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Posted by Deedee86
Bad drivers.

Pulling out in the passing lane but driving slower than the cars they are trying to pass.

Cars that ride my ass to try to get me to move faster when there are 20 cars in front of me. Should I fly over them?

True story....a car back up traffic for 2 blocks while they tried to parallel park.


OFCOURSE it's true story!

I've been planning on getting out of the car and ASK...( $ &&@"&——
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And obese people getting handicapped parking tags.

Some 90 year old with an oxygen tank or some guy with no legs has to park 4 rows away because a fat assed 30 year old can't burn an extra calorie.
Obesity is a legitimate disability though.
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I had a heated debate with my obese cousin on this issue. She has a handicapped tag and has no problem walking. I cannot comprehend why she takes that parking space away from someone that really needs it. And why on earth would a doctor sign off on that?

Obesity is not a disability that warrants a handicapped parking tag but it can cause other issues that do.

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And obese people getting handicapped parking tags.

Some 90 year old with an oxygen tank or some guy with no legs has to park 4 rows away because a fat assed 30 year old can't burn an extra calorie.
Obesity is a legitimate disability though.

I had a heated debate with my obese cousin on this issue. She has a handicapped tag and has no problem walking. I cannot comprehend why she takes that parking space away from someone that really needs it. And why on earth would a doctor sign off on that?

Obesity is not a disability that warrants a handicapped parking tag but it can cause other issues that do.




Except you can't look at an obese individual and know what comorbidities they have.
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But I know my cousin and I know that she has no problem walking. And I know that she has a handicapped parking tag.

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People who wash plastic disposable dishware. It's meant for one time use so why is it in the sink? Throw it away.

People who don't replace the tissue or paper towels when you're out. Same with your general house supplies. Like what's wrong with you?!?!

Finding out my food was eaten when it clearly states that it was MINE.

People who don't clean up after themselves. You deserve a swift kick in the ass.

Waking me up out of my sleep. You wanna get stabbed? Wake me up for some stupid shit.

And finally..

Sitting on a bed fresh out of the shower without putting a towel down. I'll whoop anyone's ass that does that. That and stepping out of the shower without any type of rug/towels on the floor.
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And obese people getting handicapped parking tags.

Some 90 year old with an oxygen tank or some guy with no legs has to park 4 rows away because a fat assed 30 year old can't burn an extra calorie.
Obesity is a legitimate disability though.

I had a heated debate with my obese cousin on this issue. She has a handicapped tag and has no problem walking. I cannot comprehend why she takes that parking space away from someone that really needs it. And why on earth would a doctor sign off on that?

Obesity is not a disability that warrants a handicapped parking tag but it can cause other issues that do.




Except you can't look at an obese individual and know what comorbidities they have.

But I know my cousin and I know that she has no problem walking. And I know that she has a handicapped parking tag.




Your sister isn't everyone.
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Do you wanna know what my pet peeve is?

Nitpickers

Know it alls

And right fighters

They really kill the mood
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How could we forgotten ball adjusters—



I once met a great looking fella who came to sell me advertisement for my store and I couldn't hear a word he was saying - he was touching himself like every 10 seconds!!!

When he left we were

/dead!!! ??
My Libra has a friend who shoots up a lot of steroids and I guess it makes his junk itchy idk? But he scratches them so much he has like a dirt stain on his pants from it ? it's bad .......and very distracting I must say

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People that snort constantly instead of blowing their nose!!!! Damn that one makes me feel violent


It's not in the nose.. it's in the throat.
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You're one of those fuckers aren't you ?

Does allergy medicine work ? I mean seriously it's disgusting ...and I think it more or less becomes like a habit/tick at some point
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People that snort constantly instead of blowing their nose!!!! Damn that one makes me feel violent


It's not in the nose.. it's in the throat.

You're one of those fuckers aren't you ?

Does allergy medicine work ? I mean seriously it's disgusting ...and I think it more or less becomes like a habit/tick at some point


I just have an unusually moist throat.
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Been there
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but uts gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
Do you feel it comes out of protection or do do you feel uncomfortable around your dad?



If your mom said it—

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My mom used to tell me that so I had to like put on basketball shorts when he was around and I just don't wear them anymore. Even when I would wear sports bras I had to put on T-shirts. And I feel uncomfortable around him now after being told that for years! But it's like it's my biological father WTF.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
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You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
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That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
I wore short shorts and a crop top with cut off strands the other day

My sister so you going to walk like that with our dad. That's so gross

Me I'm hot

I walk with him all these old white men think I married an older man for money

I tell her. She's like Hahahaha i told you. They thought you were our Dads prostitute

Women don't dress like that around their dad

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You mean black, Mexican and Indian men didn't think that! Just white men did?
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but uts gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
Do you feel it comes out of protection or do do you feel uncomfortable around your dad?



If your mom said it—



My mom used to tell me that so I had to like put on basketball shorts when he was around and I just don't wear them anymore. Even when I would wear sports bras I had to put on T-shirts. And I feel uncomfortable around him now after being told that for years! But it's like it's my biological father WTF.


Oh i misunderstood your first post

That's fuking disgusting. Why would your mom put that in your head—

Does your dad look at you sexually?

Was your mother raped as a child—
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Exactly, I know her sister was by her dad but why would you stay with someone you would have to worry about that with? And I hope he doesn't I'm completely repulsed by him can't stand him so ☺☺☺☺
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!
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Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
I wore short shorts and a crop top with cut off strands the other day

My sister so you going to walk like that with our dad. That's so gross

Me I'm hot

I walk with him all these old white men think I married an older man for money

I tell her. She's like Hahahaha i told you. They thought you were our Dads prostitute

Women don't dress like that around their dad

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Like I feel like no-one understands that I'm trying to do something for myself and I have to worry about whether I'm going to be sexually assaulted or thought bad about because I want to be me. And I'm just in the house like no-one else is seeing me why can't I dress comfortable around my dad ?
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
I wore short shorts and a crop top with cut off strands the other day

My sister so you going to walk like that with our dad. That's so gross

Me I'm hot

I walk with him all these old white men think I married an older man for money

I tell her. She's like Hahahaha i told you. They thought you were our Dads prostitute

Women don't dress like that around their dad


You mean black, Mexican and Indian men didn't think that! Just white men did?
I live in a white neighborhood. We were the only blacks walking the trail
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It's so weird dealing with white men like that because then they feel obligated to try you and your like um your old enough to be my grandpa no sir—
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but uts gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
Do you feel it comes out of protection or do do you feel uncomfortable around your dad?



If your mom said it—



My mom used to tell me that so I had to like put on basketball shorts when he was around and I just don't wear them anymore. Even when I would wear sports bras I had to put on T-shirts. And I feel uncomfortable around him now after being told that for years! But it's like it's my biological father WTF.


Oh i misunderstood your first post

That's fuking disgusting. Why would your mom put that in your head—

Does your dad look at you sexually?

Was your mother raped as a child—
Exactly, I know her sister was by her dad but why would you stay with someone you would have to worry about that with? And I hope he doesn't I'm completely repulsed by him can't stand him so ☺☺☺☺
And if you weren't repulsed by him it still would be very very wrong ...

Dude instead of worrying about boys why aren't you worried about your education
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I am but again my dad is one of those people where he wants to tell me what to do! Like either be a nurse or nothing he thinks woman are maids! And stay at home wives when I was five I told him I wanted to be a doctor and he told me and my sister we could only be nurses and my brother could be the doctor, he's so sexist, and I can't leave my mom and little brothers that cancer in me has to look out for them so I'm like wedged and confused.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
I wore short shorts and a crop top with cut off strands the other day

My sister so you going to walk like that with our dad. That's so gross

Me I'm hot

I walk with him all these old white men think I married an older man for money

I tell her. She's like Hahahaha i told you. They thought you were our Dads prostitute

Women don't dress like that around their dad


You mean black, Mexican and Indian men didn't think that! Just white men did?
I live in a white neighborhood. We were the only blacks walking the trail
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Oh! My never answered queation...

Why black people trying so hard to insert themselves into white neighborhoods while hating white people?

I am white but foreign. I was trying to watch my behavior in white neighborhood because I didn't want anyone saying 'those foreigners'...

So being different race I would cling to my own. Right?
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
I wore short shorts and a crop top with cut off strands the other day

My sister so you going to walk like that with our dad. That's so gross

Me I'm hot

I walk with him all these old white men think I married an older man for money

I tell her. She's like Hahahaha i told you. They thought you were our Dads prostitute

Women don't dress like that around their dad


You mean black, Mexican and Indian men didn't think that! Just white men did?
I live in a white neighborhood. We were the only blacks walking the trail
Oh! My never answered queation...

Why black people trying so hard to insert themselves into white neighborhoods while hating white people?

I am white but foreign. I was trying to watch my behavior in white neighborhood because I didn't want anyone saying 'those foreigners'...

So being different race I would cling to my own. Right?
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I naturally fit in white neighborhoods and I'm not one of those race clingers that feel like if your Mexican hang with the Mexican like its the 20th century! And I love white people and Indians and all races not all black people hate white people I feel like we just want them to open their eyes and speak up for us since their voices are heard over ours! Like some white people and other races know how to use their privilege their race privilege for good so hate is a very strong word!
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
I wore short shorts and a crop top with cut off strands the other day

My sister so you going to walk like that with our dad. That's so gross

Me I'm hot

I walk with him all these old white men think I married an older man for money

I tell her. She's like Hahahaha i told you. They thought you were our Dads prostitute

Women don't dress like that around their dad


You mean black, Mexican and Indian men didn't think that! Just white men did?
I live in a white neighborhood. We were the only blacks walking the trail
Oh! My never answered queation...

Why black people trying so hard to insert themselves into white neighborhoods while hating white people?

I am white but foreign. I was trying to watch my behavior in white neighborhood because I didn't want anyone saying 'those foreigners'...

So being different race I would cling to my own. Right?
I naturally fit in white neighborhoods and I'm not one of those race clingers that feel like if your Mexican hang with the Mexican like its the 20th century! And I love white people and Indians and all races not all black people hate white people I feel like we just want them to open their eyes and speak up for us since their voices are heard over ours! Like some white people and other races know how to use their privilege their race privilege for good so hate is a very strong word!
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That's fine! But CC has beef with white people. Not that I don't get why but it is what rased the question.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!
Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?
Come on dawg. Let's empower her.

Rape isn't about clothes. But power
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I never said anything about rape. Also not sure how wearing short shorts around one's father is empowering,
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!
Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?
Come on dawg. Let's empower her.

Rape isn't about clothes. But power
I never said anything about rape. Also not sure how wearing short shorts around one's father is empowering,
I'm not talking about the short wearing

I'm talking about independence

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K, but still not understanding how independence plays into this particular scenario.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!
Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?
Come on dawg. Let's empower her.

Rape isn't about clothes. But power
I never said anything about rape. Also not sure how wearing short shorts around one's father is empowering,
I'm not talking about the short wearing

I'm talking about independence


K, but still not understanding how independence plays into this particular scenario.
Whelp if she wants the freedom to dress how she'd like. Don't you think being independent of her parents might be the solution

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Look over Chuck he is quiet the stubborn lion. He has a fixed View point on everything, and always takes my dads side cuz there both Leo's, mutual understanding. What do you think @Tom_Sawyer? Is Chuck right?
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Oh the biggest one for me. I have a 2year old(my first born) and being a newer parent people are always getting on to me and telling me how to do things with him like I don't know him best aughhhh that grinds my gears!!!
What do they say?

Don't forget to change his pampers?

Lol
Change his diaper again, make sure he drinks enough milk, where is he at what is he doing, don't let his hair get long, don't spank him, spank him, don't let him suck his thumb his teeth are going to look like so and so, call the dr for every little thing, the list goes on and on. ?

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That must be so annoying do you have like no experience with babies or something? As a cancer your like past highly trained for this, right—?
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!
Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?
Come on dawg. Let's empower her.

Rape isn't about clothes. But power
I never said anything about rape. Also not sure how wearing short shorts around one's father is empowering,
I'm not talking about the short wearing

I'm talking about independence


K, but still not understanding how independence plays into this particular scenario.
Whelp if she wants the freedom to dress how she'd like. Don't you think being independent of her parents might be the solution

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I think that while she's under her parents' roof, her parents' rules apply. If mom says, "Don't wear short shorts around Dad," that's the long and the short of it. The reason for the rule is unimportant and really doesn't have anything to do with OP's independence. If OP wishes to do her own thing, then she can get her own place too.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!
It's for your own good
Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!
Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?
Come on dawg. Let's empower her.

Rape isn't about clothes. But power
I never said anything about rape. Also not sure how wearing short shorts around one's father is empowering,
I'm not talking about the short wearing

I'm talking about independence


K, but still not understanding how independence plays into this particular scenario.
Whelp if she wants the freedom to dress how she'd like. Don't you think being independent of her parents might be the solution


I think that while she's under her parents' roof, her parents' rules apply. If mom says, "Don't wear short shorts around Dad," that's the long and the short of it. The reason for the rule is unimportant and really doesn't have anything to do with OP's independence. If OP wishes to do her own thing, then she can get her own place too.
Can you admit the situation is super gross

I've never heard of such a thing

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That's assuming OP is being told not to wear short shorts around her dad because of sexual reasons. I think OP is misinterpreting a pretty normal request. This is why I said to OP that she's missing the point.

If I were a father, I would tell my daughter to put on clothes as well. It's the same reason I don't walk around in my underwear when I'm around my parents. Granted I'm aware that some families are more comfortable than others, but in OP's case it sounds like the rules have been set regarding what is appropriate attire in the house around her parents.

I also don't think OP's mother is saying this for the father's benefit or to infringe upon OP's independence. When the mom says, "There are men in the house" she is talking about more than one person (even if the father is the only one present at the time). Sounds like the mother is setting a standard of dress in the house for a reaon (I would assume for when other men are present as well).

I don't doubt that OP's mother is also setting standards for what she feels her daughter should be wearing outside oft he house as well. Again I doubt this has anything to do with OP's father's mentality around her.
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