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Do you wake up your lovers for some lovin?
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I have been waken up for cuddling...which ended in sex, but I have never attempted waking anyone up to satisfy my animal urges. I just assumed I would not only end up with no sex, but also with a blue eye. lol
Absolutely!
Spontaneous wake-up-sex is analogous to...Being served breakfast in bed! A special treat where you don't have to get dressed 😄
As for your latter questions, its not for everyone. I know gals who have literally threatened they will CUT their s/o if their sleep is interrupted.
For me, having a partner that isn't into wake up sex is a complete deal breaker :/
If my husband gets woken up, the house better be on fire.
I don't like it, either, unless it's morning and I was waking up anyway.
I wait until they are laying on there stomic then I bugger them.
does your lover wake you up for sex? -------Sometimes.
are they/or you mad to be waken up to have sex? --------Never.
Waking up to receiving oral is amazing. That few seconds where you are putting all the sensations together.....at that moment where you are just becoming conscious yet your body has been awake for a while. You begin to caress her hair.
And just take in all the sights. And you look at her and bite your lips cause you cant do anything else.
But giving is just as amazing. The very moment when she wakes up and realizes what is happening and you got to pin her down cause she is so ready to climax.
Posted by Layna
My Aries does it... none of the soft prodding/caressing me awake, either. Just straight to literally ravishing me out of my sleep.On the flip side, he's a deep sleeper, so if I kick him out of annoyance he won't even feel it. 😛
Oh yeah....definately an Aries thing.
Some people love it and some people are crazy...
Really though it's personal preference. I've known women who don't even like to sleep close to their partner at night. Some like to be tangled up together. I was with one woman who worked at a hospital overnights and would frequently come home and jump me while I was sleeping. There is no better way to start the day!
I love waking men from a sound sleep with some oral. My insomnia often makes it difficult for me to sleep obviously - so I'll usually play dress up and awaken the mighty beast 😉
Unfortunately I've never been awoken to that - a long standing wanting of mine. This is probably because they're just glad I'm freaking asleep. Usually I need 2 ton doses of animal tranquilizers to even rest.
LOL I love it when someone tells someone else what they do isn't *normal*. Says who? You're not skinning people in your basement or knocking down the homeless for a cup of change. You're desiring your lover. Desire is not on an egg timer. *bing* Hokay, SEXING TIME! Boring. Sex should be whenever, however and in just the way you and your partner like to get down.
Bit crude but one of my first bosses would make this crack: "Get 'em when their breath stinks and they have to pee." ( another Tau btw.. )
Point is planned can be marvy, UNplanned just as damned fine. Wriggling sleepily back into your dude and being latched hold of, or being a sneaky ass and using your mouth on him, to him lazily touching you while you sleep to get your motor revving from dream to wakefulness...ALL good.
Common sense disclaimer: If your mate is strung out from building a house, ditch digging, or was up all day and night with a nursing child or an ill one..save le romantic for a good sleep cycle. Sometimes ya just gotta sleep, anyone interrupts that needs a fist in the occipital region for lack of sense. And yes gents, illness and the flu counts. Your jizz will not cure that..and she feels like ass.
Posted by sheathedclaws
I love waking men from a sound sleep with some oral. My insomnia often makes it difficult for me to sleep obviously - so I'll usually play dress up and awaken the mighty beast 😉Unfortunately I've never been awoken to that - a long standing wanting of mine. This is probably because they're just glad I'm freaking asleep. .
LOL!
Well I hope that when it happens for you, he makes it a habit!!
My Libra does this...and I swear he's half sleeping too...
He doesn't just do it in the morning either...we could have just gone to sleep like an hour earlier and I'll wake up being molested lmao
Yes I get mad. I like my sleep
Posted by brianafay
My Libra does this...and I swear he's half sleeping too...
He doesn't just do it in the morning either...we could have just gone to sleep like an hour earlier and I'll wake up being molested lmaoYes I get mad. I like my sleep
hahaha. thats the best you know---when one is semi-conscious and performing....its so primal.
So animalistic.
Yeah i dont like oral at all. lol.
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Posted by brianafay
My Libra does this...and I swear he's half sleeping too...
He doesn't just do it in the morning either...we could have just gone to sleep like an hour earlier and I'll wake up being molested lmaoYes I get mad. I like my sleep
hahaha. thats the best you know---when one is semi-conscious and performing....its so primal.
So animalistic.Yeah i dont like oral at all. lol.
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Lol yeah I mean if I can get past being totally pissed I just got woken up I can usually get into to.
It's so weird...I swear he's sleeping and he has a dream that we're doing it or something and that's his version of sleep walking. He's a sleepfucker
lmao
into it too*
wtf lol
Posted by sexifulscorpio
I love it.... I wake him up, he never gets mad... He never wakes me up tho.. darn him. Lol
Hahahaha....if only i could come up with some kind of Hallmark card that we can give these guys requesting slumber-slobber.
Posted by wgamador2
Posted by sheathedclaws
I love waking men from a sound sleep with some oral. My insomnia often makes it difficult for me to sleep obviously - so I'll usually play dress up and awaken the mighty beast 😉Unfortunately I've never been awoken to that - a long standing wanting of mine. This is probably because they're just glad I'm freaking asleep. .
LOL!
Well I hope that when it happens for you, he makes it a habit!!
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Geesh, me too!!!!!!! The one I'm with now kills me - he's quite mean when he wakes himself up from sleep. He used to have horrible night terrors too. When he wakes himself out of sleep, it's like he dropped a stamp of acid, swear on all things beautiful. Its funny but sometimes way weird.
I usually just end up watching porn if I dont wake him up, or after he's fallen asleep post-coital festivities. It's almost physically impossible to match my drive. But that's why we have batteries. 🙂
Posted by sheathedclaws
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Posted by sheathedclaws
I love waking men from a sound sleep with some oral. My insomnia often makes it difficult for me to sleep obviously - so I'll usually play dress up and awaken the mighty beast 😉Unfortunately I've never been awoken to that - a long standing wanting of mine. This is probably because they're just glad I'm freaking asleep. .
LOL!
Well I hope that when it happens for you, he makes it a habit!!
Geesh, me too!!!!!!! The one I'm with now kills me - he's quite mean when he wakes himself up from sleep. He used to have horrible night terrors too. When he wakes himself out of sleep, it's like he dropped a stamp of acid, swear on all things beautiful. Its funny but sometimes way weird.
I usually just end up watching porn if I dont wake him up, or after he's fallen asleep post-coital festivities. It's almost physically impossible to match my drive. But that's why we have batteries. 🙂
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We must End Sexual Starvation in this country. Goddammit!
The middle of the nigh sex is the best. Right before bed we may get it on, then maybe 2 hours later and then right before dawn sounds about right. It's not for everyone but it sure is for me!The only time that he might stop me is if he has to go to work soon. That's because he doesn't do quickies and he doesn't want to end up being late.
Posted by LeoVirgoGirl
Uhhh a little pick me up in the morning works better than coffee...
Better than coffee, huh? It's funny because my boyfriend says that it's better than Monday night football. I felt like She-Ra when he said that! 😉
Yes, yes, and never! 🙂
see its confirmed she is a prude. lol thanks everyone.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
Posted by LeoVirgoGirl
Uhhh a little pick me up in the morning works better than coffee...
Better than coffee, huh? It's funny because my boyfriend says that it's better than Monday night football. I felt like She-Ra when he said that! 😉
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DAMN!
He is p. whipped then.
lol.
Maybe he just likes baseball. lol.
Posted by chemengin
see its confirmed she is a prude. lol thanks everyone.
HUZZAH!
Posted by wgamador2
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
Posted by LeoVirgoGirl
Uhhh a little pick me up in the morning works better than coffee...
Better than coffee, huh? It's funny because my boyfriend says that it's better than Monday night football. I felt like She-Ra when he said that! 😉
DAMN!
He is p. whipped then.lol.
Maybe he just likes baseball. lol.
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Nope. The thing is that work is the only thing that will get him out the house on time or at all. He could have an oil change for his car planned, a visitation to his mother's or whatever, he will ignore all of that when it comes to my cookin' or/and lovin'. I try not to overreact but inside I'm like, wow!
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
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Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
Posted by LeoVirgoGirl
Uhhh a little pick me up in the morning works better than coffee...
Better than coffee, huh? It's funny because my boyfriend says that it's better than Monday night football. I felt like She-Ra when he said that! 😉
DAMN!
He is p. whipped then.lol.
Maybe he just likes baseball. lol.
Nope. The thing is that work is the only thing that will get him out the house on time or at all. He could have an oil change for his car planned, a visitation to his mother's or whatever, he will ignore all of that when it comes to my cookin' or/and lovin'. I try not to overreact but inside I'm like, wow!
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Not p. whipped - just loves the best of his lover, heh. My man is that way too. He loves homemade meals and grabbing my bum!
It's always great to feel that inner 'oh hey, I'm freaking amazing in this guy's mind'. 😉
Posted by sheathedclaws
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Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
Posted by LeoVirgoGirl
Uhhh a little pick me up in the morning works better than coffee...
Better than coffee, huh? It's funny because my boyfriend says that it's better than Monday night football. I felt like She-Ra when he said that! 😉
DAMN!
He is p. whipped then.lol.
Maybe he just likes baseball. lol.
Nope. The thing is that work is the only thing that will get him out the house on time or at all. He could have an oil change for his car planned, a visitation to his mother's or whatever, he will ignore all of that when it comes to my cookin' or/and lovin'. I try not to overreact but inside I'm like, wow!
It's always great to feel that inner 'oh hey, I'm freaking amazing in this guy's mind'. 😉
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And we have to keep that ladies. Most men love confident women. The moment that you doubt your amazingness then you might lose the twinkle in their eye that they have for you. When a man admires and looks up to you that means a lot.
Can I get a 'hell yeah' for being a confident woman?!
I feel like a preacher gone wrong 😉 😄 lmao
SMD.
Posted by venusianbull
LOL I love it when someone tells someone else what they do isn't *normal*. Says who? You're not skinning people in your basement or knocking down the homeless for a cup of change. You're desiring your lover. Desire is not on an egg timer. *bing* Hokay, SEXING TIME! Boring. Sex should be whenever, however and in just the way you and your partner like to get down.
that is what i told her, its about spontaneity, but she insist that it is rude and not normal. im thinking to myself okay, you have no excitement in your physical life this is why you always seem to have a stick up your ass. and then ask me, "chem, why are you so happy all the time?? you seem to always be having a good day" really you think...mm what could it possibly be——
Posted by sheathedclaws
Can I get a 'hell yeah' for being a confident woman?!I feel like a preacher gone wrong 😉 😄 lmao
hell yeah! 😉
Posted by sheathedclaws
Can I get a 'hell yeah' for being a confident woman?!I feel like a preacher gone wrong 😉 😄 lmao
Hell to the yea!
That is one of my many fetishes...waking him up to Oral sex...oh yeah!!!! Feeling how he hardens in my mouth and then listening to his moans as he is waking up and looking straight in my eyes while he caresses my hair gently and bites his lips...Oh My God!!!!!
oh and the sex in the middle of the night is awesome!!!!😛
Posted by TaurusBadGirl
That is one of my many fetishes...waking him up to Oral sex...oh yeah!!!! Feeling how he hardens in my mouth and then listening to his moans as he is waking up and looking straight in my eyes while he caresses my hair gently and bites his lips...Oh My God!!!!!oh and the sex in the middle of the night is awesome!!!!😛
Caressing hair and biting his lip!
Hahahhaha.....wow....i said that earlier!!
Posted by wgamador2
Posted by TaurusBadGirl
That is one of my many fetishes...waking him up to Oral sex...oh yeah!!!! Feeling how he hardens in my mouth and then listening to his moans as he is waking up and looking straight in my eyes while he caresses my hair gently and bites his lips...Oh My God!!!!!oh and the sex in the middle of the night is awesome!!!!😛
Caressing hair and biting his lip!
Hahahhaha.....wow....i said that earlier!!click to expand
I must have missed that..lol...still good though...😉
Ugh now I'm regretting not asking him to sleep over tonight - dammit!!
Posted by sheathedclaws
Ugh now I'm regretting not asking him to sleep over tonight - dammit!!
Hahahahahaha.
Never a dull moment in here.
Posted by exoskeleton
Posted by wgamador2
does your lover wake you up for sex? -------Sometimes.are they/or you mad to be waken up to have sex? --------Never.
Waking up to receiving oral is amazing. That few seconds where you are putting all the sensations together.....at that moment where you are just becoming conscious yet your body has been awake for a while. You begin to caress her hair.
And just take in all the sights. And you look at her and bite your lips cause you cant do anything else.But giving is just as amazing. The very moment when she wakes up and realizes what is happening and you got to pin her down cause she is so ready to climax.
yes. 😄
hazy, dream-like, sensual. just the body reacting to pleasure.
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Exactly - well put Exo!
Posted by chemengin
Posted by venusianbull
LOL I love it when someone tells someone else what they do isn't *normal*. Says who? You're not skinning people in your basement or knocking down the homeless for a cup of change. You're desiring your lover. Desire is not on an egg timer. *bing* Hokay, SEXING TIME! Boring. Sex should be whenever, however and in just the way you and your partner like to get down.that is what i told her, its about spontaneity, but she insist that it is rude and not normal. im thinking to myself okay, you have no excitement in your physical life this is why you always seem to have a stick up your ass. and then ask me, "chem, why are you so happy all the time?? you seem to always be having a good day" really you think...mm what could it possibly be——
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"Rude and not normal". What does she have, a dance card or small leather book? "Let's see darling, I can pencil you in between the hours of 1-3, or *scanning down* 8-9 p.m. I hope this suits I've nothing else available." 😛
LOL Yes, lessee. Me. Happy, chipper. You. Dour and uptight. HMMM.
personally i dont wake up someone unless i didnt get what i wanted that night, whether it be sex or cuddles. with scorp i tend to be woken up at different times of the night and its either for cuddles or some sort of sexual thing. im usually too tired to care or object. idk how he does it when he has to get up so early. crazy
i really do love being woken up if its for him to hold me closer.love the closeness
Posted by TaurusBadGirl
That is one of my many fetishes...waking him up to Oral sex...oh yeah!!!!
Hahahaha! I woke my gem up to this one night. He lost his damn mind!
Depending on my mood I would be absolutely trilled to participate or outraged and on the verge of violence.
*raises hand*
Yes I am a card carrying member of the "I like to wake my guy up with a bit of oral" party.
This of course, would explain why I am single.....
You haven't gotten a blow job until you've gotten one from an emu.
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Posted by EyesOfFire
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
You haven't felt pain until you've gotten a blowjob from an emu.
Ive never had a blow job 😢
Awww 😢
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Quick Draw McGraw🙂
Posted by EyesOfFire
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Talking to yourself? 0.o
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I was arseing around. Be nice or I will peck you.
Posted by EyesOfFire
Pecker vs. stinger?God, that sounds dirty.
you grub😉
Nah, I love my Scorpie mates. No dramas there.
LOL 🙂
Posted by happykitsune
idk how he does it when he has to get up so early. crazy
I know, right? My boyfriend can have to get up at 5am to go to work but that DOES NOT stop him from going at it as if it were the middle of the day. It will start with him gazing in my eyes, and then he starts making that "sssss" sound through his teeth, then kiss me (night breath and all!). Then he just flips me in the position that he wants or I will get on top of him and it's a wrap after that. He is fully available, LoL
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i have been told by someone that normal people dont wake their lovers up for sex. i told this person they are wrong. so can you settle a debate for us.
i dont mean every night, i mean every once in a while.
also, does your lover wake you up for sex?
are they/or you mad to be waken up to have sex?