The Libra cheated.

So this Libra with whom I was in an LDR cheated. I got to know yesterday and confronted him and he would go all about how I was overreacting, it wasn't true yada yada. I wasn't buying his shit, obviously. I told him I'll talk to him later. Now, What would be the meanest thing to do, lol. Should I text him all the evidence, block him from everywhere or just drop him, period. No texts, no calls, no more accusations/why you did it. Just drop?

I'm in no way going to be with him ever.

Go mean girl! Let him know it’s not okay to cheat! Then block him first!

The best revenge is to move on, never spare him another thought, and find happiness with someone else.

Posted by LadyNeptune
The best revenge is to move on, never spare him another thought, and find happiness with someone else.

As much as I don't want, I feel bad. Not heartbroken or anything, just, just bad. For something.

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
So this Libra with whom I was in an LDR cheated. I got to know yesterday and confronted him and he would go all about how I was overreacting, it wasn't true yada yada. I wasn't buying his shit, obviously. I told him I'll talk to him later. Now, What would be the meanest thing to do, lol. Should I text him all the evidence, block him from everywhere or just drop him, period. No texts, no calls, no more accusations/why you did it. Just drop?

I'm in no way going to be with him ever.

i thought that you guys weren't committed to each other? did that change?

I'd ask for the evidence lol.

I've been cheated on in the past and I just walked away.

Life has a way of fucking things up for people who did me wrong.

It's best for you to just move on.

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Posted by pinkbird03
Go mean girl! Let him know it’s not okay to cheat! Then block him first!

Obviously cancer is Satan and want revenge and to be mean...

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He’s going to think what he did is ok and he going to get away with it. I’m all about being honest and teaching them something important.

For example on two separate occasions I made plans to go on a date with one guy. The two dates were about a year apart. Both times he ghosted me. Sooo now recently he kept asking me out on a date and wanted to know why I wouldn’t go. I told him straight up. Because you ghosted me and I don’t trust you. Well he started dating someone else for a few days and instead of ghosting me, he told me. Soooo I think he learned. Maybe lol I think he’s a fuck boy so I don’t care about him.

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Posted by Ilovemyaqua
So this Libra with whom I was in an LDR cheated. I got to know yesterday and confronted him and he would go all about how I was overreacting, it wasn't true yada yada. I wasn't buying his shit, obviously. I told him I'll talk to him later. Now, What would be the meanest thing to do, lol. Should I text him all the evidence, block him from everywhere or just drop him, period. No texts, no calls, no more accusations/why you did it. Just drop?

I'm in no way going to be with him ever.

i thought that you guys weren't committed to each other? did that change?

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That did not. I think we didn't give it a name. We talked about exclusivity. We told we are each other's only blah blah. That he's seeing only me. But yeah, he won't name it. Because he had a side chick already? Maybe. The whole point is, just be fucking honest. I would have understood had he been honest about it, he knows I would have. Why deceive?! It's, his psyche, he wanted more than one at a time, he wanted to cheat.

Posted by Librasetting777
I'd ask for the evidence lol.

Had you been at his place? Okay. So you suggest I should send the evidence and block?

Posted by Ilovemyaqua

Posted by LadyNeptune
The best revenge is to move on, never spare him another thought, and find happiness with someone else.

As much as I don't want, I feel bad. Not heartbroken or anything, just, just bad. For something.

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Of course you feel bad! Betrayal isn’t fun.

Just know there are good dudes out here.

Posted by Ilovemyaqua

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Posted by Ilovemyaqua
So this Libra with whom I was in an LDR cheated. I got to know yesterday and confronted him and he would go all about how I was overreacting, it wasn't true yada yada. I wasn't buying his shit, obviously. I told him I'll talk to him later. Now, What would be the meanest thing to do, lol. Should I text him all the evidence, block him from everywhere or just drop him, period. No texts, no calls, no more accusations/why you did it. Just drop?

I'm in no way going to be with him ever.

i thought that you guys weren't committed to each other? did that change?

That did not. I think we didn't give it a name. We talked about exclusivity. We told we are each other's only blah blah. That he's seeing only me. But yeah, he won't name it. Because he had a side chick already? Maybe. The whole point is, just be fucking honest. I would have understood had he been honest about it, he knows I would have. Why deceive?! It's, his psyche, he wanted more than one at a time, he wanted to cheat.

i'm just confused over this...

Posted by Ilovemyaqua

Posted by jeane
I wouldn't trust us in a ldr.

We had this talk. I told him I know he's very sexually active and as much as I wouldn't like him to sleep with somebody, I cannot expect him not to, for something(between us) that's not even concrete. He didn't deny. He asked if I'll feel bad about it and if I want him to tell me whenever that happens. I told him I wouldn't like it for sure but then I cannot control him anyway, so unless it comes from himself that he wouldn't want to sleep with other people while we're semi-dating, it isn't worth it.

Controlling doesn't last long. I also kinda know that it is kinda not okay to expect people to commit to you when you've not even met after all this started, but it's just that I think I wanna invest and expect him too, which is maybe wrong on my part.

So yeah, Libra or not, I cannot and should not be expecting anybody to commit while we're still testing waters just because I'm ready to take it a little further. I sometimes get troubled, and hence the post. I should be more casual with it and maybe enjoy till it lasts,and make sure I won't carry the baggage after it ends.

And yeah, he also said I'm free to explore too if I want so yeah maybe its an open relationship. But other times he says things of us being together for long and all. So maybe all this is just the Libra charm because when we actually talked about it as I stated above, he clearly was talking about an open relationship.

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you said you couldn't expect him not to sleep with someone else and he even said to you, you are free to be with other people as well.

shitty not to be honest with you in the first place and i would say i am surprised by this but i'm not.

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Posted by Ilovemyaqua
So this Libra with whom I was in an LDR cheated. I got to know yesterday and confronted him and he would go all about how I was overreacting, it wasn't true yada yada. I wasn't buying his shit, obviously. I told him I'll talk to him later. Now, What would be the meanest thing to do, lol. Should I text him all the evidence, block him from everywhere or just drop him, period. No texts, no calls, no more accusations/why you did it. Just drop?

I'm in no way going to be with him ever.

i thought that you guys weren't committed to each other? did that change?

That did not. I think we didn't give it a name. We talked about exclusivity. We told we are each other's only blah blah. That he's seeing only me. But yeah, he won't name it. Because he had a side chick already? Maybe. The whole point is, just be fucking honest. I would have understood had he been honest about it, he knows I would have. Why deceive?! It's, his psyche, he wanted more than one at a time, he wanted to cheat.

i'm just confused over this...

Posted by Ilovemyaqua

Posted by jeane
I wouldn't trust us in a ldr.

We had this talk. I told him I know he's very sexually active and as much as I wouldn't like him to sleep with somebody, I cannot expect him not to, for something(between us) that's not even concrete. He didn't deny. He asked if I'll feel bad about it and if I want him to tell me whenever that happens. I told him I wouldn't like it for sure but then I cannot control him anyway, so unless it comes from himself that he wouldn't want to sleep with other people while we're semi-dating, it isn't worth it.

Controlling doesn't last long. I also kinda know that it is kinda not okay to expect people to commit to you when you've not even met after all this started, but it's just that I think I wanna invest and expect him too, which is maybe wrong on my part.

So yeah, Libra or not, I cannot and should not be expecting anybody to commit while we're still testing waters just because I'm ready to take it a little further. I sometimes get troubled, and hence the post. I should be more casual with it and maybe enjoy till it lasts,and make sure I won't carry the baggage after it ends.

And yeah, he also said I'm free to explore too if I want so yeah maybe its an open relationship. But other times he says things of us being together for long and all. So maybe all this is just the Libra charm because when we actually talked about it as I stated above, he clearly was talking about an open relationship.

you said you couldn't expect him not to sleep with someone else and he even said to you, you are free to be with other people as well.

shitty not to be honest with you in the first place and i would say i am surprised by this but i'm not.

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It's like, whenever I state my concerns about no strings attached, he'll tell me I'm his only. And that would make me fall for him a little more. In the recent past too, I got concerned about some girl at his workplace because he would tell me she was all over him. I told him my concerns, he told me not to worry, he wouldn't be going out with any girl, let alone that girl. Also, he had said to me once - "Ilovemyaqua, I know where you're coming from, I have been at the receiving end too. I know how bad being cheated on feels. I just want you to trust me that I'll never do that. I'm not that person."

Pff.

Ew, I would never date a libra again, the past 3 libra men I've messed with are all ass kissing cheaters.

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
So this Libra with whom I was in an LDR cheated. I got to know yesterday and confronted him and he would go all about how I was overreacting, it wasn't true yada yada. I wasn't buying his shit, obviously. I told him I'll talk to him later. Now, What would be the meanest thing to do, lol. Should I text him all the evidence, block him from everywhere or just drop him, period. No texts, no calls, no more accusations/why you did it. Just drop?

I'm in no way going to be with him ever.

Is it weird that I guessed you were a Taurus before I even clicked on your name to see if you were?

It sounds like he never truly felt like it was a committed relationship, but to you, although you tried to remain calm about the whole freedom thing, you really weren’t, and wanted to be fully committed to each other.

*This is not to blame you. But I’d make sure the guy you are seeing “names the relationship” before you go giving your heart to him and then being upset when he sees other people. Not everyone has the same opinion about this.

Dating can be horrible these days!!