Leo man is not even bothered now/...I have driven him away

Posted by amy21c
I have messaged him like 50 messages and 10 calls and all have gone unanswered

what should I do? Or feel?

I right now feel so low, so please dont say I am a loser because I already feel like one

Posted by Superman77
Somehow this is going to be the Leo’s fault.

I can feel it

Posted by amy21c
Dear All,

Thank you for reading this

I am a divorced cancer girl and I met this warm Leo man . we hit off so well . He is so ideal for me , I cant explain. He is French and I am an indian.

Anyway, he asked me out and then he within 10minutes, cancelled the plan as something came up. Now I am quite suspicous , I kept asking him why did he cancel. He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me, Then I , like a psycho, told him that I dont play games and all that mad mad stuff,.

Then he added me on instagram .

He was starting to chat a bit more, when I told him I was divorced.

Anyway, I say good Night and messaged him a bit more and when he dint reply, my psycho self again asked him why he is so detached, omg!! I am soooo embarrassed.

Then today , I have messaged him like 50 messages and 10 calls and all have gone unanswered

what should I do? Or feel?

I right now feel so low, so please dont say I am a loser because I already feel like one

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
A crab will understand

Fuk the Leo

Get you a crab or a Scorpio

They understand mindless attraction senseless clinginess and extreme reactions

They'll calm your crazy

Leos are so up their own ass

They can't even begin to decipher your emotional plane

They'll tell you to fix yourself first

You got issues

Blah blah blah.

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Posted by wagtail
Leo's prefer to chase dats all I knows

Not always, Wag. 🙂

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Posted by amy21c
Dear All,

Thank you for reading this

I am a divorced cancer girl and I met this warm Leo man . we hit off so well . He is so ideal for me , I cant explain. He is French and I am an indian.

Anyway, he asked me out and then he within 10minutes, cancelled the plan as something came up. Now I am quite suspicous , I kept asking him why did he cancel. He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me, Then I , like a psycho, told him that I dont play games and all that mad mad stuff,.

Then he added me on instagram .

He was starting to chat a bit more, when I told him I was divorced.

Anyway, I say good Night and messaged him a bit more and when he dint reply, my psycho self again asked him why he is so detached, omg!! I am soooo embarrassed.

Then today , I have messaged him like 50 messages and 10 calls and all have gone unanswered

what should I do? Or feel?

I right now feel so low, so please dont say I am a loser because I already feel like one

I can't tell if this is real or not...If it is, then...

To put it nicely, you scared him off. You're not a loser, but you took things too far. Before your first date you already started acting clingy and suspicious of him. Leo's are busy people, so we often have a lot on our plates. For example I have a Virgo friend who invites me to hang out with her on the day. Since my plans are already set by then, I often decline. If she decided to get upset with me, I'd think she was nuts.

It's pretty easy to see that the Leo retracted his offer because he had scheduling conflicts. Getting paranoid over this would've scare off MOST guys. Yet this guy liked you enough to stick around and add you to Instagram. Then you became paranoid when he stopped texting you after saying good night. I'm pretty sure that after he stopped texting you he turned his phone off (or on silent) and WENT TO SLEEP. So continuing to text him made you look desperate.

He might have still been into you at this point. However when you told him that you were divorced, that probably gave even more reason to look into the clingy behavior you were already presenting. You came across as someone who was so emotionally damaged dating you would become problematic. Remember that this guy barely knows you, so he's judging based on what you tell him.

Then you messaged him 50 (I hope you were exaggerating) more times and called him 10 times before he could respond back. Why? You basically smothered him to death. So yeah it's safe to say that he's gone. It would be a miracle if he returns at this point.

I like Cancers, I truly do, but you have to learn how to control those emotions. The issue is your self esteem and confidence are incredibly low right now. You're seeking emotional validation from a guy who barely knows you. It's possible that you still need to come to terms with the hurt from your divorce. More so, you'll need to learn how to be patient and not instantly smother someone with your feelings before you even have a chance to get to know each other. It's not another person's job to fix your issues, only you can do that. Definitely calm things down the next time you're dealing with a guy.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by amy21c
Dear All,

Thank you for reading this

I am a divorced cancer girl and I met this warm Leo man . we hit off so well . He is so ideal for me , I cant explain. He is French and I am an indian.

Anyway, he asked me out and then he within 10minutes, cancelled the plan as something came up. Now I am quite suspicous , I kept asking him why did he cancel. He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me, Then I , like a psycho, told him that I dont play games and all that mad mad stuff,.

Then he added me on instagram .

He was starting to chat a bit more, when I told him I was divorced.

Anyway, I say good Night and messaged him a bit more and when he dint reply, my psycho self again asked him why he is so detached, omg!! I am soooo embarrassed.

Then today , I have messaged him like 50 messages and 10 calls and all have gone unanswered

what should I do? Or feel?

I right now feel so low, so please dont say I am a loser because I already feel like one

I can't tell if this is real or not...If it is, then...

To put it nicely, you scared him off. You're not a loser, but you took things too far. Before your first date you already started acting clingy and suspicious of him. Leo's are busy people, so we often have a lot on our plates. For example I have a Virgo friend who invites me to hang out with her on the day. Since my plans are already set by then, I often decline. If she decided to get upset with me, I'd think she was nuts.

It's pretty easy to see that the Leo retracted his offer because he had scheduling conflicts. Getting paranoid over this would've scare off MOST guys. Yet this guy liked you enough to stick around and add you to Instagram. Then you became paranoid when he stopped texting you after saying good night. I'm pretty sure that after he stopped texting you he turned his phone off (or on silent) and WENT TO SLEEP. So continuing to text him made you look desperate.

He might have still been into you at this point. However when you told him that you were divorced, that probably gave even more reason to look into the clingy behavior you were already presenting. You came across as someone who was so emotionally damaged dating you would become problematic. Remember that this guy barely knows you, so he's judging based on what you tell him.

Then you messaged him 50 (I hope you were exaggerating) more times and called him 10 times before he could respond back. Why? You basically smothered him to death. So yeah it's safe to say that he's gone. It would be a miracle if he returns at this point.

I like Cancers, I truly do, but you have to learn how to control those emotions. The issue is your self esteem and confidence are incredibly low right now. You're seeking emotional validation from a guy who barely knows you. It's possible that you still need to come to terms with the hurt from your divorce. More so, you'll need to learn how to be patient and not instantly smother someone with your feelings before you even have a chance to get to know each other. It's not another person's job to fix your issues, only you can do that. Definitely calm things down the next time you're dealing with a guy.

I was not exaggerating. I did that... 50 messages and 10 calls.... He messaged me today that he was very busy and could not answer my calls or messages... I m surprised to see his message... But I apologised very profusely and he told me it's OK, and asked me to have a good day.... See what a nice man I pushed him soooo far

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Posted by miriyahhh
Nah I used to call my Leo ex 50x Some people appreciate the enthusiasm

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Posted by amy21c

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by amy21c
Dear All,

Thank you for reading this

I am a divorced cancer girl and I met this warm Leo man . we hit off so well . He is so ideal for me , I cant explain. He is French and I am an indian.

Anyway, he asked me out and then he within 10minutes, cancelled the plan as something came up. Now I am quite suspicous , I kept asking him why did he cancel. He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me, Then I , like a psycho, told him that I dont play games and all that mad mad stuff,.

Then he added me on instagram .

He was starting to chat a bit more, when I told him I was divorced.

Anyway, I say good Night and messaged him a bit more and when he dint reply, my psycho self again asked him why he is so detached, omg!! I am soooo embarrassed.

Then today , I have messaged him like 50 messages and 10 calls and all have gone unanswered

what should I do? Or feel?

I right now feel so low, so please dont say I am a loser because I already feel like one

I can't tell if this is real or not...If it is, then...

To put it nicely, you scared him off. You're not a loser, but you took things too far. Before your first date you already started acting clingy and suspicious of him. Leo's are busy people, so we often have a lot on our plates. For example I have a Virgo friend who invites me to hang out with her on the day. Since my plans are already set by then, I often decline. If she decided to get upset with me, I'd think she was nuts.

It's pretty easy to see that the Leo retracted his offer because he had scheduling conflicts. Getting paranoid over this would've scare off MOST guys. Yet this guy liked you enough to stick around and add you to Instagram. Then you became paranoid when he stopped texting you after saying good night. I'm pretty sure that after he stopped texting you he turned his phone off (or on silent) and WENT TO SLEEP. So continuing to text him made you look desperate.

He might have still been into you at this point. However when you told him that you were divorced, that probably gave even more reason to look into the clingy behavior you were already presenting. You came across as someone who was so emotionally damaged dating you would become problematic. Remember that this guy barely knows you, so he's judging based on what you tell him.

Then you messaged him 50 (I hope you were exaggerating) more times and called him 10 times before he could respond back. Why? You basically smothered him to death. So yeah it's safe to say that he's gone. It would be a miracle if he returns at this point.

I like Cancers, I truly do, but you have to learn how to control those emotions. The issue is your self esteem and confidence are incredibly low right now. You're seeking emotional validation from a guy who barely knows you. It's possible that you still need to come to terms with the hurt from your divorce. More so, you'll need to learn how to be patient and not instantly smother someone with your feelings before you even have a chance to get to know each other. It's not another person's job to fix your issues, only you can do that. Definitely calm things down the next time you're dealing with a guy.

I was not exaggerating. I did that... 50 messages and 10 calls.... He messaged me today that he was very busy and could not answer my calls or messages... I m surprised to see his message... But I apologised very profusely and he told me it's OK, and asked me to have a good day.... See what a nice man I pushed him soooo far

If he's keeping the communication open, I highly recommend cutting down the clingy behavior. It's possible that he's still interested. It's also possible your attention is an ego boost for him. It's also possible that he's just being nice and doesn't want to blow you off. Only time will tell, but definitely calm down the neediness.

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Posted by amy21c

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by amy21c
Dear All,

Thank you for reading this

I am a divorced cancer girl and I met this warm Leo man . we hit off so well . He is so ideal for me , I cant explain. He is French and I am an indian.

Anyway, he asked me out and then he within 10minutes, cancelled the plan as something came up. Now I am quite suspicous , I kept asking him why did he cancel. He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me, Then I , like a psycho, told him that I dont play games and all that mad mad stuff,.

Then he added me on instagram .

He was starting to chat a bit more, when I told him I was divorced.

Anyway, I say good Night and messaged him a bit more and when he dint reply, my psycho self again asked him why he is so detached, omg!! I am soooo embarrassed.

Then today , I have messaged him like 50 messages and 10 calls and all have gone unanswered

what should I do? Or feel?

I right now feel so low, so please dont say I am a loser because I already feel like one

I can't tell if this is real or not...If it is, then...

To put it nicely, you scared him off. You're not a loser, but you took things too far. Before your first date you already started acting clingy and suspicious of him. Leo's are busy people, so we often have a lot on our plates. For example I have a Virgo friend who invites me to hang out with her on the day. Since my plans are already set by then, I often decline. If she decided to get upset with me, I'd think she was nuts.

It's pretty easy to see that the Leo retracted his offer because he had scheduling conflicts. Getting paranoid over this would've scare off MOST guys. Yet this guy liked you enough to stick around and add you to Instagram. Then you became paranoid when he stopped texting you after saying good night. I'm pretty sure that after he stopped texting you he turned his phone off (or on silent) and WENT TO SLEEP. So continuing to text him made you look desperate.

He might have still been into you at this point. However when you told him that you were divorced, that probably gave even more reason to look into the clingy behavior you were already presenting. You came across as someone who was so emotionally damaged dating you would become problematic. Remember that this guy barely knows you, so he's judging based on what you tell him.

Then you messaged him 50 (I hope you were exaggerating) more times and called him 10 times before he could respond back. Why? You basically smothered him to death. So yeah it's safe to say that he's gone. It would be a miracle if he returns at this point.

I like Cancers, I truly do, but you have to learn how to control those emotions. The issue is your self esteem and confidence are incredibly low right now. You're seeking emotional validation from a guy who barely knows you. It's possible that you still need to come to terms with the hurt from your divorce. More so, you'll need to learn how to be patient and not instantly smother someone with your feelings before you even have a chance to get to know each other. It's not another person's job to fix your issues, only you can do that. Definitely calm things down the next time you're dealing with a guy.

I was not exaggerating. I did that... 50 messages and 10 calls.... He messaged me today that he was very busy and could not answer my calls or messages... I m surprised to see his message... But I apologised very profusely and he told me it's OK, and asked me to have a good day.... See what a nice man I pushed him soooo far

If he's keeping the communication open, I highly recommend cutting down the clingy behavior. It's possible that he's still interested. It's also possible your attention is an ego boost for him. It's also possible that he's just being nice and doesn't want to blow you off. Only time will tell, but definitely calm down the neediness.

So he messaged again today, asking me if I am free tomorrow. I am working for a bit , so I informed him that.Cant believe he still wants to see me !!

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