27 scares me

my cells are dying, my metabolism has slowed, tired is my best friend, and the pressures of marriage and starting a family is weighting heavily.

what age scared you?

You'll be fine. Give it a little time. You have that annoying Leo drive.

When I turn 30 tho Ill probably die a little inside

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
You'll be fine. Give it a little time. You have that annoying Leo drive.

When I turn 30 tho Ill probably die a little inside

hello hairy fishy.

why will 30 scare you?

Embrace the nature of life which is Suffering.

I made it, so will you!

I wouldn't cry until 30.
That ones going to be a bummer

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Well at your age I already had a family so no pressure there or anything you listed. Turning 30 was not a big deal, felt good actually ...however....

The year and months leading up to 35 were a bit nerve-racking. It was fine though. I hear turning 50 is the one where women just go ape shit.

I heard 30 was great for women because the sex is electrifying. yay or nay?

I will be 45 in a few months.. life does go on after 30 and 40 😛

As for the sex.. it's like fine wine, gets better with age.

Is life gonna be that hard?? I mean.. When I was a child the only thing I heard was teenage is the time one has to hold themselves together n stuff..but mine went pretty good..a little bumpy..but all good.It was nothing like I was told.In my late teens I heard 20's is the time when you should be getting your shit together, else you're doomed for life.It doesn't seem bad either.Again,I feel, people just exaggerated.
Now all I hear is life is gonna be tough.Get married..but don't expect good things.Have children.. But life is never gonna be the same.Then there will be this menopause phase..N your life is over.You'll crumble, cripple n wither away.
But why are we told these things? Can't we just survive everything without being warned or told? I mean they don't help anyway.Am I just too young to not be able to understand or am I missing out on something?

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
I'm not looking forward to turning 25 next year for some odd reason. Life feels like it's going so fast. :/

I don't even remember 25. is that horrible? I must've been drunk the whole time or something.

what I do remember is it being a limbo, too young to be considered a real adult, too old to be like the 'young' adults. if that load of shit made any sense

Posted by Nirvana707
Embrace the nature of life which is Suffering.

ahhhh yes because what is life with out suffering eh?

Posted by brianafay
I made it, so will you!

I wouldn't cry until 30.
That ones going to be a bummer

when you turn 30 ill send you a bottle of wine and we can both drink and cry in old despair together

Posted by tiziani
Honestly everything after 21 has felt the same so far.

really? nothing in life has made you go ooooh and aaaahhhh and this shit would only happen at this age type of moments?

Posted by justagirl
I will be 45 in a few months.. life does go on after 30 and 40 😛

As for the sex.. it's like fine wine, gets better with age.

thanks for the hope 🙂

27 was big for me, too. I remember having this conversation with my mother in a grocery store about a path to choose. Are you going to keep moving around starting new things, or are you going to build something here that lasts.

I didn't settle down and didn't stick to one thing but I did become more focused on an actual direction.

Posted by Teena
Is life gonna be that hard?? I mean.. When I was a child the only thing I heard was teenage is the time one has to hold themselves together n stuff..but mine went pretty good..a little bumpy..but all good.It was nothing like I was told.In my late teens I heard 20's is the time when you should be getting your shit together, else you're doomed for life.It doesn't seem bad either.Again,I feel, people just exaggerated.
Now all I hear is life is gonna be tough.Get married..but don't expect good things.Have children.. But life is never gonna be the same.Then there will be this menopause phase..N your life is over.You'll crumble, cripple n wither away.
But why are we told these things? Can't we just survive everything without being warned or told? I mean they don't help anyway.Am I just too young to not be able to understand or am I missing out on something?

everything they tell you about life is right and wrong at the same time. the only way to really experience it is to just go through it blindly and hope for the best. and mennooopauuseee oyyyy...im not looking forward to that either. but at the very least I can be crazy with reason har har

Posted by Fox
I feel scared now -I won't feel content until I think things are starting to be where I want them to be. I think I will be happier when I'm a bit older tbh. Always thought it.

aw hey fox. don't be scared, you're 21. alcohol will always be your friend at this point. lol jp. it would be foolish not to fear the unknown , but with time comes experience and that will better prepare you for what lies ahead.

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Posted by Nirvana707
Embrace the nature of life which is Suffering.

ahhhh yes because what is life with out suffering eh?

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Don't trust him. Nirvana > Kurt Cobain > Suicide at 27 > 27 Club

Posted by shellshocker
27 was big for me, too. I remember having this conversation with my mother in a grocery store about a path to choose. Are you going to keep moving around starting new things, or are you going to build something here that lasts.

I didn't settle down and didn't stick to one thing but I did become more focused on an actual direction.

that's the thing that irks. the whole building something that last or starting something new. maybe its my saturns return? I don't even know if im actually going through it...but im already making changes in my life such as my career that gets me doubting if its the right choice. I know all decisions impact you in one way or another, but I feel like the decisions that we are up against now would really affect everything down the road

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27 was big for me, too. I remember having this conversation with my mother in a grocery store about a path to choose. Are you going to keep moving around starting new things, or are you going to build something here that lasts.

I didn't settle down and didn't stick to one thing but I did become more focused on an actual direction.

This speaks to me a lot currently.

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Posted by shellshocker
27 was big for me, too. I remember having this conversation with my mother in a grocery store about a path to choose. Are you going to keep moving around starting new things, or are you going to build something here that lasts.

I didn't settle down and didn't stick to one thing but I did become more focused on an actual direction.

I feel like the decisions that we are up against now would really affect everything down the road

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I think that's what I really tried to avoid thinking about. Just making the decisions at the time that felt right and have faith in them for the now, not for the future. It's turn out the way it'd turn out.

Posted by goligold
30 is a big year, life becomes a little more serious...37 was the year for me...life became very serious and sex gets way way better with age.

I agree with embracing suffering, it's going to happen bad times and good times. Just no matter what hold on to your husband..

Just sayin

hold on to my husband? oh nooo! are young bitches going to come take him?! im going to lock him up in a tower if they do lol

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Posted by brianafay
I made it, so will you!

I wouldn't cry until 30.
That ones going to be a bummer

when you turn 30 ill send you a bottle of wine and we can both drink and cry in old despair together

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It's a plan!

All my goals started and ended at 25
Its just easy sailing now.

Oh, the fiesty Dimpz is among us again.

Dear lioness, welcome back! 😘

How has life been treating you?

I don't remember where the last 7 years went.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonkblog/wp/2015/07/23/haunting-images-show-why-time-really-does-seem-to-go-faster-as-you-get-older/

http://www.maximiliankiener.com/digitalprojects/time/

I am 40% die

Let's be positive here.

27 in the Middle Ages...would already be one foot in the grave

Posted by Damnata
Let's be positive here.

27 in the Middle Ages...would already be one foot in the grave

You are 20% die

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Liking baw's energy.

I am a potato 😢 Ilu

Posted by itsDimplez
my cells are dying, my metabolism has slowed, tired is my best friend, and the pressures of marriage and starting a family is weighting heavily.

what age scared you?

I'm 41 and no age has scared me yet. I think maybe 60 will be the magic number. Lol

Well then how bout a cup of tea and crumpets you two? Hmmm? One lump or two?

Posted by itsDimplez
Well then how bout a cup of tea and crumpets you two? Hmmm? One lump or two?

I want both of them to be 100% die. Will you marry yet, Dimplez 😢

Posted by tiziani
Yeah in the 20s you're broke, the world hates you, no one respects you and everyone is trying to sell you on keeping the status quo.


It's easy for people to doubt themselves under all those forces. but it gets smoother eventually.

I will take care of you tiz

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Posted by tiziani
Yeah in the 20s you're broke, the world hates you, no one respects you and everyone is trying to sell you on keeping the status quo.


It's easy for people to doubt themselves under all those forces. but it gets smoother eventually.

Tiz needs a hug lol......






I need a hug ='(

LMAO jk life is good.

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I'll take care of you too :>

The ugly truth

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It is what it is...

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Posted by itsDimplez
Well then how bout a cup of tea and crumpets you two? Hmmm? One lump or two?

I want both of them to be 100% die. Will you marry yet, Dimplez 😢

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Lol I will when the cancer man gets me the ring I want . I'm a gold digger dontcha know

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Posted by itsDimplez
Well then how bout a cup of tea and crumpets you two? Hmmm? One lump or two?

I want both of them to be 100% die. Will you marry yet, Dimplez 😢

Lol I will when the cancer man gets me the ring I want . I'm a gold digger dontcha know

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Oh and bawwww!!!!!!! I don't think I've ever seen you post so much in Dxp before, but then again it's been a while. Unless you are not the baw i am thinking of

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Posted by itsDimplez
my cells are dying, my metabolism has slowed, tired is my best friend, and the pressures of marriage and starting a family is weighting heavily.

what age scared you?

I'm 41 and no age has scared me yet. I think maybe 60 will be the magic number. Lol

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How do you think you'll handle that when it approaches?

Posted by retrogradexy
Age scares me because its full of expectations within given time frames.I have come to terms that I already failed to meet most of them and I have to live with those consequences. Its not so bad. I prefer to remember the times I chose to do something I wanted. If I ever reached the age 60' its all going to be the same thing anyway. Time slows down and you ask yourself, is it time yet?

Personally, I worry about being diagnosed with an illness and/or ambulates dependently with a device.

The worries in our 20s is normal I guess. Were trying to find our footing and setting foundations.

Im just rambling

I really liked your first two sentences. And you're right, after 60 you question if tomorrow will be another day you'll get to see

Everybody and their hugging. Shoooootttt Dxp has become such a lovable place with peace signs and rainbows

Your vagina will hang like sleeve of wizard

Your metabolism isn't slowing, YOU'RE slowing.

Fun fact, it's a total freaking myth that your metabolism slows down. Not true. We get less active as we get older.

I remember watching suddenly 30 and I anticipated turning 30 to be flirty and thriving and that's what I'm doing throughout my 30s.

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Posted by itsDimplez
Well then how bout a cup of tea and crumpets you two? Hmmm? One lump or two?

I want both of them to be 100% die. Will you marry yet, Dimplez 😢

Lol I will when the cancer man gets me the ring I want . I'm a gold digger dontcha know

Oh and bawwww!!!!!!! I don't think I've ever seen you post so much in Dxp before, but then again it's been a while. Unless you are not the baw i am thinking of

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I am the Baw. I have lots of ring pops you can choose. 🙂 Our honeymoon can be on a banana or potato.

I'm scared to turn 25. I'm 30 now and the thought of going back 5 years seems unreal.

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Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Being unable to get it up terrifies me. So whatever age that happens is what I fear.

Thankfully I have Mars in Cancer to rectify any of those kinds of concerns with sex, pun intended.

Where is your Mars?

Right.

You didn't answer my question.

Correct. I refuse to countenance the suggestion that the Mars affects such things.

So quit crying about your problems here then, stupid.

If you are not going to discuss the root of the matter, then fuck off with your problems.

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Nice. I like that.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Your metabolism isn't slowing, YOU'RE slowing.

Fun fact, it's a total freaking myth that your metabolism slows down. Not true. We get less active as we get older.

I am sorry this is just simply not true... Although it depends greatly how we treat our bodies...

It is like any animal we all brake down over time. Sure there are ways of delaying it but one day we will no longer move. I am not trying to be depressing or anything it is the natural things of life and holds it's own beauty.

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Fuck it, I don't even care.

Believe what you want, hippie.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Fuck it, I don't even care.

Believe what you want, hippie.

lol I am not a hippie... I was not born during that time period... It was a simple observation. Just as you state you don't care obviously you do or you would not have replied. It is ok I understand you are sensitive. I wish I could say I care but I had nothing better to do... Simple right... 🙂

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