Slept with Leo Man

OK so i met this Leo Man and he was so nice, complementing me, said he felt good with me, we had dinner talked laughed even went on a walk. First date nothing happened but second date I slept with him. He doesn't live in the same town as me but said he will make a plan to see each other in NYC..But after we slept together the next morning we said goodbye...He said bye beautiful was fun....Criquets......It's been 3 weeks and no communication from him and yesterday he unfollowed me on Instagram.

I don't know if it's something I did....That I didn't text him....Or was this just fun for him?

Just looking for advice

@notsoinstant that bad? :-/

@notsoinstant

True....But he followed me on Instagram 3 weeks after we slept together so I figured he still likes me until he unfollowed me yesterday

Posted by cvurko
😢 probably it was for fun. Move on 🙂 it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.

I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed

@notsoinstant

No he did....

@notsoinstant he came to visit my town, took me out..Wanted to sleep with me on the first meeting and I said no. He asked me out again. The next day and then we did have sex.

@notsoinstant

That's what I think...Maybe he was waiting for me to text him but I didn't because I think the Man is supposed to....But true he could of texted me or not delete me..

Should I send a message just to see if he will reply? Or let it be

Was the sex good?

@notsoinstant

No...There was no communication after we said goodbye the next morning

@pinkbird03

It was just ok

Leo men like a chanllenge... he's prob moved on to his next prey...

at least you enjoyed it.

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by cvurko
😢 probably it was for fun. Move on 🙂 it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.

I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed

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Sweetie that was casual sex.

Btw I am 30 and he was 50

@areyoumytwinflame



Why after 3 weeks thou? He was active on there during that time..Was he really waiting for me?

@librajean

God.....And he told me things like I don't want a one night stand with you...Blah blah

@shadowcat

My moon is Leo and Venus Aires

His moon cancer and Venus Virgo

@notsoinstant

Yeah I kinda do like him so yeah I'm upset

Posted by Gemini25
@librajean

God.....And he told me things like I don't want a one night stand with you...Blah blah

Live and learn...

Men want sex but will judge you if u have sex with them to fast.

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@pinkbird03

It was just ok

Do you think that had anything to do with it?

@pinkbird03

Maybe who knows

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Posted by cvurko
😢 probably it was for fun. Move on 🙂 it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.

I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed

See don't blame yourself. This happens...

And there is nothing wrong with having some casual fun.

Some men like to have a high count, that's it.

*Shrugs*

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Ewww

Wait ladies...don't give your body away to anyone so easily unless you want to live the casual sex life

@areyoumytwinflame

Yeah i just don't get...I have liked and commented on his pictures so that time he didn't delete me and then yesterday....So weird. But who knows...Maybe he just lost interest

Posted by Gemini25
@pinkbird03

Maybe who knows

Would u feel comfortable asking him what went wrong?

@mystarshines

True but sometimes the connection is there and some people are couples even when they slept together early....For me it was honestly my first time..I don't know

@shadowcat

Venus in 12 house

Moon in 4th LEO

As a Leo myself we are a proud sign. It's possible you didn't make the first move after sleeping with him so his pride is dented. It didn't need to be directly after, maybe a few days but perhaps you should have checked in. A Leo's pride when dented is a bad thing for us. We retract and go lick our wounds. Then the roar and swipe you down with our powerful pride and just cut you off!

Text him, what's the worst that can happen? Hes gonna say hi or bye either way. He will toy with you for a bit, like a cat chasing a mouse, but don't gush at him with emotions he'll back off, but at the same time don't be too aloof, he will just stick that lion nose in the air and dismiss you.

Good luck hope it helps

Posted by Gemini25
@mystarshines

True but sometimes the connection is there and some people are couples even when they slept together early....For me it was honestly my first time..I don't know

Sure but maybe learn to intuit things a little clearer in the future 🙂

@choXtsy

Btw you are gorgeous!

Yeah thank you....I just fall easily

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@pinkbird03

Maybe who knows

Would u feel comfortable asking him what went wrong?

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I don't think anything went *wrong*...he got what he wanted and buggered off..happens all the time. It wasn't a relationship and men are getting away with murder these days. They don't have to wait for anything...throw away sex has become the new rock and roll

@mystarshine

I'm sad that he didn't fall for me thou....

Posted by Gemini25
@mystarshine

I'm sad that he didn't fall for me thou....

Try not to. He is probably an egotistical twat anyway 😛

Better things to come for you

< 3

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@choXtsy

Btw you are gorgeous!

Yeah thank you....I just fall easily

It's okay, happens to the best of us. Just don't contact him, you'll feel silly.

Thanks girl! 🙂

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Yes, you are stunning...i keep seeing pics of beautiful black women.I may come back as one next time 🙂

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Posted by Gemini25
@pinkbird03

Maybe who knows

Would u feel comfortable asking him what went wrong?

I don't think anything went *wrong*...he got what he wanted and buggered off..happens all the time. It wasn't a relationship and men are getting away with murder these days. They don't have to wait for anything...throw away sex has become the new rock and roll

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Maybe, but there could be a reason too. Probably one no one wants to hear, but she can if she wants to know the truth.

@pinkbird03

You're telling me I suck in bed? Could be as I don't have a lot of experience

@pinkbird03

But if a man likes you he will keep you around..

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@choXtsy

Btw you are gorgeous!

Yeah thank you....I just fall easily

It's okay, happens to the best of us. Just don't contact him, you'll feel silly.

Thanks girl! 🙂

Yes, you are stunning...i keep seeing pics of beautiful black women.I may come back as one next time 🙂

Hahah, this is funny ! 😆 but thank you 🙂

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🙂 No problem girl, i can always wish haha

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Posted by Gemini25
@pinkbird03

Maybe who knows

Would u feel comfortable asking him what went wrong?

I don't think anything went *wrong*...he got what he wanted and buggered off..happens all the time. It wasn't a relationship and men are getting away with murder these days. They don't have to wait for anything...throw away sex has become the new rock and roll

Maybe, but there could be a reason too. Probably one no one wants to hear, but she can if she wants to know the truth.

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True, but is he worth it....really?

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@pinkbird03

Maybe who knows

Would u feel comfortable asking him what went wrong?

I don't think anything went *wrong*...he got what he wanted and buggered off..happens all the time. It wasn't a relationship and men are getting away with murder these days. They don't have to wait for anything...throw away sex has become the new rock and roll

Maybe, but there could be a reason too. Probably one no one wants to hear, but she can if she wants to know the truth.

True, but is he worth it....really?

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Not at all. I think it might help her feel closure though. I personally had to do that recently and it really did help me move on. Now I have a lunch date today ?

@pinkbird03

OK tell me...i don't understand

Posted by Gemini25
@pinkbird03

OK tell me...i don't understand

What would you like me to tell you?

Why the fuq this keeps happening to me? I keep meeting these Men who only want sex

@pinkbird03

I mean you want me to message him?

Posted by Gemini25
@pinkbird03

I mean you want me to message him?

Where do you meet these men? I online date a lot. One of my first questions is always, what are you looking for? That way if they say sex, I say goodbye.

Only talk to him if you want to. He most likely won't come back, but it might make you feel better if you tell him how you feel and say goodbye

Posted by Gemini25
Why the fuq this keeps happening to me? I keep meeting these Men who only want sex

ask notsosure... guys are trained by certain type of women in the society to think that it is ok to fuck and ghost.

@pinkbird03

I want to just say hi not tell him why he's not contacting me...I am not crazy lol

I want to see if he will reply...If not then whatever

Yes I met him through Instagram not a dating app

Posted by Gemini25
@pinkbird03

I want to just say hi not tell him why he's not contacting me...I am not crazy lol

I want to see if he will reply...If not then whatever

Yes I met him through Instagram not a dating app

Will it make you sad if he doesn't answer?

@pinkbird03

Well I'm already sad...If he doesn't answer I know for sure he's not interested....But maybe I'm being naive..... He's a Leo right..

Posted by Gemini25
@pinkbird03

Well I'm already sad...If he doesn't answer I know for sure he's not interested....But maybe I'm being naive..... He's a Leo right..

Ok do it. Then you will know for sure 🙂

Good luck!

He was just looking for sex and nothing else. He was temporarily infatuated.