Monogamous

Am i the only one who still prefer monogamous relationship while polyamory / open relationship is way more common nowadays?

I feel uncool sometimes to be that way, but i can't help it. You?

I have Leo Venus. Must be only queen. Period.

Same here. If I am not number one it’s a turn off.

Not sure where you're getting your info from.

Monogamy is still much in demand these days, don't worry.

where do you get that polyamory / open relationships are more common nowadays?

but its true, people are cheating and reasoning with the polyamory/open relationship nonsense 🙂

very rarely both (or all) people in those relationships are on the same page regarding the openness (but there are exceptions, thats true)

the other thing is, with the internet, social media, dating applications being used, people feel they have more options, not just a plain old fashioned cheating

Real poly relationships from what I've seen are not about cheating or being second best. It's very extroverted people who feel they can handle more than one person at a time. It's not for everyone

Posted by JanMayMarry

I'm a Leo moon/ rising. I must be the ONE and ONLY.

That is all. 😄

lol a few days ago i did a couple's chart, and they were into open marriages. the famous man had leo moon. LOL

;p nothing is set in stone.

op, too jealous, i can't share. I had a hard time sharing my crayons and coloring books when i was little ..and i got reprimanded for it. and punished.

i cried alot.

i wish others would get their OWN..

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Posted by JanMayMarry

I'm a Leo moon/ rising. I must be the ONE and ONLY.

That is all. 😄

lol a few days ago i did a couple's chart, and they were into open marriages. the famous man had leo moon. LOL

;p nothing is set in stone.

Idc. I wanna create my own astronologic. 😆

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xd astrology according to janmaymeery ;p

i love that kind of astrology, making your own rules LOLOL like a dream come true.

no you're not the only one! like u i want monogamy.

I don't share!!!

Posted by Ellygant

I’ve been poly before it was cool. Liked it at the time. Looking only for monogamy now myself.

Same lol.

Posted by Ellygant

A few of the guys I’ve dated used to be poly but wanted monogamy as well.

Most people don’t really grasp all the work that goes into poly/open commitments. It’s literally twice the work. Otherwise you just end up breaking up anyways lol.

Monogamy is still common. People are just more raw with their insecurities, picky and slow to jump into commitment. Which isn’t always a bad thing.

I usually tell people it's 3 times the work.

My mom didn't teach me very well. I don't share! Monogamy for me.

I think it's more common but not the majority.

Imo (most) poly relationships are for people who aren't really ready to commit and have some past hang ups on previous relationships. I could never do a poly relationship, it actually makes my soul crawl lol But if that's what other people like that's fine! We're not all made to have one type of relationship.

I grew up in a polygamy family so i got my throat shoved down with the idea that it's ok to have multiple partners in life. Which i actually resent much. I can tell that it's not for me but for some reason i'm trying to be cool with it. I supress my jealousy to the minimum, i have huge fear of vulnerability.

It really fucked my head up and how i see relationship in general.

But then i met this man. Whom i can feel so comfortable and feel accepted to say that i can't share and i can be jealous too sometimes. He even loves me more for that, he is monogamous too.

And i don't know how you guys would take it but reading all of your comments about how monogamous is still common, it's ok and normal makes me feel soo much better about myself and people in general. Makes me feel warm idk why. Like my faith in humanity just got restored lol. Thank you to all of you!

Monogamous Is human nature

TheSag = mongomnomanuos

A guy I knew frowned at me when I suggested open relationship down the line when the limerance is over for the both of us. He definitely wasn’t pleased with me one bit but he was also into cheating on his partner. LOL. So, that’s that 😏

no you are not the only one

Monogamy is NOT human nature. It is a choice.

You either choose it, or you don't. It's that simple. Neither is right or wrong to do as well. People can live their lives the way they want to.

I make the choice to be monogamous because I have possessive issues. What's mine is mine, and I will not share.

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Posted by nikkistar

Monogamy is NOT human nature. It is a choice.

You either choose it, or you don't. It's that simple. Neither is right or wrong to do as well. People can live their lives the way they want to.

I make the choice to be monogamous because I have possessive issues. What's mine is mine, and I will not share.

"I make the choice to be monogamous because I have possessive issues. What's mine is mine, and I will not share."

Honesty love that! Now the flip side. What about sharing you? And no that does not mean your sleeping with both. Because of society that is frowned upon. One will be your best friend, emotional blanket, and good conversation. The other everything else including financial support, arm candy, and your physical needs.

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Nah, I don't like sharing myself either. I am very black and white when it comes to romantic versus friendship. My partner will be my bestfriend, and all inclusive to anything romantically. My bestfriends are only friends, and there is no physical attraction with them.

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Posted by Haruuka

Monogamous Is human nature

Nope monogamy is a new concept in our evolution. Ridiculously rare in nature too. Monogamy in nature is a fairytale.

Serial monogamy is what we do. Meaning we basically tell any other potential partner to get in line. Then wait until the current s/o messes up or you get bored. I'm including the dating phase too because people get a lot of hate for dating multiple people at a time. Which is stupid.

Those people in line get "friend zoned" or "back burnered". Females are the worst offenders.

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you're missing the point

Cuz, people tend to be with one person at time.

And yeah, if it didn’t work out, and they broke up or thier partner is dead, then they move on, this is what people do.

It’s hard even for men to be with more than one wife, I see it happens.

Don't focus on other people's relstionships, if it's not for you then it's not for you.....