Any other late teenage / early adult Pisces who feel like they can't get their life

Hi, I'm just wondering if I'm the only Pisces folk (I'm a First Decan Pisces- so I'm Pisces/Pisces, not Pisces/Cancer or Pisces/Scorpio) who kind of feels like they can't get their life "started" in terms picking (and holding) a job and/or finding a romantic partner? If you don't feel this way, do you have any advice for someone who does? Am I even correct in feeling this way?

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Some explanation:

I think I read about Pisces recently that we may have difficulty trying to choose careers (or maybe just jobs in general, like I'm seeming to have difficulty with) because we can see 10 different avenues our lives could take, but something about having all that choice just freezes us up and we can't make a decision.

Feeling pressure from my family to seek out work, I have had two different jobs recently and I quit both of them very shortly after starting. In both cases, I would get a gut feeling that I didn't want to (and shouldn't) report to work.

I might like to believe that we are "supposed" to be in a certain job, or with a certain lover. This could be why I indulged my "feeling" that I wanted to quit each job.

I think I'd still have managed these stunts before I started reading Astrology stuff ~9 months ago. Astrology does seem to imply, after all, that we are better suited for certain jobs (and partners) than we are others, and Pisces - so I've read - is supposed to be pretty psychic when we rely on our gut.

I have come across some articles (as well as heard), by the way, that our actual gut shares many properties with our brain, and that our gut will actually "think", then send those messages to our brain, where we experience the information on a subconscious level.

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Now, about the "lover" part:

According to https://www.astrodecans.com/compatibility/ - Being a First Decan Pisces, I'm supposed to be 100% compatible (as lovers, and maybe also as friends, but lovers would be better) with a First Decan Cancer and a First Decan Scorpio, although through a bit of personal experience and the fact that my Chiron is in Scorpio while I have nothing in Cancer in my chart, I have deduced that I'd be best with the "right" F.D. Scorpio.

So, in my ideal world, I would find the "right" F.D. Scorpio, and he/she would take the reigns of my life and guide me through all the shit that I just discussed.

I know I sound weak - I suppose I'm one of those "pathetic" Pisces that I read about.

I've also read, possibly under the "pathetic" Pisces label, that it DOES happen where a Pisces will latch on to their lover (who is stronger) and "lets their partner take control of their life from that point", or something like that.

In regards to finding that First Decan (F.D.) Scorpio, I guess I could post on the Scorpio forums on this website, or go elsewhere, or just hope that my bio on Tinder which explains this criteria gets a hit? Lol..

Thanks!

All of that sounds really silly, tbh. Well, mainly the love part. Don't make choices and live by astrology when you haven't mastered it.

Posted by Scenic
All of that sounds really silly, tbh. Well, mainly the love part. Don't make choices and live by astrology when you haven't mastered it.

I feel very certain, though, that a F.D. Scorpio is who I'm after. I've already had a love of this type; he just didn't feel the same.

Add to it that Scorpio and Pisces are as close as you can get to "soulmates," according to my what I've read.

By master, I assume you mean at reading charts?

Posted by sskooter

Posted by Scenic
All of that sounds really silly, tbh. Well, mainly the love part. Don't make choices and live by astrology when you haven't mastered it.

I feel very certain, though, that a F.D. Scorpio is who I'm after. I've already had a love of this type; he just didn't feel the same.

Add to it that Scorpio and Pisces are as close as you can get to "soulmates," according to my what I've read.

By master, I assume you mean at reading charts?

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There is so much more to compatibility than sun signs. There's also 11 other signs to explore and you're going to purposely go after just one? And a specific decan? With kind-of-sort-of experience on a whopping one other first decan Scorpio??Also good luck with that soulmate thing. It's a bunch of bs. Go back and find all the threads asking Pisces how they feel about scorpios.

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Posted by Scenic
All of that sounds really silly, tbh. Well, mainly the love part. Don't make choices and live by astrology when you haven't mastered it.

I feel very certain, though, that a F.D. Scorpio is who I'm after. I've already had a love of this type; he just didn't feel the same.

Add to it that Scorpio and Pisces are as close as you can get to "soulmates," according to my what I've read.

By master, I assume you mean at reading charts?

There is so much more to compatibility than sun signs. There's also 11 other signs to explore and you're going to purposely go after just one? And a specific decan? With kind-of-sort-of experience on a whopping one other first decan Scorpio??Also good luck with that soulmate thing. It's a bunch of bs. Go back and find all the threads asking Pisces how they feel about scorpios.

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I appreciate your input

I think you ought to discover inner child again and find your passions and work towards a career in that as for the love thing... Forget everything you know about it. True love comes when you are least expecting it.

Don't be satisfied and almost comforted by the whole "pathetic" thing, take control of your life, discover and explore your passions...

I'm 18 and I constantly feel that way I'm aqua Sun

@sskooter reminds me of my Piscean brother a bit, he has a Taurus moon and Aries rising. A common trait among the duality of the fish is that some can swim upstream and some can go with the flow downstream. For my brother, a conditioned dependency had to be stripped from him by being kicked out by the fed up Aquarius boyfriend of our Cancer moms house whom basically enabled his dependency and left to his devices for him to get motivated to look for work. Ultimately, he ended up living with his Leo dad whom told him if he didn't help pay rent he'd be kicked out. Lo and behold years later he ends up working temp jobs, worked THREE last year as I did his taxes and finally found a place he enjoys working at. The potential of the Pisces is incredible but sometimes they can get stuck in a carefree world if given the chance and a little motivation and ambition can go a long way.

Well I'm 47..hello! I think its because what we really want do is not what everybody who misunderstands and ridicules us to do wants, they know we can be wonderful writers, poets, directors, actors,healers,psychic's, carers, and be good at it and they are jealous cause it comes so naturally to us, think about it ? Do what you feel you love, whatever it is ok! They won't care anyway no matter what you do x just enjoy your life .

Just looked back and noticed a bit of a row going on, oh dear, is someone just winding us up ?

I sympathize with my Decan 1 Piscean brothers and sisters, but you need to remember that the world is a very ugly and dangerous place once outside the borders of the United States.

People are just rude and destructive, so keep in mind that your personal safety and security needs to be priority 1.

That said, start thinking about what it is that you want to do with your life.

Getting a formal education is highly necessary for most professional choices.

What, precisely, do you want to do?

I am a Decan 3 Piscean, so having the Scorpio inclination definitely helps keep me motivated and driven.

I'm a pisces and have never had a problem with depending on others. I run my own show and always will. I know what I want in life, regardless a partners gonna help. YET I also feel a massive hump. Almost like I really really would love that perfect fitting just to make life a little more comfortable and funner, like the perfect partner or job (which is so hard to come by lol). SO I'm totally with you there with getting "life" started.

Im 20yo, but Ive been single for 2 years while so many friends are out dating, working. Ive been floating around with uni courses and boys. But deep down I know where I'd like to be.

I think for us pisces its a big battle with sticking to something that screams with passion, and doesn't become boring

Thank you to everyone who's responded (I'll mention @Apogeelunar and @capvirgo, in particular).

@PV-Jellay - I'm a Libra moon, actually

@Piscespoppy - a “row” ?

@AnOdeToNoOne - I'm not sure

Not a pisces sun but i have it as my midheaven. I still have no idea what to do with my life. I have no concrete plan. It changes daily. So many dreams...

I've chosen to embrace the no plan life style .

I do what im passionate about. Even tho that changes daily.

Just ask yourself this question:

What would Clint Eastwood do?

Posted by Dastard
@RealmVisitor

Lol, you're only doing yourself a disservice by playing dumb and denying things. At this point everyone who reads this conversation can tell how desperate you are to save face and that you're willing to go to any length just to achieve that.

Since you were rude from the beginning of our interaction you could have told me this "You don't need to know who I am/was" before, instead of dancing around the question by writing a bunch of vague baloney and then proceed to completely ignore it. You are trying way too hard to cover something up and it's showing.

"You don't need to know who I am/was." You don't need to reply to my comments yet you do. So yay for more baloney and cop-out answers!

Scorpio Moon = gets to the bottom of shit

Posted by YasmineMin
Im a 19 year old Piscean (2nd decan) and I completely understand. I have had some severe personal struggles in the past about a couple years ago when I was 17. After graduated high school I have been taking a break. So no working or going to school. However, since it has been about a year Im thinking about seeking work and try to make myself happy in life, only it seems that my dreams are unattainable, because my wish is to move to a foreign country but nobody supports me on it, and my grandma is so negative and ignorant when it comes to other cultures so she doesn't understand. Even though Im not completely healed, and I still worry, Im trying to make myself happy but I feel like Im being held back. So I understand how you feel.

I honestly feel like I posted this. I took a break from school when I was 17 and I'm 18 now and slowly starting to get my life together, I want to move to America but my family are too negative and ignorant when it comes to that. I feel like my parents are holding me back but hopefully I will just get things done and life will look up. Good luck x x x

Do you feel like you're observing life instead of participating already?

Posted by DOME
Do you feel like you're observing life instead of participating already?

Mostly, yeah