Escorts

I moved in with a long time casual acquaintance about a month ago. Last week, he paid for an escort to come over for an hour. It's evidently something he does on a semi regular basis.. every couple of months or so.

I know she was an escort because he told me - or as he phrased it, "pussy delivery".

I consider myself a fairly open minded person, but I'm having trouble with this. It has caused me to see him in a different light and I am tempted to move out. Seeing as how I just moved in though, this might bring about an awkward conversation.

Idk what to do. Pretty much all aspects of my life are very unsettled right now.. I was hoping I'd finally find some stability in at least one area of it, but I guess not 😢

Is he awkward with women? And did he have the kitty delivered while you were there?

That was weird.

Holy shit 😄

I'm torn but since your just got there,

maybe this is a heads up (as it were)

that you should hope for the best and

prepare for the worst.

Posted by Koniuchaa
What! Was it read books together??

Actually they played Uno and drank juice boxes.

not saying wrong or right but i don't know how a male and female can be roommates without there being some sort of awkwardness?

I think if he's less than successful with the ladies, maybe the escort is a way to help him cope. If that's the case maybe talk to him about being more discreet and respectful about it.

Posted by MIIeFisk

Posted by ScorpioBoar
Is this question really about escorts, or is something else bothering you?

I think she's having issue with a dirty hooker in her living space

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Well said.

If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.

unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

I guess the main things that bother me are:

The fact that they are so much younger than him.. Around age 20 or so and he is 50ish. I left before she and her madam arrived, but he showed her picture.

The fact that they come to the house.. that just doesn't seem very safe for any one. Some of these girls have boyfriends that are in jail, or baby daddies with questionable pasts. (I know cause he told me).Doesn't seem smart letting them know where you.live.

Those don't sound like escorts.

They just sound like less-gross hookers.

What's his sign?

Are you living there for free?

If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.

Better dip now before things get worse.

Posted by Quantum
I think if he's less than successful with the ladies, maybe the escort is a way to help him cope. If that's the case maybe talk to him about being more discreet and respectful about it.

He's not awkward with women. He has a lot of female friends and has had serious, monogamous relationships before. He is a self confirmed bachelor though and can't go longer than a month without sex before he "starts going crazy", according to him.

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Posted by Quantum
I think if he's less than successful with the ladies, maybe the escort is a way to help him cope. If that's the case maybe talk to him about being more discreet and respectful about it.

He's not awkward with women. He has a lot of female friends and has had serious, monogamous relationships before. He is a self confirmed bachelor though and can't go longer than a month without sex before he "starts going crazy", according to him.

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Yeah. Then gross.

Posted by MIIeFisk
Are you rooming with Rabbit's dad?

He's older than that. And his Hispanic girlfriend would castrate him if he brought a hooker over.

So maybe you should have a talk with him because you and him are sharing a living space... Just explain to him why you feel uncomfortable.. For instance tell him

1) I'm scared my stuff might go missing.. (B/c at the end of the day these are RANDOM girls coming to your house)

2) I'm afraid that unnecessary drama would come here (The boyfriend/ baby father/madam beef... Whatever it is)

3) I don't always want to leave (Bc I MIGHT hear noises that I don't want to hear)

You know how to talk to him Bc he is a long acquaintance of yours.. So just hint these things out... Plus see if you can suggest for him to book a room when he gets in his "escort-mode"...

you want to be the kitty delivery. Then deliver the kitty so that he gets satiated.

Posted by fugu2
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.

unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.

The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.

Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.

Posted by MIIeFisk
Did they violate your cucumber from the fridge?

I keep it in the mini fridge in my room.

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by fugu2
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.

unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.

The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.

Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.

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Nah. It's one thing to buy sex from a dangerous source.

It's another thing to have said danger delivered to your home when there's someone else living there.

Why women these days choose to enter these arrangements with males is something I will never grasp, call it 'long time casual acquaintance' or whatever... there's just so much that can turn weird in ways that same-sex arrangements won't.

But call me old fashioned...

did you sign a lease agreement?

Posted by VenusAquarius
What's his sign?

Are you living there for free?

If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.

Better dip now before things get worse.

He's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.

I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.

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Posted by fugu2
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.

unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.

The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.

Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.

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Actually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness if he decides to do something shady...

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Posted by MIIeFisk
Did they violate your cucumber from the fridge?

I keep it in the mini fridge in my room.

How long do you know this guy?

Why move in with a 50 year old?

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I've known him for about 10 years. Met him through my sister, turned out they had a lot of mutual friends.

He's let people (other acquaintances or friends) move in before while they were transitioning (going through a break up, divorce, etc). Neither of them ever mentioned anything other than how great he was as a friend and roommate.

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Posted by VenusAquarius
What's his sign?

Are you living there for free?

If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.

Better dip now before things get worse.

He's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.

I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.

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So, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.

You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?

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Posted by fugu2
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.

unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.

The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.

Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.

Actually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...

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Not if he decides there is no witness ,there ain't

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Posted by ScorpioBoar
Is this question really about escorts, or is something else bothering you?

I think she's having issue with a dirty hooker in her living space

Well said.

It was a little crass. But im running on 2 hours of sleep today...

Would it be too much to ask him to rent a room for the extra curricular activities?

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Not if we're speaking relatively. 😛

But I think just keeping his extracurricular activities

to himself would be sufficient.

No one needs to know what's being delivered.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by VenusAquarius
What's his sign?

Are you living there for free?

If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.

Better dip now before things get worse.

He's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.

I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.

So, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.

You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?

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He talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.

Posted by Nemilicious

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Posted by MIIeFisk
Did they violate your cucumber from the fridge?

I keep it in the mini fridge in my room.

How long do you know this guy?

Why move in with a 50 year old?

I've known him for about 10 years. Met him through my sister, turned out they had a lot of mutual friends.

He's let people (other acquaintances or friends) move in before while they were transitioning (going through a break up, divorce, etc). Neither of them ever mentioned anything other than how great he was as a friend and roommate.

I see. More than meets the eye.

If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe start a plan b?

Are you in some legal bind/contract regarding the lease?

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No, just a verbal agreement. He doesn't need the extra money, it just helps.

Pay for escorts, I guess.

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by VenusAquarius
What's his sign?

Are you living there for free?

If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.

Better dip now before things get worse.

He's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.

I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.

So, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.

You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?

He talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.

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I just hope there's nothing else to find out.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by fugu2
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.

unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.

The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.

Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.

Actually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...

Not if he decides there is no witness ,there ain't

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Op is the witness...duh keep up

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by fugu2
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.

unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.

The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.

Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.

Actually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...

Not if he decides there is no witness ,there ain't

Op is the witness...duh keep up

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Not if he decides she's not lol

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by enfant_terrible

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Posted by Andalusia

Posted by fugu2
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.

unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.

The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.

Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.

Actually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...

Not if he decides there is no witness ,there ain't

Op is the witness...duh keep up

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They meant if he decides op is a risk

and silences her forever.

So dramatic. 😛

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Andalusia

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Posted by VenusAquarius
What's his sign?

Are you living there for free?

If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.

Better dip now before things get worse.

He's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.

I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.

So, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.

You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?

He talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.

I just hope there's nothing else to find out.

You bet there is.

There is more to it than we are reading.

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I know... I didn't want to scare.

Why would other friends or family say something. I'd cuss their asses out.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Andalusia

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Posted by Andalusia

Posted by VenusAquarius
What's his sign?

Are you living there for free?

If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.

Better dip now before things get worse.

He's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.

I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.

So, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.

You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?

He talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.

I just hope there's nothing else to find out.

You bet there is.

There is more to it than we are reading.

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God I hope not. You're right though. I probably will have to move.

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by VenusAquarius
What's his sign?

Are you living there for free?

If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.

Better dip now before things get worse.

He's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.

I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.

So, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.

You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?

He talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.

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So you wish that with time, you could turn the buddy friendship into something else like in a hollywood movie?

Can't tell nobody what to do in their home... whether it be smoking, drinking, walking around naked, etc.

The answer will most likely be, you can leave.

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Posted by Andalusia

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by VenusAquarius
What's his sign?

Are you living there for free?

If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.

Better dip now before things get worse.

He's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.

I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.

So, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.

You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?

He talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.

So you wish that with time, you could turn the buddy friendship into something else like in a hollywood movie?

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God no.

Posted by VenusAquarius
Can't tell nobody what to do in their home... whether it be smoking, drinking, walking around naked, etc.

The answer will most likely be, you can leave.

Exactly.

I guess I just wish he would have mentioned this up front, before I moved in, so i.wouldn't have to start looking for another place yet again.

Posted by MIIeFisk
Pretty much... you might want to start looking... again. Sorry, melly. ?

Just furthers my believe that I have piss poor judgment when it comes to guys. Or that I somehow manage to call forth their weird / asshole / or questionable side.

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Posted by fugu2
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.

unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.

The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.

Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.

Actually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...

Not if he decides there is no witness ,there ain't

Op is the witness...duh keep up

They meant if he decides op is a risk

and silences her forever.

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I know what he means. But come on... with that logic she's gonna need to be sleeping with BOTH eyes open. The escort thing is the least of her issues.

maybe ....he meant in a slang term way ....

"pussy delivered"-a ho that you don't have to put much effort into to have sex... 😢 are you sure that it was a hooker—

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Posted by VenusAquarius
Can't tell nobody what to do in their home... whether it be smoking, drinking, walking around naked, etc.

The answer will most likely be, you can leave.

Exactly.

I guess I just wish he would have mentioned this up front, before I moved in, so i.wouldn't have to start looking for another place yet again.

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Just tell him, respectfully, that the whole escort arrangement makes you uncomfortable and to give you a heads up so that your not there when its going down.

Personally I wouldn't be bothered. Most dudes engage in some sort of pay-for-sex anyways. What do you thing private dances at the strip club entail? He should be free to do with his wallet and dick what he chooses.

But if it makes you so uncomfortable it's probably time to start looking for another place, as others here have said.

Posted by Cancan26
maybe ....he meant in a slang term way ....

"pussy delivered"-a ho that you don't have to put much effort into to have sex... 😢 are you sure that it was a hooker—

Yes. She was an escort. Or hooked or whatever. Her madam brought her over.

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by Cancan26
maybe ....he meant in a slang term way ....

"pussy delivered"-a ho that you don't have to put much effort into to have sex... 😢 are you sure that it was a hooker—

Yes. She was an escort. Or hooked or whatever. Her madam brought her over.

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a madam brought her over!!!!! .....yea its time for you to be hitting the ole dusty trail.....

Posted by MIIeFisk
Don't be hard on yourself over this. The rent was cheap and you were in a pinch.

I agree.

Think positive...of the money saved. And, plan accordingly.

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Posted by LeDominoes
What the hell else would you use escorts for? Sex? LMFAO, weirdos.

So escort is the same as a prostitute?

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From my understanding, escort is just a more evolved term for prostitute. It's illegal to pay for sex, so you pay or hire for time and companionship instead.