Do you feel you are aggressive?

I'm incredibly aggressive and I dont know what element in my chart might be causing it. I have a very distinct vibe when someone meets me. Youre either gonna love me or dislike me. I never felt I fit this character of "charmer" people talk about with Libras. I actually dont like charmers at all.

Am I diplomatic, yes? Fair? Yes.... But im no charmer.

My ex told me I was the most aggressive person he's met male or female.

Actually every man ive ever encountered has told me that. Yet, on the inside I feel very misunderstood.

Sun Libra 11°12'43 in house 12 direct

Moon Gemini 11°08'41 in house 8 direct

Mercury Libra 19°56'36 in house 12 direct

Venus Virgo 15°08'57 in house 11 direct

Mars Virgo 15°27'25 in house 11 direct

Jupiter Aquarius 7°07'24 in house 4 stationary 🍹

Saturn Scorpio 25°11'24 in house 2 direct

Uranus Sagittarius 14°43'16 in house 2 direct

Neptune Capricorn 0°58'53 in house 3 direct

Pluto Scorpio 3°44'36 in house 1 direct

True Node Taurus 9°24'29 in house 7 direct

House positions (Placidus)

Ascendant Libra 23°06'29

2nd House Scorpio 21°20'17

3rd House Sagittarius 22°33'51

Imum Coeli Capricorn 25°45'46

5th House Aquarius 28°27'06

6th House Pisces 27°57'28

Descendant Aries 23°06'29

8th House Taurus 21°20'17

9th House Gemini 22°33'51

Medium Coeli Cancer 25°45'46

11th House Leo 28°27'06

12th House Virgo 27°57'28

Major aspects

Sun Trine Moon 0°04

Sun Trine Jupiter 4°05

Sun Sextile Uranus 3°31

Moon Square Venus 4°00

Moon Square Mars 4°19

Moon Trine Jupiter 4°01

Moon Opposition Uranus 3°35

Mercury Sextile Uranus 5°13

Mercury Conjunction Ascendant 3°10

Venus Conjunction Mars 0°18

Venus Square Uranus 0°26

Mars Square Uranus 0°44

Jupiter Square Pluto 3°23

Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°46

Posted by Dastardly
Mars conjunct Venus

Moon square Mars

Mars square Uranus

1st House Scorpio South Node

I feel I come off a lot differently than I want to. But even I can feel the energy I put off. I cant really describe it.

Posted by Koniuchaa
And there is a necessarily anything wrong with being like that. It’s just how you are. You need to find somebody that will accept that

True.

Posted by Dastardly

Posted by Koniuchaa
I think it might’ve Venus conjunct Mars

Yes.

When Mars is stronger than Venus by sign, Mars wears the pants in the conjunction and Venus is infused with Martian energy and overwhelmed by it. It acts as a Venus in Aries even in a shy and retiring sign like Virgo.

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That makes sense,

because I dont always feel like Venus in Virgo describes me fully.

Interesting.

I actually really enjoy myself. I just am very aware of my presence and how I come off. Id like to be more approachable, but especially in new situations I realize I am not.

Alyssa sharpe has this combo. and she's also Libra sun with that combo.



it didnt show on Carolyn Mayberry's site... but alyssa has it..

I come off demanding and dont realise it. Also feel kind of agressive for a libra too. I have alot of fire in my chart.

Posted by Rozaeon
The problem with our sun sign is that it's really poorly described in my opinion, people didn't make much effort while doing it

I agree!

I feel like they got to Libra...and were like "ehhh fuck it"

hm i dont find Alyssa Sharpe aggressive at all. And she has that sun/venus mars combo.

to watch her on video with her astrology readings she doesn't come off like that.

who i find aggressive? that other famous video astrologer, Jenna Marbles, Virgo sun/Aqua moon Capricorn mars/Scorpio venus, mercury libra.

i saw that Alyssa said in her facebook or youtube vids that she thought she is more likely to be like Jenna Marbles.

i honestly dont see that. Alyssa comes off sweeter, because that Taurus moon is very sweet.

My sister the Aries is the same way...Aries is supposed to be aggressive, but she's not because she has that sweet taurus moon.

now just because jenna marbles has that combo, doesn't mean other virgo women are aggressive like her...

i dont see blake lively as aggressive either,

i do see some Aries women super aggressive like, like Rosie O'Donnell....

Aries sun/Libra moon. Gemini rising, pisces mars.



so if your ex's tell you you come off very very aggressive, perhaps it's the combo of your Sun and moon?

maybe it's the Gemini/Libra combo.

i'd have to research to look up more of that combo and watch them on film.



but definitely Rosie O'Donnell seems super harsh.

rosie o 'donnell

is also aries venus,

despite her having pisces mercury & psices mars, she still comes off harsh.

https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Rosie_O'Donnell

Posted by heliumfiasco
I'm incredibly aggressive and I dont know what element in my chart might be causing it. I have a very distinct vibe when someone meets me. Youre either gonna love me or dislike me. I never felt I fit this character of "charmer" people talk about with Libras. I actually dont like charmers at all.

Am I diplomatic, yes? Fair? Yes.... But im no charmer.

My ex told me I was the most aggressive person he's met male or female.

Actually every man ive ever encountered has told me that. Yet, on the inside I feel very misunderstood.

Charm is like having class, you can't teach it, you can't fake it, otherwise people see through you.

You don't want to be like a barking chuwahwah, on beast mode 24/7, that has to be exhausting but you should also be yourself.

The best version of yourself, that is.

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Can you define agressive?

Very direct in all situations.

Posted by Ravishing
Aren't you a 1st House Pluto? This sounds exactly like that placement.

Yes, I am.

Posted by heliumfiasco
I'm incredibly aggressive and I dont know what element in my chart might be causing it. I have a very distinct vibe when someone meets me. Youre either gonna love me or dislike me. I never felt I fit this character of "charmer" people talk about with Libras. I actually dont like charmers at all.

Am I diplomatic, yes? Fair? Yes.... But im no charmer.

My ex told me I was the most aggressive person he's met male or female.

Actually every man ive ever encountered has told me that. Yet, on the inside I feel very misunderstood.

sun in libra, ascendent in libra plus pluto in first house that is square to jupiter.

https://cafeastrology.com/aspects/jupiter-square-pluto.html

With Jupiter square Pluto in the birth chart, you have big plans and ambitions, and some might say too big at times! You benefit from great resourcefulness, and if you can tame your tendency to go overboard, you can do well with this trait.

You can have an all-or-nothing approach to life. This can be one indication of high levels of material success or wealth. You are driven and might make important contacts with people who can help you achieve your goals.

It will be important to watch for compulsive, over-the-top, or know-it-all behavior. Power is enticing but should be used wisely. Your drive to control can sometimes lead to conflicts with authority. Dissatisfaction with your current lot in life can be used as motivation to reach higher, but if it’s a perpetual issue (that is, you never feel content with your accomplishments), then you might want to ask yourself if expansion is always necessary. Take the time to count your smaller blessings and achievements.

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Posted by heliumfiasco
I'm incredibly aggressive and I dont know what element in my chart might be causing it. I have a very distinct vibe when someone meets me. Youre either gonna love me or dislike me. I never felt I fit this character of "charmer" people talk about with Libras. I actually dont like charmers at all.

Am I diplomatic, yes? Fair? Yes.... But im no charmer.

My ex told me I was the most aggressive person he's met male or female.

Actually every man ive ever encountered has told me that. Yet, on the inside I feel very misunderstood.

sun in libra, ascendent in libra plus pluto in first house that is square to jupiter.

https://cafeastrology.com/aspects/jupiter-square-pluto.html

With Jupiter square Pluto in the birth chart, you have big plans and ambitions, and some might say too big at times! You benefit from great resourcefulness, and if you can tame your tendency to go overboard, you can do well with this trait.

You can have an all-or-nothing approach to life. This can be one indication of high levels of material success or wealth. You are driven and might make important contacts with people who can help you achieve your goals.

It will be important to watch for compulsive, over-the-top, or know-it-all behavior. Power is enticing but should be used wisely. Your drive to control can sometimes lead to conflicts with authority. Dissatisfaction with your current lot in life can be used as motivation to reach higher, but if it’s a perpetual issue (that is, you never feel content with your accomplishments), then you might want to ask yourself if expansion is always necessary. Take the time to count your smaller blessings and achievements.

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Very true!!!!

Leeb midheaven and 1st house stellium here with Jupiter in Aries, Sun & Mercury semi square Mars, Mars square Pluto and yes.

I mean I pick fights either verbally or IRL, an actual fight. I always enjoyed the adrenaline rush I receive from fighting and people describe me as an aggressive person.

I'm the type of person who gets more lively and aggressive the longer fights are really.

Yes lol! I actually step outside myself at time and think I need to tone it down a lil but the bitch don't listen!