the time for the date. A sign of interest I think.
Posted by EyerollPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by EyerollPosted by LuckyLibra7Okay. How do you plan to turn it up for the next date?Posted by EyerollPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Eyeroll
The more I read the worse it gets lol. She gave you so many openings to engage and see if you were compatible and you just ignored everything she said lol.
Is your aunt a role model for you? Is financial security really important for you? What does your ideal relationship look like? Do you want to be a SAHW and your husband be the breadwinner or do you want to work and share responsibilities?
What traits of yours do you think your friends try to emulate the most?
What are your reasons for choosing to abstain from sex? Religion? Do you want to wait until marriage or just havenât met the right person?
You think the bartenders like me? I just try to be a kind person to everyone but trust is important to me in a relationship. Has anyone broken your trust in the past? Would you say youâre possessive over your man?
This sounds like an interview. Itâs not a natural flow to a conversation in getting to know someone but rather are you meeting my checklist vibes.
I didnât ignore necessarily, but itâs way to soon to dive into sensitive topics and I havenât even determined if I like you yet. Itâs one date and youâre going over an ideal marriage and who the breadwinner should be?
Uh, quite a few things need to happen in between that.
She never said she was abstaining from sex. It was just a ploy to suggest sheâs not sleeping with a lot of men or actively dating. Which may or may not be true.
She clearly is not a fan of her aunt and resents her masculine behavior. Hence her harping on how she doesnât have a man. But neither does the Leo which threw me for a loop.
I gained insight based on details she shared about her previous relationships. One of her exes, they lived together and participated in every activity or event together. Her logic for why it didnât work out was that they probably just got too familiar.
So this means she enjoys connecting and sharing passions or hobbies.
And how do you determine if you like someone if not by asking them questions and getting to know them? Because your tactic of dodging every topic she brought up and playing it cool doesnât seem to have panned out well for you.
click to expand
Questions are fine. But the whole ask a question-answer-question⌠is not the correct approach. You want to tread lightly as you youâre not there to lay out guidelines, but to see how they are and interact. How are things flowing.. is the person upset because you donât want to do karaoke? Things like that.
Marriage and all that other stuff is after youâve built some rapport and both people like each other. Then you discuss the direction it should go in. If both donât agree, you split.
I donât know what youâre talking about. We have a date tomorrow at 4 and I spoke to her this morning.
The point of this post is that she came on hot, over shared, then took a step back. I told her letâs move slow after a few days and she came back, but has calmed down a bit.
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Thatâs what Iâm here to gain insight on. Iâve been attracting a lot of Leo women lately and I donât know how they operate.
I can match the energy she had on the first date. But I donât know her angle yet. She didnât answer my initial request to go out.. we had another convo a couple days later and I brought it up again to which she agreed. Sent her the time to be there an hour later as I was at work and she didnât reply. I did get green text bubbles though.
I get a text yesterday saying âhey are we still meeting Saturday?â She claims she got a new phone.
Cool.. but why wait 2 days to ask if weâre going out?
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I did some homework.
She is either Mercury in Leo or Virgo
Venus in Cancer or Leo
Mars in Taurus
Jupiter in Cancer or Leo
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
A Leo with Leo, Cancer and Taurus placements. Based on these I think you can safely be more demonstrative, as much as youâre comfortable with. She has no air at all. She either has a lot of fire (action) or fire and water (wants to connect). You saying she backed off makes me think there is probably Cancer somewhere.
Editing to add I guess she might have an air moon.
https://www.signsbystars.com/anual_ephemeris-en-38-1990_8.htmclick to expand
Mercury in Virgo seems spot on. She likes to discuss and exchange a lot of opinions, but very analytical and scrutinizes often.
Not sure what her moon is, possibly an earth sign. She describes herself as a homebody and has a routine. Seems like she focused on what's tangible. Not a dreamy or imaginative personality.
Okay yall, we went on the second date Saturday. A local wing spot.
Things went fine. I ended up choosing a booth and I sat with my back towards the wall. I found it interesting she sat along-side me. Typically people face each other when eating đ¤ˇââď¸
Convo flowed fairly well, again she's quite the over-sharer. Moderate amount of legs bumping and her hand brushing against me. I did notice though she wore the same leggings as our first date. Sigh.. my Libra is showing, I know. They had some board games there so we attempted to play Connect 4 but the bottom kept falling out lol.
She spilled a bit of food on herself the first date and did it again this weekend. I joked that I'll bring her a bib next time. Trying to keep things light, ya know. She likes to have serious discussions which are fine, but let's have fun too. I did ask her what her ideal relationship dynamic is like (she was discussing masculine women) I found it interesting she couldn't really explain what that was. So I just changed the subject..
Earlier in the week she requested to move our date to 4PM as she was making plans with friends. Around 6PM we were done eating and I asked would she like to go somewhere else and she replied what's in this area. I named off a couple places and she says "you live close to this area right?" I told her I'm about 15 minutes away and invited her back to show her this movie we previously discussed.
A little hesitation, then she says she wants to see if her friend will reach out first and she will message me if she does not go out and come over (yeah right!).
We leave and she drives me to my car around the corner. After we pull up she says "thanks for everything, I had a good time" and sits there. 𤣠She claims I side-eyed her so she says let me get out of the car and give you a hug. (I am not begging for hug..)
We hug and I kiss her for a few secs. She then says "surprise surprise" and does not expand. I said a playful remark and she got in the car and went home.
She ended up reaching out Sunday morning.
Things went fine. I ended up choosing a booth and I sat with my back towards the wall. I found it interesting she sat along-side me. Typically people face each other when eating đ¤ˇââď¸
Convo flowed fairly well, again she's quite the over-sharer. Moderate amount of legs bumping and her hand brushing against me. I did notice though she wore the same leggings as our first date. Sigh.. my Libra is showing, I know. They had some board games there so we attempted to play Connect 4 but the bottom kept falling out lol.
She spilled a bit of food on herself the first date and did it again this weekend. I joked that I'll bring her a bib next time. Trying to keep things light, ya know. She likes to have serious discussions which are fine, but let's have fun too. I did ask her what her ideal relationship dynamic is like (she was discussing masculine women) I found it interesting she couldn't really explain what that was. So I just changed the subject..
Earlier in the week she requested to move our date to 4PM as she was making plans with friends. Around 6PM we were done eating and I asked would she like to go somewhere else and she replied what's in this area. I named off a couple places and she says "you live close to this area right?" I told her I'm about 15 minutes away and invited her back to show her this movie we previously discussed.
A little hesitation, then she says she wants to see if her friend will reach out first and she will message me if she does not go out and come over (yeah right!).
We leave and she drives me to my car around the corner. After we pull up she says "thanks for everything, I had a good time" and sits there. 𤣠She claims I side-eyed her so she says let me get out of the car and give you a hug. (I am not begging for hug..)
We hug and I kiss her for a few secs. She then says "surprise surprise" and does not expand. I said a playful remark and she got in the car and went home.
She ended up reaching out Sunday morning.
Posted by Saturn_Returns
^ Setting aside subjective red flags, it's still too early to tell. At this point, you can only go with your gut.
Posted by LuckyLibra7
I did ask her what her ideal relationship dynamic is like (she was discussing masculine women) I found it interesting she couldn't really explain what that was. So I just changed the subject.
Major red flag! She has no idea how she wants an ideal committed relationship to be?!click to expand
I have an idea, but I wanted her to communicate it. Given her thoughts on Kevin Samuels and other red-pill content.
But anyway, she said it was too general of a question. I was like.. Iâm asking what the dynamics look like for you? I donât get how thatâs general.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_Returns
^ Setting aside subjective red flags, it's still too early to tell. At this point, you can only go with your gut.
Posted by LuckyLibra7Major red flag! She has no idea how she wants an ideal committed relationship to be?!
I did ask her what her ideal relationship dynamic is like (she was discussing masculine women) I found it interesting she couldn't really explain what that was. So I just changed the subject.
I have an idea, but I wanted her to communicate it. Given her thoughts on Kevin Samuels and other red-pill content.
But anyway, she said it was too general of a question. I was like.. Iâm asking what the dynamics look like for you? I donât get how thatâs general.
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Sounds like she's being evasive. Why I have no idea but, in your situation, I would be weary.
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That's what's odd. She finds a way to loop modern dating issues or ideas into the conversation. Then does not expand on her ideal world.
I'm not putting my eggs in one basket here though. Still feeling her out.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by Saturn_ReturnsI have an idea, but I wanted her to communicate it. Given her thoughts on Kevin Samuels and other red-pill content.
^ Setting aside subjective red flags, it's still too early to tell. At this point, you can only go with your gut.
Posted by LuckyLibra7
I did ask her what her ideal relationship dynamic is like (she was discussing masculine women) I found it interesting she couldn't really explain what that was. So I just changed the subject.
Major red flag! She has no idea how she wants an ideal committed relationship to be?!
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But anyway, she said it was too general of a question. I was like.. Iâm asking what the dynamics look like for you? I donât get how thatâs general.
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This! She is dumb! Totally a dumbass!
Her behavior at karaoke was the first sign. I thought she was drunk but when you said she wasnât I was surprised.
So she is using words she doesnât know meaning of to describe shit she doesnât know shit about and the more vigorous she is - she thinks she can pass for something better than dumb. Enjoy. She could be freak in bedâŚ
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Her mercury might be in Virgo given her convos. But yes strange to be so opinioned, but cannot provide an example.
Who knows! Remember, she claimed she hasn't slept with a man in two years. She could be ready to unleash đ¤Ł
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by Melantho
Oh men, can already tell you're not compatible. All this and you're still going for a second date? It doesn't sound you actually LIKE her as a person...
I HATE HER after reading all this bizarre date BS! How could he be giving her a chance is beyond me but I wanted to read another postâŚclick to expand
She hasn't been rude, did not reject my kiss and she shows up on time.
She meets the minimum requirements to continue dating. I'm not asking her for a relationship at this time.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by MelanthoI HATE HER after reading all this bizarre date BS! How could he be giving her a chance is beyond me but I wanted to read another postâŚ
Oh men, can already tell you're not compatible. All this and you're still going for a second date? It doesn't sound you actually LIKE her as a person...
She hasn't been rude, did not reject my kiss and she shows up on time.
She meets the minimum requirements to continue dating. I'm not asking her for a relationship at this time.
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Is this how Libra men think? You deserve her. Marry her because she shows up on time. đ¤Śââď¸click to expand
I keep forgetting how superficial Gems are đ¤Ł
Chnage your perspective. It's about if she keeps her word. If she agrees to a time, does she honor it? Now, it's only been two dates but you're gauging to see how they handle things if they are running late etc.
Many people do not and could care less.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by MelanthoI HATE HER after reading all this bizarre date BS! How could he be giving her a chance is beyond me but I wanted to read another postâŚ
Oh men, can already tell you're not compatible. All this and you're still going for a second date? It doesn't sound you actually LIKE her as a person...
She hasn't been rude, did not reject my kiss and she shows up on time.
She meets the minimum requirements to continue dating. I'm not asking her for a relationship at this time.
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Is this how Libra men think? You deserve her. Marry her because she shows up on time. đ¤Śââď¸
I keep forgetting how superficial Gems are đ¤Ł
Chnage your perspective. It's about if she keeps her word. If she agrees to a time, does she honor it? Now, it's only been two dates but you're gauging to see how they handle things if they are running late etc.
Many people do not and could care less.
YOU
FEED
HER!!!
Why wouldnât she be on time?
I think she is a dudeâŚclick to expand
Are you out of the loop on the dating market or something? There are tons of women who just simply do not care. While its a no-brainer move to show up on time, a lot of people don't.
No I have not dealt with anyone late before, but there are tons of stories on Reddit. Lateness, stood up or just flat out flaking last minute.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by MelanthoI HATE HER after reading all this bizarre date BS! How could he be giving her a chance is beyond me but I wanted to read another postâŚ
Oh men, can already tell you're not compatible. All this and you're still going for a second date? It doesn't sound you actually LIKE her as a person...
She hasn't been rude, did not reject my kiss and she shows up on time.
She meets the minimum requirements to continue dating. I'm not asking her for a relationship at this time.
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Is this how Libra men think? You deserve her. Marry her because she shows up on time. đ¤Śââď¸
I keep forgetting how superficial Gems are đ¤Ł
Chnage your perspective. It's about if she keeps her word. If she agrees to a time, does she honor it? Now, it's only been two dates but you're gauging to see how they handle things if they are running late etc.
Many people do not and could care less.
YOU
FEED
HER!!!
Why wouldnât she be on time?
I think she is a dudeâŚ
Are you out of the loop on the dating market or something? There are tons of women who just simply do not care. While its a no-brainer move to show up on time, a lot of people don't.
Try not to feed her. Take her to the movies. See the difference.
And yes I am out of dating loop since 1993.click to expand
Thereâs still food at the movies, but she already brought up Mario was on her list.
Sheâs not a vulture đ¤Ł.. she offers to share the food rather than individual purchases. She wanted to split 8 wings Saturday. I told her I needed my own.
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Finally i said no to weed smoking cigarette smoking disrespectful ex stripper slash hooker slash meth head.....i hate my love life
So Iâm a Leo woman and my Scorpio man is my ex and first from 20 years ago. We broke up in our 20âs. Now years later we reconnected. He reached out to me and I finally went to dinner with him. We decided on fwb but that kinda escalated to more. We were an
So at my school gym I'd always seen this cute girl, never had the balls to talk to her. I was out one night w friends and I saw her and since alcohol makes me feel like superman I went to talk to her, it went really well, turns out shes a leo. She asked f
I been with leo woman 4 almost 2 years now ...and its been bad she pulled a knife on me 3 times ..she wont stop smoking so much ..she accuses me of coming on 2 her blind daughter ..when i just be looking out for her safety...she let her son go places sme
She started out pretty strong.. heavy initiating texts and very excited. We met at an arcade and unfortunately the service and food was terrible. Could tell this threw off her mood a bit, but I still tried to make things enjoyable. To make matters worse, both female bartenders kept butting in our conversations and the Leo made a comment that they're interested in me. Obviously this was awkward to talk about so I changed the subject.
Her conversations were a little self-absorbed, mentioning things like how much money her aunt has and how her friends want to be like her. But she made a few comments about things such as she hasn't had sex in two years, she's a homebody and she watches red pill content. I didn't comment on any of that other then her reason for watching red-pill dating content. She stated she agrees with some of it and I treaded lightly. I personally don't watch anything red-pill as this is a slippery slope. Obviously, there are women who use men for money, food, security etc. But the signs are there. But she stated she wants to start a podcast and discuss those things.
She went into a whole spill about her family and laid it all on the table basically. Pretty straight-forward.. after this we played a couple games and she became fairly touchy. Initiating a lot of physical contact (bumping, knees touching) and we were having a good time.
She asked if I wanted another drink and I jokingly said "not from here". I suggested we find another location down the street. I take her to a karaoke spot I frequent, and she wanted to go on stage and do I duet. I declined playfully, but she asked several times. She ended up asking some other women near the bar and they sung "no scrubs" by TLC đ¤Ł. She did pretty good but I could tell she really wanted me to go with her on stage.
Shortly after this, we wrapped this up and she headed home as she lived about 30 mins away. Texted me when she got home and I cut the the conversation short as it was about 1 am at this point and I bid her goodnight.
She hits me up the next morning and I invite her out to grab food at a bar when she's free. She doesn't answer the question but jokes about how bad the food was before.
Silence for 3 days.. I hit her up and let her know I'm not the type to just lay everything out and I move a little slow in the beginning emotion wise. I felt she wanted me to match her passion, but my Aqua moon needs some time. She said she understood and she would like to see me again. We have a date planned for tomorrow, but she's not showing that passion as much anymore and looks like she's matching my energy. Should I turn it up next date? I do sort of like her, she's cool.