What are the lessons you have learned from relationships ?
To my fellow DXP users -
What are some of the important if not vital lessons you have learned from relationships ?
From your experiences, what are some things which you now consider red flags ?
Share with us all, it may help others with their situ
People who don't listen. People who are not generous. People who are close minded. A man who sponges off you while doing nothing to better himself or contribute to the relationship. People who gossip about others behind their backs. People with no sense of humor. People with no sense of honor.
If a man feels a need to put you in your place through the use of threats, their temper, rants, and generally speaking over you to silence you.
Giving you their terms or their terms as your only choices, then carefully judge who you are with. There will be no compromise, there will be no communication, and you will shoulder all the blame, every. single. time.
Know this, it is not your fault, their words, their actions, are all there, used to minimise you. Using every single one of your weaknesses against you. They have no strength, they need this perceived power and control, to make them appear larger and greater than what they truly are.
You are no puppet, you are an independent individual with a free will. No one will tell you what you should or should not do, much less control it. Do not give them the power, you will only create your own jail from it.
Aphrodite the Venusian marker - LeebMoontreetrunkery
What I have learned that I require in a partner is someone that will "stand up" for me.
I can fight my own battles, and have many of times. But having been married for 11 years to a man whom never even attempted to "protect" me from situations, it got tiresome. I hated that he passively stood off in forever neutral land when he should have been on my side, as his wife and mother of his child. I never expected him to do this if I were in the wrong, only when it was evidently not right. I was always left to defend myself alone.
That is one of my biggest things I have learned I require in someone.
I have also learned as I grow older, that relationships should be easy with minimal effort. That is your significant other truly cares about you, then they will listen to you and compromise themselves to make you happy. As you should with them as well.
Posted by yupvirgoo Red flags for me... someone too proud to apologize, rotten behavior towards maids, waiters or those in customer service, refusing to listen, selfishness, lying, lack of even trying to compromise and cruelty to others and to animals.
There is no quicker way to incite my anger than unnecessary cruelty towards animals, and generally, those who are helpless.
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*I give a real life scenario (examples: award shows, stock market, sports games, tv ratings etc)
*1 or 2 people take a guess and must take opposite answers to the scenario going agains
I'm curious to know if there's a way to dind out if someone has been regularly checking your Instagram public account???
I know the best way to avoid stalkers is to make your account private. But still.. I'm curious to know .
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Why the hell do guys come on strong and then back away? Sometimes doing really butterty things and sometimes actually still interested. Makes her hibernation look good. 😏
I think i’ll go back to the thought of being a monk. Oh btw I have a date tonight.
every time i hear that song, i remember our memories, how i thought it's gonna be her forever.
but things zapped and everything went on a downward spiral. sometimes i still wish we can be together. we're still friends though. i'm even friends wit
And you try so hard to catch it and you end up hitting the screen a bunch of times with your attempts.. Have you ever picked it up and some weird butter like this was open on it?
People you take this the wrong way , not all men and I don’t hate men .
In asian society men are taught to help elderly,pregnant and younger person .
So I’ve noticed for sometime now that on airplane , and older short person can be struggling with