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Every wants to feel wanted, its called being human.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
Posted by EmotionalAriesThere is a difference between wanting to feel wanted and thinking every guy around is into you and/ or trying to get every guy to be into you.
Every wants to feel wanted, its called being human.
Posted by justagirlSome women actually feel that on a whole, who are we to judge, let them feel what they want. I try not to judge another because I can't walk a mile in another's shoes.Posted by EmotionalAriesThere is a difference between wanting to feel wanted and thinking every guy around is into you and/ or trying to get every guy to be into you.
Every wants to feel wanted, its called being human.click to expand
Posted by EmotionalAriesI guess if it works for them *shrug*Posted by justagirlSome women actually feel that on a whole, who are we to judge, let them feel what they want. I try not to judge another because I can't walk a mile in another's shoes.Posted by EmotionalAriesThere is a difference between wanting to feel wanted and thinking every guy around is into you and/ or trying to get every guy to be into you.
Every wants to feel wanted, its called being human.click to expand
I just personally find it draining when i have had around me.
Another friend whom thoguth she was nothing without a man... but THAT's an entire different thread/topic.
Kind of a generalization tbh. Most people are complex no matter their sex.
Some ppl just need another around to feel good, my ex husband cant function without a person there to set structure, it is what it is. Life is too short to care.
Posted by justagirlNah, I get you. I'm not a girly girl, so when I see girls act overly "girly" and stupid around guys to get their attention, I want to gag.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
I get the draining bit. My brother's always telling me about how his girlfriend claims that guys are hitting on her. If they are, it's because of her boobs, sorry to say. But four years of this stupid shit and I'M over hearing about it all the time. I don't know how he deals. It really is exhausting being around someone who is always trying to show their worth by saying such shit.
"Omg that guy is hitting on me."
"Oh, that guy totally wants me. He stood next to me!"
"Oh my friend's boyfriend wants me. He looked at me for 2 seconds yesterday and I could tell."
It's exhausting and kinda sad, tbh.
Posted by justagirlExactly.Posted by EmotionalAriesThere is a difference between wanting to feel wanted and thinking every guy around is into you and/ or trying to get every guy to be into you.
Every wants to feel wanted, its called being human.
Posted by channingtatumsneckLucky you. I've known way too many like this.
i think it's funny and harmless. it's not like i ever get to meet women like this IRL. maybe i do but they're just not as vocal. who knows.click to expand
you care too much
Posted by LeoSunSagMoon"This is me."
Kind of a generalization tbh. Most people are complex no matter their sex.
I only know one woman like that IRL. Lol...I think it's ok as long as no one is getting hurt. There's a difference between being a girlie girl and assuming or acting like every man wants you. I'd be curious to know your definition of the latter. Some of us relish in our femininity. I definitely do. Lol....it never once crosses my mind whether men want me or don't. That's not even a factor. I enjoy everything most women do...including spa retreats, shopping, wearing dresses and high heels, make up (though I don't wear it often to keep from ruining my complexion), accessories, etc. However, I also indulge in the outdoors and love playing competitive sports. So yea...I'd be curious to know your definition of the woman "who acts like every man wants them", because honestly, I haven't seen a single female like that IN this forum or maybe I missed something. Lol
Posted by channingtatumsneckHaha, it's no doubt that everyone wants to feel desired.
i think most pisces secretly think this but they're not so vocal about it. well that's my theory anyway.
...it just strikes me as sad and emphasizes one's own insecurities when they go around acting like every guy wants to fuck them. I had a coworker like that. She thought she was giving off the "I'm embracing my sexuality" vibe, when really she was just proving how insecure she was.
Those who are shrugging this off and claiming it's "judgemental" (such an overused word anymore to describe something someone doesn't agree with *eyeroll*) don't seem to get the big picture of all of this. It's an observation of someone who comes off as insecure- they are people you have to watch out for since they can be very dangerous to be around.
Same with the ones that some view as "narcissists" as well. Not very stable personalities to be around.
Personally, part of me wants to run and the other part wants to help the poor bitch. We're in 2015. Women shouldn't be thinking like this. Where the hell is the empowerment?
Posted by MsTeeq1974*facepalm*
I only know one woman like that IRL. Lol...I think it's ok as long as no one is getting hurt. There's a difference between being a girlie girl and assuming or acting like every man wants you. I'd be curious to know your definition of the latter. Some of us relish in our femininity. I definitely do. Lol....it never once crosses my mind whether men want me or don't. That's not even a factor. I enjoy everything most women do...including spa retreats, shopping, wearing dresses and high heels, make up (though I don't wear it often to keep from ruining my complexion), accessories, etc. However, I also indulge in the outdoors and love playing competitive sports. So yea...I'd be curious to know your definition of the woman "who acts like every man wants them", because honestly, I haven't seen a single female like that IN this forum or maybe I missed something. Lol
You're not understanding. Where in my post did I ever refer to women being girly girls?
Posted by MsTeeq1974Exactly! There is nothing wrong with being a girly girl if it makes you happy and you're not hurting anyone. Just as there is nothing wrong with being a masculine man. I particularly like to express both my feminine and masculine sides. Maybe it's because I'm moon and Sun dominate lol.
I only know one woman like that IRL. Lol...I think it's ok as long as no one is getting hurt. There's a difference between being a girlie girl and assuming or acting like every man wants you. I'd be curious to know your definition of the latter. Some of us relish in our femininity. I definitely do. Lol....it never once crosses my mind whether men want me or don't. That's not even a factor. I enjoy everything most women do...including spa retreats, shopping, wearing dresses and high heels, make up (though I don't wear it often to keep from ruining my complexion), accessories, etc. However, I also indulge in the outdoors and love playing competitive sports. So yea...I'd be curious to know your definition of the woman "who acts like every man wants them", because honestly, I haven't seen a single female like that IN this forum or maybe I missed something. Lol
Posted by rockyroadicecreamHere is where you referred to girlie girls. I'm giggly, but I'm like that around EVERYONE and almost all of the time. You should have seen the chat convo earlier in the online cards against humanity game. I cracked up (lol'd and LMBO'd) insanely and I believe most of the other dxp players were females. I think sometimes it's just someone's perspective that a girlie girl is acting that way around just men, when every girlie girl I can think of does it around EVERYONE.Posted by justagirlNah, I get you. I'm not a girly girl, so when I see girls act overly "girly" and stupid around guys to get their attention, I want to gag.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
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Posted by MsTeeq1974Was me that brought it up and i HAVE seen and witnessed females doing this to bag a guy. I didn't say all of them do this.. but there are those out there that do this shit as part of their game to land a guy.Posted by rockyroadicecreamHere is where you referred to girlie girls. I'm giggly, but I'm like that around EVERYONE and almost all of the time. You should have seen the chat convo earlier in the online cards against humanity game. I cracked up (lol'd and LMBO'd) insanely and I believe most of the other dxp players were females. I think sometimes it's just someone's perspective that a girlie girl is acting that way around just men, when every girlie girl I can think of does it around EVERYONE.Posted by justagirlNah, I get you. I'm not a girly girl, so when I see girls act overly "girly" and stupid around guys to get their attention, I want to gag.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
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I'm girly and feminine myself but i don't change into some tittering jr high school girl around some hot dude (sad to say i had a friend like this at one time). That's whom i was referring to, if its not you then cool. You honestly don't strike me as that type. You got too much fire for that shit girl! You seem more the type that sees something she likes and goes and takes it!
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamA family member comes to mind. She claims almost every guy she know has a crush on her and has been that way since We were younge . Seems like quite a few do, too. She is a HUGE flirt. Knowing her like I do, I would say insecurities.
Assume all these guys want them?
I've noticed with a few women here, but I also realized I see that same bs behavior with my brother's girlfriend. It strikes me as kind of pathetic and attention seeking.
What's the first thing that comes to mind when you meet individuals like this? Is it entirely based in insecurity? Society emphasizing that one thing a woman should do in life is to be desired by guys? Desperation to feel like you're THAT woman that "every" guy wants?
Random post is random and I'm just le bored. Was thinking about this yesterday during a convo with a friend about the same issue. His first response was "Crazy." Mine is "insecure and it's sad."
And I thought Leos were supposed to be the attention whore o_O
Posted by MsTeeq1974That is not the OP nor is it related to the OP.Posted by rockyroadicecreamHere is where you referred to girlie girls. I'm giggly, but I'm like that around EVERYONE and almost all of the time. You should have seen the chat convo earlier in the online cards against humanity game. I cracked up (lol'd and LMBO'd) insanely and I believe most of the other dxp players were females. I think sometimes it's just someone's perspective that a girlie girl is acting that way around just men, when every girlie girl I can think of does it around EVERYONE.Posted by justagirlNah, I get you. I'm not a girly girl, so when I see girls act overly "girly" and stupid around guys to get their attention, I want to gag.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
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Posted by retrogradexyThe trend of false sense of self esteem that borders delusion?
Let me try on a pair for a sec....
Channeling Sasha Grey*
As with most things nowadays, I feel that it's one of those current trends.
It's all part of the process. It seems a little messy atm but I believe it will straighten itself out, eventually.
Overtime, the view on women and how women view themselves changed.
Some things have to come to a boil before it settles.
I'd believe it.
Posted by justagirlI have no idea why she zeroed on in this when the OP is just about chicks who think every guy wants to get his dick wet with her. Your example was just a way that some women go about their approach in regard to a guy because they're thirsty.Posted by MsTeeq1974Was me that brought it up and i HAVE seen and witnessed females doing this to bag a guy. I didn't say all of them do this.. but there are those out there that do this shit as part of their game to land a guy.Posted by rockyroadicecreamHere is where you referred to girlie girls. I'm giggly, but I'm like that around EVERYONE and almost all of the time. You should have seen the chat convo earlier in the online cards against humanity game. I cracked up (lol'd and LMBO'd) insanely and I believe most of the other dxp players were females. I think sometimes it's just someone's perspective that a girlie girl is acting that way around just men, when every girlie girl I can think of does it around EVERYONE.Posted by justagirlNah, I get you. I'm not a girly girl, so when I see girls act overly "girly" and stupid around guys to get their attention, I want to gag.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
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I'm girly and feminine myself but i don't change into some tittering jr high school girl around some hot dude (sad to say i had a friend like this at one time). That's whom i was referring to, if its not you then cool. You honestly don't strike me as that type. You got too much fire for that shit girl! You seem more the type that sees something she likes and goes and takes it!
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Posted by channingtatumsneck
i think most pisces secretly think this but they're not so vocal about it. well that's my theory anyway.
holy shit this girl doesn't get it, shes on here complaining about women being women. its like complaining about a dog wagging its tail too much. the topic got my attention with possible insight but then it skews off into her bitching and moaning how they all don't think stupid like her. i think you're jealous of those women who have all the guys' attention. if all the guys focused on you you would be singing a different tune.
you got a problem with your brother bragging about his gf to you then tell him to stfu. now you're on here trying to process the trauma from it.
you got a problem with your brother bragging about his gf to you then tell him to stfu. now you're on here trying to process the trauma from it.
Women are competitive, they like to play out the scenario of having the sexual allure to draw the attention of any male. Especially an attached man, they can live off the idea and it's high for a long time. They tell other people to reminded those around them that they are feminine, attractive and desirable.
Some say they do their friends favours and do not steal their men, even though it's obvious they could.
They need to believe that the long lost love will always carry a torch for them, and them alone. Thus all the "he came back and expressed his regret for leaving me, even though he is happily married" stories.
It happens constantly but I think it's just one of those things people tell themselves, "like good people go to heaven." I've seen it a couple a times irl but nothing like on here.
Some say they do their friends favours and do not steal their men, even though it's obvious they could.
They need to believe that the long lost love will always carry a torch for them, and them alone. Thus all the "he came back and expressed his regret for leaving me, even though he is happily married" stories.
It happens constantly but I think it's just one of those things people tell themselves, "like good people go to heaven." I've seen it a couple a times irl but nothing like on here.
Posted by justagirlLol...if only. I act, within my own scope of personality and values, to attract. Very rarely have I just "taken" what I wanted and if I did, I was probably drunk/tipsy. Smh Nah, really...I'm chill in reality and more of a social butterfly...mingling with all people...even shy ones. I'm the person most likely to pull a shy woman out on the dance floor with me. Those shy women are usually VERY sexy...They're just too reserved to "put it out there".Posted by MsTeeq1974Was me that brought it up and i HAVE seen and witnessed females doing this to bag a guy. I didn't say all of them do this.. but there are those out there that do this shit as part of their game to land a guy.Posted by rockyroadicecreamHere is where you referred to girlie girls. I'm giggly, but I'm like that around EVERYONE and almost all of the time. You should have seen the chat convo earlier in the online cards against humanity game. I cracked up (lol'd and LMBO'd) insanely and I believe most of the other dxp players were females. I think sometimes it's just someone's perspective that a girlie girl is acting that way around just men, when every girlie girl I can think of does it around EVERYONE.Posted by justagirlNah, I get you. I'm not a girly girl, so when I see girls act overly "girly" and stupid around guys to get their attention, I want to gag.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
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I'm girly and feminine myself but i don't change into some tittering jr high school girl around some hot dude (sad to say i had a friend like this at one time). That's whom i was referring to, if its not you then cool. You honestly don't strike me as that type. You got too much fire for that shit girl! You seem more the type that sees something she likes and goes and takes it!
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Posted by channingtatumsneckI'm interested in knowing why you have this opinion. As a Pisces female...nothing could be further from my mind. In fact, I act sexier at the gay clubs than straight ones. I KNOW the guys there don't want me, so it's easier, safer, and more fun to let the sexy vixen in me have fun in that atmosphere. One of the key reasons why? TBH...other women. Smh...I truly can't stand how women are CONSTANTLY looking for a reason not to like another woman...well not all BUT some...enough women are like that. At straight clubs and parties, I usually have an overtly friendly disposition with other women...smiling and saying hello, so that they know, "look...I just came to have a good time". Now...it just so happens that men ARE attracted to that kind of woman...generally speaking...but again, I don't do it for male attention. It's like, you can't be cute and sexy or women hate you and men don't care that other women hate on you...They're oblivious...they just want to have fun with a woman who is not trying to judge them or anyone else for that matter.
i think most pisces secretly think this but they're not so vocal about it. well that's my theory anyway.
Ah...ok. lol
Posted by BlackMambaOmg this.
Idk I get weirded out by how many men do check me out and I got resting bytch and sour and bitter face...
Posted by rockyroadicecreamHonestly, it may irritate me a little, but I think it's a better mindset to have than having low self esteem and thinking no one wants them. Typically because that sort of thinking breeds negativity and can be hard on people surrounding them. Being over confident or conceited is just annoying, which is more manageable, imo. I don't mind, though. People can think and act how they want as long as it doesn't affect my life or the lives of those that are important to me.
Assume all these guys want them?
I've noticed with a few women here, but I also realized I see that same bs behavior with my brother's girlfriend. It strikes me as kind of pathetic and attention seeking.
What's the first thing that comes to mind when you meet individuals like this? Is it entirely based in insecurity? Society emphasizing that one thing a woman should do in life is to be desired by guys? Desperation to feel like you're THAT woman that "every" guy wants?
Random post is random and I'm just le bored. Was thinking about this yesterday during a convo with a friend about the same issue. His first response was "Crazy." Mine is "insecure and it's sad."
Posted by einrickpiscesOh honey, no.Posted by rockyroadicecreamLike you're perfect yourself judging others. You had more bad traits in you yourself mister, just don't realize it.
Assume all these guys want them?
I've noticed with a few women here, but I also realized I see that same bs behavior with my brother's girlfriend. It strikes me as kind of pathetic and attention seeking.
What's the first thing that comes to mind when you meet individuals like this? Is it entirely based in insecurity? Society emphasizing that one thing a woman should do in life is to be desired by guys? Desperation to feel like you're THAT woman that "every" guy wants?
Random post is random and I'm just le bored. Was thinking about this yesterday during a convo with a friend about the same issue. His first response was "Crazy." Mine is "insecure and it's sad."
So too everybody.
Talk about unevolved sign who need to know the word "tolerance".click to expand
Just, no.
Posted by ScenicBut isn't it low self esteem to be projecting such insecurities? Our society needs to be better with empowering women so they don't go around doing this silly shit.
Honestly, it may irritate me a little, but I think it's a better mindset to have than having low self esteem and thinking no one wants them. Typically because that sort of thinking breeds negativity and can be hard on people surrounding them. Being over confident or conceited is just annoying, which is more manageable, imo. I don't mind, though. People can think and act how they want as long as it doesn't affect my life or the lives of those that are important to me.
My post is an observation of an annoying behavior that also gives way to some underlying factors which are heavily influenced on our culture and society toward women.
It's sad that these women do this because it shows that there's insecurity going on and that they think advertising that they're desirable gives them value in life. It makes me sad that so many women on DXP alone can't see the big picture of issues like this. Instead it's "oh well, not my problem." or "oh you're judgemental." REALLY? Dafuq is wrong with some of you here? :/ (not directed at you Scenic, your tidbit actually added to the discussion).
Posted by Arielle83Ugh, it's depressing as fuck when they start targeting taken dudes.
Ya chicks that brag all the time are so predictable and shallow.
I'm not into being friends with ppl that talk about who or what is looking at them. I mean is rather talk about real life shit. I need friends with substance and intelligence. If the high light of your day is bragging about how some married dude flirted with you. Or so and so made eye contact,click to expand
That's just fucked in the head status. If you're so desperate for validation that you start targeting taken guys, go find Jesus.
The saddest, most pathetic one I've seen to date was a TWELVE year old girl. We had a dance convention in town and these little girls are just... it's sad. But a few are walking past my coworkers and I, plus a coworker's husband who's like mid 30s. One girl says to the other, "OMG did you seee? He was TOTALLY checking me out."
...a 12 year old girl saying this about a man 3 times her age. The sad thing is that it wasn't too surprising because in the dance community, so many moms are slutting up their daughters at young ages. TWELVE, and she's trying to brag to her friends about her sexuality and its ability to attract guys around her dad's age. Our society starts 'em young...
Yeah, see, I'm not sure. When I think of someone who thinks everyone wants them, I don't initially go to thinking it's due to insecurities. It sounds to me more like someone who has a false perception of themselves or someone who does get a lot of guys and just likes to brag about it. If someone is saying it but doesn't actually believe that they're hot stuff, THEN I would automatically assume there's insecurities at play. I was mainly thinking of the former when responding to this. But, there could also be insecurities at play with either, I suppose.
Posted by ScenicAh, yeah, that'd make sense too. Wouldn't be surprising. Kinda goes back to the overinflated self esteem that everyone's been raised on the last decade or two.
Yeah, see, I'm not sure. When I think of someone who thinks everyone wants them, I don't initially go to thinking it's due to insecurities. It sounds to me more like someone who has a false perception of themselves or someone who does get a lot of guys and just likes to brag about it. If someone is saying it but doesn't actually believe that they're hot stuff, THEN I would automatically assume there's insecurities at play. I was mainly thinking of the former when responding to this. But, there could also be insecurities at play with either, I suppose.
I just see insecurity, because all the instances that I've seen HAVE been insecurity. Those poor girls had some issues going on. I felt bad for them. It's like oh honey no, you have more worth in life than that. Placing all your value in dudes' attention will not make you feel better about yourself in the long run :/
When you say assume what do you mean? - because i dont assume, i have almost everyguy i meet in person up my ass till i reject them. Some stay longer even after being rejected. Ive also experienced abuses when i was way younger (like 6 to 10) and up until today , i still see men look at me the way those people did when i was younger. Its not so much of a "every guy wants me" - but more like "theres something that draws men to me when they meet me" & I can tell you that is uncomfortable af. Theres nothing like having your friends husband "tie your apron while your doing the dishes and the wife isnt around" funniest thing about it all its im the type of girl to avoid eye contact or even physical contact until i know you properly & i dress modestly .
Posted by rockyroadicecream*You're someone I should ignore because you're going to annoy me very quickly* and I proceed to ignore/tune out.
Assume all these guys want them?
I've noticed with a few women here, but I also realized I see that same bs behavior with my brother's girlfriend. It strikes me as kind of pathetic and attention seeking.
What's the first thing that comes to mind when you meet individuals like this?
Posted by rockyroadicecreamFor some, I think they are simply overcompensating. Others they were probably given a few compliments at a young age and it got to their head. Which ever it is, they don't live in reality and I prefer to distance myself from people that don't. You never know when they'll snap. True story 😐.
Is it entirely based in insecurity? Society emphasizing that one thing a woman should do in life is to be desired by guys? Desperation to feel like you're THAT woman that "every" guy wants?click to expand
"It's sad that these women do this because it shows that there's insecurity going on and that they think advertising that they're desirable gives them value in life. "
That's just one way to look at it. I personally see nothing wrong with a woman using her ASSets (haha) to get what she wants in life. Should little girls be doing it? No. They shouldn't even be thinking about the other sex till their of consenting age.
But I'm very realistic about the society we live in and the focus american men AND women have on being attractive. In the end we are the energy we give out and if ppl promote themselves as being attractive desireable Ppl, it will eventually because true and reap its own benefits. Idc if anyone thinks its fake. I'll fake it till I make it!
That's just one way to look at it. I personally see nothing wrong with a woman using her ASSets (haha) to get what she wants in life. Should little girls be doing it? No. They shouldn't even be thinking about the other sex till their of consenting age.
But I'm very realistic about the society we live in and the focus american men AND women have on being attractive. In the end we are the energy we give out and if ppl promote themselves as being attractive desireable Ppl, it will eventually because true and reap its own benefits. Idc if anyone thinks its fake. I'll fake it till I make it!
Some of you really DON'T understand what's being said here. Hilarious.
Posted by PhoenixRisingSadly, this has been my experience as well. I feel bad for them but I tend to run the other direction. These chicks just end up being a whole bag of crazy.Posted by rockyroadicecream*You're someone I should ignore because you're going to annoy me very quickly* and I proceed to ignore/tune out.
Assume all these guys want them?
I've noticed with a few women here, but I also realized I see that same bs behavior with my brother's girlfriend. It strikes me as kind of pathetic and attention seeking.
What's the first thing that comes to mind when you meet individuals like this?
Posted by rockyroadicecreamFor some, I think they are simply overcompensating. Others they were probably given a few compliments at a young age and it got to their head. Which ever it is, they don't live in reality and I prefer to distance myself from people that don't. You never know when they'll snap. True story 😐.
Is it entirely based in insecurity? Society emphasizing that one thing a woman should do in life is to be desired by guys? Desperation to feel like you're THAT woman that "every" guy wants?click to expand
This thread is so stupid. Women who judge other women so much cleary have their own issues. Women who talk about other women are worse than women who seek sexual attention imo. There is nothing wrong with sex! Men do this too but I quess that's ok? Hmmm only men brag about their sexual conquest as well. Honestly if these women bother so much ignore them its really easy.And I honestly don't know many women like this. Most women I know talk about all the unwanted attention they get that makes them feel uncomfortable.
Posted by LeoSunSagMoonMore of the "I don't get it" brigade.
This thread is so stupid. Women who judge other women so much cleary have their own issues. Women who talk about other women are worse than women who seek sexual attention imo. There is nothing wrong with sex! Men do this too but I quess that's ok? Hmmm only men brag about their sexual conquest as well. Honestly if these women bother so much ignore them its really easy.And I honestly don't know many women like this. Most women I know talk about all the unwanted attention they get that makes them feel uncomfortable.
I wouldn't expect you to understand. You've already proven that you're one of "those" women anyway. Have fun.
Posted by Arielle83I've noticed that most of the women here who ARE getting the point are the ones who are older and more experienced in life.
Can't women talk about their issues without it seem like one type of woman is jealous over another?
Maybe one type of woman feels empowered within herself and the other needs make validation.
They are different types and one is trying to understand the other.
The defensive tribe, who can't see an objective opinion, if it slapped them in the face, is what's funny now.
You can't have a logical opinion if you're harping on how you all just wish women would stop hating on other women. I see the annoyance in a woman disrespecting her intellect by demeaning herself to a mere object, but why value yourself that way when you probably have more to offer?
Do you ever get sick of just being one way, when you can value yourself beyond physical means? Now I want to know if these types only truly see value in physical beauty and therefore just value that in others.
So many questions, but you all are just getting sad and defensive. Well at least some women on here get it.
The ones fighting against it are younger and ignorant to what's going on around them. They've also proven elsewhere on DXP that they live by the "silly bitch" mentality, aka THAT woman that does "typical" female things that men hate and make most women look bad. I wouldn't be surprised if they saw themselves in the OP because of all the defensive responses.
I find it sad that they couldn't even begin to understand what the point of this post was and how terrible the underlying issues of what's going on in these situations are. Instead, they feign false empowerment in objectifying themselves.
Instead, we've gotten an array of "well what's wrong with a woman using her looks to get her what she wants?" and "Oh, well, being a girly girl is okay" or "so what if a female gets all this male attention?"
DAHELL IS WRONG WITH YOU TARDS. *headdesk*
^ hence why it's so sad when women go around claiming every guy they encounter wants them or is hitting on them.
It seems very insecure, and as was pointed out earlier, a false perception that one has of oneself. Both are destructive and serious issues if not resolved at some point.
Also, the dumb Leo above made a point about women who actually do draw unwanted attention don't go around bragging about this shit, and this is true. ...Which also emphasizes the point I'm making even more. People who truly get a lot of attention, unwanted or not, don't go around bragging about it to make themselves sound better to everyone around them. It just reeks of trying to impress others for validation.
So when I'm around chicks who are constantly bragging about all this attention they aren't really getting, not only is it really obnoxious after awhile, but it proves that it's not likely happening since those who get tons of it don't react in such a way.
It seems very insecure, and as was pointed out earlier, a false perception that one has of oneself. Both are destructive and serious issues if not resolved at some point.
Also, the dumb Leo above made a point about women who actually do draw unwanted attention don't go around bragging about this shit, and this is true. ...Which also emphasizes the point I'm making even more. People who truly get a lot of attention, unwanted or not, don't go around bragging about it to make themselves sound better to everyone around them. It just reeks of trying to impress others for validation.
So when I'm around chicks who are constantly bragging about all this attention they aren't really getting, not only is it really obnoxious after awhile, but it proves that it's not likely happening since those who get tons of it don't react in such a way.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamNo I get it just fine. And I'd rather be one of those girls than a girl who goes around bashing other girls for what they do. Small minds talk about other people hunny.Posted by LeoSunSagMoonMore of the "I don't get it" brigade.
This thread is so stupid. Women who judge other women so much cleary have their own issues. Women who talk about other women are worse than women who seek sexual attention imo. There is nothing wrong with sex! Men do this too but I quess that's ok? Hmmm only men brag about their sexual conquest as well. Honestly if these women bother so much ignore them its really easy.And I honestly don't know many women like this. Most women I know talk about all the unwanted attention they get that makes them feel uncomfortable.
I wouldn't expect you to understand. You've already proven that you're one of "those" women anyway. Have fun.click to expand
Men lust after me... It's not a front it's true... However just because I know that makes me even more humble about it. I don't seek it and it makes me uncomfortable because it makes the guy I'm dating uncomfortable though he didn't say it it seems to be an issue. Now if she bragging about it then she's seeking attention. I never bring it up...just put my two cents for you to see it from a different side.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Assume all these guys want them?
I've noticed with a few women here, but I also realized I see that same bs behavior with my brother's girlfriend. It strikes me as kind of pathetic and attention seeking.
What's the first thing that comes to mind when you meet individuals like this? Is it entirely based in insecurity? Society emphasizing that one thing a woman should do in life is to be desired by guys? Desperation to feel like you're THAT woman that "every" guy wants?
Random post is random and I'm just le bored. Was thinking about this yesterday during a convo with a friend about the same issue. His first response was "Crazy." Mine is "insecure and it's sad."
Maybe your brother's girlfriend wants him.
Posted by LeoSunSagMoonNah, I don't think you do.Posted by rockyroadicecreamNo I get it just fine. And I'd rather be one of those girls than a girl who goes around bashing other girls for what they do. Small minds talk about other people hunny.Posted by LeoSunSagMoonMore of the "I don't get it" brigade.
This thread is so stupid. Women who judge other women so much cleary have their own issues. Women who talk about other women are worse than women who seek sexual attention imo. There is nothing wrong with sex! Men do this too but I quess that's ok? Hmmm only men brag about their sexual conquest as well. Honestly if these women bother so much ignore them its really easy.And I honestly don't know many women like this. Most women I know talk about all the unwanted attention they get that makes them feel uncomfortable.
I wouldn't expect you to understand. You've already proven that you're one of "those" women anyway. Have fun.
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This isn't bashing, this is pointing out an issue that's clearly a result in how our society brainwashes women into seeing their worth based on their looks and how they attract men.
Posted by Vixen2+ 575738657398
The ones that don't get it...are the ones that do it. That's the only possible way that a person cannot find it annoying. I don't care how self righteous a person appears to be... that whole women tearing down women argument is BS. It's not being jealous, bitchy, catty, nothing...to admit that women who constantly brag about themselves/the male attention is annoying. Like someone else said...the people who do get the attention-dont need to brag about because they know it already. The ones who are bragging are not and feel they have to constantly talk about how to "fit in" maybe feel like they need to be part of "the in crowd". Its 8th grade crap. Im sure men find it just as annoying when men do it as well. So it's a human thing to find it annoying, not a woman tearing down another woman thing.
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