How does a libra know when they met "The One"?

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Posted by blackphaze
Judging by all the threads you have been making to try and figure this dude out.. You're not the one. Sorry..

From my experience, they jump the gun when they feel in love.. If they are really into you, they'll be telling you that you're the one before they even really know ya.




This wasnt necessarily even about him and he did actually. I was just curious to know that's all. Thank you for sharing.
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Posted by jeane
it took me forever and to be completely honest, i'm not even sure i believe in "the one". i love my partner to bits but will we be together until we are old and grey? i hope so but who knows what could happen? so ask me when i am 80 and i'll give you a answer then.
Thank you jeane. I most certainly can agree. I definitely understand what your saying.
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I don’t know for a very long time. I over analyze too much. I had a rough childhood though. I don’t trust many people enough to love them like that so quickly. Takes a lotttttttt to get there if I’m honest.

I can joke though and say yeah I’ll keep him. But in all honestly. He’s kept at an arm’s distance until I can trust him to even believe he is the one.
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I don’t know for a very long time. I over analyze too much. I had a rough childhood though. I don’t trust many people enough to love them like that so quickly. Takes a lotttttttt to get there if I’m honest.



I can joke though and say yeah I’ll keep him. But in all honestly. He’s kept at an arm’s distance until I can trust him to even believe he is the one.



That's interesting usually people who have rough childhood's are apt to jump into relationships very quickly. Even when it's not ideal and trust people off the bat because they know they are very resilient. They tend to be less self entitled.



It's sort of well ..i have been through all that shit ..so this heartbreak thing can't be so bad. They can also have low self esteem which means they will be with anyone who pays attention to them. click to expand
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Sometimes. I understand what you are saying.

It’s all a matter of perspective. Like children who grow up with an alcoholic. One might grow up and end up being an alcoholic themselves and blame it on the alcoholic parent. Because why not? It’s what I saw my whole life. What I learned about life.

Then another from the same family can grow up never wanting to drink. No drugs. Nothing. They also blame it on the alcoholic, because seeing it their whole life taught them what they did not want to be.

Same situation, same blame, different lesson.

I learned not to trust people.
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Posted by euphony
I don’t know for a very long time. I over analyze too much. I had a rough childhood though. I don’t trust many people enough to love them like that so quickly. Takes a lotttttttt to get there if I’m honest.



I can joke though and say yeah I’ll keep him. But in all honestly. He’s kept at an arm’s distance until I can trust him to even believe he is the one.
this.
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After my first date with my now cancer gf i knew. I woke up the day after for work feeling like i was a new person and never had that feeling before. Im almost 30 and since weve dated/been together feels like a high school 1st love all over.



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2 months click to expand
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Getting married soon?
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After my first date with my now cancer gf i knew. I woke up the day after for work feeling like i was a new person and never had that feeling before. Im almost 30 and since weve dated/been together feels like a high school 1st love all over.



Aww that is so sweet. How long have you 2 been dating? click to expand
2 months click to expand

Getting married soon? click to expand
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No time soon, say in 2yrs. Just know shes the one with our vibe and chemistry
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After my first date with my now cancer gf i knew. I woke up the day after for work feeling like i was a new person and never had that feeling before. Im almost 30 and since weve dated/been together feels like a high school 1st love all over.



Aww that is so sweet. How long have you 2 been dating? click to expand





2 months click to expand



Getting married soon? click to expand



No time soon, say in 2yrs. Just know shes the one with our vibe and chemistry click to expand
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Got you. I'm happy for you all.