
rockyroadicecream
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamIDK I think calling someone attention seeking and pathetic is bashing. I do agree that it is sad for anyone to define their worth based on the opinions/attention from others, and I do think society is to blame for it in most cases. The problem I have with this thread is now some of the men who see this will think any confident woman who talks about getting attention must only see her worth in that. Who the hell knows where anyone but you gets worth? Am I to assume every woman who talks about the attention she gets only sees her worth in that? No, that is silly. I have a friend Alivia who often does this. Is it annoying? Fuck yes! Is it where she gets her worth? Fuck no! She does it because she is a Gemini who can’t shut the fuck up for more than five seconds at a time.Posted by LeoSunSagMoonNah, I don't think you do.Posted by rockyroadicecreamNo I get it just fine. And I'd rather be one of those girls than a girl who goes around bashing other girls for what they do. Small minds talk about other people hunny.Posted by LeoSunSagMoonMore of the "I don't get it" brigade.
This thread is so stupid. Women who judge other women so much cleary have their own issues. Women who talk about other women are worse than women who seek sexual attention imo. There is nothing wrong with sex! Men do this too but I quess that's ok? Hmmm only men brag about their sexual conquest as well. Honestly if these women bother so much ignore them its really easy.And I honestly don't know many women like this. Most women I know talk about all the unwanted attention they get that makes them feel uncomfortable.
I wouldn't expect you to understand. You've already proven that you're one of "those" women anyway. Have fun.
This isn't bashing, this is pointing out an issue that's clearly a result in how our society brainwashes women into seeing their worth based on their looks and how they attract men.click to expand

Posted by Sugarfootwonder if she had a leo moon 😆Posted by justagirlI had a friend like this too. She didn't necessarily think every guy wanted her tho. Her problem was getting an attitude when they didn't want her. When we went out, if she wasn't getting male attention, she'd get in a bag mood and be ready to go. We couldn't ever just go out and have fun. It was a competition about who looked the best and who got the most attention from dudes. Smh. No longer friends.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.click to expand

Posted by justagirlWOW! Haha.Posted by Sugarfootwonder if she had a leo moon 😆Posted by justagirlI had a friend like this too. She didn't necessarily think every guy wanted her tho. Her problem was getting an attitude when they didn't want her. When we went out, if she wasn't getting male attention, she'd get in a bag mood and be ready to go. We couldn't ever just go out and have fun. It was a competition about who looked the best and who got the most attention from dudes. Smh. No longer friends.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
I kid, i kid.. sort of.
Yea, i am pretty careful whom i surround myself with as i have matured and become older. Ain't no one got time for that shit.click to expand

Posted by Velocitysorry that was a shameless jab at leo mooners..Posted by justagirlWOW! Haha.Posted by Sugarfootwonder if she had a leo moon 😆Posted by justagirlI had a friend like this too. She didn't necessarily think every guy wanted her tho. Her problem was getting an attitude when they didn't want her. When we went out, if she wasn't getting male attention, she'd get in a bag mood and be ready to go. We couldn't ever just go out and have fun. It was a competition about who looked the best and who got the most attention from dudes. Smh. No longer friends.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
I kid, i kid.. sort of.
Yea, i am pretty careful whom i surround myself with as i have matured and become older. Ain't no one got time for that shit.
I have two close friends just like that who are both Taurus. They are both amazing people but goodness, when it comes to getting attention from guys, I feel they become so cheap. Maybe it's just an age phase that I haven't ever bothered with since they're both in their early 20s.click to expand

Posted by justagirlNah, you're good 😉Posted by Velocitysorry that was a shameless jab at leo mooners..Posted by justagirlWOW! Haha.Posted by Sugarfootwonder if she had a leo moon 😆Posted by justagirlI had a friend like this too. She didn't necessarily think every guy wanted her tho. Her problem was getting an attitude when they didn't want her. When we went out, if she wasn't getting male attention, she'd get in a bag mood and be ready to go. We couldn't ever just go out and have fun. It was a competition about who looked the best and who got the most attention from dudes. Smh. No longer friends.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
I kid, i kid.. sort of.
Yea, i am pretty careful whom i surround myself with as i have matured and become older. Ain't no one got time for that shit.
I have two close friends just like that who are both Taurus. They are both amazing people but goodness, when it comes to getting attention from guys, I feel they become so cheap. Maybe it's just an age phase that I haven't ever bothered with since they're both in their early 20s.
I need to clarifiy... leo mooners of the certain camp.... i hear there is camp 1 and camp 2!
I am starting to think its an age thing too. *shrug*click to expand

Posted by SugarfootMan it takes a lot and i do mean a lot to wear down a Sag moon!Posted by justagirlCancer moonPosted by Sugarfootwonder if she had a leo moon 😆Posted by justagirlI had a friend like this too. She didn't necessarily think every guy wanted her tho. Her problem was getting an attitude when they didn't want her. When we went out, if she wasn't getting male attention, she'd get in a bag mood and be ready to go. We couldn't ever just go out and have fun. It was a competition about who looked the best and who got the most attention from dudes. Smh. No longer friends.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
I kid, i kid.. sort of.
Yea, i am pretty careful whom i surround myself with as i have matured and become older. Ain't no one got time for that shit.
Tooooo much negativity after a while. It's hard combating that all the time. She was wearing my clown sag moon down manh.click to expand

Posted by dontgetmewrongfixed that for youPosted by Arielle83How about a simple thank you. Let him find out how intelligent you are if he gets that far. instead of blabbing it out and sounding like a retard.
My best gf and I were working at a wedding yesterday and a guy said to us:
"Nice to have two pretty girls behind the bar."
She said: "thanks, but my intelligence is even prettier".
Bet half the chicks on this thread wouldn't have quick enough wit to say that with sass.click to expand

Posted by dontgetmewrongso wait let me get this right...Posted by Arielle83How about a simple thank you. Let him find out how intelligent you are if he gets that far. instead of blabbing it out and sounding like a stuck up Harvard grad.
My best gf and I were working at a wedding yesterday and a guy said to us:
"Nice to have two pretty girls behind the bar."
She said: "thanks, but my intelligence is even prettier".
Bet half the chicks on this thread wouldn't have quick enough wit to say that with sass.click to expand

Posted by 88akkaPosted by justagirlDont getmewrong is right. If you don't know this by now Justagirl, you are in the wrong path.. lolPosted by dontgetmewrongso wait let me get this right...Posted by Arielle83How about a simple thank you. Let him find out how intelligent you are if he gets that far. instead of blabbing it out and sounding like a stuck up Harvard grad.
My best gf and I were working at a wedding yesterday and a guy said to us:
"Nice to have two pretty girls behind the bar."
She said: "thanks, but my intelligence is even prettier".
Bet half the chicks on this thread wouldn't have quick enough wit to say that with sass.
pointing out there is more to herself.. is stuck up? Perhaps i'm misundertsanding what your comment was trying to convey but that is how it comes across to me....
I am sorry to point it out, I am just being honest.click to expand



Posted by busyeyes88Easyyyy it was a joke. 😆Posted by justagirlHey! Do not start insulting leo moons! Leo mooners are natural... We do not have have to do this!! We get our attention naturally without breaking a sweat and modestly. Even a Leo rising would not be like that... Their "presence " is already felt... Thank you very much... Everyone always wants to have a go at a Leo placement!!!!Posted by Sugarfootwonder if she had a leo moon 😆Posted by justagirlI had a friend like this too. She didn't necessarily think every guy wanted her tho. Her problem was getting an attitude when they didn't want her. When we went out, if she wasn't getting male attention, she'd get in a bag mood and be ready to go. We couldn't ever just go out and have fun. It was a competition about who looked the best and who got the most attention from dudes. Smh. No longer friends.
My honest thought and repsonse is they are self absorbed. Narcissistic
I had a friend whom was like this and it was draining to be around, everything turned into a compition when a guy was around, if that makes sense. Not sure it does.
I'm pretty down to earth and not outlandish and females whom go out of there way to be seen or noticed by every guy around is just blah... Sorry if that makes me sounds petty and i hope it doesn't. It's just be real not some fake ass giggling"teehee" girl. Jesus.
I kid, i kid.. sort of.
Yea, i am pretty careful whom i surround myself with as i have matured and become older. Ain't no one got time for that shit.click to expand


Posted by channingtatumsneckThat's a startPosted by brianafaywhat about me, i throw awards in the ocean? should i throw women that hit on me in the ocean too?
...I would think they obviously perceive it as an achievement, since they are bragging about it the same way I would brag about myself for aceing a test or getting a promotion or something.
I wouldn't say I feel really passionately annoyed by it or anything...more awkard because I don't know if I should say congratulations or good job? Ha not even being snarky, it really makes me uncomfortableclick to expand

Posted by 88akkaMaybe this meme picture is not familiar to everybody, the meaning was "he knows....shut it down" .Posted by hydorahhahhaha the funny thing is that people starting commenting it was Pisces.. lolPosted by channingtatumsneck
i think most pisces secretly think this but they're not so vocal about it. well that's my theory anyway.
I think Pisces are the most quiet who are in their heads all they long.. The outsiders are the ones paying attention not us of what is happening around us most of the time.
Why hate?
fucking ANDS had to bring us in the mix and throw his mom under the bus. lolclick to expand

Posted by killerwhalemoonThis is the garbage I'm talking about.
My room mate does this. Everytime her sister likes a guy she will say things like "he's always has a crush on me" or we used to kiss in middle school. She admits she has self esteem issues. Can't stand it.

Posted by centipedesSee this is the silly response that annoys me. The behavior in itself from these girls (because that's what they are, girls), IS annoying, but when I see it, I just shake my head because it says SO much about their self esteem and internal issues. I just feel bad for them.
If it boosts their self-esteem, it's sad, but I'll let them have that little victory. They ((usually)) aren't really hurting anyone anyway.

Posted by goligoldSays the silly bitch who's been doing all the woman bashing.
This is a sad women bashing thread...

Posted by goligoldMy bad. I never saw specifics and I'm the one who created the thread, so that was the conclusion from your post. I ignored like the last 4 pages before this.
What—? No that wasn't me, why would I say something about you— No I actually have always liked you even though I don't always agree with you. Lol

Posted by goligoldReally? ONE misunderstanding and you're going to go crazy defensive? Jesus Christ, calm down. :/
I can't believe I stuck up for you once for being such a biatch

Posted by goligold*raises eyebrow*Posted by rockyroadicecreamExcuse me— You don't know anything about me you fat ass batch. Don't talk to me. I feel sorry for you! Azz hole!Posted by goligoldSays the silly bitch who's been doing all the woman bashing.
This is a sad women bashing thread...
Please, just shut up before you embarrass the female gender further.click to expand



Posted by centipedesYes, because I flat out tell them that they're delusional. :/Posted by rockyroadicecreamI agree, it's not healthy and not real self-esteem. But it's how they cope, and telling them that they're delusional is putting the cart before the horse, and will probably only exacerbate the issues they have with themselves.Posted by centipedesSee this is the silly response that annoys me. The behavior in itself from these girls (because that's what they are, girls), IS annoying, but when I see it, I just shake my head because it says SO much about their self esteem and internal issues. I just feel bad for them.
If it boosts their self-esteem, it's sad, but I'll let them have that little victory. They ((usually)) aren't really hurting anyone anyway.
"It's not hurting anyone" but it is. It's hurting the girl who's doing it. It also doesn't count as a self esteem "boost" if it's false and has no bearing. I don't see how imagining attention would be healthy for anyone's self esteem, tbh. When the reality carpet is pulled out from you, your world view is now shattered because it was based on false assumptions.
Besides, self esteem for women needs to be based more on their appearances and whether or not they get attention from the male species. Women need to realize that they have more value than that. THAT'S where the real self esteem boost needs to come from. Once she has that, all that other silly shit won't matter.
They need to first see and harness their innate value, and THEN rid themselves of the consequently unnecessary delusions.
I'm not a therapist, but that's my take on it.click to expand

Posted by SexySergioYour user icon helps though.
I wish this cat fight was sexier 😢

Posted by Arielle83Dun dun dun
Naw I'm stalking Rocky and her brain.
Sorry.
I'm not into idiots.


Posted by goligoldAgain, this isn't the point of the post, speshul.
Again apologies I didn't realize this is such a painful subject for women, "other women that are attractive to men." Lesson learned. Just don't attack me, even nice people have their limits.

Posted by starloverOf course not. She's a Libra. It's never their fault. See how she justifies her response- "oh, well I walked in on the tail end..." *proceeds to implusively go after others because lack of comprehension skills*Posted by goligoldAnd you are rever at fault then?
Oh ok then...it's the Internet. I'm only responding to posts made directly to me. And since none of these people are in front of me talking trash...then I can only respond via Internet. Again, I walked in on the tail end making a light hearted comment..click to expand

Posted by starlover+1
Ladies, you don't need anything to validate you if you have confidence and good self esteem. Those women that do this and eternally search for praise and ego boosting are yet to find it....maybe a better way of dealing with them is referring them to a good therapist who will help them fix their behaviour?

Posted by goligoldDear, she was posting that link since YOU should be following that list. Your response was disgusting, extremely immature, and catty. You proved to be the woman you're accusing others of being. You psychotically went on the defense over a misunderstanding, didn't even wait for a response, and in under the span of TWO MINUTES in FOUR consecutive posts, you were flinging insults about my looks, my weight, and even took shots at Arielle in regard to her job.
I agree unless they want to purposely try to attack the innocent, I stick up for others but especially myself. People always think Libras will put up with other people's butter. I made a light hearted comment on something that was literally happening in my life at the moment. Lol Im sorry a woman that is attractive to a man makes other women get so evil, that's not my fault. (And I'm not saying it's me unless this thread was made for me). If not then stop harassing me.
I really want nothing to do with this post anymore.

Posted by centipedesI'll admit I use terms like that and I'm always using "silly bitch" because that's what they are and it's always directed at the women who are doing something to set themselves back as well as the entire gender with their behavior and attitude toward other women. It's not only damaging to them personally, but to the gender as a whole.Posted by starloverExactly. Never will I understand women who tear each other down. FFS we have to deal with so much bullshit just for being women anyway, why make it worse for each other?
...i see women call other women *cu*nts* because they have the inability to communicate in an intelligent way, never did understand that
I guess the insults are directed from those who have issues?
Women would probably collectively have a lot more power in this world if we were a united front. Or at least didn't waste so much energy keeping each other down, which results in all of them being kept down.
This just drives me nuts.click to expand


Posted by YellowSubmarineAt the very least, you want to hear something else. I know that I feel that way. However, I don't say anything that I feel would come across as impolite to a person who I understand is trying to BE polite. Even if I know he's trying to be polite in order to get the booty. There are a lot worse things men can say in order to try to sleep with a woman. I think "you're pretty" or "you're beautiful" is a safe/polite way for a man to initiate conversation with a woman in hopes of getting to sleep with her one day.
If a dog gets told he's a cat, over and over and over again, he will eventually believe he's a cat.
Good looking people (men or women) just get hit on more - yes, it goes to their heads, but they've been hearing it over and over and over....
I didn't read the entire thread, it's massive already in my opinion, but just adding my two cents.

Posted by killerwhalemoonThat's just fucked up. Insecure females cannot be trusted. Period.
Being a female and my room mate using this method to feel better about herself yeah it does kinda hurt. Especially when your friend tells you they love you and then talk about how your bf wants their junk. Only in her dreams but the fact that she can say stuff like that and not think about my feelings crosses out the meaning of her telling me she lives me. Women are full of head games. I think there's hope that women will and can think logically..even tho I know it's hard for most women I atleast am the change I want to see in the world. Just simple.



Posted by rockyroadicecream🌾👀🌾Posted by killerwhalemoonThat's just fucked up. Insecure females cannot be trusted. Period.
Being a female and my room mate using this method to feel better about herself yeah it does kinda hurt. Especially when your friend tells you they love you and then talk about how your bf wants their junk. Only in her dreams but the fact that she can say stuff like that and not think about my feelings crosses out the meaning of her telling me she lives me. Women are full of head games. I think there's hope that women will and can think logically..even tho I know it's hard for most women I atleast am the change I want to see in the world. Just simple.
That also reminds me of someone here who created a thread awhile back about this new friend of hers, but the thread quickly turned into "her boyfriend wants me because he looked at me weird!"
....huh?
She seemed way too caught up in the notion she was attracting a taken man and not even considering this "new" friend of hers. That situation also sparked the idea of this thread topic.
Hell, we even get occasional silly bitches coming here, bragging about how they're the mistress or second woman, like they're some amazing thing because *gasp* they can lure a guy away from his woman. It's like you need some serious psychological help and should be locked in solitary, away from the public, where you cannot harm yourself or others. So much fuckery going on inside those stupid women's heads.click to expand

Posted by Magenta_Azure...Cesar?Posted by rockyroadicecream🌾👀🌾Posted by killerwhalemoonThat's just fucked up. Insecure females cannot be trusted. Period.
Being a female and my room mate using this method to feel better about herself yeah it does kinda hurt. Especially when your friend tells you they love you and then talk about how your bf wants their junk. Only in her dreams but the fact that she can say stuff like that and not think about my feelings crosses out the meaning of her telling me she lives me. Women are full of head games. I think there's hope that women will and can think logically..even tho I know it's hard for most women I atleast am the change I want to see in the world. Just simple.
That also reminds me of someone here who created a thread awhile back about this new friend of hers, but the thread quickly turned into "her boyfriend wants me because he looked at me weird!"
....huh?
She seemed way too caught up in the notion she was attracting a taken man and not even considering this "new" friend of hers. That situation also sparked the idea of this thread topic.
Hell, we even get occasional silly bitches coming here, bragging about how they're the mistress or second woman, like they're some amazing thing because *gasp* they can lure a guy away from his woman. It's like you need some serious psychological help and should be locked in solitary, away from the public, where you cannot harm yourself or others. So much fuckery going on inside those stupid women's heads.click to expand

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