Thanks forum but also i wish it never happened.

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FrostBlaze
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Idk why i am here really, just gonna put a small story before i disseappear again, i don't even remember my old account. Maybe some folk will like reading this or not.

I am a PIsces and i met another lovely pisces girl thanks to this forum, we clicked and we started a relationship that we knew would be bad for us. In a couple of days we would of hit 5 years toghether.

I am still madly in love with her while i am unsure of her feelings (my mind is just being nasty right now) but i somewhat believe her when she said she still loves me as well.

We had to break up because of religion and none of us wanting to budge on our beliefs, so there was no hard feelings or a bad break.

She still wanted to be friends but i just went cold turkey today and deleted her from everywhere, every memory, every gift, gone, nadda. Only way i can move on as a pisces or i would go insane seeing traces of her everyday.

I love this pisces girl and i got this forum to thank for letting me meet such a lovely woman.

I just wish i never did.

Toodles !!!

PS: So sad to hear P.Angel died, i liked her style .
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FrostBlaze
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6 Years

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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll

Tell us the story..........

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Not sure if serious or troll.

As for the other guy mentioning dating dxp'ers, i don't deal in self burns.

I or my ex were never true dxp'ers to be fair, not that it matters. I sometimes stalked the forums for years without ever making an account, made an account one day and posted a little to banter with PAngel.

EX was new and had 3 posts in a topic she made when i first contacted her, we deffo were newb dxp'ers.

I remember some of you guys like Hydorah, im not gonna name my old account(mostly cuz i cant remember what alias i had) i was here maybe idk 7-8 years ago for the first time.
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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll

Tell us the story..........

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Not sure if serious or troll.

As for the other guy mentioning dating dxp'ers, i don't deal in self burns.

I or my ex were never true dxp'ers to be fair, not that it matters. I sometimes stalked the forums for years without ever making an account, made an account one day and posted a little to banter with PAngel.

EX was new and had 3 posts in a topic she made when i first contacted her, we deffo were newb dxp'ers.

I remember some of you guys like Hydorah, im not gonna name my old account(mostly cuz i cant remember what alias i had) i was here maybe idk 7-8 years ago for the first time.
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are you the guy with the corn/maize account names?

No, he was not new...

If you give more details I might remember you because I remember way too many DXP details
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That's very sad. If you start off a relationship with negativity that's what you get. You manifest whatever you desire be sure of that, your thoughts be it negative or positive have energy that play out accordingly. You started it believing it would be bad for both of you, (your words) so that's what happened. What does religion have to do with any of that, religion should not be strict, it should be a certain mindset, "be good and do good" . You all are getting belief system all wrong and how it works actually. I'd suggest you start reading stoic philosophers. Start off with Marcus Aurelius and Seneca.
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FrostBlaze
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I will try to adress most of the questions or statements.

Hydorah: 1-I wasnt ever very active, i know you, you don't know me xD or so i think. Like i said i mostly stalked the forums and barely made an account quite late. Deffo no corn.

2- I've known a few pisces pisces that worked like well into their 60's, there's that one golden thing i like to say for. for every case there is an exception. (or extremity)

I'd say we were completely fine, i think she would the same, the problems that broke us up were outside obstacles.

CoffeeAndCReam:

- she basicly made this 1 thread asking people on opinions about a certain topic(no details). Most folks were not very amused by it or saw eye to eye with her. I did, kinda the only one.

All i did was send her a PM after that with 'i got my eyes on you, weird one' . Few more PM exchanges and within 1 day we added ourselves on fb, then we video chatted and 3rd day in we were planing dates. Officially hooked up a few weeks after.

PisceanLoves:

-Didn't start it with negativity, in fact she hit me with the religion bit 1 year into the relationship. at this point i wasn't going to back out since i was in love, had she told me from the start i would of likely said no to the relationship as a whole. Basicly i had to join to marry + other requirements.

Then we just kept going with both of us pushing our agenda, guess that part was doomed to fail. I wanted her to quit for me, she kept trying to convince me to join.

I've always judged her religion and we fought over it a couple of times, seemed more like a cult if anything, considering their rules or what i understood of it. Was christian but one of many branches that made it its own thing.

When she wasn't at work or with me she was at church, prayers, vows, events, organizing and making, she was some sort of 'officer' at her church. Sometimes i feel like she spent more time there than at work and she wanted me to do the same, wich was a big nono.

I mean when one has this routine for all her life, she deffo won't let it go. Unlike me that had her somewhat higher on my priority list, she always made it clear i was 3rd, after church and familly. ๐Ÿ˜ฑ



Also i'm european, gotta go to bed, its late. See yaz next time, might stick arround a bit until i go away again.
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Posted by FrostBlaze

Idk why i am here really, just gonna put a small story before i disseappear again, i don't even remember my old account. Maybe some folk will like reading this or not.

I am a PIsces and i met another lovely pisces girl thanks to this forum, we clicked and we started a relationship that we knew would be bad for us. In a couple of days we would of hit 5 years toghether.

I am still madly in love with her while i am unsure of her feelings (my mind is just being nasty right now) but i somewhat believe her when she said she still loves me as well.

We had to break up because of religion and none of us wanting to budge on our beliefs, so there was no hard feelings or a bad break.

She still wanted to be friends but i just went cold turkey today and deleted her from everywhere, every memory, every gift, gone, nadda. Only way i can move on as a pisces or i would go insane seeing traces of her everyday.

I love this pisces girl and i got this forum to thank for letting me meet such a lovely woman.

I just wish i never did.

Toodles !!!

PS: So sad to hear P.Angel died, i liked her style .



Do you think real love grows on trees?

Enjoy it and appreciate meeting someone who could bring that out in you. Those feelings came from you.

Ya it sucks that things didn't work out but you can't say it was a waste of time right?

It will take time but you will accept and get past what happened one day. You will be fine๐Ÿ˜
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colors
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Posted by FrostBlaze

I will try to adress most of the questions or statements.

CoffeeAndCReam:

- she basicly made this 1 thread asking people on opinions about a certain topic(no details). Most folks were not very amused by it or saw eye to eye with her. I did, kinda the only one.

All i did was send her a PM after that with 'i got my eyes on you, weird one' . Few more PM exchanges and within 1 day we added ourselves on fb, then we video chatted and 3rd day in we were planing dates. Officially hooked up a few weeks after.

This sounds so anti dxp ๐Ÿ˜„
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stillstillwater
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Posted by FrostBlaze

I will try to adress most of the questions or statements.

Hydorah: 1-I wasnt ever very active, i know you, you don't know me xD or so i think. Like i said i mostly stalked the forums and barely made an account quite late. Deffo no corn.

2- I've known a few pisces pisces that worked like well into their 60's, there's that one golden thing i like to say for. for every case there is an exception. (or extremity)

I'd say we were completely fine, i think she would the same, the problems that broke us up were outside obstacles.

CoffeeAndCReam:

- she basicly made this 1 thread asking people on opinions about a certain topic(no details). Most folks were not very amused by it or saw eye to eye with her. I did, kinda the only one.

All i did was send her a PM after that with 'i got my eyes on you, weird one' . Few more PM exchanges and within 1 day we added ourselves on fb, then we video chatted and 3rd day in we were planing dates. Officially hooked up a few weeks after.

PisceanLoves:

-Didn't start it with negativity, in fact she hit me with the religion bit 1 year into the relationship. at this point i wasn't going to back out since i was in love, had she told me from the start i would of likely said no to the relationship as a whole. Basicly i had to join to marry + other requirements.

Then we just kept going with both of us pushing our agenda, guess that part was doomed to fail. I wanted her to quit for me, she kept trying to convince me to join.

I've always judged her religion and we fought over it a couple of times, seemed more like a cult if anything, considering their rules or what i understood of it. Was christian but one of many branches that made it its own thing.

When she wasn't at work or with me she was at church, prayers, vows, events, organizing and making, she was some sort of 'officer' at her church. Sometimes i feel like she spent more time there than at work and she wanted me to do the same, wich was a big nono.

I mean when one has this routine for all her life, she deffo won't let it go. Unlike me that had her somewhat higher on my priority list, she always made it clear i was 3rd, after church and familly. ๐Ÿ˜ฑ



Also i'm european, gotta go to bed, its late. See yaz next time, might stick arround a bit until i go away again.


Awwwthis is sweet and sorry to hear about religion getting in the way of being madly in love with someone. Harsh realities of life.... I'd say it's workable but that girl is way in deep and to be part of her life you'd have to join her church and whatnot.

I can't blame you for not doing it... It's a lot to ask of someone honestly.

Sigh... Love can get so complex. I hate it ๐Ÿ’”
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I like how trusting you guys were with each other. That's a Pisces thing for sure. Also though times are different now... I can't see your story playing out on Dxp now.

Few people mentioned that allready, wonder why.

To many dick pics in PM's? sexual harassment? xD
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Nope. Too many immature trolls.
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Posted by stillstillwater

I like how trusting you guys were with each other. That's a Pisces thing for sure. Also though times are different now... I can't see your story playing out on Dxp now.

Few people mentioned that allready, wonder why.

To many dick pics in PM's? sexual harassment? xD
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It's perfectly possible, just don't get too involved in the forums because your forum persona will inevitably clash with your romance persona.

I know a lot of people are hooking up silently in the background, while the dxp celebrities talk endlessly about their old glory and their chatroom meetings
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einspisces
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Posted by hydorah
Posted by FrostBlaze
Posted by stillstillwater

I like how trusting you guys were with each other. That's a Pisces thing for sure. Also though times are different now... I can't see your story playing out on Dxp now.

Few people mentioned that allready, wonder why.

To many dick pics in PM's? sexual harassment? xD

It's perfectly possible, just don't get too involved in the forums because your forum persona will inevitably clash with your romance persona.

I know a lot of people are hooking up silently in the background, while the dxp celebrities talk endlessly about their old glory and their chatroom meetings

Yep. Very true. Itโ€™s still very possible...dxp where desire meets opportunity.

Silent hookup is the best.
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Im going to go to back to work, bye ๐Ÿ™‚