My leo girl told me she is a escort.

I was in complete shock. I've been in a relationship with her for 2 months and it was amazing, never did it cross my mind she did this but she finally came clean and couldn't hide it from me because it was eating her from the inside, she was depressed and eating a lot.. wouldn't even go down to walk our dog let alone see her friends. She said we were just too attracted to each other at the time and she didn't know what she was doing until it was too late and we both started catching feelings for each other and thought "omg what am I doing", claiming she doesn't want to hurt me. I asked her is it hard for you like it's hard for me? She said it's probably harder on her because she doesn't want to hurt me.. but the damage has been done.

I told her to STOP, screw the relationship, I will take care of her but she was too prideful to ask me for money or accept it. I feel like an idiot courting her and sending her flowers, but I can't change how strongly I feel about her.

Amazing how it works, even when loving somebody is the wrong thing to do, you do it anyway.

She still wants to see me. But how? As a friend? It won't work because we already crossed that line.

We both can't even sleep with each other anymore. Lol



If a leo was in love would she do whatever had to be done to save a relationship?

I think she does it for her mom. Her mom has esteem issues so she gets plastic surgery to look want to look better.

Mmmm although she is a person she is not the person you thought she was. I would advise getting out of the relationship. Looks fade... I am not trying to be mean but Mercury retro is about to start. Not going to lie it sounds kinda lame...

Piscesmoon

Straight up tell her how you feel. If you are not comfortable with her being an escort, tell her. She already knew the stigma behind her profession, so not telling you in the beginning is on her. Granted, it's only been 2 months in the relationship, so at least she told you now rather than later.

Leo's will do what we need to do if it means keeping our partner. However since you've only been dating two months, I don't know if she'd be willing to make that change for you.

Posted by Harukka
Can anyone tell me what does escort mean ? ??

Google it!!!

I want to ask if she is still doing it or she fell for you and quit?

If she sropped - it's a one thing. If she didn't stop - you dating a prostitute which is simply funny!

So what's the deal with her now?

Posted by Harukka
Can anyone tell me what does escort mean ? ??

An escort provides company, as well as sex typically.

No, escorting isn't for her, it's not who she is and it doesn't suit her. She has a degree in IT and animation, she's bright as fuck, there is no need for it.

Our relationship may never work but it don't mean I won't help her. Call it what u want.

Posted by ScorpioTruth
Hell nah. Unless you're okay with sharing her with other men.

Ofc no. It makes me want to puke in my mouth.

My father never raised no fool. I can't share my woman.

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Posted by Harukka
Can anyone tell me what does escort mean ? ??

a nice word for saying slut

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Incorrect. A slut doesn't get paid.

It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

Idiot. Now that I know she escorts how can I sleep with her and vice versa?

Imagine you love a girl and she sleeps with 5 other guys during the day and then go sleep in bed with her? That's not my style .

Posted by root
Idiot. Now that I know she escorts how can I sleep with her and vice versa?

Imagine you love a girl and she sleeps with 5 other guys during the day and then go sleep in bed with her? That's not my style .

Sounds horrible

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

You speak as if ur better than anybody. Judging from ur picture I can confidently say that if the entire world had an erection you would die from indecision.

Don't judge.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

You speak as if ur better than anybody. Judging from ur picture I can confidently say that if the entire world had an erection you would die from indecision.

Don't judge.

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I'm not judging. Where did I judge? Your defensive because your too close to this.

I have several friends who are escorts and I fully support their choices. I'm just speaking truth.

Did she say she wants to make the relationship work? Did she say she will stop doing what shes doing for you?

There's a reason she's chosen to escort over taking a 9-5 in her IT field. And it's not cause she likes fucking strangers...It's cause the money is good.

You offering to pay her bills isn't gonna help. She likes making that money on her own. Makes her feel empowered that she can bank 3gs in a day.

Posted by TierRom
Obviously you're with her because of attraction.

I'm assuming she's attractive because she's employed as an escort.

So assuming she's a good escort then she's making money off her looks. The same looks I'm assuming attracted you to her.

She's making money and providing for herself in a way that was available to her. I see no harm in her actions from a legal standpoint. It really comes down to your ability to trust her or form specific rules on contraception and protection. Plenty of escorts and hookers have had husbands and children throughout history. You wouldn't be a first.

Trust her? Sex is an emotional and physical experience, you can't share that with strangers and come home act like we're a happy family.

I appreciate your alarmingly positive and unique views on this but it's not that easy. To make it seem like it's a normal job.

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Posted by Gemitati
I want to ask if she is still doing it or she fell for you and quit?

If she sropped - it's a one thing. If she didn't stop - you dating a prostitute which is simply funny!

So what's the deal with her now?

i'm sure that you are an escort too

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You'd be surprised at how much demand there is for granny pussy —

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Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

You speak as if ur better than anybody. Judging from ur picture I can confidently say that if the entire world had an erection you would die from indecision.

Don't judge.

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If we assume she doesn't suck dick for money then I'd say she's better than her in that aspect ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Posted by TierRom
Obviously you're with her because of attraction.

I'm assuming she's attractive because she's employed as an escort.

So assuming she's a good escort then she's making money off her looks. The same looks I'm assuming attracted you to her.

She's making money and providing for herself in a way that was available to her. I see no harm in her actions from a legal standpoint. It really comes down to your ability to trust her or form specific rules on contraception and protection. Plenty of escorts and hookers have had husbands and children throughout history. You wouldn't be a first.

Trust her? Sex is an emotional and physical experience, you can't share that with strangers and come home act like we're a happy family.

I appreciate your alarmingly positive and unique views on this but it's not that easy. To make it seem like it's a normal job.

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I totally get how you feel, it would seem like a violation to me...who wants to share their body with someone who has shared theirs with so many strangers

Gross

Put a ring on it ?

And yes boys, I am single so wife me up before someone else does!

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Posted by root

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

You speak as if ur better than anybody. Judging from ur picture I can confidently say that if the entire world had an erection you would die from indecision.

Don't judge.

If we assume she doesn't suck dick for money then I'd say she's better than her in that aspect ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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No I'm no better than her. Some would argue that I'm stupid for sucking my bf's dick and not getting anything monetary in return.

Escorting is a lonely life as it is difficult to maintain personal relationships. If you do find yourself a man who is okay with you fucking others for $ $ would you even want that man? No, you want a guy who doesn't want to share you. It's a lonely life to sell sex...

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Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by root

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

You speak as if ur better than anybody. Judging from ur picture I can confidently say that if the entire world had an erection you would die from indecision.

Don't judge.

If we assume she doesn't suck dick for money then I'd say she's better than her in that aspect ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

No I'm no better than her. Some would argue that I'm stupid for sucking my bf's dick and not getting anything monetary in return.

Escorting is a lonely life as it is difficult to maintain personal relationships. If you do find yourself a man who is okay with you fucking others for $ $ would you even want that man? No, you want a guy who doesn't want to share you. It's a lonely life to sell sex...

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Well no one's pointing a gun to her head so it's all yada yada to me

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Posted by root

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

You speak as if ur better than anybody. Judging from ur picture I can confidently say that if the entire world had an erection you would die from indecision.

Don't judge.

If we assume she doesn't suck dick for money then I'd say she's better than her in that aspect ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

No I'm no better than her. Some would argue that I'm stupid for sucking my bf's dick and not getting anything monetary in return.

Escorting is a lonely life as it is difficult to maintain personal relationships. If you do find yourself a man who is okay with you fucking others for $ $ would you even want that man? No, you want a guy who doesn't want to share you. It's a lonely life to sell sex...

Well no one's pointing a gun to her head so it's all yada yada to me

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Yes she's chosen it. Which is why I warned the op that, once given an ultimatum, she very well might choose her escorting over him...someone she's only know for two months.

Really it doesn't matter what we all think of her choices...only what he thinks. And even if she does agree to stop and play house with him... he won't be able to forget that she's spread her legs for others for that cash. He's gonna be suspicious and never fully trust her. And any time they argue he's gonna throw it back in her face.

Imo it's not gonna work and he should cut his loses now. Plenty of other pussy in the sea.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Escorting is a lonely life as it is difficult to maintain personal relationships. If you do find yourself a man who is okay with you fucking others for $ $ would you even want that man? No, you want a guy who doesn't want to share you. It's a lonely life to sell sex...

I don't want to get too involved here, but this I cannot confirm, people.

1) I have personal relationships with my friends and family. Not that hard to maintain.

2) Life would be easier if I could find a man ok with me "selling [my] body". But honestly I'm happier being single for now.

3) It's not a lonely life; my clients can be pretty cool. I think my life would be wayyyyy more lonely if I wasn't doing this.

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1) Have you been 100 with your family and friends with what your occupation is? I'm sure you've lost people over this knowledge.

2) Finding a man who isn't a pimp and who is okay with you escorting is almost impossible.

3) Those aren't real friends though. They are paying you for your time, it's all an illusion.

Edit: I have a friend who has been escorting for almost 20 years and she has seen and experienced it all. Your pretty young...I hope your working towards a plan b so you can transition from this life style . Bank that money, pay your taxes, and invest in property.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Escorting is a lonely life as it is difficult to maintain personal relationships. If you do find yourself a man who is okay with you fucking others for $ $ would you even want that man? No, you want a guy who doesn't want to share you. It's a lonely life to sell sex...

I don't want to get too involved here, but this I cannot confirm, people.

1) I have personal relationships with my friends and family. Not that hard to maintain.

2) Life would be easier if I could find a man ok with me "selling [my] body". But honestly I'm happier being single for now.

3) It's not a lonely life; my clients can be pretty cool. I think my life would be wayyyyy more lonely if I wasn't doing this.

I thought you were just a dancer

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There's a lot more than dancing that happens in those 'private VIP dances'.

@whorpio

She has a client who offered her 10g per month to be exclusive with him. She refused because she values her independence too much. Plus she's scared to catch feelings for a client whose married.

Her mind fascinates me.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Escorting is a lonely life as it is difficult to maintain personal relationships. If you do find yourself a man who is okay with you fucking others for $ $ would you even want that man? No, you want a guy who doesn't want to share you. It's a lonely life to sell sex...

I don't want to get too involved here, but this I cannot confirm, people.

1) I have personal relationships with my friends and family. Not that hard to maintain.

2) Life would be easier if I could find a man ok with me "selling [my] body". But honestly I'm happier being single for now.

3) It's not a lonely life; my clients can be pretty cool. I think my life would be wayyyyy more lonely if I wasn't doing this.

1) Have you been 100 with your family and friends what your occupation is? I'm sure you've lost people over this knowledge.

2) Finding a man who isn't a pimp and who is okay with you escorting is almost impossible.

3) Those aren't real friends though. They are paying you for your time, it's all an illusion.

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1) I've only told one friend the whole truth and she turned her back on me so #NeverAgain.

2) That may be true. I haven't exactly gone looking for romantic partners with honesty so I wouldn't know.

3) Yes, I know they ain't my real friends. I just like being around people and having something to do.

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Posted by Whorpio
I don't want to get too involved here, but this I cannot confirm, people.

1) I have personal relationships with my friends and family. Not that hard to maintain.

2) Life would be easier if I could find a man ok with me "selling [my] body". But honestly I'm happier being single for now.

3) It's not a lonely life; my clients can be pretty cool. I think my life would be wayyyyy more lonely if I wasn't doing this.

I thought you were just a dancer

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If you would actually talk to me I'd tell you everything, but NO you just love to ignore me 😢

I've turned to you a few times now and no response sooooooo

Posted by LadyNeptune
There's a lot more than dancing that happens in those 'private VIP dances'.

When I was a dancer we weren't allowed to turn full tricks in the VIP room. The men were allowed to masturbate while we danced but that's it.

Posted by LadyNeptune
She has a client who offered her 10g per month to be exclusive with him. She refused because she values her independence too much. Plus she's scared to catch feelings for a client whose married.

Her mind fascinates me.

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Who are we talking about? The Leo? I didn't read all the other posts ?

I did see a less-known actress on the news who was offered big money to date this married hockey team owner for a year. But she wasn't an escort and she filed a police report against him or something.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
There's a lot more than dancing that happens in those 'private VIP dances'.

When I was a dancer we weren't allowed to turn full tricks in the VIP room. The men were allowed to masturbate while we danced but that's it.

Posted by LadyNeptune
She has a client who offered her 10g per month to be exclusive with him. She refused because she values her independence too much. Plus she's scared to catch feelings for a client whose married.

Her mind fascinates me.

Who are we talking about? The Leo? I didn't read all the other posts ?

I did see a less-known actress on the news who was offered big money to date this married hockey team owner for a year. But she wasn't an escort and she filed a police report against him or something.

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Ahh no, I edited my first post to you. One of my close friends who escorts is whom I'm referring too.

Here in California it's really common for guys to pay for hj, bj, and even sex in the VIP room. There are certain clubs that are known for it where security turns a blind eye. And even if they don't you can use that time to set up something with your trick for after hours.

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Posted by ScorpioTruth
Hell nah. Unless you're okay with sharing her with other men.

Ofc no. It makes me want to puke in my mouth.

My father never raised no fool. I can't share my woman.

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So is she still an escort?

And what about IT and smarts?

And you father apparently made a wrong move somewhere! If you love her - pull her out and support until she finds a job!

Is she at 'work' while you typing all this here?

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Posted by Goateeguru

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

Lol this made laugh. "It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick"

Yes n he wants to save her

That is not her.

But it is your choice that make you

Like will I go bare back for extra 20k

I mean poor her to have to escort to pay for her Gucci bag

I guess Ino issue until u are it itching

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According to him she's only selling pussy to purchase her mom a new face. So maybe the real issue here is her playing parent to her parent. She needs to learn to say "no".

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Posted by Goateeguru

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

Lol this made laugh. "It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick"

Yes n he wants to save her

That is not her.

But it is your choice that make you

Like will I go bare back for extra 20k

I mean poor her to have to escort to pay for her Gucci bag

I guess Ino issue until u are it itching

According to him she's only selling pussy to purchase her mom a new face. So maybe the real issue here is her playing parent to her parent. She needs to learn to say "no".

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But isn't she supposed to be freed from this job by him by now considering he is in love? And she seems in love...and mom can make the rest of the money herself or get a payment plan?

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Posted by Whorpio
I don't want to get too involved here, but this I cannot confirm, people.

1) I have personal relationships with my friends and family. Not that hard to maintain.

2) Life would be easier if I could find a man ok with me "selling [my] body". But honestly I'm happier being single for now.

3) It's not a lonely life; my clients can be pretty cool. I think my life would be wayyyyy more lonely if I wasn't doing this.

I thought you were just a dancer

If you would actually talk to me I'd tell you everything, but NO you just love to ignore me 😢

I've turned to you a few times now and no response sooooooo

i always respond

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Oh really, because you never responded to my latest message. Heart = broken

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Posted by Impulsv
The fact ur even considering

Men don't really care about character n strong women

Just want to take care of the ego need to white knight

Lol he's a white Knight not a man

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come say that to my face

100% get all your front teeth knocked out of place

Or I can go pay and fuck an escort

so we're even

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Posted by Impulsv

Posted by Goateeguru

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

Lol this made laugh. "It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick"

Yes n he wants to save her

That is not her.

But it is your choice that make you

Like will I go bare back for extra 20k

I mean poor her to have to escort to pay for her Gucci bag

I guess Ino issue until u are it itching

According to him she's only selling pussy to purchase her mom a new face. So maybe the real issue here is her playing parent to her parent. She needs to learn to say "no".

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Yeah. She has a huge heart, I always tell her that. She really doesn't know how to say no.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

No no but he wants to " help her" lol

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what is ur issue? nobody helped u before when u was in a shit place. nobody cares about u or something?

It's reached a point where she can't even look at me. She's too embarrassed or something.

I feel like a fuckin cunt as well.

Posted by root
Or I can go pay and fuck an escort

so we're even

This is not the solution.

This is her choice, it's her source of income.

She is not doing this because she loves to have sex with strangers.

She told you what she does, if you love her but don't accept the fact that she is an escort, then leave the relationship and respect her personal choices. She was doing this before meeting you.

Like LadyNeptune already mentioned - It is very likely that she will choose escorting over being with you.

This is the reality, we are not trying to put you down or be on her side. Just accept the reality.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
There's a lot more than dancing that happens in those 'private VIP dances'.

When I was a dancer we weren't allowed to turn full tricks in the VIP room. The men were allowed to masturbate while we danced but that's it.

Posted by LadyNeptune
She has a client who offered her 10g per month to be exclusive with him. She refused because she values her independence too much. Plus she's scared to catch feelings for a client whose married.

Her mind fascinates me.

Who are we talking about? The Leo? I didn't read all the other posts ?

I did see a less-known actress on the news who was offered big money to date this married hockey team owner for a year. But she wasn't an escort and she filed a police report against him or something.

Ahh no, I edited my first post to you. One of my close friends who escorts is whom I'm referring too.

Here in California it's really common for guys to pay for hj, bj, and even sex in the VIP room. There are certain clubs that are known for it where security turns a blind eye. And even if they don't you can use that time to set up something with your trick for after hours.

—?? how do you know so much about this? You said your friend was an escort not a stripper.

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One and the same my friend. Stripping is like the gateway drug to escorting.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Escorting is a lonely life as it is difficult to maintain personal relationships. If you do find yourself a man who is okay with you fucking others for $ $ would you even want that man? No, you want a guy who doesn't want to share you. It's a lonely life to sell sex...

I don't want to get too involved here, but this I cannot confirm, people.

1) I have personal relationships with my friends and family. Not that hard to maintain.

2) Life would be easier if I could find a man ok with me "selling [my] body". But honestly I'm happier being single for now.

3) It's not a lonely life; my clients can be pretty cool. I think my life would be wayyyyy more lonely if I wasn't doing this.

I thought you were just a dancer

There's a lot more than dancing that happens in those 'private VIP dances'.

oh i know all about that. its just that when she talks about that she makes it sound like its just "dancing." but then again, shes 20, she might be saying it all for the shock value.

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The internet is a place to reinvent yourself.

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Posted by Goateeguru

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.

Lol this made laugh. "It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick"

Yes n he wants to save her

That is not her.

But it is your choice that make you

Like will I go bare back for extra 20k

I mean poor her to have to escort to pay for her Gucci bag

I guess Ino issue until u are it itching

According to him she's only selling pussy to purchase her mom a new face. So maybe the real issue here is her playing parent to her parent. She needs to learn to say "no".

But isn't she supposed to be freed from this job by him by now considering he is in love? And she seems in love...and mom can make the rest of the money herself or get a payment plan?

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No one said anything about love...

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Posted by root
It's reached a point where she can't even look at me. She's too embarrassed or something.

I feel like a fuckin cunt as well.

That's because you are one.

I deal with ethics on a daily basis. My career and education is entirely focused on ethics. The papers I've written have literally been used by my school and will probably be used academically in the future.

On an ethical standpoint. You quite literally are playing the cunt move.

My girl. Allow her. You're using a ton of ownership words. It's been two months and you have yet to be physical with one another and she informs you of her profession. It's the oldest profession in the books. You seriously need to consider this persons life and ability to provide for herself. It's pretty obvious your masculinity is what the issue is.

Women need to survive and this is her form of survival. Who are you.....two months in, to tell her what she's doing is wrong or to make her feel ashamed near you.

I think she's better off without you. Her honestly makes her leaps above you....ethically.

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Fuck off will ya with your pseudo intellectual bullcrap save it for somebody that will listen to that

it's not a job, even if it's the oldest one! escorts go through a lot of physical and emotional trauma of being constantly used and screwed by random men, it takes a toll on them and it isn't healthy at all. i want her to realise this and how bad it is. forget the money and life style . if she can quit for me GREAT if she can quit for herself also GREAT.

and what u mean survive? who told u she needs this survive?

If a GOOD guy offered to marry me I'd probably quit. They're just hard to come by in these parts.

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Posted by VivaciousScorpio
2 months isn't long man. Stop being a pussy, dump her and move on.

Unless you're ok with sharing that space?

I'm fairly certain that she dumped him. She informed him she works for hire.......and hasn't made a move to keep seeing him, says she wants to keep in touch.

I don't think he sees it yet but I think she let him down gently.

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if she dumped me why is she on the phone with me now?