I'd answer your questions about Libra men, but always keep in mind that in the end, every human being have his own unique traits!
Write your questions about Libra men
Posted by stope
Why are Libra men soo hard to pin down 😭😭😭🤪🤬🤬
I want his bebehs. Do libras make cute bebehs?
Hell No!
Posted by stope
Why are Libra men soo hard to pin down 😭😭😭🤪🤬🤬
I want his bebehs. Do libras make cute bebehs?
yes they make cute babies
Posted by generation_xy
Libra and aries suns are the only signs that took interest in me. I don't know why I didn't date any of them 😑.
Instead, I chose virgo and scorpio. 😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😭😭
Good choice!
Posted by CancerAquaSagg
What don't you like about cancer women and why you love Aries women.
Aries shower with praise and rarely hold back. Cancer's are more methodical and keeps a poker face in which flattery to there partner may not be as blatant.
What is a Libra man in love like? Do they fall easily. What actually turns them on. This is all new to me and I'll accept any answer. 😂😂😂
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
Posted by Jos
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
he sounds like an arsehole.
what's the appeal?
he doesn't speak nicely to you, a lot of it sounds like he is stroking his own ego. his attention to your sexual behaviour is not because he cares about you but more to build up his own self-image.
he's coming back to you because you are allowing this sort of behaviour and other women aren't. "i'm not interested" = i didn't have any luck.
seriously stop wasting your time on this one if you want more than what you are already getting. this guy is a narcissist. don't fall for the sweet words and the love songs. it's just show, again more for his benefit than yours.
in no uncertain terms - fuck him off.
Posted by jeanePosted by Jos
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
he sounds like an arsehole.
what's the appeal?
he doesn't speak nicely to you, a lot of it sounds like he is stroking his own ego. his attention to your sexual behaviour is not because he cares about you but more to build up his own self-image.
he's coming back to you because you are allowing this sort of behaviour and other women aren't. "i'm not interested" = i didn't have any luck.
seriously stop wasting your time on this one if you want more than what you are already getting. this guy is a narcissist. don't fall for the sweet words and the love songs. it's just show, again more for his benefit than yours.
in no uncertain terms - fuck him off.click to expand
I agree. This is the worst of Libra behavior. I've seen it. What are his other placements?
I don't know, I asked him for his sign in the beginning because I wanted to be able to know his temperament, and make it easier for me to maneuver around him. As I do this every time I meet people.
I haven't reached out to him since he went silent.
I also have made a decision to just leave it be. I just wanted to understand him, and whether this is typical of Libras.
I spent 7 years single, and he is the first relationship I have been in. He knows that too.
Thank you for the insight. Jeanne and tcaap
I haven't reached out to him since he went silent.
I also have made a decision to just leave it be. I just wanted to understand him, and whether this is typical of Libras.
I spent 7 years single, and he is the first relationship I have been in. He knows that too.
Thank you for the insight. Jeanne and tcaap
Sorry tctaap I mean
what sign are you and your placements?
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Why are Libras so good at hiding their jealousy in relationships. What's the big deal?
Posted by saggurl88
Why are Libras so good at hiding their jealousy in relationships. What's the big deal?
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Donnalibra I am a Virgo. I don't know my placement. Sept 7 1977 if that helps.
As a Virgo I am very patient and understanding. As long as I know the reasoning or cause behind someone's need, no matter how painful for me I will be understanding. Neglect is something I don't do well, but again, because it's a need for Libras to disappear, that too I will overlook.
He is my first Libra, and first relationship of any kind in 7 years.
I possess all that has been listed that attracts Libra Male. I am pretty, classy, self made, educated, independent, and dressed to impress for him all the time. I am well versed, and eloquent. Funny and adventurous.
That's how I caught him I guess.
As a Virgo I am very patient and understanding. As long as I know the reasoning or cause behind someone's need, no matter how painful for me I will be understanding. Neglect is something I don't do well, but again, because it's a need for Libras to disappear, that too I will overlook.
He is my first Libra, and first relationship of any kind in 7 years.
I possess all that has been listed that attracts Libra Male. I am pretty, classy, self made, educated, independent, and dressed to impress for him all the time. I am well versed, and eloquent. Funny and adventurous.
That's how I caught him I guess.
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Why are Libras so good at hiding their jealousy in relationships. What's the big deal?
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Why are Libras so good at hiding their jealousy in relationships. What's the big deal?
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I am megatron I totally make your starscream 🤣
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I am megatron I totally make your starscream 🤣click to expand
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I am megatron I totally make your starscream 🤣
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I’m on my phone now and saw that the emoji was just a robot!
I’m so disappointed 😔
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Why are Libras so good at hiding their jealousy in relationships. What's the big deal?
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I am megatron I totally make your starscream 🤣
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I’m on my phone now and saw that the emoji was just a robot!
I’m so disappointed 😔
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Posted by vivi4656Posted by ShmekyBoy
I'd answer your questions about Libra men, but always keep in mind that in the end, every human being have his own unique traits!
I don't have a question... but, you guys OVERTHINK everything! It's cray cray what goes on in that mind of theirs! Love you guys though! I go home every night to a moon and venus in libra! Oh my goodness does that man overthink everythingclick to expand
He’s not a Libra Sun if his Sun isn’t in Libra. Go figure. I also think you can go back to your own posting history and see that your statement is highly hypocritical. Yikes!
Posted by Jos
Donnalibra I am a Virgo. I don't know my placement. Sept 7 1977 if that helps.
As a Virgo I am very patient and understanding. As long as I know the reasoning or cause behind someone's need, no matter how painful for me I will be understanding. Neglect is something I don't do well, but again, because it's a need for Libras to disappear, that too I will overlook.
He is my first Libra, and first relationship of any kind in 7 years.
I possess all that has been listed that attracts Libra Male. I am pretty, classy, self made, educated, independent, and dressed to impress for him all the time. I am well versed, and eloquent. Funny and adventurous.
That's how I caught him I guess.
that's the question though - have you caught him?
i don't have a need to disappear from my partner. i've not encountered that description before. just be cafeful not to excuse bad behaviour because you feel it fits a prescribed understanding that someone has thought up. shitty behaviour is shitty behaviour regardless of sign.
Posted by alexscaries
Quick question: Who is the most feminine Libra Men or Scorpio Men?
virgo men
Do libras get a hard on from.reading instructional manuals?
Posted by Librasetting777Posted by saggurl88
Why are Libras so good at hiding their jealousy in relationships. What's the big deal?
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Because jealousy is an ugly emotion and we don't do ugly no matter how painful it is for us. Although my Libra ex husband didn't have a problem with it.
Posted by alexscaries
Quick question: Who is the most feminine Libra Men or Scorpio Men?
Definitely Scorpio from my experience. They are so damn emotional.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Librasetting777Posted by saggurl88
Why are Libras so good at hiding their jealousy in relationships. What's the big deal?
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Because jealousy is an ugly emotion and we don't do ugly no matter how painful it is for us. Although my Libra ex husband didn't have a problem with it.click to expand
How ugly did he get? Did it deter you from wanting future relationships with any other Libras?
Posted by Black-Mamba
Libra men
1) why are such poosies always riding some fence
Does not apply
2) Why are you so talkative
Does not apply
3) why are you so weak that anybody can bend you to their will with kind words
Does not apply
4) why don't you use your voice more clearly and directly like TI does
Does not apply
5) How can anybody give you affection or attention the way you want when you seem so passive
Huh, I don’t want affection but huh
6) why do you feel so passive
I don’t 😛
When I say caught, I meant to ta say his attention. I have no desire to catch him. He has not deterred me from giving other Libras a chance.
He has turned me off from wanting a future with him. Am I still attracted to him yes. But am I delusional into thinking he will change and come get me, no.
I saw at the gym last night, at first he was alone, then a girl came up to him. They started working out together. At first he was all close and touchy with her. Then he looked my way minding my own business. After a few looks, I think he finally recognized me (I cut my hair 24 hrs of his disappearance, and he loved my long hair). He then put some distance from her. He kept looking at me for the rest of the evening. And I paid absolutely no attention to him. As if he wasn't there, and was just one of the equipment.
Did it hurt? Of course it hurts, but the fact that I didn't break and cry, or go up to him is something.
I know my worth, so does he, or least he has said so. I am healing my heart, the hardest part is that I realized I have fallen for him. I allowed my self to be stupidly in love for someone else before to a point where I allowed him to cheat on me face to face.
Not going through that again, not putting my self through that again.
I will however allow my self to be his friend, which I will offer when he decides it's time to give me attention again. I have shown him I am fine without him, and that I can resist him.
He has turned me off from wanting a future with him. Am I still attracted to him yes. But am I delusional into thinking he will change and come get me, no.
I saw at the gym last night, at first he was alone, then a girl came up to him. They started working out together. At first he was all close and touchy with her. Then he looked my way minding my own business. After a few looks, I think he finally recognized me (I cut my hair 24 hrs of his disappearance, and he loved my long hair). He then put some distance from her. He kept looking at me for the rest of the evening. And I paid absolutely no attention to him. As if he wasn't there, and was just one of the equipment.
Did it hurt? Of course it hurts, but the fact that I didn't break and cry, or go up to him is something.
I know my worth, so does he, or least he has said so. I am healing my heart, the hardest part is that I realized I have fallen for him. I allowed my self to be stupidly in love for someone else before to a point where I allowed him to cheat on me face to face.
Not going through that again, not putting my self through that again.
I will however allow my self to be his friend, which I will offer when he decides it's time to give me attention again. I have shown him I am fine without him, and that I can resist him.
Posted by Jos
When I say caught, I meant to ta say his attention. I have no desire to catch him. He has not deterred me from giving other Libras a chance.
He has turned me off from wanting a future with him. Am I still attracted to him yes. But am I delusional into thinking he will change and come get me, no.
I saw at the gym last night, at first he was alone, then a girl came up to him. They started working out together. At first he was all close and touchy with her. Then he looked my way minding my own business. After a few looks, I think he finally recognized me (I cut my hair 24 hrs of his disappearance, and he loved my long hair). He then put some distance from her. He kept looking at me for the rest of the evening. And I paid absolutely no attention to him. As if he wasn't there, and was just one of the equipment.
Did it hurt? Of course it hurts, but the fact that I didn't break and cry, or go up to him is something.
I know my worth, so does he, or least he has said so. I am healing my heart, the hardest part is that I realized I have fallen for him. I allowed my self to be stupidly in love for someone else before to a point where I allowed him to cheat on me face to face.
Not going through that again, not putting my self through that again.
I will however allow my self to be his friend, which I will offer when he decides it's time to give me attention again. I have shown him I am fine without him, and that I can resist him.
Get a grip on reality.
Trying to be friends with someone you have a romantic interest in who is not reciprocating is a recipe for disaster. If you really want to show him you're done. Erase him from your life.
Posted by tiziani
Are Libras even human beings? Let's be real
if they are objects surely we can gather them up all in a pile
Finally good advice 😛 lol
Posted by DonnaLibra
Trying to be friends with someone you have a romantic interest in who is not reciprocating is a recipe for disaster. If you really want to show him you're done. Erase him from your life.
That is where I am headed. As our feelings make us stupid, deaf, dumb, and blind at times. The rational brain wakes you up.
I know it's what I have to do. It's what I want to do. But the feeling part tries to reason and fight you. Am moving on, not as fast as I want to. But I am taking the steps I need to take away from him.
Posted by greylaternPosted by jeanePosted by Jos
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
he sounds like an arsehole.
what's the appeal?
he doesn't speak nicely to you, a lot of it sounds like he is stroking his own ego. his attention to your sexual behaviour is not because he cares about you but more to build up his own self-image.
he's coming back to you because you are allowing this sort of behaviour and other women aren't. "i'm not interested" = i didn't have any luck.
seriously stop wasting your time on this one if you want more than what you are already getting. this guy is a narcissist. don't fall for the sweet words and the love songs. it's just show, again more for his benefit than yours.
in no uncertain terms - fuck him off.
My money is on, he is insecure and likes her. He is being passive agressive about it. When that builds up too high, it leaks out negativity. You get that kind of behavior and verbal circle jerking.click to expand
Stop babying these people because they write sob stories and four page letters of nothingness. She needs to get a grip on reality and focus on not being a doormat. Sounds like this came out of a diary. You really think pacifying a person who is a doormat will do damage control? She needs to toughen up and work on those insecurities. ALONE.
Posted by black773Posted by greylaternPosted by jeanePosted by Jos
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
he sounds like an arsehole.
what's the appeal?
he doesn't speak nicely to you, a lot of it sounds like he is stroking his own ego. his attention to your sexual behaviour is not because he cares about you but more to build up his own self-image.
he's coming back to you because you are allowing this sort of behaviour and other women aren't. "i'm not interested" = i didn't have any luck.
seriously stop wasting your time on this one if you want more than what you are already getting. this guy is a narcissist. don't fall for the sweet words and the love songs. it's just show, again more for his benefit than yours.
in no uncertain terms - fuck him off.
My money is on, he is insecure and likes her. He is being passive agressive about it. When that builds up too high, it leaks out negativity. You get that kind of behavior and verbal circle jerking.
Stop babying these people because they write sob stories and four page letters of nothingness. She needs to get a grip on reality and focus on not being a doormat. Sounds like this came out of a diary. You really think pacifying a person who is a doormat will do damage control? She needs to toughen up and work on those insecurities. ALONE.click to expand
Libra773. I am not a doormat. I posted here because of a confusing person in my life.
I simply needed some opinion and insight from other Libras. As this passive aggressive, here today gone tomorrow and back again, seem to be a common issue with Libras.
I am well aware of the head game, disrespect, and hurt he is showing me.
I did mention in case you overlooked to read them, that I am done. And that I am working on my feelings to disappear.
All I needed and wanted from the forum was insight so that I can better understand.
But thank you nonetheless for your comments and opinions.
Posted by greylaternPosted by jeanePosted by Jos
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
he sounds like an arsehole.
what's the appeal?
he doesn't speak nicely to you, a lot of it sounds like he is stroking his own ego. his attention to your sexual behaviour is not because he cares about you but more to build up his own self-image.
he's coming back to you because you are allowing this sort of behaviour and other women aren't. "i'm not interested" = i didn't have any luck.
seriously stop wasting your time on this one if you want more than what you are already getting. this guy is a narcissist. don't fall for the sweet words and the love songs. it's just show, again more for his benefit than yours.
in no uncertain terms - fuck him off.
My money is on, he is insecure and likes her. He is being passive agressive about it. When that builds up too high, it leaks out negativity. You get that kind of behavior and verbal circle jerking.click to expand
Thank you Graylatern. That's helpful in understanding him.
Posted by greylaternPosted by jeanePosted by Jos
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
he sounds like an arsehole.
what's the appeal?
he doesn't speak nicely to you, a lot of it sounds like he is stroking his own ego. his attention to your sexual behaviour is not because he cares about you but more to build up his own self-image.
he's coming back to you because you are allowing this sort of behaviour and other women aren't. "i'm not interested" = i didn't have any luck.
seriously stop wasting your time on this one if you want more than what you are already getting. this guy is a narcissist. don't fall for the sweet words and the love songs. it's just show, again more for his benefit than yours.
in no uncertain terms - fuck him off.
My money is on, he is insecure and likes her. He is being passive agressive about it. When that builds up too high, it leaks out negativity. You get that kind of behavior and verbal circle jerking.click to expand
my money is on that he is interested in her in as far as she is the owner of available fanny.
I completely agree jeane. If a Libra man were interested in a relationship with you he would not treat you like you're disposable. He's only interested in sex and self gratification. Show him your strength and shut him down.
Posted by DonnaLibra
I completely agree jeane. If a Libra man were interested in a relationship with you he would not treat you like you're disposable. He's only interested in sex and self gratification. Show him your strength and shut him down.
No need to show him anything.
Whether he is taking time to balance himself or not, if he wants me he will come get me. If not, not my loss.
I have moved on.
Thank you Donnalibra, and Jeanne.
Libra men are known to be sentimental and imaginative at times, possibly even sensitive to others' plights. What then, if these are typical Water sign traits, distinguishes them from the poeticism or emtional depths of the water sign? Sheer logic and a certain Idgaf? Pray tell, please. Are they necessarily intrigued by people who have their heart on a sleeve?
Hey! So I met a Libra man in April this year (I'm a Gem).
It's a LONG one, sorry!
We met at a bar and had a one night stand. When I was about to leave in the morning, he was being super nice, no weird awkwardness after that 'night' and showing me he added me on FB. Honestly, I did not pay attention much as for me it was just a one time thing AND we currently live in different countries (I was about to leave the next day).
But he started messaging me and at first I still didn't think much of it for the given reasons. But 2-3 weeks in, I was hooked. I am seriously almost never interested in anyone, but this guy, he started to intrigue me. Probably because we got on from the moment we met, we can banter and he makes me laugh. He was definitely super chatty during the first month. So after 4-5 weeks I flew back home for a week (he's from there as well). When I was over there, he was constantly asking what I was up to, so I always let him know and was asking to meet him as well, but he kept going back and forth, making silly excuses. I got pissed, so wasn't really hoping to meet him again, maybe replying to him here and there. So on my last night, he becomes super chatty again. Let's meet up, ah I'm going home already, do you wanna see me later? ah I'm sleepy already. - so I got mad again - bursted all out asking what's his issue and saying that he obviously doesn't want to see me, stop playing games. 20 minutes later he called me - he had come to pick me up and take me home. What! And I left the country again the next day.
So the chatting went on once I got back. I mean he's kinda short-spoken, but we still spoke a lot. He teased me, he talks and asks about the future plans. At one point he got jokingly pissed and said - "well I do like you and I like 1 out of 100000. I would like to see where this could go, but I don't know what to do, you're SO far away." Makes absolute sense. Should I believe him saying he likes me and wants to see where it goes? Or is this typical of Libra men. He kept asking when am I flying to see him, that he can even buy me a ticket or whatever.
Anyway, after a few weeks he seemed to get distant. Not so much chatting and banter, but even more short-spoken. Sometimes even three days would pass without him replying and eventually saying 'he was busy' or 'there's been so much shit going on', 'he hasn't been much on the phone' and 'he's just having a very low time at the moment'. Okay, understandable. I gave him space and didn't want to bother. So it went back to the 'what's up' messages from me or him from time to time. Sometimes he'll just send me pictures or videos of what he's up to, or pictures of him.
So I went to my home country again. Week prior he got super chatty again. 'Let's make plans', 'come and cuddle with me', 'let me know what you'd want to do, I'll make it happen'.
As soon as I got there, he was constantly messaging me. I mean kind of makes sense as we're actually in the same city. On my second day he was asking what I was up to, so I said I was at a friend's place. 'Okay, let's meet on another day then'. I was like, okay, here we go again and just replied with 'ok'. He kept going on 'how long are you staying there', I replied and he went again 'ok, some other day'. I go back with 'ok', trying not to give a shit. (What is up with that back and forth, like he hints he might be available, wants to see me. If I agree, then he finds an excuse, but if I'm over it, he's there and up for it!!!—?) And then he invites me to the city for a quick drink. So he was in the bar with his friend and I joined them for a few drinks. Ended up going to his place (no sex).
He was that charming guy again in the morning, teasing me and both of us bantering. Wanted to take me out to eat and then drove me to my friend's place. In the car he kept saying let's make plans for the next days, asking when am I moving back, telling me how beautiful I am.
He kept constantly messaging over the next days.
So we met again two days after. Once again we meet up and he has another two friends with him. Do Libras easily introduce you to their friends or am I looking to much into this? We were out, had fun and I went to his place again. Once again, no sex. Kind of weird, as it wouldn't be our first time. I mean, it'd be different for me as our first time was a hookup and now was in his bed after I've actually grown to have feelings for him, so it is a bit scary. Not sure if it might be the same case with him?!
And we met again few days after. I was out with my friend, he invited me over to his friend's place. He was all cute and charming again. He left before me as we stayed in opposite sides of the city (and I couldn't go to his place that night). Apparently, when he left, he had asked my friend if she thinks I'm gonna have sex with his friend. What the hell does that mean? You don't have sex with me, but then you reckon I might sleep with your best friend? Unfortunately, I had to stay over as I was literally unable to get a taxi for ages. Stayed on the couch, though his friend was inviting me to sleep in his bed. HELL NO!
So I was in the country for another two-three days, he was b a r e l y messaging me. When I said let's go out for dinner and do something, he ignored and replied with something totally different. I asked him to come and say bye to me at the airport, but hooours later he replied he'd gone to visit his family. It's kinda like, I understand you have stuff to do, but we had two-three days more to meet, you know I'm leaving soon and you do not want to make an effort?! I'm just super confused. Especially, because we really didn't have one on one time except for the nights and mornings at his place. Other times we were surrounded by his or mine friends.
As I was in the airport, he did message me when am I coming back to visit him again and if I'm hopefully gonna move back. I replied and asked him to come and visit me as well, he said he might be able to come next month or the one after. Let's see. I'm not sure about his words, I want to see his actions.
I've been back home for three days now. Did message him two days ago what he was up to, he replied with a video but ignored all other questions. I mean, I understand he can be more distant when I'm far away. But I'm just wondering if it's even worth it.
I mean people are different, but if anyone has any advice about this guy, then please!! I've tried to read a lot about Libras, but I'm still so confused and have no idea if he's even interested or should I just give up. Has he lost interest or is he in 'deciding' phase. Should I message him to see how he's doing or should I see whether he'll text me?
Btw, I AM moving back in a few months or so - so not pursuing just LDR. He said he likes 1 out of 10000 and same goes for me, which is why I'm hoping to get some insight about this. I don't want to get more invested if any of you believe he's done with me.
It's a LONG one, sorry!
We met at a bar and had a one night stand. When I was about to leave in the morning, he was being super nice, no weird awkwardness after that 'night' and showing me he added me on FB. Honestly, I did not pay attention much as for me it was just a one time thing AND we currently live in different countries (I was about to leave the next day).
But he started messaging me and at first I still didn't think much of it for the given reasons. But 2-3 weeks in, I was hooked. I am seriously almost never interested in anyone, but this guy, he started to intrigue me. Probably because we got on from the moment we met, we can banter and he makes me laugh. He was definitely super chatty during the first month. So after 4-5 weeks I flew back home for a week (he's from there as well). When I was over there, he was constantly asking what I was up to, so I always let him know and was asking to meet him as well, but he kept going back and forth, making silly excuses. I got pissed, so wasn't really hoping to meet him again, maybe replying to him here and there. So on my last night, he becomes super chatty again. Let's meet up, ah I'm going home already, do you wanna see me later? ah I'm sleepy already. - so I got mad again - bursted all out asking what's his issue and saying that he obviously doesn't want to see me, stop playing games. 20 minutes later he called me - he had come to pick me up and take me home. What! And I left the country again the next day.
So the chatting went on once I got back. I mean he's kinda short-spoken, but we still spoke a lot. He teased me, he talks and asks about the future plans. At one point he got jokingly pissed and said - "well I do like you and I like 1 out of 100000. I would like to see where this could go, but I don't know what to do, you're SO far away." Makes absolute sense. Should I believe him saying he likes me and wants to see where it goes? Or is this typical of Libra men. He kept asking when am I flying to see him, that he can even buy me a ticket or whatever.
Anyway, after a few weeks he seemed to get distant. Not so much chatting and banter, but even more short-spoken. Sometimes even three days would pass without him replying and eventually saying 'he was busy' or 'there's been so much shit going on', 'he hasn't been much on the phone' and 'he's just having a very low time at the moment'. Okay, understandable. I gave him space and didn't want to bother. So it went back to the 'what's up' messages from me or him from time to time. Sometimes he'll just send me pictures or videos of what he's up to, or pictures of him.
So I went to my home country again. Week prior he got super chatty again. 'Let's make plans', 'come and cuddle with me', 'let me know what you'd want to do, I'll make it happen'.
As soon as I got there, he was constantly messaging me. I mean kind of makes sense as we're actually in the same city. On my second day he was asking what I was up to, so I said I was at a friend's place. 'Okay, let's meet on another day then'. I was like, okay, here we go again and just replied with 'ok'. He kept going on 'how long are you staying there', I replied and he went again 'ok, some other day'. I go back with 'ok', trying not to give a shit. (What is up with that back and forth, like he hints he might be available, wants to see me. If I agree, then he finds an excuse, but if I'm over it, he's there and up for it!!!—?) And then he invites me to the city for a quick drink. So he was in the bar with his friend and I joined them for a few drinks. Ended up going to his place (no sex).
He was that charming guy again in the morning, teasing me and both of us bantering. Wanted to take me out to eat and then drove me to my friend's place. In the car he kept saying let's make plans for the next days, asking when am I moving back, telling me how beautiful I am.
He kept constantly messaging over the next days.
So we met again two days after. Once again we meet up and he has another two friends with him. Do Libras easily introduce you to their friends or am I looking to much into this? We were out, had fun and I went to his place again. Once again, no sex. Kind of weird, as it wouldn't be our first time. I mean, it'd be different for me as our first time was a hookup and now was in his bed after I've actually grown to have feelings for him, so it is a bit scary. Not sure if it might be the same case with him?!
And we met again few days after. I was out with my friend, he invited me over to his friend's place. He was all cute and charming again. He left before me as we stayed in opposite sides of the city (and I couldn't go to his place that night). Apparently, when he left, he had asked my friend if she thinks I'm gonna have sex with his friend. What the hell does that mean? You don't have sex with me, but then you reckon I might sleep with your best friend? Unfortunately, I had to stay over as I was literally unable to get a taxi for ages. Stayed on the couch, though his friend was inviting me to sleep in his bed. HELL NO!
So I was in the country for another two-three days, he was b a r e l y messaging me. When I said let's go out for dinner and do something, he ignored and replied with something totally different. I asked him to come and say bye to me at the airport, but hooours later he replied he'd gone to visit his family. It's kinda like, I understand you have stuff to do, but we had two-three days more to meet, you know I'm leaving soon and you do not want to make an effort?! I'm just super confused. Especially, because we really didn't have one on one time except for the nights and mornings at his place. Other times we were surrounded by his or mine friends.
As I was in the airport, he did message me when am I coming back to visit him again and if I'm hopefully gonna move back. I replied and asked him to come and visit me as well, he said he might be able to come next month or the one after. Let's see. I'm not sure about his words, I want to see his actions.
I've been back home for three days now. Did message him two days ago what he was up to, he replied with a video but ignored all other questions. I mean, I understand he can be more distant when I'm far away. But I'm just wondering if it's even worth it.
I mean people are different, but if anyone has any advice about this guy, then please!! I've tried to read a lot about Libras, but I'm still so confused and have no idea if he's even interested or should I just give up. Has he lost interest or is he in 'deciding' phase. Should I message him to see how he's doing or should I see whether he'll text me?
Btw, I AM moving back in a few months or so - so not pursuing just LDR. He said he likes 1 out of 10000 and same goes for me, which is why I'm hoping to get some insight about this. I don't want to get more invested if any of you believe he's done with me.
Posted by greylaternPosted by jeanePosted by Jos
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
he sounds like an arsehole.
what's the appeal?
he doesn't speak nicely to you, a lot of it sounds like he is stroking his own ego. his attention to your sexual behaviour is not because he cares about you but more to build up his own self-image.
he's coming back to you because you are allowing this sort of behaviour and other women aren't. "i'm not interested" = i didn't have any luck.
seriously stop wasting your time on this one if you want more than what you are already getting. this guy is a narcissist. don't fall for the sweet words and the love songs. it's just show, again more for his benefit than yours.
in no uncertain terms - fuck him off.
My money is on, he is insecure and likes her. He is being passive agressive about it. When that builds up too high, it leaks out negativity. You get that kind of behavior and verbal circle jerking.click to expand
When a Libra wants you they don't play stupid games they come out and tell you; especially the men.
Posted by greylaternPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by greylaternPosted by jeanePosted by Jos
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
he sounds like an arsehole.
what's the appeal?
he doesn't speak nicely to you, a lot of it sounds like he is stroking his own ego. his attention to your sexual behaviour is not because he cares about you but more to build up his own self-image.
he's coming back to you because you are allowing this sort of behaviour and other women aren't. "i'm not interested" = i didn't have any luck.
seriously stop wasting your time on this one if you want more than what you are already getting. this guy is a narcissist. don't fall for the sweet words and the love songs. it's just show, again more for his benefit than yours.
in no uncertain terms - fuck him off.
My money is on, he is insecure and likes her. He is being passive agressive about it. When that builds up too high, it leaks out negativity. You get that kind of behavior and verbal circle jerking.
When a Libra wants you they don't play stupid games they come out and tell you; especially the men.
Uhm no. A mature secure one might.Looking at the facts and events she says, this isn't the case. He is being overly indirect in everything he does. He recks of insecurity and passive agressiveness. Even his song choices are laysted with intent.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not ruling out what you said. I'm just being objective and going by what information she gave. If he did and said things that undermined her self esteem and value, I would definitely say he is a narssacist. As far as astrology goes, you would need to look at the rest of his chart to get a better idea of is dispositions. Sun sign only one layer of a person.click to expand
I agree about the astrology part. You can only get a general idea from the sun sign. However, as far the love songs he's playing - it's probably about a girl he loved and lost and is still not over. I know several Libra's who do this and I'm one. Once I have lost somebody and they are out of my life forever I start with the sad songs on repeat. There's no reason to play sad songs when you know the other person is interested in you simply because they keep showing up.
Posted by greylaternPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by greylaternPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by greylaternPosted by jeanePosted by Jos
Can a libra man be in just a hookup relationship? He keeps asking questions that requires me to reaffirm my feelings for him. All the while telling me it's just sex for him. He always plays love songs that talk about love that can not be, or should not be, or feelings for a girl that he can't confess whether or not he should confess. He plays them on repeat the whole time we are together.
I left him twice already. But within 2 weeks he came back to me. We are going on almost 3 months now.
He has shown me a very vulnerable side of him when he was going through something difficult. For a week after that the dynamics of us shifted a little. In all our time, I have called him baby, and a few times he also has used the endearing term with me. Suddenly he told me not to call him baby as it is too cheesy for him. Then he went on referring to himself as "this fuck buddy" that whole day.
We always have sex, but our last meet we didn't, and he didn't try as hard to make it happen, but he did say he doesn't trust his self around me. I told him I was only coming over because he needs a massage. Usually we always end up having sex all the time. He also told me that I am the only woman who has had the privilege to touch him from the tip of his hair to his toes, and the only one who has seen every inch of him naked.
The next two days our communication and conversations are the same. Texted me as soon as his game was finished and told me the good news that they won and are now in the finals.
Then he texted me at 5 am. But I was sleeping, so I texted him when I woke up.
It's been almost 2 days now, and I have not heard from him. I think I should note that we met on Bumble, two days after our first meet he deleted the App. As did I. He is aware that he is the only man in my life. Our first breakup he asked me if I slept with someone else, that he won't be mad. I admitted I did, then he changed. A month an a half in he made a comment that did not sit well with me. So I ended it. He agreed. I saw him 2 days later at our gym, I pretended not to see him. Almost 3 weeks after day of breakup he came back to me. Again he asked if I saw other men, the answer was no. I asked him the same question, he saw a few, but was not interested in any of them. I asked him what is so special about me that he keeps coming back. He said nothing is special about me.
The dynamics of us was more like our beginning again. He was more attentive and less callous.
Help me understand him.
he sounds like an arsehole.
what's the appeal?
he doesn't speak nicely to you, a lot of it sounds like he is stroking his own ego. his attention to your sexual behaviour is not because he cares about you but more to build up his own self-image.
he's coming back to you because you are allowing this sort of behaviour and other women aren't. "i'm not interested" = i didn't have any luck.
seriously stop wasting your time on this one if you want more than what you are already getting. this guy is a narcissist. don't fall for the sweet words and the love songs. it's just show, again more for his benefit than yours.
in no uncertain terms - fuck him off.
My money is on, he is insecure and likes her. He is being passive agressive about it. When that builds up too high, it leaks out negativity. You get that kind of behavior and verbal circle jerking.
When a Libra wants you they don't play stupid games they come out and tell you; especially the men.
Uhm no. A mature secure one might.Looking at the facts and events she says, this isn't the case. He is being overly indirect in everything he does. He recks of insecurity and passive agressiveness. Even his song choices are laysted with intent.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not ruling out what you said. I'm just being objective and going by what information she gave. If he did and said things that undermined her self esteem and value, I would definitely say he is a narssacist. As far as astrology goes, you would need to look at the rest of his chart to get a better idea of is dispositions. Sun sign only one layer of a person.
I agree about the astrology part. You can only get a general idea from the sun sign. However, as far the love songs he's playing - it's probably about a girl he loved and lost and is still not over. I know several Libra's who do this and I'm one. Once I have lost somebody and they are out of my life forever I start with the sad songs on repeat. There's no reason to play sad songs when you know the other person is interested in you simply because they keep showing up.
Music is very therapeutic! Gets things out of you. Also can be used to communicate things you can not put into words.
It sounds like you have good honest friends.
If I said to you " Take off those dark sun glasses. It should be a crime to rob the world of such a beautiful sight."
What does that mean to you?click to expand
To me it means I shouldn't hide my beautiful eyes.
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