She's not my ideal girl and I *still* refuse to commit myself to her...

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...but whenever she's around, I always lighten up... like she brings sunshine, butterflies and rainbow to my world all of a sudden.

At the same time I couldn't resist hugging her, holding her hands and do other things sweet. I like her simplicity, humility and her youthful nature.

I like how she smells... he pheromones attract me. Everywhere she goes, I follow her to smell her and her hair.

She's the only girl of her kind. I haven't met another girl like her.
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Yeah just don't sabotage yourself again to the point where you're invited to another wedding where the girl you like is marrying another guy.

As I've told you last time, you can't just leave women to their own devices.


Yeah. Funny thing is, she's another Leo.

There's something about Leos. I find them humble and genuine, and not as what Astrology portrays them to be.
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...but whenever she's around, I always lighten up... like she brings sunshine, butterflies and rainbow to my world all of a sudden.

At the same time I couldn't resist hugging her, holding her hands and do other things sweet. I like her simplicity, humility and her youthful nature.

I like how she smells... he pheromones attract me. Everywhere she goes, I follow her to smell her and her hair.

She's the only girl of her kind. I haven't met another girl like her.
If you're serious...then you simply need to stop using the "ideal" girl to justify your fears of actually having something tangible and real 🙂

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...but whenever she's around, I always lighten up... like she brings sunshine, butterflies and rainbow to my world all of a sudden.

At the same time I couldn't resist hugging her, holding her hands and do other things sweet. I like her simplicity, humility and her youthful nature.

I like how she smells... he pheromones attract me. Everywhere she goes, I follow her to smell her and her hair.

She's the only girl of her kind. I haven't met another girl like her.
If you're serious...then you simply need to stop using the "ideal" girl to justify your fears of actually having something tangible and real 🙂

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What do you mean?
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make a move dont be a pussy...cat, you're a bunny 🙂
I have apprehensions. Still getting to know her more. If I fall in love, that's it. We're going to marry.
How old are you?

I know you're Asian too... do your parents always ask you when you're getting married?
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29. Sometimes, they do. They don't like her.
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...but whenever she's around, I always lighten up... like she brings sunshine, butterflies and rainbow to my world all of a sudden.

At the same time I couldn't resist hugging her, holding her hands and do other things sweet. I like her simplicity, humility and her youthful nature.

I like how she smells... he pheromones attract me. Everywhere she goes, I follow her to smell her and her hair.

She's the only girl of her kind. I haven't met another girl like her.
If you're serious...then you simply need to stop using the "ideal" girl to justify your fears of actually having something tangible and real 🙂


What do you mean?
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I'm going by the title of your thread. By your account, she's good for you but yet you can't commit. Don't let the perfect or "ideal" be the enemy of the good. Ideal does not exist in reality you'll never find it. And that's the point. It's not about finding the ideal woman or man, it's about growth and living. So if she makes you feel this way...throw caution to the wind and go for it.

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make a move dont be a pussy...cat, you're a bunny 🙂
I have apprehensions. Still getting to know her more. If I fall in love, that's it. We're going to marry.
How old are you?

I know you're Asian too... do your parents always ask you when you're getting married?
29. Sometimes, they do. They don't like her.
You sound like a kid tho.

How come they don't like her?

And what is her sign?
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She isn't pretty AND smart. My mum wants somebody who's either pretty OR smart.

My mum read her love letter to me and she was like, "She doesn't communicate well."
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Posted by starwars
make a move dont be a pussy...cat, you're a bunny 🙂
I have apprehensions. Still getting to know her more. If I fall in love, that's it. We're going to marry.
How old are you?

I know you're Asian too... do your parents always ask you when you're getting married?
29. Sometimes, they do. They don't like her.
You sound like a kid tho.

How come they don't like her?

And what is her sign?
She isn't pretty AND smart. My mum wants somebody who's either pretty OR smart.

My mum read her love letter to me and she was like, "She doesn't communicate well."
does your aqua bro have a gf?
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No.
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you should travel, see theworld, get out of your parents influence. Fight for yourself.

Go to a place here nobody will make your life easy and become tough through a harsh living.

Otherwise you will get into a governement job sponsored by your parents and spend your life being a tropical mama's boy. Will spend your life in boring offices wearing white shirts and a reel belt keychain.
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Yeah just don't sabotage yourself again to the point where you're invited to another wedding where the girl you like is marrying another guy.

As I've told you last time, you can't just leave women to their own devices.


Yeah. Funny thing is, she's another Leo.

There's something about Leos. I find them humble and genuine, and not as what Astrology portrays them to be.
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It's true 😉
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What's your occupation @Seraphlight?
I help my mother's business and proof read freelance. It's not full time though by any means. I am lazy. I do write and have had stuff published etc. I have helped with art workshops my mother does..and in an art center that taught kids. That was fun.



I am too dreamy to *career* well. But not doing it all the time allows me to be more artistic. I want to write though. I am very unstructured though.

Why did you ask? 🙂
So basically your occupation is living on your parents dime like a bum.



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If you could...

Think old money, cc.

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What's your occupation @Seraphlight?
I help my mother's business and proof read freelance. It's not full time though by any means. I am lazy. I do write and have had stuff published etc. I have helped with art workshops my mother does..and in an art center that taught kids. That was fun.



I am too dreamy to *career* well. But not doing it all the time allows me to be more artistic. I want to write though. I am very unstructured though.

Why did you ask? 🙂
So basically your occupation is living on your parents dime like a bum.




If you could...

Think old money, cc.


Old money makes for very lazy unproductive children
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It can, yes... depends on the person.

Sometimes they end up increasing their worth,

or becoming philanthropists.

*shrugs*

Not something I've ever had to worry about.



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You only understand the surface of people...the tip of the iceburg...you can't look back into the threads of their past...the paths of their future and imagine ...to truly understand who they are ....i can do this usually from feeling someone out ...

I can tell if a girl has bought her hand bag or stolen it...
More importantly ...they can tell themselves.

Firebunny...you know yourself if you are living a genuine life ..right now...with your feelings to this girl...or not ..and eventually ...the truth will catch up...

Either you love her ..or you don't and are entertained.

I don't think you love her.

In fact I KNOW you don't love her.
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Why do you say this?