Elissar18
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Do you consider yourself unlovable?
Posted by Soothsayer
Both Moon and Venus, because men want to love me and give me their all, but I’m pretty locked up.
What is your moon and venus?
Posted by rejuvenatedheart
Sun: Leo
Moon: Cancer
Venus: Virgo
All three of those descriptions are super accurate for me. I'm difficult to love.
Maybe everyone is in their own way. It's scary because the concept makes no sense.
🤔 what a bitch!
Posted by Ellygant
Scorpio Sun/Venus, Cancer Moon
Those explanations were super accurate a year ago. Now not really. The Scorpio description maybe a little bit in one way. I feel like no one can really love me unconditionally till they know all about me. Until then, I feel like they just love the idea of me.
Overall though, I wouldn’t consider myself unlovable. Complicated yeah. But also I’m just picky and very particular about what kind of long term partner I want.
I think for me, falling in Love was actually way easier when I was really insecure. I could just lead with my feelings and then worry about the rest later. Now that I feel more secure, it’s way easier to entertain people and not really become attached. It’s harder for me to fall in love when I don’t really need for anything. I can only fall in love with an equal who deeply wants the same things as me and those kind of matches are rare.
I relate to that too. I think growing up and experience makes people less trusting and more cynical. It became harder to find someone because logic replaces feelings in a lot of ways.
Ah well sun and Moon is true, as far as I know anyway. The Venus is what is trying to happen and I'm fighting it as best as possible lol
But yeah it's hard to imagine someone loving me but also loving me as much as I would love them. Part of it is because I know I'm not an easy person to be with and I'm intense. It's not a confidence thing tho, like I know I'm worth it, just can't picture it.😕
But yeah it's hard to imagine someone loving me but also loving me as much as I would love them. Part of it is because I know I'm not an easy person to be with and I'm intense. It's not a confidence thing tho, like I know I'm worth it, just can't picture it.😕
Posted by FireStarter
Ah well sun and Moon is true, as far as I know anyway. The Venus is what is trying to happen and I'm fighting it as best as possible lol
But yeah it's hard to imagine someone loving me but also loving me as much as I would love them. Part of it is because I know I'm not an easy person to be with and I'm intense. It's not a confidence thing tho, like I know I'm worth it, just can't picture it.😕
I need to make a happier topic lol
This is honestly something I continue to battle with even now, even with the love of someone I trust entirely.
Sometimes I think I’m not worthy of being loved entirely by someone. I’m difficult, demanding and too prideful. I don’t like being touched too much because it makes me feel so many emotions and clingyness. This is something I’m afraid to trust in anyone—the idea of putting your hopes into someone and then they fail to meet your mark which is inevitable as nothing’s perfect.
I sometimes wonder if I’m worth the hassle to love me. I know I’m not easy to get to know or get close to so I try to remind myself to show my love in tangible ways that are practical and thoughtful. I desire that closeness and bond but I find it very hard to be entirely open. I always feel like I have to protect a piece of myself so I can survive a breakup internally if it happens, this may be a direct product of the fact that my parents have been divorced quite a few times.
*goes into emo Pisces moon cave and cries *
Sometimes I think I’m not worthy of being loved entirely by someone. I’m difficult, demanding and too prideful. I don’t like being touched too much because it makes me feel so many emotions and clingyness. This is something I’m afraid to trust in anyone—the idea of putting your hopes into someone and then they fail to meet your mark which is inevitable as nothing’s perfect.
I sometimes wonder if I’m worth the hassle to love me. I know I’m not easy to get to know or get close to so I try to remind myself to show my love in tangible ways that are practical and thoughtful. I desire that closeness and bond but I find it very hard to be entirely open. I always feel like I have to protect a piece of myself so I can survive a breakup internally if it happens, this may be a direct product of the fact that my parents have been divorced quite a few times.
*goes into emo Pisces moon cave and cries *
Posted by Elissar18Posted by FireStarter
Ah well sun and Moon is true, as far as I know anyway. The Venus is what is trying to happen and I'm fighting it as best as possible lol
But yeah it's hard to imagine someone loving me but also loving me as much as I would love them. Part of it is because I know I'm not an easy person to be with and I'm intense. It's not a confidence thing tho, like I know I'm worth it, just can't picture it.😕
I need to make a happier topic lolclick to expand
Oh it's cool, nothing I haven't thought about many times before. Besides all feels need attention, even the sad ones lol
Posted by Romz-
This is honestly something I continue to battle with even now, even with the love of someone I trust entirely.
Sometimes I think I’m not worthy of being loved entirely by someone. I’m difficult, demanding and too prideful. I don’t like being touched too much because it makes me feel so many emotions and clingyness. This is something I’m afraid to trust in anyone—the idea of putting your hopes into someone and then they fail to meet your mark which is inevitable as nothing’s perfect.
I sometimes wonder if I’m worth the hassle to love me. I know I’m not easy to get to know or get close to so I try to remind myself to show my love in tangible ways that are practical and thoughtful. I desire that closeness and bond but I find it very hard to be entirely open. I always feel like I have to protect a piece of myself so I can survive a breakup internally if it happens, this may be a direct product of the fact that my parents have been divorced quite a few times.
*goes into emo Pisces moon cave and cries *
*Brings a lanturn and snacks*
Mind if join you? It's ok friend we can be emotionally complicated together.
Posted by FireStarterPosted by Romz-
This is honestly something I continue to battle with even now, even with the love of someone I trust entirely.
Sometimes I think I’m not worthy of being loved entirely by someone. I’m difficult, demanding and too prideful. I don’t like being touched too much because it makes me feel so many emotions and clingyness. This is something I’m afraid to trust in anyone—the idea of putting your hopes into someone and then they fail to meet your mark which is inevitable as nothing’s perfect.
I sometimes wonder if I’m worth the hassle to love me. I know I’m not easy to get to know or get close to so I try to remind myself to show my love in tangible ways that are practical and thoughtful. I desire that closeness and bond but I find it very hard to be entirely open. I always feel like I have to protect a piece of myself so I can survive a breakup internally if it happens, this may be a direct product of the fact that my parents have been divorced quite a few times.
*goes into emo Pisces moon cave and cries *
*Brings a lanturn and snacks*
Mind if join you? It's ok friend we can be emotionally complicated together.click to expand
There’s always room 💕
Damn...yep accurate for virgo and Leo parts 😕
Usually I'm a scorpio, but in this with these dates I'm a sag. And the sag one fitts better for me. It says the scorpio feels like nobody will love them, once they get to see their dark sides. I don't feel like that. I feel like everyone has dark sides to them, so ofcours it will be accepted.
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by Elissar18Posted by rejuvenatedheart
Sun: Leo
Moon: Cancer
Venus: Virgo
All three of those descriptions are super accurate for me. I'm difficult to love.
Maybe everyone is in their own way. It's scary because the concept makes no sense.
I dunno. I'm very suffocating/emotionally intense in romantic relationships and I've tried over the years to relax myself and not be so overbearing but nothing has worked to fix that yet. I've started to wonder if the intensity of my feelings is ever actually a) healthy and I just haven't found a man who can take the intensity and reciprocate it, or b) unhealthy and I need to figure out how to manage that.
I think upbringing and mentality contribute to how a person interacts with their romantic partners (and platonic, but for this thread I'm talking specifically about s/o's). I didn't have a pleasant upbringing; my family didn't adequately show me that they loved me, and the environment they provided for me to grow up in was much less than ideal, with family conflicts going on and no one knowing how to handle themselves properly. My parents fought very frequently and my mother at the time didn't know how to handle my father. It's taken her many years to grow out of her fear of him and she still doesn't exactly know how to assert herself when he stirs up shit with other people in my family but she's much better now than she was when my siblings and I were little. I've tried over the past few years to raise self-awareness and catch myself getting into bad habits, like being self-deprecating and whatnot, but I still haven't figured out how to build self-confidence in a legitimate way, because I think we all know that you can try faking it until you make only for so long until you realize that in this kind of situation, that just backfires on you and you end up feeling worse than you did when you started the whole pretense. It's a long-term learning process that I don't know if I will ever finish. I didn't realize until a friend of mine brought it up to me a few months ago that my father's treatment of me is the source of my self-deprecating personality and my lack of confidence. I'm 21, so I know it's not like I'm realizing this so late in my life and I have no chance of successfully growing out of that realization and improving myself, but it's going to take a lot of hard, painful work to move forward from that.click to expand
Your intensity will fade as you mature and your confidence will change too. It's just being young. Life has lots of lessons still.
Posted by Arielle83
Nope I don’t feel they relate. I know I’m loveable because I give away love and I give because I have too much. So i attract needy people, which is fine, but I can’t save them all.
I also don’t care how ppl see me. I’ll be an evil bitch in someone’s gossip story, or I can be mother Teresa.
Everyone sees things how they are anyways.
I think I'm lovable as a person. Just got this relationship flaw somewhere. The in love bit is broken.. i don't know how to love like that. Maybe it's a trust thing too. Are you unafraid of being hurt?
The Virgo one...
Whew
That shït hurted
Whew
That shït hurted
Being sag dominant. The Sag one also hurted bc I am a logical person 😔 it be like this
Cancer sun, leo moon, Virgo venus.
Ya they are true, I’ve always been really hard on myself. Even when I work.. I get into a mindset that everything I need to do must be perfect the first time and if it isn’t I’m a failure. I hate when I think like that lol.
Ya they are true, I’ve always been really hard on myself. Even when I work.. I get into a mindset that everything I need to do must be perfect the first time and if it isn’t I’m a failure. I hate when I think like that lol.
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by haunt
Cancer sun, leo moon, Virgo venus.
Ya they are true, I’ve always been really hard on myself. Even when I work.. I get into a mindset that everything I need to do must be perfect the first time and if it isn’t I’m a failure. I hate when I think like that lol.
Our Sun and Moon placements are flipped. 🤔click to expand
🧐🧐🧐
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by haunt
Cancer sun, leo moon, Virgo venus.
Ya they are true, I’ve always been really hard on myself. Even when I work.. I get into a mindset that everything I need to do must be perfect the first time and if it isn’t I’m a failure. I hate when I think like that lol.
Our Sun and Moon placements are flipped. 🤔
🧐🧐🧐
And I have the same way of thinking. 🤔🤔🤔click to expand
I FEEL YOUR PAIN. 😩 I hate it because I know that it isn’t true and my way of thinking is super unrealistic, no one is perfect! But it’s so hard to convince myself that.
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by haunt
Cancer sun, leo moon, Virgo venus.
Ya they are true, I’ve always been really hard on myself. Even when I work.. I get into a mindset that everything I need to do must be perfect the first time and if it isn’t I’m a failure. I hate when I think like that lol.
Our Sun and Moon placements are flipped. 🤔
🧐🧐🧐
And I have the same way of thinking. 🤔🤔🤔
I FEEL YOUR PAIN. 😩 I hate it because I know that it isn’t true and my way of thinking is super unrealistic, no one is perfect! But it’s so hard to convince myself that.
This is literally how I think too lol 😐 It sucks and I've been trying so hard to work on my self confidence but I feel like I haven't gotten anywhere good in terms of growing out of insecurities like that.click to expand
The only thing that does help me I’ve found is reassurance. In the past whenever I’ve gotten caught up in a nervous fret, I’d tell someone and they’d reassure me that everything was fine. It sounds like it won’t work upon reading it but I grew up in a house that lacked that, it was strict and I was /never/ good enough. When you’re feeling this lil lady you need to speak up and tell someone what you’re feeling, it’ll all shut off when someone really genuine (friend/bf whatevs) snaps you out of it by being there for you and reassuring that your effort is noticed and it’ll be okay.
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by haunt
Cancer sun, leo moon, Virgo venus.
Ya they are true, I’ve always been really hard on myself. Even when I work.. I get into a mindset that everything I need to do must be perfect the first time and if it isn’t I’m a failure. I hate when I think like that lol.
Our Sun and Moon placements are flipped. 🤔
🧐🧐🧐
And I have the same way of thinking. 🤔🤔🤔
I FEEL YOUR PAIN. 😩 I hate it because I know that it isn’t true and my way of thinking is super unrealistic, no one is perfect! But it’s so hard to convince myself that.
This is literally how I think too lol 😐 It sucks and I've been trying so hard to work on my self confidence but I feel like I haven't gotten anywhere good in terms of growing out of insecurities like that.
The only thing that does help me I’ve found is reassurance. In the past whenever I’ve gotten caught up in a nervous fret, I’d tell someone and they’d reassure me that everything was fine. It sounds like it won’t work upon reading it but I grew up in a house that lacked that, it was strict and I was /never/ good enough. When you’re feeling this lil lady you need to speak up and tell someone what you’re feeling, it’ll all shut off when someone really genuine (friend/bf whatevs) snaps you out of it by being there for you and reassuring that your effort is noticed and it’ll be okay.
See, I do the same shit and tell my friends/loved ones about my worries/fears and they can reassure me all they want but that's not going to improve my inner peace because it's just me relying on others for security and even if/when they offer that, it doesn't make much of an impact on how insecure I feel. This is bringing up so much shit from the past that I'm getting upset talking about this lmaoclick to expand
I can see it right there. “Relying on others for security” do you feel like a burden? There’s nothing wrong with needing security, it seems like the aspect of relying on someone is a negative thing for you, which is probably why it doesn’t bring you peace. I’ll admit yes I still feel insecure sometimes but the reassurance I get gives me enough confidence to complete tasks that are important. Where’s the root of this insecurity? Childhood?
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by haunt
Cancer sun, leo moon, Virgo venus.
Ya they are true, I’ve always been really hard on myself. Even when I work.. I get into a mindset that everything I need to do must be perfect the first time and if it isn’t I’m a failure. I hate when I think like that lol.
Our Sun and Moon placements are flipped. 🤔
🧐🧐🧐
And I have the same way of thinking. 🤔🤔🤔
I FEEL YOUR PAIN. 😩 I hate it because I know that it isn’t true and my way of thinking is super unrealistic, no one is perfect! But it’s so hard to convince myself that.
This is literally how I think too lol 😐 It sucks and I've been trying so hard to work on my self confidence but I feel like I haven't gotten anywhere good in terms of growing out of insecurities like that.
The only thing that does help me I’ve found is reassurance. In the past whenever I’ve gotten caught up in a nervous fret, I’d tell someone and they’d reassure me that everything was fine. It sounds like it won’t work upon reading it but I grew up in a house that lacked that, it was strict and I was /never/ good enough. When you’re feeling this lil lady you need to speak up and tell someone what you’re feeling, it’ll all shut off when someone really genuine (friend/bf whatevs) snaps you out of it by being there for you and reassuring that your effort is noticed and it’ll be okay.
See, I do the same shit and tell my friends/loved ones about my worries/fears and they can reassure me all they want but that's not going to improve my inner peace because it's just me relying on others for security and even if/when they offer that, it doesn't make much of an impact on how insecure I feel. This is bringing up so much shit from the past that I'm getting upset talking about this lmao
I can see it right there. “Relying on others for security” do you feel like a burden? There’s nothing wrong with needing security, it seems like the aspect of relying on someone is a negative thing for you, which is probably why it doesn’t bring you peace. I’ll admit yes I still feel insecure sometimes but the reassurance I get gives me enough confidence to complete tasks that are important. Where’s the root of this insecurity? Childhood?
Yes, I feel like I'm not a strong person if I have the need to rely on others for security. I do feel like a burden a lot. And yes, I had a difficult childhood and often felt that I was not loved by my family.click to expand
It feels like I’m talking to a younger version of myself right now, it’s alittle jarring! I know what you mean though, you feel weak. I’ve felt this many times, I’ve refused to speak about my issues or even cry in front of people because I viewed it as a weakness. But you shouldnt think that.. we’re human.. social creatures and yes we do sometimes need a shoulder to lean on to find strength in ourselves and there’s nothing wrong with that. You aren’t a burden, your life is precious just like your feelings are.
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by hauntPosted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by haunt
Cancer sun, leo moon, Virgo venus.
Ya they are true, I’ve always been really hard on myself. Even when I work.. I get into a mindset that everything I need to do must be perfect the first time and if it isn’t I’m a failure. I hate when I think like that lol.
Our Sun and Moon placements are flipped. 🤔
🧐🧐🧐
And I have the same way of thinking. 🤔🤔🤔
I FEEL YOUR PAIN. 😩 I hate it because I know that it isn’t true and my way of thinking is super unrealistic, no one is perfect! But it’s so hard to convince myself that.
This is literally how I think too lol 😐 It sucks and I've been trying so hard to work on my self confidence but I feel like I haven't gotten anywhere good in terms of growing out of insecurities like that.
The only thing that does help me I’ve found is reassurance. In the past whenever I’ve gotten caught up in a nervous fret, I’d tell someone and they’d reassure me that everything was fine. It sounds like it won’t work upon reading it but I grew up in a house that lacked that, it was strict and I was /never/ good enough. When you’re feeling this lil lady you need to speak up and tell someone what you’re feeling, it’ll all shut off when someone really genuine (friend/bf whatevs) snaps you out of it by being there for you and reassuring that your effort is noticed and it’ll be okay.
See, I do the same shit and tell my friends/loved ones about my worries/fears and they can reassure me all they want but that's not going to improve my inner peace because it's just me relying on others for security and even if/when they offer that, it doesn't make much of an impact on how insecure I feel. This is bringing up so much shit from the past that I'm getting upset talking about this lmao
I can see it right there. “Relying on others for security” do you feel like a burden? There’s nothing wrong with needing security, it seems like the aspect of relying on someone is a negative thing for you, which is probably why it doesn’t bring you peace. I’ll admit yes I still feel insecure sometimes but the reassurance I get gives me enough confidence to complete tasks that are important. Where’s the root of this insecurity? Childhood?
Yes, I feel like I'm not a strong person if I have the need to rely on others for security. I do feel like a burden a lot. And yes, I had a difficult childhood and often felt that I was not loved by my family.
It feels like I’m talking to a younger version of myself right now, it’s alittle jarring! I know what you mean though, you feel weak. I’ve felt this many times, I’ve refused to speak about my issues or even cry in front of people because I viewed it as a weakness. But you shouldnt think that.. we’re human.. social creatures and yes we do sometimes need a shoulder to lean on to find strength in ourselves and there’s nothing wrong with that. You aren’t a burden, your life is precious just like your feelings are.
I feel okay on my own, but I wish I felt stronger than I do, and I wish I could build up my self-esteem on my own, but I haven't figured out how to do that. I've given up on getting into any serious relationships because I've realized that once I get into them, I dump all of my feelings of insecurity onto them and end up depending on them to help me feel confident which isn't healthy. People should be good to go on their own before they enter romantic relationships otherwise it's a parent-child vibe which isn't what a relationship is supposed to be like. Both partners should be able to do their own thing and when hanging out, have a good time together and not constantly cling onto each other for the sake of emotional security. I'm not saying it's never right to depend on your partner when you're feeling unsure of yourself, but those moments shouldn't dominate the flow of the relationship. Fix your shit on your own, and if you've tried everything but haven't worked it out on your own, then ask your partner for help/reassurance/whatever. I don't like admitting that this seems like a healthier way of going about romantic relationships but it is, IMO. Lol. I almost want you to disagree with me now because I really hate thinking that this is right.click to expand
I agree a relationship shouldn’t be built on another’s misery and I’ve had relationships where I acted like this. I’d shut down completely.. try and figure my own shit out and if I didn’t I’d bury it. Repress it. I didn’t talk about my issues or ask for help and all it did.. was make a hemorrhaging volcano. I hurt a lot of people trying to deal with shit on my own. You think you can deal with it, you’ve dealt with a lot of pain so.. what’s wrong with some more? Nope! It’ll start making an appearance when you interact with people. Atleast it did for me. I’m not saying you need to spill your guts all the time and get people to reassure every step you take but doing it once in awhile.. can be helpful if you let go of that mindset you have of “I’m just a burden, I’m weak if I say this” etc. Baby steps, even if you look in the mirror and reassure yourself.. perhaps that will eventually help.
These are all very general and several of them are inevitable outcomes from experiencing the others.
No, I do not believe that. In fact, I'm quite loveable ♥️
I read the Sag caption under the op's post and can disagree there too. My past isn't my future. In fact, I'm single because I choose to be. It's NOT a priority. I have children and for the past 6 yrs I decided to STRICTLY focus on them 😍 #myheart I'm looking to begin dating again BUT my interests are more DEFINED. Actually, better. Looking forward to meeting someone with FIRE.
I read the Sag caption under the op's post and can disagree there too. My past isn't my future. In fact, I'm single because I choose to be. It's NOT a priority. I have children and for the past 6 yrs I decided to STRICTLY focus on them 😍 #myheart I'm looking to begin dating again BUT my interests are more DEFINED. Actually, better. Looking forward to meeting someone with FIRE.
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You are a self-proclaimed bitch. You like to act tough, but your insides are soft. You are secretly vulnerable, you let the outside world impact you, but you don’t let anyone know that. You would rather put on mask, acting like you never want to get married and settle down, than risk putting your heart on the line and getting hurt again. You consider yourself unlovable because the idea of falling in love is too much for you to take.
Taurus: April 20th – May 20th
Your heart is snagged on an old relationship. Since someone from your past failed to return your love, you have jumped to the conclusion you are unlovable as a whole. You assume if someone you put so much effort into, someone who seemed to fit you so well, does not want to be with you then no one else will either. You are having trouble accepting that one failed relationship does not mean you are destined to be alone eternally.
Gemini: May 21st – June 20th
You are so insecure that even when people tell you how much they care about you, you think they are lying. You push people away because you refuse to believe they are there for the right reasons. You have made up a story in your mind about the way people view you and are sticking to it. You are lying to yourself to protect yourself. You think you are saving yourself, but you are sabotaging yourself.
Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd
You place too much emphasis on what other people think of you. You see yourself through the eyes of whoever you are infatuated with at the time. If they don’t seem interested in you, then you collapse into a puddle of self-pity. You feel like you’re worthless. You feel like you’re never going to be loved back. You let their view of you become your own view of you.
Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd
You have always been your own worst critic. While other people only see the surface, you see the flaws buried deep beneath your skin. You feel like no one is going to love you, because you can’t even say you love yourself. You have struggled with your self-worth for a lifetime and it has slowly lowered your confidence. It has made you wonder whether you are going to be alone forever.
Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd
Your flaws block your vision, making it impossible for you to see your strengths. You always talk about what a horrible girlfriend you would make because you’re selfish and outspoken and unforgiving. You laugh it off like it’s a joke but you’re secretly scared you’re telling the truth. You’re letting your doubts convince you that no one out there would put up with you for long.
Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd
You feel unlovable because you are completely alone. You have lost friends. You have cut contact with family members. You have no dating prospects in sight. You are convinced the reason you are suddenly isolated is because you have done something wrong. Because you are unworthy of a friend, let alone a lover. You are letting your temporary loneliness crack your resolve.
Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st
You have baggage you are unable to unload. You feel like no one is going to stick around once they get to know the real you, the dark you, the struggling you. You have trouble believing that anyone would love you at your worst. Whenever someone expresses feelings for you, you assume it’s only because they don’t know the real you yet. You assume it’s only a matter of time before they come to their senses and walk away.
Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st
You are a literal person. Someone who thinks with logic. Since you have never been loved before, you have come to the conclusion it is never going to happen. Otherwise, it would have already. You feel like the past is an indication of your future. You assume history is bound to repeat itself. You cannot imagine being loved, because you have never seen it firsthand.
Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th
You have allowed your heart to grow cold. Years of disappointment have turned you into a skeptic. In your mind, love means pain. Love means confusion. Love means more stress. You call yourself unlovable because you do not want to be loved. You would rather be left alone. You would rather tell yourself it’s better this way.
Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th
Your kindness has been taken advantage of countless times. You feel like you’re always going to be the person who gets half of what she wants. You feel like love is always temporary. Like no one will stick around forever. Your fear of abandonment is messing with your common sense. It is convincing you that you are good enough for a night, but not good enough for forever, which is far from the reality.
Pisces: February 19th – March 20th
Everyone wants to be your texting buddy — but they never want to be more than that. You are an almost. You are a backup plan. You are just a friend. Whenever you are halfway to a relationship, you are stopped short. You feel like you are never going to be loved fully, because people only seem to want you around as an option, not an only.
https://thoughtcatalog.com/holly-riordan/2018/02/why-you-wrongly-consider-yourself-unlovable-based-on-your-zodiac-sign/