Good for you, Chatz. I am proud of your tenacity. And admire your heart.
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awww that's just so cute!!! 😛
Meow!!
Meow!!

Chatz... Sooo all is going well?? Kisses in public, my libra did that too last time I was there.. OMG?? Awesome! I know what you mean about the kisses.. hours.. yummy.. anyway.. just got on after being gone from you all for about 2 weeks. Keeping busy with my libra.. talking all day and night still.. need to rest some time.. lovin him though.. so much more.. trying hard to stay in control.. but it is hard. I dream about him now.. good ones too..😉
I want to ask him to go away with me in a few weeks, but I am nervous. I told him I am going but have not said anything about him going yet.. we'll see.
I want to ask him to go away with me in a few weeks, but I am nervous. I told him I am going but have not said anything about him going yet.. we'll see.

No wonder you were missing from dxp for long time. 😛

thelibran.. Where have YOU been? While you are talking about me— In love? Feels good don't it? 🙂
Were always late because were so stream of concious about everything. One minute I am thinking about all the things I need to do before I leave and the next thing I know I am surfing the internet or playing my guitar or whatever. I notice it as a source of frustration for other people though so I do my best to not make people wait, or call ahead of time and tell them I am running late. I also insist with all of my friends to not wait on me, if something is planned and I am late to get the "party" started without me. I don't like being the one who makes everyone wait.
Oh, another reason, not only are we optimistic in general, we are WAY TOO optimistic with our time. Someone can call and be like "Hey, can you meet me for this in an hour?"
I am thinking to myself....k, gotta finnish shopping, take a shower, get ready, do my laundry, call these ten people....oh I forgot to do that and that so I better go and do it, drive three states away, drive back, cure cancer, save the world......yeah....an hour should be plenty of time.
"Yeah, I'll be there in an hour."
A half hour later..."Uh ohhhhhhh"
About the Libra male : "He who makes you wait half the day but makes it worth it in every way" 🙂
Oh, another reason, not only are we optimistic in general, we are WAY TOO optimistic with our time. Someone can call and be like "Hey, can you meet me for this in an hour?"
I am thinking to myself....k, gotta finnish shopping, take a shower, get ready, do my laundry, call these ten people....oh I forgot to do that and that so I better go and do it, drive three states away, drive back, cure cancer, save the world......yeah....an hour should be plenty of time.
"Yeah, I'll be there in an hour."
A half hour later..."Uh ohhhhhhh"
About the Libra male : "He who makes you wait half the day but makes it worth it in every way" 🙂

LOL!!! Very true Nic, unless he is anxious to see you. A couple of times my libra friend and I set a time to meet or go out and he was calling me on the hour or 5 min before, asking if I was on my way, in those instances, I was a little late. I would tell him, " Gawd it isn't even 8 o'clock yet" His response was always something flirty like, I know, but I can't wait to see you or something. But the ex, yes always late.

Hey.. Nic.
My libra is seldom late with me. Maybe calling or something, but I am use to that after years of dealing with him. But your whole scenario sounds just like something he would do.. even the curing cancer inbetween time!! Too funny!!
My libra is seldom late with me. Maybe calling or something, but I am use to that after years of dealing with him. But your whole scenario sounds just like something he would do.. even the curing cancer inbetween time!! Too funny!!

"...in those instances, I was a little late."
Okay, so I have a question... So, are Scorps generally on time or late, cause all the Scorps I know (me, my brother, my sister, her mother, my mom's ex) are always running late. My bedroom clock is set 15 minutes ahead. My mother tends to tell me to show up 30 minutes to an hour before she tells everyone else, so I will be on time. I REALLY do intend on being on time, but things happen!!! But, I have read sites were it says Scorps are neurotic about be ON TIME.
But, atleast it isn't "wait half the day" late... And I DO call, most of the time, when I realize I am late. Time seems to pass at a different speed in my universe than everyone else's...
Okay, so I have a question... So, are Scorps generally on time or late, cause all the Scorps I know (me, my brother, my sister, her mother, my mom's ex) are always running late. My bedroom clock is set 15 minutes ahead. My mother tends to tell me to show up 30 minutes to an hour before she tells everyone else, so I will be on time. I REALLY do intend on being on time, but things happen!!! But, I have read sites were it says Scorps are neurotic about be ON TIME.
But, atleast it isn't "wait half the day" late... And I DO call, most of the time, when I realize I am late. Time seems to pass at a different speed in my universe than everyone else's...

* Were always late because were so stream of concious about everything.
Please only speak for yourself. It is VERY unusual for me to be late. I am usually ready to go an hour before I need to be and pace back and forth constantly watching the clock till it is time to go .... but I almost always leave too early, and am always the first person on the scene.
I think being late is VERY rude. (I also think cancelling plans is very rude and can get VERY pissy about that.)
The only time I am late is when someone else held me up or something unforseen has happened like traffic.
Please only speak for yourself. It is VERY unusual for me to be late. I am usually ready to go an hour before I need to be and pace back and forth constantly watching the clock till it is time to go .... but I almost always leave too early, and am always the first person on the scene.
I think being late is VERY rude. (I also think cancelling plans is very rude and can get VERY pissy about that.)
The only time I am late is when someone else held me up or something unforseen has happened like traffic.

Alcheme, yup. My alarm clock is set 30 min. fast and still either just make it or barely make it on time to work every morning. I guess it is because I know my clock is fast and I keep hitting the snooze button. Thank Gawwwddd I never had a job where I had to clock in or anything. However, I am a hard worker and will stay late pretty often...
Yeah, we can be late birds, with all the intentions of being on time. We really do try, really.
Yeah, we can be late birds, with all the intentions of being on time. We really do try, really.
I am never late LOL. Hate it when I do but with equal passion when someone else does it to me. I always say, if you're late you can also be on time...

I am very particular about time. If I say 20 mts, I will make sure am there in 20 mts. Else I feel guilty. Hardly ever late. Been late many times bcoz of the dumb friends who wanted to accompany me. It really irritates me when people have a lazy approach towards time. I do understand when someone overeslept or got stuck in traffic.
I used to be late a lot, and I hated it. I have done several things to fix it with great sucess, a lot of it was just biting off more than I could chew scheadule wise, and some of it is just telling people no now, that if you want to meet between this and this time I am not going to be able to make it.
I got pretty good about being on time, and if not calling at least an hour ahead, before the other person would have to start getting ready to leave to change the meeting time. I was dating a Sag girl who was overly stubborne about being on time but at the time I worked independantly and was on call 24hours a day. I was very upfront about the fact that I would be cancelling a lot, or late alot due to work. I was on my way to her place, running early of all things and got a call about a fugitive that needed arresting NOW and so I called her and told her the situation and that I had to cancel, I would call her for an update in a couple of hours but I needed to turn my phone off when we found the house as a phone ringing gives away your position quite effectively.
I did just that, called and updated her, that particular recovery was the longest we did strait, ended up in the field for over 48 hours after already being up for about 16.....she was PISSED. I told her I could not date someone who was not accepting of the fact that I would be gone a lot with no prior notice. That my work was my priority and that would not change....the very thingt that attracted her also drove her crazy...go figure.
I got pretty good about being on time, and if not calling at least an hour ahead, before the other person would have to start getting ready to leave to change the meeting time. I was dating a Sag girl who was overly stubborne about being on time but at the time I worked independantly and was on call 24hours a day. I was very upfront about the fact that I would be cancelling a lot, or late alot due to work. I was on my way to her place, running early of all things and got a call about a fugitive that needed arresting NOW and so I called her and told her the situation and that I had to cancel, I would call her for an update in a couple of hours but I needed to turn my phone off when we found the house as a phone ringing gives away your position quite effectively.
I did just that, called and updated her, that particular recovery was the longest we did strait, ended up in the field for over 48 hours after already being up for about 16.....she was PISSED. I told her I could not date someone who was not accepting of the fact that I would be gone a lot with no prior notice. That my work was my priority and that would not change....the very thingt that attracted her also drove her crazy...go figure.
"Hardly ever late. Been late many times bcoz of the dumb friends who wanted to accompany me. It really irritates me when people have a lazy approach towards time."
YES....I hate this too, I have actually left friends because they wouldn't hurry the F up, just lazy about time and I wasn't going to put other friends off because of it.
YES....I hate this too, I have actually left friends because they wouldn't hurry the F up, just lazy about time and I wasn't going to put other friends off because of it.
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