
Dxp is usually a dump yard to discuss relationship woes. What about those who don’t need any sexual partners in life? Do y’all exist on here?



Posted by Antiphates


Posted by Undine
I woke up one day disgusted by the thought of genitalia (and of men trying to get into mine's).
I hope it stay like this forever, because I like it.

Posted by AntiphatesPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Antiphates
Makes sense, you’re an Aquarius 😂 So what are the closest things to a relationship you’ve experienced?
Seven year long situationship with a Gemini that officially never was a relationship but had a lot of traits of a relationships in it's interactions.click to expand

Posted by Black-Mamba
i haven't had sex in a long time, how does one know

Posted by Black-Mamba
i haven't had sex in a long time, how does one know

Posted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site

Posted by Black-Mamba
i haven't had sex in a long time, how does one know

Posted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site
Yeah I totally agree which is why I want to know about the nature of their relationship experiences if they’ve had any.
I spent a few years voluntarily celibate and I felt as close as I could I think to being "asexual" because the idea of having sex with anyone disgusted me in general and I couldn't even picture it in my head, let alone felt the desire to ever go through with it. I was not asexual. Then I eventually met someone I was actually attracted to and I was turned into a nympho after the celibacy. I think so many of these people just get used to the status quo, forget what it feels like to be touched or kissed after so long. Or maybe they never even did in the first place.
Meanwhile I had a roommate briefly who was a 25 year old virgin, who claimed he was "asexual" but had no problem telling me multiple times he would have sex with me if I wanted to. Riiiiight 🙄🙄🙄 Asexual = involuntarily celibate I guess lolclick to expand

Posted by AntiphatesPosted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site
Yeah I totally agree which is why I want to know about the nature of their relationship experiences if they’ve had any.
I spent a few years voluntarily celibate and I felt as close as I could I think to being "asexual" because the idea of having sex with anyone disgusted me in general and I couldn't even picture it in my head, let alone felt the desire to ever go through with it. I was not asexual. Then I eventually met someone I was actually attracted to and I was turned into a nympho after the celibacy. I think so many of these people just get used to the status quo, forget what it feels like to be touched or kissed after so long. Or maybe they never even did in the first place.
Meanwhile I had a roommate briefly who was a 25 year old virgin, who claimed he was "asexual" but had no problem telling me multiple times he would have sex with me if I wanted to. Riiiiight 🙄🙄🙄 Asexual = involuntarily celibate I guess lol
Good points.
On the other hand it does and doesn't help at the same time the we have an increasingly number of terms and defintions.
I forgot the name of it but one I learned in this place described a sexual orientation that is "asexual" until a real romantic/emotional relationship is formed.
Given what you said I can't exclude the possibility of being that instead of truly asexual but at this point in time it's hard to tell what of the two it is.click to expand

Posted by AntiphatesPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by AntiphatesPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Antiphates
Makes sense, you’re an Aquarius 😂 So what are the closest things to a relationship you’ve experienced?
Seven year long situationship with a Gemini that officially never was a relationship but had a lot of traits of a relationships in it's interactions.
Seven years and nothing sexual at all? Not even a kiss? 😱 Was it a guy or a girl?
Women, but she is bisexual which can made things harder I guess.
She kissed me once and it probably shocked and suprised her as much as me because we only ran into each other by accident when I wanted to return a book I lent from her to her parents house.click to expand

Posted by blvckphvse
Just curious after reading all of this.. What qualifies as asexual then? :/
If someone is a virgin, can it not be by choice because they are asexual?
Can someone who once was sexually active not become asexual?
Are there rules to this? Lol, I really do not know.. I always thought an asexual person was someone who had no desire for sex or that they lacked sexual feelings.. Is it only considered asexual if they always felt this way or could someone develop such a thing later in life and still identify as asexual? Because if not every asexual person would be a virgin..

Posted by blvckphvse
Sorry, my dumb ass quoted myself instead of editing -_-




Posted by VenusAquarius
Sunday, I had a spontaneous orgasm so deep and so powerful I felt like my uterus and clitoris were on fire and I was sooo sore afterwards...
...I pondered the purpose of intercourse and then pondered the existence of the penis. My mind just naturally went there after this O.
Being this way could have made me asexual but, I'm curious and a sexually sympathetic.
If I could control these O's...

Posted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquarius
Sunday, I had a spontaneous orgasm so deep and so powerful I felt like my uterus and clitoris were on fire and I was sooo sore afterwards...
...I pondered the purpose of intercourse and then pondered the existence of the penis. My mind just naturally went there after this O.
Being this way could have made me asexual but, I'm curious and a sexually sympathetic.
If I could control these O's...
What were you doing before you’ve orgasmed?click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquarius
Sunday, I had a spontaneous orgasm so deep and so powerful I felt like my uterus and clitoris were on fire and I was sooo sore afterwards...
...I pondered the purpose of intercourse and then pondered the existence of the penis. My mind just naturally went there after this O.
Being this way could have made me asexual but, I'm curious and a sexually sympathetic.
If I could control these O's...
What were you doing before you’ve orgasmed?
Sleepingclick to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquarius
Sunday, I had a spontaneous orgasm so deep and so powerful I felt like my uterus and clitoris were on fire and I was sooo sore afterwards...
...I pondered the purpose of intercourse and then pondered the existence of the penis. My mind just naturally went there after this O.
Being this way could have made me asexual but, I'm curious and a sexually sympathetic.
If I could control these O's...
What were you doing before you’ve orgasmed?
Sleeping
I am sorry but I don’t believe you.click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquarius
Sunday, I had a spontaneous orgasm so deep and so powerful I felt like my uterus and clitoris were on fire and I was sooo sore afterwards...
...I pondered the purpose of intercourse and then pondered the existence of the penis. My mind just naturally went there after this O.
Being this way could have made me asexual but, I'm curious and a sexually sympathetic.
If I could control these O's...
What were you doing before you’ve orgasmed?
Sleeping
I am sorry but I don’t believe you.
LOL, it was so intense, I wanted to post about it again. I did a thread about it a few years ago. But, I thought TMI for the front page and I can't keep talking about it.
No need to be sorry. No belief required.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquarius
Sunday, I had a spontaneous orgasm so deep and so powerful I felt like my uterus and clitoris were on fire and I was sooo sore afterwards...
...I pondered the purpose of intercourse and then pondered the existence of the penis. My mind just naturally went there after this O.
Being this way could have made me asexual but, I'm curious and a sexually sympathetic.
If I could control these O's...
What were you doing before you’ve orgasmed?
Sleeping
I am sorry but I don’t believe you.
LOL, it was so intense, I wanted to post about it again. I did a thread about it a few years ago. But, I thought TMI for the front page and I can't keep talking about it.
No need to be sorry. No belief required.
Sorry again. I believe you! 😂😂😂
I just read about it. Though I had never ever heard from anyone I know that they had this happened to them.
May I ask if you orgasm during sex easily?click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquarius
Sunday, I had a spontaneous orgasm so deep and so powerful I felt like my uterus and clitoris were on fire and I was sooo sore afterwards...
...I pondered the purpose of intercourse and then pondered the existence of the penis. My mind just naturally went there after this O.
Being this way could have made me asexual but, I'm curious and a sexually sympathetic.
If I could control these O's...
What were you doing before you’ve orgasmed?
Sleeping
I am sorry but I don’t believe you.
LOL, it was so intense, I wanted to post about it again. I did a thread about it a few years ago. But, I thought TMI for the front page and I can't keep talking about it.
No need to be sorry. No belief required.
Sorry again. I believe you! 😂😂😂
I just read about it. Though I had never ever heard from anyone I know that they had this happened to them.
May I ask if you orgasm during sex easily?
Very easily... multiple, on contact, and I'm a soaker. But, intensity in the feeling varies. Rarely as intense as the spontaneous O's. My vagina closes in on itself and grinds within. It feels like wall on wall.click to expand


Posted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobotPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site
Yeah I totally agree which is why I want to know about the nature of their relationship experiences if they’ve had any.
I spent a few years voluntarily celibate and I felt as close as I could I think to being "asexual" because the idea of having sex with anyone disgusted me in general and I couldn't even picture it in my head, let alone felt the desire to ever go through with it. I was not asexual. Then I eventually met someone I was actually attracted to and I was turned into a nympho after the celibacy. I think so many of these people just get used to the status quo, forget what it feels like to be touched or kissed after so long. Or maybe they never even did in the first place.
Meanwhile I had a roommate briefly who was a 25 year old virgin, who claimed he was "asexual" but had no problem telling me multiple times he would have sex with me if I wanted to. Riiiiight 🙄🙄🙄 Asexual = involuntarily celibate I guess lol
You were/maybe still are demisexual. You don’t experience sexual attraction until an emotional connection is formed. And yeah your old roommate just needed to get laid.
This guy I didn't have an emotional attachment to though lol, and I had even been attracted to other men I dated but I didn't find them fuckable. I think this was based on CHEMISTRY which doesn't necessarily always have to do with physical attraction, imoclick to expand

Posted by _Dazed
FYI..
There are asexual individuals that DO have sex.

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquarius
Sunday, I had a spontaneous orgasm so deep and so powerful I felt like my uterus and clitoris were on fire and I was sooo sore afterwards...
...I pondered the purpose of intercourse and then pondered the existence of the penis. My mind just naturally went there after this O.
Being this way could have made me asexual but, I'm curious and a sexually sympathetic.
If I could control these O's...
What were you doing before you’ve orgasmed?
Sleeping
I am sorry but I don’t believe you.
LOL, it was so intense, I wanted to post about it again. I did a thread about it a few years ago. But, I thought TMI for the front page and I can't keep talking about it.
No need to be sorry. No belief required.
Sorry again. I believe you! 😂😂😂
I just read about it. Though I had never ever heard from anyone I know that they had this happened to them.
May I ask if you orgasm during sex easily?
Very easily... multiple, on contact, and I'm a soaker. But, intensity in the feeling varies. Rarely as intense as the spontaneous O's. My vagina closes in on itself and grinds within. It feels like wall on wall.
@Gemitati,
Would you have stayed with your husband if you had my "condition." I was in a relationship with a impotent man and almost got married. That's one way I knew I learned that I might be asexual.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by _Dazed
FYI..
There are asexual individuals that DO have sex.
Ya. They can also supposedly masterbate and I'd love to know to what xD Themselves?click to expand

Posted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvse
Sorry, my dumb ass quoted myself instead of editing -_-
Do you see an edit button?! 🤔
Every-time i click on details while trying to edit the post - it quotes my post instead. It's been like that for many months (maybe even a year). The edit function dosn't function anymore (seems to be removed).
Sorry, I meant that I hit quote instead of details to edit. LOL
The buttons are too close!!! There is no edit button anymore, but it normally works for me if I hit details and edit.. I wonder why it is doing that to you? Silly!click to expand


Posted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvse
Sorry, my dumb ass quoted myself instead of editing -_-
Do you see an edit button?! 🤔
Every-time i click on details while trying to edit the post - it quotes my post instead. It's been like that for many months (maybe even a year). The edit function dosn't function anymore (seems to be removed).
Sorry, I meant that I hit quote instead of details to edit. LOL
The buttons are too close!!! There is no edit button anymore, but it normally works for me if I hit details and edit.. I wonder why it is doing that to you? Silly!
I see. Well, i'm 100% sure i didn't hit Quote instead - cause to me that happened every time. It happened so often - that i don't even bother correcting my post anymore (a typo for example) - cause it kept quoting the posts instead. I mentioned this couple of times - but months kept passing without a fix - so it seems like nobody cares or was made to function like this intentionally. 🤷
ps.test
le.seems to be working now. 😳
Hahahaha, it works now!? Sweet! That would be super annoying.. I edit so often just to add a damn comma and shit. Lolclick to expand

Posted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvse
Sorry, my dumb ass quoted myself instead of editing -_-
Do you see an edit button?! 🤔
Every-time i click on details while trying to edit the post - it quotes my post instead. It's been like that for many months (maybe even a year). The edit function dosn't function anymore (seems to be removed).
Sorry, I meant that I hit quote instead of details to edit. LOL
The buttons are too close!!! There is no edit button anymore, but it normally works for me if I hit details and edit.. I wonder why it is doing that to you? Silly!
I see. Well, i'm 100% sure i didn't hit Quote instead - cause to me that happened every time. It happened so often - that i don't even bother correcting my post anymore (a typo for example) - cause it kept quoting the posts instead. I mentioned this couple of times - but months kept passing without a fix - so it seems like nobody cares or was made to function like this intentionally. 🤷
ps.test
le.seems to be working now. 😳
Hahahaha, it works now!? Sweet! That would be super annoying.. I edit so often just to add a damn comma and shit. Lol
Sometimes i write a post in one go and hit the "post message" button shortly after. I guess i got used to editing my grammar afterwards. And since edit button didn't work - there's probably lots of posts of mine that sound kinda illiterate... 😅 Rarely just comma, more like... missing words (my typing speed is kinda mediocre - so i can't keep up with my line of thoughts), or entirely different words (which make no sense in that given context) - due to using auto-correct... 🤐
Bold and brave move! Hahahaha.
I read my posts over too many times before I hit post message.. especially if they are long 😆click to expand

Posted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvse
Sorry, my dumb ass quoted myself instead of editing -_-
Do you see an edit button?! 🤔
Every-time i click on details while trying to edit the post - it quotes my post instead. It's been like that for many months (maybe even a year). The edit function dosn't function anymore (seems to be removed).
Sorry, I meant that I hit quote instead of details to edit. LOL
The buttons are too close!!! There is no edit button anymore, but it normally works for me if I hit details and edit.. I wonder why it is doing that to you? Silly!
I see. Well, i'm 100% sure i didn't hit Quote instead - cause to me that happened every time. It happened so often - that i don't even bother correcting my post anymore (a typo for example) - cause it kept quoting the posts instead. I mentioned this couple of times - but months kept passing without a fix - so it seems like nobody cares or was made to function like this intentionally. 🤷
ps.test
le.seems to be working now. 😳
Hahahaha, it works now!? Sweet! That would be super annoying.. I edit so often just to add a damn comma and shit. Lol
Sometimes i write a post in one go and hit the "post message" button shortly after. I guess i got used to editing my grammar afterwards. And since edit button didn't work - there's probably lots of posts of mine that sound kinda illiterate... 😅 Rarely just comma, more like... missing words (my typing speed is kinda mediocre - so i can't keep up with my line of thoughts), or entirely different words (which make no sense in that given context) - due to using auto-correct... 🤐
Bold and brave move! Hahahaha.
I read my posts over too many times before I hit post message.. especially if they are long 😆
More like... stupid move (: courtesy of having an Aries moon - "act now think latter..." mixed with Mercury in Taurus). You have a Gemini Mercury mixed with all that plutonion/scorpio energy. 😛
Haha, Would make for more entertaining posts at least. Lolzclick to expand


Posted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvsePosted by nevesPosted by blvckphvse
Sorry, my dumb ass quoted myself instead of editing -_-
Do you see an edit button?! 🤔
Every-time i click on details while trying to edit the post - it quotes my post instead. It's been like that for many months (maybe even a year). The edit function dosn't function anymore (seems to be removed).
Sorry, I meant that I hit quote instead of details to edit. LOL
The buttons are too close!!! There is no edit button anymore, but it normally works for me if I hit details and edit.. I wonder why it is doing that to you? Silly!
I see. Well, i'm 100% sure i didn't hit Quote instead - cause to me that happened every time. It happened so often - that i don't even bother correcting my post anymore (a typo for example) - cause it kept quoting the posts instead. I mentioned this couple of times - but months kept passing without a fix - so it seems like nobody cares or was made to function like this intentionally. 🤷
ps.test
le.seems to be working now. 😳
Hahahaha, it works now!? Sweet! That would be super annoying.. I edit so often just to add a damn comma and shit. Lol
Sometimes i write a post in one go and hit the "post message" button shortly after. I guess i got used to editing my grammar afterwards. And since edit button didn't work - there's probably lots of posts of mine that sound kinda illiterate... 😅 Rarely just comma, more like... missing words (my typing speed is kinda mediocre - so i can't keep up with my line of thoughts), or entirely different words (which make no sense in that given context) - due to using auto-correct... 🤐
Bold and brave move! Hahahaha.
I read my posts over too many times before I hit post message.. especially if they are long 😆
More like... stupid move (: courtesy of having an Aries moon - "act now think latter..." mixed with Mercury in Taurus). You have a Gemini Mercury mixed with all that plutonion/scorpio energy. 😛
Haha, Would make for more entertaining posts at least. Lolz
It's just probably just karma. Since i used to be a grammar nazi in the past! 😀 Seeing people writing "you're/they're" as "your/their" used to drive me mad... 🤪 What goes around - comes around... I guess. 😛
Hahahaha, it's true, you always were a grammar nazi. 😄click to expand



Posted by PVAFDeuxPosted by aquarius09
I’m demisexual who is also kinda hypocondriac about STDs.
Ditto.click to expand
Posted by nanobot
Getting too used to one's own cobwebbed dick/vagina or being a virgin or very sexually inexperienced is hardly asexual and I feel like a lot of people would confuse those two things on this site


Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by bricklemark
I guess l am...every time l had sex l got in trouble...
Maybe because you got married and then wanted to carry on fucking like you weren't?click to expand


Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by bricklemark
I guess l am...every time l had sex l got in trouble...
Maybe because you got married and then wanted to carry on fucking like you weren't?click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by bricklemark
I guess l am...every time l had sex l got in trouble...
Maybe because you got married and then wanted to carry on fucking like you weren't?
lol
I didn't say anything until I saw like his third whiny-ass "I can't get laid" post in a week.click to expand



Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by bricklemark
I guess l am...every time l had sex l got in trouble...
Maybe because you got married and then wanted to carry on fucking like you weren't?
Good one...Americans always do this...talking about before l got married. And now we're seperated, l wrote it in the thread. Why didn't you read it?
It’s none of my business. Apologies.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwi
Dxp is usually a dump yard to discuss relationship woes. What about those who don’t need any sexual partners in life? Do y’all exist on here?

Posted by twinkletoesPosted by SassyKiwi
Dxp is usually a dump yard to discuss relationship woes. What about those who don’t need any sexual partners in life? Do y’all exist on here?
Hey look, Sassy. Just because you are a cold-ass bitch, doesn't mean you need to spread your anti-sex movement across the internet.
Who says having a sexual partner means having relationship woes?
Could it be possible to have sex without any drama?click to expand
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