How much doesnsex matter?

When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

Posted by Libra4rmTX

When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

Well…first of all it should be priority.

Second of all if you have to ask…at your age…I am sorry for you. The end.

And WTF ‘doesnsex’? 🤷‍♀️

if it's important to you, then it's important to you. you don't need to feel bad about it.

but to me, sexual compatibility is usually something i find out *after* i get into a relationship with someone which means i'm already kinda in love with them at that point, so i'm not gonna leave even if the sex wasn't what i thought it would be, if you know what i mean lol luckily, i haven't had a disappointing experience so far...you can usually kinda tell how someone will be in bed by the way they speak and act....people who are empathetic and kind in daily life are usually not bad in bed....they're good at finding out what people's needs and wants are....

It's amazing. Almost too amazing. So amazing it's like a dying move franchise, or youtube channel. One where you try so hard to make it amazing from the start, but then you have to 1 up that first time, and make it even better the second. Then do it again, and again, and again. If you start fucking up or losing drive, your fans, or should I say, lover will think something is wrong. So you have to keep going harder. Being better then you were the last time in bed. She absolutely loves that! Until you reach a point you can't 1 up youself anymore. The drive starts to die, and what she requires at that point is impossible. Maybe it would be possible from the you who first met her, but that isn't you anymore. The fire dies, her lust for good sex is unsatisfied, and essentially ruined thanks to you. You go back to being alone and watching porn because it's much easier, and she forever wants more. But she never truly gets it unless it's by her own hands.

The end.

You Libras are sexual.

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

There won't be a relationship if there is no sexual chemistry. This goes for both men and women of any sign.

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

Personally I couldn't have a relationship with someone who is Asexual.

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Me either lol

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if it's important to you, then it's important to you. you don't need to feel bad about it.

but to me, sexual compatibility is usually something i find out *after* i get into a relationship with someone which means i'm already kinda in love with them at that point, so i'm not gonna leave even if the sex wasn't what i thought it would be, if you know what i mean lol luckily, i haven't had a disappointing experience so far...you can usually kinda tell how someone will be in bed by the way they speak and act....people who are empathetic and kind in daily life are usually not bad in bed....they're good at finding out what people's needs and wants are....

Well said!!

Posted by Libra4rmTX

When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

You have a lot of Leo planets, right?

Sex is extremely important to me. The only problem is when one partner (usually man) wants more of it than you do.

It is not just the sexual act itself - -they don’t call it love making for nothing. It’s where all your feelings and passion comes alive too. Sex can resolve many conflicts and it can provide healing. It can break or make relationships.

Sex is also creative energy. Many people come alive with sex.

Sexual compatibility is super important to me, so yeah sex matters.

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

It used to be very important for me to screw as soon as possible.

Now, it’s the last thing on my list.

I’ve seen a lot of penis in my day. What else you got?

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

It used to be very important for me to screw as soon as possible.

Now, it’s the last thing on my list.

I’ve seen a lot of penis in my day. What else you got?

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I am the opposite of you. I used to be tame and sweet. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve gotten wilder and more sexual.

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

It used to be very important for me to screw as soon as possible.

Now, it’s the last thing on my list.

I’ve seen a lot of penis in my day. What else you got?

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Same here. I've seen more pussy than a man can take in my day. I'm strictly into romance now. Thank fuck Capricorn women can understand my now unfortunate current sexual problems.

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

It used to be very important for me to screw as soon as possible.

Now, it’s the last thing on my list.

I’ve seen a lot of penis in my day. What else you got?

Same here. I've seen more pussy than a man can take in my day. I'm strictly into romance now. Thank fuck Capricorn women can understand my now unfortunate current sexual problems.

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Saturn in 8th can indicate sexual issues

Very important .... as my partner is going to be the only person I’ll have sex with, there has to be very good sexual chemistry between us....

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

It used to be very important for me to screw as soon as possible.

Now, it’s the last thing on my list.

I’ve seen a lot of penis in my day. What else you got?

Same here. I've seen more pussy than a man can take in my day. I'm strictly into romance now. Thank fuck Capricorn women can understand my now unfortunate current sexual problems.

Saturn in 8th can indicate sexual issues

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Wuhhh really? Well I'm glad I done had my fun times as a young kid. I got a whole lot to show for it too.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Chemistry is important to me. It doesn’t have to be mind blowing every time. I don’t need to orgasm every time. Performance doesn’t even have to be that great all the time. I can even go long periods of time without it. But I have to desire the person I’m with. the chemistry needs to be there. I would be lying to myself if I pretended that I could spend my life with someone that I didn’t have sexual chemistry with. I have a sag mars after all and I need a healthy outlet to exert my physical energy. 😅 lol

I have a Leo mars and I’m the same way as you. If there is no fire and passion, forget it.

But I also have a Gemini sun that needs mental chemistry (guy can’t be quiet or dumb) and Cancer venus (I need feelings too and he needs to be able to express his feelings, so emotionally available).

Perhaps one partner can’t fulfill all 3.

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

It used to be very important for me to screw as soon as possible.

Now, it’s the last thing on my list.

I’ve seen a lot of penis in my day. What else you got?

I am the opposite of you. I used to be tame and sweet. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve gotten wilder and more sexual.

That's how I like my women 😉 but the question is, can YOU match my level of freakiness?

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I can’t.

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

It used to be very important for me to screw as soon as possible.

Now, it’s the last thing on my list.

I’ve seen a lot of penis in my day. What else you got?

I am the opposite of you. I used to be tame and sweet. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve gotten wilder and more sexual.

That's how I like my women 😉 but the question is, can YOU match my level of freakiness?

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What kind of freakiness?

Yes it’s important. But other things are also equally important. If the chemistry and sex is AMAZING but you don’t want kids and they do, no amount of mind blowing sex is gonna fix that.

All aspects of the equation need to add up for relationship to work. It’s about comparability across the board. Sex is definitely a big part of that equation.

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Chemistry is important to me. It doesn’t have to be mind blowing every time. I don’t need to orgasm every time. Performance doesn’t even have to be that great all the time. I can even go long periods of time without it. But I have to desire the person I’m with. the chemistry needs to be there. I would be lying to myself if I pretended that I could spend my life with someone that I didn’t have sexual chemistry with. I have a sag mars after all and I need a healthy outlet to exert my physical energy. 😅 lol

I have a Leo mars and I’m the same way as you. If there is no fire and passion, forget it.

But I also have a Gemini sun that needs mental chemistry (guy can’t be quiet or dumb) and Cancer venus (I need feelings too and he needs to be able to express his feelings, so emotionally available).

Perhaps one partner can’t fulfill all 3.

There is a doctor that I work with that has similar placements as you.(gem sun, cancer Venus and Mercury). I had to recently draw a hard boundary with him because we developed a friendship where we talk a lot and he will message me all day long and he tries to come find me at work to chat me up. Which wouldn’t be a problem normally, but I recently found out that he is married after asking him. (He doesn’t wear his ring so I didn’t know until I came out and asked). He will message me all day and all night if I allow it, even outside of work hours.. but I recently told him that is disrespectful to his wife even though the conversations are innocent. because the time that he spends messaging me could be (and should be) spent with his family instead! Lol but his Mercury in cancer is conjunct my moon so we really can talk for hours and easily lose track of time. He’s a nice guy but the last thing I need it to start forming ties with someone that belongs to someone else. 😐

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Oh no!

I have lots of innocent conversations and it doesn’t mean I am into that person. But I mean, sometimes I am ☺️

It starts with talking and next thing you know… 😊

What if he has marital problems? He is just a lonely, overworked doctor. Has he been inappropriate though?

It is important, but it is just one part of a relationship. From experience, people who start with sex being their most important thing.. yep sex is what’s important. I’d rather be respected, and then have mind blowing sex once I’m comfortable with you. Otherwise Miss Saggie here gets too excited and chemistry rules until you calm down and realize it was just chemistry and not much else. My cap venus, mars,aqua moon need to see if there is relationship potential first. It’s a balance lol 🙃

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When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

It used to be very important for me to screw as soon as possible.

Now, it’s the last thing on my list.

I’ve seen a lot of penis in my day. What else you got?

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😂😂real talk

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Chemistry is important to me. It doesn’t have to be mind blowing every time. I don’t need to orgasm every time. Performance doesn’t even have to be that great all the time. I can even go long periods of time without it. But I have to desire the person I’m with. the chemistry needs to be there. I would be lying to myself if I pretended that I could spend my life with someone that I didn’t have sexual chemistry with. I have a sag mars after all and I need a healthy outlet to exert my physical energy. 😅 lol

I have a Leo mars and I’m the same way as you. If there is no fire and passion, forget it.

But I also have a Gemini sun that needs mental chemistry (guy can’t be quiet or dumb) and Cancer venus (I need feelings too and he needs to be able to express his feelings, so emotionally available).

Perhaps one partner can’t fulfill all 3.

There is a doctor that I work with that has similar placements as you.(gem sun, cancer Venus and Mercury). I had to recently draw a hard boundary with him because we developed a friendship where we talk a lot and he will message me all day long and he tries to come find me at work to chat me up. Which wouldn’t be a problem normally, but I recently found out that he is married after asking him. (He doesn’t wear his ring so I didn’t know until I came out and asked). He will message me all day and all night if I allow it, even outside of work hours.. but I recently told him that is disrespectful to his wife even though the conversations are innocent. because the time that he spends messaging me could be (and should be) spent with his family instead! Lol but his Mercury in cancer is conjunct my moon so we really can talk for hours and easily lose track of time. He’s a nice guy but the last thing I need it to start forming ties with someone that belongs to someone else. 😐

Oh no!

I have lots of innocent conversations and it doesn’t mean I am into that person. But I mean, sometimes I am ☺️

It starts with talking and next thing you know… 😊

What if he has marital problems? He is just a lonely, overworked doctor. Has he been inappropriate though?

He does have marriage problems and he just recently started being flirtatious, he referred me to a different doctor for my headaches and he asked for my number so the other doctors office could call me to schedule.. then he followed up with the comment “I’m really asking for myself 😈” and put the devil emoji lol it’s never sexual or over the top, just little flirtatious stuff but still too much for a married man. He is having marital problems but that’s for the two of them to sort out.. I encouraged him to ask his wife to go to therapy with him but he said she is refusing.

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Wow. It sounds like he is looking at other options already (maybe you?)

He probably was “feeling it out”, if you guys vibe mentally and if you are into talks. Probably, friendly talks would grow into more especially if there is sexual tension.

Are you attracted to him that way? And no, I am not encouraging you to continue especially since he is still married. It will fizzle out if you don’t give him any more attention/talks.

It amuses me when people put sex up on a pedestal in relationships. I’ve seen people want to marry their SO who cheats on them left and right because the sex was just so amazing that they’re scared they wouldn’t be able to find something better?! Literally had no words for the situation… It’s definitely important but if it’s the main indicator of sustaining a relationship…. you’ll see how badly that turns out in the long run. For me being connected to a person mentally and sharing very similar values in life is first and foremost (especially their values towards sex), I believe emotional and sexual chemistry can easily follow afterwards. I’m a demisexual. I can deem someone super attractive but would not let them touch me if I’m not mentally or emotionally attracted.

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Chemistry is important to me. It doesn’t have to be mind blowing every time. I don’t need to orgasm every time. Performance doesn’t even have to be that great all the time. I can even go long periods of time without it. But I have to desire the person I’m with. the chemistry needs to be there. I would be lying to myself if I pretended that I could spend my life with someone that I didn’t have sexual chemistry with. I have a sag mars after all and I need a healthy outlet to exert my physical energy. 😅 lol

I have a Leo mars and I’m the same way as you. If there is no fire and passion, forget it.

But I also have a Gemini sun that needs mental chemistry (guy can’t be quiet or dumb) and Cancer venus (I need feelings too and he needs to be able to express his feelings, so emotionally available).

Perhaps one partner can’t fulfill all 3.

There is a doctor that I work with that has similar placements as you.(gem sun, cancer Venus and Mercury). I had to recently draw a hard boundary with him because we developed a friendship where we talk a lot and he will message me all day long and he tries to come find me at work to chat me up. Which wouldn’t be a problem normally, but I recently found out that he is married after asking him. (He doesn’t wear his ring so I didn’t know until I came out and asked). He will message me all day and all night if I allow it, even outside of work hours.. but I recently told him that is disrespectful to his wife even though the conversations are innocent. because the time that he spends messaging me could be (and should be) spent with his family instead! Lol but his Mercury in cancer is conjunct my moon so we really can talk for hours and easily lose track of time. He’s a nice guy but the last thing I need it to start forming ties with someone that belongs to someone else. 😐

Oh no!

I have lots of innocent conversations and it doesn’t mean I am into that person. But I mean, sometimes I am ☺️

It starts with talking and next thing you know… 😊

What if he has marital problems? He is just a lonely, overworked doctor. Has he been inappropriate though?

He does have marriage problems and he just recently started being flirtatious, he referred me to a different doctor for my headaches and he asked for my number so the other doctors office could call me to schedule.. then he followed up with the comment “I’m really asking for myself 😈” and put the devil emoji lol it’s never sexual or over the top, just little flirtatious stuff but still too much for a married man. He is having marital problems but that’s for the two of them to sort out.. I encouraged him to ask his wife to go to therapy with him but he said she is refusing.

Wow. It sounds like he is looking at other options already (maybe you?)

He probably was “feeling it out”, if you guys vibe mentally and if you are into talks. Probably, friendly talks would grow into more especially if there is sexual tension.

Are you attracted to him that way? And no, I am not encouraging you to continue especially since he is still married. It will fizzle out if you don’t give him any more attention/talks.

I do not feel chemistry or pull toward him most likely because he is married.. there’s a mental block when it comes to married men. He’s attractive and a great person with a humanitarian heart.. i admire him for many reasons but I would not want to be with him even if he did get divorced. Anyone that’s freshly divorced needs to be alone for a while. I’m ready to meet my own husband! I don’t want to be a rebound for someone else’s. Lol so I just need to let it fizzle out.

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He sounds like a male version of me. Attractive humanitarian with a great heart ❤️

Lol 😛

All joking aside, I don’t blame you. A (maybe soon) divorced doctor sounds like a big mess. His wife will always be a part of the picture. No, thanks.

And are you looking for “my husband” too? It all started as a dxp joke for me, but then I realized I should probably get married!!

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

they do, don't worry. lol

some don't. it's sad. like it's a science. it is not.

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Yeah, that would be so sad. I know people who got married just so they can have sex. They are very religious and saved themselves for marriage.

At least first 20 years of marriage, sex should be great.

How old is too old for sex? I have met some very horny old men!

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

they do, don't worry. lol

some don't. it's sad. like it's a science. it is not.

Yeah, that would be so sad. I know people who got married just so they can have sex. They are very religious and saved themselves for marriage.

my work is tied to stats. anyway there was a paper, long time ago like 10y. why men merry. first reason was regular sex lol, the second one was to clean up after them. romantic ❤️

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Ha!

Maybe I should not get “my husband” anyway :/

Regular good sex does sound tempting. Cleaning up after a grown man, not so much. My Leo ex had a cleaning lady.

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

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I heard someone say “the best sexual

Buzzkill for men is wedding cake”

😂🤣

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

they do, don't worry. lol

some don't. it's sad. like it's a science. it is not.

Yeah, that would be so sad. I know people who got married just so they can have sex. They are very religious and saved themselves for marriage.

my work is tied to stats. anyway there was a paper, long time ago like 10y. why men merry. first reason was regular sex lol, the second one was to clean up after them. romantic ❤️

Ha!

Maybe I should not get “my husband” anyway :/

Regular good sex does sound tempting. Cleaning up after a grown man, not so much. My Leo ex had a cleaning lady.

these are just stats. like 80% of them. there is no reason not to meet someone "normal".

it took awhile, but i finally realized who you are. the geminicandle!

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Yeah. I will look for someone “normal” in these not so normal times.

I am glad you finally realized who I am. I am sure it was all gossip, but then again who is real on dxp?

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

I heard someone say “the best sexual

Buzzkill for men is wedding cake”

😂🤣

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Probably true. Lol.

I’ll let you know after I find my husband 😛

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

I heard someone say “the best sexual

Buzzkill for men is wedding cake”

😂🤣

Probably true. Lol.

I’ll let you know after I find my husband 😛

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Just live in separate houses

Familiarity breeds contempt lol 😆

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

they do, don't worry. lol

some don't. it's sad. like it's a science. it is not.

Yeah, that would be so sad. I know people who got married just so they can have sex. They are very religious and saved themselves for marriage.

my work is tied to stats. anyway there was a paper, long time ago like 10y. why men merry. first reason was regular sex lol, the second one was to clean up after them. romantic ❤️

Ha!

Maybe I should not get “my husband” anyway :/

Regular good sex does sound tempting. Cleaning up after a grown man, not so much. My Leo ex had a cleaning lady.

these are just stats. like 80% of them. there is no reason not to meet someone "normal".

it took awhile, but i finally realized who you are. the geminicandle!

Yeah. I will look for someone “normal” in these not so normal times.

I am glad you finally realized who I am. I am sure it was all gossip, but then again who is real on dxp?

i only recognize ands and cc with their first post lol, but with a rest, i have no idea. and they don't want to say. for example wizard is interesting and seems like an old user, but have no idea who he is. tho i don't invest that much.

so, what's new? we are from the same parts of the world i think?

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I guess we are. Although, anywhere I go these days, I am a foreigner.

Nothing is new. Well, everything is kinda new for me. Long story.

I am looking for my husband, so if you know a “good” guy, let me know. But from what I read lately, every week there is a woman dead in your state. Domestic violence. I think I need to arm myself.

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

I heard someone say “the best sexual

Buzzkill for men is wedding cake”

😂🤣

Probably true. Lol.

I’ll let you know after I find my husband 😛

Just live in separate houses

Familiarity breeds contempt lol 😆

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I am planning on keeping my house, star. Just in case!

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At least first 20 years of marriage, sex should be great.

How old is too old for sex? I have met some very horny old men!

You won’t have time for sex.

Too busy pulling up weeds

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Posted by Your_Husband

I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

they do, don't worry. lol

some don't. it's sad. like it's a science. it is not.

Yeah, that would be so sad. I know people who got married just so they can have sex. They are very religious and saved themselves for marriage.

my work is tied to stats. anyway there was a paper, long time ago like 10y. why men merry. first reason was regular sex lol, the second one was to clean up after them. romantic ❤️

Ha!

Maybe I should not get “my husband” anyway :/

Regular good sex does sound tempting. Cleaning up after a grown man, not so much. My Leo ex had a cleaning lady.

these are just stats. like 80% of them. there is no reason not to meet someone "normal".

it took awhile, but i finally realized who you are. the geminicandle!

Yeah. I will look for someone “normal” in these not so normal times.

I am glad you finally realized who I am. I am sure it was all gossip, but then again who is real on dxp?

i only recognize ands and cc with their first post lol, but with a rest, i have no idea. and they don't want to say. for example wizard is interesting and seems like an old user, but have no idea who he is. tho i don't invest that much.

so, what's new? we are from the same parts of the world i think?

I guess we are. Although, anywhere I go these days, I am a foreigner.

Nothing is new. Well, everything is kinda new for me. Long story.

I am looking for my husband, so if you know a “good” guy, let me know. But from what I read lately, every week there is a woman dead in your state. Domestic violence. I think I need to arm myself.

You don't need a gun or a baseball bat. 12" strap on will have most men running a mile.

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LOL!

What if he likes it though? Hey, you never know 😝

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At least first 20 years of marriage, sex should be great.

How old is too old for sex? I have met some very horny old men!

With viagra and cialis even Dracula is having trouble closing the coffin lid. 🧛

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Lol, naughty Alex.

But seriously, some older men have surprised me. Those guys were like 65-72 year old. The way they talk about sex and women is unbelievable. I guess they are only human too. Maybe it’s all talk.

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I've forgotten about sex since I've been married.

Married people don’t have sex?

they do, don't worry. lol

some don't. it's sad. like it's a science. it is not.

Yeah, that would be so sad. I know people who got married just so they can have sex. They are very religious and saved themselves for marriage.

my work is tied to stats. anyway there was a paper, long time ago like 10y. why men merry. first reason was regular sex lol, the second one was to clean up after them. romantic ❤️

Ha!

Maybe I should not get “my husband” anyway :/

Regular good sex does sound tempting. Cleaning up after a grown man, not so much. My Leo ex had a cleaning lady.

these are just stats. like 80% of them. there is no reason not to meet someone "normal".

it took awhile, but i finally realized who you are. the geminicandle!

Yeah. I will look for someone “normal” in these not so normal times.

I am glad you finally realized who I am. I am sure it was all gossip, but then again who is real on dxp?

i only recognize ands and cc with their first post lol, but with a rest, i have no idea. and they don't want to say. for example wizard is interesting and seems like an old user, but have no idea who he is. tho i don't invest that much.

so, what's new? we are from the same parts of the world i think?

I guess we are. Although, anywhere I go these days, I am a foreigner.

Nothing is new. Well, everything is kinda new for me. Long story.

I am looking for my husband, so if you know a “good” guy, let me know. But from what I read lately, every week there is a woman dead in your state. Domestic violence. I think I need to arm myself.

You don't need a gun or a baseball bat. 12" strap on will have most men running a mile.

LOL!

What if he likes it though? Hey, you never know 😝

Game on. That's not even my thing.

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Yeah. What happened to good old fashioned missionary?

Posted by SassyKiwi

It amuses me when people put sex up on a pedestal in relationships. I’ve seen people want to marry their SO who cheats on them left and right because the sex was just so amazing that they’re scared they wouldn’t be able to find something better?! Literally had no words for the situation… It’s definitely important but if it’s the main indicator of sustaining a relationship…. you’ll see how badly that turns out in the long run. For me being connected to a person mentally and sharing very similar values in life is first and foremost (especially their values towards sex), I believe emotional and sexual chemistry can easily follow afterwards. I’m a demisexual. I can deem someone super attractive but would not let them touch me if I’m not mentally or emotionally attracted.

+1

i was nodding so hard, my neck almost fell off

Yeh, sex is important for me. In a relationship, if no sex or bad sex it feels like frustrating and cheating.

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

When getting into a relationship? I know it seems like it shouldnt be a priority but for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives. Yall thoughts?

Personally I couldn't have a relationship with someone who is Asexual.

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I’ve almost missed that post of yours!

You couldn’t? Oy! Why don’t I doubt it AT ALL? 😂😂😂💪😭🎉

Posted by Libra4rmTX

... for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives.

Which are?

Isn't sex one of the primal/basic drive? I may be taking this too literal.

and if you guys went to the same school, you'll prob have a high chance with that person.

there's prob a lot of people you'd be deeply compatible with on there.

Honestly it’s not that important to me? But I’ll usually jump straight into it, I’m not sure why. I go years without it, meet someone that I find attractive but I’ve also formed a friendship with and then bam we have sex. I’m usually drunk when it happens to, otherwise I really don’t care.

If the guy got me into his bedroom however we’d probs have sex and more sex lol but I 100% know that sex isn’t important to me. The last time I did it was before covid started soooo

It’s all about the mental connection to

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

... for me I need to make sure at the very LEAST that we can at least fulfill our basic drives.

Which are?

Isn't sex one of the primal/basic drive? I may be taking this too literal.

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Naw you right, thats exactly what I meant

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It’s all about the mental connection to

You mean like fucking once brains out? 🙄