Pieces says he is done with me

I am capricorn whom who was recently in relationship with a Pisces man for 9 months. We were going or doing fine until he suddenly said he was done with me. Though there were was so complication before and we broke up a couple of times and got back within few days. But the thing is mostly during our relationship phase I was the one initiating to go on dates and spend time together. Even after we broke up, I been texting him that I want him back and it's okay even if he made a wrong decision. I accepted all his flaws plus after we broke up, he have shut himself down from his roommates and won't talk normally like he used to. So what do you think, does he still loves me and will he ever come back? He have told his friends are we broke up that he is never getting in relationship though I know or it scares me he actually might change his mind and get in one with someone one. He is very indecisive about his decision, he always changes his mind too.

You’ve been together 9 months during which you broken up a few times. Finally he said enough.

He told friends he is done.

However you calling him undecisive and waiting for him to be back.

Does it sound normal to you?

You may have been "doing fine" but apparently, he wasn't. Not sure WHAT the real issue could

be since you didn't really lay out too many facts. But all in all, your ex doesn't want to be w you anymore AND he didn't even give you the courtesy of telling you WHY. That's not something you should want BACK into your life 🤦

he might be going through things rn

if he decides to be with someone else, it's not like you can stop it.just don't wait for him, basically and move on with your life

you need a whole person to love.

forget about broken pieces man

Posted by sweetpea2977

You may have been "doing fine" but apparently, he wasn't. Not sure WHAT the real issue could

be since you didn't really lay out too many facts. But all in all, your ex doesn't want to be w you anymore AND he didn't even give you the courtesy of telling you WHY. That's not something you should want BACK into your life 🤦

He was courteous enough to not to ghost her.

He might doesn’t even know why he fell out of it.

However he gave her closure in form of ‘it’s the end’.

The way she is acting is exactly why people ghost!

Nobody can make breakup ‘beautiful’!

Her action is strange. He said the end. She says maybe not.

So what poor fella to do?

I said before and I M saying again...respect people decisions to not to want you anymore!!!

Reason or not. Nobody can make anybody to have feelings they don’t have. Enough! Let go.

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

you need a whole person too love.

forget about broken pieces man

What is telling you he is broken pieces man?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

you need a whole person too love.

forget about broken pieces man

What is telling you he is broken pieces man?

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the typo in the title of this thread lol

Yes, it totally sounds normal to me. Coz first of one. I have never broken up with him. He was the one who broke up with me and came back then and there itself.

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

you need a whole person too love.

forget about broken pieces man

What is telling you he is broken pieces man?

the typo in the title of this thread lol

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Hahaha...I see. It’s like fucking LEGO man...put pieces together when you don’t have a game! Pff

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

you need a whole person too love.

forget about broken pieces man

What is telling you he is broken pieces man?

the typo in the title of this thread lol

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I meant to say Pisces man.. autotype lol

Posted by Miyo

Yes, it totally sounds normal to me. Coz first of one. I have never broken up with him. He was the one who broke up with me and came back then and there itself.

He broke up with you BUT you took him back.

He might had tried or just wanted sex...

After all he had decided to leave you.

Do you want him to be playing in and out game?

Than wait...he might come back AGAIN when he want sex.

If you ok with see-saw man - Godspeed!

fWB or other crap - your choice...

But man said you 2 are done!

Will you wait so he might come back?

Don’t you feel mad he said he is done with you?

Don’t you?

Posted by Miyo

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

you need a whole person too love.

forget about broken pieces man

What is telling you he is broken pieces man?

the typo in the title of this thread lol

I meant to say Pisces man.. autotype lol

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did you now?

the truth always has a way of coming to the surface I say lol

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Yes, it totally sounds normal to me. Coz first of one. I have never broken up with him. He was the one who broke up with me and came back then and there itself.

He broke up with you BUT you took him back.

He might had tried or just wanted sex...

After all he had decided to leave you.

Do you want him to be playing in and out game?

Than wait...he might come back AGAIN when he want sex.

If you ok with see-saw man - Godspeed!

fWB or other crap - your choice...

But man said you 2 are done!

Will you wait so he might come back?

Don’t you feel mad he said he is done with you?

Don’t you?

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Maybe, I don't have the heart to be mad at him. It saddens me that he is shutting himself out from everyone ever since he said he has broken up. His friends keeps on contacting me that he is spacing out most of the time and he is venting out everything on them.

Posted by Miyo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Yes, it totally sounds normal to me. Coz first of one. I have never broken up with him. He was the one who broke up with me and came back then and there itself.

He broke up with you BUT you took him back.

He might had tried or just wanted sex...

After all he had decided to leave you.

Do you want him to be playing in and out game?

Than wait...he might come back AGAIN when he want sex.

If you ok with see-saw man - Godspeed!

fWB or other crap - your choice...

But man said you 2 are done!

Will you wait so he might come back?

Don’t you feel mad he said he is done with you?

Don’t you?

Maybe, I don't have the heart to be mad at him. It saddens me that he is shutting himself out from everyone ever since he said he has broken up. His friends keeps on contacting me that he is spacing out most of the time and he is venting out everything on them.

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Look deeper into your rship...

What have you done wrong?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Yes, it totally sounds normal to me. Coz first of one. I have never broken up with him. He was the one who broke up with me and came back then and there itself.

He broke up with you BUT you took him back.

He might had tried or just wanted sex...

After all he had decided to leave you.

Do you want him to be playing in and out game?

Than wait...he might come back AGAIN when he want sex.

If you ok with see-saw man - Godspeed!

fWB or other crap - your choice...

But man said you 2 are done!

Will you wait so he might come back?

Don’t you feel mad he said he is done with you?

Don’t you?

Maybe, I don't have the heart to be mad at him. It saddens me that he is shutting himself out from everyone ever since he said he has broken up. His friends keeps on contacting me that he is spacing out most of the time and he is venting out everything on them.

Look deeper into your rship...

What have you done wrong?

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I know what I did wrong. I used to start the argument for him not giving me time. I gave him his personal space, we barely meet like twice or thrice a month. We are both in same college and studying here but different departments.

Plus I even apologize him for all of my wrong doings. I have already owned up to it.

Posted by Miyo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Yes, it totally sounds normal to me. Coz first of one. I have never broken up with him. He was the one who broke up with me and came back then and there itself.

He broke up with you BUT you took him back.

He might had tried or just wanted sex...

After all he had decided to leave you.

Do you want him to be playing in and out game?

Than wait...he might come back AGAIN when he want sex.

If you ok with see-saw man - Godspeed!

fWB or other crap - your choice...

But man said you 2 are done!

Will you wait so he might come back?

Don’t you feel mad he said he is done with you?

Don’t you?

Maybe, I don't have the heart to be mad at him. It saddens me that he is shutting himself out from everyone ever since he said he has broken up. His friends keeps on contacting me that he is spacing out most of the time and he is venting out everything on them.

Look deeper into your rship...

What have you done wrong?

I know what I did wrong. I used to start the argument for him not giving me time. I gave him his personal space, we barely meet like twice or thrice a month. We are both in same college and studying here but different departments.

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Respect his departure. Move on. Good luck.

Posted by Miyo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Yes, it totally sounds normal to me. Coz first of one. I have never broken up with him. He was the one who broke up with me and came back then and there itself.

He broke up with you BUT you took him back.

He might had tried or just wanted sex...

After all he had decided to leave you.

Do you want him to be playing in and out game?

Than wait...he might come back AGAIN when he want sex.

If you ok with see-saw man - Godspeed!

fWB or other crap - your choice...

But man said you 2 are done!

Will you wait so he might come back?

Don’t you feel mad he said he is done with you?

Don’t you?

Maybe, I don't have the heart to be mad at him. It saddens me that he is shutting himself out from everyone ever since he said he has broken up. His friends keeps on contacting me that he is spacing out most of the time and he is venting out everything on them.

Look deeper into your rship...

What have you done wrong?

I know what I did wrong. I used to start the argument for him not giving me time. I gave him his personal space, we barely meet like twice or thrice a month. We are both in same college and studying here but different departments.

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Meeting someone twice or thrice a month IS NOT a relationship honey. I can safely assume you wasted 9 months of your life beating a dead horse. Plus you 2 are studying in the same college. I'm sorry but he was never fully into it and I bet he wouldn't call it a relationship either. You've done nothing wrong and you shouldn't have apologized. It's okay, there are other Pisces men out there, go find one with decent personality and let this man go. All the best to you

He probably made the decision the first time you had complications in the relationship. The best is to give him some alone time. He will definitely comeback. Don't expect him to comeback soon but just be ready when he comes back. We have a thing for Caps and reuniting is one of them but sometimes the re-union doesn't go well especially with Caps. So don't expect anything gud when he comes back.

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Posted by sweetpea2977

You may have been "doing fine" but apparently, he wasn't. Not sure WHAT the real issue could

be since you didn't really lay out too many facts. But all in all, your ex doesn't want to be w you anymore AND he didn't even give you the courtesy of telling you WHY. That's not something you should want BACK into your life 🤦

He was courteous enough to not to ghost her.

He might doesn’t even know why he fell out of it.

However he gave her closure in form of ‘it’s the end’.

The way she is acting is exactly why people ghost!

Nobody can make breakup ‘beautiful’!

Her action is strange. He said the end. She says maybe not.

So what poor fella to do?

I said before and I M saying again...respect people decisions to not to want you anymore!!!

Reason or not. Nobody can make anybody to have feelings they don’t have. Enough! Let go.

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In agreement w this. Completely.

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Posted by Miyo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Miyo

Yes, it totally sounds normal to me. Coz first of one. I have never broken up with him. He was the one who broke up with me and came back then and there itself.

He broke up with you BUT you took him back.

He might had tried or just wanted sex...

After all he had decided to leave you.

Do you want him to be playing in and out game?

Than wait...he might come back AGAIN when he want sex.

If you ok with see-saw man - Godspeed!

fWB or other crap - your choice...

But man said you 2 are done!

Will you wait so he might come back?

Don’t you feel mad he said he is done with you?

Don’t you?

Maybe, I don't have the heart to be mad at him. It saddens me that he is shutting himself out from everyone ever since he said he has broken up. His friends keeps on contacting me that he is spacing out most of the time and he is venting out everything on them.

Look deeper into your rship...

What have you done wrong?

I know what I did wrong. I used to start the argument for him not giving me time. I gave him his personal space, we barely meet like twice or thrice a month. We are both in same college and studying here but different departments.

Meeting someone twice or thrice a month IS NOT a relationship honey. I can safely assume you wasted 9 months of your life beating a dead horse. Plus you 2 are studying in the same college. I'm sorry but he was never fully into it and I bet he wouldn't call it a relationship either. You've done nothing wrong and you shouldn't have apologized. It's okay, there are other Pisces men out there, go find one with decent personality and let this man go. All the best to you

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Thank you for reassurement and words. 😊

Posted by chris19

He probably made the decision the first time you had complications in the relationship. The best is to give him some alone time. He will definitely comeback. Don't expect him to comeback soon but just be ready when he comes back. We have a thing for Caps and reuniting is one of them but sometimes the re-union doesn't go well especially with Caps. So don't expect anything gud when he comes back.

Okay. I feel like he would come back too. Plus he barely or let's anyone utter my name. I have known and his friends know all his exs..it never bothered him when someone takes out their name but he has problem whenever my name is called out. Anyways thank you for your advice. Will keep that in mind.

What I sense is that he still cares and he might be possessive over you. He doesn’t want anyone else to have you so that might be the two reasons he comes back. However, there are reasons he leaves. These reasons are what he doesn’t like about you and the relationship. In a Pisces mind, they seem to go back and forth between the parts of you they want and don’t want making it hard to stay fully committed if unsure or on the fence.

Posted by pinkbird03

What I sense is that he still cares and he might be possessive over you. He doesn’t want anyone else to have you so that might be the two reasons he comes back. However, there are reasons he leaves. These reasons are what he doesn’t like about you and the relationship. In a Pisces mind, they seem to go back and forth between the parts of you they want and don’t want making it hard to stay fully committed if unsure or on the fence.

I don't know about possessive but he is caring. The only time he ever blunts out stuffs about how much he loves me and all are done only during the time when he gets drunk. During the breakup time, we made an agreement too that whether he wants to still try this relationship or not again..he shall give his answer on our first year anniversary. For now he want space. And that's how we broke off.

"Pieces says he is done with me"

it's "Pisces" honey, and if he or she said that to you then you may as well grab a box of tissue and start the recovery process because that's a wrap. sorry that happened to you. hope it gets better...

Posted by pinkbird03

What I sense is that he still cares and he might be possessive over you. He doesn’t want anyone else to have you so that might be the two reasons he comes back. However, there are reasons he leaves. These reasons are what he doesn’t like about you and the relationship. In a Pisces mind, they seem to go back and forth between the parts of you they want and don’t want making it hard to stay fully committed if unsure or on the fence.

Fuuk! I almost teared up...

Do they look for perfection! Seems like it.

Are they perfect?

Sooo...are they really just an assholes who want better than what they have just because they feeling entitled?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03

What I sense is that he still cares and he might be possessive over you. He doesn’t want anyone else to have you so that might be the two reasons he comes back. However, there are reasons he leaves. These reasons are what he doesn’t like about you and the relationship. In a Pisces mind, they seem to go back and forth between the parts of you they want and don’t want making it hard to stay fully committed if unsure or on the fence.

Fuuk! I almost teared up...

Do they look for perfection! Seems like it.

Are they perfect?

Sooo...are they really just an assholes who want better than what they have just because they feeling entitled?

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I don’t know. Maybe! I was thinking they are just picky and have lots of dealbreakers. I’m that way. I won’t settle for something unless it’s what I really want. But I’m not looking for perfection. I’ll take flaws as long as I get what I want!

Pull yourself together first. Blink a few times and get your head out of the clouds. Whatever happened has happened. He ended it. Your responsibility now is to continue on as usual. This is usually a good time for some self reflection and character development. Every ending can teach us something. Take some time to get your mind refocused on your life and where that is heading. Once you refocus on yourself and start moving forward again, it will matter less and less what he is doing. Sure it sucks missing someone, but do something productive with that feeling. Whether it pushes you to get healthy physically, emotionally, or spiritually... whatever! Try to go with that and imagine who you really wanna be in life. Once you have that image, it is easier to find those little steps to take to achieve that. There will be other people in your life for sure. And who knows, maybe your future self with mesh more with his future self! You never know what the future holds, and you can only control yourself. It is on you what you do with that information. Best wishes dear! Take your day to mourn it and be done with it! Use it as fuel to a better you!!