What do you think??

Posted by JadeAlexander
I think he’s trying to play it cool... he’s put out a lot of effort... maybe he’s waiting for you to reach out?

I think so too! A lot of my friends are with really good libra men. I say (to OP) take it easy and let things flow or contact him. I mean he has already contacted you several times.

Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

just send him a text.

Posted by jeane
just send him a text.

lol..... my own mind prevents me from doing so

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Posted by wildflower
Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

Yeah reach out, Seems for me when I text first it's just not appreciated or something because they never text back like wtf happen and never hear from them so for me it's like I got used(not sex wise) again but that's could be my crazy mind over thinking things.

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Hmm.... but I think it was clear I had a good time with him? my mind is killing me right now LOL Whats the best way to approach him, without coming on too strong? Or do yall like that? looool. I just got out of rollercoaster hell with a Taurus and have never been with a libra, im scared!

So did you text him or what?

Posted by wildflower
Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

I didn't text him but I did send him a video on IG of something I thought he'd like, we had a conversation after that. I told him I had a good time and it was nice to meet him, he said he felt the same. So thats good. We did keep talking after that but he seemed to be busy, said he was paying bills/working and I had gotten off work so I just went with the flow. He said it was a good thing I started early and I told him that true, I didn't know where to start! referring to how much stuff I had to do. He hasn't responded since. But I figure I should go with the flow for now. He might need space? Idk, idk how libras are. But we did speak about our exes and I know its a factor thats present in both our lives, which my scorp instinct or maybe overthinking is telling me to let him process perhaps?

Posted by puhleeze

Posted by wildflower
Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

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I agree, I would have liked for him to check if I got home ok... We both rode uber to the wine bar which is why he didn't drive/or offer. The thing is when I was leaving, he was hugging me and didn't want to let go. He said mannn, I don't want tonight to end.. Come over to my place, we can just watch movies. But I told him I had to work at 6am and my uber just got there so I said ok bye and ran lol I didn't give him much of a good bye but honestly, I don't think overanalyzing the ending or night will help too much if facts are facts and he didn't reach out afterwards. ya know?? Im just curious as to how libras are.. Do they just charm you and go about their day—

Posted by Rozaeon
" Do they charm you and go about their day ? " This question doesn't make any sense

haha let me reference you, I last dated a Taurus who did not leave me from his sight after we met. I've date fire signs too, who also did not leave me out of their sight.... so this is just a bit odd is all. I do know 2 libra guys and have noticed they are charmers, but I wonder how much of that is REAL? For example, people who call strangers or newly met people, my love or say how much they miss you.. Its like I just met you, I am NOT your love or you can't possibly miss me...yet. I don't say things unless they are true to core (just an example)

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Posted by Rozaeon
" Do they charm you and go about their day ? " This question doesn't make any sense

haha let me reference you, I last dated a Taurus who did not leave me from his sight after we met. I've date fire signs too, who also did not leave me out of their sight.... so this is just a bit odd is all. I do know 2 libra guys and have noticed they are charmers, but I wonder how much of that is REAL? For example, people who call strangers or newly met people, my love or say how much they miss you.. Its like I just met you, I am NOT your love or you can't possibly miss me...yet. I don't say things unless they are true to core (just an example)

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A wise Libran once told me - "Talk is cheap and Libras get words on discount."

Keep that in mind, and keep those Stinger senses on alert. They are there to detect bullturd.

Posted by Metaworld
From my perspective as a Libra I choose not to date online any longer for exactly the experience you are having. It hurt, it was constant disappointment, very hurtful, gut-wrenching, emotionally draining, emotionally devastating experience after the next after the next after the next. Most of the people, girl I mean most of the men, I mean most most most of the men were already in committed relationships and were just looking for a hookup. I hear good stories online from strangers, but none of my friends have had positive experiences.

I hope I don't sound morose wildflower; but it sounds to me like he wanted a 'hook-up' and when you didn't 'put-out' he lost interest. If I were him I would be confused by your refusal to go home that night. You stayed out until three separate places closed - like 'hook-up girls' you drank all night and bar-hopped like "hook-up girls" with all that drinking you probably got a little wasted like "hook-up girls" but then when it was time to hook up, you want to be treated like a lady?

I could be wrong, I hope so. If you hear from him again, try to reinvent yourself. Scorpios are very good with that. 🙂

Don’t use Scorpios name in vein!

Ever! 👿 unless you are the one!!!!!

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Metaworld
From my perspective as a Libra I choose not to date online any longer for exactly the experience you are having. It hurt, it was constant disappointment, very hurtful, gut-wrenching, emotionally draining, emotionally devastating experience after the next after the next after the next. Most of the people, girl I mean most of the men, I mean most most most of the men were already in committed relationships and were just looking for a hookup. I hear good stories online from strangers, but none of my friends have had positive experiences.

Don’t use Scorpios name in vein!

Ever! 👿 unless you are the one!!!!!

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The OP states "

Im a Scorpio (and overthink everything haha) Oct27 and He is Libra Oct21?"

So address your concern there.

From my perspective as a Libra I choose not to date online any longer for exactly the experience you are having. It hurt, it was constant disappointment, very hurtful, gut-wrenching, emotionally draining, emotionally devastating experience after the next after the next after the next. Most of the people, girl I mean most of the men, I mean most most most of the men were already in committed relationships and were just looking for a hookup. I hear good stories online from strangers, but none of my friends have had positive experiences.

I hope I don't sound morose wildflower; but it sounds to me like he wanted a 'hook-up' and when you didn't 'put-out' he lost interest. If I were him I would be confused by your refusal to go home that night. You stayed out all night until three separated bars closed - like 'hook-up girls' you drank all night and bar-hopped like "hook-up girls" with all that drinking you probably got a little wasted like "hook-up girls" but then when it was time to hook up, you want to be treated like a lady?

I could be wrong, I hope so. If you hear from him again, try to reinvent yourself. Scorpios are very good with that. 🙂

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Posted by Metaworld
From my perspective as a Libra I choose not to date online any longer for exactly the experience you are having. It hurt, it was constant disappointment, very hurtful, gut-wrenching, emotionally draining, emotionally devastating experience after the next after the next after the next. Most of the people, girl I mean most of the men, I mean most most most of the men were already in committed relationships and were just looking for a hookup. I hear good stories online from strangers, but none of my friends have had positive experiences.

Don’t use Scorpios name in vein!

Ever! 👿 unless you are the one!!!!!

The OP states "

Im a Scorpio (and overthink everything haha) Oct27 and He is Libra Oct21?"

So address your concern there.

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I know she is a Scorpio! Are you?

So if you are not - keep out! Just a suggestion...

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Posted by Metaworld
From my perspective as a Libra I choose not to date online any longer for exactly the experience you are having. It hurt, it was constant disappointment, very hurtful, gut-wrenching, emotionally draining, emotionally devastating experience after the next after the next after the next. Most of the people, girl I mean most of the men, I mean most most most of the men were already in committed relationships and were just looking for a hookup. I hear good stories online from strangers, but none of my friends have had positive experiences.

Don’t use Scorpios name in vein!

Ever! 👿 unless you are the one!!!!!

I know she is a Scorpio! Are you?

So if you are not - keep out! Just a suggestion...

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I know she is a Scorpio! Are you?

So if you are not - keep out! Just a suggestion...

I am a Libra and this is the Libra forum; from my understanding you are Gemini married to a Capricorn and sleeping with a married Scorpio man. With all due respect I don't think you are the most qualified to offer moral advice. In the 48 laws of power - Law #9 is Win Through Action, Not By Arguments. Law #10 is called "Infection" Do not associate with the "unlucky or unhappy". I will legislate law #9 right now 🙂

Amazing!

I mean how much you aware of me and how much I have NO idea who you are...

And nothing in my post was a moral advise. And even if it was - me living wrong doesn’t mean I know what’s right.

As my cousin Scorpio said hiring a maid - if my house a mess it doesn’t mean I don’t know what clean house means - so don’t slack if you want to keep the job!

I am not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, So sorry if this offends anyone, i was just giving my opinion like everyone else. This is a public forum, and the Libra section and I have been on this site under a different name for four years.

A queen doesn't stay out all night long with a man she does not know. She leaves mystery she gives him just a little, then removes herself so he can pursue and strongly desire her.

You stated you didn't want a hook-up maybe he didn't either, but all your actions suggested otherwise. You exemplified the behavior of a hook-up. Drinking, bar-hopping, making out, with a stranger you met online.

Your behavior and words could have confused him. So he is probably balancing his scales. He will return for the hook-up, and then he will disappear just like he disappeared already. I would chalk it up as a lesson and keep it pushin. Just one of many different opinions. Take what you like and leave the rest.

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Posted by Rozaeon
" Do they charm you and go about their day ? " This question doesn't make any sense

haha let me reference you, I last dated a Taurus who did not leave me from his sight after we met. I've date fire signs too, who also did not leave me out of their sight.... so this is just a bit odd is all. I do know 2 libra guys and have noticed they are charmers, but I wonder how much of that is REAL? For example, people who call strangers or newly met people, my love or say how much they miss you.. Its like I just met you, I am NOT your love or you can't possibly miss me...yet. I don't say things unless they are true to core (just an example)

A wise Libran once told me - "Talk is cheap and Libras get words on discount."

Keep that in mind, and keep those Stinger senses on alert. They are there to detect bullturd.

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True, Im good at catching the BS :-P

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Posted by Rozaeon
" Do they charm you and go about their day ? " This question doesn't make any sense

haha let me reference you, I last dated a Taurus who did not leave me from his sight after we met. I've date fire signs too, who also did not leave me out of their sight.... so this is just a bit odd is all. I do know 2 libra guys and have noticed they are charmers, but I wonder how much of that is REAL? For example, people who call strangers or newly met people, my love or say how much they miss you.. Its like I just met you, I am NOT your love or you can't possibly miss me...yet. I don't say things unless they are true to core (just an example)

A wise Libran once told me - "Talk is cheap and Libras get words on discount."

Keep that in mind, and keep those Stinger senses on alert. They are there to detect bullturd.

True, Im good at catching the BS :-P

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We are wildflower, except Librans are very good at bullturding. I have seen my male friend Librans, take wonderful ladies for a spin. For the sake of their own ego, the lesser ones that is.

There are genuine ones as well, I know of two who are in a decade long marriage with their respective Stinger SO.

Has there been any updates regarding your situation ?

Posted by Metaworld
I am not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, So sorry if this offends anyone, i was just giving my opinion like everyone else. This is a public forum, and the Libra section and I have been on this site under a different name for four years.

A queen doesn't stay out all night long with a man she does not know. She leaves mystery she gives him just a little, then removes herself so he can pursue and strongly desire her.

You stated you didn't want a hook-up maybe he didn't either, but all your actions suggested otherwise. You exemplified the behavior of a hook-up. Drinking, bar-hopping, making out, with a stranger you met online.

Your behavior and words could have confused him. So he is probably balancing his scales. He will return for the hook-up, and then he will disappear just like he disappeared already. I would chalk it up as a lesson and keep it pushin. Just one of many different opinions. Take what you like and leave the rest.

Well... you are wrong. Thank you for your feedback but perhaps you read into it much more than need be and based on your life experience, your perspective is jaded. For one, I want to share with you that dating is not horrible at all, I specialized in bridal beauty for many years and I'd say about 80% of the brides I had met their partner online, which is why I was open to it. But it was NOT for me because I am just not the best at keeping up with people and I had too many guys message me at once, all expecting my attention. It was overwhelming in the sense that I had no interest or desire in that amount of attention. As a Scorpio, I am private and like it that way. I'd say it is the energy and vibe YOU put into it. Manifest greatness, not disappointment.

You are also wrong in the fact that I did not get wasted, I had a total of 2 drinks. One a lovely glass of Viognier from Spain and one pineapple vodka. We just talked and laughed for that long, got to know each other, our families and our backgrounds. Don't know if you have ever been to a wine bar but being from a lively city like SF, wine bars are a great place to meet someone, they are classy and have lovely music, its that or coffee. But I wasn't going to grab coffee at 8pm. I had also been evading him for a few weeks since I had been busy. He was a gentleman and I AM a lady so for you to reference me as a "hook up girl" is offensive but since it is not true, it doesn't hurt one bit. Also, I didn't make out with him, not sure where you got that......... He was being affectionate as in he tried to hold my hand and hug me goodbye LOL but I am too reserved for that still. However, I know being out late could have perhaps given you that impression. It was just an encounter meant to be quick that lasted longer than expected. It was a Tuesday, after all.

All in all, I have heard from him again and with the holidays, he seems to have been busy with his businesses and sick, we have also been talking since. Also we both come from traditional backgrounds, so I didn't get the "trying to fuck you" vibe. He was sincere. As I mentioned, I got out of a rollercoaster hell with a Taurus and I prefer taking any new encounter very very slow. Hopefully he can understand that, he is a bit older than me (3yrs) and also already stable in his life, so I know he is looking for something right in his life. Im just curious about Libras, since I don't know too many... although I am a libra moon.

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Posted by Metaworld
From my perspective as a Libra I choose not to date online any longer for exactly the experience you are having. It hurt, it was constant disappointment, very hurtful, gut-wrenching, emotionally draining, emotionally devastating experience after the next after the next after the next. Most of the people, girl I mean most of the men, I mean most most most of the men were already in committed relationships and were just looking for a hookup. I hear good stories online from strangers, but none of my friends have had positive experiences.

Don’t use Scorpios name in vein!

Ever! 👿 unless you are the one!!!!!

The OP states "

Im a Scorpio (and overthink everything haha) Oct27 and He is Libra Oct21?"

So address your concern there.

I know she is a Scorpio! Are you?

So if you are not - keep out! Just a suggestion...

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Thanks love 🙂

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Posted by Metaworld
From my perspective as a Libra I choose not to date online any longer for exactly the experience you are having. It hurt, it was constant disappointment, very hurtful, gut-wrenching, emotionally draining, emotionally devastating experience after the next after the next after the next. Most of the people, girl I mean most of the men, I mean most most most of the men were already in committed relationships and were just looking for a hookup. I hear good stories online from strangers, but none of my friends have had positive experiences.

Don’t use Scorpios name in vein!

Ever! 👿 unless you are the one!!!!!

I know she is a Scorpio! Are you?

So if you are not - keep out! Just a suggestion...

I know she is a Scorpio! Are you?

So if you are not - keep out! Just a suggestion...

I am a Libra and this is the Libra forum; from my understanding you are Gemini married to a Capricorn and sleeping with a married Scorpio man. With all due respect I don't think you are the most qualified to offer moral advice. In the 48 laws of power - Law #9 is Win Through Action, Not By Arguments. Law #10 is called "Infection" Do not associate with the "unlucky or unhappy". I will legislate law #9 right now 🙂

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This is just plain nasty. Just the simple fact that you'd throw such vile comments at someone just popping in on a friendly forum to undervalue what they say is gross.

You need to check yo'self before you wreck yo'self.

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Posted by wildflower
Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

I agree, I would have liked for him to check if I got home ok... We both rode uber to the wine bar which is why he didn't drive/or offer. The thing is when I was leaving, he was hugging me and didn't want to let go. He said mannn, I don't want tonight to end.. Come over to my place, we can just watch movies. But I told him I had to work at 6am and my uber just got there so I said ok bye and ran lol I didn't give him much of a good bye but honestly, I don't think overanalyzing the ending or night will help too much if facts are facts and he didn't reach out afterwards. ya know?? Im just curious as to how libras are.. Do they just charm you and go about their day—

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There is nothing wrong if you have the initiative to text him - hey, I got home safely, thank you for your time! It's common sense, since he cannot guess how far you live and maybe you went straight to sleep (as you said you had work starting at 6 am). We don't like to disturb. Whenever I go out with my Aquarius, the one that goes home the latest sends a message, sort of "I am fine and safe at home and sweet dreams and obviously I had a wonderful time, as always". It doesn't matter we have been knowing each other for years now. You can also tell him to send a message when he arrives home. It's simple. Just communicate. We listen, but we do not read minds 🙂

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Posted by Rozaeon
" Do they charm you and go about their day ? " This question doesn't make any sense

haha let me reference you, I last dated a Taurus who did not leave me from his sight after we met. I've date fire signs too, who also did not leave me out of their sight.... so this is just a bit odd is all. I do know 2 libra guys and have noticed they are charmers, but I wonder how much of that is REAL? For example, people who call strangers or newly met people, my love or say how much they miss you.. Its like I just met you, I am NOT your love or you can't possibly miss me...yet. I don't say things unless they are true to core (just an example)

A wise Libran once told me - "Talk is cheap and Libras get words on discount."

Keep that in mind, and keep those Stinger senses on alert. They are there to detect bullturd.

True, Im good at catching the BS :-P

We are wildflower, except Librans are very good at bullturding. I have seen my male friend Librans, take wonderful ladies for a spin. For the sake of their own ego, the lesser ones that is.

There are genuine ones as well, I know of two who are in a decade long marriage with their respective Stinger SO.

Has there been any updates regarding your situation ?

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Haha yes, I can assume.... I am a libra moon and close to Libra cusp so I know there are many things we have in common. But I am a scorpio so I feel the LIESSSSSS lol

Update is he has reached out and we have been talking. 🙂 Must be the holidays that has everyone crazy, including myself. He said hes really sick, so I have been talking to him throughout the day, trying to cheer him up although I like the fact that he still jokes around a lot. I think he's a good one!!!!

Im taking earlier advice to not generalize and let him show his true colors, Im in no rush 🙂

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Posted by wildflower
Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

I agree, I would have liked for him to check if I got home ok... We both rode uber to the wine bar which is why he didn't drive/or offer. The thing is when I was leaving, he was hugging me and didn't want to let go. He said mannn, I don't want tonight to end.. Come over to my place, we can just watch movies. But I told him I had to work at 6am and my uber just got there so I said ok bye and ran lol I didn't give him much of a good bye but honestly, I don't think overanalyzing the ending or night will help too much if facts are facts and he didn't reach out afterwards. ya know?? Im just curious as to how libras are.. Do they just charm you and go about their day—

There is nothing wrong if you have the initiative to text him - hey, I got home safely, thank you for your time! It's common sense, since he cannot guess how far you live and maybe you went straight to sleep (as you said you had work starting at 6 am). We don't like to disturb. Whenever I go out with my Aquarius, the one that goes home the latest sends a message, sort of "I am fine and safe at home and sweet dreams and obviously I had a wonderful time, as always". It doesn't matter we have been knowing each other for years now. You can also tell him to send a message when he arrives home. It's simple. Just communicate. We listen, but we do not read minds 🙂

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True, I like that... Usually, I do love when people let me know if they got home safe.. maybe its not something he does - in life. So I'll try it next time 🙂 I have also noticed that he doesn't like to bug, I told him on Tuesday that I was leaving friday to my family's home, and then he gave me space Friday I guess because then a while after, he messaged me asking how it was at my family's home. So it was nice he remembered! I do have to work on my communication, I know its important, I had an aqua friend who would alwaysssss talk about how important it was but I have such a hard time with it!!! :/ I don't know whats relevant and whats not until I pop

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Posted by wildflower
Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

I agree, I would have liked for him to check if I got home ok... We both rode uber to the wine bar which is why he didn't drive/or offer. The thing is when I was leaving, he was hugging me and didn't want to let go. He said mannn, I don't want tonight to end.. Come over to my place, we can just watch movies. But I told him I had to work at 6am and my uber just got there so I said ok bye and ran lol I didn't give him much of a good bye but honestly, I don't think overanalyzing the ending or night will help too much if facts are facts and he didn't reach out afterwards. ya know?? Im just curious as to how libras are.. Do they just charm you and go about their day—

There is nothing wrong if you have the initiative to text him - hey, I got home safely, thank you for your time! It's common sense, since he cannot guess how far you live and maybe you went straight to sleep (as you said you had work starting at 6 am). We don't like to disturb. Whenever I go out with my Aquarius, the one that goes home the latest sends a message, sort of "I am fine and safe at home and sweet dreams and obviously I had a wonderful time, as always". It doesn't matter we have been knowing each other for years now. You can also tell him to send a message when he arrives home. It's simple. Just communicate. We listen, but we do not read minds 🙂

True, I like that... Usually, I do love when people let me know if they got home safe.. maybe its not something he does - in life. So I'll try it next time 🙂 I have also noticed that he doesn't like to bug, I told him on Tuesday that I was leaving friday to my family's home, and then he gave me space Friday I guess because then a while after, he messaged me asking how it was at my family's home. So it was nice he remembered! I do have to work on my communication, I know its important, I had an aqua friend who would alwaysssss talk about how important it was but I have such a hard time with it!!! :/ I don't know whats relevant and whats not until I pop

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It could be a bad habit of ours. I have discussed this with other Stingers as well (with different influences in our charts).

We sometimes, get so utterly caught up in life, focused on what we are doing. We forget that others, may be waiting to hear back from us. Keeping in contact, is something that feels difficult, a burden for me at times. Yet the irony is, we expect it of others.

Perhaps, learn to respond, even if it is a quick and short message, or even call. That is what I have learned to do, at least so the other person knows I have indeed kept in touch. That I have not ignored them.

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Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

I agree, I would have liked for him to check if I got home ok... We both rode uber to the wine bar which is why he didn't drive/or offer. The thing is when I was leaving, he was hugging me and didn't want to let go. He said mannn, I don't want tonight to end.. Come over to my place, we can just watch movies. But I told him I had to work at 6am and my uber just got there so I said ok bye and ran lol I didn't give him much of a good bye but honestly, I don't think overanalyzing the ending or night will help too much if facts are facts and he didn't reach out afterwards. ya know?? Im just curious as to how libras are.. Do they just charm you and go about their day—

There is nothing wrong if you have the initiative to text him - hey, I got home safely, thank you for your time! It's common sense, since he cannot guess how far you live and maybe you went straight to sleep (as you said you had work starting at 6 am). We don't like to disturb. Whenever I go out with my Aquarius, the one that goes home the latest sends a message, sort of "I am fine and safe at home and sweet dreams and obviously I had a wonderful time, as always". It doesn't matter we have been knowing each other for years now. You can also tell him to send a message when he arrives home. It's simple. Just communicate. We listen, but we do not read minds 🙂

True, I like that... Usually, I do love when people let me know if they got home safe.. maybe its not something he does - in life. So I'll try it next time 🙂 I have also noticed that he doesn't like to bug, I told him on Tuesday that I was leaving friday to my family's home, and then he gave me space Friday I guess because then a while after, he messaged me asking how it was at my family's home. So it was nice he remembered! I do have to work on my communication, I know its important, I had an aqua friend who would alwaysssss talk about how important it was but I have such a hard time with it!!! :/ I don't know whats relevant and whats not until I pop

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So glad you are talking! And yes I know people who’ve met online and married. Plenty! So let’s keep hopes up! ❤️

All in all, I have heard from him again and with the holidays, he seems to have been busy with his businesses and sick, we have also been talking since.

Wildflower you are really naive. Sorry but you are; so since you got nasty I decided to take out the cards. Within 30 days he will absolutely gone from your life. He is not busy with his business he is busy with his wife - she is coming as a fire sign, you are coming in his mind as a hook-up. He is in a full-fledged committed relationship with another woman with whom he has no intention of leaving.

First card - 3 of swords - a third party situation

Second card - 9 of swords reversed - they are having problems and he felt like you wasting his time.

Third card - queen of wands - crowing the reading - his wife/ woman who wants to make his wife.

Fifth card - King of cups - your energy - there will be charming communication

How he sees you - 8 of coins reversed - someone he is not going to invest any energy - as he already has a situation where he gives his all.

His wife - she feel betrayed by his charming ways and proclivity towards other women.

His fear - death reversed - that you won't go away.

answer queen of Coins reversed - this is a married man or a man who is heavily deeply committed to a fire sign with whom he has been with for a long time and in love with. Queen of Coins is usually an earth sign but it can also represent a woman in a man's corner who he is not leaving.

How he feels about you - the Fool reversed - someone who is not taking seriously, or taking a leap of faith with.

What does he want from you?- Page of reversed - nothing

WHat is the final outcome - Hermit.

He will be out of the picture in less than 29 days. Now i am done arguing I will let the craft that i have practiced for 15 years speak for itself. I have lost interest in this but MARK MY WORD. 🙂

Since you wanted to be nasty about online dating I pulled your cards for 2018. You will have no good luck. Just one bad experience after the next. Your love cards 7 of wands and 4 of swords. PATHETIC!

So try acting like a lady and be nice to strangers cuz so far it appears your love life online is fucked.

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Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

I agree, I would have liked for him to check if I got home ok... We both rode uber to the wine bar which is why he didn't drive/or offer. The thing is when I was leaving, he was hugging me and didn't want to let go. He said mannn, I don't want tonight to end.. Come over to my place, we can just watch movies. But I told him I had to work at 6am and my uber just got there so I said ok bye and ran lol I didn't give him much of a good bye but honestly, I don't think overanalyzing the ending or night will help too much if facts are facts and he didn't reach out afterwards. ya know?? Im just curious as to how libras are.. Do they just charm you and go about their day—

There is nothing wrong if you have the initiative to text him - hey, I got home safely, thank you for your time! It's common sense, since he cannot guess how far you live and maybe you went straight to sleep (as you said you had work starting at 6 am). We don't like to disturb. Whenever I go out with my Aquarius, the one that goes home the latest sends a message, sort of "I am fine and safe at home and sweet dreams and obviously I had a wonderful time, as always". It doesn't matter we have been knowing each other for years now. You can also tell him to send a message when he arrives home. It's simple. Just communicate. We listen, but we do not read minds 🙂

True, I like that... Usually, I do love when people let me know if they got home safe.. maybe its not something he does - in life. So I'll try it next time 🙂 I have also noticed that he doesn't like to bug, I told him on Tuesday that I was leaving friday to my family's home, and then he gave me space Friday I guess because then a while after, he messaged me asking how it was at my family's home. So it was nice he remembered! I do have to work on my communication, I know its important, I had an aqua friend who would alwaysssss talk about how important it was but I have such a hard time with it!!! :/ I don't know whats relevant and whats not until I pop

It could be a bad habit of ours. I have discussed this with other Stingers as well (with different influences in our charts).

We sometimes, get so utterly caught up in life, focused on what we are doing. We forget that others, may be waiting to hear back from us. Keeping in contact, is something that feels difficult, a burden for me at times. Yet the irony is, we expect it of others.

Perhaps, learn to respond, even if it is a quick and short message, or even call. That is what I have learned to do, at least so the other person knows I have indeed kept in touch. That I have not ignored them.

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Yea! I agree, I need to be more pro-active on that.. Im terrible at responding, maybe because I tend to really zone in on whats most important at that time... Also phones are annoying LOL But I do expect instant responses!! haha whyyyy

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Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

I agree, I would have liked for him to check if I got home ok... We both rode uber to the wine bar which is why he didn't drive/or offer. The thing is when I was leaving, he was hugging me and didn't want to let go. He said mannn, I don't want tonight to end.. Come over to my place, we can just watch movies. But I told him I had to work at 6am and my uber just got there so I said ok bye and ran lol I didn't give him much of a good bye but honestly, I don't think overanalyzing the ending or night will help too much if facts are facts and he didn't reach out afterwards. ya know?? Im just curious as to how libras are.. Do they just charm you and go about their day—

There is nothing wrong if you have the initiative to text him - hey, I got home safely, thank you for your time! It's common sense, since he cannot guess how far you live and maybe you went straight to sleep (as you said you had work starting at 6 am). We don't like to disturb. Whenever I go out with my Aquarius, the one that goes home the latest sends a message, sort of "I am fine and safe at home and sweet dreams and obviously I had a wonderful time, as always". It doesn't matter we have been knowing each other for years now. You can also tell him to send a message when he arrives home. It's simple. Just communicate. We listen, but we do not read minds 🙂

True, I like that... Usually, I do love when people let me know if they got home safe.. maybe its not something he does - in life. So I'll try it next time 🙂 I have also noticed that he doesn't like to bug, I told him on Tuesday that I was leaving friday to my family's home, and then he gave me space Friday I guess because then a while after, he messaged me asking how it was at my family's home. So it was nice he remembered! I do have to work on my communication, I know its important, I had an aqua friend who would alwaysssss talk about how important it was but I have such a hard time with it!!! :/ I don't know whats relevant and whats not until I pop

It could be a bad habit of ours. I have discussed this with other Stingers as well (with different influences in our charts).

We sometimes, get so utterly caught up in life, focused on what we are doing. We forget that others, may be waiting to hear back from us. Keeping in contact, is something that feels difficult, a burden for me at times. Yet the irony is, we expect it of others.

Perhaps, learn to respond, even if it is a quick and short message, or even call. That is what I have learned to do, at least so the other person knows I have indeed kept in touch. That I have not ignored them.

Yea! I agree, I need to be more pro-active on that.. Im terrible at responding, maybe because I tend to really zone in on whats most important at that time... Also phones are annoying LOL But I do expect instant responses!! haha whyyyy

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I have come to find messaging annoying. Yes, I adore writing but sometimes it is simply easier calling. It would take me paragraphs to write something, I could say in a few minutes.

The terrible thing is, we sometimes do see a message, thought about responding. Then something else, such as work, takes our attention away, and we forget to write back. It was not that those people were not important to us, or were not on our minds. On the contrary, we often think of those we care about, but actually communicating that. We sometimes, forget it. That hurts people, we should be more empathetic about it. Even though, there was no ill intent to harm.

It is awful, truly. Yet, we will moan about slow responses, wondering why people are taking so much of our time to reply because we want to move on and do something else.

We are such hypocrites. 😂

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Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

I agree, I would have liked for him to check if I got home ok... We both rode uber to the wine bar which is why he didn't drive/or offer. The thing is when I was leaving, he was hugging me and didn't want to let go. He said mannn, I don't want tonight to end.. Come over to my place, we can just watch movies. But I told him I had to work at 6am and my uber just got there so I said ok bye and ran lol I didn't give him much of a good bye but honestly, I don't think overanalyzing the ending or night will help too much if facts are facts and he didn't reach out afterwards. ya know?? Im just curious as to how libras are.. Do they just charm you and go about their day—

There is nothing wrong if you have the initiative to text him - hey, I got home safely, thank you for your time! It's common sense, since he cannot guess how far you live and maybe you went straight to sleep (as you said you had work starting at 6 am). We don't like to disturb. Whenever I go out with my Aquarius, the one that goes home the latest sends a message, sort of "I am fine and safe at home and sweet dreams and obviously I had a wonderful time, as always". It doesn't matter we have been knowing each other for years now. You can also tell him to send a message when he arrives home. It's simple. Just communicate. We listen, but we do not read minds 🙂

True, I like that... Usually, I do love when people let me know if they got home safe.. maybe its not something he does - in life. So I'll try it next time 🙂 I have also noticed that he doesn't like to bug, I told him on Tuesday that I was leaving friday to my family's home, and then he gave me space Friday I guess because then a while after, he messaged me asking how it was at my family's home. So it was nice he remembered! I do have to work on my communication, I know its important, I had an aqua friend who would alwaysssss talk about how important it was but I have such a hard time with it!!! :/ I don't know whats relevant and whats not until I pop

It could be a bad habit of ours. I have discussed this with other Stingers as well (with different influences in our charts).

We sometimes, get so utterly caught up in life, focused on what we are doing. We forget that others, may be waiting to hear back from us. Keeping in contact, is something that feels difficult, a burden for me at times. Yet the irony is, we expect it of others.

Perhaps, learn to respond, even if it is a quick and short message, or even call. That is what I have learned to do, at least so the other person knows I have indeed kept in touch. That I have not ignored them.

Yea! I agree, I need to be more pro-active on that.. Im terrible at responding, maybe because I tend to really zone in on whats most important at that time... Also phones are annoying LOL But I do expect instant responses!! haha whyyyy

I have come to find messaging annoying. Yes, I adore writing but sometimes it is simply easier calling. It would take me paragraphs to write something, I could say in a few minutes.

The terrible thing is, we sometimes do see a message, thought about responding. Then something else, such as work, takes our attention away, and we forget to write back. It was not that those people were not important to us, or were not on our minds. On the contrary, we often think of those we care about, but actually communicating that. We sometimes, forget it. That hurts people, we should be more empathetic about it. Even though, there was no ill intent to harm.

It is awful, truly. Yet, we will moan about slow responses, wondering why people are taking so much of our time to reply because we want to move on and do something else.

We are such hypocrites. 😂

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hahahaha I agree!! I'll catch myself doing the same thing although everyone in my life is now used to it and doesn't take is so personally.. Also, I think this day and age where we expect 24/7 instant and constant interaction is to blame. Like, it really shouldn't be like that. We are too involved with our phones if you ask me!!!!!!! I imagine back when they didn't exist people would somehow survive 😉 I prefer calling, I may start writing letters. I bought a stamp with wax lol Im so extra

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Really?? You guys think this? I feel that he would've contacted me again if he was feeling it though..... Is it cool for me to reach out to him?? I am feeling confused haha why would he need to play it cool?

He is trying to play cool or not but he should have checked if you reached home safe, after all you were with him and left late. It was his duty to call. Or he should have at least said let me know when you reach home. did he say that? Also could he have offered to drop you home? It seems like he wanted you stay at his place, but that is odd, because it was your first date. Maybe he thought if it gets late you would stay over? Maybe you should have left a little bit early so he would not have any expectation of you spending the night? In any case he should have checked you reached home. You need to observe more if he is genuine or not maybe?

I agree, I would have liked for him to check if I got home ok... We both rode uber to the wine bar which is why he didn't drive/or offer. The thing is when I was leaving, he was hugging me and didn't want to let go. He said mannn, I don't want tonight to end.. Come over to my place, we can just watch movies. But I told him I had to work at 6am and my uber just got there so I said ok bye and ran lol I didn't give him much of a good bye but honestly, I don't think overanalyzing the ending or night will help too much if facts are facts and he didn't reach out afterwards. ya know?? Im just curious as to how libras are.. Do they just charm you and go about their day—

There is nothing wrong if you have the initiative to text him - hey, I got home safely, thank you for your time! It's common sense, since he cannot guess how far you live and maybe you went straight to sleep (as you said you had work starting at 6 am). We don't like to disturb. Whenever I go out with my Aquarius, the one that goes home the latest sends a message, sort of "I am fine and safe at home and sweet dreams and obviously I had a wonderful time, as always". It doesn't matter we have been knowing each other for years now. You can also tell him to send a message when he arrives home. It's simple. Just communicate. We listen, but we do not read minds 🙂

True, I like that... Usually, I do love when people let me know if they got home safe.. maybe its not something he does - in life. So I'll try it next time 🙂 I have also noticed that he doesn't like to bug, I told him on Tuesday that I was leaving friday to my family's home, and then he gave me space Friday I guess because then a while after, he messaged me asking how it was at my family's home. So it was nice he remembered! I do have to work on my communication, I know its important, I had an aqua friend who would alwaysssss talk about how important it was but I have such a hard time with it!!! :/ I don't know whats relevant and whats not until I pop

It could be a bad habit of ours. I have discussed this with other Stingers as well (with different influences in our charts).

We sometimes, get so utterly caught up in life, focused on what we are doing. We forget that others, may be waiting to hear back from us. Keeping in contact, is something that feels difficult, a burden for me at times. Yet the irony is, we expect it of others.

Perhaps, learn to respond, even if it is a quick and short message, or even call. That is what I have learned to do, at least so the other person knows I have indeed kept in touch. That I have not ignored them.

Yea! I agree, I need to be more pro-active on that.. Im terrible at responding, maybe because I tend to really zone in on whats most important at that time... Also phones are annoying LOL But I do expect instant responses!! haha whyyyy

I have come to find messaging annoying. Yes, I adore writing but sometimes it is simply easier calling. It would take me paragraphs to write something, I could say in a few minutes.

The terrible thing is, we sometimes do see a message, thought about responding. Then something else, such as work, takes our attention away, and we forget to write back. It was not that those people were not important to us, or were not on our minds. On the contrary, we often think of those we care about, but actually communicating that. We sometimes, forget it. That hurts people, we should be more empathetic about it. Even though, there was no ill intent to harm.

It is awful, truly. Yet, we will moan about slow responses, wondering why people are taking so much of our time to reply because we want to move on and do something else.

We are such hypocrites. 😂

hahahaha I agree!! I'll catch myself doing the same thing although everyone in my life is now used to it and doesn't take is so personally.. Also, I think this day and age where we expect 24/7 instant and constant interaction is to blame. Like, it really shouldn't be like that. We are too involved with our phones if you ask me!!!!!!! I imagine back when they didn't exist people would somehow survive 😉 I prefer calling, I may start writing letters. I bought a stamp with wax lol Im so extra

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Yes!

Do you not expect people to live their life, and only return after their adventures to share. The 24/7 constant contact is frightening because eventually, all you would have is each other. No external discovery of the world around you, and everything you see shrinks.

Those days, when you would have to go out to meet people, and have the courage to call or leave voicemails. Sometimes you would not be able to reach someone until they got home, because they were living life outside.

Ah, writing letters, I possibly enjoy it too much. My love affair with fountain pens, quills, inks, and stationary. To write letters is far different to messaging, it is concrete, the words matter more. People keep letters, as memories.