What are Libra moons like?

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They are typically physically beautiful people as they tend to focus a bit more on their looks then Libra Suns who focus more on their charm. They can be a quirkier than their sun sign counterpart as a result, which shows in their flirtation. They are still caring, but don't worry about imposing the idea fairness as much a a Libra Sun. This is because their mentality is usually coming from an inherent sense of fairness.

Libra Moons can be "people pleasers", generally looking to avoid confrontation and always aiming to be liked by others. They may resort to telling a lie here and there to keep the peace or to avoid antagonism. Libra Moons do have a "fear of missing out" (aka FOMO) and can be indecisive, but this can also be tempered by their sun sign. Libra Moons also tend to strive to be in relationships more so than a Libra Sun. They too like the idea of love, but tend to pursue long-lasting relationships instead of casual affairs.
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I like long relationships, I don't jump in and out of relationships from one to the next. I do focus a lot of my looks as I like to look nice I will literally spend hours getting ready(leo rising as well though so ya know), I do think about others feelings as well as my own, I hate to see people hurting over things, it literally breaks me, turns me into captain save a hoe whether it's just talking, buying them drinks , or being there for people. I am very much a pleaser,I love to make my friends, family, and s/o happy. If it makes them happy it makes me happy. I love the idea of love and do day dream often about it. I'm a sucker for love songs. I get really hurt when something I do isn't enough because I put in a lot of effort. Mostly I feel things through my head. I think logically and rationally. I rarely jump into stuff. I like for things to be fair but not for a really long period of time. A little drama is fun for me. Idk why. I'll tip that scale myself if I have to.
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Posted by nikkistar
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Libra Moons can be "people pleasers", generally looking to avoid confrontation and always aiming to be liked by others. They may resort to telling a lie here and there to keep the peace or to avoid antagonism.
My Leeb moon does not people please, and I love antagonism. Lying is a HUGE no no for me too.

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Yup and so is mine. Or maybe we were lied to regarding our day/time of birth 😢
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Posted by nikkistar
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Libra Moons can be "people pleasers", generally looking to avoid confrontation and always aiming to be liked by others. They may resort to telling a lie here and there to keep the peace or to avoid antagonism.
My Leeb moon does not people please, and I love antagonism. Lying is a HUGE no no for me too.

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This is more of a generalization and won't apply to everyone. Pretty sure you sun sign (Scorpio) tempers those traits, especially since it's fixed energy.
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Both my siblings and my bf are Libra Moons.

Agreed with the bit about "people pleasers".

They love to keep the peace and make others happy--sometimes to their own detriment if Virgo is prominent in their chart. My sister is a Libra Moon with a Virgo ASC. She has spent her entire life keeping the peace between my parents, and she actually gets physically ill because of the toll it takes on her.

I've found that Libra Moons can be emotionally distant (they rival my Capricorn Moon). In some cases, it's a defense mechanism--they don't want to talk about it. In other cases, they just don't give a fuck. Lmao.
My Libra sun Cap moon friend gets physically ill if she has to yell at her sisters to be quiet. I thought it was a cap moon thing from having to push herself but it might as well be Libra.
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I found this on Tumblr:

Libra suns, like other air signs, do tend to detach from their emotions but not in the same way. Libra hates conflict. They hate tension and uneasiness. They need stability and reliability. Because emotions can be unpredictable, Libras feel the need to water their feelings down. Think of it as a filter. They try to rationalize and sort each emotion, find out the source, and put it into its proper place. So say if someone was rude to Libra, instead of reacting like their sister sign Aries would, Libra would accept the rudeness and then continue about their day thinking how and why that happened.

Libra also tends to put their feelings on a larger context. They ask themselves, I feel this way because this happened to me, but doesn’t everyone feel this exact way when this happens? So by concluding that everyone experiences a certain feeling, Libra decides they don’t need that feeling. If emotions don’t help a Libra, they get rid of them. And by get rid of them, I mean they either try to rationalize them so they don’t exist or they just try to ignore it.

Libra will ‘reject’ feelings if they do not believe they have the right to feel that way. For example, if a single Libra sees a cute couple they might have a pang of envy and feel resentment towards the couple in love. But then Libra will go “oh this is just my own bitterness, they haven’t done anything wrong, I’m just being unreasonable” and they’ll tell themselves to stop feeling like that.

Libra will also pick and choose what emotions to experience based on their environment. This sounds really weird I know. But if they’re in a group and everyone is wild and goofy and impulsive, Libra will match their behavior and try to match their emotions. For example, I won’t be excited about a something until someone else is and I feed off their energy.

Libra moons are a little more difficult to understand. They filter their feelings based on what’s “just and proper,” what benefits those around them, and what benefits themselves. Libra moon will choose to delete emotions they don’t know how to deal with. They also tend to never talk about their feelings. Or, and I’m guilty of doing this, will complain about small things so that their friends won’t ask what’s REALLY wrong on a deeper level (because if I never complained about anything, they would be concerned). Libra moons will avoid talking about their feelings. They like to help others though and by helping others, they learn about themselves. They can sometimes act as therapists, asking others how they feel about a certain situation and then those Libra moons will apply what they learned to their own lives.

After talking to other Libra moons on here, I’ve learned that I’m not alone in that Libra moons often feel hollow. Like there’s a cavern in our hearts. Most days it feels unfillable. Our emotions can overwhelm us and so we feel numb. Happiness is dulled, sadness is dulled until everything feels “meh.” There are many days when by all accounts we should be happy or excited but aren’t. It’s like eating bittersweet candy. You don’t really understand the flavor. It has both the sweetest and the sour mixed up together. Our emotions get all jumbled up together, we have trouble trying to separate them because we see how things can have both pros and cons.

Many Libra moons (and suns and 7th house stelliums) feel a continual longing. Specifically, longing for a relationship. There’s an incessant need for partnership, for a companion, to be understood. When that isn’t being fulfilled, it makes our lives imbalanced, throwing our emotions even farther off balance. At the end of the day, despite deflecting attention onto others, we secretly need love and a lot of it. The angsty phrase “I build walls just to see who cares enough to climb over” really applies here. Yes, we give other people a lot of attention. Part of that is to weed out who just likes us to listen and who actually wants to listen to us. We sort out the people who use us for validation from the people who actually care about us. When we find that there’s way more people who only use us, we can become depressed. There’s nothing quite as disheartening to a Libra moon than realizing that all your friends and family don’t ever stop to genuinely wonder how you’re doing. Despite Libra being called the fakest sign, we put that front up on purpose just to see who’s brave enough to look underneath. And unfortunately, very few people are willing to do so. Libra is a people pleaser and will seek companionship even if it is only superficial, but we will never be satisfied until we get that soulmate level connection we are looking for.
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When we do accept our emotions for what they are, it can be extremely hard to let go of them. It becomes like a grudge. Years can go by but when reminded of a situation, our feelings are just as strong as the day it originally happened. Libras tend not to hold grudges, but when they do, they hold them forever. Betrayal really hits home with this sign. If you betray a Libra’s trust, they may act like everything’s fine, they might still be friends with you, you might never even know your actions upset them, but Libras will never truly forgive you for it. This type of resentment just builds up over time. And Libras know logically that they should just get over it, but won’t. (Never tell a Libra “That was years ago, just get over it.” We can’t. We won’t. We’ll hate you for saying this because it implies we haven’t tried. We’ve tried moving on, and we already water down so many of our other emotions, just let us have this, ok?)

Libras also will push to the side stuff they don’t want to deal with. They shove it into their closet so to speak. They won’t speak about it or acknowledge that it’s even there. But eventually the closet gets full and it all comes bursting out. Libras can be volcanoes. One little thing can set them off. If a Libra ever snaps seemingly out of nowhere, it’s because they’ve put off dealing with their emotions. Likely, they’re not mad at one little thing, but rather a whole month or year’s worth of frustrations. So if a Libra yells at you, it’s best just to shut up and listen. If they’re in this frame of mind and you start arguing back, they will never ever ever open up to you again. If a Libra actually trusts you enough to tell you what they’re feeling and you try to argue with them or put the blame on them, know that you’ll never earn their trust back. Ever. The next day they might act completely normal, but know this is a front and that they are mentally stabbing you. Again I just want to reiterate here that Libras do not often publicly express their anger (for fear of how others will react) so if they cry or scream in front of you, they’re at their most vulnerable and need your support. Most of the time, support in that situation is just shutting up and listening. Don’t give advice unless they ask. Just nod. Just care. And if they’re up for it, give them a hug. Not a wimpy one. A real hug. Squeeze them and tell them you love them. Libras just want to be understood.

Libras (especially moons) are daydreamers. This is a way out of dealing with reality. Libras escape in their fantasies. They write novels, direct movies, become superheroes, act out music, etc all in their heads. They’ll imagine real life situations over and over. This is why when things don’t go according to plan, they’ll become frustrated. Sometimes they just wish people could read their thoughts because it’s just hard to communicate them. The on,y time you’ll ever find a Libra unfiltered is in their fantasies. It’s the one place they let themselves be free and selfish. The world demands so much of them, their daydreams are their only escape.

Libra has a strong martyr complex too. If they can’t find their inner peace, they’ll help you find yours. If they can’t be happy, they’ll try to cheer you up. If they haven’t laughed in ages, they’ll tell jokes until your eyes water and stomach hurts from giggling. They know what hollowness is like, what chaos and imbalance and self hatred is like. They help you be strong so they can tell themselves they will be strong one day too.

Because Saturn exalts in Libra, many Libras feel extreme self-hatred, unworthiness, guilt for no reason, and fear they will be dependent forever. This complex relationship between Saturn and Venus (which is Libra’s main ruler) creates tension. There’s a pull between wanting the beautiful things out of life like clothes, romance, confidence with feeling like they are undeserving of it.
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Having a Libra moon, I tend to process things logically and believe that everything can be worked out through communication. I'm really good at compromising, I believe in upholding one's end of a deal. A non-afflicted Libra Moon has so much integrity, because they value fairness and truth.

On the negative side, I do tend to care about how others see me and i want to be liked. In a way, it makes me more sensitive and emotional.

I hate dishonest communication, but Libra Moons can get lost in being fake themselves just to uphold an image or avoid confrontation and avoid revealing that they've done something wrong. This is something that I've fought with for most of my life. I hate confrontation, and being so scared of it makes me look guiltier than I actually am.

Luckily there's a lot of Taurus in me. At the end of the day, I know what the right thing to do is. And I have to kick my own ass to speak up and defend myself, and not fear having to lose a friend over it.