Mizztery97
@Mizztery97
3 Years
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Posted by DonnaLibra
Yeah, he uses you for favors to do things and romances her. He knows you still want him and will do whatever he asks. Good you proved him wrong this time. You were right to block him and move on. What in the world could you be confused about? Just because you met his family and friends doesn't mean anything. He lied that you were his soulmate or he wouldn't have his little 19 year old Leo. He doesn't want to bother her with chores so he asks you. Forget him.

Posted by Undine
How is anyone “using” you, if they ask you a favour and you refuse?!
🤔
Posted by DMV
He keeps using you for favors because you keep answering the phone.
He knows you have a soft spot for him and he uses it to his advantage.
He knows you’re just dying at home waiting for him to call.
He knows your a text away from doing what he wants
He knows that you lack self respect


Posted by AbbyNormal
He knows from what you’ve shown him how he can treat you. You’ve accepted so much poor behavior on his behalf, why would he expect otherwise?! The change starts with you because you can’t control him. Block him everywhere, scratch him out of your life. Do not allow him to use you, do not allow him to ask for these favors. You know the Truth now, he’s a lying cheat! So fucking cut that cancer out of your life!!!! Stop wondering why and start accepting what he’s showing you. Some people are just users. That’s life. Some people suck really fucking bad, doesn’t mean you have to put up with it!
Posted by MonaLisa26
How can one doesn't get mad at the ex who is dating someone else but calling them for help is beyond my understanding.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by Mizztery97Posted by MonaLisa26
How can one doesn't get mad at the ex who is dating someone else but calling them for help is beyond my understanding.
Why would I be upset that he’s dating ? We’re no longer together. The point is him using me after the relationship
You aren't together. He is calling you for help. He is thinking of you like if you were a moron as you are. On-call 24/7 waiting for his dick to call you...idiot...click to expand
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It hasn’t been a month yet & I feel like I’ve been living in a fantasy world. I spoke to the girl & she told me they’ve been talking for almost a year (we haven’t been broken up for a year yet). Before I knew this, I thought I was the reason for the break up. Now, I see he wasn’t faithful in the 1st place. & for him to use me like I was nothing is triggering. I had to block him from coming back ‘cause no matter how many times I say leave me alone he comes back for another favor. Makes me question does he really need a favor or is it an excuse to contact me. But if I call him, he’ll be very vague & distant. Also, I just don’t understand how someone can say I’m their soulmate but cheat on me & treat me like I’m nothing. I met his family & friends & he met mines too but do I really mean nothing to him now ? I know for a fact (or maybe not haha) that I’m being used but I’m still confused (& overthinking)
Please give me some insight