aquaglass
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Leo man controlling?
He sounds like an asshole thats my opinion.
Unless you somehow enjoy doing head miles about a guy who is just a jerk in general ...?
Flick him and find someone who treats you the way you'd like your best friend to be treated 😏
If you don't mind being told what to do, being criticized or constantly being pressured to change, then he sounds perfect and just do you 😘
Flick him and find someone who treats you the way you'd like your best friend to be treated 😏
If you don't mind being told what to do, being criticized or constantly being pressured to change, then he sounds perfect and just do you 😘
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
They are superficial.
Posted by wagtailThe domination just kind of sexy, but duh i guess i'm just too rebelious and stubborn to let anybody control me that much 😢
Unless you somehow enjoy doing head miles about a guy who is just a jerk in general ...?
Flick him and find someone who treats you the way you'd like your best friend to be treated 😏
If you don't mind being told what to do, being criticized or constantly being pressured to change, then he sounds perfect and just do you 😘
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeDon't know yet, i'll check it out asap
What's his moon
Posted by -Flo-Not sure if he likes me more than a sex partner. But it's easier to think that it's just all bout sex tho.
Well.. he likes you but he's also controlling lol
Why the fuck can't I attract an older Leo guy??!? Damn I feel like CC now.
?
Haha go get some lion!
Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
Posted by aquaglassIf it don't fit it don't fit.Posted by wagtailThe domination just kind of sexy, but duh i guess i'm just too rebelious and stubborn to let anybody control me that much 😢
Unless you somehow enjoy doing head miles about a guy who is just a jerk in general ...?
Flick him and find someone who treats you the way you'd like your best friend to be treated 😏
If you don't mind being told what to do, being criticized or constantly being pressured to change, then he sounds perfect and just do you 😘click to expand
Be selfish, do you, expect better 🙂
Posted by -Flo-Maybe worship him and praise him more than jesus? 😄Posted by aquaglassIt's not that easy..Posted by -Flo-Not sure if he likes me more than a sex partner. But it's easier to think that it's just all bout sex tho.
Well.. he likes you but he's also controlling lol
Why the fuck can't I attract an older Leo guy??!? Damn I feel like CC now.
?
Haha go get some lion!click to expand
Posted by wagtailThank you!Posted by aquaglassIf it don't fit it don't fit.Posted by wagtailThe domination just kind of sexy, but duh i guess i'm just too rebelious and stubborn to let anybody control me that much 😢
Unless you somehow enjoy doing head miles about a guy who is just a jerk in general ...?
Flick him and find someone who treats you the way you'd like your best friend to be treated 😏
If you don't mind being told what to do, being criticized or constantly being pressured to change, then he sounds perfect and just do you 😘
Be selfish, do you, expect better 🙂click to expand
It's funny cause i told him last night " i do me, you do you, they do they"
Then he got pretty pissed to hear that haha.
But i think i'll just back off for now.
Posted by -Flo-Now this sounds like gonna be a battlePosted by aquaglassHmm... he has to praise me first lol ?Posted by -Flo-Maybe worship him and praise him more than jesus? 😄Posted by aquaglassIt's not that easy..Posted by -Flo-Not sure if he likes me more than a sex partner. But it's easier to think that it's just all bout sex tho.
Well.. he likes you but he's also controlling lol
Why the fuck can't I attract an older Leo guy??!? Damn I feel like CC now.
?
Haha go get some lion!click to expand
Get out....you can do better!!!
Create stronger boundaries and stick with them
Posted by -Flo-Rawr!
Speaking about lions,
This is an artwork I'm writing a thesis paper on.
Posted by netpowerSounds like the best thing to do, thanks!
Get out....you can do better!!!
Create stronger boundaries and stick with them
Posted by aquaglassYes I've noticed!! my first Leo guy was also a Fwb and he would play songs for me over the phone but I think he just liked the sex. idk i never clicked with him for something serious. We had a lot of fun though, and he used to tell me things to change too. we still talk as friends but he's very possessive with his gf's. I've known him for 9yrs.Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.click to expand
Posted by AerazoOhh same thing happened to me too!Posted by aquaglassYes I've noticed!! my first Leo guy was also a Fwb and he would play songs for me over the phone but I think he just liked the sex. idk i never clicked with him for something serious. We had a lot of fun though, and he used to tell me things to change too. we still talk as friends but he's very possessive with his gf's. I've known him for 9yrs.Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
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He sent me songs out of the blue, sweet love songs ish.
But i was like cringe idk why. I do like his warmth and sweet side, but idk my mind just can't stop thinking that hey we're just a fling!
What kind of things that he demand you to change?
Posted by aquaglassHm, sounds like this guy's been reading too much 50 Shades of Grey...Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.click to expand
"One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust."
The reason why he's trying to control you is because of his own low confidence. This is basically how abusive relationships form, so don't fall for this obvious trap. You basically said that he's a one pump chump. If there's one thing Leo men are proud of, it's our prowess in the bedroom. If we're not dynamos between the sheets, we'll generally try to find a partner who thinks we are. It's a big ego thing for us.
So now he's trying to find other ways to "impress" you. Since he couldn't last in bed, he is looking to save face and spare his ego in other ways. He's trying TOO hard and going overboard though. He's using a push/pull technique too. First he compliments you, then insults you right after. He wants you to feel good about him and bad about yourself at the same time. He's doing this to make you feel like you need him. That way he can control you. Only a woman with low self esteem would fall for this though.
My advice is to back away from this guy entirely. If you want to keep him as a friends with benefits, that works too. Just don't take anything he does or says seriously. He's not good relationship material.
Posted by -Flo-
Well.. he likes you but he's also controlling lol
Why the fuck can't I attract an older Leo guy??!? Damn I feel like CC now.
?
lol@ your comment.
you and CC need Aquarius rising. all you have to do is go outside and go to events, go everywhere, anywhere, and you'll find them there.....
I swear, my family relatives attract them like flies.
but compatibility still depends on the rest of the chart.
plus they have fire moons on top of having aqua rising.
(leo is in their 7th house)
Posted by ChuckcemlolPosted by aquaglassHm, sounds like this guy's been reading too much 50 Shades of Grey...Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
"One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust."
The reason why he's trying to control you is because of his own low confidence. This is basically how abusive relationships form, so don't fall for this obvious trap. You basically said that he's a one pump chump. If there's one thing Leo men are proud of, it's our prowess in the bedroom. If we're not dynamos between the sheets, we'll generally try to find a partner who thinks we are. It's a big ego thing for us.
So now he's trying to find other ways to "impress" you. Since he couldn't last in bed, he is looking to save face and spare his ego in other ways. He's trying TOO hard and going overboard though. He's using a push/pull technique too. First he compliments you, then insults you right after. He wants you to feel good about him and bad about yourself at the same time. He's doing this to make you feel like you need him. That way he can control you. Only a woman with low self esteem would fall for this though.
My advice is to back away from this guy entirely. If you want to keep him as a friends with benefits, that works too. Just don't take anything he does or says seriously. He's not good relationship material.click to expand
50 shades of grey. haha.
busness trips and helicopter rides. 😛
😛
she's the virgo, so virginal and prudish and sweet but then the dark came out and she's a wild-cat!!
and he's..... (put whatever sign you want)
controlling and has a dark sadistic side, and can't commit to one girl but this one girl who is virginal he becomes obsessed....
Ahhaha but he did like all fancy and fab stuff. Just minus the helicoper ride tho.
Not sure if this mr.grey i just met really into it hard since he got all uneasy just to hear me say f*ck 😛
Not sure if this mr.grey i just met really into it hard since he got all uneasy just to hear me say f*ck 😛
Posted by aquaglasslol
Ahhaha but he did like all fancy and fab stuff. Just minus the helicoper ride tho.
Not sure if this mr.grey i just met really into it hard since he got all uneasy just to hear me say f*ck 😛
I tried finding where you post his placements.
what are his personal placements?
he doesn't like it when you say fuck?
jeeeezzz....what kind of guy is this? prude? 😛 😄
Posted by lisabethur8All i know that he's a leo, born on late of july he said.Posted by aquaglasslol
Ahhaha but he did like all fancy and fab stuff. Just minus the helicoper ride tho.
Not sure if this mr.grey i just met really into it hard since he got all uneasy just to hear me say f*ck 😛
I tried finding where you post his placements.
what are his personal placements?
he doesn't like it when you say fuck?
jeeeezzz....what kind of guy is this? prude? 😛 😄click to expand
Lol idk, but all he said was he felt bad and selfish because he i refused to have sex with him, yet he still kept on going.
And he said it's cause i'm cursing than he felt uneasy, then decided to finish faster.
But after i told him the cursing had nothing to do with him, i was maybe just used to rough sex and dirty talk.
Then now he's talking a lot about how he such a dom and want to do me hard, tied me up and spank me bad 😄
Posted by ChuckcemDo you think that i bruised his ego / pride bad when i decline his offer to be with me in the beginning?Posted by aquaglassHm, sounds like this guy's been reading too much 50 Shades of Grey...Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
"One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust."
The reason why he's trying to control you is because of his own low confidence. This is basically how abusive relationships form, so don't fall for this obvious trap. You basically said that he's a one pump chump. If there's one thing Leo men are proud of, it's our prowess in the bedroom. If we're not dynamos between the sheets, we'll generally try to find a partner who thinks we are. It's a big ego thing for us.
So now he's trying to find other ways to "impress" you. Since he couldn't last in bed, he is looking to save face and spare his ego in other ways. He's trying TOO hard and going overboard though. He's using a push/pull technique too. First he compliments you, then insults you right after. He wants you to feel good about him and bad about yourself at the same time. He's doing this to make you feel like you need him. That way he can control you. Only a woman with low self esteem would fall for this though.
My advice is to back away from this guy entirely. If you want to keep him as a friends with benefits, that works too. Just don't take anything he does or says seriously. He's not good relationship material.click to expand
Does he hold grudges?
He asked me after the first date why didn't i accepted his proposal. Asked if i think we don't click.
I actually hold a lot of things myself, i do like him and attracted to him. But there are things that seems to be off, and i just wanted to clarify things before hand.
So when he asked me to join him on his trip, i thought it would be just talk and such.
But then we had sex instead.
I actually still wondering what does he want, if it's just sex why so many emotional things he did to me.
And why don't he just jump onto next new girl who maybe suits his preference better rather than commenting on my body and asking me to change things for him and say he's not interested with other girl for now.
Posted by aquaglassThere's a LOT wrong here. The fact that he was trying to lock you down so early is a red flag. Show's he's cavalier with women's emotions and/or he doesn't know what he wants. Trying to lock you down that fast is really strange. He barely knows you, so this all sounds like lust on his part. We Leos can also be very aggressive in our pursuit.Posted by ChuckcemDo you think that i bruised his ego / pride bad when i decline his offer to be with me in the beginning?Posted by aquaglassHm, sounds like this guy's been reading too much 50 Shades of Grey...Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
"One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust."
The reason why he's trying to control you is because of his own low confidence. This is basically how abusive relationships form, so don't fall for this obvious trap. You basically said that he's a one pump chump. If there's one thing Leo men are proud of, it's our prowess in the bedroom. If we're not dynamos between the sheets, we'll generally try to find a partner who thinks we are. It's a big ego thing for us.
So now he's trying to find other ways to "impress" you. Since he couldn't last in bed, he is looking to save face and spare his ego in other ways. He's trying TOO hard and going overboard though. He's using a push/pull technique too. First he compliments you, then insults you right after. He wants you to feel good about him and bad about yourself at the same time. He's doing this to make you feel like you need him. That way he can control you. Only a woman with low self esteem would fall for this though.
My advice is to back away from this guy entirely. If you want to keep him as a friends with benefits, that works too. Just don't take anything he does or says seriously. He's not good relationship material.
Does he hold grudges?
He asked me after the first date why didn't i accepted his proposal. Asked if i think we don't click.
I actually hold a lot of things myself, i do like him and attracted to him. But there are things that seems to be off, and i just wanted to clarify things before hand.
So when he asked me to join him on his trip, i thought it would be just talk and such.
But then we had sex instead.
I actually still wondering what does he want, if it's just sex why so many emotional things he did to me.
And why don't he just jump onto next new girl who maybe suits his preference better rather than commenting on my body and asking me to change things for him and say he's not interested with other girl for now.click to expand
He clearly wasn't insulted by your initial rejection because he invited you on the trip with him. The trip is actually a very Leo thing to do (I'll admit that I've done it, though I knew the woman longer than two months).
One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust.
He sounds persistent to say the least. My question is, what would have happened if you weren't into him at that moment and said stop. Would he have stopped?
The real issue is his need to control you. You've only known this guy for 2 months. You have NO clue what he's like. Generally it takes 3 months/90 days for people to start showing who they truly are. If he's trying to control you know, I'd he'll get a lot more controlling in the future. As I said previously, the fact that he's complimenting then insulting you is a pretty obvious red flag.
He's clearly interested in you sexually. That's pretty obvious. No clue what his over motives are though. He may like you too, but that doesn't mean he'll treat you well if you were to get into a relationship with him. He sounds controlling with a potential penchant for verbal/emotional abuse.
Posted by aquaglassPosted by ChuckcemDo you think that i bruised his ego / pride bad when i decline his offer to be with me in the beginning?Posted by aquaglassHm, sounds like this guy's been reading too much 50 Shades of Grey...Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
"One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust."
The reason why he's trying to control you is because of his own low confidence. This is basically how abusive relationships form, so don't fall for this obvious trap. You basically said that he's a one pump chump. If there's one thing Leo men are proud of, it's our prowess in the bedroom. If we're not dynamos between the sheets, we'll generally try to find a partner who thinks we are. It's a big ego thing for us.
So now he's trying to find other ways to "impress" you. Since he couldn't last in bed, he is looking to save face and spare his ego in other ways. He's trying TOO hard and going overboard though. He's using a push/pull technique too. First he compliments you, then insults you right after. He wants you to feel good about him and bad about yourself at the same time. He's doing this to make you feel like you need him. That way he can control you. Only a woman with low self esteem would fall for this though.
My advice is to back away from this guy entirely. If you want to keep him as a friends with benefits, that works too. Just don't take anything he does or says seriously. He's not good relationship material.
Does he hold grudges?
He asked me after the first date why didn't i accepted his proposal. Asked if i think we don't click.
I actually hold a lot of things myself, i do like him and attracted to him. But there are things that seems to be off, and i just wanted to clarify things before hand.
So when he asked me to join him on his trip, i thought it would be just talk and such.
But then we had sex instead.
I actually still wondering what does he want, if it's just sex why so many emotional things he did to me.
And why don't he just jump onto next new girl who maybe suits his preference better rather than commenting on my body and asking me to change things for him and say he's not interested with other girl for now.click to expand
Also I'm going to call this one early so you can avoid this trap.
On top of what I said a few minutes ago in my last post, PLEASE don't do that Aqua thing where you rebel against conventional group wisdom. I'm hoping that you'll listen to us since we're all unbiased strangers. I've watched Aqua friends defy advice from their loved ones before and it's simply...baffling...In similar scenarios it's NEVER worked well in the long run.
Posted by ChuckcemThank you for this insight!Posted by aquaglassThere's a LOT wrong here. The fact that he was trying to lock you down so early is a red flag. Show's he's cavalier with women's emotions and/or he doesn't know what he wants. Trying to lock you down that fast is really strange. He barely knows you, so this all sounds like lust on his part. We Leos can also be very aggressive in our pursuit.Posted by ChuckcemDo you think that i bruised his ego / pride bad when i decline his offer to be with me in the beginning?Posted by aquaglassHm, sounds like this guy's been reading too much 50 Shades of Grey...Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
"One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust."
The reason why he's trying to control you is because of his own low confidence. This is basically how abusive relationships form, so don't fall for this obvious trap. You basically said that he's a one pump chump. If there's one thing Leo men are proud of, it's our prowess in the bedroom. If we're not dynamos between the sheets, we'll generally try to find a partner who thinks we are. It's a big ego thing for us.
So now he's trying to find other ways to "impress" you. Since he couldn't last in bed, he is looking to save face and spare his ego in other ways. He's trying TOO hard and going overboard though. He's using a push/pull technique too. First he compliments you, then insults you right after. He wants you to feel good about him and bad about yourself at the same time. He's doing this to make you feel like you need him. That way he can control you. Only a woman with low self esteem would fall for this though.
My advice is to back away from this guy entirely. If you want to keep him as a friends with benefits, that works too. Just don't take anything he does or says seriously. He's not good relationship material.
Does he hold grudges?
He asked me after the first date why didn't i accepted his proposal. Asked if i think we don't click.
I actually hold a lot of things myself, i do like him and attracted to him. But there are things that seems to be off, and i just wanted to clarify things before hand.
So when he asked me to join him on his trip, i thought it would be just talk and such.
But then we had sex instead.
I actually still wondering what does he want, if it's just sex why so many emotional things he did to me.
And why don't he just jump onto next new girl who maybe suits his preference better rather than commenting on my body and asking me to change things for him and say he's not interested with other girl for now.
He clearly wasn't insulted by your initial rejection because he invited you on the trip with him. The trip is actually a very Leo thing to do (I'll admit that I've done it, though I knew the woman longer than two months).
One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust.
He sounds persistent to say the least. My question is, what would have happened if you weren't into him at that moment and said stop. Would he have stopped?
The real issue is his need to control you. You've only known this guy for 2 months. You have NO clue what he's like. Generally it takes 3 months/90 days for people to start showing who they truly are. If he's trying to control you know, I'd he'll get a lot more controlling in the future. As I said previously, the fact that he's complimenting then insulting you is a pretty obvious red flag.
He's clearly interested in you sexually. That's pretty obvious. No clue what his over motives are though. He may like you too, but that doesn't mean he'll treat you well if you were to get into a relationship with him. He sounds controlling with a potential penchant for verbal/emotional abuse.
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Yes he is so persistent indeed. The whole thing of rush, push and now control just scared the hell of me.
I told him about it though, but he always came with excuses like he just cares or it's a good thing for me, etc. Then he just sounds like pissed when i talk back, have another opinion or simply don't really follow what he said.
And i agreed about the control, i can feel it. And no, i don't think i'd like to be controlled by somebody i just knew for two months and being told to do things that i just think is too superficial only to look better in his eyes. Only to be his sex object after all. Not worth it 😢
Posted by ChuckcemHaha, duh you know our tendency to rebel.Posted by aquaglassPosted by ChuckcemDo you think that i bruised his ego / pride bad when i decline his offer to be with me in the beginning?Posted by aquaglassHm, sounds like this guy's been reading too much 50 Shades of Grey...Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
"One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust."
The reason why he's trying to control you is because of his own low confidence. This is basically how abusive relationships form, so don't fall for this obvious trap. You basically said that he's a one pump chump. If there's one thing Leo men are proud of, it's our prowess in the bedroom. If we're not dynamos between the sheets, we'll generally try to find a partner who thinks we are. It's a big ego thing for us.
So now he's trying to find other ways to "impress" you. Since he couldn't last in bed, he is looking to save face and spare his ego in other ways. He's trying TOO hard and going overboard though. He's using a push/pull technique too. First he compliments you, then insults you right after. He wants you to feel good about him and bad about yourself at the same time. He's doing this to make you feel like you need him. That way he can control you. Only a woman with low self esteem would fall for this though.
My advice is to back away from this guy entirely. If you want to keep him as a friends with benefits, that works too. Just don't take anything he does or says seriously. He's not good relationship material.
Does he hold grudges?
He asked me after the first date why didn't i accepted his proposal. Asked if i think we don't click.
I actually hold a lot of things myself, i do like him and attracted to him. But there are things that seems to be off, and i just wanted to clarify things before hand.
So when he asked me to join him on his trip, i thought it would be just talk and such.
But then we had sex instead.
I actually still wondering what does he want, if it's just sex why so many emotional things he did to me.
And why don't he just jump onto next new girl who maybe suits his preference better rather than commenting on my body and asking me to change things for him and say he's not interested with other girl for now.
Also I'm going to call this one early so you can avoid this trap.
On top of what I said a few minutes ago in my last post, PLEASE don't do that Aqua thing where you rebel against conventional group wisdom. I'm hoping that you'll listen to us since we're all unbiased strangers. I've watched Aqua friends defy advice from their loved ones before and it's simply...baffling...In similar scenarios it's NEVER worked well in the long run.click to expand
But i can assure myself that even tho yes i liked him in some ways, like opposite attraction way, i don't think i'll contact him again myself.
If he ever hit me up again in the future, i'd tell him my concern, my boundaries and suggest him to go get other girl who suits his preference better rather than telling and demanding me to change things for him.
As i know that it's only sex in his agenda, so grab another girl his type would save more time and more simple. Quicker for his boner 😛
Thank you for your kind words! 😉 😉
Posted by aquaglassYeah sounds like you've figured him out already.Posted by ChuckcemThank you for this insight!Posted by aquaglassThere's a LOT wrong here. The fact that he was trying to lock you down so early is a red flag. Show's he's cavalier with women's emotions and/or he doesn't know what he wants. Trying to lock you down that fast is really strange. He barely knows you, so this all sounds like lust on his part. We Leos can also be very aggressive in our pursuit.Posted by ChuckcemDo you think that i bruised his ego / pride bad when i decline his offer to be with me in the beginning?Posted by aquaglassHm, sounds like this guy's been reading too much 50 Shades of Grey...Posted by AerazoYes, ohh i thought i'm the only one who has a thought that all of those things are superficial!
Reasons why I never clicked with Leo men.
They are superficial.
"One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust."
The reason why he's trying to control you is because of his own low confidence. This is basically how abusive relationships form, so don't fall for this obvious trap. You basically said that he's a one pump chump. If there's one thing Leo men are proud of, it's our prowess in the bedroom. If we're not dynamos between the sheets, we'll generally try to find a partner who thinks we are. It's a big ego thing for us.
So now he's trying to find other ways to "impress" you. Since he couldn't last in bed, he is looking to save face and spare his ego in other ways. He's trying TOO hard and going overboard though. He's using a push/pull technique too. First he compliments you, then insults you right after. He wants you to feel good about him and bad about yourself at the same time. He's doing this to make you feel like you need him. That way he can control you. Only a woman with low self esteem would fall for this though.
My advice is to back away from this guy entirely. If you want to keep him as a friends with benefits, that works too. Just don't take anything he does or says seriously. He's not good relationship material.
Does he hold grudges?
He asked me after the first date why didn't i accepted his proposal. Asked if i think we don't click.
I actually hold a lot of things myself, i do like him and attracted to him. But there are things that seems to be off, and i just wanted to clarify things before hand.
So when he asked me to join him on his trip, i thought it would be just talk and such.
But then we had sex instead.
I actually still wondering what does he want, if it's just sex why so many emotional things he did to me.
And why don't he just jump onto next new girl who maybe suits his preference better rather than commenting on my body and asking me to change things for him and say he's not interested with other girl for now.
He clearly wasn't insulted by your initial rejection because he invited you on the trip with him. The trip is actually a very Leo thing to do (I'll admit that I've done it, though I knew the woman longer than two months).
One day he asked me to join him on his business trip outta town.
I went there and we ended up have sex.
But it wasn't really a full sex, since i refused it and said no a lot at first, but he kept going and then i got carried away and got horny too eventually.
He came quick with a single thrust.
He sounds persistent to say the least. My question is, what would have happened if you weren't into him at that moment and said stop. Would he have stopped?
The real issue is his need to control you. You've only known this guy for 2 months. You have NO clue what he's like. Generally it takes 3 months/90 days for people to start showing who they truly are. If he's trying to control you know, I'd he'll get a lot more controlling in the future. As I said previously, the fact that he's complimenting then insulting you is a pretty obvious red flag.
He's clearly interested in you sexually. That's pretty obvious. No clue what his over motives are though. He may like you too, but that doesn't mean he'll treat you well if you were to get into a relationship with him. He sounds controlling with a potential penchant for verbal/emotional abuse.
Yes he is so persistent indeed. The whole thing of rush, push and now control just scared the hell of me.
I told him about it though, but he always came with excuses like he just cares or it's a good thing for me, etc. Then he just sounds like pissed when i talk back, have another opinion or simply don't really follow what he said.
And i agreed about the control, i can feel it. And no, i don't think i'd like to be controlled by somebody i just knew for two months and being told to do things that i just think is too superficial only to look better in his eyes. Only to be his sex object after all. Not worth it 😢
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I don't know how you ended up having sex with this guy he sounds really annoying.
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We even not in relationship, we barely know each others.
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I think that if he just don't like what he sees in me, he just can get a new girl who fits him better.
Why should he sweat on telling me to change things just to make me prettier, sexier, more attractive in his version?
I don't get it, whats your opinion?