Update on Mr. Libra (Page 2)

My God are u sure u aren't more Gemini— All the Geminis I've ever known (and I know many) are like that....they DETEST being told what and how to do stuff....at least that part I know not to do with them and Librans!!

Perhaps HP, your Libran friend just doesnt want to rock the boat (in his view the boat may be completely different to your views) and as I have learnt, they don't want to upset anybody and i believe family is very important to them *shrugs*

Yes, family is very important to him and I've never knocked that...go back and look at my posts. He mentioned a month or two ago that he was pressured to be pre-med in college, but he didn't want to and that took a lot of convincing from him to smooth it over with his parents. He eventually, however, obtained his Masters and PhD...so he's still a Dr...just not the kind that can write me a prescription. 😛

Seriously though. I can see where nic and chatz are coming from, but why lie? why be a player? Heck, for that matter, if family is so important and he wants to be there for him, why put himself at risk like that?

be there for them, not *him....typo

it's raining here in Houston, and I'm stuck at home wiht wine.
bad

nooooooooooooooooo wine is GOOD 😉

*** I suppose if they are sleeping with ya regularly there's a reason for it.....HP enjoy!!!

Nope. I have slept with guys I really didn't care for one way or another for over a year. Didn't mean anything. Especially when I was younger because it was better to have one regular partner than have many. Didn't shed a tear when those relationships were over because it really meant nothing. (As callous as that sounds.)

You can tell by the way I act. If I am bossing you/them about ... I don't really see them as my partner ... BUT if I am very accomidating and constantly try to make them happy, make plans, act like a partner in public, introduce them as a friend and act like a partner infront of my friends ... THEN you know.

okie doke.

*** He pays all the bills yet has his parents and his sister living with him.

My uncle, Libra, was this way. He dated a woman for seven years but could never get married because of his family obligations. Met someone else, dated her for six months, got engaged, married her and kicked his brother and parents out.

It wasn't intentional. She just wasn't the person for him. He married very late. In his early 40s.

well there goes that theory!!! thanks LS hehehe....hmmmm ok well we will take that one in too.....man you people are confusing LOL

*** introduce them as a friend and act like a partner infront of my friends ... THEN you know.

Oops. That should say introduce them to my friends and act like a partner infront of my friends.

*** man you people are confusing LOL

Not really. You are just looking at it backwards. Just ask yourself if this person is giving you enough to make you happy. Stop looking at the why and ask yourself does this make ME happy? Are MY needs getting met? If this is the best they can offer is it enough for ME?

Mr. Libra is 39

LS that's good food for thought 🙂...thanks again

I actually feel like I fit in quite well with any number of different people, this is part of why I am picky about who my partner will be, they have to fit in with everyone just as easily as I do, they have to be my match. ... but I do agree with Nic on the Don't Tell Me What 2 Do Stuff because I will rebel in the most fabulous way. Once I know what I want, I go after it in my own fashion. I will ask for advice and consider it ... but ... not unlike Frank Sinatra ... I do it my way.

love that independance....much like a Leo reall

No problem chatz.

I have come to care quite a bit about our little group and if anyone of these libra boy boneheads mucks anyone of you up ... well .... I will be pissed.

Houston

39 is good. I am concerned he is using the same lines/games from 4 yrs ago. I also don't get how that girl got in touch with you. After 4 yrs ... why would she care? feels weird to me.

thanks LS....we have a little conversation somewhere around here as to tying them up and taking frustrations out on them LOL....HP and Brats got involved...quite freaky really hehehehe

ok Libran boys don't mess with us ok?? 😉

Yeah, that is a concern too.

You just have to protect your hearts. Don't buy the line because someone is feeding it to you. Examine and re-examine. Don't give them your heart because they ask ... make them PROVE they are worthy of your heart.

You know?

I tend to believe everyone has good intentions and means well. But I know I have made mistakes and hurt people intentional or not. The truth is we are all wounded animals and wounded animals shouldn't be trusted until they prove tame.

"I have come to care quite a bit about our little group and if anyone of these libra boy boneheads mucks anyone of you up ... well .... I will be pissed."

Hell hath no fury like that of the Libra woman.

Nic, you've heard of the Taurean fury, right?

Oh, quite familiar with it. My sister is a Taurus and our words draw blood when we get into it. You Taurus gilrs can get down right nasty. I love it. Not when it is for real though....I'll try and dodge those bullets, which unintintionally ends up pissing you guys off more.

Tell that to Mr. Libra. Actually, wait, he already knows.

But he doesn't know that I know what I know....

nor does he know what we know you know he doesn't know LOL....hmmm very confusing :s

Hey Nic

Odd, my brother is a taurus.

chatz, i've had too much wine to say that out loud, much less to myself...it's a friggin' tongue twister

LOL....I had to type that out a few times - a few typos but got there in the end....*hic*

😢

I just got home from my mommy's place. I have looked. Alas ... no wine.

😢

I'm envious.

just think of the hangover you won't have and the typos you won't make?? 🙂

I'd share some wine with you but you are too far away 😢

thanks chatz.

damn distance.

heehee i made ya'll look

doh, wrong trhead

lmao!!!

HP is cut off!

lmao!!!

"Hey Nic

Odd, my brother is a taurus."

My sister last couple of boyfriends and romantic interrests have been Libras and she isn't into astrology really so it was pure chance. She is interrested in another one now, I keep asking her when she is going to learn her lesson.

what, ar eyou saying that Libras and Taurus don't work out? 😛

Not at all 😉

"You can tell by the way I act. If I am bossing you/them about ... I don't really see them as my partner ... BUT if I am very accomidating and constantly try to make them happy, make plans, act like a partner in public, introduce them as a friend and act like a partner infront of my friends ... THEN you know"

Hahah my libra use to do all of that all the time. But I always would tense up and get nervous like I didn't belong under his arm. Hmm he probably sensed that. Wow, I answered my own question....

Oh and on monday he asked me to come hang out with him and all his friends and I simply said No. And he was like Oh. And I wonder why he rejected me....God, I'm such a sag lol

HAHAHA boss you around really? That's so funny. I like to annoy mine sometimes, it's really fun hehe, I'm not gonna lie😉