LadyTaurean585
@LadyTaurean585
5 Years
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Pisces Man emotionally unavailable or over me?
None of us know if he has alternative hidden reasons to dumping you.
Why not just choose to believe him that he isn't ready for a relationship atm?
Believe him when he says "it’s best you move on and do better".
I asked him why and he said that he had been feeling this way for months that he just wanted to be alone. That this choice had nothing to do with me, that I was 23 and I shouldn’t be in a relationship where I’m in the house all day hovering over him bc he’s too depressed or likes being isolated that he doesn’t want to go out. And that he was draining me.
From the sounds of it you did too much mothering him and he felt smothered. Once he moved away long distance and got some space he realized he didn't want the relationship. Nothing you can do but to let it be.
Why not just choose to believe him that he isn't ready for a relationship atm?
Believe him when he says "it’s best you move on and do better".
I asked him why and he said that he had been feeling this way for months that he just wanted to be alone. That this choice had nothing to do with me, that I was 23 and I shouldn’t be in a relationship where I’m in the house all day hovering over him bc he’s too depressed or likes being isolated that he doesn’t want to go out. And that he was draining me.
From the sounds of it you did too much mothering him and he felt smothered. Once he moved away long distance and got some space he realized he didn't want the relationship. Nothing you can do but to let it be.
He told you why. You have to accept what he’s saying is the truth if you truly trust him, and take this time to work on yourself. This can an opportunity for you both to grow stronger within yourselves so you can truly love each other as much as you love yourselves. Yes it’s going to be painful for a while, but try to take every opportunity you can to make positives for yourself and leave him to his own self work. The better you are on your own, the better you will be as a couple. You truly learn to appreciate people when you have time apart also. Sorry I know it’s hard but that’s the best way to approach this. Listen to what he has told you and respect his needs as much as your own. Take care and best wishes. You are both young and this is an opportunity to grow more responsible so you can really know if this relationship is truly what you need rn, that goes for you both.
Posted by AbbyNormal
He told you why. You have to accept what he’s saying is the truth if you truly trust him, and take this time to work on yourself. This can an opportunity for you both to grow stronger within yourselves so you can truly love each other as much as you love yourselves. Yes it’s going to be painful for a while, but try to take every opportunity you can to make positives for yourself and leave him to his own self work. The better you are on your own, the better you will be as a couple. You truly learn to appreciate people when you have time apart also. Sorry I know it’s hard but that’s the best way to approach this. Listen to what he has told you and respect his needs as much as your own. Take care and best wishes. You are both young and this is an opportunity to grow more responsible so you can really know if this relationship is truly what you need rn, that goes for you both.
Yeah I’m really trying to. I’m hoping for his happiness but I am hoping that he comes back at the end of the day. I feel you are right and this will be a journey, it’s just hard to not check up on my bestfriend and make sure he’s good. The pain he feels is the pain I feel. I know if it’s meant to be then he will be back but I just want to know he’s okay, and that he’s protected. His parents are his demons to the point where everytime they were brought up he would start crying. He had it worse w his dad, where his dad was saying he wished he were dead and he wanted an abortion and abused him for no reason. After hanging w his dad for 3 days he wanted to break up, mind you the day before he went to his dad he had texted me that we were on the same page and he couldn’t wait to reunite w me.
When he come back AGAIN
Make sure the door stay closed....
Make sure the door stay closed....
“I felt like you would say no, if I broke up with you in your face.”
“I don’t know but it’s best you move on and do better.”
girl it's over
“I don’t know but it’s best you move on and do better.”
girl it's over
Posted by virgoOPPP
“I felt like you would say no, if I broke up with you in your face.”
“I don’t know but it’s best you move on and do better.”
girl it's over
But my question is why? If we didn’t fight, we balanced eachother, If I didn’t do anything wrong, and we were just making plans then why? we both put in effort, then why? He literally had just told me we were on the same page and that he loved me and then, boom! This. He also said he felt like he was draining me and that he felt he was a burden. I didn’t pester him, I didn’t boss him around, I trust him, I played his games w him and listened to his dreams, I don’t understand the change
Your perception =/= reality
one thing that annoys me about taurus is the guilt-tripping if i say no and set my boundaries.
nothing u do for him is gonna fix depression. that's not how it works. he's doing u a favour and maybe himself
nothing u do for him is gonna fix depression. that's not how it works. he's doing u a favour and maybe himself
Posted by besarlalluvia
one thing that annoys me about taurus is the guilt-tripping if i say no and set my boundaries.
nothing u do for him is gonna fix depression. that's not how it works. he's doing u a favour and maybe himself
How is me being confused guilt tripping? How is my heart being broken guilt tripping? I know he has severe depression but my thing is, I was good enough to be there when nobody was, so how am I not good enough to be here when the people who hurt you come back?
I’m not saying, forget his wishes, I told him the opposite. But me and him are close. We spent every single day together for 2 years and we had no problems. We didn’t fight over stupid stuff. So I know he’s trying to heal. But he was my protector, my best friend, my lover, we could sit in silence and be just fine. He called me his freaking soulmate a week ago, and now He’s going through something and he won’t tell me but instead pushes me away last second. It’s selfish bc y’all are not the only ones who go through things
Posted by LadyTaurean585Posted by virgoOPPP
“I felt like you would say no, if I broke up with you in your face.”
“I don’t know but it’s best you move on and do better.”
girl it's over
But my question is why? If we didn’t fight, we balanced eachother, If I didn’t do anything wrong, and we were just making plans then why? we both put in effort, then why? He literally had just told me we were on the same page and that he loved me and then, boom! This. He also said he felt like he was draining me and that he felt he was a burden. I didn’t pester him, I didn’t boss him around, I trust him, I played his games w him and listened to his dreams, I don’t understand the changeclick to expand
i've personally put in a lot of effort in things i end up abandoning anyway (i'm not pisces but i'm pisces dominant). also he doesn't like confrontation so he might just be saying things to appease you until he can't take it anymore. he wants out so what can you do? tbh i'd be too embarrassed and hurt to push for anything at that point. you can't force people to be in a relationship with you (especially a pisces/aqua).
hmm also i've noticed that it's like an earth sign thing to think that putting in a lot of effort in relationships mean that we'd get rewarded with continued love and affection. but that's not really how people's feelings work...sadly. it'd be easier but that's just not how it works.
Posted by LadyTaurean585
This is sort of long but I Need help: I have been dating a Pisces-Aquarius cusp man for almost the last two years. He just broke it off with me long distance 5 days ago, the reason he gave me was because he was facing his demons back home and he needed to learn how to be happy, confident, and love himself but in as few words as possible.
This has crushed me obviously. But I have to wonder, why? Why now? And why shut me out? He texted me that I was the perfect girl, that I didn’t do anything wrong and that I’m amazing and deserve someone who is like me and someone who wants to be in a relationship and that’s not him. Then we FaceTimed and he was very quiet and trying to avoid answers and to me (like he had been crying, but he makes it a big deal not to cry around me).
I asked him why and he said that he had been feeling this way for months that he just wanted to be alone. That this choice had nothing to do with me, that I was 23 and I shouldn’t be in a relationship where I’m in the house all day hovering over him bc he’s too depressed or likes being isolated that he doesn’t want to go out. And that he was draining me.
I side eyed that bc right before he left I asked him 3 different occasions. Do you want to be single? “Hell no, I’m in this!” Are you ready to be settled down? “Yes! I’m with you aren’t I?” We rarely fought unless it was about him being distant, and only that. I catered to him, I cooked, cleaned, was freaky, massaged him cus he’s always been in pain, made him his favorite tea all hours of the night, debated him, listened to his dreams, and I even cheered him on and I still do. I think he deserves the world bc he’s amazing. We have 1000% trust, and he made effort to make sure I was good and make things happen. He paid my bills, he made sure I always ate, he made sure my mom was always good, Hates Christmas but went out and bought a huge tree and help decorated our apartment together and got me literally everything I asked for.
So I don’t know where it went wrong. Things changed once he got to NY with his parents. He was texting me everyday telling me he loved me and was making plans right up to 3 days before he broke it off.
-When I asked him why, he said “I felt like you would say no, if I broke up with you in your face”
-When I asked him if it was something he wasn’t telling me about his parents, he didn’t answer.
- when I asked him if he cheated or met someone he said “no”
-when I asked him if this was forever or for now he said “I don’t know but it’s best you move on and do better”
-he said that I was still his best friend and that I could call him whenever and that he will always be there for me and to keep in contact
But I’m so hurt and confused and his mom told me “if it’s God or the universes will, then this is only temporary and you will reunite” And she posted on fb that it’s only “until life brings us together again” and he hearted it.
I can’t get in his head and I feel like I’m missing something. He has told me he loved me from the first day we met, and he has broke it off like this before a few months into us dating, but after a week he came back. I’m so lost, someone give me clarity please and what do I do to get him back?
Even if clarity was given there's nothing that you can do about it. You only have control over yourself and how you react to the situation. Besides, what he's doing currently isn't your business. You two aren't together. But... As a guy who was raised along side Pisces Brothers, there's a 98% chance that he didn't want to cheat on you so he broke up with you to get it out of his system and then will return afterwards. Pisces men do their best not to cheat, but if they can't control themselves they disappear for a few and pop back up. It is what it is. Not to be cold but after the first time he did this for a week, your intuition should have guessed this.
Posted by LadyTaurean585
This is sort of long but I Need help: I have been dating a Pisces-Aquarius cusp man for almost the last two years. He just broke it off with me long distance 5 days ago, the reason he gave me was because he was facing his demons back home and he needed to learn how to be happy, confident, and love himself but in as few words as possible.
This has crushed me obviously. But I have to wonder, why? Why now? And why shut me out? He texted me that I was the perfect girl, that I didn’t do anything wrong and that I’m amazing and deserve someone who is like me and someone who wants to be in a relationship and that’s not him. Then we FaceTimed and he was very quiet and trying to avoid answers and to me (like he had been crying, but he makes it a big deal not to cry around me).
I asked him why and he said that he had been feeling this way for months that he just wanted to be alone. That this choice had nothing to do with me, that I was 23 and I shouldn’t be in a relationship where I’m in the house all day hovering over him bc he’s too depressed or likes being isolated that he doesn’t want to go out. And that he was draining me.
I side eyed that bc right before he left I asked him 3 different occasions. Do you want to be single? “Hell no, I’m in this!” Are you ready to be settled down? “Yes! I’m with you aren’t I?” We rarely fought unless it was about him being distant, and only that. I catered to him, I cooked, cleaned, was freaky, massaged him cus he’s always been in pain, made him his favorite tea all hours of the night, debated him, listened to his dreams, and I even cheered him on and I still do. I think he deserves the world bc he’s amazing. We have 1000% trust, and he made effort to make sure I was good and make things happen. He paid my bills, he made sure I always ate, he made sure my mom was always good, Hates Christmas but went out and bought a huge tree and help decorated our apartment together and got me literally everything I asked for.
So I don’t know where it went wrong. Things changed once he got to NY with his parents. He was texting me everyday telling me he loved me and was making plans right up to 3 days before he broke it off.
-When I asked him why, he said “I felt like you would say no, if I broke up with you in your face”
-When I asked him if it was something he wasn’t telling me about his parents, he didn’t answer.
- when I asked him if he cheated or met someone he said “no”
-when I asked him if this was forever or for now he said “I don’t know but it’s best you move on and do better”
-he said that I was still his best friend and that I could call him whenever and that he will always be there for me and to keep in contact
But I’m so hurt and confused and his mom told me “if it’s God or the universes will, then this is only temporary and you will reunite” And she posted on fb that it’s only “until life brings us together again” and he hearted it.
I can’t get in his head and I feel like I’m missing something. He has told me he loved me from the first day we met, and he has broke it off like this before a few months into us dating, but after a week he came back. I’m so lost, someone give me clarity please and what do I do to get him back?
Do you still want him back??
Posted by LadyTaurean585Posted by besarlalluvia
one thing that annoys me about taurus is the guilt-tripping if i say no and set my boundaries.
nothing u do for him is gonna fix depression. that's not how it works. he's doing u a favour and maybe himself
How is me being confused guilt tripping? How is my heart being broken guilt tripping? I know he has severe depression but my thing is, I was good enough to be there when nobody was, so how am I not good enough to be here when the people who hurt you come back?
I’m not saying, forget his wishes, I told him the opposite. But me and him are close. We spent every single day together for 2 years and we had no problems. We didn’t fight over stupid stuff. So I know he’s trying to heal. But he was my protector, my best friend, my lover, we could sit in silence and be just fine. He called me his freaking soulmate a week ago, and now He’s going through something and he won’t tell me but instead pushes me away last second. It’s selfish bc y’all are not the only ones who go through thingsclick to expand
i'm not gonna make you feel like you're too much cos u sound like you love hard
but what i'm gonna say is, if nobody else was there it's probably for a reason
when it comes to pisces u need to leave us to help ourselves
pisces need tough love
Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by LadyTaurean585Posted by besarlalluvia
one thing that annoys me about taurus is the guilt-tripping if i say no and set my boundaries.
nothing u do for him is gonna fix depression. that's not how it works. he's doing u a favour and maybe himself
How is me being confused guilt tripping? How is my heart being broken guilt tripping? I know he has severe depression but my thing is, I was good enough to be there when nobody was, so how am I not good enough to be here when the people who hurt you come back?
I’m not saying, forget his wishes, I told him the opposite. But me and him are close. We spent every single day together for 2 years and we had no problems. We didn’t fight over stupid stuff. So I know he’s trying to heal. But he was my protector, my best friend, my lover, we could sit in silence and be just fine. He called me his freaking soulmate a week ago, and now He’s going through something and he won’t tell me but instead pushes me away last second. It’s selfish bc y’all are not the only ones who go through things
i'm not gonna make you feel like you're too much cos u sound like you love hard
but what i'm gonna say is, if nobody else was there it's probably for a reason
when it comes to pisces u need to leave us to help ourselves
pisces need tough loveclick to expand
I think I needed to hear this. I feel like a part of me is missing. But I know he was planning on helping himself so I’m happy for him. I just want some sort of sign that he will be back. Ya know?
Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by LadyTaurean585
This is sort of long but I Need help: I have been dating a Pisces-Aquarius cusp man for almost the last two years. He just broke it off with me long distance 5 days ago, the reason he gave me was because he was facing his demons back home and he needed to learn how to be happy, confident, and love himself but in as few words as possible.
This has crushed me obviously. But I have to wonder, why? Why now? And why shut me out? He texted me that I was the perfect girl, that I didn’t do anything wrong and that I’m amazing and deserve someone who is like me and someone who wants to be in a relationship and that’s not him. Then we FaceTimed and he was very quiet and trying to avoid answers and to me (like he had been crying, but he makes it a big deal not to cry around me).
I asked him why and he said that he had been feeling this way for months that he just wanted to be alone. That this choice had nothing to do with me, that I was 23 and I shouldn’t be in a relationship where I’m in the house all day hovering over him bc he’s too depressed or likes being isolated that he doesn’t want to go out. And that he was draining me.
I side eyed that bc right before he left I asked him 3 different occasions. Do you want to be single? “Hell no, I’m in this!” Are you ready to be settled down? “Yes! I’m with you aren’t I?” We rarely fought unless it was about him being distant, and only that. I catered to him, I cooked, cleaned, was freaky, massaged him cus he’s always been in pain, made him his favorite tea all hours of the night, debated him, listened to his dreams, and I even cheered him on and I still do. I think he deserves the world bc he’s amazing. We have 1000% trust, and he made effort to make sure I was good and make things happen. He paid my bills, he made sure I always ate, he made sure my mom was always good, Hates Christmas but went out and bought a huge tree and help decorated our apartment together and got me literally everything I asked for.
So I don’t know where it went wrong. Things changed once he got to NY with his parents. He was texting me everyday telling me he loved me and was making plans right up to 3 days before he broke it off.
-When I asked him why, he said “I felt like you would say no, if I broke up with you in your face”
-When I asked him if it was something he wasn’t telling me about his parents, he didn’t answer.
- when I asked him if he cheated or met someone he said “no”
-when I asked him if this was forever or for now he said “I don’t know but it’s best you move on and do better”
-he said that I was still his best friend and that I could call him whenever and that he will always be there for me and to keep in contact
But I’m so hurt and confused and his mom told me “if it’s God or the universes will, then this is only temporary and you will reunite” And she posted on fb that it’s only “until life brings us together again” and he hearted it.
I can’t get in his head and I feel like I’m missing something. He has told me he loved me from the first day we met, and he has broke it off like this before a few months into us dating, but after a week he came back. I’m so lost, someone give me clarity please and what do I do to get him back?
Do you still want him back??click to expand
Yes. More than anything. I feel like part of me is missing.
Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by LadyTaurean585
This is sort of long but I Need help: I have been dating a Pisces-Aquarius cusp man for almost the last two years. He just broke it off with me long distance 5 days ago, the reason he gave me was because he was facing his demons back home and he needed to learn how to be happy, confident, and love himself but in as few words as possible.
This has crushed me obviously. But I have to wonder, why? Why now? And why shut me out? He texted me that I was the perfect girl, that I didn’t do anything wrong and that I’m amazing and deserve someone who is like me and someone who wants to be in a relationship and that’s not him. Then we FaceTimed and he was very quiet and trying to avoid answers and to me (like he had been crying, but he makes it a big deal not to cry around me).
I asked him why and he said that he had been feeling this way for months that he just wanted to be alone. That this choice had nothing to do with me, that I was 23 and I shouldn’t be in a relationship where I’m in the house all day hovering over him bc he’s too depressed or likes being isolated that he doesn’t want to go out. And that he was draining me.
I side eyed that bc right before he left I asked him 3 different occasions. Do you want to be single? “Hell no, I’m in this!” Are you ready to be settled down? “Yes! I’m with you aren’t I?” We rarely fought unless it was about him being distant, and only that. I catered to him, I cooked, cleaned, was freaky, massaged him cus he’s always been in pain, made him his favorite tea all hours of the night, debated him, listened to his dreams, and I even cheered him on and I still do. I think he deserves the world bc he’s amazing. We have 1000% trust, and he made effort to make sure I was good and make things happen. He paid my bills, he made sure I always ate, he made sure my mom was always good, Hates Christmas but went out and bought a huge tree and help decorated our apartment together and got me literally everything I asked for.
So I don’t know where it went wrong. Things changed once he got to NY with his parents. He was texting me everyday telling me he loved me and was making plans right up to 3 days before he broke it off.
-When I asked him why, he said “I felt like you would say no, if I broke up with you in your face”
-When I asked him if it was something he wasn’t telling me about his parents, he didn’t answer.
- when I asked him if he cheated or met someone he said “no”
-when I asked him if this was forever or for now he said “I don’t know but it’s best you move on and do better”
-he said that I was still his best friend and that I could call him whenever and that he will always be there for me and to keep in contact
But I’m so hurt and confused and his mom told me “if it’s God or the universes will, then this is only temporary and you will reunite” And she posted on fb that it’s only “until life brings us together again” and he hearted it.
I can’t get in his head and I feel like I’m missing something. He has told me he loved me from the first day we met, and he has broke it off like this before a few months into us dating, but after a week he came back. I’m so lost, someone give me clarity please and what do I do to get him back?
Even if clarity was given there's nothing that you can do about it. You only have control over yourself and how you react to the situation. Besides, what he's doing currently isn't your business. You two aren't together. But... As a guy who was raised along side Pisces Brothers, there's a 98% chance that he didn't want to cheat on you so he broke up with you to get it out of his system and then will return afterwards. Pisces men do their best not to cheat, but if they can't control themselves they disappear for a few and pop back up. It is what it is. Not to be cold but after the first time he did this for a week, your intuition should have guessed this.click to expand
Maybe. But the week he disappeared on me, he was having surgery done. He had ripped the tendon in his ankle and the muscle in his shoulder. So he said he’d rather go through that alone. He broke it off 2 days before his surgery, and then we got back together after a week when I checked up on him.
But he literally called me crying a day ago telling me he didn’t want to be a burden and that he needed this battle. And that we’re still best friends and he gave me a list of books he’s reading about faith and self love, I get it now. I just feel empty without him
Posted by LadyTaurean585Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by LadyTaurean585
This is sort of long but I Need help: I have been dating a Pisces-Aquarius cusp man for almost the last two years. He just broke it off with me long distance 5 days ago, the reason he gave me was because he was facing his demons back home and he needed to learn how to be happy, confident, and love himself but in as few words as possible.
This has crushed me obviously. But I have to wonder, why? Why now? And why shut me out? He texted me that I was the perfect girl, that I didn’t do anything wrong and that I’m amazing and deserve someone who is like me and someone who wants to be in a relationship and that’s not him. Then we FaceTimed and he was very quiet and trying to avoid answers and to me (like he had been crying, but he makes it a big deal not to cry around me).
I asked him why and he said that he had been feeling this way for months that he just wanted to be alone. That this choice had nothing to do with me, that I was 23 and I shouldn’t be in a relationship where I’m in the house all day hovering over him bc he’s too depressed or likes being isolated that he doesn’t want to go out. And that he was draining me.
I side eyed that bc right before he left I asked him 3 different occasions. Do you want to be single? “Hell no, I’m in this!” Are you ready to be settled down? “Yes! I’m with you aren’t I?” We rarely fought unless it was about him being distant, and only that. I catered to him, I cooked, cleaned, was freaky, massaged him cus he’s always been in pain, made him his favorite tea all hours of the night, debated him, listened to his dreams, and I even cheered him on and I still do. I think he deserves the world bc he’s amazing. We have 1000% trust, and he made effort to make sure I was good and make things happen. He paid my bills, he made sure I always ate, he made sure my mom was always good, Hates Christmas but went out and bought a huge tree and help decorated our apartment together and got me literally everything I asked for.
So I don’t know where it went wrong. Things changed once he got to NY with his parents. He was texting me everyday telling me he loved me and was making plans right up to 3 days before he broke it off.
-When I asked him why, he said “I felt like you would say no, if I broke up with you in your face”
-When I asked him if it was something he wasn’t telling me about his parents, he didn’t answer.
- when I asked him if he cheated or met someone he said “no”
-when I asked him if this was forever or for now he said “I don’t know but it’s best you move on and do better”
-he said that I was still his best friend and that I could call him whenever and that he will always be there for me and to keep in contact
But I’m so hurt and confused and his mom told me “if it’s God or the universes will, then this is only temporary and you will reunite” And she posted on fb that it’s only “until life brings us together again” and he hearted it.
I can’t get in his head and I feel like I’m missing something. He has told me he loved me from the first day we met, and he has broke it off like this before a few months into us dating, but after a week he came back. I’m so lost, someone give me clarity please and what do I do to get him back?
Even if clarity was given there's nothing that you can do about it. You only have control over yourself and how you react to the situation. Besides, what he's doing currently isn't your business. You two aren't together. But... As a guy who was raised along side Pisces Brothers, there's a 98% chance that he didn't want to cheat on you so he broke up with you to get it out of his system and then will return afterwards. Pisces men do their best not to cheat, but if they can't control themselves they disappear for a few and pop back up. It is what it is. Not to be cold but after the first time he did this for a week, your intuition should have guessed this.
Maybe. But the week he disappeared on me, he was having surgery done. He had ripped the tendon in his ankle and the muscle in his shoulder. So he said he’d rather go through that alone. He broke it off 2 days before his surgery, and then we got back together after a week when I checked up on him.
But he literally called me crying a day ago telling me he didn’t want to be a burden and that he needed this battle. And that we’re still best friends and he gave me a list of books he’s reading about faith and self love, I get it now. I just feel empty without himclick to expand
The foundation of any relationship is not only choosing the person but also being chosen. He broke up with you. So if you want him back, you're going to have to be uncomfortable for a little while. Stop taking his calls. Stop checking his posts. Stop responding to his texts. He broke up with you. You're the person being undervalued. Cut off all communication with him and wait. This will cause a chain reaction that will make him run to you.
Posted by LadyTaurean585Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by LadyTaurean585Posted by besarlalluvia
one thing that annoys me about taurus is the guilt-tripping if i say no and set my boundaries.
nothing u do for him is gonna fix depression. that's not how it works. he's doing u a favour and maybe himself
How is me being confused guilt tripping? How is my heart being broken guilt tripping? I know he has severe depression but my thing is, I was good enough to be there when nobody was, so how am I not good enough to be here when the people who hurt you come back?
I’m not saying, forget his wishes, I told him the opposite. But me and him are close. We spent every single day together for 2 years and we had no problems. We didn’t fight over stupid stuff. So I know he’s trying to heal. But he was my protector, my best friend, my lover, we could sit in silence and be just fine. He called me his freaking soulmate a week ago, and now He’s going through something and he won’t tell me but instead pushes me away last second. It’s selfish bc y’all are not the only ones who go through things
i'm not gonna make you feel like you're too much cos u sound like you love hard
but what i'm gonna say is, if nobody else was there it's probably for a reason
when it comes to pisces u need to leave us to help ourselves
pisces need tough love
I think I needed to hear this. I feel like a part of me is missing. But I know he was planning on helping himself so I’m happy for him. I just want some sort of sign that he will be back. Ya know?click to expand
i won't lie i'm terrible at relationships... i think?
i would say you sound like you have to help yourself out a bit as well, as you sound like you live through him. it doesn't sound healthy.
BUT at the same time, i have done 180 and iced out relationships - which may not be healthy either
i'm easing my way back into warmth by mastering friendships and self-identity --- boundaries is a big thing for pisces
idk if as a taurus this is exactly relevant to you... i like to think despite zodiac signs humans have traits in common lol
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